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| 5 | I have nothing to talk about | HippyHitman | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 05:51 PM |
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| 1 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingReported for harassment. I’m tired of arguing with bigots. You can do whatever you want, just leave me alone. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 03:55 PM |
| -3 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingYou’re right, most societies always had more than two genders, they didn’t have to move past anything. You can choose to be a bigot and an asshole, that’s your choice. But please leave me out of it. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 08:55 AM |
| 1 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingI directly addressed your final point in my previous comment. Honestly, no offense, but I have this discussion almost daily on Reddit, including several times today, and I just don’t want to have it again right now. I’ve said my piece, do with it what you will and have a nice night! | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 03:24 AM |
| 0 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingFrom your own comment though, it looks like you’re saying women and men are inherently different, so surely gender being a social construct isn’t entirely accurate. I’m not sure if it’s just a miscommunication or if you’re misunderstanding it, but just to be clear woman isn’t a synonym of female. Thats actually kind of the point, females and males are inherently different, obviously. But the concept of a man is entirely fabricated, around what the “ideal” male should be. Same with the concept of… | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 6 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingThat’s a big question. Here’s the wiki page. TLDR: hormone levels have an influence on certain things, like competitiveness, emotional sensitivity and aggression, but society then reinforces those tendencies (men should serve their country in combat, women should be good mothers) and adds a bunch of random stuff (skirts vs pants, woodworking vs baking, etc.). | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | First Sex AftertasteI don’t know what SR is, so you’re probably right. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | First Sex AftertasteHow much do you work? There’s plenty of time to work a more than full time job and still have sex regularly. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 11:53 PM |
| 14 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingIgnore the downvotes, you’re absolutely right. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 11:18 PM |
| -1 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingWoman isn’t a sex, it’s a gender. Trans men are biological females, not women. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 0 | First Sex AftertasteThat’s funny, because it’s literally the exact opposite. The better your career, the easier it is to have an active sex life. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayIt has nothing to do with ego, and I lose all respect even if I’m not involved. If a woman has such an irrational fear of other humans that simply saying “I’d rather not” is impossible for her, that’s her issue, not mine. I get that you’re trying to virtue signal and be a white knight, but women don’t get excused from following social norms. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayAgain, we just have a fundamental disagreement on what it means to live in civilized society. I believe ignoring someone is socially unacceptable. I’m not trying to control anyone, but if someone does that I no longer have any respect for them, the same as if someone starts screaming at someone else for no reason. I’m not trying to say anybody should be prevented from being part of society. I’m saying that if you’re unable to interact with other humans appropriately, it’s in everyone’s best inte… | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayMy point still stands. I have agency to insult and (legally) harass whoever I want for whatever reason. But it’s still not socially acceptable behavior. Directly ignoring an acquaintance to their face isn’t socially acceptable either. A random stranger on the street, alright. Someone you’re in class with at least a couple times a week for several months, not quite. Next time you’re at work and a coworker talks to you, just pretend they aren’t there. See how that goes for you. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayIt’s less awkward to give them your number then ghost them and have to see them in class the next day? | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayYou’re not making any sense. Your whole argument is nonsensical, really. You said that believing there are basic standards of human interaction makes me entitled. You implied there are no standards, which means it’s acceptable to walk up to someone and scream insults at them. If you disagree, then you agree with me that there are standards. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayHere’s the entitlement. What standards? Who decided these standards? Where in my, your, or anyone else’s life did we take the class on the same standards? I guess we just disagree on what it means to live in a civilized society. So you believe it’s socially acceptable for me to walk up to a woman and start screaming insults at her? | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayNo, the discussion was about how women feel threatened by men so they give them their number even if they don’t want to. I don’t feel entitled to anything, if I ask a girl for her number and she says no, that’s fine. All I’m saying is that if you’re so terrified of humans that you can’t tell your classmate you’re uninterested when they ask, you absolutely should not be in public alone. There are basic standards of human interaction. Anyone can do whatever the fuck they want, but if you’re unable… | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayIf a woman feels that threatened by a classmate, in class, she should not be in public alone. She clearly needs intensive therapy. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayIn a classroom? They weren’t in some night club, they were in a classroom presumably surrounded by students and teachers. If the girl can’t say no in that situation, she has no business being in public without a chaperone. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayGenerally if I ask someone for their number and they give it to me, I assume they’re alright with giving me their number. If a girl in a classroom feels so threatened by her classmate that she has to give in to anything he asks, there’s a very serious problem in that school. The girl acted selfishly and cruelly. That’s literally all that happened. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayWow. I bet women love you. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayI mean, sure. Nobody is entitled to have the door held open for them either. Yet if you’re following someone through a door and they slam it on your face, you have a right to be annoyed. If someone you actually know in real life asks for you number and you give it to them, then they text you and you ignore them, that’s pretty shitty. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Long time lurker, I HAVE to speak up on how to increase your success with MINIMAL effort and there is no BS trick - it's a simple path that doesn't include anxiety.Consistent failure and rejection has a profound psychological effect, regardless of what you think. They’ve actually shown that rejection causes the same pain response as physical pain. The goal of exposure therapy is small, incremental improvements. There will be failures, but you want to ensure they’re balanced with successes. Hitting on random people isn’t a prudent way to do that. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Long time lurker, I HAVE to speak up on how to increase your success with MINIMAL effort and there is no BS trick - it's a simple path that doesn't include anxiety.one has to embrace both pain and failure to get good at anything. Absolutely. But if I want to learn to box, I probably shouldn’t start out sparring Tyson Fury every day. And if I’m a lightweight, I probably shouldn’t fight him at all. Some people are introverted. These people will never have success approaching random people, it’s just not in their nature. Just like a lightweight will never have success against a heavyweight. That doesn’t mean they should give up, it means they should play to t… | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are highly successful with women, was it always that way for you?But you’re assuming they smile back. Generally they just look at me like I called them a fat ugly whore. | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Is it typical to go out with girls and not a feel connection?Just have to say, you are a true saint of this sub for advice like this. So much of the advice on here is superficial. I really appreciate you, I would totally give you gold if I cared enough. | /r/seduction | 02/02/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to meet women if you are shyI just want to be clear, I do agree with most of what you’re saying though. I just think this sub tends to go a little too far in claiming what one should or shouldn’t do to be attractive. People are into all kinds of things and you can make your thing work, whatever it is. Sorry if I’m being a little hostile. Reddit just has that effect. | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How to meet women if you are shyYou’re still missing the point. People don’t have to enjoy the same things. I’m not talking about a feeling of discontentment, I’m talking about different interests and desires. I hate cardio, so I keep it to the bare minimum of what’s necessary, and pick up the slack elsewhere. I have no desire to start liking cardio, just like I have no desire to like talking to random people. Those aren’t things I enjoy, so I do them as needed, but no more than that. Same with sitting on a subway for 2 hours.… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How to meet women if you are shyI’m not at all incapable of understanding what you’re saying, it’s actually the opposite. What I’m telling you is that being introverted does not mean being afraid. You’re placing a value judgement on being introverted, claiming it’s a negative personality trait. Asserting your values onto others as if they are true is the height of arrogance. The goal should not be to change who you are, it should be to accept and express who you are. The main problem you will probably run into is that the volu… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How to meet women if you are shyYou’re conflating totally separate things. That’s what I’m trying to explain. I didnt like going up to random girls when i started. It was very difficult for me. That’s not your personality though - fear is merely an emotion/feeling. You’re wrong. It’s not your personality. The fact that you think you can speak for others’ internal state is beyond arrogance. I’m not afraid of talking to random women. I just do not enjoy it. Even if it goes well, I generally would rather have spent the time doing… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How to meet women if you are shyAlright man. All I’m telling you is that your experience and personality is not universal. Just because something works for you doesn’t mean it will work for others. You assume that someone who doesn’t like to go up to random strangers and talk to them is inherently fearful or lacks confidence. You are just absolutely wrong. Some people just don’t like that. I have no interest in going to a club to hit on girls to gain reference experience. I don’t believe that relationships should be based on m… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How to meet women if you are shyThe problem here is that you’re assuming your personality is shared by everyone. You’re very wrong. Many people don’t like going to a club and talking to random girls. For example, I hate it. Even if I get laid, it’s shitty drunk sex with a random person I’ll never talk to again. I’d rather just fap. Many people don’t like being the life of the party. I’m great in one-on-one settings, but if I’m in a group where the majority aren’t my close friends, I’m never completely comfortable. It has nothi… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 06:00 PM |
| 3 | How to meet women if you are shySaying that the advice here is to “change your personality” is inaccurate, because what the advice is implying is learn to bring out the best sides of you A lot of it, yes. But a lot of it does tell you to change your personality. People who are naturally shy won’t find success by “putting themselves out there.” It’s like conversion therapy, it’s just torture. Sure, they might be able to build up a good mask, but that’s all it is. You can meet people by having hobbies, joining groups, etc. In fa… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 03:22 AM |
| 73 | How to meet women if you are shyI don’t like how a lot of this sub’s advice comes down to “change your personality so you’re like a man from a romcom so that women will like you.” Some people are shy, there’s nothing wrong with that, and there are plenty of women who don’t mind it. I don’t think changing your personality to get laid is a foundation for a happy life. | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Going out alone is a rollercoasterI don’t have a solution. Having a solution isn’t a prerequisite for identifying an issue. And a single relevant comment isn’t nagging, it’s communicating. I bet women love you. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Going out alone is a rollercoasterSure, so because rapists are predominately men who attack women, men deserve to be second class citizens in other ways? | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Going out alone is a rollercoasterThis is a perfect example of the power imbalance between men and women. No man ever gets free entry or drinks, and if they walk to the front of the line they get punched in the face. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Right Now, There's A Woman Who Is Checking You Out And You May Not Even Know ItThis just isn’t true. Men “look at you like a boss” if they’re intimidated by you, generally due to height and size, sometimes due to wealth and power. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | I have nothing to talk aboutI’ve been planning to do this. I figured yoga would be good for that, but I didn’t consider that everyone is completely silent before, during, and after yoga practices. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I have nothing to talk aboutSo there’s no need for a segue? Just go right from introductions to “what kind of stuff do you do for fun?” | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | I have nothing to talk aboutI’ve literally only gotten dates from tinder. I’m not meeting any women, so I don’t have any opportunity to feed the interactions. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I have nothing to talk aboutOr does that work? I just feel like I should be focused on meeting girls and getting dates before I focus on what to do while I’m on those dates. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I have nothing to talk aboutI appreciate this advice, but my issue is a little bit earlier. Once the conversation has started I can do that, but I feel like it wouldn’t work to walk up to a random girl and just ask her if she’s seen any good movies lately. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 06:39 PM |
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