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I’d assume the 10/10 women who are more entertaining have stable boyfriends and are single less often. While 5/10 women who are entertaining are still less likely to be single than 5/10 who aren’t, but much more likely to be single than 10/10 entertaining women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:32 AM
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But when you analyze this data, you have a set methodology. You aren't just clicking on posts and screenshotting the comments that stick out to you. You probably have broken down the data like “x percent of comments from likely men can be categorized as this, while y percent can be categorized as this.” If I made any incorrect assumptions, let me know. I don't know much about your field, but it sounds really cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:49 AM
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I explained why Instagram in particular can easily falsely lead to the impression that something was en masse when it was not in the previous comment. Though the problem with using social media as data in general is that it's super easy to cherry pick data without realizing it, unless you create rules for yourself when gathering the data. The crazier comments stick out more. This is something that comes up in this sub a lot, where someone will claim “Most of ___ gender said this in the post last…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:32 AM
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I didn't see it was from Instagram, as the link with the screenshots was from twitter and I wasn't being particularly observant this morning. Instagram is even worse in some ways. It lists comments based on how likely you are to engage with them (you, the individual) often resulting in two people who can read 20+ comments that are totally different from each other and tell totally different stories on what society is like. The example could easily be less than 1% of the Instagram comments on tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:46 PM
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You aren't using reliable sources. You're discussing what people commented on twitter, which is infamous for being a cesspool, especially now. Also, if anyone is curious about the specific data for the poll (since I think people only linked a news article talking about the poll last time) here it is. https://static1.squarespace.com/static/696636c9153d34293993ce28/t/69e23fda05517c57356f8d0c/1776435162806/NS%2BTables.xlsx
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:12 PM
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“ That implies that anyone could will themselves into sexual activity.” Similarly, not everyone can will themselves to lose weight. There are health conditions that make losing weight near impossible. But one would still consider weight a changeable trait, even before Ozempic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:19 AM
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“Women prefer to attack immutable characteristics.” Disagree. When attacking other women, they don’t insult someone’s bone structure, they’re much more likely to call someone a slut or fat. I think a conclusion that would make more sense to draw would be that women are less when immutable traits are attacked, and more when non-immutable traits are attacked, and vice versa for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:15 AM
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The stereotype I know of is that the man cheats on his wife, but once she discovers him cheating he says he still wants to be with her too, he just wants to open up the relationship. And then she divorces him asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:03 AM
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Okay, thank you. This is something I had no idea on. I do think when safe haven boxes are used it usually makes the news, so if the father is in contact with mother and knows about the existence of the child, and then the child suddenly disappears, he could possibly (probably?) find the child and gain custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:29 PM
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“The woman can use safe heaven laws basically at any time with in the birth window since she can just not sign that the father is the father.” Can she legally do that if she knows who the father is? If the father reclaims the baby before the waiting period for formalizing the adoption is up, would she still have to pay child support? I don’t know the answers to these questions, but if you know (and aren’t just making an educated guess) could you cite a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:29 AM
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A couple of different ways, but I don’t have survey numbers (hence why I chose the word many instead of most, since I’m not sure if it was most or not). I’ve met many people GenX or older that believe that bisexual men don’t exist. I haven’t met any GenZers or younger millennials who believe this (though surely some exist). Unless those GenXers I know used to believe men could be bisexual and then the GenXers changed their minds, this would indicate more adults believe that bisexuality exists in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:28 PM
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No, I was saying that in 2016 (which is the most recent source anyone cited), many people thought men couldn’t be bi, but were either straight or gay. Therefore, if a man had sex with a man, many would assume he was gay. “This is semantics the result is the same.” People don’t want to have sex with someone who isn’t sexually attracted to them, even if they’re attracted to them. I’d imagine that far more women would date a man who is bi in 2026, since more people know that men can be bi. While th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:54 PM
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It actually hasn’t gotten much worse recently except among republicans. For example, 2023 was the high for percent of people in US who believed same-sex marriage should be legal, at 71%. As of may 2025, it was at 68% (so only slightly worse, not much worse). But 2022 was the high for republicans, at 55%. It is now down to 41%. https://news.gallup.com/poll/691139/record-party-divide-years-sex-marriage-ruling.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:40 PM
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The source specifically said that 63% of women would not date a man who had sex with another man. That isn’t the same as women finding men who had sex with men unattractive. In 2016, less people believed that men could be bi. The linked article even speculates that the reason why 63% of women would not have sex with a man who had sex with another man is because people see men as either being straight or gay. Now, it’s fairly accepted among younger generations that men can be bi, though I definit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:22 PM
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On the one hand, as you explained it, “financial celibacy” sounds pretentious and in practical. Do people following this internet trend never buy gifts for the person they’re dating? Do you just guess how the financial stuff will work after you get married? But I think it’s completely reasonable for dates to be split about 50-50. Or take turns, or have one person pay for food and another person pay for events. Women don’t have to spend more money or time on beauty products than men, they choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:53 AM
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Your source is from nearly ten years ago. Same-sex marriage was only recently legalized then. I feel like attitudes have changed a lot since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:37 AM
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“Attracting a straight woman isn’t anywhere near the same as attracting a gay or bi woman.” Not sure how old you are, but 20% of GenZ women survey as bi. Therefore, advice from women who date women should be helpful for at least that 20% by your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:25 AM
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“They only tend to like specific hobbies “ There was a survey a year ago where women were asked if they found different hobbies attractive or unattractive in men. While 61.8% chose unattractive for video games, that means 38.2% chose the attractive option for video games. https://datepsychology.com/the-most-and-least-attractive-male-hobbies/ So that somewhat matches with what you said. “I can think of two times since my birth where a woman has said she likes short guys. And that’s every woman I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:59 AM
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They can both be guilty here without being equally guilty. If NSA stands for “no strings attached” that’s not how it works with power imbalance here. They could think he’d fire them, even if he says he won’t. So he’s being more unethical here, though both parties are behaving unethically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:29 AM
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That’s assuming they don’t have any other filters, or things that make them incompatible with most people. If they’re a devout Catholic who doesn’t want to have premarital sex, wants to raise any future kids Catholic, and has trans friends, they might filter out a lot of people and still have a really hard time finding someone even when there’s a gender balance in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:43 PM
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How am I spin doctoring the numbers? At the time covered in the study, if you were to pick 100 people with autism diagnoses 80 would be male. Therefore, you’d expect 80% of children murdered with autism diagnoses during this time range to be male. Your study shows a slightly higher amount than 80%. It does not show that autistic men have a significant disadvantage over autistic women. I care about autistic men and am open to reading other studies on this, but the study you cited does not show wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:37 AM
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“There’s a lot of data that shows the large majority of married men want to be more involved with their children’s lives.” To match your argument, the data has to specifically show that considerably more married men say they want to be more involved with their children’s lives than unmarried men do. Logically, this is probably the case, but a lot of people want to do things, but never actually go through with them, so I’m interested in seeing the actual numbers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:50 PM
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You can’t extrapolate this study to adults because in the study you gave, parents were the murderers in 63.5% of cases. The study already had a small sample size, so if you were just looking at the numbers for non-parent killers, the sample size is less than 20, which is incredibly small. Also, it’s hard to extrapolate as a lot of people with ASD would have been considered to have Asperger’s for most of the time frame studied, which makes the studies methodology flawed, as they did not search th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:52 AM
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I’ve known two different people who were placed with a crazy mother during a custody dispute despite wanting to be with their dads because the judge believed “children shouldn’t be separated from their mothers.” Both judges were men, and at least one of them was conservative in other ways. So it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:38 PM
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The people who are willing to date a serial killer are usually already very mentally ill and socially isolated. Making their lives worse would not make them like serial killers less, having better access to psych medicine would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:53 AM
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Thank you for providing a source. Your study seems to only cover people under 20. During most of the 2000-2019 time frame, the diagnosis ratio by gender for autism was 4:1. So you’d expect 80% of children with autism killed to be boys. 90% is still higher than you’d expect, but male children are also slightly more likely to get murdered than female children. I don’t think you can extrapolate to adults with autism from this study.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:09 PM
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I have unconditional love for my siblings. But that’s not a romantic love. Romantic love for me is heavily linked in how much I enjoy spending time with someone, which in turn is linked to how much I enjoy talking to them (also kindness, though). What characteristics cause you to fall romantically in love with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:28 AM
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“not only that but being “boring” can entirely be a positive to men” Does boring here mean people who don’t have interesting conversations/ideas, people who are risk-averse, or people who are low drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:22 AM
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So it doesn’t matter to you if your partner has really boring conversations and isn’t interested in any of the stuff you’re interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:17 AM
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Specific source on this? I’m sure autistic men are more likely to get murdered than autistic women, as men are more likely to get murdered than women, but 90% seems very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:10 AM
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“Likewise, it is weird to make a decision for yourself that the other person doesn’t seem interested.” To be clear, I completely agree with this, but a lot of people don’t feel this way, so it’s worth mentioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:53 PM
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I don’t think icks are usually used that way. What you’re describing is how I think people generally use “We just didn’t vibe” or something like that. They lose interest, but due to the lack of interest from the other person. While someone could say, “the other person not being in to me is a major ick for me” this doesn’t seem to be what you’re referring to. The only time I remember suddenly losing attraction for someone was when this guy who I was attracted to said that he loved to manipulate p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:41 PM
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I’m not super familiar with either red pill or blue pill, so it’s hard to give an answer, but I think I’m generally blue pill, but I do believe there are trends beyond physical trends in which the average woman is different from the average man, and it’s partially caused by genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:09 AM
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Looked him up, and now know why his name sounded familiar. I stand by my opinion. Edit: also, he looks even more aggressive in more recent photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:24 PM
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No idea who this is, but without googling, he definitely looks more attractive than average, but not someone who I’d be attracted to because something about his smile and eyes make him look slightly aggressive. I’d be more attracted to someone less attractive, but kinder looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:23 PM
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I am being serious. I really, really, like mangoes and they’re definitely affordable for most people. I just don’t buy them often. I feel like I have too much stuff already, but mangoes are a consumable, so they’re a great gift. For additional context, I am a college student, so affordable here is by college student standards. Also, you specified a great gift “for you.” This isn’t really generalizable, as I’m pretty odd, but it is an honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:57 AM
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Mangos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:48 AM
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“If the ratio isn’t as skewed on Hinge, then why do male users still experience just as much rejection.” I’m not sure how you’re measuring rejection here, which makes it hard to speculate on reasons (is every left swipe on Tinder considered a rejection, or only people who match with you and ghost?). The other thing is, changing the ratio doesn’t necessarily change how selective women are in the initial stages of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:42 AM
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Hinge doesn't have quite the same disparity. Hinge is about 2:1 men to women, while Tinder is 3:1. So the "hook-up app" explanation is a factor, though not the main one. Like other people said, worrying about safety for meeting someone on the apps could be a major factor for the gender disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:38 AM
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“What even is the point of this arguement? Yes, not all toxic people are perfectly toxic.” You originally said, “ The thing about toxic people is that they are perfectly willing to make people uncomfortable, to use people, to lie to people, etc.” Sentence structure-wise, this read as you saying that all toxic people must be perfectly willing to manipulate people. I was pushing back against what I thought you defined toxic as, but since that wasn’t your definition, nevermind. “Think of cheating o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:10 AM
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The default depends a lot on the cultural norms. There are places in the US where a relationship isn’t considered exclusive until it’s explicitly said, even after months of dating, and there are places where it would be considered exclusive without being explicitly said. If you are somewhere where casual sex is culturally accepted, then it makes sense that exclusivity has to be explicitly said, since long term FWB relationships are within the norm, but don’t have an expectation of exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:37 PM
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Straight up lying nearly universally breaks people’s head canon of social rules, so lying about height is generally seen as bad. However, some softer forms of dishonesty are culturally acceptable, even if they have larger effects. There is an expectation that people will put photos of themselves online that make themselves look better than they look in person, especially among women. While certain types of photo editing are seen as dishonest, the ones you listed fit within the current cultural e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:24 PM
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Someone could be toxic, but be against lying. People who are perfectly willing to lie are toxic, but not all toxic people have to be perfectly willing to lie, or even willing to lie (in the strictest sense of lie). Even assuming someone is perfectly willing to lie, use people, and make them uncomfortable, does not necessarily mean they are better at getting a partner. It would only be an advantage if they had a high charisma as well. Someone with a low charisma who’s super toxic will get less pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:32 PM
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There are plenty of toxic men who are lonely. But if someone interacts with less people, you’ll hear about their toxicity less than someone who interacts with many people and is equally toxic. Obviously, there are many not-toxic lonely men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:00 AM
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Do you have a source for the percentage of men still thinking about their middle school ex that cheated on them (or some sort of similar stat, as that’s really specific?)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:31 AM
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“That doesn’t tell me they’re still thinking about the boyfriend they had at 12 years old and upset that he cheated on her with her bully, even when she’s 32 years old.” That is very uncommon for either gender. I think that’s probably even very uncommon in the manosphere, but I’m not on it, so someone else would have to speak on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:29 AM
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Specifically the format for meeting other people there. A lot of speed dating events give a designated time with each person, and then you rotate, like what u/FairwayBliss described. You vote yes or no on if you’re interested in each person there, and then post event find out if you matched with anyone. If this was how your event was formatted, how long did you have with each person? Was it only the conventionally hot dude that got any matches? If not, how was your event formatted? But your post…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:08 PM
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A good speed dating event would make sure there’s about equal men and women, so that’s part of the problem. I’ve never been to a speed dating event, but I’d imagine there’s a bunch of variations in setups. Like some of them would be formatted in a way that discourages people from talking to their same-gendered friends during the event. Your post would be more interesting to discuss if you have more details on the specific format.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:32 PM
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Dude, this is really weird to double down on here. Babies can wear only a diaper without people having a phychological reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:04 PM
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“Because it hurts feelings. There’s nothing else to it.” Debating with people when well done shouldn’t hurt feelings, it should allow both sides to learn more about each other’s perspectives, and learn facts about the world in general. Meanwhile, agreeing with people does not allow for learning in the same way. I like to debate with people because I get to learn about the way they see the world, and unless I argue with the points I disagree with, I only get a very very superficial understanding …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:04 PM
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“Reading the post I thought people would be brainstorming reasons on why she's single related to her (personality, looks, etc).” It’s not as fun to go in the same direction as a post as it is to argue with the assumptions the post is making. This one said “If you are interacting and having sex with a large amount of men and none of them want to date you, the only possible issue is with your personality!” It seems natural to argue with that statement of the post as that’s really over-generalizing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:51 PM
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I see the part of the table you’re talking about now. Note that it does not mention the sex of the perpetrator. Edit: also, if you look at table two of this slightly more recent survey, you’ll notice about half as many than women are victims of SA in the last 12-months (but still not recent, it’s from 2016). https://www.cdc.gov/nisvs/documentation/nisvsReportonSexualViolence.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:27 PM
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That link does not show that. Table one shows that far more women are victims of SA than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:35 AM
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While that’s a reasonable assumption from the info in OPs post, that’s not the case. The average age for women to marry was still above 20. The working class would postpone marriage to save up for the stuff they needed to afford establishing a household. <image> Here’s an interesting article from University of Cambridge’s blog with more details. https://www.campop.geog.cam.ac.uk/blog/2024/07/11/what-age-did-people-marry/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:29 AM
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https://www.campop.geog.cam.ac.uk/blog/wp-content/uploads/Screenshot-2024-05-14-112825.png The average age for marriage for women in Wales and England was still over 20 at that time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:23 AM
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The CDC’s recommendation for exercise is fine as far as health goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:34 AM
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Sorry, I made a bad assumption. The OPs post referred to women raping men several times and never referenced men raping men. I assumed that you were also specifically referencing women sexually assaulting men, vs men being sexually assaulted in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:02 AM
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While I’m sure that’s a contributing factor (and seems under talked about), I really doubt that’s the main factor. Other violent crime is also more likely to be committed by men. In the US in 2023, in murders where the gender of the offender was known, men were 7.5 times more likely to be the offender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:39 AM
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That sounds like the idea of “dating docs,” but those haven’t really caught on enough for there to be a large pool of people who use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:21 PM
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While that’s possible, some people just sound like ChatGPT when they write, especially some people with autism and some people who English is not their first language. Some of their post was clearly not ChatGPT such as “Note, also:” Also, they didn’t use the — dash they used -
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:55 AM
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“You don’t size trousers/jeans by waist in the USA?…How do you guys do it?” Women’s pants sizing is weird, but it’s sort of similar to dress sizing? Like 12-14 is often a large, 8-10 a medium, 4-6 a small, and 0-2 an extra small, which corresponds to dress sizing. However, brand sizing can vary a lot. It’s fairly common for a 12 in one brand to be a 14-16 in another. Maybe because of UK dress sizing? (UK 16 in dresses is generally equivalent to US 12).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:06 AM
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The FDA is kind of infamous for being slow to approve things. Like it takes an average of 12 years for a new drug to get from “may have therapeutic potential” to post trial approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:00 AM
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The general standard is that whoever asks someone out on a date/plans a date offers to pay. To be clear, I want a more even gender divide on who plans or asks people out on dates, but if you chose the restaurant, it’s generally considered rude not to offer to pay, since you got to choose how costly the restaurant was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:27 PM
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“And if it died out how come you see so many stories on this site…” Especially on communities like r/aitah, most stories are fake and based off previously popular stories. Coworkers with severe allergies stealing random, unlabeled food that’s clearly homemade is also not common in the real world (though surely it must have happened at least once?). But I’ve seen at the absolute least three posts with this theme, and I think possibly as many as 15. It’s a common theme on Reddit because it causes …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:12 PM
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This seems disconnected with genz. I've overheard genz men joke about how you have to dress like you're bi to get women, but make sure you don't say it outright so to avoid lying. Like it feels like genz has a stereotype that bisexual men are more empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:54 AM
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If it resulted in temporary housing, they could use the opportunity that temporary housing gave them to try to connect with family or friends they lost contact with, as in abuse cases the abuser often cuts their spouse off from friends and family. Or they could see if they could get the person they cheated with to give them a ride to a shelter (I’m assuming in this scenario the shelters are at least a half an hour drive away, because the people in my imaginary scenario are not located in a city …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:42 AM
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I disagree with you that it would be ok to cheat on your partner in this scenario. But I don't think you’ve thought through enough scenarios if this meets your bar for “ok to cheat” but you can't think of anything else that does, as I can think of more extreme scenarios. Like what if someone has no family or friends that they are in contact with, are in an abusive relationship where they are worried for their life and there are no shelters near them that they can go to, but they could find tempo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:34 AM
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I appreciate you clarifying the range. Are you specifically referring to song lyrics, or also music videos and the music industry? I’ll stick to lyrics for now, as that‘s what this discussion has generally been over. I do think there’s a disturbing trend in the amount of men being demeaned in lyrics in the last 5-15 years, and that it’s getting worse for men while getting better for women. However, I am not sure if the amount men are getting demeaned in popular music has surpassed women yet. At …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:19 AM
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There are also analytical thinker feminists. My default assumption though is also that celebrities are less of analytical thinkers. “She is demeaning my group, which is already more demeaned than hers.” How are you measuring whose group is more demeaned? Are you estimating the integral of the amount of the demeaning in the last week, last year, last 100 years? What about location, are you talking about the world, the US, your local city, your workplace? This stuff is not easy to measure. “I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:38 AM
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There’s apparently a decent amount of overlap. So the people who like book form better should read the book, and the people who like blog form should read the blog.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:47 AM
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I checked the reviews on Goodreads about dataclysm, and the most liked review recommended reading his blog instead. A lot of other reviews complained that the data parts were interesting, but the rest was bland. So it sounds like he's more used to writing blogs about data and those would be more meaty. Also, didn't realize this was a four day old post till I already wrote this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:56 PM
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Yep, I was looking at this list and was like "wait a second, I have like one straight woman friend, a couple of lesbian friends/aquaintances, and yet I feel like I have more women friends than that, and at least one who I've asked for advice." Thought about my closest friends for a second. Answer: Was forgetting bi people (also ace/aro). Nonbinary people were also not on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:48 PM
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So I'm not the most tiktok saavy person, but it seems like there was a trend where it was specifically the words "A moment of silence for men's mental health." Some women used this trend to mock men's mental health having it's own month (see second video). However, I think the 1st and 3rd video were responding to videos like the second video. They start off not being silent, but then show statistics about the number of men who die by su*cide. So they're deliberately showing how gauche it is for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:00 PM
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"Manchild" is the only song I can think of that refers to a man as it, so I don't think it's a large enough sample to use this as an example of how women objectify men more in music. Many other commentators gave you quite a few examples of women being objectified in music. I personally believe that women are objectified more in music than men. I'd be absolutely floored if Sabrina Carpenter didn't believe this. Because lessening objectification but not the gap just further disadvantages men. I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:11 PM
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"Yeah, I find the forgetting to charge the phone thing offensive as a woman with adhd. I actually haven’t heard the song, so I can’t really say much about it." I haven't heard it, but looked up the lyrics because of OP's post. The actual lyric was "You say your phone is broken, just forgot to charge it." I'd say this is a lot less offensive to people with ADHD than how OP portrayed the lyrics (though OP was not trying to make a point about ADHD). The weird thing is a lot of the lyrics are more m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:01 PM
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I’m not on those parts of the internet, though I’m sure they exist. Could you include examples (you don’t need to remember them exactly) so people could try to discern the individual examples motives? In some cases it’s probably rage bait, since it seems like the TikTok algorithm loves recommending ragebait to some people (not on TikTok, but the number of people who report seeing extreme opinions on TikTok seems high). I’m sure there’s non-ragebait examples as well, but I can’t guess the motivat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:13 AM
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The idea of thinking someone you just met buying you expensive stuff = good is crazy to me. This sounds like they’re love bombing you. Like I’d be shocked if they didn’t turn out to be abusive and controlling. Furthermore, the person in the video also sounds like a walking red flag. Like them thinking “princess treatment” by a guy they just met is good makes me think they are also an abusive and controlling person. Edit: to be clear, I don’t mean being kind. Expecting the person you’re on a date…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:03 AM
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The type of person who’s willing to murder someone probably has other anger management issues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:32 AM
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TikTok is also not representative of the general population. Rage bait often gets lots of attention, and the comment sections bring out the small percentage of people who agree. Also, rage bait tiktoks are probably more likely to originally get recommended to the people who agree, with it only reaching normal people after it goes viral on another site. Anectodotely, my friends are pretty sane, and the percentage who use TikTok get recommended mostly nonragebait videos like “duck stamp decorating…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:13 AM
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If you’re seeing this on dating apps especially, that’s a bit different. Dating apps are often seen as a last resort, so they’re more likely to attract people with worse personalities. Women also witness people saying crazy stuff on dating apps. The personalities seen on dating apps are not representative of the US population.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:37 AM
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The Barbie Movie seemed to me to be anti hating men and is considered a feminist movie by the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:50 AM
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This exactly. I would add that I feel like splitting the coffee bill 50/50 seems odd. Why not each pay for your own cup of coffee instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:10 AM
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While I feel like the thousands is hyperbole, I mostly agree with your point. The people who are most likely to respond positively to a cold approach are probably on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:07 AM
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