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| 1 | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?g 🤙 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?we like to be seen as hookup material as well One thing that fascinates me about a lot of women is how much they obsess about being sexy to men, they pin their identity to it, through fashion, makeup, plastic surgery sometimes, they are desperate to be sexually desirable and it's a massive hit to their ego if men aren't showing interest in them sexually, they'll often internalise a rejection and sometimes externalise it through attacking the man's sexuality and masculinity, but the idea that men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable?5’10 Picking an above average height probably isn't helping your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?I don’t have unfair power any more than you do over gay men because you won’t let them stick their dicks in you whenever you want. I don't know the numbers, but I'm fairly sure the vast majority of guys aren't getting propositioned by gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Would men actually be happy if dating were easy?So, if all challenges, obstacles, and standards men have to meet while dating disappeared overnight, would men as a whole be happy? If every man could just cold approach a woman and know she'd fall for whatever he'd say with little effort, would he be satisfied doing that? Would it make a difference if there was no longer any competition with other men? Why or why not? So basically if men suddenly had the same ease that women do? You probably would see a bump in life satisfaction since the reali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.TIL that most women I've met wanted to date me and weren't just being friendly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.It's not though, the opening premise is that it's a man a woman is interested in, she starts by saying women aren't interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.Yeah true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:19 PM |
| -1 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.Is it? My experience has been most women interested in me haven't shown interest, I've had a few friends over the years ask after the fact why I never asked them out or picked up their "hints" and looking back still don't really know what they did that I was meant to pick up on. The only women who have shown interest have actually been randoms in bars and clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.He's asked us to debate whether women should show interest when they are interested, not the scenarios that lead to interest or whether women are interested in him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.Your comment is a bit of a derailement, since OP sepcifies that he is talking about when women do have interest in a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:55 PM |
| 40 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.Women have zero reason to, missing out on dating a guy they like is a small price to pay if it means protecting their own ego. Some women will even live within the paradigm of accepting poor treatment from men they don't even particularly like rather than cast aside the safety of plausible deniability and risk rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Testosterone Level Decreasing in Men, Increasing in Womenhttps://www.cam.ac.uk/research/news/believing-youre-a-winner-gives-men-a-testosterone-boost-and-promiscuous-disposition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Testosterone Level Decreasing in Men, Increasing in WomenI doubt it would make up for the effects of poor diet and lack of sleep, though I'm sure someone mentioned in this thread a chess player had an increase of 700% after a victory, which is significantly more than the decrease associated with obesity (I've read varying numbers from 30-50% or 2% drop per point increase on the bmi scale). I believe people at the top level of esports have been shown to be healthier than the general population as well, that said nothing about testosterone however. Edit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Testosterone Level Decreasing in Men, Increasing in WomenI have wondered the same thing, this is a fairly small study so I don't want to draw any conclusions, but it does seem competitive online video games may work as a proxy for male-male competition. I also imagine being delusional could have an effect, we accept that someones mentality and perception of their environment affects their cortisol levels, why would it not have an impact on other hormones, like testosterone? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513809000671 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 08:26 AM |
| 13 | Testosterone Level Decreasing in Men, Increasing in WomenIt has been studied, coming out on top in competition against other men seems to raise testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?I think now you're the one being cynical! I get what you are saying, when it comes down to it, the result is the same, but I think how you acted was a barrier to entering a relationship more than it made you undesirable for one. I don't believe I'm undesirable as a partner, but that I have barriers to entry. why would you suspect their favorite food was actually sushi? I also wouldn't suspect they didn't like sushi. And they can be, especially if you're dating a close friend you've known for a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?What complete nonsense, in my case. I do not believe for a moment I was ever the one “they desired most”. I’m not that hot, and I’m not that arrogant. I know I’m nobody’s first choice— at bare minimum, I would have been approached by aggressive men who ask everyone out. Loads of men are not shy and scared of rejection— the lack of any men being interested is absolute guaranteed proof I wasn’t the most desirable. I guarantee you the most desirable women are not completely ignored for decades. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:09 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?No, but you do expect a level of skill/confidence with women that comes from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:29 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?Women select against inexperienced men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Because they actually asked out the women they had interest in Men often ask out the women they think they have a chance with moreso than who they desire most. Why don’t you ask yourself the same question? Did you show interest in this woman you had interest in? Did you flirt with her or make any show of interest? Why were you waiting for a sexually reserved woman to show romantic interest, going against even the cultural norms you don’t face? I've asked myself that question many times, I was ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Yeah, I didn't put out "vibes" I was flirty or fun either. I know it's a huge part of why men had zero interest in me-- because I didn't put out the vibes that I might be willing, if you played your cards right. Do you know they had zero interest in you? She may well have said the same thing about herself, not realising guys were interested, I was, but she had a way of making you think you'd be bothering her if you did ask her out on a date. Try to see it from a guy's perspective, would you ask … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?So you do know women who are chaste, you just don’t like them. Chaste probably isn't a word I'd use to describe her, misanthropic is probably more accurate, she let down her guard as soon as one guy managed to worm his way past them. Why didn’t you ask her out anyways, if being chaste is important to you? You knew each other and talked ok together. It’s fine if you didn’t like her, but her not being needy or clingy doesn’t seem like a good reason for you to write her off. When I first met her I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Are you literally the only person you know who doesn’t have casual sex? Off the top of my head I can think of two women who, one I worked with a few years ago was a virgin until her mid-late 20s and then got used by a guy who wasn't serious about her, who knows what she's up to these days, I'd guess she's probably still single because she was very closed off and set in her ways, I was one of the few people she was happy to talk to, but she generally gave off the vibe if she could speak to no one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?What I meant by the vibe comment is the people I am friends with are chill, some of them are super promiscous, a couple of them I am sure are outright sex addicts, everyone is fairly open, we know when othets are dating someone new, we see how many are hopping between flings, who breaks up with an ltr and hooks up on one of our nights out and so on, I'm sure there are men and women out there not doing these things, but the whole point is how do you meet them? Even then, women I have met in diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Where are you reading half these things you think I've said? I'm not saying any political liberal women are sluts? A lot of the women I've known have been relatively conservative politically, all things considered, and one of them grew up with a family that used to go to racist marches and shit and her last boyfriend was homophobic and racist, she was one of the mosy promiscuous women I know. What I'm basing my assessment of their promiscuity on is having seen them flirting and going off with gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?I suppose my comment wasn't entirely clear, I meant the available women I've gotten to know, obviously there were some that seemed to have only been in 1 or 2 long term relationships, but even of those the ones I knew that did go through a breakup after being with someone for a long time had a hookup or two after. As to how I know? When you spend enough time with people you get a sense of their views on these things, people talk about sex and relationships, especially if the vibe is generally ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Not a zoomer brother The first zoomers will be in ther mid-late 20s at this point, so you're on the cusp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?I get why he's cynical though, unless you're religious, it's not exactly easy to come across women who haven't engaged in casual sex. I've met women through friends, colleagues, at work, the one place I've never bothered trying to get to know new people is bars and clubs, though I have had women come onto me in those settings; I've yet to meet one that hasn't had casual sex in one form or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI?I did notice, I think the line between what is code and what we are is quite blurry and whether or not we have free will is part of that line. What would you define as you? Is it your body itself? Maybe the mind you think is piloting it? Who beats your heart? Who manages your hormones? How voluntary are your emotions? AI could end up more free than us given there's no need for it to be shackled to flesh the way we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:06 AM |
| 9 | Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI?Does code have free will? Do we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:16 AM |
| – | Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approachIf it wasn't hard to distinguish, why would you need to test it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 11:20 AM |
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