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Men the professional victims
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:30 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:09 PM
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I doubt the people who are against porn are the same saying OF is okay. I also bet that a minority thinks that OF is “female empowerment.” Personally, I have no problem with people watching porn occasionally and in moderation because porn is addictive, and it’s been proven to be harmful with several negative effects in the brain, body, and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:27 PM
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You don’t need to be hot either to be in a relationship as long as you’re decent looking. Sure, looks are the first thing people are gonna notice and be attracted to before personality. Looks can lock a relationship only on a superficial level
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:38 PM
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Both equally disgusting. Imagine being 17 year old teenager waiting for the moment to turn 18 just to open an OF
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:55 PM
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You answered your own question. Yes, personality is MORE important than looks (that doesn’t mean looks aren’t important) but sexual attraction is non-negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:50 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:01 PM
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I find it extremely childish. Relationships are supposed to be based on trust
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 01:42 AM
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Sir, this is a Wendy’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:04 PM
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Ridiculous take, cannot take this seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:25 PM
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Ok but let’s be for real. Who actually asks that question when you are getting to know someone besides those interviews/red pill podcasts? People will eventually show you what they can offer. If you’re into traditional roles, I can understand one must bring the income and the other one be the homemaker. But these days you need two incomes and split house chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:04 AM
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And what are those traits associated with fertility?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:25 PM
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Imagine giving a shit what other people think about you. That’s even more pathetic than being a step dad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:21 PM
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Another self-pity post bohoo. Get over yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:17 AM
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You forget older women were young women at some point. I’m just 23 and I’ve been there, many men are just attracted to you for the solely fact you’re young and they can “shape” you 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:38 AM
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Literally nobody is saying is misogynistic or sexist having those preferences, that’s pretty reasonable. Sexist would be saying that women are only good for cleaning and cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:24 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:10 AM
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She doesn’t give a fuck about men’s issues 😂 she does it for attention, clicks and views
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:26 AM
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Yup, r/offmychest I’m looking at you
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/23 01:13 AM
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You’re good! I do believe though that everyone in a committed relationship should take into consideration their SO when going to places like that because there’s no reason why you wouldn’t invite them with you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 04:55 AM
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Lol like every woman who goes out to a club is for male attention and validation. The world doesn’t revolve around you men
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 04:44 AM
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This!
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 04:40 AM
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No, actually some of my girl friends are taken and always bring their boyfriends with them. My boyfriend is always invited and he knows it, and I actually prefer he comes with me, but sometimes he doesn’t feel like going. I do what I would do if my boyfriend was there, just dance and enjoy the music, and of course, have a couple drinks. I’m not going out to impress anyone, just have a good time with my group of friends.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 04:32 AM
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I like going to nightclubs occasionally. I understand some couples are different, but I would never be with someone who restricts where to go. However, when I go out to those places, I always invite my boyfriend out of respect, but sometimes he doesn’t feel like going, so I go by myself and he’s okay with it. Depends on every individual and relationship dynamic, but my boyfriend and I like going to nightclubs and strip clubs once in a while. It’s fun, and not everyone goes there to flirt and che…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 08:35 PM
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Y’all males putting words in women’s mouth that never said. Literally no one thinks that’s “female empowerment”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:27 PM
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OP Don’t listen to this. Just receive everything gracefully, instead bring him homemade stuff like another commenter said
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/23 03:23 PM
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Not anyone is into religious bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:32 AM
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I met my 4 year boyfriend through tinder. I was just bored and trying to find a shroom dealer through the app, never expected to get a boyfriend out of that. We met up for the deal and we actually “vibed.” After that, we hung out casually and hooked up, after a month we were officially exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:21 AM
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Imo yes, I would take an attractive face before a hot body. However, for those who didn’t win the genetic lottery never underestimate hitting the gym. I’ve seen average looking men becoming attractive by just having a nice body and taking care of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:30 AM
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6/10 very underweight and have a terrible posture. I have a slightly above the average face and some people find me attractive. Currently striving to become a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:22 AM
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Previous partners were average looking, but they had athletic bodies. My current boyfriend is way better looking and matches more my type. He’s on the slimmer side, but still I wouldn’t change a thing about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:17 AM
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Not the hottest, but certainly the most good looking. No, I wouldn’t tell him if he asked because what’s point? And no, I wouldn’t change his looks cuz I like him just the way he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:50 AM
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No, but assume is not any different from TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:21 PM
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Nah that’s extreme, you’re making that up. I have never heard a woman wishing death upon men just for being ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:29 PM
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Men always victimizing themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:55 PM
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Agreed, I came here to say the same thing. Don’t talk about trauma when you’re getting to know someone.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 01:46 PM
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Yes. Personally I couldn’t date someone I didn’t find attractive at first glance, but people prioritize different things, so there’s that
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 05:03 PM
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As a 23 year old I confirm. Most people in their early 20s are still immature
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:12 PM
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Idk, it was just a wild assumption lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:22 PM
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Moms can definitely be hot, but being hot just for the fact they’re moms gives an ick. Bet you call breasts mommy milkers too 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:50 PM
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Ew It sound like you have a mom fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:59 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:19 AM
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A solid 6. 23 yo straight female Pros: I have a cute ish face, slim/petite figure and feminine features. Cons: I’m underweight, have a bad posture and introverted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:27 PM
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Who is overwhelmed with attention? I honestly love it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:30 PM
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I don’t believe in that. I said what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:01 PM
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You asked a question, you get answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:10 AM
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Then don’t do it, simple. I swear you people just like to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:07 AM
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Men are supposed to lead. When in nature have you seen the females pursuing the males?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:34 PM
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I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:49 PM
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I don’t know. I wasn’t part of that survey, I want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:11 PM
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Lol same here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:08 PM
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Cuz being single is boring. I can be alone, but it absolutely sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:49 AM
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No, I would never date a single father because that child will always come first before me (as it should be) I just wouldn’t like to be in that position because our plans will always revolve around that child too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:51 PM
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I can’t wrap around my head how there are people who don’t know how to cook. Personally I hate cooking, but I can cook a variety of things
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 08:04 PM
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Well said 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:48 PM
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We all are telling you that’s a big reason why we don’t approach men, but you’re just gonna believe whatever fits in your narrative. I don’t approach men for that same reason and never will. “You can simply downright tell guys like most women do that you aren't only looking for sex.” Like it’s not easy to lie. People will take advantage to get something out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:55 PM
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It was bit rude on the waitress, but you made such a big drama over a small thing. Sorry OP, but that move made you look insecure in front of everyone
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 09:17 PM
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No one’s. Seriously, last time I was asked that question was back in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:03 PM
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Cuz It’s something personal and it’s no one’s business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:31 PM
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I’ve never had that problem, men that I’ve dated wanted a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:32 PM
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I don’t think about how much money a man makes, as long as he has ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:46 PM
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It depends. Probably not the ones you listed, but electricians, plumbers, mechanics I would because these people have a skill set in demand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:30 PM
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He doesn’t care, proceeds to type a long paragraph to explain why he doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:52 AM
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How making your own money is relevant to wanting a committed relationship? Idk, maybe to build something meaningful? Love and companionship? It’s clear that I’m not after money
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:49 PM
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Exactly, that’s what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:38 PM
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I ain’t reading all that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:35 PM
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This is an example of two people putting the same time into work. If you’re the sole provider the least your wife can do is take care of the home. Good for you have enough money to sustain someone else, but not everyone aspires to be a SAHW and do brain-dead “work.” Sorry, but if money is the only thing a man can offer I don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:44 PM
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Good point. Thanks for your input
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:38 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:29 PM
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Ok, virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:26 PM
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In your case, if your putting more time into work it’s reasonable the that other party contributes in the house more than you do. I guess my example was for two people who work same hours and in the same conditions. It’s not about being 50/50, it’s about being fair. I don’t have a cushy office job either, I work on my feet all day long. I would be upset too if someone who worked less time than me wanted to split equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:13 AM
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Lmao who told you that lie? Now your stance makes sense. Now that just enforced my belief, men can do whatever they want, but still want someone to come to home with and take care of house chores. Ok, good chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:01 AM
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My perspective is based on what I’ve seen in my environment, also what you just quote me is one of the main reasons why women initiate divorce. It’s just my opinion though, maybe I’ll change my mind in the future. But why everyone assumes that not married = single with no partner whatsoever???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:32 AM
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Funny how infidelity is one of the main reasons couples get a divorce. Marriage =/= commitment. It should, but it’s not. If it works for you awesome, but don’t assume what I “lack” because of different preference. I’m in a LTR, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:23 AM
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Trust me, not everyone in marriages have those qualities you claim I lack. Wild of you to assume I’m single and not having children
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:44 AM
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Yes, we all know by now men don’t give a shit about women’s career or accomplishments
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:27 AM
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Society influences people, we all want to fit in be accepted by it. How is applying makeup and being into fashion close to be a narcissist anyway? Women and men just have different interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:24 AM
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Fair. In the first paragraph you’re describing a narcissist woman by saying “she sees herself being better than him.” But many trad women who expects the men to pay don’t see themselves superior to a man, they even would submit to these men. Regarding your other paragraphs, hard disagree. Women have been conditioned and socially learned to look good, and been told that “men are visual”, “women’s value come from youth and beauty” and what not. Even in some jobs wearing make up is required as part…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:15 AM
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Close, but not all entitled people are narcissists, but all narcissists are entitled. It’s a disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:50 AM
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Narcissism is a personality disorder, characterized by an inflated sense of oneself while believe others are inferior, and a lack of empathy. The word you’re looking for is entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:46 AM
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People be throwing the word narcissist so lightly without even knowing the meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:33 AM
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Couldn’t say it better 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:28 AM
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That’s a fair arrangement. if ever happen to change my mind about marriage, I would like something like that. But I’m just biased from what I’ve seen in my environment, not good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:24 AM
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I didn’t say never. I don’t mind all that, but if we both work full time, house chores should be split. Your mistake is believing that women have jobs and degrees to impress men, and not merely to survive in this world. Not everything revolves around you men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:52 AM
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You’re right, I don’t know much. That’s the way I see it, but open to cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:42 AM
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Neither. Give me the average-looking man with average income
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:30 AM
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Idk why everyone who doesn’t agree with splitting the bill is getting downvoted… the reality is, a man covering the bill signals interest in a woman. Most women don’t show interest that way. Personally, if I’m into a guy, I would make some advances as a way to signal I’m interested, but If I’m not into the guy, I would not let him pay my meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:27 AM
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Anyone who call themselves “alpha male” it’s an instant turn off 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:56 PM
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Love to hear a happy ending. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:39 AM
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Yes, if YOU see it that way. Many people in here feel entitled to get something in return, just because the other person did something for them. That’s why y’all struggling in dating and finding partners, when it’s not even that hard. It’s not about how much money you spend on the date, it’s about the quality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:45 PM
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Oops I thought I replied to OP in the previous comment. It’s fine, I couldn’t care less what strangers do with their life. I even said I could understand his POV and yet he was quick to throw the word prostitute lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:19 PM
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Nah bro don’t be confused and think you did something here 😂 you’re the one who’s pressed because has been “victimized”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:53 PM
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If being a prostitute means not wanting to go on a date at McDonald’s or Starbucks then call me that. You don’t need to spend a lot of money to have a quality date, it’s the lack of effort that is repealing. I’ll take the picnic at the beach anytime over an expensive restaurant because of the effort. You sound like a catch. Feeling entitled to have sex with someone after a $4.65 cup of coffee and a free walk, how can someone resist to that? You just pressed cuz you ain’t got no money to spend or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:18 PM
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If you see the relationship as transactional, then yes. It doesn’t have to be expensive dates, but walks and coffees? The lack of effort and being cheap repeals women. I can see where you’re coming from though, but as a woman, the way I see it shows me you’re not rly pursuing something serious, and as soon as I give you access to sex, you won’t try any harder because the only thing that took you was a coffee date and a walk to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:54 PM
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Why would women have sex with you if you have nothing to offer? Maybe women who are looking for ONS would be okay with that, but women looking something serious would not give you access to their body. Some women see sex as something intimate to share with someone who’s worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:22 PM
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I barely go to the gym, so I prefer someone who’s similar. That does not mean I want someone who’s fat, cuz I’m not even fat myself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:04 PM
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Maybe, but that tittle implies that if women don’t kiss passionately on the FIRST kiss they’re simply not into the guy, which is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:19 PM
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Absolutely, but many women don’t make out on the first kiss. There are even some women who don’t enjoy tongue kisses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:10 PM
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Same thing. First time kissing a guy I barely know, I’m not making out unless I want it to led to the next thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:57 PM
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Wild conclusions. I like tongue kisses but i don’t do that on the first date, not because I’m unsure about the guy, but because I just met that dude and I am reserved. Also, intense make-out usually lead to other things and I’m not about that on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:51 PM
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Cuz you have no say. How about not dating slutty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:33 AM
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Exactly. Usually the men who complain about being used as an ATM have no money in first place. It’s not being a “gold digger,” like you said, it shows he’s generous and can support a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:25 PM
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Found the brokie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:21 PM
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If I’m interested in a man, I expect that man to pay for the date. It’s not debatable, that shows me he’s generous. If I’m not interested or the date didn’t go well I’ll pay my half. However, if I invite I’ll offer to pay for both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:36 PM
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Sigh, I’ve been reevaluating my my entire relationship with my current bf for the last few months. I love him, but I don’t think we have the same long-term goals. It’s hard, but I don’t want to be alone because it’s so boring. I feel like I’m never gonna meet anyone like him
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 04:36 PM
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No
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 09:39 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:31 PM
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Objectively, I’m a 7, which is not bad at all. I try to take care of myself and appearance to boost my confidence
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 04:11 AM
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What else? Ask you out on a first date? Pursue you? You know what happens when women go after a man? Men label them as easy and just someone to have sex with. They won’t take you seriously because they did not have to make any effort. I’m better off alone. “Misunderstandings for guys can be dangerous these days.” That’s an overreaction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:41 PM
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I mean as long as you’re not being sneaky and you’re communicating that to her and she okay with it I see no problem, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:11 AM
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I like your perspective and I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:07 AM
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I’m not, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:51 AM
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Sorry dude, I’m not that old
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:14 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:12 AM
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I’ve been rejected in the past. Don’t twist my words, I never said you shouldn’t be afraid, I said accept it because you will face rejection everywhere. There are ways to approach people, I’m not gonna tell a guy I’m interested right off the bat, without even testing if there might be a mutual interest. Now makes sense why many of you get rejected cuz you don’t know how to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:11 AM
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When did I ever pull the victim card? This is not a rant. It’s not a rule, but men are still expected to be the main providers just like women are expected to be the main caregivers, especially if there are kids involved. No matter how you or other people try to spin it, but that’s how it’s been for years because of gender roles. Note, I’m not even complaining about gender roles, but explaining why it’s still expected by society. There are fucked up women and men out there, it’s not just the “ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:45 AM
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Was that so offensive? You cannot say anything these days without hurting someone’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:52 AM
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The purpose of flirting is to establish a connection and see if the other person reciprocates to find out if there’s mutual interest. But yeah right, you got me I just like to play games. Telling them I’m interested out of the blue when we don’t rly talk to each other, and not to mention I’m shy. What a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:50 AM
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Well, I don’t have any social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:33 PM
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Lmao what kind offensive language did I use? Quote me pls. Sure you do buddy. Have a good life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:30 PM
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I get where you’re coming from, but honestly what you see in social media it’s not real life. I have met average and below average men dating pretty girls. It doesn’t take a lot of intelligence to perceive someone’s interest, if you can’t recognize social cues and body language, then you have a major problem. No, most women do not spend time chasing the 1% top men, that’s what the RP and social media made y’all believe. Go outside and meet women and real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:04 PM
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Welp, you’re gonna face rejection everywhere, not only in dating. Sorry, that’s life. I’ve been rejected too, and have flirted with some guys and couldn’t even pick up the hint or simply not interested, idk. Not all women want a hot guy who dates multiple women. Most women want exclusivity, if you’re average or below and the only thing you can offer is sex, then no wonder why you can’t get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:33 PM
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You’re saying that as if the average young woman had access to those millionaires and the tall athletes you’re talking about. Personally, I’ve always been attracted (physically wise) to men within my league, and also men around my age. The problem is the average man has NO GAME. I have found some men in my college classes attractive, but they’re so unaware when I’m trying to flirt with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:18 PM
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Glad to hear there are people like you. Unfortunately it’s very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:52 PM
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As a woman I dont necessarily disagree in all things with RP, but I have come across some men influencers that you have mentioned in podcasts who are very degrading, then all the bootlickers in the comments parroting the same shit, that why the RP has a bad rep. Personally, I don’t like the trad roles arrangement, I would be bored to dead due the lack of mental stimulation. If it works for some couples that’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:26 AM
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So women’s only purpose is to pop out babies for potential boys. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:11 AM
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Governments and societies ran by men. Of course they would do this for their own selfish reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:15 AM
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The world is gonna eat you up. Ig die alone is you only option
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:13 AM
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Cry about it or adapt to times. Back then many women couldn’t escape from abuse or neglect from their marriages because they had to depend on a man financially. I don’t think your main concern is that society will “collapse” you’re just pressed because you have nothing else to offer to a woman but money. Just say you don’t want women to have freedom for your own benefit and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:23 AM
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So what are you trying to imply here? That women shouldn’t have access to higher education or financial independence just for the sake of men? Are you mad that women can now be self-sufficient no longer need a man to depend on? Sheesh. You shouldn’t rely on anyone, but yourself. What would you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:44 PM
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Idk what type of women you associate with. I won’t deny there are some women who tolerate that, but it’s not majority. Those women you talk about have some type of trauma and low self-esteem issues. Any woman who grew up in a healthy environment would not put up with that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:58 PM
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I think is completely individual and has nothing to do with how attractive you are. I’ve always been submissive, I prefer others to take the lead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:52 AM
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I think it’s always been the same, but now you see it more often because of social media. Personally, I don’t need a wealthy man who can take care of me, I like to be productive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:50 AM
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Exactly, I find it silly. They always think the grass is greener on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:25 AM
4

Not me, y’all be safe tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:12 PM
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I was gonna agree with you on studying and making some money, but this is just sad. Sex work and sleeping around is not empowering. Hookup culture only benefit men, you’re saying men will ditch you once you have kids and “hit the wall”, but how men using you and ditching you as a disposable sex object is empowering? To each their own, but some of us are looking for something more meaningful than a hedonistic lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:29 AM
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Boohoo speak for yourself, I love all the men who have been in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:50 AM
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“Don’t ever argue” lol. So if there’s disagreement, don’t voice your opinion, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:06 AM
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No need to be hostile towards anyone over disagreement. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and it has nothing to do with me. No need to apologize, but it’s still appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:59 AM
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Hassa who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:01 AM
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Sorry my friend, I’m not familiar with that lingo or get the point you were trying to make. Anyway, do as you please, you have free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:57 AM
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Most women are not the ones you see portrayed in social media, but I know where you’re coming from, you should only care about the women in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:40 AM
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If she a cheater, she is a cheater. Restricting somebody won’t change who they are. You’re entitled to your own standards, but don’t act surprised if they ask you to do the same. Personally, if I’m in a relationship with someone I give them the benefit of the doubt, we never go trough each others phones, and we never had a reason to do so. If I’m with someone and they’re with me it’s because we trust each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:30 AM
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Haha ok kid, consumerism is the reason why y’all men in the west are statistically more depressed. I couldn’t care less if men watch Andrew Tate, everyone is entitled to their own opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:11 AM
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Yes, I wonder why 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:00 AM
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Just like you said, criticizing INDIVIDUAL women, and nothing wrong with having boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:59 AM
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With that fixed mentality, I cannot argue with you. There’s more value in life than materialistic things and hedonistic lifestyle. The pursuit of instant gratification is not a long-lasting happiness. That’s why the west is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:49 AM
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Ideally, would be a father. The best advice is from a person you look up to and know you personally because they have your best interest. Some of these life coaches that I mentioned are focused more on getting to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:33 AM
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Vulnerability is good, but not on a daily basis. If you have a legitimate reason and going through some shit. I want someone to be honest and open up to me. I consider vulnerability as another type of intimacy, which is important in a relationship. However if it’s on a daily basis over trivial stuff it can become burden, regardless you’re a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:44 AM
1

Ya, ya. Whatever helps you feel better about yourself buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:53 PM
1

Don’t worry guys. He’s a TROLL 🤣 let him have his 5 minutes of fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:52 PM
10

Damn sorry you’ve never experienced love
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:45 AM
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Yup, life’s unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:03 AM
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Oh god, shut up
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 04:16 PM
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We’re not rare, we’re just unnoticed. And I’m not even ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:15 AM
1

Source? I really doubt the most successful marriages are the one who have never seen each other. Imagine your SO admitting they never have never been attracted to you physically…No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:53 PM
5

Ok? I missed ur point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:30 AM
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Physical attraction is and always be important, period. This is not arguable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:15 PM
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Attractiveness is subjective, and I may be biased cuz I have a type. It’s been years, but I think I had tinder for about a month until I met my current bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:21 PM
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Honestly yes, not too ugly, but unattractive. I proly just swiped right to only 3 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:55 PM
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It’s usually like that. In you’re 20’s you’re still young and naive with little dating experience (at least in the eyes of older men). I had a similar situation like you, thankfully I listened to my family and realized sooner.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 01:56 AM
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I don’t buy the “bad texter” thing, especially if she was into you. 9 hours it’s just a ridiculous amount of time for not answering someone you claim to be interested in… unless she is working, but I doubt it. I would text back just to ask if there’s something wrong
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/23 09:03 PM
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Yeah, that’s a well known fact. Thanks for pointing out the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:12 AM
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Why y’all obsessing over bodycount?? Why y’all have the need to tell a man about your past. Most of them won’t even ask
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 03:02 AM
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Yea I feel, the reality is most men and women ain’t shit, I noticed it’s always the ones who demand the most who have so little to offer. I’m not gonna give you the vague “just be yourself” no. Work on the best version of yourself, and confidence will be natural. Once you start to not give a fuck about what the opposite sex thinks, you’re gonna achieve your prime self.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:17 AM
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If we all stopped giving a shit what the opposite sex thinks about ourselves… Just become the person you want to be, and that’s how you’ll be truly confident. F*** men, women and everyone!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:46 AM
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The people complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:28 AM
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This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:32 AM
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Yes, women on average have unrealistic standards, don’t complain if you end up alone. Same with men, don’t complain if women can get away with things because of your lack of standards. I’m just tired of you people complaining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:29 AM
8

My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:51 AM
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Well, idk but some of you men in this sub value way more looks, youth and low body count over other things, such as character and intelligence. Men demand so little and at a superficial level, so why the average woman put some extra effort? Maybe men should raise their standards or arrange their priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:16 PM
3

Don’t be a hater 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:07 PM
4

I don’t care how HV you are, if you don’t like my cats I don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:47 AM
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As an introvert, I don’t think I could’ve met anyone irl bc I don’t rly go out a lot. In my experience, I like it, that’s how I met my now long term boyfriend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:00 AM
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I always feel bad and try to be gentle, but if you’re being intense and creeping me out ima tell you to f off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:06 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 05:57 AM
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Honestly, if it was the case that it might come up I would completely disregard it. Just tell them what they want to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 02:29 AM
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Key word: virgin
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 01:01 AM
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I don’t see why some women have the need to tell men all about their past lol. I’ve never been asked once about my past, and viceversa. I never had a “slutty” phase, but it’s non of their business.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 11:46 PM
1

Meh, I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:07 PM
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I don’t have a celebrity crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:36 PM
2

NONONO. Despite of the disadvantages of being a woman I wouldn’t change it for anything in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:58 PM
1

If it on the smaller side I don’t care as long as you know how to use it. If it’s a pinky for dick then….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:44 PM
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Nah some RP men come off as misogynistic and like the only purpose of a woman it’s to procreate and make their men happy. I’m individual person with my own goals, ambitions and opinions. I don’t live to serve a man. I want a man who’s protective just like I’m nurturing, but the traditional gender roles don’t work for me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 08:54 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:44 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:54 PM
3

“Female intuition” is bs. It’s just plain intuition, some people are more intuitive than others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:53 PM
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Cheating is never good, but I can see your point of view. I believe sexual compatibility is crucial in a relationship. That said, if someone is not meeting their partner’s sexual needs then they’re gonna look someone else who does it because your neglecting your partner. I’m not saying cheating it’s justified, but is your responsibility to meet your SO needs, whether you’re a man or a woman. If you get to the point to have a dead bedroom just break up, especially if there are kids involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:29 AM
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Oof honey… men don’t like women who beg, that’s so unattractive.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 02:38 PM
2

Thank you, you described it perfectly. Some people didn’t get my point and they’re mistaken it for being an argumentative bitch. It’s all about the art of being nonchalant, it’s okay to reciprocate when you know for a fact there is mutual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:01 PM
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I agree. Personally, I’m not argumentative, it’s giving to much importance when the goal it’s to seem like you don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:04 PM
1

Cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:59 PM
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This is just something that has worked for me in the beginning of dating. It’s not about being an actual bitch, it’s about being in control of your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:58 PM
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You keep missing my point. “We love women that make things easy for us” Again, this is not about being an actual bitch and giving a hard time. In fact, it’s about being calm and in control of your emotions. At least real men like challenge in the beginning of dating, it does not mean we cannot show interest, but it has to be minimal at the beginning. If men didn’t really like me why they stick around? Idc anymore, I’m happy in my relationship. Best wishes 🤞🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:26 PM
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Did you read what I said? That advice is for the beginning of dating. I don’t think you understand my comment. This is not about giving a hard time and actually bitching, it’s about being in control of you emotions and not being too available for him. However, it does not mean we can’t or shouldn’t reciprocate. Men don’t like easy women for LTR, and that’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:03 PM
4

Happens all the time. Men just don’t wanna hear the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:37 PM
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Nice try, I’m in a LTR. This advice only works in the beginning of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:35 PM
3

Lol I’m not ready to take the heat. But ladies, that’s the way to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:00 AM
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Well, I came to the conclusion men love bitches too, I used to be the sweet girl. Now I became indifferent, sometimes hot and cold, and detached. In my experience, it works wonders, men love being treated bad too. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:08 AM
1

The whole gender war thing is the reason why I joined this sub 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:36 PM
4

Valid. I guess depends on the degree, but as long as you learn any skill. No one goes into marriage, expecting tragedy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 02:57 AM
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Hahah go to school. Nothing wrong to be a house wife, but it’s always good to have a back up plan. Regarding your question, church.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 09:37 PM
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What do you think is the cause of this? Is it because you were raised conservatively? Or maybe is it a lack of confidence? Either reason, hit the gym, practice self-care and work on your appearance, this might sound superficial, but when you look better you feel better. Leaving aesthetics aside, read and cultivate your mind, might as well find a hobby where you can meet people. Last but not least, get out of you comfort zone, it’s hard, but put yourself out there, smile and talk to people.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 05:22 AM
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Both are important, but I think I’ll go with similarity. I want someone who can relate to me and viceversa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:16 PM
7

70-80%? More than 20? Where’d you get your stats from? That’s insane
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:00 PM
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I rolled my eyes looking at this 🙄 work on your confidence and personal goals, you’re being fed bs
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 06:52 AM
2

I got banned too
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 05:14 PM
2

No, no and no. It’s just ridiculous changing your career for the sake of finding a man. Like one comment said, if your career is not preventing you from being attentive then you should be fine. The world doesn’t revolve around men, focus on yourself and the right one will come. I’m studying engineering (male dominated career) I would never thrown away my effort and dedication just to be more “feminine.” I’m already feminine regardless of my career choice
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:05 PM
1

That makes me feel better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:49 AM
3

Damn I wish men did, (check out, not staring) but I’m flat as a pancake!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:37 AM
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I don’t know about y’all, but I do care. If I don’t find you physically attractive, I won’t even bother to get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:57 AM
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Yes! I got banned from offmychest without ever comment/post anything on there
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 10:43 PM
3

Fair if a man would accept that I’m a woman with options too (and way more options than man) Otherwise, I don’t wanna hear nun
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:12 AM
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As one comment said, it starts with a self-introspection and getting to you yourself. I would say that working on your personality means to identify your weakness and negative traits and take action to change them if that’s what you want, or simply improving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:00 PM
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I’m a metalhead girl and I usually wear baggy all-black or dark colors, plus I have “masculine” interests as well. Still, I wear make up and get my hair and nails done regularly, and I consider myself very feminine and delicate 💅
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 08:27 PM
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For me it’s looks overall. if I’m not attracted to a man, I won’t bother to get to know him or care if he is “successful”. I don’t care about a man’s job or how much money he makes, as long as he is somewhat financially stable. What matters to me is to find him attractive and have a good chemistry. Overriding thought: “wow he’s cute”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:26 PM
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Oh yea? Where can I find a man like that? Cuz my boyfriend doesn’t 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:53 PM
1

100% agreed with you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:56 PM
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Well I think it depends how much we’ve been getting to know each other through text. Personally, I would say a reasonable amount of time would be no longer than two weeks. I want to know the basic information of someone before meeting up. I met my boyfriend two weeks after texting, mainly because we were both busy and also I was kind anxious to meet up too soon, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:54 PM
1

Lol good luck finding a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:32 PM
6

To me, creepiness is when a man is being intense and persistent when you’ve clearly show no interest at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:18 PM
3

Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:33 AM
1

Chill my dude. Nobody’s saying or thinking that men are brainless animals with no moral compass, that’s what OP implied by his post. You just woke up and chose violence lmao. These “males” be tripping
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:17 AM
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Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:55 AM
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I get your point, but men shouldn’t be excused for cheating because they “can’t help” it. Yes they can, humans are able to control their impulses. Promiscuity is a form of hedonism, it’s the pursuit of an empty pleasure at the expense of something more valuable. If you think you can’t control it, then maybe you have a low consciousness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:58 AM
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