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1

Fair enough, I suppose so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 08:14 PM
1

No, don't waste your time. Move on to other that you are more interested in. Every day you waste on this one is a day lost for other experiences.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:44 PM
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I'd bet it wasn't the change of plans, that was probably just the pretext. Wash your hands of her and move on.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:36 PM
2

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 04:49 AM
2

Oh, I suppose what I'm getting at is something like living in accordance with our nature. Living in ways where our needs are met through genuine interactions with others as opposed to through easy and ultimately low quality replacements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 04:17 AM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 04:14 AM
5

Are you suggesting that a life filled with masturbating into a lifeless object is meaningful?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 03:37 AM
3

Living a meaningful life including relationships with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 03:18 AM
1

Maybe you think they are unattainable, so you sour grapes them.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 02:46 AM
3

Its just another meaningless distraction from real life. Video games, porn, and social media are substitutes for doing things with actual people that ultimately keep men from achieving a tiny fraction of their potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 02:42 AM
3

They will benefit the men who now have less competition for actual women. They will harm the men who use them but removing them from the real game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 01:07 AM
8

Instead of 20% of men getting 80% of the women, 10% of men will get 90% of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 12:52 AM
1

I guess I've read totally different stuff than you then because I've never heard anyone talking about a software developer being the archetype for an alpha. Or saying anything that could even be interpreted that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 06:26 PM
1

Okay, so what "cracks you up" about TRP's notion of the stoic alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 06:18 PM
1

Its not that you are making it too simple. You are making it too complicated. Normal male hormones result in an outrageously high sex drive. Don't worry about "addiction" bullshit. Let that sex drive push you toward what you have to do to get laid, ie: reasonable looks, social skills, income. Those things that will attract women are good for your life in general also.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:17 PM
1

Is it wrong for a man to try to move closer toward the ideal of "stoic alpha?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 06:13 PM
1

I can really only answer #1) totally normal. Its there to drive you to achieve.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:52 PM
0

Do you believe there is no such thing as a stoic alpha? Is a stoic alpha bad for some reason? What cracks you up about that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 05:39 PM
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What does "natural alpha" mean to you? Would someone who bases important decisions on temporary emotional states possibly be alpha depending on other attributes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 04:57 PM
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he is the single most alpha man I have ever met in my life He is tossed in a sea of emotion. Well, which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 04:52 PM
9

Gotta be upfront about it man. The best way to avoid problems is to manage expectations from the beginning. It sounds like this strategy is working for you. Don't fix what isn't broken because there MIGHT be a marginally better way if you take on some new big risk. Oh, and Jake sounds jealous to me. He's not providing any info, just calling you "weak" and then gaslighting about how "obvious" it all is.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 04:45 PM
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She's in a long-distance relationship? Game on - that relationship is toast.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:34 PM
0

I only get nervous about talking to absolute drop dead 10's Why are you nervous?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 01:27 PM
4

Have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy and did you do all the exercises? Have you read The Book of Pook? Do you have a group of fun guys you hang out with?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:21 PM
1

Action dates. Take her rock climbing, or fishing, or something fun that YOU want to do. Sure we would like to just say "Hi" and immediately start pounding every time we meet our girl, but its not ridiculous for an LTR to also involve non-sex. Just don't be a bitch about it. Don't ask her what she wants to do, just make fun plans and "invite" her to join you.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 01:18 PM
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I was confused about that part, but figured out she meant that she started dating him just after turning 20 and is now 26. She also said she did sleep with a few other guys before this relationship so, I'd guess that means 12 or so (lol). I'd smack the guy for "letting himself go a bit" and needing his woman to lead him into dressing better and improving himself. But, yeah I can't really fault this girl for having the totally natural feelings of wanting the CC. She is being honest and open about…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:10 PM
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am I bound to be like this forever? Probably not, but either way is okay. Most people eventually pair bond, but some don't. Its probably hard for you to accept simply because all the messages in society tell you over and over in obvious and subtle ways that you are supposed to find "the one" and then live "happily ever after." You will likely find someone you want to do that with eventually, but if not its okay. Just accept who you are right now (a guy that wants to bang lots of hot girls withou…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:53 PM
1

Not sure if anyone can ever really be OI if its something they care about. Recognizing the fact that everything you care about passionately will turn to shit and everything you are just fucking around with and having fun with turns to gold helps. You have to kill your ego and just be the kind of man that does the kinds of things that leads to having the things you want in your life. That's how you become OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 04:53 AM
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those arent easy things to find in a girl. You have MUCH to learn about MRP. Next her and consider it a bullet dodged.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 04:48 AM
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Break up now so you don't waste her or your time because the relationship is over. You should not have a long distance relationship. You should find other girls. There is no reason to delay the inevitable.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:33 AM
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Have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy? If you freeze up like that it probably means you put others' needs before your own.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:18 PM
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Well then fucking find that ones that aren't like that.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:39 PM
6

She just is a strong willed woman and thinks of every reason to not have sex No, its that she is not attracted to you. She doesn't want to have sex with you and when she finally does allow it, its just out of pity. If you are sufficiently disgusted with yourself, learn how to make her attracted to you again. There are some simple steps you can take that will turn it completely around.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:37 PM
1

Lift, read the sidebar, and do interesting things in your life that you can connect to people with.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:29 PM
2

All?
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:26 PM
1

What does "focus on myself" mean?
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:39 AM
1

For convincing a woman to try: we talked about for a while and she seemed intrigued, but too nervous. So I suggested that we go to a swing club and just look around, talk to some people, and see what it was like - no play, just research. We did that and found that the people there were really warm, welcoming, and fun. So we stuck to our promise to just look, but then made a trip back to the club for more later. For playtime itself, there are some basic rules: always arrive at the party together …
/r/askMRP30/08/17 04:03 AM
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My wife and I were swingers for a few years and it was a great experience. We are still married and have a solid relationship. The strange thing is that it was before I discovered red pill, so I'm impressed with my former self for being able to pull that off. I've always been the leader and have a higher SMV, so even while purple pill I was able to talk her into opening up our marriage. We stopped because we had a couple of bad experiences where I was a little bitch after not getting what I want…
/r/askMRP29/08/17 01:31 AM
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I haven't dealt with this particular issue, so I don't have advice on it. I'm sure others around here could chime in on it.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:33 PM
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There certainly are some truths about female psychology buried in here, but its definitely not a "average woman's" life. MGTOWs outrageously magnify things due to their severe butthurt, so when a woman gets treated well just because of her looks, they see this entire story unfold in their minds and become enraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 03:30 PM
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100% don't go raw. This can be fixed. It's not worth the risk of 18 years of child support payments and baby-momma-drama.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:26 PM
5

Well, she almost certainly sent them to some Chad out there. If you confront her about them, she will certainly accuse you of snooping to try to turn it back around on you. Then she may start the "trickle truth" process. What would you do if you learned that she sent them to some other guy?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:19 PM
3

She is playing silly games. Forget about her. The sooner you start ignoring her the sooner you'll find other girls to pursue. If she hooks up with your coach - who cares? Its none of your business.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:14 PM
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Why were you snooping on her laptop?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:10 PM
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Its certainly possible to get over some insecurities and get some basic experience with women that way. Just don't go down the road of thinking that paying for it is good enough and its not worth starting real interactions with girls.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:08 PM
0

Is alcohol involved? If so, don't drink next time. Alcohol can make that happen.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:06 PM
10

"last time she had sex was with her ex bf 2 years ago and it was amazing and she wants something similar" Alpha-widowed. Not worth it. Keep working on yourself and ignore this one.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:44 AM
2

"never talk to me again" sure doesn't sound like ASD to me!
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:04 AM
1

This guide is an attempt to overwrite human nature with a ridiculous set of steps that totally kill the sexual tension and mood. I would only give it to a child about to start college as an example of how screwed up our society is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 04:35 AM
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"My DNGAF reaction would be to let her know I'm disgusted, in the calmest way possible." Don't give a fuck = disgust? Are you sure you know the meanings of all those words? Dude, you started a fun, naughty conversation about a sexual topic, she continued what you started, and then you shit all over it. You should have asked her if she could feel the boners of those guys who's laps she sat in cause they definitely had one.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 04:51 PM
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You should read all the sidebar. You say you have read some of it, but come on...does your behavior indicate that you have internalized the lessons? Did you do all the exercises from the first two you listed? I bet not. You have a vast amount of work to do on yourself before you can handle a relationship. This post is simply dripping with beta feels. Every sentence is you putting down roots in the center of her frame. I'm not trying to bash you, I'm just trying to get you to realize that you can…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 04:45 PM
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Okay, good luck.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:42 PM
1

Which level of dread are you on right now? (You are running dread game, RIGHT??)
/r/askMRP24/08/17 04:36 PM
11

From the judge: “These false allegations of rape, false allegations which will inevitably be widely publicised, are likely to have the perverse impact of increasing the likelihood of guilty men going free. “Cases such as this bring a real risk that a woman who has been raped or sexually assaulted may not complain to the police for fear of not being believed.” How about this instead, judge . . . “These false allegations of rape, false allegations which will inevitably be widely publicised, are li…
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 04:25 PM
2

Have you heard about shit tests?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:23 PM
4

From the judge: “These false allegations of rape, false allegations which will inevitably be widely publicised, are likely to have the perverse impact of increasing the likelihood of guilty men going free. “Cases such as this bring a real risk that a woman who has been raped or sexually assaulted may not complain to the police for fear of not being believed.” How about this instead, judge . . . “These false allegations of rape, false allegations which will inevitably be widely publicised, are li…
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 04:06 PM
1

"FWB?" What benefits? Blue balls is a benefit? Stay away from single mothers. Not worth it. Why did it take her grabbing your dick before you thought about whether you would fuck her or not?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 03:46 PM
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Has she turned you down for any dates? Have you asked her to do anything? Is this all just about texting and talking through the week while you are both busy? It sounds to me like you are making more of this than there is. Set up a plan to do something this weekend and see how she replies.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 05:46 AM
3

The thing you did right was not telling her that you want an LTR with her just to try to bang asap. You have to manage expectations correctly, so good on you for that.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 05:41 AM
2

"Used you" by fucking you? Are you a girl? By seeking revenge you are giving into your weakness. Don't feed that part of yourself. Learn about what you did wrong, commit to never make those same mistakes again and move on.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 03:18 AM
2

"she was a total bitch the first 6 months" Why would you want to be around her? "how should I act in order to have her crawl back to me eventually" Ahhh - revenge. Ghost her, move on with your life.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:21 AM
1

"i have no idea why she would even say that" Do you imagine you will know why girls say what they say all the time?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:18 AM
2

Only reengage if you also have a couple other girls you are attempting to plate. If she is your only target currently, then put it on hold till you find another.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:15 AM
1

That's 13 "so's!" I wouldn't have taken you seriously if you only put 12. "The Rational Male."
/r/askTRP23/08/17 06:37 PM
3

Fully aware that this may be a troll post . . . . sounds like you need to read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi, STAT!
/r/askTRP23/08/17 06:29 PM
2

Ditch them whenever they are not benefitting you anymore.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:57 PM
2

Of course women prefer men who have a high SMV. Of course men should always strive to have a higher SMV. How could it be otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:29 PM
10

Simple - don't allow yourself to ever feel oneitis and you will be protected from any strategy they may use on you. Rule: whenever you feel yourself becoming emotionally invested in a girl, go out and find two others to have a first date with.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:13 PM
4

Some men NEVER learn what you now know. You are now vastly more knowledgeable about male & female dynamics than most other guys. Don't wallow in self pity or anger about this - rejoice that you now have the knowledge and power to improve your life in a way most can only dream of.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:40 PM
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