Hi_From_London Archive

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3	How do people get into situations to hookup and how do they escalate? Isolate them (in a good way!). On dates, go to two or three venues. The last one should be candle lit or dark, where you can sit side by side. Get closer and closer. I've talked to girls with my head side by side to hers, ears touching, before moving her round. Hook her leg over yours. Flirtation is gradual escalation. Rarely good to "lunge". The first does take a little bit of a gamble, but ideally by then you know she's willing you on	/r/seduction	22/08/25 04:33 PM
2	Guy came over but no action. What did I do wrong? Should I try again, and if so, how? Don't just tell him. Takes the fun out of it. Seduce. Wear slutty clothing. Ask for a back massage. Sexualise the conversation. Show him how to bachata dance. Let him feel like he's seducing you.	/r/seduction	25/01/25 11:49 PM
86	Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them? Too needy. The fun for her is in the guessing. It's like turning the lights up in a cinema during a movie. Breaks the spell. Show, don't tell	/r/seduction	03/01/25 10:17 AM
6	Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle down And why does she want the guy? This post is a well-informed take on the mechanics of female decision making	/r/seduction	01/01/25 09:40 PM
2	How do I ask a guy friend that I wanna make out & possibly hookup with him later ? Alternative view... bluntly stating desire ruins the tension. Don't do it. The game is to make him feel he's seducing you	/r/seduction	24/12/24 09:29 PM
7	First attempt at a two mans need help A two mans? A double date? Speak English man!	/r/seduction	21/07/24 01:42 PM
3	How do you put a girl in the friendzone but keep her in "reserve"? When she sees you with other girls she'll get interested (social proof). Just make it clear you think she's cute too. Will drive her crazy	/r/seduction	17/06/24 07:16 PM
1	I have a date with the biggest crush of my life in a few days. Any tips on how to play it cool? When speaking, slow down. Have a list of things to talk about so you don't dry up. Be a man on a mission. Just wibbling about yourself isn't enough. She needs to see you are a guy who can accomplish things. But what? Sexualise early on in the conversation End the messaging, and the date, before she does. Keep her guessing	/r/seduction	05/06/24 02:53 PM
1	How do I turn a platonic conversation into a flirty one? Flirting is the art of escalation with plausible deniability. In the early stages just make her laugh. Misunderstand in silly ways. Exaggerate. If things work, you'll develop riffs and themes. Intrigue her with your fascinating lifestyle. Do not "lunge". Ie, go from zero to 60 in three seconds. Build up slowly.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 07:56 AM
21	How to slide into the DM's effectively? This man is harsh. But he talks sense	/r/seduction	19/07/22 07:17 PM
0	She sends me her photos, selfies, random tiktok videos ,but upon talking to her she only replies ''yes'' ''hahahahah' should I stop talking to her? Ring her. Yup. It's a game changer. A lot of girls send simple emojis, but the exchange is shallow. When she sends something, message her - Hang on, I'm going to ring you (to avoid non-answering scenario!) but she'll be delighted. It takes thing to a new level.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 11:32 AM
5	Age 20 Never had a gf and socially awkward Softly softly! I have female friends in their twenties - v hot - who've never had a relationship worthy of the name. Don't believe the movies (and even this site). It's a chaotic world, and everyone has their own story. At 20 you are just getting started. My suggestion: run a twin strategy. Sure, shoot for a girlfriend. But also learn how to make female friends (non stunners are okay, as they will have hot friends). When you are used to hanging out with girls, the rest will slowly fall into plac…	/r/seduction	28/02/21 04:27 PM
5	How to react to nudes or other sexy pics? Actually a really good question. So hard to know the right answer	/r/seduction	26/02/21 01:45 PM
29	Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later. Join a club or Meetup (next year, obvs!) The number of amazing girls I've met at unusual events, such as language meetups or even a debating society in Norway, opened my eyes. Plus people who turn up are also looking for friends (often new to the country). Even the more homely looking girls will have hot friends. Oh, and learn a language. Gives you a new circle of friends almost immediately Note: bars suck. You will not make friends there, unless you are attending an event.	/r/seduction	09/12/20 10:02 AM
3	Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys? Join clubs. Yoga. Language learning (some of the hottest girls I've ever met have been through language meetups, and there's zero competition). Even stuff like film clubs. Musical instruments are magic. Teach a girl to play the duet from Heart and Soul and you're 99% of the way there. Get female friends. How? Start with a few male friends. Find an excuse (Superbowl, birthday, friday post-work drinks, whatever) and say "Me and a few friends are hanging out at place X, come if you like" and she'll…	/r/seduction	09/11/20 11:46 AM
30	Approached my crush after 3 years of wanting to do it... Much better this way. Start small. Keep saying Hi. Quick chat. It's a myth that you need to go in all guns blazing. Almost never works. My tip: tell her you're going to a bar with friends sometime (eg, friend's birthday, and she should come along. She can bring her friends). Tell her she seems like fun and might enjoy it. Keep the commitment required from her low. Escalate slowly.	/r/seduction	04/03/20 02:08 PM
2	Guys a little help here? We need updates!	/r/seduction	17/10/18 09:43 AM
4	Guys a little help here? Have you met her before? Ideally set up a date. Long texting isn't ideal. Something like "Glad you like my fashion sense. I want to check out yours. There's an awesome bar/band on X street. You want to hang out on Thursday?"	/r/seduction	16/10/18 06:19 PM
21	Guys a little help here? "But it's so silky smooth. And you should see the suspenders. I'd make a killing as a rent boy. Kerching!" You've got to keep it playful, and keep your frame. She's all over the place. You are off having a good time no matter what.	/r/seduction	16/10/18 12:07 PM
1	Would it be a bad idea to do cold-approaches in high school The whole point of a cold approach is that it shouldn't feel like that. Start with the premise that you kind of already know each other, and are just carrying on talking as friends. Then, slowly escalate over future meetings. Just say something like, "Hey, I like your shoes" and keep the conversation fun and light. Then end it before she gets board and wants to walk away. They key thing is confidence and frame. If you come across as normal and self-assured they'll pick up on that. A female frien…	/r/seduction	02/10/18 12:48 PM
1	Got blackout drunk. Made out with this cute girl. Got her number. Forgot her name. How do I start texting her? Tell her you need to email her something funny. Her email will have her name.	/r/seduction	07/08/15 09:38 PM