Heurtebise Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	[FR] #-close on bus. now what?		Heurtebise	/r/seduction	22/06/12 12:43 AM

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1	How do i ask girls at a club to dance with me? Yes, your mind is great at making excuses for why you shouldn't do something that makes you uncomfortable. Last night, the very first girl I chatted up, she was the girlfriend of one of the band members who were just playing. It was great interaction, and really got me rolling. What you need to do is be so spontaneous that you surprise even yourself, so your mind does not have enough time to make up the usual BS. I turn right, cute girl next to me, "Hi!". No contemplation, no figuring out opener…	/r/seduction	04/12/16 05:50 PM
6	How do i ask girls at a club to dance with me? Great answers already here, I'm mostly just elaborating on them: getting in the correct state of mind: you can warm up socially by having a chat with anyone and everyone. There's a guard at the entrance? Chat him up. Girls at the cloakroom? Definitely chat them up, tell them a lighthearted joke, they are BORED. Waiting at the bar? Chat the other people up. This exercise alleviates approach anxiety, and it will make approaching girls for a dance normal and even logical: we are here to have fun, d…	/r/seduction	04/12/16 02:47 PM
63	I work at Pandora and girls are all around me, I need to improve my game and ask one of them out, any help? Forget about trying to picking up girls for now. Be chatty. If you notice anything about anyone, just tell them (although if it's an off-putting thing then don't.) Don't go only for the cute girls. Be the nice, social guy at the checkout that appreciates people, be they old or young, male or female, white, black, yellow or blue. Don't be pushy. While you might find someone attractive, most probably all they want to do is to pay, not to get picked up. Instead, just try to make an impression by ha…	/r/seduction	02/12/16 01:47 AM
1	What did the reactions be like when you approached girls on street (cold)? I'm always using situational openers, they work out well (meaning #-close). I think there are two reasons for this: 1) It immediately gives us something common to talk about, no awkward grasping at topics after the silence following the "Hey, you are cute / Thanks". It's easy to turn the "you" and "me" into a "we" when you are actually experiencing something together. So I guess it puts the interaction in a good frame. 2) It helps me dodge approach anxiety. I even surprise myself opening, so I d…	/r/seduction	11/09/14 11:41 PM
2	Is it more attractive to be seen out with a HB6 or just out by yourself? Although male perspective, but I have noticed that while hanging out with female friends, I do get random IOIs from women passing by. I would put the amount to IOIs to my best solo days, when I just feel awesome, confident and sexy and every girl seems to be attracted to me. Perhaps when being with friendgirl, I do give out the same vibe, resulting in the same responses from outsider girls. Also, just speculating, but asking women about how they feel about this might be counter-productive. This …	/r/seduction	06/08/14 08:40 PM
7	Going solo - how do you deal with "where are your friends"? You're saying we should lie to appear high value? Somehow it does not sound right.	/r/seduction	05/07/14 11:17 PM
5	I got a girl's number tonight and noticed some things. If you're still at a phase where numbers are a problem this might help you out. I believe most of the guys overthink the #-close thing. I'm nowhere near being a PUA, I suck at kino, I'm always axious about opening, I'm your average nerd. Yet, when I had a nice chat with a HB, I just hand them my phone ready for their digits. It NEVER failed, no rejections whatsoever. Srsly guys, it's that simple.	/r/seduction	29/06/14 06:05 PM
16	Does anyone else have game without having to talk a girls head off? Less talk, more kino. Seriously, I need to work on this thing.	/r/seduction	04/05/13 02:55 PM
1	[FR] - Day out in the park - First post I like how you did not go for the K-close. An AFC would have gone for the K-close, being desperate to get a girl, any girl. It seems you really got the best out this date.	/r/seduction	27/06/12 10:12 PM
1	[FR] #-close on bus. now what? This seems to be the general consensus around here. Too bad, she's really missing out. Although slaying the other 4 billion does not seem like something I would or I could do. I prefer blunt force trauma, that way I can flay them with their skin intact. Well, it's her loss.	/r/seduction	22/06/12 04:27 PM
2	[FR] #-close on bus. now what? It's okay, it was the storys climax anyways. When it comes to Armstrong, you know it can't really get any better than that. Did get laid, just not with her.	/r/seduction	22/06/12 04:13 PM
2	[FR] #-close on bus. now what? We reached an agreement about the possibility of hanging out sometimes in the future. That may or may not imply escalation, we haven't discussed that. Actually, I'd be fine with just hanging out given both of our LTRs. I found her and intriguing person, and also figured just showing up at venues with a hot female companion and obviously having fun would have other desirable consequences. Like preselection. Or self-confidence boosting.	/r/seduction	22/06/12 04:04 PM
6	Logistics of Living in the Suburbs I have 0 tolerance for drinking + driving thank you for that.	/r/seduction	20/06/12 01:03 AM
3	My first attempt at a daytime open, and what I learned. Critique welcome. Long time lurker, first time commenter here. I was just playing with the idea of writing an FR about my trip on the bus yesterday. Comparing your notes with mine, I do agree with some of your conlusions. Waiting idly is rarely fun, chatting is. I don't know the exact situation, but it seems the singing was actually for you to notice. The compliment was not that bad positioned, or at least it was way better than not saying anything. This way she could know she got your attention. Reinitiating the…	/r/seduction	18/06/12 11:26 PM