HighPitchedHegemony Archive

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1	Is swimming classes a good place to meet women (in your early-mid 20s)? Any hobby you enjoy is a good way to meet new people and make friends and more. I mean, everything is better than shitty dating apps. Swimming could work because it makes you hungry, so I guess it could be easy to organize a small group of people to grab something to eat afterwards and hang out. The easy way in situations like this is to first befriend another guy and make plans with him to grab something to eat afterwards. Then invite more people to make it a low-pressure social situation.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 04:04 AM
13	How do you make a female give you a kiss me signal Escalation ladder. You don't have to wait for a specific signal. Just check how comfortable she is with you touching her. Most people will accept short distracted touches at the shoulder or the arm. As she gets more comfortable with you (and if there is enough attraction) you can touch her longer, more deliberately and more intimately, e.g. upper back, hands, neck, upper leg, hair. If she's comfortable with more intimate touches, you can try to go for a kiss. Initiate the kiss by holding strong …	/r/seduction	11/08/24 03:45 AM
3	Girl I date have a lock screen picture of someone else So what? Unless it's a picture of Hitler or Stalin, I couldn't care less what a girl's lock screen looks like. If it bothers you, you can ask her the next time you notice it.	/r/seduction	08/07/24 05:50 AM
6	Neediness vs. being direct: Tell a woman "I want to fuck you". When you need to explicitly say "I want to fuck you", you failed at flirting. It should never be necessary to say it because your behavior should communicate it in a more subtle way. The way you look into her eyes, the way you speak, your body language... Doesn't mean you can't say it, but she should know either way.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 05:03 PM
5	Yoga class, what to do? I like your situational awareness and I generally agree, but it's perfectly fine to talk to the other people in the class. My advice would be to always be ten minutes early and talk to the girls waiting outside. Introduce yourself, talk about the instructor, ask a few Yoga things... Keep it casual for the first time you talk to a new girl. Next time you see her, you're already friends, you know each others names, so you can be a little more challenging and cocky. If they don't reciprocate, don't…	/r/seduction	17/06/24 05:42 AM
62	We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl. Game. Being confidently yourself and knowing how to flirt. Knowing how to make sex exciting. Having a fun life that women like to be part of.	/r/seduction	11/06/24 10:40 AM
0	I want to learn HOW TO LEARN to pick up girls / seduce girls Theory and practice. Read a book, watch a YouTube video, then go out and talk to a girl. What were your sticking points? Google those. Watch a video about the. Learn how to handle them. Repeat. Basically, just like any other skill. Google is your friend.	/r/seduction	27/04/24 07:35 PM
2	Best inner game mind switches? This. After getting a lot of rejections, I kind of stopped caring and stopped taking it personally. Like being stopped by a traffic light. Does it suck? Yes. Is there a reason to take it personally? No. Will it ruin your day? No. Can I just move on afterwards? Yes.	/r/seduction	23/04/24 10:56 AM
0	How to get really good with women? Well, how do you learn other things? Through theory and practice. Flirting and seduction are no exception. You try it out, fail, think about what went wrong, make a few Google searches to figure out how to do it better, and try again. Maybe you read a few books on the topic you want to learn. Maybe you find a YouTube channel that talks about it. Conflicting information? Well, think for yourself, compare the different perspectives, try out both approaches and see what works for you and what doesn…	/r/seduction	16/04/24 09:30 PM
2	There is not enough/ useful advice for texting on dating apps. Not here. Not anywhere I work remote I live in a country far from my family and friends I have 0 community, 1 proper friend in the city am living This is the real problem here and the thing you should be working on. Dating apps are just glorified mobile games designed to pull money out of your pocket. Most people I know - both genders - hate using them. I know I'm old-fashioned, but I like to meet people and hang out with them in real life. There are dozens of ways to do this that have nothing to do with clubbing.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 08:56 PM
24	If you’re desperate for a girl, come to remote China As a matter of fact, the whole "first world - third world" narrative is neither a useful nor an accurate way to classify countries. There is no gap, there's a continuous spectrum of countries between the least developed and the most developed and most countries are - no surprise if you know statistics - in the middle. I recommend the book "Factfulness" by Hans Rosling, it's a nice update to the stuff you learned in school about developing countries - stuff that was already outdated when your tea…	/r/seduction	15/04/24 06:40 PM
1	Is it alright if I just approach this girl I know and confess honestly? You don't "confess". I have no idea where people get the idea that this is part of the seduction process. I think it's a TV trope or whatever. Please don't confuse TV shows and real life.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 11:40 PM
2	Does Chat GPT have good game? I remember someone posting this GPT bot that he fed with pickup and dating advice books: https://chat.openai.com/g/g-g56f30obv-player-bits-your-digital-wingman Didn't try it out though.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 06:31 AM
73	How is seduction different for Gen Z? People always talk about how their age bracket, their culture, their country or their city are different, and it's never true. The things that work do work because of tens of thousands of years of human evolution.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 12:17 AM
15	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities I get the same feeling, but I attributed it to me not being in the loop anymore. When people ask me for pointers on good content, I always recommend the old free RSD YouTube content from around 2014, but most of those videos aren't even online anymore. I haven't heard of any recent books on seduction that are worth reading either.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 02:46 AM
1	What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriend Say something funny, and move on. Just handle it like a cool person would deal with it.	/r/seduction	24/03/24 09:00 AM
4	Are hotel bars great for sleeping with cougars Sounds more like something you would see in the movies.	/r/seduction	17/03/24 08:36 AM
15	What are the body language signs that indicates she is into you and what are the tricks to do to know if she is into you As long as she stays in the conversation (actively participating, answering questions, asking questions herself) and doesn't show signs of wanting to get away from you, just assume she's interested and curious about you. Of course you won't be able to tell that from afar, she will not even know it herself if you haven't talked to her yet. Sorry man, you just have to talk to girls, there's no secret shortcut to find out how she will respond to your approach.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 12:41 PM
26	What are the good books for dating tips? Why not use the search function? I just checked (took me 5 seconds) and there are dozens of threads with this exact question. There won't be a single book in this thread that wasn't mentioned in one of those other threads. Unless someone now suggests "The very hungry caterpillar" just to fuck with me.	/r/seduction	07/03/24 07:29 AM
6	Women have options! So, I realised I have to do something to make them choose me, and how do I do it? I can't point to any good ressources, I learned a lot of that from the old RSD content that was free on YouTube ten years ago. Not sure if these videos are still up. A good technique is to make a compliment along with a weak disqualifier. Like, when she asks about something very personal, you say "You know, just because you're cute doesn't mean I'll let you in on all my secrets" or something like that. The good old push and pull. Showing her that you like her, but also challenging her to show th…	/r/seduction	06/03/24 07:17 AM
17	Women have options! So, I realised I have to do something to make them choose me, and how do I do it? Girls will remember how you made them feel. You want fun and exciting interactions. That doesn't mean you need to be a clown, a great interaction can be mundane for 80% of the time, but you do need a few emotional spikes, e.g. teasing her, challenging her, expressing strong emotions, laughing, joking around, innuendo (if appropriate)...	/r/seduction	06/03/24 06:29 AM
59	Women have options! So, I realised I have to do something to make them choose me, and how do I do it? I dislike the word mindset as much as everyone else here, but in this case, I think it's important. This is a weak mindset to have. You chat up a woman, flirt with her and see if she reciprocates. If she responds poorly or doesn't appreciate it, you're wasting your time and should move on. Whether or not she has options doesn't matter at any point in this interaction. By the way, while it may be true that some girls have some options, most of their options suck. If you're a competent man who has…	/r/seduction	06/03/24 06:19 AM
5	How do we feel about Daygame? When I was still actively talking to girls, I did almost exclusively daygame. Much more relaxed, no competition because nobody has the balls to do it, and most girls were flattered to be approached during the day. Always felt like this is how a naturally cool guy would chat up girls.	/r/seduction	05/03/24 05:54 PM
1	Does anyone else not know if they are attractive or not? What if I'm actually retarded and everybody is just too nice to talk to me about it?!	/r/seduction	04/03/24 11:04 PM
3	Asking Women Out Has to Make Sense Great advice. In an indirect approach, my favorite line to turn a regular conversation into a flirt used to be you know, for a cute girl, you're pretty sassy/stubborn/nefarious/curious/... Basically, calling her cute, accompanied with a weak disqualifier, delivered in a surprised tone.	/r/seduction	22/02/24 07:02 AM
2	Are "Mystery Method" and "The Game" still up to date "Magic Bullets" by Savoy was good if I remember correctly, but it was expensive. Nobody seems to know "The Manual - What Women Want (and how to give it to them)" by W. Anton, but I remember it giving me a lot of new ideas. I also read a lot of shitty self-published books by dating coaches and self-proclaimed pick-up gurus back in the day. Some were on Kindle, others only available as PDF files from their websites. I remember many of them being really bad with weird and esoteric ideas and perspec…	/r/seduction	08/02/24 06:19 AM
0	Are "Mystery Method" and "The Game" still up to date No. I recommend The Game to people because it made me realize that seduction is a skill, and as such, can be learned and practiced. This was the missing piece for me. The methods described in the book are rather gimmicky although a beginner might get something out of the general direction the book provides. But you should definitely follow it up with more up-to-date content.	/r/seduction	07/02/24 03:44 AM