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| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemYes I do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:09 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemNo, it’s not the 90s. We do those things now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.Meh. I’ve found them both to be the same thing, in terms of who I have attracted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 03:23 PM |
| 8 | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.So…you link me to a news story about a crime. WTF?? Log off, mate. Tell me: what have you seen in 50 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 10:05 AM |
| 4 | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.Do you have any real life experience to base this on? Because you really don’t have any idea what goes on in a couple’s private relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 10:02 AM |
| 5 | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.How would you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 09:56 AM |
| 7 | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.News flash: it is possible for a man who is attractive to a woman to have also have good relationship skills. It’s also possible for men who aren’t as attractive to a woman to have substandard relationship skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 09:46 AM |
| 2 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?The reason they bring up the cock carousel is because they are fuming that women are able to live the carefree youth they couldn’t or can’t. So they believe that all those women who wouldn’t give them the time of day when they were young will be ‘punished’ when they get old. These men think one day, they themselves will get old and get revenge on the women their own age who didn’t want them, by fucking a barely legal young woman. I’m an older woman. There is no punishment for living the life you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:58 AM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Also, any 18 year old women coming up will probably date the 18-ish year old men coming up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:26 AM |
| 2 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Like I said: I did not fuck these men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:19 AM |
| 2 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?I avoided all that, because I picked better and waited until I was ready to settle down. But it absolutely is a very common thing out there. I know this because I am a woman with friends who married young and were absolutely miserable until they escaped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:07 AM |
| 1 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Don’t care, hun. My point is, all the shit you warn against can happen from marriage, too. Husbands die=single mother. Husbands cheat or just leave =single mother. Husbands abuse wives =single mother. It’s not just unmarried women becoming single mothers or catching STIs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:46 PM |
| 2 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?I think they want to trap these poor young women before they have a chance to develop their vetting skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?I have two friends who married the guy they lost their virginity to. Both married young, divorced early and became single mums. One of them caught am STI from her husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?We don’t know if OP wants to settle down, is turned off at the thought of settling down, or in the middle and confused about the whole thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemI have never cried about being used for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:35 PM |
| 1 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?It gets easier with life experience. In other words, when you’re older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:24 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?They still think we’re falling for that old scam! Bless their hearts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:11 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Okay then, setting down. Not all women want to do that, or do it early | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemOur vaginas do not care about looksmatch nonsense. If we find a guy attractive and he’s into us, we’re going to be with that guy. And if we can do that, then he’s in our league. And he’s in ours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:03 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Yep! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:53 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:51 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?18 year old women don’t want 30 year old men. They want fun. They want young men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:46 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?There is always an abundance of men. Men are thirsty fuckers at every age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:45 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?But also, single millennial aunties rock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:44 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Not all women want to get married at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:40 PM |
| 7 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Yeah, and you get to spend your entire adult life from a very young age, scrubbing the skid marks out of his underpants. Where do we sign up? Let’s all do that instead of having fun and building our careers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:23 PM |
| 5 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Being married as a young woman sucks. All my friends who did that were miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:11 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Thank you 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:04 PM |
| 2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemAttraction to the personality is built after clearing the looks threshold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemAgreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:00 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?What makes you think people having sex aren’t prepared to deal with the consequences? You have sex, take precautions, if they fail, get the morning after pill. If a pregnancy occurs after all this, then people deal with the consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:57 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?I’m also gen x, and see it the same way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:50 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Furthermore, fun can also just mean going out dancing and partying. That’s not as easy to do when you’re settled down with someone, especially once kids are in the picture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:49 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Yes. I had many marriage proposals in my youth. So glad I said no and dodged those bullets. Also, more women are getting turned off marriage as time goes on. More women are seeing marriage for the trap it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:45 PM |
| 6 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Not all young people who have fun wind up as single mothers or with STIs. There are these things called condoms and birth control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:43 PM |
| 6 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Oh, no one expects men to change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:40 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?I edited that to dumb it down for you. Hookups are not my only idea of fun. It was one part of a young, carefree lifestyle. Why do you assume I was having constant one night stands? I had one night stands occasionally. I also had relationships. Young people relationships, not settled down ones. I regret nothing, hun. I don’t want to marry, and I’m not married. But I have been with my soulmate for decades and we are both happy. I love how you assume all women must be just dying to get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:39 PM |
| 6 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Well, I’m speaking from personal experience as a way to communicate to any young woman reading this thread that a lot of what men are saying in here is a lie created to control women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:34 PM |
| 2 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?In what way do you feel it’s crumbling that is relevant to the sex lives of other people that are not you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:32 PM |
| 2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemWhat women say looks don’t matter? They do. The woman being complained about went to an in person event. I dated before the apps. I knew within seconds if a guy was physically attractive to me or not. Getting to know someone would not make an uggo suddenly turn hot🤣 but once a man cleared my looks threshold, then I could get to know him and start filtering for personality and compatibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:31 PM |
| 5 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?I did have fun. I ‘owned’ that choice, lol. Yay, I had FUN! See? Owning it. Rocking it. I’m not mad at men. I’m not sure what I’m supposed to be unhappy about. I’m happy. Life is good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:26 PM |
| 3 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:24 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?We don’t need leverage. Yes, they’re not ready to settle down when they’re young and want fun. That’s NORMAL. I had fun and settled down when I was ready with a man the same age as me. And no, men having money has never been ‘leverage’ for me. And you yourself said ‘young and fun’ doesn’t make someone suitable to settle down with, as I have agreed with you. That includes women. They’re not ready. I wasn’t. And all my friends who married at 21 or younger have all divorced. They missed out on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:23 PM |
| 3 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemI’m not sure how that makes anyone a hypocrite. It’s kind to not string people along that you have no interest in. No one would be happy. It’s perfectly normal for some women (myself included) to only find a very small amount of men attractive. Why would she need to seek help? Help for what? Forcing herself to be with someone she’s not into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:12 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Most young men are not ready or suitable to settle down with. Young men and young women want to have fun and freedom. Nothing wrong with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:04 PM |
| 3 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemWhy is it a problem? Do you want her to choose someone she’s not interested in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:51 PM |
| 6 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Ignore it. They’re just trying to control women. Do whatever you want, ladies. The ball is in our court, whether you’re young or old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:06 PM |
| 4 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Yep. They realised they missed out on their hoe phase, get serious FOMO, get divorced before he knows it. Then she catches up on her hoe phase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:00 PM |
| 12 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Same. Maybe not everyone. But everyone I wanted to 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:57 PM |
| 3 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemWhat problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:52 PM |
| 8 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemI’m not American. And I don’t know what you’re going on about. That’s not something I’ve ever heard of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.Sure, hun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:15 AM |
| 7 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.No, but they still get women and girls pregnant and then leave the country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:55 AM |
| 10 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.At least fewer women over there will have horrible lives, though. Great news! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:51 AM |
| 6 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemWhat should women be held accountable for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:04 AM |
| 9 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemOh, I see. Any contribution we make isn’t worth shit to you unless it’s directly something men benefit from in a romantic or sexual context. It’s still unclear to me what you think women as a whole should be held accountable for with regards to this. I’m not going to answer your questions about my personal love/sex life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?How can I acknowledge something happens when I don’t believe it does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:08 AM |
| 1 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?Sure. But your OP didn’t come across that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:24 AM |
| 10 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemNot true. We work jobs that are contribute to the wellbeing of society. We pay taxes. We do important volunteer work. We often do free babysitting for family and friends. We often provide free care to elderly or disabled family members. We help our loved ones with care during recovery from surgery. We look after people’s houses and pets when they go away. What exactly should we be held accountable for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?No action can ever always produce the same result. Because women are different. Some women are going to be interested in you and some aren’t. And that’s normal and okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:09 AM |
| 2 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?First off: they are not ‘girls,’ they are women. Secondly, I’m guessing these women have had different life experiences to me because we are all different. Also, we all have different opinions and answers because…we’re different. Also: any of the examples women have given have worked for them personally. They cannot possibly work for every woman, every time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:07 AM |
| 7 | women on reddit are very much part of the problem‘Equality’ is not making sure everyone gets a woman. Not getting a woman is not abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:04 AM |
| 0 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemI can’t imagine bringing women in from another country to the US is a wise thing to do right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:03 AM |
| 1 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?There is no guy to mention personally, because something like you described doesn’t exist for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:43 AM |
| -2 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?It is an answer. You don’t like the answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:37 AM |
| 0 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?Very true. I have known a lot of guys who did this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:29 AM |
| -1 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?No. I’m answering you. This is the main problem men are dealing with when they have dating problems at the moment. Instead of wishing women would ask men out, or lower our standards, or that there was one universal trick that worked on any woman, accept that dating actually requires everyone to do something. It should be fun, and there should also be some effort made. And sometimes, it can take time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:28 AM |
| 1 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?There is no cheat code. There is no quick fix. There are no tricks to make someone like you. All women like different things. You have to actually put yourself out there and socialise. You have to make an effort and be patient. It takes time for both parties to determine compatibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingPersonality is important. But it’s not the only important thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Why do so many women associate “traditional values” with safety?I don’t want a man who is a protector. I want a man who makes me feel safe. What I mean by that is that he won’t rape or beat me up, or put me in stupid, unsafe situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.How so? I think most of us are pretty pleased with how we’re running things. It’s working for us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.But men (and women) do leave people for those reasons. Nothing wrong with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.We know. To try to control us. Won’t work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I don’t know what you classify as a ‘baby mama,’ but I am not single. People can be in long term relationships without marrying and have children together. That’s my situation. Why you needed to talk about government money, and other nonsense is beyond me, but reflective of your sheltered life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.That sounds like it would be more of an issue for men, not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:14 AM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.No. I was being consistent with the original subject of this post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:12 AM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Yes, tell yourself that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Well, isn’t it interesting that I wasn’t the only woman to see it that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I only had your words to go by 🤷♀️ convince me otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Okay. But that how you sound | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I would need more specific examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Would you still expect her to have sex with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:11 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.You chose to change your standard. You didn’t have to. Women are happy to stay single if their standards aren’t met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:03 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I think women understand the game a lot better than men do. We’re running the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Women move on too fast and it's destroying datingLet them watch. Let them judge. We don’t notice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:55 PM |
| 8 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.They really don’t hear what they sound like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Do you…think I’m a single mother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I don’t need you to wish me well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I don’t know what isn’t clicking here. I love him BECAUSE he meets my standards. I would not like any man romantically or sexually if he didn’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Where are you pulling all these assumptions from? Why are you so obsessed with my family’s money situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:47 PM |
| 9 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Men are ‘everyone,’ in other words, the only ones that matter in their minds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.It’s none of your business unless I choose to make it your business. And I don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.For the same reason men wouldn’t want to be controlled by women. We are all human beings and have the right to make our own life choices independently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:44 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Um…it’s all in the thread above | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I don’t need child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I wish men would ignore our standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I have three children already. Not sure what the ‘government’s money’ has to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.We don’t need marriage to start a family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.It’s fair on the child. Who is a human being with needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:28 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.If the woman values nice cars, then you’re both probably not compatible. I do think your boundaries are great. However, online, I often see men demanding (not you personally) that women have to lower their standards. Especially men who are unsatisfied with their own dating experience. We have to reprogram ourselves to be attracted to things we are not, so men can ‘get a woman.’ It’s a demand to turn our backs on our own wants, needs and lives and sacrifice our pussies to men we do not want. It’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:27 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I don’t think it’s bad for society or relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Then YOU be the stay at home parent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:14 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Why? I have an oral fixation with men. It’s a part of my standards. I can’t explain why it gets me off, and I don’t see why I need to. I just enjoy the standard being met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Absolutely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:03 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Yes. I love him specifically because he meets my standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:03 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.‘1. The function of sexual relationships is not “to bring happiness.” The function of sexual relationships is to produce healthy and successful offspring, and’ I don’t know, man. Sexual relationships make me pretty happy. Only one sexual relationship of mine led to offspring. And even then, happiness was more important. ’Even if the function were to produce happiness, getting what one wants does not produce happiness. Rather, growth and fulfillment are what tend to produce happiness, and’ Gett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:02 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.If we lowered our standards we wouldn’t be happy. Men like to believe we would be, but they’re wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I’m drawing the line at consent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:54 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Who says I’m losing? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:51 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Which is fine, so you would choose not to date those women, right? And find someone with standards more suitable to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:50 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I fell out of love with a man because he was abusive and cheated on me. I fell out of love with another man because of his drug addiction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:49 PM |
| -9 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.No we don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.It is fair. Both parties entered into marriage knowing that divorce is an available tool to them. Child custody depends on who the primary caregiver is, or if both parents were evenly sharing the workload. It also depends on whether a parent is abusive. Don’t want to only see your kids on the weekends? Be an involved parent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:44 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.But I’m not getting burned. I’m doing great. My standards enable me to live my ideal life. We’re not going to stop touching hot men 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:40 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.If you’re bored, you probably don’t love them anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:39 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Nope. That’s your choice. I’m not responsible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:38 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Well yes, it is better to die out as a species than to remove a person’s consent and autonomy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:37 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.When I was in my early twenties and old men (over 50) were aggressively hitting on me, particularly when quite a few of them were married with children and in some cases, grandchildren, I assumed they were bad people. I still feel that way looking back on those men. Even the single ones. They were bad, disgusting, creepy, scary perverted men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:35 PM |
| -4 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.No one else has to figure out a woman’s standards but herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.You demanded she explain her standards to you. She has asserted from the beginning that she doesn’t owe you this. In fact, it’s the entire point of her post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:14 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.One is about survival, and one is about a person’s personal autonomy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:11 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.What sort of policing do you think is needed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:04 PM |
| -3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Not really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:03 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Both people get (or lose, if you want to be negative) half of the assets. Both parties owned those assets in the marriage. That’s a fair split | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:02 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I don’t have to explain my preferences. Just like the title of this post says. They are mine. He met them. We’re happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:00 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.The ‘mating system?’ It has to work?? What? Why is it so hard to let people make their own choices? Some people will be single, some will date. It works. I’m a citizen, yes. I don’t have to do anything about anyone else’s sex or love life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:59 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.No. But I judge people for judging them. Edit: I’ve already settled down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:55 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.The attitude is specifically that we ‘have to’ change our standards to what would enable men to get what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:52 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.And I judge those people for expecting people to stay in unhappy relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:50 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.It’s not women’s responsibility to ensure every man gets a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:49 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.If somebody does theoretically make a choice that ends up making them miserable, that’s not anyone else’s problem. When men make this argument, it’s more about their own fears of being alone, miserable and missing out. We know what’s going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:48 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Both parties get half of the assets each. That’s fair. We don’t have alimony in my country. I just don’t get why you’re so fired up about marriage if you don’t want to do it? I don’t want to get married either, and I’m not as worked up about it as you. Is it that you wish you could marry but only if you could force a woman not to leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.OP is backing herself up perfectly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:40 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.They can explain them if they want. But they don’t have to if they don’t want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:40 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.In what way am I posturing? In what way is my life the same? Your question was unclear, btw. ‘Who ticks off what boxes?’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:39 PM |
| -3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.‘We need to trap people into miserable marriages again!’ Do it. Women will stop marrying at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:35 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.This is it in a nutshell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Funny. I was thinking the same about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:30 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.‘Why should you get benefits for breaking the contract.’ The benefit is not being with that person anymore. ‘, if no fault divorce was removed, people could still just leave without getting divorced That would be abandonment and you could get a divorce.’ Great! That’s what they wanted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:30 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.My guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Not really. Because she doesn’t owe anyone an explanation for them. What they are, why she has them. And in refusing to do so, people are demanding she does, which proves what she’s saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:28 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Those men are allowed to have those standards. They don’t have to explain them. But for many women, myself included, some of those standards clash with my standards and I simply wouldn’t date those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Then don’t do it! You have free will. So does everyone else, and sometimes, people leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.OP also said women don’t owe you an explanation of their standards. She’s remaining consistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:13 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:09 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.My guy ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:08 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Why? Who would benefit from holding an unwilling person hostage like that? Mind you, if no fault divorce was removed, people could still just leave without getting divorced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.You don’t have to be married to have a two parent household. That’s the arrangement I live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Sometimes it’s kinder to tell the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Got laid 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.How do you know she’s in the US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:59 PM |
| -2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Nor do women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Being with someone you don’t want isn’t the ‘right thing to do’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Marriage has nothing to do with the well being of society. I have chosen not to marry. I do choose to help people on the street. Of course, I don’t have to. But I want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:54 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.You don’t have to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I did say ‘in most cases.’ People with PCOS have lost weight, it’s just more of a challenge. Hell, twice last year, I took a nine day taper of steroids. Each time, I put on two or three kilos, which is very noticeable on my small frame. Got the stereotypical steroid moon face’ for a little while. But I CHOSE to put that pill in my mouth. I could have put up with the pain. What I did while I was on these tapers, was to drastically reduce my salt intake and I was very strict about not eating any a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:43 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.So don’t get married. Problem solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:36 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.How is it going to be for the other person if the bored person sticks around? No one would be happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.People can’t help their height. They can control their body weight in most cases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:33 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I mean…divorce is always an option. No one has to get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I disagree. It is good to be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Fashion trends around body types are stupid. But fat people are still unattractive to a lot of people. Attraction is non negotiable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:26 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.What’s the point of sticking around if one party is bored? That just makes two people miserable when they could find happiness somewhere else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.It is unattractive to most people, though. Eating disorders are more complicated than that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I think it’s fine in the context given above. If it’s directed as a personal attack on a specific person, that’s cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:12 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Yes, we do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.It’s wrong to injure others, unless it’s in self defence, using minimal force | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:09 PM |
| 6 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.There’s nothing wrong with having a height or weight preference. As long as no one is a dick about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Ask your lawmakers of your country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:02 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.But many of us succeed and get exactly what we want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:58 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Because it would harm the weaker person. Because it’s illegal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menHow do you want women to show compassion? Attraction is non negotiable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:54 PM |
| 8 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menSo you want women to treat you like a charity case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?Okay. So, that’s what we call an unhelpful thought. It’s either not true, or it is true, but you can’t control how other people think. You know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?But they’re still your friends, right? So it doesn’t matter to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?I guess it’s a big deal to some people. You sound like you’ll be fine, so don’t worry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?That’s fair. It’s not really anyone’s business. Just make sure you know about foreplay, how to find the clitoris and what to do with it and you’ll be fine. And don’t try to replicate porn. Porn is nothing like real sex! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Women move on too fast and it's destroying datingThis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Women move on too fast and it's destroying datingI don’t think so. If you know you’re not feeling it, it’s better for everyone involved to break up before the other gets too attached. Then both parties are free to pursue whatever they’re after. Any reason is a good reason to break up. Why force something you just don’t want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?No one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?As a woman, it would never occur to me to ask a man in his late twenties if he was a virgin. OP will be fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?I knew a really hot guy who was a virgin at 26. I always regretted not having a chance to date/have sex with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so attracted to talent?As stated, I was there, it was not my thing. I was happy he had a hobby he liked. But watching sport bores me to tears, and I’m not wasting my life doing boring shit I hate. Furthermore, this was sprung on me at the last minute. We had plans to go out to dinner and nightclubbing. If I had known he was going to play football first, I would have met up with him later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:37 AM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationAmen! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:33 AM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationOkay. I’m gen x and have seen all the ugly boomers popping out kids. I’ve watched ugly gen x men hookup with women. Maybe things started sucking with the millennials? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Why are women so attracted to talent?lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:28 AM |
| – | Why are women so attracted to talent?I don’t give a fuck. I don’t watch sports for anyone. I was also never told we were going to his game until the last minute, nor asked if I wanted to do that. I had no reason to think I should be watching the game, because I was waiting for our actual planned date to start. Also: I had no context for what was going on. It didn’t specifically look like anything to me but a bunch of dudes with a ball. Like, what exactly am I looking at here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?I’m a woman. I don’t agree. If I was a virgin and the guy I was having sex with asked, I would be truthful. But if someone doesn’t ask, then it doesn’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so attracted to talent?I think his post shows that short men are also attractive to some women. If they are attractive, of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:58 AM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationWhat do we need to be held accountable for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:51 AM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationHow old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:47 AM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generation‘How it is called a " sexual revolution " when the average man never benefited from it ? It's not like the average man in the 70's and 80's started fucking women left and right , they still believed that sex with women require commitment...’ Lots of uggos were having sex without marriage in the 60s. Hell, most people in the 60s were uggos. In my generation, (x), everyone was getting laid, yes, even ugly men. The same is true of the millennials. I have three kids and have never, and will never ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:47 AM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationWhat do you mean by ‘previous generation?’ Are you gen z? Because millennials, gen x and some boomers (not all) didn’t hold those beliefs you mentioned. Not unless they had some sort of religious upbringing. Women had sex easily if they wanted to, and both parties enjoyed it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so attracted to talent?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?Very good. Just remember, all of us had to start somewhere. I chose a guy I would never see again, and didn’t particularly care what he thought of me 😂 it did the job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Why are women so attracted to talent?Yes. I had a new boyfriend who made me sit on the sidelines of his football game. I did, thinking, ‘why??’ I was bored off my chops and just stared into space until he was done. Apparently, during the game he got ‘smashed.’ I was asked if I saw it. I said no. His friends told me, ‘he really wanted to impress you.’ I said, ‘oh, was I supposed to be watching?’ We kept dating, but man, I was pissed he made me sit there for something I have zero interest in. And if I’m honest, I was angry he hadn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:51 AM |
| 12 | Why are women so attracted to talent?Those women were probably going to have sex with you anyway. I have never cared about things like you have mentioned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?When I was in my 20s in the 90s, yes. These days, no. Being a late virgin is more common for both genders. Also: you don’t have to bring up the fact you’re a virgin. I didn’t when I lost mine. At least, not until the moment of penetration 🤣 we did lots of things leading up to that moment and he had no idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:57 AM |
| 1 | After a casual hookup, who usually reaches out first to set up the next meet?Exactly. There’s literally no need. Men are that thirsty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:53 AM |
| 3 | After a casual hookup, who usually reaches out first to set up the next meet?This is the answer. Do you want to see them again? Ask. Do you not want to see them again? No need to contact them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:52 AM |
| 2 | After a casual hookup, who usually reaches out first to set up the next meet?I always assumed it was a one and done deal. But often, the men would come back for more; usually trying to turn it into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:51 AM |
| -1 | Guys who complain about “fairness” won’t ask for a hookup because it hurts their victim complex.We don’t care if a loser has sex. Hell, I’ll be happy for him! I just don’t want to be the one having sex with a loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Women move on too fast and it's destroying datingHe could try being interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Guys who complain about “fairness” won’t ask for a hookup because it hurts their victim complex.It means you’ve proved OP’s point. Well done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Guys who complain about “fairness” won’t ask for a hookup because it hurts their victim complex.So, you’ve never tried dating in the physical world? Meeting a woman organically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Guys who complain about “fairness” won’t ask for a hookup because it hurts their victim complex.How exactly did you say it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:35 PM |
| 1 | When is a woman too picky or superficial?It won’t change what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:14 PM |
| 1 | When is a woman too picky or superficial?They can be single for life, if that’s what they choose. And that 10% thing? Weird thing to say. We all like different types of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:10 PM |
| 3 | We need to go back to our roots, especially womenNo thank you. I prefer a relationship with both people capable of cooking and taking care of the family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Women move on too fast and it's destroying datingAgain: don’t care. It doesn’t affect you; it’s none of your business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What is something you would wish men would STOP doing in dating?Trying to chat up women at the shops or down the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:18 AM |
| 2 | What do woman wrong in Dating?They are too desperate and get mistreated as a result | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:17 AM |
| 1 | When is a woman too picky or superficial?I don’t care what her standards are. She has every right to make her own choices. Women aren’t picky enough. However… I do encourage women to embrace and enjoy being single while it lasts. And if a friend can’t work out why they can’t attract men and ask me why, I will give tips on how to be more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Women move on too fast and it's destroying datingI don’t care. I have dated or had sex straight after dumping a guy, and it was great. It’s none of the ex’s business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:10 AM |
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