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If a woman has 11k more debt than you she has baggage? Also is there a presumption that you’d pay for that debt or own that debt.. what does that have to do with relationships. Are women asking men to pay their debt..do you have data on that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:55 PM
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Why are you ignoring everything else I said and focusing on the minor things. A 700 credit score and a few k extra of debt is not baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:42 PM
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If women make less on average wouldn’t it balance that out.. also men seem to file for bankruptcy at almost double the rate. The statistics you’ve shown is not really baggage, also the credit scores are actually in a decent range… still in the 700’s… for some loans it makes no difference above that point.. that credit score is still trustworthy. It also looks like me have financial baggage too but a bit less than women… I’m not sure what you’re getting at with your statement after looking at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:27 PM
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Do you have sources on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:59 AM
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You can be “that guy” to her and she can ruin your life.. it’s not flattering anymore I want to be A guy at peace, there’s plenty of “that guy’s” that I wouldn’t change places with or would not envy… a woman allowing me to fuck her and day of the weak adds no value to my life… she’s born it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:12 PM
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Well explained, we benefit greatly from genetic diversity. I explained that throughout history 80% of females passed down their genes vs 40% of men as well. It’s Reddit so can only do so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:17 PM
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Thank you I thought it was just me…..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:06 PM
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I literally handled those points before but you’re picking and choosing what you read.. have you ever read a peer review article or phd study or you just say “ehh”..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:58 AM
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It takes a village to raise a child, you describe tribes but haven’t removed the fact that the nuclear family is very very new. There are literally remains of early humans showing them surviving with injuries for longer than they should’ve as their tribe helped them..this is the useless elderly by the way.. can you imagine the car they had for a child.. look how willing people are to naturally protect and help children that aren’t even theirs.. its literally a natural instinct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:24 AM
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You being wrong doesn’t make me a dick, I’m clear and direct and maybe you’re not used to that… it’s not personal and sorry if it hurt your feelings. Letting someone know that they are wrong isn’t disrespectful. Genetic diversity is literally the bread and butter of sexual reproduction.. if you don’t agree with the premise of sexual reproduction and evolutionary biology and then say it’s useless but then give your own account where people who literally are PhD’s have data out there about this I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:06 AM
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Sure I’ll break it down. You stated evolutionarily poly type situations aren’t good for the species. I’m letting you know you’re wrong. I’ve been saying that since the start You also stated failing to chose the right person to marry means you failed at choosing and being a mate.. I’m letting you know marriage and mating aren’t related at all and evolution doesn’t care if you’re a faithful loving partner that doesn’t cheat on your partner..in fact you’re rewarded on both sides and you really only…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:36 AM
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Marriage and Mating aren’t the same thing, you think Lebron James parents failed as mate partners… the quality of his parents relationship has nothing to do with his genes or ability to mate with women or his current mate selection. I’ve never seen a women reject a man solely off their parents not being married still. You’re forgetting that during that time the number one cause of death was murder for men and our life spans were much much shorter… you really think a monogamous relationship until…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:10 AM
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A 40% divorce rate is guesswork? It’s ok to admit ignorance. But if you honestly think marriage is a natural phenomenon that’s ok, mating is natural… all this other stuff is clearly a failed system. Also science isn’t always about knowing what is right but confining what is wrong or less likely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:24 PM
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Th divorce rate is lowest when men make significantly more than their wives. Only 16% of women make more than their husbands. While women marry men that make more than them almost 55% of the time. Sure women do more chores.. men work more and tend to be the breadwinners more than half the time. If the men make more money during the relationship, by law it’s her money too so you can’t really split it down the middle. His raise is hers and if they divorce she’s entitled to half.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:11 PM
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And half of those that are married aren’t happy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:07 PM
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Evolutionary Biology and Sexual Psychology doesn’t care about much about “substance”… marriages can be just as empty and hallow.. not to mention you have to pay to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:05 PM
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Well if this is a lived experience you are stating I won’t deny that it is a possibility. It leans towards weaponizing sex as something earned in a relationship rather than a duty as husband and wife to each other as monogamy is expected. There are many reasons women engage in sex. To relieve headaches to get to sleep faster and a good sex life improves well being and is a huge indicator of that for women. If the wife is depriving herself of that..that will only make things worse…it’s not always…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:26 PM
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The book has personal accounts from many women, how are personal experiences outdated after 16 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:20 PM
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Having kids is a 24/7 job so I don’t know what to say there. Yes the first few years are hard but women’s libido’s take a nose dive after birth to and the husband washing dishes doesn’t bring it back. Can it end the relationship..sure? Can it cause issues of course? But good sex isn’t really labour unless you’re with the wrong man. Maybe it’s just my experience but the friends I have who have children tell me they as men get less attention and some even feel like walking wallets even if they do …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:26 PM
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The book why women have sex is what I’m referencing. The opinions of 18,000 women led by experts in the field . Trust me this isn’t coming from me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:19 PM
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Ah it’s easier to be a single mom…got it. If that man that’s just sitting around, knows the right spots. She wouldn’t really care… women make rules for some men and break rules for others. Good D rules anytime of day and women really don’t care if it makes them feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:13 PM
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I disagree but if you believe so.. In that regard single mothers who are burnt out never find time to have sex. Giving they are doing everything themselves..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:33 PM
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I elaborated by giving you the name of a book written by one of the world’s leading Sexual Psychophysiologists and Evolutionary Biologists. Do you have a doctorate in this field, if so I’ll definitely defer to your opinion. If not then you really have no idea what you’re talking about and this book will challenge every belief you’ve had on female sexuality. Reading is good buddy, and you’re wrong in your statement above and that’s ok hahaha. Ignorance isn’t a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:42 PM
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If think that, some women actually like sex. Sex is actually linked to overall well being for women and improved mental health. Getting f’ed good makes a woman feel sexy and desired too… in fact some women have sex to feel this. Our ancestors didn’t do chores to breed more. Her not wanting to have sex probably has something to do with not wanting to get pregnant again to give enough time to take care of that first child. The average age cap between siblings is 3. There is sometimes a natural dro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:03 PM
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You’re wrong. Read why women have sex for more info.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:18 PM
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Doing more ”chores” doesn’t get you more sex.. if a woman is attracted to a man..she will literally jump him for that D.’ You think our fore mothers gave it up to the man who did dishes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:16 PM
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Finding a man and finding the man are two different things… being a high value man is better than being an average man and the idea is you gain wealth and money as you age and keep your looks as a man… you mean to tell me a 50 year old woman can have a 26 year old male as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:54 AM
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Trash goes in the garbage.. you give homeless people trash? I usually give them food or money..
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 07:18 PM
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These are all options, just can’t let it go for some reason.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 07:01 PM
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There is time..you’re still keeping it and holding onto it for some reason
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 02:49 PM
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That’s symbolic in some way.. it wasn’t the trash
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 12:50 PM
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How so?
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 03:39 AM
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The letters are a tough one, I understand how you feel. It’s a snapshot of time… “I want you now and forever in every way” is the line for me.. forever is not really a long time it seems. Why even say it… only reason I think is to hear it back.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 03:16 AM
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This is delusional, in this society money is a huge factor of high value whether we like it or not.. a CEO or Politician is more valuable then other men. Unless you want to delude yourself into believe you’re better than you are cause of morals and loyalty…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:26 PM
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Your assumptions avoid all academic literature that is available on these topics.. pushing your own beliefs against peer reviewed studies on why women accept cheating etc…educate yourself more.. your ideas and internet access doesn’t make your ideas valid or true just cause there’s an audience. Read “Why Women Have Sex” everything you laid out here is answered and you’ll learn why your ideas are wrong as most of what you explained is ignorance. This isn’t a debate if the statements you made are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:23 PM
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Wish proves that women prefer to marry men that make the same or more than them, and that’s the case for 84% of marriages. The data clearly shows this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:21 AM
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If we can’t use statistics there no point in really discussing anything. You want to frame an argument the way you like..place constraints etc it’ll just be pointless. At the end of the day women are overwhelmingly married to men that make more than them.. and overwhelmingly don’t marry men they make more than. If you want to slice and dice it go ahead it really makes no difference. It’s clear as day. Educate yourself if you don’t like statistics, your anecdotal opinions aren’t any better, you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:07 PM
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55% of men in marriages are breadwinners compared to just 16% of women. Women want equality at the office. Not in their relationships. 80% of men who make over 100k are married as well. I’m not upset or against the fact that women choose the best of us but as women improve and make more money it effects their dating choices and many feel they are settling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:12 PM
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Money, Women and the Economy will always be relevant. If you want to look at the Economy by itself that’s fine, doesn’t mean what I’m saying is irrelevant or false. Women don’t want men who make the same or less than them. Women make more and they want equality to men but no “their” man… and this is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:19 PM
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Assuming I assumed where you were going and what my argument would be doesn’t really help. I comprehend what I read as it is and don’t assume and you choose not to. I literally said I’m not concerned with falling birth rates. Take it as it is. Your argument doesn’t take into account hypergamy and women’s desire for high status men. I didn’t say the problem was feminism. Women want to be equal to men but not “their”man and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:55 PM
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I’m not concerned, that’s OP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:26 PM
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It is feminist, women have increasingly entered the workforce and only men with money are able to date cause things are so expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:41 PM
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Well the number of men reported having sex in the last year under 30 is dropping as well. Young men are having less sex than ever Who you’re in a relationship with and who you want to have sex with are different. Data shows men find younger women more attractive while most women like men around their age yes.. most men are average and don’t have the financial resources to secure a younger woman so they just have to go for who wants them..usually a woman around their age. Personally I do realize …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:54 PM
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The data doesn’t really suggest that. More than double the amount of women are in relationship between 18-30… that means they are dating older men. Men in their 20’s are almost invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:29 PM
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I’m glad for you, this just reinforces my want for a vasectomy, to never cohabitate with a woman and to never sign a marriage contract… lifetime alimony…what the actual hell
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 08:39 PM
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I don’t know Spanish but if the vibe is there I’ll feel it
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 12:55 AM
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I have tons of rap too, mainly for the gym and working out or having fun. Different songs for different moods
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 08:13 PM
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The days doesn’t that sadly. 55 percent of men in marriages are breadwinners, only 16 percent of women are..the rest (29%) make about the same. Equality does not present itself when it comes to mate selection. As Kanye West once said… “I ain’t saying she’s a gold digger….but she ain’t messing with no broke” Women generally want to date men who can help improve their lifestyles… call it whatever you want but money matters. Very few women make 6 figures so you’re just picking a subset of women tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:25 PM
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I guess that’s something we disagree on, women judge each other based on the men they’re with as well. It’s a status symbol..especially the live the man is able to afford the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:35 PM
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Women who don’t “settle” and “know their worth” are held in high regard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:44 PM
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That’s fine, just stating a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:26 PM
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Some stay at home mothers actually want to home school as well so it doesn’t always end with school…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:02 PM
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That’s how I lost my virginity, she just put it in. Didn’t even ask or anything, I had no time to react.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:23 AM
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Disney didn’t get shit right because no one is really going to fall for a pauper these days, Im reality she might have had a fling with him but she’d marry the Prince cause she’s a 10 and she’s going to make sure her babies grow up in royalty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:58 PM
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That women can truly love us for us and not what we provide or do for them…. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:56 PM
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This shit right here was poetry man…I’m snapping right now…not clapping…I’m snapping dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:55 PM
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Women don’t give a shit about your past, as long as you show up as who they desire in the moment and you didn’t do anything crazy in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:36 PM
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You not really saying something I don’t already know, I’ve dated throughout all my years and I’m just saying being more desired after having what these women want isn’t all that flattering. It’s not that Chad is not for them..they can’t get him. And after realizing it they understand they have to go for something they have better chances with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:49 PM
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I agree with the porn arguments there’s nothing good about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:20 PM
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Don’t act like women don’t choose to post naked photos of themselves or start an only fans… or dress provocatively in every instagram lost.. women are free and doing as they please. You just don’t agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:18 PM
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I make a too 5% income and being seen as on their level or above does not really flatter me, I also don’t see it as a term of endearment as much as it would just be me footing the bill since I make more. It’s cause me to not want to get married as there’s a chance ill lose my wealth and if they didn’t care for me when I didn’t have it why should I feel lucky. What I do is date multiple women and offer none commitment, they’d rather share a suitor than “settle” and it’s clear as day. I also don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:03 PM
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Women are polygamous and hypergamous, they just engage in serial Monogamy or disguise it as “dating”. There are also high levels of paternity fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:43 PM
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If men were more polygamous and it was social acceptable, absolutely. Take a look at the amount of wealthy men who are able to see other women on the side and their wives could care less as long as he brings nothing home and the family is taken care off. Truly elite business men have this option and the women they encounter know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:42 PM
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29 isn’t old, of course. Wait till 40-50
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:25 PM
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Apparently, western women love us for our personality and never for what we have or our money. All gold diggers are outside of western countries… Local athletes, celebrities and actors have thousands of women flocking to them for their personality and not their money as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:53 PM
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No I don’t, you seem to mischaracterizing foreign women. Women like to marry across or up… local wives also marry for financial stability. A foreign women can’t be motivated to want what’s best for her children in seeking a financially secure mate and desire a family still. A man has to be limited in mate choice locally, or else he’s a predator. Don’t confuse leverage (higher earning which universally all women desire) for exploitation… Also locally you pay for women to fuck you too, you pay wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:30 PM
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So we’re alright with the globalization of markets and commerce but have an issue when it comes to dating. 🤦🏾‍♂️. It’s sad everyone things women abroad are poor or prostitutes. A business order can expand their business worldwide, a man can’t go abroad to source his needs and find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:59 PM
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Any women that isn’t in the United States is a prostitute? That’s a lot of the female population
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:56 PM
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I think countries would invite more of this, it adds money to the economy overall. That’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:55 PM
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Even then, I don’t see how that’s an insult most people are average
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:54 PM
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This is an underrated comment, they don’t want equality with the average man. They want equality with the top 20% of men. The rest of men don’t even exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:17 PM
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This varies case by case, on average most men seem to physically desire women in their twenties. Men of all ages, given women are usually the primary mate selectors men are usually limited in choice by the women who want them not who they want. With women wanting men around their age it’s really the best choice as younger women don’t seem to want older men. https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:58 PM
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You have to understand women in hero 20’s get so much attention…you can’t really resent that. If mid 20’s men got the same about of attention as women…we’d be terrible assholes honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:50 PM
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I don’t know when being called average became an insult lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:37 PM
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You really don’t seem to have a valid point on why it’s unrealistic.… share your knowledge bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:39 PM
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Because it isn’t their child and they aren’t responsible for taking care of them… my views are bit skewed I’m in Canada and the province I’m in has daycare for $10 a day. I don’t see taking care of the offspring you decided to bring into this world and care for as unpaid labour. If that’s unpaid labour, then isn’t the man working and providing for his family forced labour. Who’s paying for the home, food, car insurance, clothes etc. the woman is some slave in a corner somewhere with no quality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:33 PM
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In the province of Ontario the following applies, A home owned by one spouse before marriage that becomes the matrimonial home after marriage, will be included as marital property. You cannot exclude the matrimonial home even if it was owned before marriage https://tailorlaw.com/division-of-property-and-the-matrimonial-home/#:~:text=The%20Matrimonial%20home%20cannot%20be,18(1)%20FLA). I’ve literally seen this happen after 2 years of marriage Most women won’t be left destitute, they have jobs the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:28 PM
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It’s more realistic than you think given my income level and age and ability to make income remotely it’s not so out of the ordinary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:15 PM
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I just put guard rails in place No marriage No cohabitation No children If I do want any of the above…go abroad study their laws and set that up there. But never ever ever in a western society Stick to that always and I’m fine with dating overall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:13 PM
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Not enough for a standard 50/50 split of all assets no. Unpaid labour… you’re making it sound like anything related to home or children is slavery. Taking care of your own child is unpaid labour?? It’s something most women want to do and enjoy doing..they are literally bonded to them from birth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:05 PM
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I’m in Canada and that would happen here, and isn’t that a benefit to woman being able to have children and not work… you’re acting as if the husband is forcing her to be pregnant…women want kids too. 97% of alimony payments go to women, that’s one metric I can share
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:01 PM
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Exactly, giving up your assets in the name of love is risky and just not smart in the west.. The house I had before marriage isn’t mind anymore..awesome deal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:59 PM
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I’m still banging locals, local dudes can marry them though after I’m finished. It’s also the men with high incomes and wealth leaving so it does limit the pool for women who seek financially eligible partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:55 PM
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Definitely I agree, I am learning a few languages and and don’t mind going the extra mile to ensure good communication They also are more attractive overalls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:49 PM
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There are women all over the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:41 PM
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Get your passports and run!!!!!! ✈️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:41 PM
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What the hell did we do to you lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:40 PM
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Facts never been a better time to have money and be a successful single man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:37 PM
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Yeah it’s literally a sitting nuclear bomb waiting to explode
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:36 PM
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75% percent of women who are married work…there isn’t enough men who make enough to have women stay at home. It cases where both parties work and the man makes more dividing contributions equally isn’t fair given the person who put in more money loses more. Personally I won’t have a future wife as I won’t be signing a marriage contract. Most marriage have men making more money… AND the wife working… this isn’t the 1950’s and women workforce participation is at an all time high. There is value st…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:30 PM
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It isnt that simple but I will say whoever makes more money is at a disadvantage because money isn’t divided by amount contributed it’s split blindly. Most relationships have men as the breadwinner so on average men are more impacted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:00 PM
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Purple pill me are children for thinking twice about relationships given the divorce horror stories and statistics? It’s a bit disingenuous to paint all ppd men as children just for looking after their own interests and thinking twice about signing a marriage contract. Probably the most important and impactful decision on will ever make in their life. I would like to see some laws changed doesn’t make me a child to not agree with the current institution of marriage that is by large a failur for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:59 PM
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Both people take a hit so it’s shitty either way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:21 PM
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That’s true, there are other options
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:48 PM
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I mean, well…that’s kinda hot I guess. You win
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:46 PM
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That’s great you think most men are kids, 👍. It’s all men’s fault marriage is declining and women are perfect.. got it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:35 PM
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I run a biweekly men’s group that uplifts men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:31 PM
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There aren’t enough economically viable men that’s also a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:28 PM
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I don’t think men are concerned with the rates decreases as lots of men dropped out of dating as well. It’s a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:24 PM
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I have a pew research article up there…not sure if you saw. Also I used the term example I didn’t state a fact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:18 PM
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So most divorces women file are the man’s faults…just be a great man and your wife will never leave? Of the women who file all their husbands if not most were bad husbands??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:18 PM
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It’s about 40% for first marriages and that is still risk territory
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:15 PM
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Where I am if I buy a home cash and my wife moves in and she divorces she is entitled to half. If I work hard in my business and it explodes she gets half. My income is too high compared to the average woman so I’ll be putting in most of my income most likely even if she does work and it won’t be an equal division if divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:14 PM
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I live in Canada, a socialist society so my Prime Minister can call election whenever and he’s been in power for 8 years even though 80% of the country wants him gone. My vote is a useless as the paper it’s on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:12 PM
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That’s true, I just wanted to point out some contradictions in how people go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:12 PM
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I guess marriage is something for low to middle income earners who want to join incomes to improve their lives benefits. On the higher end though, it’s just inviting huge risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:11 PM
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I think the court system is in need of major reform and don’t really enable successful marriages given the divorce rates… something as simple as proof of a legal consultation going over the risks of divorce before signing a marriage contract would be great. I’m not against relationship but the institution of legal marriage is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:06 PM
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Actually you have a point there, my income is on the higher end so I definitely do relate to situations where higher income men may go through and take it into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:03 PM
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This isn’t a personal topic, it’s philosophical one. There are societal pressures to get married and I think some men out there have been given ultimatums by women..that’s their fault of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:02 PM
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What other contract do you sign and then have a ceremony where you verbally express to each other and family that you’ll never break it but than have the legal option too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:00 PM
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Yes I could’ve stated it better but that’s what I meant…women file for divorce more than men…your memory cannot suddenly make that false
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:58 PM
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So people should go in with good faith believe that nothing will happen to them and give total and full trust to the state to divide their assets and settlements in court? Divorce court is a multi billion dollar industry with lawyers and courts being involved. You have no control on what will happen the court does
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:56 PM
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So what’s the point of the vows then, you can’t even believe the person across from you, comfort that you will be ok… they have no idea what the fallout of divorce looks like, they don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:54 PM
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I’m going to state it clearly… of all the divorces that do occur… 80% or more of women file for said divorce. This is a subset of a statistic. For example of all the married couples that make over 100k combined…20 percent do such and such. (Just an example) There can be layers to data analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:52 PM
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Of course it was, if I don’t the lottery me buying the ticket was beneficial… that could apply to anything that involves risk. Also the original commenter stated the person leaving the divorce is loosing.. It’s the same argument that if a woman leaves a marriage it’s always the husbands fault and she didn’t do anything wrong. You don’t want to be with him..dump him and take his money, kids and collect payment far after the marriage has ended
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:50 PM
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I stated 80-90% of women initiate divorce… I didn’t talk a about divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:47 PM
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Where is the fundamental disagreement at, is it easier to assess risk once the damage of said risk has been experienced or not? There are PhD’s and C level executive in professional fields that literally study courses on risk and still fail. Organizations literally have risk management divisions and whole legal departments for contracts. The average person does not consult a lawyer before signing a marriage contract and ask for a professional opinion of the risks involved. Why would someone get …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:43 PM
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40% chance of failure is not risky? Cool if it works out things are great. Same as if I bet on black
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:38 PM
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I’m about to disappoint the hell out of my parents too sadly, not against those that choose to do it sad that they don’t see the risks involved and the amount of people who should’ve never been married or had kids in the first place…they’re rather that than stable single living
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:22 PM
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It’s the case for 50% of marriages roughly, that doesn’t take into account those who want to leave but won’t… I can win a million at the casino but also loose all my life savings. Risk/Reward is all probabilities and if marriage was something I could bet on, it’d be a second source of income for me. Also you need to sign a marriage contract to be in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:20 PM
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It’s hard to assess risk if you haven’t experienced it, for example I work in cyber security and I see it all the time, It’s only after a breach that companies take the risk’s seriously. But you can’t get a prenup after a divorce it’s already to late. To believe in the risk is to believe in the possible failure of one’s own relationship and early on that doesn’t even come to mind The only people who share the terrible sides of divorce are divorcees… I truly believe it’s impossible to understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:18 PM
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only…. 50 percent isn’t a significant enough number regarding the risks of signing a marriage contract. 50% is high risk territory in any case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:10 PM
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I think most who engage in these types of discussion are far less likely to believe in marriage contracts… men who marry literally believe they will be with that person forever and believe the risk doesn’t apply to them. That’s why they probably proposed in the first place and most men who’s wives file for divorce at shocked at it even being possible and then are surprised at what happens in the courtroom. I’m not sure if I have the correct term but there is an idea that when there’s a group and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:49 PM
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You really believe the average man truly understands the risks and damage a divorce can bring? In between the honeymoon phase and al the hormones being released how would they come to an understanding? Most men have no idea what they signed up for and by the time they realize it, it’s too late….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:41 PM
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This fact isn’t cited so I’m unfortunately going to have to consider it as useless, search google a little more then come back, there’s no need to rush. “Studies show” needs to be backed by an actually study of a respected research centre such as the us census or pew research. Also everything there was specific to the poorest women on the planet. We are talking about western laws and society. We can’t really debate if you don’t stay within context. If a woman makes 1 dollar a day no shit all her…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:31 PM
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So if I’m happily married and invested most of my income to my wife and children and one day my wife wakes up and wants a divorce… parting away with half my assets, loosing a home and most likely not receiving 50/50 custody of my children is beneficial to me..on top of paying alimony and child support that isn’t tax deductible? Huh? Explain to me the benefit of men going through the western court system that mostly their wives put them through? Perfect example here https://www.reddit.com/r/divid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:24 PM
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What is the overall reward, there’s data on this showing of the marriages that end in divorce 80-90% of women file. This discussion is relevant, it’s why there’s a PurplePillDebate subreddit in the first place. Debate goes beyond personal choice, debating ideas should be encouraged here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:22 PM
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It’s not beneficial to 80%-90% of men who’s wives initiate divorce… this really isn’t specific to OP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:19 PM
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OP, I agree 100%, I wish all the men in relationships good luck even though the odds aren’t really in their favour.. going to save money.. invest and probably find companionship and relationship abroad. Men are basically just wallets at this point and women seek men primarily for security and safety… the safety is if the man tries to leave he’ll be fucked…they already know this especially with child support custody and alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:11 PM
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The question was why… as in what would be a good reason given the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:08 PM
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I personally think me should, but if they want to take they risk they shouldn’t cry when they get fucked in court…men are wallets in relationships mostly they just don’t know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:07 PM
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I have no doubt she will be able to get into a relationship, marriage overall wasn't for me and I realized I didn't want any kids and didn't see a future so that's why I filed. I was her first and she was an amazing woman overall but it didn't work out. I think breakups you've been around seem to be dramatic as my ex-wife truly appreciated me and loved me and felt loved, it seems you have a (all exes were trash anyways) mindset but if it wasn't for me filing...we'd still be together lol. She alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:17 PM
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I didn’t say 26 specifically, but if you are in your 30’s single people have probably been in relationships that failed and although some learn and move on, others are scarred and have baggage from them. The pain and severity of failed relationships increase with age. It’s all fun in your teens and early twenties but for women there’s less and less time as they age due to the biological clock putting more pressure on the success of these relationships and more pain when they fail… thats why you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:50 AM
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The same argument can be made for older women who may have lots of baggage from a history of failed relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:21 AM
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“The next stage is women will work all jobs”…yeah I’m exiting out the conversation…you just hate men obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:48 PM
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Tradesmen aren’t making bank but they are making the same if not more than women even with degrees… Wrong answer also in the income gap.. women chose fields that don’t make as much money even though they have more degrees than men and hold 2/3’s of student loan debt. The amount of women I know who will never pay their debt off is more than the men I know. And ultimately they seek out high earning men anyways. Those same boss lawyers and doctors want man that make the same or more than them…sad t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:03 PM
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I think OP is right financially, most women want me who make more than them and no matter how they see it relationship a wife and kids are v expensive. That same man is literally fucked in divorce court, alimony, division of assets, may not get to visit his children. More of them not has to leave the marital home. More and more men are opting out of the dating pool and many see it a job interview. The excuse that women give prime years in marriage doesn’t make sense.. men are expected to have li…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:50 PM
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Women like attractive features, they bear the cost of procreating and they’ll want to make sure their child has a chance to pass on their genes…women will literally not talk to a guy cause they subconsciously don’t want to pass on their genes they literally decide who’s genes get passed on and whose don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:15 AM
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Yeah this charisma shit is a lie…I’ve had women ready to fuck just off looks alone I didn’t have to say a damn thing or try
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:14 AM
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Exactly, there’s a lot of offence taken when men say lead not accounting for the fact that it also means we take responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:33 AM
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I didn’t say startup, a lot of men work in trades and are good with their hands..who are these lawyers and doctors going to hire to fix their homes and cars, literally supply the electricity they are using. Check out this 2023 article of mostly women getting stupid degrees that cost so much the money they make can’t even pay it back. They had a bachelors degree and were still foolish enough to get scammed into paying tons of money for one of the lowest paying jobs. They couldn’t even assess the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:47 AM
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Because if shit hits the fan it falls on you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:34 AM
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This is common sense that men find younger women more attractive… they have eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:33 AM
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And somehow still find jobs that pay twice as much as those that require masters degrees… without holding 2/3rds of student loan debt (a loan that can’t be wiped away even in bankruptcy)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:31 AM
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