Heujei628 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Men make long term relationships unsustainable This reminds of the Reddit post from a year or so back of a man confessing that the only photos of his wife he got off to were when she was in her early 20s despite them at the time being in their forties I believe at the time. The male commenters basically backed him up saying they’re the same whereas the female commenters reacted in shock basically. I believe the thread got locked because of all the infighting as it turned toxic real fast. That thread was such a red (black?) pill moment for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:55 AM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women This is what I don’t get, how are they still lonely?? Like, if I was a lonely man, I would observe the behaviors of non-lonely men…or non-lonely people in general, and then mimic what they do…I wouldn’t complain on the internet, sit on my ass, and do nothing. They need to go outside to social events, sports groups, hobby groups, seminars, etc. and talk to people. There’s thousands of guides out there on how to make friends. It’s this constant helpless, man-child behavior that’s extremely annoyin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 06:16 PM
9	Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each other Men complain about how women today have too high body counts but also wish they were attracted to more men. Like…if y’all think body counts are high now…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 08:14 PM
17	People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affection I was asking because I see people tell women to date in their league/looksmatch, but I never see people tell Chads to date their looksmatch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 01:38 AM
31	People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affection emphasis on sex rather than exclusivity has effectively made it possible for 1 guy to be having several women on a roster while others wait on the side lines. How come people don’t tell the “Chads” to stop being greedy and hogging all the women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 09:15 PM
3	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? What gets really frustrating is when you partner up, as a monogamous person, who is not inclined to be monogamous. There's not really good tests for that. Unpopular opinion but this is why I think poly should be more accepted in society even though I’m monogamous myself. There’s always been a portion of humans that are simply not wired to be monogamous. Allowing them to be with other non-monogamous people sans judgement instead of them getting with monogamous people and inevitably hurting the mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 01:44 AM
7	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? Not sure why you commented this. The trends show that even if women are supposedly unhappy…they’re still willingly rejecting trad life en masse. Trad life is not the answer. “found that women’s happiness was inversely correlated with their higher presence in the workforce?” You mean the same study that concluded it could be due to range of socio-economic factors not necessarily just working? Notice how such study never bothers to list the specific reasons WHY? They just speculate. “the messaging…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:49 PM
1	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? Re-read my comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:16 PM
-2	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? This is due to how males are built. Males can father many offspring whereas females can only produce 1/yr. Males are literally wired to spread their genes so multiple females are needed to fulfill that. That’s why men view marriage as “ball and chain”: they’re literally going against their natural biology which is to have multiple mates. Males are not supposed to be monogamous. If human society followed men’s primal sexual preferences, we would resemble lion prides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:05 PM
3	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? if we were able to poll the entire world while on a truth serum (lol) we’d find that there isn’t too big of a difference between the sexes in regards to frequency in desiring genuine monogamy/exclusivity or non exclusivity Well yes. Ask any anthropologist. Humans arent fully monogamous. A good deal of it is artificially imposed via social norms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 04:47 PM
40	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? What's interesting to think about is: why? For women, it’s because younger women saw/see what the older women in their lives went through under traditional living, (especially when it went sour) and decided “yeah, no, screw that”. People blame feminism but really it’s 1) the younger woman’s mother or older female relatives/close ones who lived through that kind of lifestyle telling younger women “DON’T!!!” and 2) seeing what happens to women in trad societies/living arrangements when it goes sou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 04:24 PM
25	Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choices Do lonely men want women to date them despite not being attracted to them? Yes. They tell women to settle. However when women do settle, these men still complain about being beta buxxed. So women can do exactly what they’re told and these men still view them as a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 01:58 PM
17	Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choices You captured this perfectly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 01:50 PM
3	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Ok but even with that you’re still acknowledging that men are choosing. A man choosing to be with an incompatible woman instead of not dating her is still a choice and choices have consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 06:28 PM
3	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA No men are still doing the choosing. Most men are paired up by age 40 so most men have the opportunity to reject a woman thus they are choosing. It’s one of red pill’s philosophies: women gatekeep sex and men gatekeep relationships so men do, in fact, choose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 06:13 PM
10	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Men also do the choosing though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 06:05 PM
16	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women I honestly do feel shit shifted when that dating stat came out that most women find most men to be ugly. I was waiting for the women to say "that's bullshit", but they kinda just shifted their feet, looked away, and shrugged as if to say "it is what it is." I’m a woman myself and I think there’s a reason for that. My copy/paste comment For most of human history, women did not get to choose who they reproduced with so lots of men have traits we don’t like. In contrast, men have been choosing whic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 11:23 PM
5	Women using antidepressants more often than men doesn't mean they secretly want to be tradwives. Thank you for saying this! So many loser, red pill men think women being unhappy/on antidepressants is because of feminism instead of…gee anything else? It’s so telling that whenever they bring up women being on antidepressants, they never cite why these women are on them…probably because they don’t talk to any women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 12:55 PM
2	We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates. People have already been saying that about Natives and other non-western cultures…interestingly enough the type of people who said stuff like are the ones now panicking about their Western culture dwindling. Seems like they earned their karma. They had no sympathy for anyone else but now that they’re in the same position, no one has any sympathy for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 12:55 AM
–	If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage? Yeah that’s not a reward…that’s the bare minimum lmao The bar is truly in hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 03:02 PM
–	If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage? The men in these comments are doing a great job of making marriage sound awful for women. No wonder birth rates are falling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 01:24 PM
16	The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamy Have you not seen the men that were leaked? The vast majority were average. Overall there were just as many average women as there were average men showing that women are dating their looks match and that hypergamy isn’t rlly a thing (well at least not with them)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 06:10 PM
7	Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratio For most of human history, women didn’t really get to choose who to reproduce with so lots of men today have traits we’re not actually attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 10:13 PM
1	How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex? having a soft harem of 8+/10 you sleep with on a semi reg rotation until you pick one you like for a LTR …but I thought RP stated that women who put out before an exclusive relationship were not LTR material?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 01:16 PM
–	American men are becoming disinterested Then why don’t men get into healthcare? Bonus, they’ll be surrounded by other women for dating opportunities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 01:17 AM
0	If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awful But we can’t control what we’re attracted to. Otherwise straight men could just find men other men attractive and solve their sexlessness issues that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 10:20 PM
-2	If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awful Yeah. This is what I don’t understand. these men: tell women to enter relationships with men they don’t like, creating more dead bedrooms Also these men: complain about dead bedrooms and lack of intimacy Idk why they’re so dumb. It also doesn’t make sense when their main concern is getting sex. If you tell women to get with men we don’t like, sex isn’t gonna happen. You’ll get deadbedroomed. It’s literally in everyone’s best interest for us women to date what we’re actually attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 12:26 PM
–	Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue” No because you need water to survive. You don’t sex to survive. You can go your whole life not having sex. You cannot got your whole life not drinking water.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 12:15 PM
23	Why don’t women like dating apps? Are you a woman? Go to any women centric space that talk about how the guys that are on dating apps treat them. This sentiment is universal. It’s not an issue with the individual woman. Most guys do this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 09:27 PM
17	Men improving themselves wont fix the dating market, women need to lower their standards. We don’t have to do anything. We have choice. Cope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 01:08 PM
24	Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates. I said this exact thing yesterday and got downvoted for it! Men are absolutely not making women they strongly desire go 50/50.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 01:12 PM
3	Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationship Hmmm in my experience, if a man asks to split, he’s not that into you and doesn’t really find you attractive. Like I’ve dated poor men who would scrape what little they had just to show me a good time and cover the bill. So if poor men are willing to sacrifice the little they have then a man who’s not poor asking you to split very likely not attracted to you. Like I have trouble believing that if a man got to date a prime Adriana Lima/Beyonce/Margot Robbie/Lucy Liu lookalike, that they would mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 03:16 PM
1	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. It's simply that being "woke" is performative Well that’s a lie. You do realize people can genuinely care about social issues right? You think everyone around you is a racist, sexist, bigot. That is because you are a piece of shit with a superiority complex. 🤣🤣🤣No I don’t think everyone around me is a bigot. That’s so stupid lol. Why are you so angry 🤣🤣and making incorrect assumptions about a stranger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 05:24 PM
1	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Nah, on the contrary, being woke First, you guys don’t know what woke means. Every time you guys try to define it, it’s always a different definition. It’s almost as if you guys have no clue what you’re talking about. Second, anti-woke people often do exactly this: view them through the lens of irrelevant and immutable things like sex or skin color They will often have a negative knee-jerk reaction to minorities in media regardless of the content, showing that they are judging purely based on im…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 03:42 PM
-2	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Yup. In my experience the vast majority of “anti-woke” people are super racist/discriminatory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 03:15 PM
10	Why does the perception that "most men are physically unattractive or below average" exist among women? It’s literally this. In nearly every species where the females choose the males, the females will have a set of traits most find attractive in males and will either choose the best males to reproduce with who match these traits or remain abstinent and not reproduce. This ensures that the future generation has consistently attractive traits to keep reproducing. Humans are the only species to have artificially handicapped women’s natural choice, resulting in traits women don’t find naturally attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:41 PM
–	Society has given women a free pass for their standards while condemning men for theirs Women like that are regularly criticized for potentially being gold diggers or assumed to try to be using the man. Men tell other men to avoid women like that just like above how women tell other women to avoid older men trying to them. Im not sure why you commented this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 06:40 PM
16	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. Well this is a lie. There are men even on this sub upset we have choice to not pick men we don’t like. Why are you denying reality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 04:47 AM
-1	Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit. What number of those 14 mil are regularly active compared to this sub?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 08:44 PM
5	How are men supposed to meet women's standards when women are so educated? I believe it has nothing to do with the gender of the authority, but just lack of respect for the authority itself. This was ages ago, but I remember the boys acting up, disrupting class, and roughhousing in front of female teacher BUT they also did the exact same in front of male teachers. Boys just seemed to lack respect for authority at that age and constantly got passes for their behavior, encouraging it “boys will be boys”. It was consistently overwhelmingly boys who would do that. Girls ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 01:35 PM
19	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. banning contraception? That’s completely and utterly ridiculous. That’s exactly what people said about abortion and look where we are now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 03:11 PM
44	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Thank you for actually listening to us. It’s very much a huge healthcare and financial issue for us. All It’s not just abortion but also birth control being threatened to be taken away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 01:29 PM
-2	Women shouldn’t complain about the current dating/relationship/sexual landscape when this is everything they wanted It’s not in women’s favor though. Plenty of women complain about the state of dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 01:17 PM
20	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? This whole problem would be solved if men communicated what they expected in a partner BEFORE entering a relationship. I don’t know why they don’t this. These situations are 100% their fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 09:52 PM
16	The main reason why women should never make the first move I mean yeah. I remember there being multiple threads on AskMen/AskReddit where guys admitted that they would keep a woman who approached them who they weren’t actually into to use for sex. And these were highly upvoted comments too. Also from being around male spaces and overhearing their discussions men literally brag about using women to show off to their buddies. The way the scenarios they described usually went: “1) girl approaches me 2) I’m not into her but I’ll pretend to be for sex 3) gir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 10:09 PM
18	Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men? get made fun of and called insecure Women experience this as well. They just don’t care and continue to do it anyways because the benefits outweigh criticisms from randos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 07:10 PM
11	If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied? To my knowledge, humans seem to be the only species to have artificially constrained female sexuality. If you look at nearly any other species, the females will choose the best males. Yet for most of human history, female humans have not been allowed to follow their biology in this way because the male humans would force women to be with them regardless of whether or not the woman was attracted to them. This results in women having reproduced a mixed bag of men’s traits. So you get some really a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 02:38 PM
5	At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men? Under the age of 10. It’s concerning looking back and seeing the sheer number of pedo males that exist casually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 03:38 AM