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Honestly once you read one book of the seduction genre, the positive effect the rest will have on you diminishes. Just read one and then move on to other informative books on subjects that interest you. Try to use the knowledge you learn in conversations and suddenly everyone wants to talk with you and likes you because you're the smartest in the group now, the one who knows the world.
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:15 AM
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It just means you hang around girls more often than guys. It shouldn't have any meaning other than just knowing yourself for being slightly uncomfortable near men. These things happen and that's fine.
/r/seduction24/04/17 04:10 PM
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Don't try to retain attraction. Just never stop building it.
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:11 PM
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I don't think any of my first kisses were of anyone's initiative. You just notice her looking at your lips, biting her own and pushing her head forwards. You mimic that, get closer and kiss. You do ask for a kiss but only through body language, not verbally.
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:09 PM
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You are completely correct. The 'JBY' line is used by people who don't really know what it means as a meaningless sentence that somehow is suppose to help others. Anyway how can you not be yourself? Get a new body? New mind? You can't do that. You are yourself and that's the fact. What you need to do is be comfortable with that fact. Accept it as your friend and utilize it for your own good. Focus on things you love, accept and laugh at your flaws like they're nothing. What's making you likeable…
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:18 PM
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Don't mention it! You'll experience more in time and you'll understand it all
/r/seduction04/03/17 05:12 PM
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I'll just tell you what one girl told me "If I didn't like you I would've already cut your head off and beat the crap out of you" And she was one of the shyer girls I've met. You have absolutely nothing to worry about, throw those fears out of the window because she does like you. The point is that it's going to be obvious if she won't like you. Of course she isn't going to beat you but she is going to harden her body when you try to hug her and generally stay away from you. None of that applies…
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:58 PM
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Don't take everything you know for granted, things like this are especially fluid between people. Some need sex to connect, others think that sex kills connection. It's wrong to say that all relationships start with sex, maybe all your relationships started this way. Be wise and supportive, make sure you know exactly if she wants to have sex(possibly lose her virginity to you) by casually brining the topic up or indirectly picking it up from her body language. Not exactly sure you want me to ans…
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:12 PM
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Don't worry, you'll get used to being a hot girls magnet. Welcome aboard!
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:32 PM
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/u/Bongoringo144 already posted the "keep radio silence" side of things so I'll spice things up by presenting the other side and why you might actually want to text her. You said she was shy and for this texting can easily expand both your comfort zones and push her further to interact with you and even express more desire towards you. Trust especially for shy people is essential. Text her but remain calm and don't be needy. Initiate a conversation once, wait a bit before replying to her, and do…
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:59 AM
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"Hi"
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:53 AM
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This is something often overlooked, great post. Your words must be consistent with your actions
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:52 AM
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Each one and his own time. You'll know when the moment arrives.
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:46 AM
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I am attracted to what I find good-looking and who I find has interesting and great personalities regardless of their looks. So the answer is no. You just have a high internal bar which is completely normal. I'm guessing you're asking mostly because you're curious and not because you think that you are strange.
/r/seduction25/02/17 06:17 AM
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The whole "feet pointing to your direction" is mistakenly branded as a sign of interest. While it can indirectly mean a girl likes you, what it really means is that the girl is concentrated in you and is listening to what you say. It's one of the most reliable signs to look at when you want to see if someone is listening to you but it's definitely not reliable when it comes to liking you. You're telling one of your male friends an exciting story and they turn their entire body towards you. Are t…
/r/seduction25/02/17 06:13 AM
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Kino, so much kino. And don't only touch girls you talk with also touch guys and touch everyone. Touch them on the shoulder, arms and hold their hands while talking. Start practicing this by touching people's arms on the side and get used to touching even more areas of the body. Learn yourself which touches give you the most positive feedback.
/r/seduction02/02/17 07:09 PM
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You ask her
/r/seduction02/02/17 07:33 AM
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Sounds like you already settled on one of three goals. I encourage you to keep with your word on focusing more on daygame. Clean your mind from thoughts and anxiety, take deep breathes and focus on your target. Good luck!
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:35 PM
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Do you even know what you are? You are a free man, don't feel pressured to do anything. as /u/DariusSSfJ already said, you shouldn't go to clubs if you don't want to. Do only the things you want to do. Work towards making your life better for your own future alone. Take Sunday off and sit alone with a piece of paper and a pen. Think of everything you want to do in life, everything you want to be, even if it's "I want to be an astronaut" write it down. Scroll through that endless list and pick th…
/r/seduction07/01/17 04:30 PM
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/u/Jacob_961 summed it up pretty well. All I can add is that you should start reading the sidebar.
/r/seduction25/12/16 01:09 PM
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Separate pickup and work. If you so wish, then try daygame before or after your shift. And one more thing: you mentioned that people in your town get married by 25, this doesn't concern you, some get married at 50 some get married at 16, all is well.
/r/seduction25/12/16 01:04 PM
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I used to consider myself below average, until I started taking care of my looks and became a nice above average with an added personality.
/r/seduction25/11/16 05:59 PM
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Assumption: Realizing that not all girls reciprocate and as long as they don't back off it's still fine Seductive Personality: Experimenting with being needy VS not being needy and seeing in my own eyes how much being needy makes girls indifferent towards you and ignore you. Opportunity: Ironically noting that not being needy loses you opportunities(Met a girl with a ukulele, I was excited about the ukulele and that she let me play but forgot to game the obviously receptive girl)
/r/seduction25/11/16 05:56 PM
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Nope. Heck might as well say the friendzone doesn't exist and just play by the rules of either they like your or not. In your case? They like you, game on
/r/seduction25/11/16 05:49 PM
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Who said you have to need something to want to get it? There's a difference between Needing and Wanting: one's a dependency, the other is just normal human behaviour.
/r/seduction26/10/16 06:48 AM
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That's called Paranoia. When you first meet something they're indifferent to you, which luckily is also a good state to socialize with new people. Read about mindset/inner game from the sidebar and jump into the self-improvement journey. Remember: It's not about the goal, but about the journey
/r/seduction26/10/16 06:07 AM
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If she's trying to play games with you and puts obstacles, you should just walk calmly like these obstacles don't even exist. She doesn't give you a proper response to when you want to kiss her? Just kiss her without asking, it's not like you two aren't familiar with that. Continue ignoring her cold responses and only back away if she's honestly rejecting your moves instead of being playful.
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:11 PM
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