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OP have you given any real consideration to sample bias? That'd be like a dude using seeking arrangements to find a long term girlfriend who loves him for his personality, and then being confused why he only is meeting gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:05 PM
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There are a few great reasons already highlighted. I would like to say there is also a huge difference between being a 22 yo single parent and being a 43 yo single parent. That is partially because of all the responsibilities that accompany being a parent. Most 25 year olds want to party and have a good time. If you are doing that regularly when you have a kid, you probably should not have a kid. Jesus may be willing to overlook your past once you repent, but the rest of the world is less likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:35 PM
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People can ask for whatever they want. If your sister is middle-aged but wants someone down to pay for everything and increase her lifestyle she needs to be seeking men 10 and 20 years older than her. Most self-made successful men who want a tradcon wife don't need to date women their own age. If a successful dude is dating women of a similar age it's because he wants a partner which implies a level of equality. Everyone wants to have their cake and eat it too, we are just hyperaware of other fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:21 PM
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Your comparison of onlyfans to strippers is appropriate. Plenty of strippers have clients fall in love with them and it leads to all sorts of chaos. The problem with onlyfans isn't the literal content, it's the messaging back and forth that implies a level of familiarity that is not real. There are literally jobs where they will hire you to respond for those women with massive followings. I'd argue it's just the latest version of the problem that social media and alternative forms of communicati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:48 AM
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This sounds like some real juvenile highschool level stuff. You need to change what you are willing to tolerate. If you are not a teenager you need to reevaluate who you are surrounding yourself with. Although that probably would be a bad idea regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:41 AM
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I think both sides are looking at extremes of the other without acknowledging their portion. Many content creators do lead men on since it pays the bills. Some are just friendly but there are bad actors. I can't remember her name but there was one really successful twitch streamer who capped her followers donations to something trivial like 5 bucks, which I feel is a great example of acting in good faith for various reasons, not all of which are altruistic. Some men do outright lie and lead wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:39 AM
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I will counter with the fact that many of the streamers, but almost all of the onlyfans women, actually do lead people on. They send out automated ambigious mentions that imply a level of intimacy that is just patently false I have no problem with people choosing to profit from sex work, but that cliche that a lot of an escorts job is talking is equally true for onlyfans girls. I don't think the problem is the content, but in fact the misleading communication that causes ignorant men to imagine …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:33 AM
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I'd also be comfortable betting, that the women's comfortably also depends on whether they are self-made or even if their family wealth is recent. Like that heiress who started dating the "sexy felon" as soon as he was out of jail. Whereas Mackenzie Bezos ended up with a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:44 AM
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Oh my bad then, that line of thinking is stupid. Sex work is the same type of easy for women that join the military is for men. It's only easy in that the barrier to initial entry is low and people assume it is easy, but there is a huge dropout rate once the participants become aware of what is actually expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:17 AM
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I think most men will casually joke about being a porn star the way women will say "fuck it, I'll be a stripper." Men know sex work isn't a privilege, except for an exceedingly small minority of cases, and even then it is still quite hard work. Sex work is often the last choice for many without other options. It's not there only option but it is one of the more passive choices. I say passive in that the assumed dangers are usually on the providers, whereas the crimes I mentioned could play out i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:18 PM
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Yeah but onlyfans also sells that same idea in making it that every wannabe rapper dreams of. Only a few will make it to the top, but that 1% is miles ahead of those of us working 9 to 5s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:35 AM
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Well I guess the transition to onlyfans makes sense now. I had to google the figures and you're right, if they are lucky it's about 1,500 but can be as low a several hundred.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:58 AM
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I guess I was thinking more along the lines of the guys who actually make enough to have a semi-decent living. Tbh I never researched this all that much, just see a couple of documentaries. I had to Google that claim, I have admittedly never spent time actually trying to discover the average male pornstars length, but you are right. I guess the data could still be considered skewed, since a minority of men are shooting the majority of scenes, maybe a better way to get an accurate sample would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:40 AM
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I'll respond to the other comment here. Sometimes the reason already gay men don't do porn is for the same reasons well adjusted 18 year old highschool cheerleaders don't start an onlyfans But do you think sexuality is so fluid that people just decide "well I guess a thousand dollars is worth getting fucked in the ass?" Or do you think people value money to the degree they will debase themselves as such? B&E, GTA strong arm robbery, and not to mention drug dealing are great ways to make a quick …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:15 AM
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You are moving the goal post. But there are a number of performers who go gay for pay. It's not something most people would be comfortable with. An inverse of your question might be, "If more women wanted to be CEOs, why don't they start their own companies?" There are multiple factors to consider, and to boil the discussion down to a few talking points is being needlessly obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:56 AM
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You're kind of wrong about the requirements for male adult talent. There is a fraction of the number of male pornstars as there are women. Porn is unrealistic in numerous ways, one being that most of the male performers are extraordinarily well-endowed. Ability to perform isn't as big of a hurdle anymore with all the E.D. medications but most dudes honestly just don't quite measure up to what mainstream companies expect. Possibly more importantly, unless you are a bit of a superstar male perform…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:51 AM
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Weed is the drug if choice for a lot of folks. There's a bit of crackhead wisdom though "There are two kinds of people in this world, those who LOVE crack cocaine, and those who have never tried it." I'm not saying your wrong, I haven't done a survey to study the typical clientele of an escort. There are all sorts of factors that can skew things. The clientele will vary widely depending on location. The price being charged should also be considered. I think your assumptions about the clientele a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:56 AM
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Maybe that's my skewed view, I don't even consider weed a real drug. I'm leaning more towards the kind of folks who do a few lines of blow at the bars on Friday before their 9 to 5 job on Monday. Also have you considered you are only hearing the bad examples because if your wife told you about the well off doctors and lawyers who she actually enjoys spending time with, that you'd get insecure? Edit: Normal folks don't tell there partners about the cute coworker they like talking to, or there rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:45 AM
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I assume youre in the us. I wonder if the customer demographic would change in a country where the legality was different. Based simply on the fact that to visit an escort is typically breaking at least one fairly serious law, the demographic of men who would be willing to risk it will be skewed. If I didn't have to worry about legal trouble I'd do so more often between relationships. It's the same reason a lot of folks who use narcotics are less than desirable people, it's not the act or actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:20 AM
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Seriously, but it's annoying how the majority of discussions around RP hyperfixate on the obviously problematic aspects. At it's core RP is supposed to help a generation or two of men who were indoctrinated out of masculine practices rediscover the aspects that centuries of evolution had deemed attractive for mate selection. The more problematic stuff definitely works on damaged women because damaged people are much more likely to fall victim to manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:29 AM
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Oh definitely, I was speaking from more of a content perspective. But a huge portion, probably the majority, of the dudes paying heavily into onlyfans do so because they lack appropriate social skills. I have a female friend who was streaming video games, totally clothed and trying to actually compete, she still got ransoms sending her 100s a month to just talk on chat and discord. Almost everyone, but especially unsuccessful men, would benefit greatly from just learning to talk to people normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:11 PM
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This is very true and the opposite applies to both sexes as well. When either sex has a body count approaching triple digits, well adjusted people are going to raise a few eyebrows. It's just that men and women are more prone to the opposite extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:18 PM
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This is a bit of a tangent, but the increasing extremes of porn could arguably be encouraging the adoption of things like onlyfans. The things women do on onlyfans is arguably as tame as average social media is at times. Hell selling pictures that could have been in lowrider magazine is already massively different than the type of stuff currently on the homepages of most major tubesites. Having an onlyfans isn't even a dealbreaker of mine, unless the chick has a revolving door of guest stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:28 PM
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I really think sex positive can only go so far. It's like decriminalizing drug use, there are levels to that shit. It might be become somewhat more normal, but I feel anyone who tries to say it will be normalized is trying to downplay the situation for either themselves or someone they know. With the rise of sexlessness and the number of people entrenched in conservative and/or religious beliefs I don't see a way this type of thing could ever be totally accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:50 AM
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I am not talking about the same field in academia. You may be best off going for someone drastically different from your own situation, not just a change of job title. You seem to be tech adjacent, go find some dude who is the foremost expert on a species of tree about to go extinct, or the who knows his shit about opium addicted authors of the Victorian period. You are going to be hard-pressed to find a guy who is comfortable playing second fiddle to you constantly. If you want an actual red-pi…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 12:31 PM
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Props to your success. You need to find a guy comfortable with how much you have achieved in comparison to his own success, which realistically might mean aiming for someone who occupies a much lower tax bracket with no ambition to break into the 1% There are plenty of starving artists who don't care how much you or they make, but would you be okay with that? Another option would be to branch out from your industry, someone seriously invested in academia probably doesn't care about your financia…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 11:44 AM
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You might be allergic to celery... I said something similar about some shrimp sushi once, and got a look just like the one that was on my face when you said "spicy" and "celery" in the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:12 PM
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Great genetics, or just enough early life trauma to make for an amazing personality without destroying the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:02 AM
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That's fair, but I am biased and that would be where I imagine my line would be. I'm not telling anyone how to live their lives just pointing out what I am comfortable with. I actually agree with what you said, but still believe it's an issue I'd prefer to avoid if possible. Who knows though, maybe someone will change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:28 AM
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Lol if she's not fucking other people and it means I'm now living well-above my means I'm all for it, but I know I am in the minority. However, the discussion completely shifts if she wants kids. I am indifferent, but I don't think I could bring a child into the world that was forced to face that social stigma, middle school is rough enough as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:25 AM
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The obvious answer, with supporting supreme court opinion, is because the potential child is literally contained within the hypothetical mother's body. On a more removed consideration I agree financial abortion should be legitimized but until such time we need to settle for hooking up with ambitious career minded women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:59 PM
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To be completely fair OP it could be a few things. The most likely suspects are It could be the kind of guy you are attracted to. I guess it supposes on where you are meeting these men. You mention weight several times, I don't know what you consider a little overweight but a decent dude isn't gonna care if you are a little chubby, but if you are downplaying the severity and are seriously overweight that might be the case. If you think it's the latter, you may want to hold off on hooking up as q…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:40 AM
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The joke nowadays is "the first red-flag was me finding you attractive." But in all honesty I'm at the age where if this kind of thing isn't at least partially under control we probably won't be running into eachother. I agree with your last sentiment, but I've accepted that as a reality if i want to date women with a compatible intellect. Finding the right match means loving someone because of, or at the very least, despite their flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:26 PM
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That's totally fair. I have a similar opinion. I think both of the extreme sides of the spectrum would need someone like-minded. So for most normal people somewhere in the middle is the most reasonable approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:10 AM
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As in you screen for more conservative women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:46 AM
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I am subconsciously attracted to overachieving/hardworking severely depressed women. I don't seek them out whatsoever but its a pretty safe bet, that if you put me in a room, the woman I'm most attracted to probably deals with depression. This isn't something I like or am happy about myself. They all come across as pretty well-adjusted and have all been in decent shape and they'd generally be considered conventionally attractive. But after getting to know them better I find most are emotionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:45 AM
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Have you ever had a bad orgasm? You are seriously downplaying the enjoyment women get out of sex by simply labeling it "casual." Many women realize and prioritize away from pursuing casual sex, but the kind of woman you take home from the bar, leaves with you because she expects or at the very least hopes to enjoy the implicated consensual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:19 AM
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Women have the same ideals they are just condemned for it. Literally alphafucks/betabucks assuming of course the alphabucks man never materializes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:58 AM
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That's definitely good to know and a side of the discussion that I rarely see mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:42 AM
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This should be encouraged more but I hate seeing it touted as blanket advice. Some of us don't want to do manual labor, and that is totally fine if you are smart enough to get through a good degree program. All the better if you're personable and can make good impressions and connections. Unfortunately some people can't handle that. The reality is too many people pursue education when they barely passed highschool. I also hate hearing people say they plan to teach like getting tenured is easy. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:29 AM
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That was a complete sales tactic. No judgement but once fisting starts being discussed, you are really looking at entry level kink I'm the rear view. It might be the type men you are attracted to, or they have attractive characteristics. Assuming these are typically successful men, like others have said they are just trying to cater to what the market typically wants. Admittedly though you do seem to have encountered a few outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:51 AM
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I mean in total, financial, religion, all that shit. I am not interested in all that, but from what I have read the financial aspect is the biggest hurdle. If you think I am way off base explain what I am missing. There are plenty of traditional religious men and women, a guy I went to school with just married some broad from south america, his biggest criteria was that she was a devout Jehovah's witness and virgin like he was. tbh I seriously wonder if it was all for a green card. As I reflect …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:09 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being opposed to promiscuity, believing you can enforce your ideals is the problem. A lot of tradcons and self-proclaimed redpillers are just incels hoping they can rebrand themselves. There are some women who want tradcons lifestyles, but most of the men that claim to want that seem to think they should just be assigned a wife. If a man is qualified to support a tradcon lifestyle he'd have no problem finding a suitable wife. (That ideal just isn't realistic in the cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:50 AM
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If you need help check out r/nofap If you want to understand, read up on dopamine addiction and how coping mechanisms can become problematic. You don't want to be asexual, you are just experiencing the self-loathing that all addicts realize when they reach a tipping point. You can continue the cycle or you can suffer through recovery. Neither option is easy, but one leads to a potentially happy outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:40 AM
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She is super hyped by a lot of the zoomer generation. She is not ugly by any means but I think you are failing to recognize your own subconscious bias due to her celebrity status. Instead of worrying about celebrities, figure out how to get the cute barista out to lunch. If you have a high enough opinion/value of yourself, no one is out of your depth. If you don't think you're interesting enough to date a celebrity work on yourself until you are. It might border on arrogance or pure delusion but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:25 AM
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Incest is also typically one of the happily accepted reasons to get an abortion. Despite what Mormons and other like-minded cults would have you believe, a few generations of fucking your third cousin is still a great way to lower the average IQ of future generations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 04:55 AM
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Your circular logic is tiring. I hope you eventually break the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:02 AM
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Step1: Be attractive. Step 2: Don't be unattractive. Some people can't wrap there heads around the concept that there are aspects of being attractive that have nothing to do with what we look like. Sometimes that means money, sometimes its power, and includes everything and anything in between. It almost seems like you are failing to account for different preferences and are in search of perfect model and script for what makes a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:00 PM
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Lol I'm not the one upset with my prospects. I feel like you went out of your way to find an unflattering photo of her which happens to be from their podcast. You need to do some real self evaluation. This whole thread had been people point out other perspectives and you doubling down on your beliefs. Redpillers and bluepillers have highlighted stuff you are overlooking but you are not open to any possible alternatives. Unfortunately instead of making a reality check, you seem to be one of those…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:13 PM
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It is easy to select a single candid frame out of reference and she may not be your type, but if you are denying she is attractive you might want to work on fixing your porn addiction first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:56 PM
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Game is just a bastardization of appropriate social skills. People who call it game earnestly, do so because they are performing it instead of living it. If it were natural you'd call it charisma, charm, or just personality. Even online the attention they receive is negative. Most women don't get approached because most men don't approach. But online is just as bad. Poor social skills are a problem online as well, especially when negative people are involved. And just because the dude thinks he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:24 PM
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This reads like you're too invested in theory, and not the actual practice. If you do more poorly in person than online, than your social skills aren't as polished as you believe they are. Women do get tons of attention but most of it is negative. The idea of a cold-approach isn't accurate. It's literally too cold. If you are in line to get coffee and ask which drink is her favorite you can easily transition the conversation. If you make a beeline across the room, it is almost always way too agg…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:48 PM
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I'd like to read any literature you can provide on the subject because I don't feel like you are using that term correctly. There can be mostly well-adjusted people who are promiscuous, that doesn't mean they aren't using it as a coping mechanism of some sort. Fear of attachment comes to mind. It's just like people who will have a few beers right after work every day. Nothing outright wrong with it, but that doesn't mean it's necessarily the healthiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:56 AM
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I'd venture that it's successful across most situations. As much as people hate to admit it, excessive promiscuity is just a coping mechanism. So the women you get may not necessarily be insecure but they will almost assuredly be damaged in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:53 AM
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I think there's a nuance that's not readily recognized. Attractive women are aware they are attractive, except the vast majority of attention they get is predominantly negative, because the men who are aggressive are not kind. There's a powerlifting mantra that perfectly summarizes how to do well with most women. "Dominate humbly." If you are truly a kind person and not a "nice guy" you can do well with women well out of your league. The problem is a lot of emotionally weak people go from being …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:05 AM
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I completely disagree both men and women can date up or down. Unless the people are like serious old money than a lot of people can date outside of their class. At least it's that way in the western world. I mean Mackenzie Bezos just married the teacher from her kids school. This may be different depending on your culture. I know countries with class systems like India, are a whole different ballgame. One with which I am not readily familiar. If the woman in question is primarily motivated by ec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:52 AM
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This is also ignoring people, especially women, who are serial monogamists. Women have an easier time getting casual sex and by proxy relationships since it's generally accepted that it is men's job to pursue. But it's rarely acknowledged some women will have a new boyfriend every 3 or 4 months. Men can do that too, but they are usually also the same men that have regular casual sex anyway. I am not referring to dating casually, it's a hard distinction to explain but there is a serious differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:59 AM
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And good autoerotic asphyxiation will make you come harder than a blowjob from a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:05 AM
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Yeah some people suck. With the banning of a lot of "controversial" subreddits and the divisive nature of the discussions here a lot of posters can be problematic. I honestly doubt a lot of the more abrasive posters (both men and women) actually have or ever have had even remotely healthy relationships. I view the discussions here the same way I view religion, I do believe in a few Gods, but you probably wont like them, and I very likely hate yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:13 PM
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A disappointed acceptation and a donut cushion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:07 PM
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Oh I agree with your view on health, and that is a point I would definitely concede. I simply assumed in a fairly healthy relationship that would be enough. My response was based on the assumption that the answer was simply "I just dont like it anymore." Caring about your partners health is a crucial part of a healthy relationship. No-one should expect there partner to jeopardize their health whether it be physical or mental. But, would it really be ppd if we were completely rational without a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:00 PM
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People are entirely allowed to change, but change is usually caused by something. Something as innocuous as changing your mind has a rationalization behind it. So if you can explain why you enjoyed it but now you don't, I'll be happy to listen. But it's your job to convince me your being honest, I have stated my feelings on the subject. I brought up one night stands to highlight some outliers exist. I'm guessing you don't spend much time on this or adjacent subreddits. A common point of contenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:52 PM
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Both are necessary. There are always minor exceptions but nothing major. The difference is that one caveat is readily obvious, if I am not being treated properly I will end the situation. Now the more difficult aspect to ascertain is whether I am subject to the same rules as exes and for what reason those rules exist. If my gf tried anal once and hated it, totally understandable although a bit disappointing. But if her last relationship celebrated buttfucking Friday nights, I am going to serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:33 PM
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If this woman was seriously attractive or I was going through a particularly rough dry spell I'd probably go for it. I'd try to negotiate down to a skimask, but I could tolerate almost any face covering assuming there are eyeholes, just to make sure its actually her throughout the experience. But this highlights the fundamental difference, men need to work to get sex, women can ask just about anyone, which is the reason the paperbag cliche exists. Her willingness to fuck me despite finding me re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:31 AM
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That's definitely a possibility, but I wasnt exactly built like a typical Chad. I'm 5'7 on a good day and was super underweight in highschool. I believe attitude and mindset are really important, you can command attention without being cruel or a spectical, my attitude in highschool however broached on both. I believe I was and still am really easy to get along with. I just had no regard for authority or typical conventions in highschool. I would unironically repeat the cliche "live fast, die yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:19 PM
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In my experience they regularly can be. I totally fit the badboy stereotype in highschool, and some of the girls most in to me were the straight A college bound Asian chicks. A lot of people mature and grow out of these phases, but serial killers still get love letters and drug dealers often have stay at home wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:49 AM
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That's the funny thing about life, not even identical twins are identical so your point is moot. Men generally have more varied sexual desires, but the idea that there are enough chubby chasing men for all the overweight girls in the world is wishful thinking in my opinion. Even if they don't elect the information many men would magically change something about their partner if noone, including her, ever have to know about it. In regard to chubby chasers, they can often border on being a fetishi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:30 PM
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More power to ya. I'd argue that's just an aspect of modern dating since it's generally agreed women have an easier time getting into relationships in general. For some big women it remains true, but too many assume these things are concrete facts. There are always outliers, being short or fat just means you need to work harder to get over the initial hurdles. Look how well Prince did with women and look at the woman usher had his affair with. But when things are within the realm of reason I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:53 AM
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Your argument is completely valid. However, your neglecting to acknowledge the common point of contention. Men are told we need to love all shapes of women. Look at the feel good bullshit promoted by Dove, and "models" like tess holiday. It is fully within your rights to turn men down because they're not pushing six feet, but you can't turn around and complain when those same men turn women down for having the wrong cup or dress size.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:19 AM
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That's a good catch on the Catholic part at least in the U.S. and most other English speaking countries. And the points you make are true for most women posted on here. In the end it doesn't matter what the women's reasoning was, the outcome is the same. My point was more if she would choose to branch out from the church she may have better odds especially given her age. Most very religious people are married before twenty-five let alone thirty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:58 AM
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That was my opinion as well. She really seems more upset with herself than anyone else. I actually think in this case religion is to blame. The way most religions demand conformity in a couples beliefs severely limits options for everyone across the board. Such as honor killings on both sides in India as an extreme example. I hate the false equivalency that being religious means being morally upright. Many of the most hateful people I've seen claim to be devout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 06:50 AM
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Why do you think women who are known "party animals" have the reputation for being "easy?" Drugs will often influence and control how people act. And it's a simple matter of biology why they effect women more greatly than men when it comes to sex. I'm assuming you don't have much experience with illicit substances, but a large percentage of the more popular harder drugs can cause difficulty getting and sustaining an erection, while others can make it impossible to ejaculate. Women don't have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:00 AM
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NFL lineman aren't necessarily cut though. But I do agree with you. To actively workout is a pretty masculine characteristic and most women want whatever their ideal version of masculinity is. I'm saying that cause even though I'm 5'7 my dating prospects seriously improved after I started powerlifting. I'm still overweight but the way it is carried is completely different, and I actually have facial features again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:18 AM
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I agree, I probably should have clarified the actual body positivity is incredibly important. But the fat acceptance movement has co-opted it and now dominates the discussion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 11:33 PM
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I imagine it could be worse, but I don't believe it's strictly a race issue. Look at the "body positivity" activists. They try and claim that being called out for unhealthy lifestyles is the same thing as racism. If we are unwilling to date someone who is obese we are the modern equivalent of anti-miscegenists. I think a large aspect is that so many men have absolutely no standards and stick around with the first woman that shows them a little affection, and coincedently fat chicks are the most …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 11:17 PM
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Redpill is a loose philosophical belief system. In practice it's whatever the practitioner makes it out to be. There are aspects of it that are problematic and information and tactics that some might be morally opposed to. It's the same with any practically applied information. Science gave us antibiotics, but also lead to animal testing and the atom bomb. I can tell you the portions of the redpill that have I incorporated into my everyday life improved the relevant areas significantly. But othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:04 AM
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Dating improves for everyone in their thirties as long as they actively work towards becoming well-rounded people. The difference is that attractive men begin to have the advantage in some ways. Some men do nothing to improve themselves other than add commas to their bank account. Although that's impressive, it doesn't create a well-rounded person, and they in turn get matched with women who capitalize on their sexuality to extract actual capital. Some men have resigned themselves to that positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:31 AM
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From a linguistic standpoint that is probably because ma'am or miss is used to address someone. Whereas lady is only used to reference a 3rd person, So people likely hear it less because when we gossip we know who we are talking about, and if we are referencing a stranger we default to something much less respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:29 AM
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I get what you're saying, but it's practically a customer service term at this point. Languages evolve, sir was also once a honorific title, was the point I was making. Lady is just the same, In modern English it is used as a common noun. In everyday use it doesn't have the underlying connotations your ascribing to it. A speaker may subconsciously ascribe a sort of reverence to the word, but most of us don't. It's just another way of specifying a female, albeit a little more respectfully that ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:56 AM
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I feel that you're really grasping at straws here. I'm not even 30 and get called "sir" often enough it's no longer a surprise. Edit: kind of ironic to use the wrong "your" when having a meta discussion about language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:25 AM
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I'm going to go on a limb and say you'd have better immediate chemistry with the playboy. Generally speaking unless someone was going to join a monastery of some sort, to have zero relationship experience with the opposite sex, would imply they lack the appropriate social skills to do so. With the opposite being true for someone particularly promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:38 PM
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Ah, this might be part of the disconnect. I am speaking from a very American centric point of view. I have no idea of the hiring practices overseas. In the U.S. at least I stand by my statements. I wouldn't know where to begin in regard to the UK. I know a lot or even most of Europeans don't even have to worry about college debt. Over here it's a key component. I know people taking out loans to major in religious studies, ethnic studies, gender studies, and the likes. They insist on going to top…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:37 AM
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The vast majority of highschools don't offer anything like philosophy and to teach at the community college level you need a PhD. I know because I considered going down that route and spoke with my professors. I am all for people studying whatever they would like, but I also hate seeing people say they can't find a job and spent a fortune on school. Youre right in that a alot of generic office jobs just want to see a bachelor's, but a more marketable one will definitely give you a leg up on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:24 AM
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Not all degrees are equal was the main point. Just because something is challenging doesn't mean it is worthwhile. Admittedly philosophy students can be brilliant, but if the student is from a low tier state school with only a degree in philosophy they may have some trouble. Most of the successful philosophy students I know, took it as a sort of prelaw. Like most things in this sub, I'm speaking to averages. The average person would be better off getting a bachelor in business or accounting, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:00 AM
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I fucking hate when any propaganda references studies without citing them. That was full of baseless claims that the ignorant have just chosen to accept, despite vast amounts contradicting evidence. Its akin to flat-earthers or the religiously devout who cite the bible as a reliable source.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:01 AM
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In my experience this is true, and it's further magnified by the fact, women will fuck a mediocre looking dude if his personality makes up for it. Noone wants to fuck a troll, but if you can carry a conversation and are funny, 35 extra pounds and being under 5'10 aren't as damning as some folks claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:07 PM
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The advice to love yourself is literally the first step towards healthy relationships. Regardless of what your goals are. It's not to help you become more attractive, it's to ensure you are functional and self-aware enough to handle being in a relationship. In RP terms, loving yourself means noone is above you in importance. I.e. don't put pussy on a pedestal. (This belief may differ if you have children, I can't speak to that.) There isn't a single person on this planet I'd give my life for, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:35 AM
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Your right generally single parent just means someone who is dating and has children from a previous relationship. I was trying to make a distinction that I think is often overlooked. I won't date a woman with kids regardless, but I have more respect for folks who can coparent effectively despite no longer being together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:13 AM
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I like this train of thought. I also don't see it being acknowledged enough, that by talking like this, it is solid evidence she still pines for the ex who dumped her. Tons of people have the one who got away, or in RP terms oneitis and alphawidows. It's practically a universal experience. But, what is not okay, is failing to do the personal development that helps you get past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:19 AM
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I personally don't date women with kids. But, admittedly this is true. However, I view co-parenting while separated differently than being an actual single parent. Same goes for men. Ending up a single parent could be evidence of a few different things, especially depending on the parent's age. Yet only totally faultless reason is an unexpected death. And if your going to highlight absentee father's you also need to admit how stacked against men the family court systems are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:53 AM
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I might be willing to go bar hopping more often. I'd bet a lot of guys would go at it like crazy for a year or two depending how quickly they adjust. I suppose I don't like this hypothetical for one big reason, what causes this change? Are most men suddenly much more desirable, or have attractive women just started acting like men? Most average guys could admittedly find something casual if they seriously lowered their standards across the board. Women are simply more selective because they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:06 PM
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Medication. Most mental health conditions are chronic, however finding the right medication for the individual can allow them to lead an exceedingly normal life. More severe conditions will require more time to stabilize but once a treatment has been settled upon it typically becomes routine. If the person is in a developed nation there are usually a plethora of treatment options. If their family or community is opposed to treatment because of stigma or religion, they can go fuck themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:16 PM
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That is admittedly true to some extent, however my point was more aimed at individuals who decided that vitamins and exercise are adequate treatment for actual conditions. Many people don't know they need help. But when you know something is wrong and refuse to see a doctor and be proactive about it, that is entirely on them. Like stopping medication because you don't feel as bad as before, that shit wouldn't fly with a diabetic but for some reason many people refuse to recognize that the majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:23 AM
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Some of us do. I was more of a fuck up, but I was not a kind person. Hostility is actually one of the number one symptoms of depression, the cliche a miserable asshole is not just a joke. That being said, choosing to ignore mental health as an adult is no one's fault but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:06 AM
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I am not the norm or so I have been told. However, I like women who can challenge me mentally, I don't want to wonder if she's mentally challenged. All the better if her expertise is in something I am not readily familiar with. She'd preferably be straightforward, and assertive to a certain degree without making a scene. (RBF is kinda hot) If I ask where she wants to eat I'm looking for an answer or a discussion, not a guessing game. Realistic about her goals and the steps she is taking to achie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:09 AM
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holy shit, the total disconnect is absolutely nuts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 10:47 PM
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^ Gotta ensure society always consists of the haves and the have-nots.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:23 AM
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That's the point. Many of us are invisible until we force ourselves to standout. Get used to talking to people as people, not prospects and competition. When you start actually liking yourself, it radiates, and other people will start seeing you differently as well. Don't be neet, lift, find what isn't working, and change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:28 AM
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I feel like there are a few different thresholds in regard to looks. There's the model status people who just fall into it everywhere they go. What most people need to be more aware of though is the lower threshold. As long as your not repulsive then that's where game becomes relevant. I have attracted women way more attractive than me and it was almost assuredly due to my personality and sense of humor. I've accepted I can't just walk up to a girl at a bar and convince her to leave with me 5 mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:22 AM
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Honestly, I am 5'6, maybe, 5'7 on a good day. If you start with a defeated mentality, your fucked to begin with, and not how you're hoping. Tall and extra tall women can be just as insecure about height just in the opposite direction. Don't look at it like she's too tall for me, you need to think "instead of going down, I'll just go up on her"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:16 AM
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This is okay advice, but I feel like you are failing to realize how different socializing is when you remove school from the equation. There's a reason a huge percentage of people meet there first spouse in college. Both men and women just need to learn to socialize with the opposite sex better. I am a fairly average looking dude who is on the shorter side of the average range for men. But I can talk to almost anyone about anything. The gift of gab has done wonders for my dating prospects. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:39 AM
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This is so on the nose I feel like it must be satirical. Even the women on seeking arrangements are more self aware than this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 02:17 AM
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Reading through that data is interesting. I found the questionnaire they used and it discussed almost no policy decisions. It was all morality. Of course it is hard to predict conservative morality because most conservatives probably consider themselves religious and although morality is often intertwined with religious beliefs, in practice it results in stonings and honor killings. Most religious people consider themselves moral but only insofar in that it does not contradict their religion. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:12 AM
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Some of the oldest surviving English literature would fit that order. The one that specifically comes to mind is "The Country Wife" by William Wycherley. Chaucer's the millers tale may also fit the bill but I am less familiar with the specifics of that story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:17 AM
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Keeping your mouth shut gets easy as long as you get past the anger stage. A lot of people start out ready to burn bridges and if you want to live alone in the woods, more power to ya. But if you want to succeed in mainstream society you need to appear to go with the flow, even if that means lying through your teeth.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 11:32 PM
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I'm also guessing she wouldn't be into a powerlifter. A 200kg deadlift may be somewhat normal if that's what you actively train for. I'd bet she wants someone stereotypically cut which quite often means vanity muscles. Actual powerlifters are often unassuming and appear fat to the uninitiated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 05:25 AM
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There are two ways you can generally be considered attractive as a man. You can be exciting or you can be stable. A key point many people overlook is that those two things do not have to be mutually exclusive. Some women do wait at the finish line, just like some guys check highschool yearbooks for their next girlfriend. The cliche is that everything in life is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:35 AM
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There are two ways you can generally be considered attractive as a man. You can be exciting or you can be stable. A key point many people overlook is that those two things do not have to be mutually exclusive. Some women do wait at the finish line, just like some guys check highschool yearbooks for their dating prospects. The cliche is that everything in life is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:33 AM
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There are two ways you can generally be considered attractive as a man. You can be exciting or you can be stable. A key point many people overlook is that those two things do not have to be mutually exclusive. Some women do wait at the finish line, just like some guys check highschool yearbooks for their dating prospects. The cliche is that everything in life is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:33 AM
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I'd argue there is a difference between being unattractive or average and being unfuckable. To me attractive is not always the norm. Perfectly average people are acceptable but won't inspire us to go the extra mile. To me when someone is physically attractive we will compromise in other areas and vice versa. But your absolutely right physical attraction isn't the end all be all. Edit: missing prefix
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:54 AM
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Interesting. That honestly could be an interpretation. I suppose it is worded ambiguously that that hypothesis isn't totally implausible. I may have allowed my own biases to.influence how I read it. However quite regularly stuff like this is written and the only avenue OP pursues is the physical. Our different interpretations may due to both our own biases and the reality mat very well be somewhere in the middle. Generally speaking there is more room for compromise and settling in regard to look…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:14 AM
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This ignoring all aspects of attraction other than the purely physically. I have lowered my standards within reason because a girls personality made up the difference. The opposite has also been true for some women I've dated. It's always a case by case basis. We are all settling while also compensating in the areas we lack. If a dude looks like a young Brad Pitt but has a room temperature IQ or his social skills are reminiscent of a fundamentalist christian outside of planned parenthood, he pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:56 AM
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That's absolutely true. I try not to victim blame, but if dudes end up on the line for more than 1 dinner that's on them. Even that first one can be avoided depending on how much of a scene you feel like dealing with. We absolutely should help people break cycles of abuse, but it gets incredibly hard to sympathize when they immediately run back to the abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:20 PM
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I agree with you, just like it's unethical to string dudes along for free dinners. But the majority of the world doesn't care about ethics, that's why drug dealing is such a profitable endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:51 AM
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Outright manipulation especially the avenues that focus on trauma are incredibly problematic. But the term game can be fairly wide in scope. The reason it became widely used is that it answered a problem a lot of men have. Most men are unfortunately completely uncharismatic. Game answers that's in the short term. If they can fake their way into a chicks pants that answers the immediate concern most romantically troubled men are most preoccupied with. It becomes a problem when they run out of can…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:48 AM
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Also, it is a civil matter but depending on how extreme her claims are, once you prove yourself innocent you may be able to bring a civil case against her for malicious prosecution.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 01:57 AM
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It's really interesting how much overlap there's between alphawidowing and oneitis. If you flipped the genders it'd be textbook oneitis. If you analyze them both I think it's a great example of some of the differences between male and female attraction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 11:50 AM
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Apologies for the late reply, I did not notice this response. And not at all, I fully support women pursuing stem careers. My last suggestion was made to be intentionally biting and rude towards the professor. It is not necessarily representative of my actual beliefs. It's become a cliche at this point, but I typically tell my friends "I want a partner, not a dependent." I have no problem dating women who are better educated or more gainfully employed than me. The poor decision making applies to…
/r/MensRights04/07/21 10:59 PM
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The higher end divorce attorneys are getting wise to Bitcoin and crypto in general. If you are going to go that route you will need to either buy it anonymously and have a dummy wallet with a inconspicuous amount in it. I would also suggest looking into privacy coins specifically Monero which is the most widely adopted and generally used one when remaining anonymous is concerned.
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 10:32 PM
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The other person implied the man must have consented to have a child just because he had sex. Technically that risk is always present, you're missing point entirely in that men do not have a way to back out of a pregnancy. Women can abort, men have to wait and see what she decides. The whole point to this line of thinking is that if women can choose to terminate a pregnancy, men should be allowed to financially abort the child. If that were the case, single mothers would likely get the same leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:41 PM
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Single mothers are judged harsher because they alone determine if a child is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:27 PM
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No, I am very pro-choice and that is entirely her decision. However, the number one predictor for continuing the cycle of poverty is having children at a young age. My whole point was that men literally have no choice whether a child is born. That is the argument supporting financial abortion. Others have pointed out some of the barriers, but that doesn't change the fact that men do not have a choice. If a women tells a dude she's pregnant his future is completely determined by what she chooses.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:47 AM
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Using that logic leads to the idea that sex is strictly for procreation. If that is the case we should outlaw abortion completely. See how that line of thinking falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:39 AM
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That's a good point. I haven't heard of anyone pinning condoms except for women trying to baby trap. Doing it as a joke is tantamount to cutting someones breaklines for a gag. In this case I was intending to point the finger at men, in that they should be prepared as best they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:46 AM
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On the last point I agree that politicians do it for the votes, when I said people in power I really meant their super donors. The only reason politicians can effectively use it for votes is the religiously ignorant. And I am not trying to point the finger only at women on this one. If a dude seriously can not afford the 2 or 3 bucks to use a rubber, he should just jerk off. But fucking is literally the most fun you can potentially have for free. People complain about condoms but they are readil…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:19 AM
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Seriously. It's not that hard to wear a rubber. It's not as great, but no orgasm is bad. Fucking a random tinder thot raw is just begging for trouble. The only exceptions I have for this situation are so rare they'e almost pointless. However, I believe exceptions need to be made for boys who get their statutory rapist pregnant and women who intentionally baby trap high-profile men. There was a case or two of women who took condoms out of the trash to babytrap an NBA player. And that obligation i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:59 AM
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That is fair enough. Access would be a serious issue, especially depending on where you live. The stuff going on in places like Texas is abhorrent and simply a byproduct of a larger underlying that can be blamed on religion. It's a bit of a conspiracy theorist belief, but I truly believe the reason the people in power would want to limit the access of abortions is entirely to trap people in the cycle of poverty. Generally speaking most of this debate is rendered moot by simply safer sex practice…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:51 AM
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He couldn't. Noone should have exclusive choice, but it should be fair. If women have unilateral decision whether the child is born or not, men should have the option to financially abort. It goes without saying people should be making better decisions in general, if people were more selective about who they fucked in general this would be less of a problem across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:40 AM
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Yeah 12 weeks is still fairly early. I was thinking of Canada for some reason I thought they had zero restrictions whatsoever but I may have be mistaken. But like I said, it's not my decision so my morals don't matter. I don't think their should be any barrier whatsoever, the required therapy and videos and all that I think are absolute bullshit. I am well aware even at it's easiest, it can be a traumatic experience regardless of timeframe or extra hurdles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:20 AM
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That is foreign idea to me, but I can't speak to it one way or the other. Edit: can't*
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:02 AM
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Oh I completely agree, I believe their should be way less restrictions. My opinion on the matter is almost identical to Dave Chapelles. I do however find late term to be morally reprehensible unless it is medically necessary for the woman's life. However it's not my decision so my morals don't matter for this one. However, If I were a doctor I would refuse to perform the procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:50 AM
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Well one reason men dislike them is the fact they have no financial choice. The prospect of having a recurring monthly bill that demands like half of your paycheck essentially means your going to be poor for the next 20 years Also the people super opposed to abortion are the religiously devout, they don't think you should be having casual sex in the first place. A lot of them believe sex is only for procreation, so how dare we risk damnation for just an orgasm. So basically it's either the relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:46 AM
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I said born, not conceived. You're right and that it takes two to make a baby, but only women can choose whether to abort or not. That is the logic behind the financial abortion argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:54 AM
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Single father's don't have a choice whether the child is born or not. A single mother almost always had the option of not carrying the child to term. Men have no say until after the child is born so it is slightly different. I do think both single mothers and fathers should have chosen better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:40 AM
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Make it a throw back. In modern times there isn't a good answer other than people just making blanket statements about expectations such as childcare. You could write from a historical angle and discuss the lack of ability to own property. If you are atheist you can focus on religious institutions. You could realistically stretch out just a couple of the commandments in Sharia law to easily fill out a whole paper. If you don't care about your grade and want to piss your teacher off, you could wr…
/r/MensRights24/06/21 08:19 AM
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Yes, but you worded it in an accusatory manner, like you were looking for am argument. Noone is going to argue that those things are okay, but you chose to selectively highlight the female experience and blame men. That source claims that like 50% of men or in this case boys are all victims as well. I highly doubt the reliability and would like to see the actual study. If you have an agenda, you can manipulate data to support whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:14 PM
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As long as my happiness was also taken into consideration then I would without a doubt choose the happy woman. It is much more in line with my own beliefs. I have no problem helping you, as long as it doesn't inconvenience me. I like plastic cutlery, water bottles, leather shoes, bbq, and a bunch of other stuff people have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:14 PM
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That is a clickbait article intending to invoke the exact reaction you had. Outrage drives traffic, imagine how many views this received because you shared it. The data is being misrepresented. It was worded in such a way that it does not provide concrete numbers for the more alarming claims, instead it makes approximations. You are also completely ignoring the fact that according to your own source that boys were also heavily victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:09 PM
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You're being needlessly obtuse. They are getting asked for nudes by their contemporaries, Not the people sitting down for cookies with Chris Hansen. Really who among us that grew up with access to cellphones hasn't take a nude. Those asking for the photos don't realize the legal ramifications but neither do the people who take the photos. Rape culture is a buzzword. Rape is not ever endorsed in the first world, it really only is sort of acceptable, in as trump would put it, "shithole countries."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:05 PM
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I'll admit they may be outliers. I am not super familiar with the actual information regarding porn addiction because it was never really my poison of choice. Thinking about it logically it would make sense that men who would be predisposed to that affliction but were also capable of having casual sex regularly would more likely be sex addicts than just porn. As far as I know neither porn nor sex addiction is recognized by the DSM 5. I guess they could both fall under the proposed hypersexuality…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:13 PM
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That's honestly fine, it was more for the child's sake, but I suppose in the majority of circumstances an abortion is not in the child's best interest anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:39 AM
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I think that's what the majority of them would want. That's what I would want anyway. Maybe a similar situation as adoptions, I don't know the in and outs but if the child is of an old enough age to make some decisions they should be able to get some basic info or reach out if they desire. Especially for things like potential hereditary diseases. I do agree though if you're going to financially abort a child you can't just pop into their life occasionally like an estranged uncle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:26 AM
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This is just untrue. Porn addiction can be like any addiction and affect anyone. Two wildly famous and successful men who have openly talked about porn addiction are Terry Crews and Chris Rock. Neither of them are even slightly reminiscent of what you described. Admittedly some men may fit that description but it is not a universal. I believe porn is just one factor responsible for the sexlessness. Less actual socialization, greater demands from school and work, and the increasing wealth dispari…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:59 AM
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Lol yeah that's definitely the case for people who are like Drake and counting down the days until someone's 18th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:56 AM
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I guess it depends on what you're defining as insane but that's totally fair in many contexts. I can't argue either way on the subject based on my experiences, but there are definitely bad faith actors on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:41 AM
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I get that. There was a period of my life between like 19 and 22 when I was obese and had a lot of trouble readjusting my expectations and social norms. I don't think it's necessarily tricking anyone. It's really more of being aware of and working on your own value. It also wasn't a restaurant, I tutored at a community college before transferring. It was weird, it was almost 50/50 girls that weren't opposed to an age gap vs girls who definitely thought you were a bit of a creep. So it was a bit …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:26 AM
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Oh I'm not taking it lightly. I would definitely be running it by medical professionals. It's not like I'm just gonna score some juice at gold's. Currently it's not a major goal or anything, but I am aware that aging is inevitable and am considering all my options. I'm content with my current gains, but am also fully aware that I'm approaching the age where there can be a serious decline in natural production soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:57 PM
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Maybe occasionally, but more than likely not. I wasn't in any managerial position and was only part time, so at best you'd expect I might have been making a dollar or two above minimum wage. An age different of ten years or less isn't nearly as much of a deal breaker as people make it out to be. It is true most people end up with someone around their age, but if you take care of yourself you can totally aim younger, women can just as easily as long as they guy doesn't want kids. A large portion …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:43 PM
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Oh I agree with you on that. Really anything over 10 to 15 years or so, is most likely a resources type deal with a small minority of exceptions such as Ryan gosling like you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:56 PM
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If your an attractive enough guy, a ten years age difference can be negligible depending on the woman. I'm closer to thirty than I am twenty and when I worked at a place that served a lot of recent highschool graduates I had 19 and 20 years olds make it painfully clear they were interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:11 PM
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Predominantly physique enhancement yes. I work out regularly already but I wouldn't mind bulking up a bit more and I have learned that it also helps shed excess fat. Was your experience a positive one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:52 PM
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I've heard it proposed that although social media and modern culture is a contributing factor that the main reasons for the state of the majority of the modern world including the dating market is because we are in a post-industrial society. That concept is also used to explain the aging populations with the most advanced example being Japan. Western countries have it a bit better though because many countries like china and India have a huge gender disparity because of selective abortions and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:44 AM
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Admittedly not all men are that rational. That's why a lot of the popular ethots have had tons of work done. Shit look how many women who are considered sex symbols have had breast augmentation. Women are burdened with a lot more of the risks especially with the growing popularity of procedures like butt lifts, but I would argue that the majority of those who seek those procedures are getting them done due to dysmorphia. Most get them done to be more marketable. Also ignoring all his other atroc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:24 AM
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I've had conversations about stuff like this. We are living in the bodyshop culture. The women that are promoted as being the most attractive often have literally unreal body proportions because they bought them. Some people do actively workout and try to better themselves but tons of women resort to plastic surgery to get the crazy unrealistic curves. Men don't rely on plastic surgery nearly as often but TRT is on the rise, hell I'm considering it if I can get a doctor on board when I hit the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:58 AM
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I understand and fully agree it's a reasonable rule. My point was more that even the most open-minded of us having varying biases related to sex, especially regarding virginity. I probably wouldn't be comfortable dating a girl my age if she was one. It would mean we have vastly different lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:21 PM
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It's different for you, but not so much for the customer and potential partners might find trouble with it. I don't doubt it's very compartmentalized and sperated, I've even read about one girls "no list" specified "overt intimacy" her explanation was longer but what she described was very loving and intimate sex. Regardless of whether customers "have you" the way a partner would ignores the other issue in that whether we intend it or not sex is an intimate act. Sometimes much more so than other…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:07 PM
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A lot of swers feel that way, but do you really think those people would be seeking your services if the other chance was a real possibility? Many do, some don't. Even if your not shaming them, you are innately treating them differently. Whether it's shame or not is debatable but what is not is that society treats those people different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:59 PM
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There's also different kinds of sleeping around. Taking home a random person from the bar every night is totally different than the person who is a serial monogamist. Neither is ideal but I feel one is definitely worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:19 PM
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I've seen some say they don't want to do anything but missionary in their private lives. There are the other full service swers who claim when the sex is entirely transactional it is completely different than when they are intimate with someone they love. Regardless of your personal beliefs sex is arguably an I intimate act whether it is transactional or not. Which is why so many people get clingy especially after their first time, that some escorts will explicitly reject anyone who says they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:07 PM
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Everyone's different. It's not like there is some magic number that hits people. I don't know what your relationships have been or are like, but I'm sure there are some people who would be uncomfortable with that number in a potential partner. Have you ever cheated on a partner? Or is your number where it is because you openly swing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:48 PM
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A lot of is anecdotal but you can read about some people's experiences on the sex workers subreddits. A slightly different source you can look into is pornstars talking about how their private sex lives can be and often are vastly different. A common sentiment I have seen is burnout. Admittedly some do claim that sex for work is different than sex for pleasure. And then there are warped views on what acts are deemed intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:09 PM
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Yes, this is true if the woman is question is promiscuous. There are a lot of women like that out there, but they are also overrepresented when it comes to discussions like this. I think it's mostly because a lot of people only consider the women they see on dating apps and sites. The reality is that the average woman isnt on any of those services. The average number of sexual partners is on the decline for both men and women. Men's average is lower, but the average woman also isn't a raging who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:53 AM
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If that was your message my bad. I read through your post pretty quick, but it came across as very pro hoe to housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:24 AM
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You're underestimating the serious mental impact fucking hundreds of people has on a person. When the sex is entirely transactional it can impact people in a variety of ways. If you are comfortable and happy dating a literal whore, more power to ya. If you are the aforementioned whore, you do deserve love, but the majority of men are unable or unwilling to deal with the accompanying emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:16 AM
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I think it's important to note it's is not necessarily status within a given social group but status when compared with the world at large. The way the rest of the world looks at and treats you can be entirely different than how a small isolated group acts. If you are the poorest member of your friend group but still within the top 5% does it really matter? Status is also how we interact with the world. If you carry yourself in a way that commands respect without coming across as cringey that al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:52 AM
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Anywhere the gender gap works in your favor. If you're a younger man, almost all major college towns would work in your favor unless it's one of the super stem heavy or elitist schools that have more men than women. The opposite works for women. Anywhere that is predominantly men will make a woman's dating life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:17 AM
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I understand OPs position if the woman doesn't work and if there are children they are of a certain level of independence like 11 or 12 or something. If she's working full time she can buy me chocolates, and we can hire a maid and order takeout.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:12 AM
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Doing well for yourself should be a goal of all people. Live and lead whatever lifestyle you want. Wear a Rolex and louboutins. Or rock Yeezys and an apple watch. But to answer your question, avoid dating women who need a provider. Date professional accomplished women. There are plenty of female attorneys and doctors and other high paying careers. If you limit your dating pool to significantly younger women you will almost uncertainly be considered and viewed as the provider by default. Form a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:50 AM
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You're absolutely right but it is a serious issue for a lot of people. I think an important distinction that needs to be made more is whether the other person can support or contribute to the lifestyle you want to lead as a couple. I'm sure you know a lot of blue color guys can and do make over six figures a year but that lack of formal education is often a problem for academics who are fulltime baristas. From the male perspective I would totally be cool with dating a successful cosmetologist or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:40 PM
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I agree with this view, but a lot of women still love the idea of being provided for. Also worth noting is the education gap is only growing and a lot of women with degrees in things like communications are vehemently opposed to dating any guy who is blue collar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:13 PM
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I was just providing the general male perspective. They aren't necessarily my views which I attempted to clarify in my response. Not every guy has lived the type of life I have. I would have no problem dating someone with a checkered past, if they put the work in and got their shit together. But they need to have done that work and not caught HIV along the way. The past does matter and I am straightforward with anyone I get serious with and for some women it's not something they can handle. Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:09 PM
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Mostly drug and party type stuff. In highschool i had about the same amount of disposable income as the the people who had part-time jobs, but I didn't start working until like 19. I'd cut class to get drunk and was one of the reasons they had to install smoke detectors in the bathrooms. I was also kind of a hang around to some of the kids that were cliqued up Funnily enough I turned my life around and do about as well as I did back then and the women are generally more stable now lol. The trans…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:20 PM
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I scrolled a bit and was surprised I didn't see the fact that most dudes don't care as long as your standards have been consistent. What is really insults men is that the money aspect usually only comes into play when the woman is 30 with baby rabies. Golddiggers are another case entirely and they begin prospecting from a very young age. Everyone hopefully matures eventually but it borders on a cliche how often it happens right around or after 30 for women when they hear the biological clock is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:46 PM
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Oscar Wilde famously said, "Everything in the world is about sex - except sex. Sex is about power."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:09 AM
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I sort of agree with some gender scholars who say gender is performative. Some would argue anything a man does is masculine and anything a woman does is feminine. I have my own idiosyncrasies, but I generally believe that masculine refers to anything the majority of men have done predominantly of their own volition throughout history. Feminity is a bit harder to describe that way, because of how restricted women were in what they could do historically. I can say I greatly prefer feminine present…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:05 AM
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I am the first one to admit I appreciate a well done face of make up, but incidently I can not recall ever seeing any of the last three women I asked out west it. Tbh they were all of varying levels of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:34 PM
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The prolifers who are completely anti-birthcontrol are predominantly from abrahamic faiths. Eastern religions have rules that are a bit looser. The generally accepted types for them are any birthcontrols that prevents the fertilization of an egg. So condoms are great. Vasectomies and tubal ligation also have the green light. Basically anything that makes producing a zygote impossible. The one that they are against most, I believe are the iuds that kill the zygote a few days after fertilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:19 PM
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I really hope you get some positive experiences with men, because your world view is pretty bleak. Most men don't automatically blame the victim. I don't know if community is the answer to the violence problem, but it probably can't make things any worse. I have already admitted that men are the usual perpetrators of the violence. I don't know what to tell you if you believe someone is capable of murdering someone they actually love. Because that sounds an awful lot like sociopathy, and they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:08 PM
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We are all expendable. I think I'll just quote Stalin and say "A single death is a tragedy, and a million deaths are a statistic." You either can't grasp or simply don't care how much more likely men are to die. It's sad women are killed, it's sad when men are killed. Your only focusing the the numbers that pertain to you. You simply claim that men take greater risks, but provide no examples. Was I or the multiple friends I know being excessively risky when all we were doing was walking home in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:33 PM
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I'll be honest, I'm don't attempting to argue in good faith. We have been going in circles for awhile. I am sorry your world view is so jaded. Hopefully your outlook or situation will improve. But trauma often attracts more trauma so more negative experiences might be due to self-fullfilling prophecies. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:16 PM
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Men are more likely to be victims of random violent attacks not just because of risk taking.. Women are more likely to be assaulted by someone they know. Your ignoring the fact that women albeit less often are regular perpetrators of violence. The figure you're using about the number being higher than the number of soldiers dying is just a talking point. Consider how many more couples there are in the world versus the number of active duty soldiers. Not to mention we haven't had a serious war in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:29 AM
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You could use that same logic about women who choose to enter sw. No one who enters a risky occupation expects to die. I am fully aware that men are usually the ones who commit violent crimes, however men are also statistically the ones most likely to be the victim of said criminals. What about the fact that 17 - 45% of lesbians couples have reports of domestic violence. How do you account for that much violence when men are removed from the equation? Or what about the fact that although domesti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:04 AM
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You're either missing or completely ignoring the numbers I gave. Yes domestic violence is a problem. But you completely ignored the facts I provided. Men die at work at a much higher rate. Men do die less from domestic violence, but they die at exceedingly higher rates almost everywhere else. Please stop misconstruing the issue. The moment I mention men's deaths you turn around and mention domestic violence. I'm not denying domestic violence is a problem, but you seem to be quite able to ignore …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:59 PM
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I will admit sex workers are viewed as more expendable but I'm talking about men and women as a whole. Men are the victims of the vast majority of work place deaths. In general men receive little to no support from society. The country hasn't been at total war in quite awhile, why dont you compare the numbers for the vietnam war? Have you heard of mcnamara's morons? I haven't studied logic in a few years, but I really feel like your stance is based on a few fallacies, mainly hasty generalization…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:28 AM
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I'm specifically asking for the figures in strippers/sex workers and murder. Although that figure is interesting, since domestic violence is such a hot button issue there are plenty of figures available.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:43 PM
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This is interesting. Can I get some sources for the rates of violence against strippers and sex workers? I'm not denying it. but I would like some actual numbers to compare to other figures. The number of soldiers and stuff like that is easy to find. I want to compare it to other high risk jobs, especially ones where men are the majority of the workforce such as sanitation workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:30 PM
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Im pretty tired, but I think you're kind of missing my point a bit. I agree strippers are generally treated as more expendable than most. I also agree there would be vastly different responses from most people when talking about a dead stripper vs a dead marine. However all that horrible shit is not advertised in the job description for a stripper. Most people who join the military go in knowing full well it may mean their death. That's why one of the first thing soldiers do is set up their will…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:03 PM
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I can't speak from experience, but I would bet that it is physically harder to be a marine, but it is probably more emotionally taxing to be a stripper. Can't say for certain though. I definitely believe that almost any military service will open more doors in the future than being a stripper would. I know someone who got a general discharge after less than 3 years and he still got jobs later because of his service. On the short term though I'd think strippers have the edge because they can make…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:34 PM
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I think it's worth point out that your second point is essentially what a lot of mtgow have to say about women. The point is finding someone you click with. I'm sorry if you've had an overall shitty experience dating, but that is not uncommon. Men and women need to screen for different things. It's true men can be more blunt, but that is probably because of how society treats us in general. Fun observation, when a woman doesn't know how else to survive the cliche is "fuck it I'll be a stripper."…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:29 PM
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Yes, but what is often deemed to be a "dad bod" consists of significant muscles with a reasonable layer of fat. It's not something that would be natural unless the person lifts regularly. I think this works to argue against your point in some ways. Men are expected to have muscles, a lot of people think regularly gym goers all look like they are juicing, but those dudes who look like mutants or marble statues are a small minority of all active gym-goers. Not to mention how often are men mocked f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:39 AM
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Well I think it's important to keep in mind that women actually do out earn and out rank men in low paying menial jobs. There are more female assistant managers at places like burger king. Men out earn as a whole but if you only analyze the bottom 20 to 40% of earners women do in fact out earn men. This is where one of the big disconnects occurs. Men at the bottom of society don't see how they are privileged when all of their immediate managers are women. Regardless of gender if you are unhappy …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:17 AM
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Also worth mentioning, if paternity is not challenged soon enough, your on the hook regardless of the biological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:05 AM
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The idea of outlawing contraception is ridiculous. This whole post feels like a troll. Your stances are literally the male equivalent of baby trapping a rich dude for child support. That was how it worked centuries ago, but dating is just like the rest of the world, and it is ever-evolving. Instead of trying to force the world to cater to individual ineptitude, individuals should find a way to prosper in the world as it exists. Survival of the fittest means you need to adapt to the current clima…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:51 AM
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You need to consider the type of people willing to risk exposure during a pandemic. I literally deleted all my dating apps from my phone until a week or two ago. The only reason I downloaded them again is because I got my first round of the vaccine today. I understand you are working on a timeline men usually don't have to worry about that as much. I know many people were more than happy to meet up during the pandemic but it's definitely a certain type of person. Did you have as many regular exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:03 AM
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It's a personal judgement call depending on social context. Mormons would probably consider anything but getting married as a virgin questionable. Age is another major point of consideration. There is nothing wrong with sleeping around but people need to stop trying to force their morals on other people. Having double standards is even acceptable but you can't be mad at people pointing out it's a double standard. I agree with your premise though that promiscuity is often a symptom of a much larg…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:57 PM
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Potentially. An alternative would be that your value was previously higher not that you necessarily were punching above your weight class. However yes but I also happen to agree with the premise with a few caveats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:54 AM
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That makes sense but statistically speaking the meat of the bell curve is comprised of 4s, 5s and 6s. I don't think anyone should settle but if that is what you are consistently pulling have you considered your own value could be the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:21 AM
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A lot of people will point out that as number of sexual partners increase the likelihood of divorce or infidelity does as well. (This fact is often directly exclusively at women since tbh women have a hell of a lot easier time racking up an impressive number of partners.) It applies to men as well. The simple fact is that excessively sleeping around for both men and women usually negatively impacts how easily they can bond with someone. That's not to say it's impossible for someone who's gotten …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:21 AM
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I believe literally almost everything can be fine with proper moderation and self-control. But to connect to your point about the negative aspects of porn use another similar issue that probably impacts women to a greater degree is social media addiction. I'd have to double-check the literature but from what I recall even seemingly regular amounts of social media use has a negative impact on mental health. So a better comparison for men's porn use would probably be women's social media use. From…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 09:52 AM
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Lying by omission is a lot more common than outright lying but it is just as big of an issue. Common dealbreakers are essential to bring up. I disclose my mental health issues usually by the third or fourth date because although they have very little impact on my daily life I know they are a huge dealbreaker for many people. I simply expect the same courtesy. I don't need the link to your onlyfans on the first date but there definitely needs to be a conversation about it sooner rather than later…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 09:03 AM
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I am indifferent to the state of things. I would only want people to be more generally honest. If you have kids don't spring that information 3 months into dating. If you're in an open relationship that needs to mentioned from the get go. Both men and women can be way to deceitful because they are often only concerned with their own agenda. All the things like that. Essentially be open and disclose common deal breakers that apply to you and be prepared to handle those outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:59 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/global/interactives/remittance-flows-by-country/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:16 PM
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Reassuring may not be the best word. I haven't actively searched too much about it but the things that have come across my news feed often made it sound like the whole country was that way. It's nice to know there are some areas that hold traditional french values but it's still tragic that we need to have this discussion at all. I still would like to visit the country but am now a bit apprehensive to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:36 AM
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That is is a more reassuring than the general media makes it out to be. Immigration is definitely demonized in the American Media to varying degrees but with our current policies the biggest actual issue we face is the fact that fairly massive amounts of money leave our economy because many american workers are the main source of income for many of their families back in their countries of origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:12 AM
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Everyone has their own personal values and with each subsequent generation the standard for what is deemed acceptable or the norm has shifted. A few generations ago if you said your wife had a full time job or that you were a stay at home father it raised significantly more eyebrows than it does now. Another semi-related example is how we view and discuss employment. Baby boomers often hold drastically different views in employment. They think you should be loyal to the company which has drastic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 10:55 AM
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I agree with you. Immigration is not a realistic way to preserve your country. Massive immigration is the reason that french citizens are getting beheaded for their political views. If you want an example of a country on the opposite side of the spectrum, Japan seems to have simply accepted the fact they have an aging population the average citizen is over 40 and their immigration laws are some of the strictest in the world. It appears they have simply said fuck it if we won't be japanese then t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 10:42 AM
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In all honesty my situation was probably a little different. Family wise my trauma wasn't as extreme as some but I developed schizophrenia around 15 or 16 and psychosis is a hell of a trip. After getting medicated and stable I haven't experienced anything quite like it and haven't really thought about the person. However one of the negative effects of the disease is apathy which is drastic shift from the emotional rollercoaster that is psychosis. Edit: I thought I should clarify the difference w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 04:04 PM
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That is significantly more and I may have been unclear. I found a source but it's a rehab clinic so it may be biased. Men do die of overdose more often but my response was simply meant to highlight that there is still a significant percentage of addicts who are women. Update a quick google search provided a better source because it's a .gov https://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/drugfacts/substance-use-in-women That page goes into some of the differences in how women use compared to men. I reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:06 PM
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I think it's tied into the fact that they are viewed as more vulnerable in general. The prostitution is an extreme end of that. But it becomes a selffulfiling prophecy women receive more support and in turn commit less crime. Men would rather mug you for their next meal than go hungry. Women receive more sympathy in most sentencing matters as well. I also just thought that the cost of housing female inmates is probably cost alot more than male inmates so it would make more economic sense to feed…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 02:03 PM
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The fact that there are so many resources such as shelter and advocacy groups for women seems like society agreeing we better help these girls out before they start walking the track. Honestly resorting to prostitution is probably just a survival strategy for many women who do it. Since society places such a huge stigma around sex and especially sex work, and that women are viewed as vulnerable, all the resources are used to prevent that. Men on the other hand are much more likely to steal and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:42 PM
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Prostitution. It is commonly referred to as the oldest profession I was just being tongue in cheek about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:33 PM
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I realize after replying to several posts in this chain and after reading your points that women have a stronger social safety net because society is opposed to using the last trick in the book which just so happens to be the oldest profession. This would also begin to explain why men commit other crimes more often simply as a last resort. And before anyone says men could turn a trick that is entirely different because femcels aren't running out to hire male escorts, if they were viagra would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:30 PM
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Substance abuse is just as big of a problem for women. The only difference is that most puddle sluts can fuck their way to their next high. I knew a few who would steal the copper wire out of your walls if they couldnt blow you for a bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:22 PM
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Another important factor in mental health is that although women are more commonly diagnosed as bipolar or depressed those do not completely limit a person's ability to function fairly normally. Also women attempt to seek treatment more often. Another huge factor is the fact that schizophrenia (which is what the most vulnerable homeless typically suffer from) is equally prevalent in men and women however men usually have an onset of symptoms before 21 whereas women it is usually after 30 or 35. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:17 PM
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Honestly a huge unspoken factor that skews homeless statistics is the fact that if a women is desperate and willing to put out she is almost guaranteed a roof over her head. This is in no way ideal and is totally different kind of shitty than just straight up being homeless but I am pretty sure it skews the statistics quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:07 PM
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Thanks for pointing that out. I missed that chain. I honestly scrolled like over half way but was surprised I didn't see it mentioned because I honestly think it's one of if not the biggest factor in the disparity of average achievements between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:59 PM
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I read through quite a few posts and didn't see the fact that women have vast amounts of social support when compared to men. There's all sorts of programs that cater to young girls and women. Men often either succeed or fail entirely in their own. There is sexism in some higher ups occasionally but generally women are given much more support. Diversity quotas don't benefit men. When a city in some european country was chastised because they had like a 65/35 split between make and female workers…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:59 AM
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I never claimed otherwise. It like pulling teeth to even get the opposite side acknowledged. I simply said there is a different issue that men face that is often overlooked to the point of mockery whereas women garner support regardless of the reality. Quite simply in today's competitive victimhood culture women have a significant advantage because other men and women are sympathetic to women's suffering whereas men are ignored or mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:24 AM
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Fear isnt always logically rational it's a means to survive. If you want to talk about data backed fear, by many estimates the occurrence of rape and sexual assault is on the decline. The 1 in 5 women statistic is one of the most argued figures in a long time. Based off of reporting sexual assaults have declined significantly since as recent as the 90s. Based off the statistics you should feel much more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:14 AM
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Competitive victimhood is growing more common all over. If you always view yourself as a victim it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It takes truly ignorant men and women to honestly believe that one gender always has it worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:37 AM
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You're being willfully ignorant. Literally all you need to google is "falsely accused suicide" and you will find the recent stories and can do a deep dive yourself. It's not the norm but it exists. Just the way the average dude isn't a rapist but rapes happen. I'm not even saying that false accusations are as common as rape or sexual assault but it is something that individuals worry about. How about the silver bullet in divorce and family court. It's literally standard practice during divorce a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:35 AM
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Your describing the reality you are familiar and concern r with. The concerns you raise are totally valid but your turning the discussion into a pissing contest. Everytime someone raises a male concern you flip it into the most closely related female one, even when there are some stark differences between the two realities. Yes you could potentially be overpowered by a man which is something all those who debate in good faith can admit is horrifying, but you refuse to admit the totally life dest…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 02:19 AM
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You've started or participated in several threads over the last week or two that parrot all the same talking points you have raised throughout this thread. We get it, you've probably had some bad experiences but unfortunately it seems you have allowed this to shape your entire worldview. You can't seem to admit there are inherently different risks imposed on both men and women. It really you are only arguing one sides because your views are so limited. You can't seem to admit that there are real…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 02:02 AM
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This sub has shifted my opinions on some things and helped me form new ones. However I have had two very close platonic female friends for like 6 and 3 years. I feel they both have very different experiences and the sub reminds me that many people have vastly different experiences. Although I do feel both sides quite regularly beat a dead horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:47 AM
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Woah woah woah who said anything about needles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:50 AM
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It's a joke and a play on words that is a counter to your claim of " highest physical pleasure possible." I don't completely disagree with some of the things you've claimed throughout the comment section but there are quite a few narcotics that I would say feel better than generic sex. I think you are taking to hardline a stance and not admitting there are a lot of overall grey areas when it comes to human nature for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:47 AM
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Unless your pussy dispenses heroin you need to come off the high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:29 AM
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It becomes a lot less all consuming and then disappears essentially all together after you've had positive shared experiences. If you really cant get past that stage with anyone just hire an escort from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 04:49 PM
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If you haven't experienced it, it's hard to describe. I don't think any of the definitions are exact. It's not always simply a crush sometimes it's a relationship that fails. Other times it's an ideal or self-destructive relationship when it is reciprocated. Which might work toward explaining the broken heart syndrome phenomenon. Either way, after people I decided to fill the hole with narcotics and then eventually prescriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:22 AM
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I really only experienced it once when I was younger but it lasted way longer than it should have and I have been jaded ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:08 AM
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A lot of it depends how you carry yourself. You don't necessarily need to be towering over her but it's a benefit if you make her feel small. Bodybuilding and powerlifting are a great way to make that happen and to improve your overall confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:11 PM
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Johnny depp is 5'10. Cruise is on the lower limit of what is acceptable for men since he is 5'7. Height is a big factor but nowhere near as totally damning as many people say. Yeah if your a dude who is 5'2 your gonna have your work cut out for you but average guys like me who are at least 5'6 or 5'7 are still taller than the vast majority of women so it's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:05 PM
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This advice is golden. I have parroted this to multiple friends multiple times. It really makes the world easier to tolerate when you remind yourself how many people are technically below average intelligence. And in response to the poster above, all our experiences are skewed in favor of the people most likely to interact with us. Nice guys and sociopaths hit on random women more than the average dude so their experiences will skew in favor of them. Same thing applies to men, they assume most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:26 AM
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No but my standing with the opposite sex has improved significantly since I discovered related communities that lead me to ppd. I have too many ambitions and long term goals to give them all up. Not to mention the friends and family members that I love dearly. Some people can't perceive any value in life outside of gratification from the opposite sex and and admittedly if you've been deprived of that for a long time you'll probably be quite unhappy but if that is how you derive all of your own s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:19 PM
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Even if the handbooks or assigned reading raise valid points does that negate the overall toxicity of either community? Most comments in this discussion that make points similar to yours could apply to either community. The problem both sides have is how these communities are breeding grounds for sexism either from angry incels or angry leftover women. Both communities grew out of dating problems between the sexes and may very well have fostered serious discussion in their infancies but now red …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:36 AM
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Highly educated is subjective. Women do out number men in regard to total enrollment but women are also more likely major in fields with little or no job prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:41 AM
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I don't necessarily disagree with the points you're making however I question how much of your thought process is based in reality simply due to the fact that you think walmart employees get benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:09 AM
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Lol I am actually very hairy. I don't mind it most places. But if you get rid the hair in your armpits it helps cut down offensive BO. The only other place I hate it is on my back because it looks really bad when it is poppin out of your shirt after a fresh fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:20 PM
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I have read there are different pros and cons to each side of the argument but I believe both sides are almost negligible in the grand scheme of things and that it really boils down to preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:20 AM
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To be fair that is a deal-breaker for me but I do it myself. I honestly think everyone should.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 07:42 AM
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I am not opposed to female friends. I have two, one who I consider one of my best friends and the other which is a more recent friendship but we get along quite well. I will admit I am not interested in being friends with most women. I have a higher standard for what I expect from my friends. Quite a few people who may call me a friend I simply consider acquaintances. To be truly friends there needs to be an exchange it doesn't necessarily have to be perfectly equal but there does need to be a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:38 PM
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Personality and overall attitude can factor into decisions greatly. Like others have said there is usually a minimum level of acceptable attractiveness but personality is usually the major determining factor over whether relationships work out. There was a girl I worked with who I didn't think much of at first but she is a genuinely sweet person and she puts in an effort. When she had the free time she'd get totally glammed up and I appreciate well done make up. Alternatively there was an attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:02 AM
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I apologize according to your data I should have said Kentucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:06 AM
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See that I have found that to be the key difference with actual friends is they are more than happy to try and hook you up and give honest advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:01 AM
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That does sound a lot like orbiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:00 AM
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I agree with that sentiment but am not totally sold on the 90% estimate although I do believe it is a substantial portion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:59 AM
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I think it comes down to a matter of maturity but I agree school is a big factor. I knew a younger girl who had a plethora of borderline neck beard orbiters who couldn't understand why she was constantly getting asked out by her supposed friends. She got a little older and kind of put two and two together and eventually became much more choosy with who she considered a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:57 AM
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I suppose it depends on your morals since they are subjective. I can understand not wanting to associate with someone who doesn't share your morals. I wasn't necessarily implying that lying was a necessity simply don't give advice that is contrary to the friends personal ideals. If you are diametrically opposed to those ideals it would probably imply that you're not real friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:54 AM
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I don't discredit the notion that men and women can be friends but a few women have openly admitted that some of them are orbiters I wonder how many of some of these close friends are really just orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:48 AM
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I agree a lot of men will try to use friendship to lead to a relationship. I don't believe it works that way but like another poster said it's probably easier when the guy isnt sexually frustrated. I guess it boils down to the fact that a lot of guys don't know how to talk to women which in turn makes them believe starting as friends will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:40 AM
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I disagree. I definitely was one in highschool but that was a lifetime ago. There can be a plethora of reasons why you wouldn't want to fuck an otherwise attractive woman. Both of my close friends have very different but significant issues ranging from trauma to depression. I won't ever stick my dick in crazy again but if I learned anything in the ward it's that crazy people can be some of the most fun to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:55 PM
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I've only done that once and we spent a few hours at a bar shitting on our mutual employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:50 PM
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Well, that raises a whole other debate on whether we are actually friends with our coworkers or if we are simply being polite to make the 9 to 5 easier. I have gotten along with the women I've worked with but I have never kept a friend that I made on the job once I found employment elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:46 PM
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It is interesting that the numbers are equal if you only look at the youngest generation surveyed. This makes me wonder if it is because of changes in generational attitudes or if it is because we simply lose friends as we get older and just don't make new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:40 PM
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I disagree with this. The two women I am friends with I wouldn't consider ugly. The closer friend I wouldn't sleep with regardless because of the nature of our friendship and the other girl is very sweet and arguably very conventionally attractive but I am not interested in her for other reasons. I dunno it might have been because I was emotionally unavailable for such a long time but separating the attraction I have for someone's physical appearance isn't all that great of a hurdle for me if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:34 PM
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That is how I have been approaching it for the last few years. The only difference is that there are a lot fewer women I am interested in being friends with but then again my friend circle is already pretty tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:27 PM
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Well I appreciate well done make up and I can definitely tell the difference between a no makeup look versus actually wearing no make up so if the girl I'm seeing or even one of my coworkers got herself glammed up that day I make a point to compliment her usually something simple but just an acknowledgement of the effort they put out. Also if she did something different with her hair. I don't believe in compliments without a reason behind them or they're just empty words that will lead to resent…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:20 AM
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