HetLelijkeEendje Archive

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1	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? You partially explained it yourself: Oh but if you take my story as why people are lonely then the lonely guys are just doing the wrong things but they just don't know.. Bc it turned out I did do stuff wrong. I was socially clueless and later I learned that people got bad vibes from me. The only thing that could have changed in that scenario is if someone wouldn't have judged me based on their assumptions. If someone told me "hey your attitude is shit" and I accepted that and asked for help the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 06:52 PM
1	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? How many parents would become concerned that their children are in the care of a molester? How many students would start rumours and make jokes about it? How clean is his reputation even after it's been disproved? None, bc it wasn't out in the open yet, the boss 1st wanted to check everything. Idk bc jokes and rumors are just things teens do and if you nip it in the butt and lay foundations that it's unnaccepteble behaviour it will be less prevalent. And clean what reputation if there is no repu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 06:11 PM
2	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? Sure, except that's not the experience of being a man (or any participant in these discussions, casual or academic), there's huge bias and cultural inertia from the massive feminist influence, we're not given the benefit of the doubt, we're always considered all-powerful, heartless, manipulative, violent bastards, especially if a woman says we are. I have issues with the last bit. Especially the word always bc even if it is often, I have experience that it is not always, even if a woman said so.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 04:15 PM
1	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? I see your point that the world has gone mad. On one hand the internet is good to expose the actual creeps and make sure they can't harm people, but on the other hand people who are unaware or simply not doing anything are being targeted too. But that is what I ment with that it is sensation and entertainment; the videos are in no way a representation of the actual world. And yes there should be clear definitions of what is wrong and what is not. But bc people feel things and assume based on the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 03:25 PM
15	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? Nooooo!!!! For the love of everything. They are not! The word ambush is the keyword here. I'll give an example of how things sound in different ways. Scenario; friends for 2 years, both single: "Hey name, I've been thinking lately and working up some courage to ask something; do you want to go on a date with me saturday? No is fine too, I will not be offended" (Nice, clean, open, and gives an out) Or: "Hey name, I've been thinking and I think we can be perfect together. You and ex-name where not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 04:44 AM
5	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? There is no "correct" way. Everyone is different. Some people like subtle hints, some like blunt right of the get-go honesty and some do shit like this in the video. I personally would say: tell me when you get feelings but don't expect me to have them as well. Like any guy can come up and be like "hey, you come here often?" But depending on the time of day, my mood, my relationship status, my level of hunger/tired/horny, or just the vibe I get, my response can differ. If I'm (not) interested I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 04:35 AM
1	First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expected I understand your point, but I do want to point out how generalizing your comment sounds. It's not that black and white; there are girls that take pride and encourage others in having many partners and there are men who's only goal is to be a good husband and dad. I also got the reason from the redditor above; there is just a difference in the definition of success for each individual person. And I understand that people will act based on their desired outcome. But thanks for the extra input.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 11:10 PM
4	First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expected Okay, then I understand the advice that is given out here. Just for getting sex it clearly works and if that is the goal then all the power to people who use this. I think it goes wrong bc the definition of successful can be different for everyone. To me personally it is having a faithful husband and a family one day, so thats what I aim for when dating, so the technique to "talk me in bed" won't work on me. If you get what I mean. But as I said somewhere else on this subreddit; it takes differe…	/r/seduction	05/08/21 03:12 PM
1	First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expected Well for me there is a difference; a guy that follows "game rules" and fucks around is not someone who I want as a husband. He can be fun and flirtatious, but if he tries it on every girl he meets or behaved that way to my friends as well, I'm not interested. It's bc of my personality, I never slept around, so I wouldn't want to have a long term with someone who does. And so far in my years of dating (15-27) I've only had 3 sexual partners whom I was in a long relationship with (2 to 4 years) I'…	/r/seduction	05/08/21 03:01 PM
2	First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expected "Men who are successful with women" Can you define successful? Like having sex or having an actual faithfull relationship till death do us part, etc? Bc both outcomes require different strategies.. So I am genuinely curious.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 01:45 PM
1	First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expected So what kind of girls are you attractive to now? Actual wife material or just bodies to fuck or girls to pass time with? Genuinely curious. Bc depending on what you want the outcome of the date to be you have to behave differently.. Not all fish are caught with the same rod..	/r/seduction	05/08/21 01:39 PM
6	First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expected And the fisherman will tell you that different waters have different fish. And that different fish require different bait and tools. Can't catch a tuna in he park pond with just a simple home made rod.. Fishermen actually take in consideration where they will find a certain fish and how to catch it.. So depending on wat fish you want, you have to change.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 01:30 PM