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2	Women often like guys who treat them as disposable "pretty much every woman on earth has a story about some toxic ex": While I am one of those women, this isn't accurate. Often if I'm telling another woman that story they'll let me know whether they've ever been in a similar situation. I'd say about 80% have NOT ever been in an abusive relationship and about 20% have. The rough proportions seem about the same for men, about 20% will have a seriously toxic ex story, although they're significantly more likely to frame it as "she was completely cra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 12:12 AM
5	Online dating is where low quality, leftover women (such as very overweight women, single mothers, those with mental issues) go to find prince charming and mr perfect, in an environment where men outnumber women by 3 to 1 I think it's reasonable to not want to date someone who isn't handling their baggage well, whatever that may be, whether it's kids or mental health issues or pretty much anything else. I think it is unreasonable to not want to date someone who doesn't have any baggage in the first place unless you're really young and haven't lived much yet. If they're coming off as mentally unstable on the first date, they probably don't have a good handle on their issues yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 08:16 PM
1	Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you? It is not an immediate deal breaker. Depending on the person, and exactly how that their specific issues manifest and affect the relationship, might be a deal breaker down the road. I have my own issues, and for example, sometimes someone's anxiety might trigger my own and there we are feeding off each other's anxiety instead of the hoped for helping each other because we get it, and it's not good compatibility. But immediate deal breaker? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 06:57 PM
2	No fault divorce should be prohibited when children are involved One big problem with this: try proving emotional abuse in court. I left a relationship with my son's father when he was one. His father was emotionally and verbally abusive. It was very mentally harming, and it would have been very bad for both me and my son to stay - but I could never have proved it in court. Even without abuse - how does it affect the child to have parents who are constantly fighting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 07:32 PM
2	"You don't need a relationship to be happy" is BS because happily married people of PPD aren't willing to rely on it with their own lives For those who are single: Yes, I can use myself as an example. I'm single and happier than when I was in relationships. This is probably a big reason "why I'm still single". Sometimes I get the yen, and celibacy is getting... Old... But it hasn't been enough to get me out looking again, since I doubt it would make me any happier. Decent chance I'm a statistical anomaly though. I'm extremely introverted, not shy, just usually prefer spending time alone than with other people, whether romantic rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 05:52 PM
2	Ugly - hot people I dated a really nice mouth breather once. Sweet as pie but he literally breathed through his mouth all the time, and audibly so, and it was not sexy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 05:28 PM

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