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It's funny because the advice of the old school PUAs was to approach, be friendly, spread good vibes, flirt, isolate, and escalate. At any step of the way, you could be kicked to the curb, and that's great because you put yourself out there. The most important skill is being able to take Ls and keep putting yourself out there while maintaining a fun vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:57 PM
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This is why you need to have insane chemistry with the girl, and be friendly with the whole group. Be fun, charming, and let her go if she has to get back with her friends. If she wants you, she'll come back even in spite of them. Odds are, she's not going to get to that level of chemistry with you, but if you always approach the women you're drawn to, the odds will will swing in your favor eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:51 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/may
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:33 AM
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I agree there's an asymmetry if the social person harnesses their skill effectively. E.g. is effective at maintaining close bonds, puts more time/effort into socializing. In terms of this analogy, I view this as a women that's good at flirting with men, making them feel wanted, etc. She's going to definitely have more options than a woman who's more reserved. However, the downside is that if she leans too much into her sexuality and sleeps with lots of guys, she's going to be a more risky person…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:08 PM
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I'm saying that having a larger number of friends means you aren't as close to each one compared to someone who only has a few close friends. The fun, gregarious, social people shouldn't expect the same amount of support as someone who only has a few close friends who have a close meaningful bond
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:10 PM
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The thing is, we're taking all other factors out. All things being equal, yes a low n count women would prefer a low n count man. However, this is impossible in reality. Consider a guy who's had a lot of sex with a virgin. Who's most likely going to be better in bed? So this supposition has no weight in the real world. Would a low n count woman not like my n count? Probably not. But there may be other qualities, experiences, and skills that more than make up for it. The moral failing, if any, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:04 PM
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Should they expect as close of a friendship with each person out of 30 if the other friends have several close friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:23 PM
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I went to a very liberal university so naturally met women through friends of friends who took pleasure in criticizing, insulting, and being rude to men. It was awkward at best to be there, and it was impressively solipsistic of them to be wholly unaware of how uncomfortable these self-proclaimed "tolerant" people made other people feel. Since then, I can't say I missed these interactions or kept anyone like that in my social circle. Though I have gone on some dates where women talk about how aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:17 PM
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A lot of women here actually try to bully/insult red pill men here and argue in bad faith. It's toxic to the point where I'm considering not posting here anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:36 PM
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Mods rule 2
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:32 PM
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^ this and/or general neediness and unattractive behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:55 PM
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So you otherize people who consume red pill and manosphere content, and believe that every person that does "lack[s] fundamental inherent social skills"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:28 AM
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There is a huge flawed gap of logic from "what advice would you give to someone struggling with dating" to "people who need advice on how to organically connect lack fundamental inherent social skills". Everyone wants something when dating. That's why there's /r/datingoverthirty, /r/dating (each over 1 million subscribers). To insinuate that people having a motive and asking for advice means they're fundamentally (and permanently) deficient in some way is an impressively bad take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:35 AM
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Yes, basically all women like rough sex. No, they don't know how to express. Yes, posting this on a forum will get all kinds of people shaming you and feeding you with bs misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:31 PM
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"women with that little self-respect" big oof right there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:29 PM
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Have them hang out with me, we'll get em some chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:32 PM
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People that make being tall their identity are kind of weird and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:16 PM
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The question was what is masculinity and I answered with a definition and multiple examples. Again, going to the gym in the context of an ambitious goal is masculine because it is inconvenient, painful, and time consuming but according to your vision you've decided that you must go despite these setbacks. I view masculinity and femininity as spectrums, every person has some of both. But generally speaking men are more competitive and ambitious, women are more cooperative and empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:25 AM
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Masculinity is having an ethical code of conduct, and following it even when it's difficult, inconvenient, or unpopular with others. E.g. you don't feel like going to the gym, but because you decided it's important and healthy to be in shape, you do it. Or there's a girl you like, or that you think may be into you; you ask her out or (if you're on a date) invite her back to your place even if you might be embarrassed from the rejection. Masculinity is getting back from an 8 hour job, and applyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:28 AM
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I was in a relationship with a girl; after the honeymoon phase when we started becoming more familiar with each other I would get congested a lot. Would sneeze, snore, had a stuffy nose. She would look at me and call me `snotty` in a degrading way. "Look at disgusting little snotty", "snotty being snotty", "aww little snotty has to blow his nose". "Hey snotty, how was your day today?" I told her this was disrespectful, that I didn't appreciate it and it hurt my feelings. I followed the mainstrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:56 AM
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I think you just have your head too far up your ass to reach any common understanding or empathy. I understand you perfectly; you don't understand me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:05 AM
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"only one partner is compromising" Where does this happen exactly? Men have to plan date nights, run errands, give up sexual exclusivity, show up on trips he/she plans,. know & support her plans/goals/personality etc. Speaking generally, men aren't demanding like women. We don't give a shit if the toilet seat is up or down, but women do, nor do we care if a picture is hanging crooked, or if the toilet roll is on the sink instead of in the holder. All these little demands on unimportant shit beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:22 AM
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Yeah, all these are valid w/r/t women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:35 PM
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By all means please do; go string along bp guys you aren't actually interested in, and waste their time and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:40 AM
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Yeah, and it works fantastic; I get to date girls that are truly into me, and have a great time together. Much better than wasting hundreds of dollars over a couple dinner dates on some lukewarm chick who really wants someone else the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:39 AM
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Ime girls always push for exclusivity before me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:33 AM
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Basically you accept that life and dating is difficult so you work hard, become sexy, and bang the shit out of girls that really want to fuck you. Good times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:57 AM
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RP men aren't angry about it; they understand it and use it to their advantage. Usually BP women & men will accuse a RP man of being angry or hurt when they say something that paints them in a negative light ("men shouldn't take high n-count women seriously for a long-term partner", "women settle for men they marry and don't have sex with them because they're not attracted to them").
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:31 PM
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The point is that women (and you) get mad at men for judging them based on how many people they've had sex with. Women will also judge men for how many people they've had sex with ("maybe if you acted XYZ you'd get girls", "I bet you've never had a girlfriend", etc.). "Maybe if you didn't feel competition" She's still insulting him based on his sexual habits, which by your post should be condemned and which you argue is uniquely about male competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:58 AM
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I used to care because I took dating more seriously and was more likely to commit. Girls with high n-counts have been with lots of guys, so why should you be any different? All the data points in the past haven't worked out, so it likely won't work with you. There's a study that showed women with more than 10 partners had a 35% of divorcing, compared to 25% for 1 partner. These are all just different arguments, but innately it's kind of apparent that promiscuous women aren't appealing as long-te…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:16 PM
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It's so ironic that some women criticize RP for things like AWALT (and don't accept any reasonable interpretations of it), but then use the most negative judgments (ignoring everything else) to make sweeping generalizations about a large amount of men that find some truth in RP ideas. It's like hello, we are people too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:01 PM
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Lol you are precious. Smoke a blunt (weed with a swisher wrapper) with friends sometime; it's a great experience to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:28 AM
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Nah I've seen this happen to normal, healthy relationships. The girls will egg on her friend to dump her boyfriend because "she can do so much better" even though the guy is nice, has a decent job, and is fun to be around. Really just kind of messing up the social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:22 AM
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Lol, upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:56 AM
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Nice, seems like the best case would be to get with a younger, prime-masculine years guy (e.g. 23 - 29)? Then you get the sexiest guy at an age where you can have the best sex (theoretically, since you're off the market lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:55 AM
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Nice. You have any cougar goals in 2022 and beyond? Lol. I'm curious about sexuality as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:23 AM
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Just look at any dumbass netflix show where the guy (eg Ari from Entourage) in a corporate setting acts like a dick. Women eat that shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:13 AM
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Stacy how hot are you irl? Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:09 AM
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Facts, foreplay is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:08 AM
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I'm really surprised this is a common thing. Maybe I'm a prude? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:07 AM
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Yeah, sexually judgmental guys take big Ls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:06 AM
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I've broken up two fights in my life. One was two guys, where one fled with his buddies immediately after I stepped in. The other was two girls; after separating the one that was getting her ass beat, she ran right back and started fighting the other girl again. From then on, I've cared a lot less about intervening in fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:03 AM
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After reading your comment, for some reason the magic mike theme song started playing in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:01 AM
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This is facts: women get turned on by violence, dominance, and toxic, gratuitous demonstrations of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:57 AM
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Some guys take the scenic route
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:54 AM
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This is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:49 AM
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how is this getting validation from men? It's critical of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:43 AM
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I'm a sex-obsessed primate: my life got much better when I accepted that and told women that rather than pretending otherwise. I definitely think I'm different from other guys though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:03 AM
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Bad-faith tone aside, yes she is absolutely winning twice when a man marries her today: (1) a lifelong commitment and complete control over a man's sexual expression, as well as (2) financial reward if/when she decides to cut loose on the whole "death do us part" contract. Note: this isn't all marriages, but it also isn't a small minority (~40% end in divorce in US) so men need to be aware of the phenomenon of divorce rape (marriage where opportunistic, selfish woman forcefully extracts as much …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:21 PM
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Do what the top 20% do. Workout, eat right, excel in your career, have good style/skin care, socials. Be social, enjoy life. Maybe have another hobby/passion. Most important thing is to work on your weaknesses, rather than retreat into video games/internet etc. All doable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:40 PM
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To answer your rhetorical/pointed question literally, it wasn't in doubt (though this differs from your original position that "girls like physically attractive men" -- girls may not "like" them because they aren't good ltr partners). ​ What was in doubt was the fact that plain/average guys weren't attractive because: ​ movies/women say "everyone is attractive", "be yourself", "all bodies are beautiful", "dad bods are hot", rather than "get shredded and muscular". See any romcom in the early 200…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:50 PM
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It's gaslighting by women who say "everyone is attractive", "be yourself", "all bodies are beautiful", "dad bods are hot", rather than "get shredded and muscular". In characteristic fashion, this belief is now blamed on men ("lack of empathy or ability") that listened to women in the first place. Gaslighting at its finest. Edit: I take back the gaslighting remark; I think this is written by a dude. Apologies ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:13 PM
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Bad girl *smacks ass*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:36 AM
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Had to scroll down to get the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:44 PM
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We live in a "rape culture", did you forget?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:38 PM
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That's true technically, but what ends up happening is every guy thinks that his girl "would never do that" and their defense mechanism allows for EWALT to miss the truth. Hence, AWALT, because new or blue-pill guys tell us some story where their SO is obviously being a ho, but the guy says "my girl's different" or "my gf would never do that". In response we say AWALT to slap those silly guys in the face that "yes, your girl who is sneaking out on nights and guarding her phone is in fact getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:36 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:27 PM
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would you cheat on your partner with a celebrity if you had the opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:11 PM
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Hell yeah! I try to dick her down the first chance I get ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:08 PM
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lol ​ !subscribe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:05 PM
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But they can make themselves more desirable. And the more desirable, the less bs they have to deal with. So it's actually a win-win: girl gets a hot guy, guy deals with less drama/bs/waffling over whether she wants to be/sleep with him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:02 PM
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hey gurl ​ - normal guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:56 PM
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WTF did I just read!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:56 PM
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It holds men back from accomplishing things; performing, leading, weightlifting etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:30 PM
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I think something that's not remarked on or consciously valued in today's society is a man's decisiveness. This isn't to say that women can't be as decisive as men, or that being decisive is inherently a good thing, but it's a relatively common characteristic I've found in men and there's a certain staidness or firmness that comes with it that I think women are drawn to. When I'm with a woman and we're hanging out, it's clear what we're doing and why. There's a definite plan -- maybe she even pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:35 PM
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PREPARE THE RUBBERS GENTLEMENT
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 03:17 PM
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Thanks man, I actually tried this earlier when I was feeling kind of down (right after I made this post). Ended up figuring something out on the project I was working on, and am feeling pretty good! Trying little things is key. Just had to have some initial willpower to refrain from checking my phone or thinking about dates (or maybe just needed time to meditate on the thoughts by writing this post and thinking).
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:40 AM
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Thanks bro, it's hard to do. I usually overthink about spending money when trying a new hobby (dropped a lot of money on photography and music, so that's kind of bumming me out right now). Definitely doesn't have to be expensive to explore different purposes though, will do. One question if you don't mind: how did you manage having a career with exploring and finding your purpose? Seems like there's very few things you can do that will allow you to earn a decent living
/r/askTRP09/08/20 04:33 AM
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I absolutely do: the thing is I'm actually into whatever activity I'm doing, maybe it's just that women/video games activates dopamine faster. Also, I find social stuff/dynamics really interesting (was particularly good at studying English in college, but didn't pursue it as a career bc it doesn't pay). Do you have advice for treating addictive personality?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 04:30 AM
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That's a good way to schedule a date. You should have enough of a pipeline where you are asking multiple girls for a time slot/weekend, and one will say yes. If she says she's busy, proceed as usual then invite her again the following slot/next week or something (e.g. she's one of several possible candidate). Though if she flatly declines, odds are she's not that interested, so the problem most likely lies in what happened before you invited her for drinks. If she's really interested, she will s…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 04:28 AM
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Oh of course, she's still like a 9 out of 10 in the hotness scale. But she used to be a 10. And now the male 10s aren't going for her and she's upset. On an objective standpoint, she's out of my league. But she's not talking to me: she's talking to the male 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 06:42 AM
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Oh I see. I don't think men are calling her a bimbo (ironically -- or not, since women shame other women -- Toni was the one that called younger hot women "bimbos"), but what they are pointing out is that Toni was a hot girl (Toni uses "bimbo" to bring them down), but now she is not, and is lashing out because she is getting older and finding out she can't compete with them in the sexual marketplace (e.g. attractive men aren't choosing her, they're choosing younger hot women). She's coming to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 06:26 AM
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She's trying to shame men for not being attracted to her, it did not come across as "[t]his is objectively strange" because she specifically stated "men are trash" because they don't date her and her friends and then trying to lecture said men on how they should behave and who they should date. Lecturing and complaining to the other sex on who they should date is pointless, tacky, and offputting. It's like when a nice guy/incel complains that women don't find him attractive and then says that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:59 AM
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why would a man want to find a wife? That's like offering advice for women how to get a dick pic. Not hard (heh)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:22 AM
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Exactly, for me (horny straight dude) looks will get you 95% there, but if your personality is awful you will screw it up. Like, imagine being a 10 looks-wise but being so obviously ill-mannered that you turn everyone off around you and even manage to get horny dudes to go "hell no" to having sex with you. It's like shooting the ball on an empty net and missing the goal. Like, why the **** would you do this? She showcased -- no literally broadcasted -- her shitty personality to the ENTIRE WORLD.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:09 AM
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For me, the main exception to the 3 dates rule is if the girl has a low n-count, traditional/religious beliefs, is shy etc, but even then she is still breaking her rules ("wow he fingered me on the third date thats never happened"). The point is that if things aren't progressing by the third date physically, she's not really into you physically (e.g. she just likes the attention/meals/dates). For virtually all men this is a dealbreaker. ​ a woman who isn't fucking within 3 dates isn't truly attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:57 AM
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Female rp is mainstream society; ie any movie or fairy tale. RP resulted because there wasn't enough emphasis on male mating strategy in mainstream media, and because guys communicate logically and (over)pedantically. So RP is a collection of observations, experiments, rules to live by in order to achieve certain outcomes. Maybe a womens' group will come together and codify a more rigid system of behavior with men and that would be female rp, but for the time being mainstream media is the body o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 10:18 PM
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