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| 1 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]I mean "most men" is a bit of a stretch. Plently of women have high sex drives and a relationship can offer so much more than just sex. But yes, escorts or hookups are a good alternative for men that don't want relationships. | /r/BlackPillScience | 17/02/26 03:43 PM |
| 1 | The male creation cycleCool, apparently I'm imaginary. You're super weird my dude. I literally described myself in that comment. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | "I don't need no man"I've always been curious about this . . . from a man's perspective, surely it's better to be "wanted" rather than "needed"? For a woman to value you as a person, rather than what you can provide? | /r/MensRights | 21/09/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | The male creation cycleOkay, so what do YOU call a woman who plays video games every day and is into LARP and sci-fi? | /r/MensRights | 21/09/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | The male creation cycleYou don't believe me? That's hilarious. You've led an incredibly sheltered life if you don't believe nerdy women exist. We've always been here, we just don't advertise it. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]The easy answer is just don't have long term relationships if you don't like the odds then. Relationships aren't compulsory. | /r/BlackPillScience | 04/08/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | The male creation cycleFair enough. Most of the other women I've met while gaming (generally in MMOs) have been chronically logged in though. I have literal years of accumulated game time in WoW alone. And I still game for around four or five hours every day. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]I best tell my husband he married a unicorn then haha. | /r/BlackPillScience | 04/08/25 12:27 AM |
| -11 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]Yet if you don't try, you'll never win anything. | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/07/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]You know what, I'm going to actually answer this in good faith. I genuinely like my husband. We are best friends and each other's favourite person. We share 90% of the same interests, hobbies and music tastes. This means we can be equally happy spending a weekend at home playing video games as we are when we're traveling or going to music festivals or the theatre or wherever. We're also equals and see each other as such. I'm a stay at home wife but he has never thought of himself as more importa… | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/07/25 10:52 PM |
| -22 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]Just find a woman with an actual high sex drive. We exist. | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/07/25 01:41 PM |
| -8 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]Woman here. I've been with my husband for 20 years and my sex drive is still decently high so this is definitely not true for all relationships. | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/07/25 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Cheat: The Harsh Truth About Female Infidelity – With Michelle LangleyHey you don't have to convince me how bad cheating is. I've been cheated on, I KNOW. I was only querying the guy above who was saying it should warrant a death sentence. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/25 08:15 PM |
| -2 | The male creation cycleBullshit. There's an absolute ton of women out there playing FPS, MMOs etc. too. Around 35% of world of warcraft players are female. Around 40% of Minecraft players are female. Around 40% of FFXIV players are female. Around 34% of fallout players are female. Around a third of FPS players are female. And phone games are still games. My husband spends hours playing Hearthstone on his phone. Does that make him not a gamer? eSports leagues would disagree. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start advocating for their rights moreI'm a South African living in the UK. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/25 10:35 AM |
| 0 | Men need to start advocating for their rights moreI'm here because I want to support men. I like men. I have a wonderful husband and male friends who are important to me. I've even encouraged my husband to start a "Men's Shed" in our village. I know most men on this sub dislike women and have had bad experiences with them but we aren't all as toxic as the internet would have you believe. Some of us actually want to help. Just like women's rights wouldn't be what they are today without good men supporting our right to vote etc., men's rights wil… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/25 08:27 AM |
| 0 | Men need to start advocating for their rights moreThere is absolutely nothing in the sub rules to say women can't comment here, therefore this is not a men only space. If this was a men's-only space, with rules that stated as such, I would of course respect that. By implying that you don't want women here, are you saying you don't want women to support men's rights? | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Why are men required to give honest biological signals, while it is permitted for women to lie?"Effeminate androgynous heroin addicts". You mean men like Steven Tyler, Prince, David Bowie and Mick Jagger, who had hordes of groupies and women throwing themselves at them? | /r/MensRights | 29/04/25 03:39 PM |
| 0 | Why are men required to give honest biological signals, while it is permitted for women to lie?I don't know who JD Vance is (I'm European) but, with respect, "guy liner" is as hot as fuck on a man. Why do you think so many male singers have worn it over the years? | /r/MensRights | 28/04/25 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Is There ANYTHING Men Are Allowed to Expect From a Woman?Men should expect love, affection, kindness, loyalty and friendship, at the very least. Don't accept less. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/25 03:59 PM |
| 6 | Why are men required to give honest biological signals, while it is permitted for women to lie?Men can do all those things too if they want. Just stop worrying about what other people think. Plenty of men dye their hair, get hair implants, wear shoes with lifts, wear expensive fashion. There are even makeup brands for men now. There are men in the tummy tuck sub getting tummy tucks to make their stomachs tighter. Those men are just living their lives, being happy and not giving a shit if they're judged for those things. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/25 03:50 PM |
| -1 | Why are men required to give honest biological signals, while it is permitted for women to lie?Which is also a status symbol. It's exactly the same thing. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Why Women Cheat: The Harsh Truth About Female Infidelity – With Michelle LangleyYou definitely sound angry. That's not good for your stress levels. Anyway, my husband and I have been together for 20 years and we're still happy and in love. Don't assume all women are bad people. And men and women need to respect each other. It goes both ways. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | 'We put the pressure on to join Men in Sheds'The worst people are always the loudest, unfortunately. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/25 10:02 AM |
| 1 | 'We put the pressure on to join Men in Sheds'It makes me sad that so many people have only experienced such shit relationships to the extent that they don't even believe good ones exist. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/25 08:31 AM |
| 0 | 'We put the pressure on to join Men in Sheds'You're a miserable old git, aren't you? And, they might not be common, but men only gyms do exist. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/25 08:29 AM |
| 1 | The male creation cycleGlobally, 48% gamers are women (52% in my country specifically). So you're wrong there for a start. You seem very angry. That's not healthy. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/25 10:35 PM |
| 0 | 'We put the pressure on to join Men in Sheds'Ah, but it won't be a public venue. My husband plans to rent a commercial premises for the location. We can afford to do that. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | 'We put the pressure on to join Men in Sheds'Can you tell me what was so bad about my comment? | /r/MensRights | 26/04/25 04:38 PM |
| -2 | 'We put the pressure on to join Men in Sheds'That doesn't always happen. My husband has had so much say in the decor and design of our house that you would never guess a woman even lived here haha. It looks like a bachelor pad, with replica weapons in the walls and a pc gaming setup in the living room. Edit: those who are downvoting me, at least explain to me why a woman who encourages her husband to decorate the house he also lives in is making you so irrationally angry. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 07:26 PM |
| 13 | 'We put the pressure on to join Men in Sheds'As a woman, this pisses me the hell off. Women have plenty of spaces, let men have theirs. My husband and I have discussed him starting a Mens Shed in our village and this will absolutely not happen there. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?Okay that is a fair point and I do agree. If a woman leaves a marriage simply because she's bored or met someone else then she should absolutely have to support herself. I was very much thinking of scenarios where the husband just walks out on his stay at home wife after 20 or so years. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:28 PM |
| 0 | 13 yo boy made to 'lift up penis so that his scrotum could be seen' on new TV series where he is called an incel.Yup, that's what I meant. I just worded it badly. OP is making out like the actor was actually subjected to it on camera. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:25 PM |
| 10 | The male creation cycleHonestly, I do relate to that. Being into nerdy stuff made me the "weird" girl at school and definitely stopped other women from seeing me as "one of the girls" when I worked in an office. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?I feel like that's definitely just a case of being married to a toxic person. My husband's relaxing/hobby time is only limited by having to work. Other than that, he's "allowed" to do whatever he wants to relax. That's one of the reasons I'm a stay at home wife, so he can come home from work and just relax. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?I'm a stay at home wife so I might be a little biased haha. I don't get "paid" though. We have a joint bank account and if I need something I just get it. It suits my husband and I well though. He doesn't have to do any chores and comes home to a home cooked meal every night and I don't have to go to a job I hate. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 09:33 AM |
| 6 | The male creation cycleI do know the type you're talking about and I find it equally frustrating because they give all us car girls a bad name. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?You can't give up a career and then just walk back in after 20 years though. It's not as easy as saying "we're divorced now, go get a job". If you were in a skilled career, you're going to need re-training after a break that long. Not to mention, many businesses are hesitant to hire people in their late 40's and up. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start advocating for their rights more"Holes"? Really? | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start advocating for their rights moreWhat are some examples of what you'd consider "your spaces" out of interest? | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?Those are equally gross. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:31 AM |
| 2 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?Men don't think they're allowed to relax?? | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:28 AM |
| 2 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?I think that whichever partner gives up their career to stay home and raise the kids and look after the family is worthy of being recognised and compensated for that. Regardless if it's the mother or the father. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | what are some things that are seen as bad when a man does it but are seen as okay or good when a women does the same thing?I know plenty of men who comfortably do all of those things though. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Why Women Cheat: The Harsh Truth About Female Infidelity – With Michelle LangleyPlenty of people are still getting married. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are Some men so agianst introducing actual punishments on cheatingThat's just fucking stupid. I assume this is only for women who cheat, not men? | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Why Women Cheat: The Harsh Truth About Female Infidelity – With Michelle LangleyAre you proposing the death sentence for cheating? | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:10 AM |
| 3 | 'Your face looks grotesque': How looksmaxxing can harm young men and boys. New study says members of online community encourage surgeries, suicideThat's not botox, that look is caused by a procedure called "buccal fat removal" and it's fucking stupid. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Is this the tipping point? Teenage boys in Norway think 'gender equality has gone too far', and the reactions in mainstream sub are not what you would expectIt's sad that you feel that way. Good people definitely exist. Good women definitely exist. It's just that we often aren't hot model types so you don't even notice us. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Adolescence (Netflix) has changed how people see you as a 13yo in the UKIn Adolescence it's made very very clear that he IS a victim of circumstance though. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | The male creation cycleSome of us women were gaming back in the 80s though. Until this post, I've genuinely never met a man who was unhappy to discover I'm a woman gamer. Quite the opposite. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The male creation cycleLegitimate car girl here. I got hooked on cars because my dad would take me to classic car shows as a kid. I absolutely do give a shit about car culture. I belonged to a car club and displayed my car at shows. Awesome memories. There were other women I met who were the same, genuinely passionate about the cars. The thing is, women like us wouldn't even register on your radar, because we're not hot or scantily clad. We just kind of fade into the background. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:31 AM |
| 8 | The male creation cycleYou know there are lots of legitimately nerdy women, right? I was playing video games, watching sci-fi and reading comics every day back in the mid 80s. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:20 AM |
| 8 | How can women help?That's what it was originally but, as with everything good, feminism got hijacked by radicals. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:08 AM |
| 2 | 13 yo boy made to 'lift up penis so that his scrotum could be seen' on new TV series where he is called an incel.It's just implied that his character goes through it. Nothing is shown on the screen. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?I'm glad you're enjoying life. That's all any of us can wish for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Oh honey, I'm happily married. My husband and I have been together since our 20's. You boys just want everyone to be as lonely and bitter as you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Actually yeah, I agree with you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Show me where I said that women have a higher sex drive than men? I did not say that. I just said that women over 40 can have a high sex drive. I do myself, and I've spoken to other women that do. I didn't say it was higher than a man's sex drive. Even with a high sex drive, women are generally a bit more selective with partners anyway. Sure I want sex every day but, if I were single, I'd still be selective with who I have sex with. Toys are a lot less hassle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?And? That's a sub specifically for the issue of lack of sex so of course it's going to be full of people not having it. 🙄 People in relationships where they have lots of sex aren't going to pop into deadbedrooms to brag about it, are they? You don't find naturally skinny people in the weight loss subs either because, again, they have no need to be there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Okay. Partner, girlfriend, whatever terminology you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I think some people don’t realize they don’t love their partner until they end the relationship and experience somebody they truly desireAny women old enough to remember 3rd Rock from the Sun most likely has had a crush on him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | I think some people don’t realize they don’t love their partner until they end the relationship and experience somebody they truly desireJoseph Gordon Levitt is as hot as FUCK though. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:05 PM |
| – | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?That's a whole bunch of generalisation. I got married at 21. My daughters father died when she was 6. I had a good job and managed to support us both fine. But sure, I made "bad choices" and just wanted an ATM. I also have family members who married early 20's, 3 kids, now in their early 30's. The man then decided he didn't want to be married anymore and left. His wife was blindsided by it. She thought they were happy. Now she's suddenly a single mom of 3. Men are far too quick to judge single m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:02 PM |
| – | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?I was a single mom. My daughter's father died when she was 6. My experience is that, whilst I definitely found fewer men were interested in dating me, there were also men who did not have an issue with it. My now-husband was childfree when we met but he was happy to be a step-dad, even though he didn't want biological kids of his own. 20 years later and he's been the best damn step-dad in the world and my (our) daughter adores him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?I saw one use "spinster" earlier! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:42 PM |
| – | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..Anyone leaving a relationship for someone else is in the wrong imo, and just a trash human in general. Ending a relationship where one or both people are unhappy is justified though (no matter who ends it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.If you think that, you're doing it wrong imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.As a woman in menopause, it is by no means a dead end. It's still absolutely possible for women to be fit, hot and in-shape after menopause. It just takes a lot of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:27 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?You sound bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:13 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Why do men always think single with cats is such an insult or bad thing? 😂 I know women who actually aspire to that. Women tend to do much better alone than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Very well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:07 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?"decline in female sex drive" Oh honey, you don't know much about women in their 40's, do you? Why do you think cougars are so popular? Because women 40+ often have an insanely high sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Why should young women get married if their husband is just going to consider her ugly and low value when she's older? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Oh honey, no. If you both put the effort in, it's possible to have a great sex life with only your spouse, even after 20+ years together. I'm sorry you've never experienced that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Yet given how you red pill lot think, even if she does all that, you're STILL going to want to replace her with a hot 22 year old. You might not actually do it, but you want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:34 AM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?What's your future plan then? Ditch your future wife as soon as she hits her 30's and becomes "old"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:26 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?You have some serious mental health issues dude! 😂 I'd almost feel sorry for you, if you weren't such a horrible, shallow person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:03 AM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?That woman is more than average. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:59 AM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Hello. 🙋♀️ I'm super happy. I absolutely love my life and everything about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:53 AM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?"Spinster"? Seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:49 AM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Most people dating over the age of 40 are not looking to have children though. They are either childfree or have children from a previous relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:43 AM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?As a 47 year old woman, I'm super curious what your definition of "the wall" actually is, because I certainly don't feel like I'm "past it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:37 AM |
| 0 | Femaledating sub scares meYou realise that women are equally prone to using weaponised incompetence, right? It's not a feminist thing, it's a shitty person thing. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Femaledating sub scares meI can only speak for myself. I am truly happy with my life. My previous partners have often been from lower income groups than myself. My long term partner was actually in debt when we met. I value shared interests and values more than looks or money. I AM easy to please. As to divorce, I know very few divorced people personally, but the divorced women I have spoken to have mostly just got tired of being taken for granted, of basically being a "mother" figure to husbands who use weaponised incom… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 11:01 AM |
| -7 | Femaledating sub scares meI mean, you're wrong but if it makes you feel better to believe that then be my guest. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Femaledating sub scares meI have absolutely called out other women for making toxic, man-hating comments. (I don't know if I qualify as a feminist by today's standards though. I believe in equality, the original meaning of feminism). | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 12:03 PM |
| -11 | Femaledating sub scares me"women are chronically unhappy" Got a source for that? I love my life and couldn't be happier. Edit: you don't sound like you're particularly happily married. Clearly your wife feels the same way. People in happy relationships tend to be happier in general. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Stop Chasing the Honeymoon PhaseStill in the honeymoon phase after 18 years over here. You do have to make an effort though. Oh, and it's MUCH easier when you become empty-nesters. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/23 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Should I give up on marriage if I am an ugly woman?Mata Hari definitely wasn't ugly though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/23 01:02 PM |
| 15 | How do you dress to the gym?I wear leggings and a long t-shirt. I'm there to work out, not get attention. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/23 01:51 AM |
| 10 | Fiancé is jealous. What should I do to keep him calm?I was married to a man like this. Until I couldn't take it anymore. It got to a point where he was convinced I was having an affair at work (I worked for an old guy and his married daughter). He was unemployed at the time and would freak out every day when I left for work. He was a nightmare if I ever had to do overtime. This isn't just jealousy. It's controlling behaviour and emotional abuse. No good man would behave this way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother?Men and women are not the same BUT they each have different strengths which, in effect, does make them equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 08:07 AM |
| 2 | q4women in loving long-term relationships: would you keep being in relationship with your SO if he indefinitely stopped being able to work or bring money?Absolutely yes. I'm 45f, been with my SO for 18 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?Why would he not have it anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Lower socioeconomic class men (and women) not only want people out of ‘their league’ they appear to want people who don’t exist in ‘any league’Are there really that many men out there dating a woman just because she's the best they could get so they just settled? I'd be absolutely devastated if I found out a guy i was with thought this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Black Pill is the New Blue PillYeah, that's complete bullshit. I get horny several times a day. I'm in the house, on my own, not reading or watching anything that would turn me on, sometimes just while doing chores! If that isn't spontaneous sexual desire, I don't know what is. It would also be ridiculous to assume my situation is a rarity, given how many people there are on the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:44 PM |
| 9 | People seriously underestimate negative survivorship bias in datingI was 27 when I met my partner and we're still happily together 18 years later. I also have several friends in their 40's who have recently started relationships, one has even just got married at 45. It might get harder as you get older but it's by no means impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Why does sex feel like such a conquest for men?Piv sex absolutely is pleasurable for women. It might not be enough to bring (most of) us to orgasm but it still feels damn good. If a woman finds piv unpleasurable then there is something very very wrong, either psychologically or physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 09:15 AM |
| 8 | Why does sex feel like such a conquest for men?Are you, as a woman, saying that women don't enjoy sex? Because, if you are, you're definitely doing it wrong! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 12 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?I have a high sex drive and I like having sex regularly but I have been fine when there's been times in my life where I haven't been able to have sex. In a relationship, the emotional connection is more important to me. I love regular sex with my partner but if he was unable to have sex due to illness or disability then I would accept it. So, no, I don't think sex is a "need". I believe it's important and definitely has psychological and emotional benefits but, ultimately, humans can survive wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 08:29 AM |
| 5 | Black Pill is the New Blue PillAside everything else you said, I just want to point out that women absolutely can have spontaneous sex drives! Not all women are only reactive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 08:18 AM |
| -1 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.Toxic subs spewing hate towards either sex are equally disgusting. That example you linked is particularly awful, yes. Honestly, I think the average person just needs to start ignoring these toxic "extremists" places. Let them all, men and women, just stew in their misery and hate on their own. We give them far to much attention and they thrive on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?So, all the most toxic places on the internet, where all the shitty people hang out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 17 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.I have no reason to lie and I'm too old for stupid games so, yes, it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 01:42 PM |
| 47 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.Why do people here think all women in long term relationships are with a "BB"? I've been with my partner for 18 years. I can't imagine being with anyone else, I'm crazy about him, we are best friends, we have fun together and our sex life is amazing. Is that the definition of a BB? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.Helping women how? In what context? If you're talking opening doors, fixing a car tire etc. then yep I suppose that's fair. If you're talking about a woman who is in physical trouble like being attacked or drowning etc. then not helping just makes you a shitty person because people should always help other people who are in physical trouble, regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:41 PM |
| 3 | How do "sexually available" women feel about men?Oh honey, you wouldn't know a healthy, happy relationship even if you tripped over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:24 PM |
| 4 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.What's twisted is thinking that being single and physical safety are on the same level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 4 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.Society is changing. People really need to learn to deal with that. Life isn't fair and having a romantic partner isn't a human right, it's a privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 09:13 AM |
| 3 | How do "sexually available" women feel about men?I've always liked men. From back in my teenage years/early 20's, when I was dating and sleeping with lots of different guys, to now when I'm older and in a happy relationship. I've never felt differently at any stage of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:27 AM |
| 7 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.I don't understand what you expect or want to happen regarding this supposed issue though. Force women to no longer have preferences? No western society is going to force women to date men they don't find attractive. Men are just bitter because women now have more choices when it comes to dating. The internet has made dating more difficult. That's a fact. There is nothing anyone can do about it. People just need to realise that society is changing and learn to live with it. Life isn't fair and h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:21 AM |
| 7 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down."Sexually harass". Oh my good god. Could you be any more ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:09 AM |
| 7 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.What do you consider "sexually provocative dressing"? Shorts? Mini skirts? Lots of cleavage? Showing any skin at all? Are you seriously comparing men no longer being able to beat women to women wearing pretty clothes in public? Women going about their day, dressed how they want has NO comparison to physical assault and sex by coercion. That you would even attempt to compare them is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:08 AM |
| 13 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.The problem with so many of those "male spaces" is that they start off wholesome and turn toxic over time, like the old MGTOW sub. Great idea, encourage men to live happy, fulfilled, independent lives, share hobbies etc. By the time it was quarantined, it was nothing but bitter divorced men and incels spouting hate for all women, making fun of women who dared to age past 30 and generally being as toxic af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?Where on earth are you seeing women say that most men are unattractive? Because I am a woman and I've never heard another woman express that thought, ever. I'd maybe expect it in subs like FDS but those women are toxic af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 07:28 AM |
| 4 | Unattractive WomenA mix of both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Unattractive WomenI'm very average and every guy I've ever dated has been average or below. The boyfriend I took to my prom wasn't conventionally attractive (one of my friends said he looked like Frankenstein's monster!) and he was very much the "weird kid" at school but I was crazy about him. Looks are not everything, no matter how much you want to believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 24 | Unattractive WomenOkay, I'm older (45) so my imput might not be relevant. I don't think I'm ugly but I'm definitely unremarkably average. I've never been cat called and I've never turned heads. My dating life was all pre-dating apps so I have no experience of those. It was all the "old" way of meeting people: bars; nightclubs; through friends, work etc. I'd say that my success rate was about 50/50. Maybe helped by alcohol? One guy, the morning after a ONS, did tell me i wasnt as pretty as he'd thought i was the n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:55 AM |
| 3 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?The amount of comments I see on reddit from men complaining that they will never have a truly attractive (9 or 10) girlfriend makes me highly doubt your comment about it being easier for a woman to be considered attractive by men's standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?The thing is, it's been proven that children absolutely thrive when they have a stay at home parent. Doesn't matter whether it's the father or the mother. If divorce happens, I don't believe that the parent who stayed home to raise the children should be punished for that. They might not have been contributing financially but surely raising healthy, happy kids is an important contribution to a family? I'm curious why there is suddenly so much hate for mothers who stop work to raise their childre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?Change society how? How exactly do you think society would fix this "problem"? Bring back arranged marriage? Sex slavery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?I'm not sure I understand this thread. It seems to me that men are bitter because women have choices now and some men aren't getting "chosen". Why would women march for something that is in direct opposition to their freedom of choice? Some people are not lucky enough to find relationships. It happens to both men and women. I know three men and two women who are around age 40 who are long-term single. None have been married, none have children, both women are attractive, the guys are average. Su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?How do you expect things to change though? Women are allowed to date/marry who they want and only slavery or forced/arrange marriage will change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Is hiring a hooker really the end goal for sexless men?That's a lot of generalisation. My SO are still having great sex several times a week, even after 18 years together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?Fairly opposite for me. My dad was 5ft6, super sporty (played and watched loads of sports), a white collar businessman (he was in finance) and was ridiculously outgoing (the term "social butterfly" comes to mind. My longterm SO is 6ft1, hates sports, is super geeky and works with his hands (welder). He's social but definitely far more on the introvert side. The only similarities they share is ambition, work ethic and just generally being good, kind people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 06:11 PM |
| 7 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenMGTOW is fine as long as you actually bugger off and DO it and don't hang around on the internet moaning about women (like you're doing right now)! That just makes you look a bit sad and desperate. The vast majority of my friends and family are in happy, longterm relationships (20+ years). I personally don't know many divorced people at all. I'm in the UK for reference, not that that really matters. Yes, divorce can and does happen but it's FAR from the guaranteed outcome that MGTOW types like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 05:58 PM |
| 6 | CMV Sexual access is the only thing we're buying because its the only thing you're sellingIt honestly sounds, from your post and this comment, that you hang around with some truly awful people! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV Sexual access is the only thing we're buying because its the only thing you're sellingI'm also in the UK and I don't think this is true at all. There will always be people with more extreme views on anything in life and there have ALWAYS been successful men who weren't into relationships. That's where the whole playboy bachelor stereotype comes from. It's far from new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | lets say every one in the whole society is being absolutely perfect looking..what would be that hypothetical society be being like?? i know its odd to be think but its like thought experimentThere's a YA book series called "Uglies" that has this premise. It's set waaaay in the future and, at 16, everyone undergoes a procedure to make them exquisitely beautiful/handsome. It's interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 09:10 AM |
| 3 | So... with Rowe vs Wade about to be over turned, will men with vasectomies be more desirable to women? Half joking... but kind of not.It would definitely be a bonus point but it wouldn't make me attracted to someone I wouldn't be otherwise. Just to add, I'm not an American so Rowe vs Wade has nothing to do with it, for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 09:07 AM |
| 8 | So... with Rowe vs Wade about to be over turned, will men with vasectomies be more desirable to women? Half joking... but kind of not.Hey, don't be lumping Marvel in with that list. Nothing wrong with liking Marvel stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: what kind of tattoos do you like on men?As many tattoos as possible! Honestly, the more the better. They need to be quality art though, not prison style tats done in your mates garage. Bonus points for geeky, fandom related ink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Love is dead and Hollywood killed itLove is absolutely not dead. I know plenty of people in happy relationships, of all ages (including my 23 year old daughter). I even have a 45 year old friend who recently got married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Women: Did having male close friends or brothers helped you with talking to men? Men: Did having close female friends or sisters helped you with talking to women?Woman here. Only child but I grew up in a neighbourhood of all boys. The result was that I turned into a tomboy and related much more to boys than girls until my late teens. To answer your question, I think so, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:39 AM |
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