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-1

Sex isn't for a fun. It is a strong physical ritual that creates strong psychic bond between two persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:34 AM
1

Of course she copes. But for athlete that's nothing special, he doesn't perceive at as a reward hence doesn't invest in her anything in gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:07 PM
2

True but only because the supply is on women's side. High status men can reward low status women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:08 PM
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Did I say that I expected anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:39 PM
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In dating market? I do but I don't pursue relationship proactively since I'm not in position to set dynamics I want
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:45 AM
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For now I'm not in a league I want to date with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:43 PM
-1

not hoe, not chopped, reliable, feminine,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:11 PM
5

You should interpret this biologically. Intercourse with a woman possess lower to none risk while a man could get her pregnant and reduces her purity in the eyes of the right man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:59 AM
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There is definetely an uformulated equation in each head, like hot-crazy index. You're talking about similar stuff but instead of crazy you have "non-purity" input variable. There is no amount of hotness I'm ready to get in return of her having 10+ partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:22 PM
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For me, the core idea of red pill ideology is that what attracts women most in men is strength. It doesn’t matter whether that strength is good or bad, or even if it exists only in the woman’s mind (for example, how some girls go crazy over narcissists). If her psyche perceives the image as strong, she will—consciously or not—feel attraction to that man. And genuine attraction can never be created by the methods women themselves often talk about, such as being caring, attentive, and so on. From …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:41 PM
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He meant collective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:12 AM
2

For many men it depends on how they feel towards a woman. Some women never got it from me, even when they openly asked for, with other it happened from time to time. The more I liked her the less didgust I felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:37 AM
-1

That's why a real man should have harem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:51 PM
4

Is she forced to have sex she doesn't enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:57 PM
5

But a woman has sex too when she gives it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:41 PM
2

You're right except sex is never just sex. We are physical creatures and physical is deeply connected with psyche. A walk is just a walk but it can do wonders to your state of mind. Two body connecting makes our psyche connect on another level as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:16 PM
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Most of my friends in my life were women and the main problem with that are their boyfriends. When a girl finds a man, she builds borders with all her male acquaintances. Jokes and topics that were ok to discuss with her are now awkward and inappropriate. She basically disappears from your life while her female friends remain. And when relationship ends she looks for your support like nothing happened. Now I understand that this is just the nature of intergender relationships and don't hold grud…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:36 AM
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I think no one should sleep with someone they don't love. Even with that girl I felt deep connection and was sorry that I lie to her in a way not telling her truthfully I have an issue with her past. Sex isn't just physical act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:05 PM
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Men usually don't say that upfront. When I had such fwb, I never told her that's an issue. I didn't want to make her upset and didn't want to lose an option to have sex. But the moment I discovered that, I already knew she'll never be my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:21 PM
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The problem with their sexuality is that it's highly impacted by the sence of security. Sexual needs are inferior in terms of priority compared to safety. You don't think about sex when you're life is threatened. They lust someone easily when it's hypothetical, no risks involved. But in real lfe they chicken out most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:21 PM
-1

It becomes less true the higher value man has. Women have no leverage on at least slightly successful fit guy at age 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:28 PM
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It's hidden observation that society treats men's failures much harsher. No one wants accountability but men can't keep away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:12 AM
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We're primarily biological species and only then social. The main driver of biological world is natural selection. This competition creates hierarchy, winners and losers, high status winners gets it all while low status losers go extinct. That's why hierarchy deeply encoded into us and has its projection on all aspects of life. Red pill notices this pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:38 PM
1

Ofc not, you're casual lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:15 AM
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Spoiler: she will
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:53 PM
5

Yeeeeees, but that's not about afbb, could you understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:49 PM
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I agree but by no means it debunks afbb. Yes, everyone could have sex, the difference is in the amount of effort you need to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:20 PM
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By truth I've meant observable reality, not beliefs. Maybe you haven't noticed afbb pattern or intentionally ignore it, it doesn't matter. To some extent the concept reflects reality since it became so popular here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:17 PM
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I agree with you but again, afbb isn't about dating. Normal men can have sex via certain amount of effort. AFBB claims that different men need different amount of effort to get laid. And for some men that discrepancy is dramatic. Would you agree that most women would give access to their body much faster for their celebrity crush than to normal average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:07 PM
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Can we stick to the subject, not me please. I haven't blamed anyone. Couples do date. I told you, afbb is not about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:00 PM
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It's not about happiness rather than just truth. People want fun and they treat other people who feels fun better. Thus not fun "betas" really should pay to get what fun "alphas" get for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:54 PM
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AFBB is not about dating, it's about amount of effort needed to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:50 PM
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I'm degrading factor for other men, not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:13 AM
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It's degrading because it's not only requires lack of virtue but spends non-renewable asset of purity. Men do care about that and you can't talk them into other way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:24 AM
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It's degrading because there is no virtue in having sex for a woman. A man who has a lot of sex is not equal to a woman who has a lot of sex. Different standards for different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:39 AM
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Or I fully understand the psychology behind it and decided to embrace it instead of struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:36 PM
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Why would I care what they think? My woman is for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:34 PM
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Idk man, the best place for such kind of topics is online. In real life it feels cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:30 PM
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I really meant it, no sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:27 PM
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Their?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:55 AM
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It's degrading when she did it with someone else. That's why she should be very picky and let only worthy men (me) have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:46 AM
1

It can help you to explore your sexuality and to find new practices to try with your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:04 PM
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Because your model leads to a dead bedroom. She will still desire for a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:24 PM
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Guys should become even more masculine to compensate rise of masculinity in women. The quickest way to make her dry is becoming too soft and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:13 PM
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There's a game. It's like poker. Biggest wins are for loose active players but you should be good at it. You're describing tight active strategy, low risk and rare big rewards, but you have almost no control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:14 PM
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That the idea many people believe in is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:33 AM
-3

Only know value of something when you lose it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:22 PM
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Op asks how do you cope with a knowledge that most likely someone turned her and got her off better than you. Do you understand she remembers him and sometimes wishes she could repeat what they did?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:35 AM
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Sure but it would be more equal than current situation when women sleep around in their prime and settle down after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:34 PM
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A thing women care about the most is social approval. They will change their behavior by 180 degree the moment society changes its norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:16 AM
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Most of them are very shallow. Most of men are too. But men don't deserve anything just because they have penis, they have to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:56 AM
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It all comes down to biology. Yes, they do it to subconsciously reassure that they're suitable for mating. However they don't lie by saying that it's not for men, they just aren't aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:52 PM
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Firstly you need to acknowledge that your interest will have different agenda. That's when game starts. You still can play without big contradiction to your true self, though you'll still have to compromise at some point to maximize your mutual benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:13 AM
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Were they asked if they wanted to experience such harassment more often? Would those men agree to experience harassment on daily basis in exchange for female level access to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:17 PM
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It is rare. Define a lot in %.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:42 PM
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Agree, on individual level it could be very dangerous but that's rare and most men don't suffer from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:29 PM
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Please ask chatgpt what statistically mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:27 PM
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It's not normalized, it's just negligible statistically since most men don't encounter such behavior towards them. But they wish they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:50 AM
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You can be comfortable and friendly with one woman but flirty and sexual with another. Other women shouldn't know that you didn't have sex with your female friends. Moreover they'll assume that you have constant access to sex because you have women in your circle. That can boost your value in the eyes of your sexual interest. And don't play an angel among your friends. If you can't be true with them, it's not friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:14 AM
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The problem is even if you're 50/50, expenditures become higher when you live with a girl. Average man doesn't want to spend 100 bucks on fancy restaurant and buy a cocktail for the price of full bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:32 PM
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Women are much more into psychological side of sex rather than physical. Most men want sex just as physical process while women, probably due to surplus of it, look for emotions that sex provides. If you could have sex whenever you want, you'd be more selective and would choose only those partners who give you both maximal physical and psychological satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:13 PM
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Nah, that's hypocrisy. A worthy man doesn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:11 PM
2

Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:37 PM
1

For me that's the main factor of love in female psyche. Natural selection made women crave for strong resourceful men as it was absolutely necessary to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:59 PM
7

It 100% will make them insecure It will skyrocket male's value in their eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:24 PM
5

Let them have it, but give men same option
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:11 AM
1

Every woman does her own evaluation. Most of them prefer tall successful guy and you can't talk them another way. If truth is destructive, so be it. If we want to fight against evil, we should at least know where good and evil lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:08 PM
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Every human evaluate his preferences on his own. Even enjoyable and consenting actions could lead to drop of value in someone's eyes. For example, you just found out that your gf had consent non-traumatic sex with all your close male acquaintances. You may say you don't care but for most men that would be a deal breaker. It's not forced rule, everyone would make that decision on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:00 PM
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Virginity is just extreme case on the scale of purity. Consider it as resource. You start with 100% and every sexual act reduce it by some amount. Bonnie Blue is clear example of 0%. One may argue she still could find a man who wants to marry her, but that doesn't mean purity doesn't exist, it's just individual preference of that men that he doesn't care about purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:50 PM
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All decisions have consequences. Life is not a game where you can roll back to checkpoint. You have infinite chances untill you die but resourses are limited and reputation is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:42 PM
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If a man isn't satisfied with reality, it's his problem. If a woman doesn't like the way world works, it's world's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:38 PM
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Men like purity same as women like height. You can't talk women way that height isn't important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:34 PM
7

So you would date ex criminal? Or ex drug addict?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:32 PM
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Any man who isn't cuck hates such thoughts. And even cucks feels pain, they just learned to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:30 PM
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There is russian proverb: if you want to be a general's wife, you should marry a lieutenant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:15 AM
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What about dead bedroom marriages? Or cheating involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:44 PM
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If you're hvm, women won't friendzone you, they'll try to seduce you and it will be you who put them into situationship zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:07 AM
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Absolutely. And a guy with healthy self-esteem doesn't want to date that type of a woman. Even casual encounter is questionable due to high risk of sti.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:37 PM
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This sub is very skewed sample. You don't usually dive deep into a topic if everything in your life is going well in that area. People tend to analyze relationships when they haven't been able to build them naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:31 PM
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He is fit but not very fit. At least 15% body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:51 PM
-1

Ofc everything is individual but there are clear tendencies. For most of the guys high value means no casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:23 PM
2

Yes, and the more pure her past the higher value she is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:20 PM
1

Such perception is common for you and me but I'm sure there are people who for example don't mind lesbian sex unless it involves strapon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:02 AM
1

That just shows that your original statement isn't 100% true. Penetration is important but there are exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:57 AM
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Concerning penetration I wouldn't even care if my girlfriend was strapped by another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:41 AM
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As we evolved our brain and feelings became very complicated, one could say things like penetration archetypically imprinted in our heads and became part of our psychology, although initial cause was biological. Such theories can't be scientifically proved though. It's hard to say how we would feel if reproduction method was different but it would definitely be something in case complexity of brain remained the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:23 AM
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Would you prefer to have sex with most skilled 6 or with your celebrity crush? Let's say the latter is basic in bed, can last for 20 minutes but doesn't do much foreplay and no head at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:07 AM
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Women get an ick when man acts feminine, e.g. cries or acts anxious, and what can be more feminine than sleeping with another man? Desire of strong man with masculine features is pure biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:04 AM
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There is bare minimum ofc, like one should know when to be gentle and when to be rough, not to do crazy porn stuff like surprise anal or full nelson, not finish too soon. But it's really easy to learn if you have iq higher than 80 and basically that's all you need to have a good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:06 AM
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Biology is key factor here. Other woman doesn't threaten your gene recreation. All mind tricks is a method to save genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:00 AM
3

90% of sex is expectation and excitement. If you're chad (for her) and she is wet just from your presence, it's hard to fail. All sophisticated techniques are for betas because they need physically compensate lack of psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:51 AM
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I liked a lot personality of a girl I'd rate 5/10, she was moderately overweight and doesn't have conventionally beautiful face but not ugly either. She lost a lot of weight since then but even then she was my crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 09:11 AM
-2

Beautiful women like fine arts cause aesthetic pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:11 PM
-2

Some 18 year old people psychologically are more mature than someone at 40. Ofc those are outliers but people definitely could match in different ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:25 PM
3

I stopped to behave as people pleaser and that reduced my options as people like to be treated that way but improved my self-esteem and mental health overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:40 AM
2

Persona probably. Your public identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:17 AM
54

Only sith deals in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:59 AM
2

That's exactly what I've said, men's bar for casual sex is much lower. And your statement that women aren't looking for casual sex is wrong for significant part of female population. I guess you have female friends who have casual sex from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:48 PM
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I would make bold guess that most women would gladly have relationshipless sex with their celebrity crush. If I'm right women do want free sex, their bar is just much higher
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:34 PM
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Isn't sex reciprocal action? If I get free sex from you, then you get sex from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:21 PM
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You just made recursive statement. Yes, that's how it worked most of the times for most of the humans. But when I decide that as man I want to be approached, I must acknowledge that I should have much better traits than average man and even then I still lose at least half of options just because women aren't used to approach. I need to accept all these prerequisites if I want to break usual order of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:15 PM
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Some wishes contradict to each other. I don't want to be a pursuer but I want to be successful at dating. In case op is right, I have to choose what is more important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:22 AM
1

She shows very unbalanced behavior, that would embarrass any sane human
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:36 PM
1

Whoever is more balanced. I'd guess average woman is slightly better in that term than average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:41 AM
-4

So it was only financial thing? If you were independent, would you do it much sooner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:46 PM
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How do you know that you're ready?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:38 PM
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= has an affair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:42 PM
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I won't treat 10/10 girl any better than 6/10 based only on her attractiveness. Most girls have much less requirements for hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:02 PM
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I don't differentiate LTR and marriage material since marriage is almost the same with some legal obligations. Both hookup and LTR material start at 6 points out of 10 on attraction scale. The more a girl shares core values and has a complementary personality to mine, the closer she is to be my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:53 PM
0

Provide and protect family
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:50 PM
0

Perception of reality is always subjective. If you can't help feeling resentment, then reality will be a toxic and vengeful. I'm not a chad by any means and struggle from resentment towards women a lot. But I understand that my self improvement path is not for revenge rather than for healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:44 PM
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That's toxic mindset but in case you can't escape resentment that's true. Women's resentment just starts 15 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:49 PM
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Money is less an issue. I guess passive lifestyle and sociopathy is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:40 PM
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They already exist and called gyms, dojos etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:34 PM
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Why are you asking me like I stated anything opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:56 PM
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I'd guess most of them are really close to average as most people are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:08 PM
0

That narrative actually feels very serious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:04 AM
0

Warm feelings usually interfere with lust, Madonna-whore complex reflexes it pretty often
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:50 PM
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Most women choose pill without knowing this debate at all, they just do what society does. In my post soviet country most women are purple pilled in sense that they want all benefits from red pill men but they don't want go full hijab.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:11 PM
10

Some women have purple pill mindset subconsciously and that's exact type I look for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:39 PM
3

He switched to another example
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:05 PM
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Agree. Most likely she'd want more than just sex and that wouldn't be harmonious communication
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:24 PM
14

I don't look for anything serious, just want to have some fun
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:46 PM
2

Eat his heart infront of her
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:08 PM
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She has done already all by herself, you just need to tell her something like "let's have some coffee"
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:21 PM
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