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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	First get her comfortable and then get her attracted to you From personal experience.. thank you for saying this!! People don’t understand why I don’t go on a date right away or reject guys I barely know. If I meet you once and you instantly throw compliments at me and hardcore flirt, I get overwhelmed. I’m also an overall extremely anxious person so I might be exaggerating but my attraction WILL NOT begin until I am completely comfortable with the person. There’s the initial attraction but making moves right away will likely only drive them away.	/r/seduction	15/04/21 07:44 PM
2	Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead. I completely agree with this. I’m so tired of people getting mad at me for rejecting “nice” guys. A lot of guys I’ve met claim to be that typical nice guy, end up being complete douchebags. They’ll throw compliments at you 24/7 and then get mad when you don’t reciprocate or throw yourselves at them. Joke around more and act like a real human being instead of saying things you think she wants to hear.	/r/seduction	15/04/21 07:41 PM
1	What do you guys think about opening by asking for advice? I think that’s super sweet! I hate when guys start with compliments or some weird pick up line but one time (when I was working at a clothing store) a guy asked my opinion on these flannels he was trying on and we ended up talking for a really long time. I also agree with the comment above about asking advice on a gift- it makes the girl feel like you genuinely want their opinion, it’s more casual, and it ends up sparking a solid conversation. I also love when my guy friends ask me about their h…	/r/seduction	15/04/21 07:36 PM
2	Girl turned date into a double date Well, this exact same thing happened to me last week.. but I was the girl. He asked to hangout and I’m just an overall extremely anxious person who has trouble hanging out with guys alone. I’m completely bubbly in a group setting but alone I get overwhelmed. It worked out because because his friend and my friend have a sort of thing starting so I invited them (which he was completely fine with... hopefully) and to make matters worse, I invited my other friend to come too and she brought her guy …	/r/seduction	15/04/21 03:43 AM

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