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You’ve the air of a trained cougar. 😋
/r/seduction08/04/21 05:53 PM
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Umm... write her a note and leave it on her door. Invite her to chat and relieve stress since you’re both in a stressful situation and everyone needs (in-person) friends. Work from there... 💚
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:34 PM
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😳 I’d say it’s different from woman to woman. If she’s overtly sexual with you... go for it. But if she’s not... I wouldn’t shoot yourself in the foot of you don’t have to. (I’ve blocked guys for less.) My guy says you have to read her responses and listen to her, not just stare at her pictures. 🤔 (I wonder what he means.)
/r/seduction12/01/21 08:16 AM
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I have to ask, on behalf of my fella and me, why do you cold call ladies? Do you text for a while before calling or do you just get their numbers and call?
/r/seduction12/01/21 01:23 AM
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WOW! Interesting. In my experience, you can date whoever whenever but once you commit to an exclusive dating relationship... THAT is when it’s just the two of you. But until you close the relationship, it’s open...
/r/seduction11/01/21 10:58 PM
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My man used to have issues getting up with me partially because of meds but also because of the pressure. So, I get between his legs and play with him whenever I can. When we make out, I touch him. But he gets the MOST excited when he touches me. So, though I want to be more dominant and be the one to turn him on, he usually turns himself on more by squeezing boobs, butts, and touching me between my legs. I mean, even when I blow him, I move off to the side so he can touch my butt and boobs. Som…
/r/seduction11/01/21 10:51 PM
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Yeah. It mean, there’s that level of non-exclusive dating that people go through before dating.
/r/seduction11/01/21 04:38 PM
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Hmm, I get what you mean but if you get the vibe that she might want more or is crossing that line, you have to rein her in... (that explains her anger). She will feel strung along and you will feel her anger is unjust. But fine line indeed.
/r/seduction11/01/21 08:19 AM
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I recommend doing it through actions and small indicating words that clear up misunderstandings. I wouldn’t bring it up consistently because you might get pulverized by her emotional expectations should she have them. My guy did mention he had to bring them up a few times because he felt I was doing more girlfriend things when we weren’t there yet. 😇
/r/seduction10/01/21 10:43 PM
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Being a female with emotional tentacles, I agree. However, my guy says that you can’t, tbh. To him, testing the waters would be to try going on dates. But if you don’t feel it, then stop and go back to what it was. It’s what normal people do but you have to know how to read each other.
/r/seduction10/01/21 10:37 PM
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I’ve learned the the way to make sure the girl doesn’t get attached is to continually reassure her that you guys are NOT exclusive or dating. It’s just companionship when you need it and sexual satisfaction. Don’t do date stuff and stay away from furthering the relationship. Eventually when you want to have a relationship, communicate it clearly and see if she is receptive to the idea. (No joke, my guy did this to me for a long time... we ended up having a relationship but only when he was ready…
/r/seduction10/01/21 07:40 PM
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Jus be careful. And give your attention to someone worth your time. And will reciprocate it to you.
/r/seduction10/01/21 05:17 AM
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Hate to break it to you, but Snapchat functions like most social media platforms. The more followers you have, Snapchat (the company) sees it as an opportunity to partner with people to do more influencing work. It’s built for the purpose of consumption. It’s all about attention and attention is gold. So... your attention is putting her closer to gold. 🍀
/r/seduction10/01/21 05:15 AM
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Mmm if you are okay with her shutting you down a lot... then be her friend. The more snap followers she has, the more visible she is, right?
/r/seduction10/01/21 05:07 AM
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You did handle it correctly. I mean, technically you should read body language and all that and ask in general, to be respectful and all. But you did well. You can text her in the morning letting her know you had fun and would like to do it again. Be calm and mature, and don’t overwhelm her with texts but keep your connection with her strong.
/r/seduction10/01/21 04:47 AM
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