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250

There should be an option for never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:27 PM
1119

He wanted to be sure from the start that he's talking to a cool girl 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:43 PM
13

4 years 8 months would be decent if the woman had suffered "just" the pain, fear and humiliation but were alive to sue 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:47 AM
29

Notice how he didn't post a question to a relationship sub ("cheated on after 11 years" or the like) because then he would need to provide more background info. Instead he mentions having his bday to max his pity points. Because he wants pats on the back, not advice. I guess it's understandable after getting cheated on, just made me think a woman in the same situation would reflect and analyze like crazy (for better or worse), not just beg for empty (due to lack of context) cheers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:48 PM
42

Simple and brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:37 PM
172

Your mother has a way with words! Good luck on your new, better life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:58 PM
135

Maybe ask them if that means that all unemployed folk should be coerced into sex work. If it's the same kinda work as any entry lvl job, why not replace student loans with sex work? Why not make the elderly and the disabled to work in bordellos to pay for their accommodations? That coma patient surely could make a buck or two! If it truly is the same, why not have teenagers earning that way? Why not put your deceased family member to get you coin! Just today I read the following sarcastic remark…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:53 PM
237

If his anxiety is truly limiting his life like that maybe he should focus on, I dunno, FIXING IT instead of dating jeez. How does he hold down a job?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:27 PM
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Can any woman imagine having a life so easy that a tragedy from 20 YEARS AGO that HAPPENED TO SOMEONE ELSE still affects you to this extent? And then they have the audacity to claim that women live on easy mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:55 AM
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Let's dissect this pile of garbage: "Just because he once rubbed one out to anime porn or some fetish you're not into doesn't mean he needs that to get off." YET. I could also say, just because a woman once had sex with a man, doesn't mean she needs a man to get off. But that's not a very constructive approach to take in a relationship, huh? " - - you shouldn't sweat the fact that he's choosing to rub one out when you're not around." The issue is not masturbation. Don't change the subject, scrot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:24 PM
69

Damn those teeth are creepy! As a side note gotta love the original correct use of 'literally'!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:02 AM
8

Lovely, trying to manipulate you into being 'accommodating' and making sure you know it's your job to manage his fee fees. Gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:48 AM
3

One reason is that they conflate capacity for offense with capacity for defense, seeking protection from a dangerous person who does not shy away from violence. Like a twisted remnant of being attracted to the strongest/best combatant of the tribe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:59 PM
37

how is she not all emotionally fucked up after She is, that's why she felt the need to seek validation from strangers on SM :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:17 AM
32

Thank you all for yet another great episode and for bringing up this topic! The misconception that autistics don't date is kinda amusing - autism traits appear to be hereditary, so if people on the spectrum don't have relations, where'd those genes emerge from?! Also goes to show that atypically wired people DO benefit the society!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:27 PM
22

If he really needed a place to stay or food, he could use that internet access of his to find social services and charities since he's In SWEDEN. FFS, if he struggles with finding the right services, he could probably find helpful people in the Swedish subreddit! He's come up with a good way of "vetting" for women with no standards, poor self-preservation instincts and a too caring, giving nature, and he can use his ruse to breach their comfort zones and insert himself into their homes, skipping…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:45 AM
26

He doesn't even know what arbitrary and objective mean 🤦🏼‍♀️ And he either doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand the difference between supporting a HV LT partner and expecting a date to have tackled their issues before delving into a relationship. It's not a woman's job to set themselves on fire to keep a man warm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:16 AM
11

People have a tendency to project and expect others to behave and think how they do. If he is so damn suspicious of her recount, that likely means he's the kind of person to lie about such things. He's the kind of person to lie about domestic violence. His eagerness to invalidate her experiences is a telltale sign that HE WILL NEVER BE ON HER SIDE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:53 AM
57

Yes and it's clearly intentional, since he wrote ALL other appropriate words with an upper case!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:23 AM
7

IMO some background info should be provided on posts like these to discourage internet traffic to what is often trashy people and media. Yikes that quote from the guy on the second to last paragraph is gross 🤮 blatant pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:44 AM
163

I wonder how he likes "natural" when it's about body hair, dental hygiene, deodoration etc. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:35 AM
22

And the shittiest thing is you can't really even call them out on their dishonesty, because it's harder to draw lines with deeds. Verbal lies are typically at least a bit more black and white, but deeds are more easily obscured by 'politeness' or 'being in the moment' or what have you. Though verbal dishonesty can also be obscured in a similar manner, such as when he referred to the restaurant as 'our place' - if you called him out on that, he could say he did not remember the name of the place.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:22 AM
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Or he could've been trying to get sex? I agree with you about men being lazy and just moving on to the next one, but maybe he had a case of sunk cost fallacy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:07 AM
151

Great detail naming Veronica and leaving the wife unnamed! Maybe we should have a FDS creative writing thread 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:08 AM
118

Yeah, what a terrible money grabbing whore - grabbing money from her employer and having the audacity to acknowledge the existance of other men. Buuut a little tinfoil time: I think that Quora question may either have flipped genders or be fiction by a man? All kinds of women get male attention, so I feel like the increased intetest would appeal to a man more. Also the 'manifested' is a weird word choice and sounds like a man who's trying to sound sophisticated. Also I feel like in reference to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:48 AM
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"Kids are gonna be seeing." Like it's unavoidable. Like it's not their responsibility to ban minors access. Retailers and restaurants are responsible for not distributing alcohol to minors. Access to online gambling is denied for minors. Same measures should be applied to online porn services - but oh wait, kinda hard to verify age when the men who consume that filth don't wish to be identified doing so 🙄 (because they KNOW they are sick and depraved) And ofc it's a woman getting painfully db'd …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:50 PM
27

Can't hook up on a remote date so why would he even bother /s 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:53 AM
31

Childhood blankets and plushies can be washed. They typically are not stored in the immediate vicinity of genitals. As for people who chew their nails, they KNOW it's a nasty habit and usually try to quit. I'd also much prefer to find someone's nail clippings than someone's sweaty, foul-smelling pubes 🤢 But I agree with you that she shouldn't have thrown the jar away. His next gfs also need to find this unholy vessel of filth before it's too late for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:17 PM
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They don't actually care about men's issues, they say these things only to silence women and derail the topic at hand. Also feminists DO bring up some men's issues as well, because patriarchy tends to be a double edged sword (eg. if men were more involved in raising children, they'd have stronger bonds with them and would be more likely to be granted equal custody in case of divorce, or if they did not engage in rape culture, male victims would have less of a hard time seeking justice/help etc.)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:09 AM
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It's ironic these moronic "alpha"-scrotes don't realize that a real "human male alpha" would be one who stands by his partner and raises offspring together 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:48 AM
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I'm not sure I'd say she's an active participant in cheating - men know how to play the blurring line of banter/friendliness and flirting. Sounds like she did not let it slide and brought the increasing flirtiness up (because why would the guy do this and disrupt his juicy set up?) and when he gave non-commital answers, she shut the flirting down and wanted to go back to friendly. But yes she's a pickme for entertaining an emotional cheater at all. That's a shame, since she seems to have promisi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:29 AM
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Can't help but wonder if no. 3 wasn't so much overhearing but the scrote's deliberate intention to humiliate her and shatter the poor girl's self esteem 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:07 AM
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There's something chilling about the way he says 'I love him regardless', like he thinks loving his own child is a saintly deed. Though I wonder what kind of love it is to 'not see them very often' because 'they live a little far'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:21 AM
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I am already taken = pickme doesn't trust her LVM so she tries to fend off perceived threats by a freaking awesome girl = LVM doesn't compliment pickme but if she gets him to wear this, it kinda counts? Right? Right?! she's a bit crazy = pickme has already been mistreated to a breakdown point a couple of times & scares me sometimes = mostly when she has tried to establish boundaries or to secure a commitment but she's a perfect mixture of sunshine and hurricane = pickme has internalized the abus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:05 AM
4

Now when/if she breaks up with him, he can tell everyone about his crazy ex who smeared her period blood on his face (or a similar distortion). And if she tries to tell mutuals that she just showed him to educate him, she's still gonna sound insane because she should've realized hE wAs JusT jOKinG!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:01 PM
11

" - if it was then all the powerful men would do it." Simple and true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:37 AM
10

This must be a regional/cultural thing but where I live men have the nastiest AND the cleanest apartments (IME). And the clean homes are furnished/decorated so it's not a case of easy to clean empty space. Maybe it's because here most move out at 18 and most don't have roommates. So maybe 18-19 is young enough that their brains haven't been mommied useless, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:10 AM
23

Fellow female, your logical arguments convinced my little brainlets to abandon my man-eating habits. But what am I to do with all the male flesh in the freezer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:50 AM
3

The scrote demonstrates how the word female is used interchangeably with bxxxx, cxxx and wxxxx, yet somehow much of the male population is convinced that feminism is obsolete and women have it easy 🙄 (sorry for the x = *, using the * turned out problematic 😅)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:05 AM
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So sad :( hope she goes no contact. And what a simpleton that scrote is. Why would he think wishing a merry xmas implies blood relation?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:23 AM
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Ha ha true! Not only that but he'll probably also draw the conclusion that YOU like HIM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:05 AM
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I think the toothbrush thing indicates that he considered her to be his possession, to do whatever he wanted to. He felt so entitled to her body that he felt he had the right to endanger her health. He probably got off on the humiliation of basically making her lick his boots. Or maybe he just wanted to make her sick so that she would depend on him more. It's hard to imagine a woman doing anything like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:37 PM
44

I think I'll start looking for a lockbox for my toothbrush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:10 PM
41

Sickening. He feels entitled to be praised and admired for (alleged) positive but very basic features. He feels like he shouldn't have to take responsibility for his children. I have a tip for him: come clean about what a cheating wannabe-deadbeat you are. Then you will get what you want - people seeing you for what you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:17 PM
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The scrotes seem to think a scientific journal is like a regular diary o.O Though judging by their writing and reading even an everyday diary entry would probably be too complex for their comprehension.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:50 AM
53

Only one questioned how you drew the compatibility conclusion facepalm Men don't stop to think for a second why a woman seeking casual is gushing about compatibility. For men, casual = they receive sex, intimacy, emotional support, admiration, cleaning and catering services, entertainment, company, psychological councel, raise in status (sometimes they even take casual gfs to meet family for this reason!) - the whole shebang(maid) we call GF/wife benefits. Women receive lousy to mediocre sex (wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:15 AM
4

"Since you oh-so-subtly told me" - lol, if she had not told him, he would whine about not being a mind reader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:26 PM
27

He wanted the game set. He bought it. He didn't want to buy his gf a gift. He didn't. There is no misunderstanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:30 AM
17

Sorry he did this to you :( Remember that you're not leaving because 'he said something off' or because you're 'jealous of an ex (?)' or whatever he might say to reel you back in. You're leaving because his vows were untrue, he doesn't love you (no way the things he said were a misunderstanding/joke/momentarily lapse of judgment - he clearly has his abuse plans laid out) and because he's already abusive and controlling and you don't want it to escalate. Remember, you are NOT being petty, unreaso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:51 AM
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Some of them prolly hope that the reason is something they can pin on the woman. It saves their ego if instead of finding fault in themselves, they can blame the woman for being vapid, vain, picky, judgmental or what have you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:21 AM
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Preach! And they project and turn it around on women with the good ole 'women only like jerks'. And they think that getting cheated on once in high school gives them the right to cheat on an abuse ALL women they encounter from then on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:54 AM
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Not going to work and drinking three days is super shitty and low value because he should concentrate on her well-being (taking time off work itself would be a good idea if he actually used this time to support her). And he's a bad person if he doesn't support his wife through the pregnancy and be there for her even if they eventually divorce. But I find it hard to fault him for not being willing to raise a rapist's child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:45 AM
7

One thing no one has mentioned so far is that people find a smile and looking straight to the camera attractive/pleasing. The pic of Colin gives off kind vibes whereas Khalil looks like a teenager who can't be bothered with what the teacher is saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:43 AM
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"Tf am I supposed to jack off to?" It's amazing how many of these oh-so-smart and logical men lack the ability for creative abstract thinking. Must take a truly dull mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:30 PM
24

"What do you do for fun" - can't ask about your hobbies, because he's afraid you're gonna ask him the same, and he has none. Added benefit is he gets you to think about "fun things", a phrasing which you may associate with sex so now he has made you think about sex, however fleetingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:24 PM
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I recently rewatched some Disney movies and I could not get through Aladdin thanks to FDS xD The dude is the definition of an LVM. He's young and able-bodied but can't be bothered to get a job. If there were no jobs in Acraba, he could have moved, as he seemed to have no ties (family, property, not even friends). He feels entitled to live in a palace and f- erm, marry a princess. His monkey is ill-behaved and out of control (whereas Jasmine has a well-trained TIGER ffs). He pretends to be someon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:55 PM
5

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/flair_guide Both user and post flair guides are there :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 11:58 AM
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The way I see it, all you need to do is follow the basics of FDS and vet. So do not compromise your safety by spending time alone with him in private before he has earned your trust. Always cherish your boundaries. With a HVM you do not need a "put off sex strategy". They respect your boundary of not sleeping outside of an established, committed relationship. If they do not, they are not HVM and not worth your time - next. Also listen to your gut - if he makes you uncomfortable or you feel unsaf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:21 PM
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Men are physically stronger and this was a stranger who had already displayed abusive tendencies. Also you were in a vulnerable state being in an intimate situation and all. It's no wonder you froze and and did the best you could to de-escalate the situation. You tend to hear of 'flee or fight' and 'freeze' is their often forgotten but very frequently utilized third. It seems many victims of sexual assault freeze and then blame themselves afterwards because they don't know it's a very common rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:45 PM
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Wtf?! He eagerly pays on the first date. She probably got the idea that he did it with pleasure, so on the second date she is following his lead. Only this time he presents her with a childish 15 min shit test with the bill. She probably picked up on his reluctance to pay on the second date, so she proposes 50/50. Instead of being appeased, he questions her interest and accuses her of inconsistency (?!) and then he is clueless that she would not offer to pay on the fourth date? After he clearly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:12 PM
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If you're worried about other people's reactions, remember that silence can be powerful. You have zero obligation to comment on your divorce and no reason to spend your energy on justifying your decision to anyone. No matter how charming he appears to others. Also I'd say don't worry about the weight too much for now. It may happen that once you get yourself removed from the narc and get your mental health in check the weight comes off almost by itself. Can't guarantee that of course, lol. Kick …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:33 PM
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I had the same thought about the hair! A scrote ex from long ago whined that I don't pay attention to his nipples - it was the first time he brought it up rolls eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:02 PM
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I Googled and she's some kind of an internet celebrity who legit looks like she's hardly even teen-aged (barf). Has child-like animeish aesthetics and makes weird faces. I'd say creepy vibes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:58 AM
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"If smart FDS women rate themselves, what hope is there for women to not be judged, graded and treated a certain way due to looks." Agreed! We should be mindful about using incel/rp/pua vocab and concepts, so that we don't inadvertently promote that crap. " - - as they know they got lucky." Sounds like you got Queen energy going on! (My experiences have been similar to OP's.) "I am so much more than the vessel that carries my mind and soul." As are we all <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:17 AM
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Where are those said boys? All I see is chubby, balding, aging men holding a juvenile, cringy banner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:13 PM
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Yes, it's such obvious manipulation! Maybe he was hoping that she would want to do it again if he lies about her 'climax'. Totally agree with your more likely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:03 AM
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He did propose to his ex - another example of IF HE WANTED TO, HE WOULD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:34 AM
47

The alternative to alcohol is... alcohol? Must be the famed male LoGiC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:44 AM
16

He says her dad 'apparently' had threatened to 'end' her and her siblings, implying he doesn't really believe his wife (and he downplays the death threats with his language).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:38 AM
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So many men in that thread have trouble understanding cup size and band size like it's an occult art.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:35 AM
12

Funny thing I recently read the quote above for the first time and thought similarly! He not only died and suffered literal torture for church, but devoted his life to it and forsook all other endeavours and joys. I'm not religious (I just have a goal of reading all of Bible lol) but if a man loved me and treated me like that and acted with kindness and wisdom, I probably wouldn't mind letting him take the lead. And another quote that comes to mind that men tend to forget about is the passage ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:14 AM
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I'm somewhat surprised the manchild eats fruit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:35 AM
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Yep, the end where she says she's 31 really added yet another layer of clownery :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:53 PM
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The vaginas will get psychosomatically confused, because something something women are hysteric!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:18 AM
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Nice catch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:01 AM
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I've told two friends. I'm under the impression that the other one isn't comfortable enough with her reading and communication in English, but I have been sharing with her what I've read and learned here. She struggles a lot in her personal and love life, but often says very FDS things and brings up stuff that we also talk about in here. The other one I sent a link to after she had been making remarks similar to us in here. She said she'd check it out. I haven't asked how she liked us 'cause I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:31 AM
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Can't say about subconscious, but most likely a sum of many things. Sounds like it could be stress and psych drugs, if you have been prescribed any, some of them are notorious for weight gain. If this is the case, perhaps you could check with your doc if there are alternatives? Also if you haven't already, you could have bloodwork done to check for thyroid problems. Personally I have felt that the thinner I've been, the better I've been treated (better = with more politeness, attentiveness and g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:53 AM
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At first I read it as his 6 week old is covered in melted plastic o.O but then again why would a scrote refer to a child as 'his' (vs. 'ours'), that would imply too much accountability. Of course it's an appliance. Which is apparently only his. As a side note, is anyone else bothered by the heating of the oven for just 5 nuggets? Or is it cultural? Seems wasteful to me, but then again I don't know if newer ovens are super low in energy consumption or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:19 AM
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Disgusting. This NVM knows full well she's been sexually active for a whole of two months. He clearly thought he won the moulding jackpot and could shame her into his slave. So glad she left!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:50 AM
2

Those withdrawals are horrible. I had a prescription some years ago and the (sadly, female) doctor lied about how these ones are known to NOT cause any withdrawals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:41 AM
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Ironic how he blames her for missing the point and totally misses her point about the daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:38 AM
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"Our Inner Queen, which art within us. High-valued be thy name. Thy queendom cum. Thy bar be set not on earth but in the heavens. Give us this day our daily FDS. And forgive us our pickmeisha days, as we forgive those who still turn a blind eye to the patriarchy. And lead us not into temptation to ignore red flags, but deliver us from scrotes. For ours is the wisdom, the power and the value. For ever and ever. Amen." Edit. This was supposed to be a reply in the nunnery funnery posts but oh well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:53 PM
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A couple of years ago I would've thought how bizarre it is that he tells on himself like that, I mean why would he admit to drugging women?! Aaaand now I know it's because he was prodding your boundaries. shudders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:52 AM
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" - he hugged me tightly and assured me he'd never want to hurt me." Yet that's EXACTLY what he DOES want. Cognitive dissonance much? Poor sisters who fall for it :( I'm so glad that here on FDS we can see and admit that violence = violence. Who'd have thought?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:21 AM
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This is a great post and a beautiful reminder for us all to never let a man waver our self esteem! You could be the hottest woman on planet and these N/LVM would still say these things. For me it has been wearing make up (I don't really anymore, but that has nothing to with what some asshole said ten years ago lol) and having big boobs. The amount of men who dated me / wanted to date me and my E/F cups even though they all preferred small tits rolls eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:40 AM
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The spelling with a capital M and lower case w's makes me sick. Also he conflates 'encouragement' with 'recognizing that sex workers too have inherent human value'. It's pretty much always men who do the 'encouraging' (=pressuring, manipulating and even forcing).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:26 AM
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So the legal system valued a murderer's dick over women's safety and some still have the nerves to claim that equality has already been achieved. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:16 AM
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Probably because they don't need to worry about having enough battery for an emergency call >:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:44 PM
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Am I evil if I wish he'd have to claim benefits one day? In any case, a prime example of male "logic": discard evidence to contrary, instead of arguments attack personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:56 PM
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I think it's mostly men who shame other men for crying, though in my area I haven't heard anyone mention anything about public crying. I personally think it's fine if men let themselves cry, as long as the situation is private or otherwise appropriate, they're not doing it for pats on the back or worse manipulation and they're not crocodile tears. But damn we know how it tends to be in practice... Also, if men cry on their own, which I would guess is the most usual way to cry for women too, who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:44 PM
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Yep. And they created this narrative that conveniently forgets that anger, jealousy, bitterness etc. are emotions too, and very much the kind of ones that easily override logic. Also the world is not black and white, logic and feelings are not opposites or mutually exclusive, they are both part of human cognition which both benefit (or sometimes hinder) our functions. And the ironic thing is, the drive that makes them say things like "I'm logical" is based on their emotional needs for validation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:04 AM
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"EVEN THOUGH HE WANTS TO" Nope. If he wanted to, he would. He's using plausible deniability to try to manipulate you. Should you ever confront him about hinting at wanting you more, he will say he never said anything like that, it's all in your head, you drew silly conclusions, he was talking in broad terms, not about you or anyone else spesific. "That he clearly has feelings for" - no. Don't fool yourself. He enjoys your attention, he feels validated. That does not equal to feelings. Please do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:31 PM
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"Mods never explained why that comment deserved a lifetime ban. I guess now I have an answer" - how shall you ever be able to handle this the truth with your frail childlike understanding!? (/s as a courtesy for those who just woke up)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:27 AM
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Windblade sounds like a superior companion! Hope you get rid of the ridiculous snake. And also good for you trying new things, I still haven't figured out those emojis :'D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:18 PM
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Laughed out aloud at the child thing. They DO want a child, someone to mold and manipulate. They just don't want to provide/protect. And the cutting, that's their manipulation goldmine :( and an emotional vampire my ass, more like emotional vampire's victim. Vampires literally leave marks, for fucks sake. Same with the living in a poor area - who's a better victim than someone disadvantaged? And the "because of their shallowness" xD xD xD If he himself were any more shallow, he'd collapse...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:19 PM
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At least in my country most rapes are committed in someone's homes, and the sicko and the survivor are acquainted. But when people think of rape they think of shadowy alleys, gangs and the like. (Kind of the same deal as with the survivor's clothing, these myths persist.) I have no suggestions as to what to do, but maybe she doesn't want to think of herself as a victim. Or maybe she's afraid that she's not believed and loses her support net :( As a survivor myself, the most grueling, gut-wrenchi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:12 PM
24

Yep! It's incomprehensible to me! There are so many things to do, learn and experience that one lifetime is hardly enough, it takes a truly dull and dim person to be bored (barring sickness and the like). And it's so not a woman's duty to entertain these yawn-inducers. I wonder if it's a kind of a manipulation technique - it's kinda hard to come up with a reply to "I'm bored", unless one wants to meet up. Of course queens know exactly how to "reply" ;) but pickmes waste their time and energy int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:49 PM
21

And they're probably jealous of the time and care invested in the horse instead of making them sandwiches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:33 PM
30

Eww. In addition to everything already mentioned, the POS complained that no one looked at his wife when they came to parties. This practically also means that no one looked at him and he was a nobody in these parties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:23 PM
4

Wow, thank you for introducing this concept! If I got it right I've had two HLs myself, and I even recognized from early-ish on that I wanted to become like them, but that didn't make those experiences easier, lol. You've given me a lot to think about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:03 AM
1

Ewww, talking about recovery like it's some optional luxury. Doesn't seem to know or care why the second time took the wife longer. And see how he refuses to own his actions by wording he "might come off as a bad guy" - no, idiot, you're not coming across as a bad guy, you ARE the bad guy here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:43 AM
3

I haven't either! Hope I don't jinx myself saying this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:53 PM
8

I especially like how you came up with the right pictures to depict a caring nature! And the vasectomy cake is :'D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:28 AM
3

Nice sense of aesthetics! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:15 AM
14

I quit swallowing as if I could spit him across the screen. How ironic that these super-machos need a treatise by another man to encourage them because they are afraid of talking to girls -.- And this loser dares to mention mothers' vaginas. Weird that those are not "yeast-infected sluts' dumplings" too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:17 PM
27

There are comments saying that he has changed and deserves to be forgiven - apparently because he cried. Like really?! If he had truly changed he would have turned himself in. I call crocodile tears. Those apologists are despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:09 PM
98

Me too! Thank you for posting. I had to fight YEARS to get proper diagnoses and treatments. Got an invisible illness and disability. Still in the process of learning not to give af whether folks "believe me" since 'I don't look ill'. I think FDS can help me to adopt healthy boundaries in this regard as well, since my health is my private matter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:36 PM
22

Men sure are good at sprinkling salt onto wounds. Seems like for every guy who commits these depraved acts there's ten more patting him on the back and thinking it's funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:23 PM
6

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:10 PM
92

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:10 PM
72

There's people flat out saying that 'she'll get what's coming for her', implying that this 16-yo would deserve to be raped. BARF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:20 PM
25

How does it even cross one's mind to do something like this?! The goal of course is trumping boundaries, but what kind of a mind decides FARTING is the way? (yes, we know - a man's mind) Meanwhile they probably shame their GF for their body's natural functions and noises...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:09 PM
67

Don't sell yourself short saying you still look the same! You're adopting a new good habit and already feel more energetic, that's great! ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:53 PM
12

Judging by his pic he might've meant goldciggers, women who smoke his cigars xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:07 PM
25

Women lose shape at 16?! To laugh or to cry...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:00 PM
12

Wow TIL! And failing to protect his partner sounds a lot like the men we know today -.- they still haven't gotten that heimlich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:00 AM
4

That link, truly nasty! Indulging in her fetish makes her need to take antibiotics, how sickening is that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:08 PM
13

Wording it like that really brings out the horror that is being a pickmeisha xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:29 PM
2

Thanks for sharing! Blocking is obvs the way to go, but gosh this love witch thing would be juicy for trolling him :'D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:50 PM
1

Indeed, more HVM for us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:35 PM
3

Thank you for bringing this up! It has been bothering me for a while too. Just another tool to make us shut up and not complain >:( Now with a side of extra ageism!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:03 PM
1

Makes me even more glad that I don't use Insta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:53 PM
1

I nearly downvoted on accident because ewww! :'P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:15 PM
1

Nothing else can explain those bright, expectant smiles... :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:53 PM
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