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| 5 | Do you have male friends that should be successful with women but are not? What are they doing wrong?That tradeoff is well worth it, I’m in the same boat. DEBT FREE Haha! But you really just have to force yourself out there, there’s really no other choice besides online dating(not worth it imo). Do day game around a times square/mall then work your way up to attending a bar by yourself. Go to college campuses and if someone ask why you’re there just say you’re meeting a friend. Go to bookstores, basically anywhere by yourself and you’re bound to find someone that’s attractive to you. You got it… | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Female // How do people engage in one night stands without concerning themselves about their skills?!Lmao fr | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 11:49 AM |
| 4 | How do i approach this girl who lives in a complete different country than me?Not trying to be Negative, but Long distance doesn’t work to well. Eventually you’ll want to be physical and see each other in person rather than talking on the phone everyday. But you didn’t ask for an opinion on rather you should do it or not so I’ll answer your question. The only thing you can do really is keep in touch. Text, phone call, FaceTime (the best option if you both have iPhones). Keep talking via phone until you go to her country. By then you should have built enough comfort and at… | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Message her like you talking to your boy!Bro, I literally text whatever is on my mind or I’ll say some random shit lmao. That’s how you get the best/funniest conversations. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | D0ES anyone else, feel creepy, with a woman!?No, only creepy if you make it creepy | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 05:23 PM |
| 3 | attracting mouth blabbersExactly, I like listening and learning about other people more than I like talking about myself lol, plus with listening you won’t have to carry a whole conversation on your back | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible for me to be attractive after weak social media behavior?Post new photos of you having a great time, rather its with friends or family. Take interesting photos, have interesting stories and then the females will notice your huge positive improvements and will most likely forget about the past posts you made. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 06:05 AM |
| -1 | Is it possible for me to be attractive after weak social media behavior?I agree, you need a fresh start bro | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 04:36 AM |
| 5 | How can an average 5’6.75” white male in his late twenties have the dating success of my female equivalents?Bro this isn’t twitter or instagram where all girls do is bash on short men. In real life I never seen a female bash on a guy just because of his height, that really only happen in an abundance on social media. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How to flirt and get girls at parties?That’s why I really like Direct over Indirect. It takes only like 30 secs to know if she’s into you or not and you won’t be wasting time unlike the indirect approach. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Girls showing interest then responding with dry answersFrom the responses you’re saying they are replying back to you, you might be asking closed ended questions and/or dull questions that’s making them uninterested. Don’t be like a robot or an interrogator, ask/say completely random out of the blue questions. That’s what I do and I get them hooked into the conversation to where we can lead off that topic into something completely different. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Best way to befriend a girl you cold approached, but you’re not sexually attracted too?Lmao, you’re right bro, but I just didn’t know of a way to word it so she wouldn’t be interested in me romantically | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Best way to befriend a girl you cold approached, but you’re not sexually attracted too?Good idea! And Ya I don’t normally do it either, but what some guy said about women being “good wingman and having female friends increases your social circle to more women, so you shouldn’t dismiss the ones you’re not sexually attracted to but instead befriend them.” Got me thinking thats not a bad idea lmao. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Best way to befriend a girl you cold approached, but you’re not sexually attracted too?Thank you, I got that part covered, but what should the closing be. “Its been nice talking to you, we’d make good friends can I get your number(instagram)?” Or what? | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Beginner question, daygame. How to get to the investing stage?I’m technically a beginner, been only doing this a few months, but I’ll try to help out. Not everyone need to have a long conversation. I tried both indirect and direct and I’ve had more success with getting numbers which led to dates by using the direct method. It’s not that I can’t converse a while with a chick I cold approached for a couple minutes, it’s just that I feel like there’s no point. Why would I talk to someone for 5 minutes just for them to say no when I ask for there number? I’d r… | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?Well let me rephrase by saying, my motivation to get better outweighs approach anxiety to where I just overcome it and talk to the girls with no problem. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?Thanks so much for the advice, definitely going to use it. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?Thank you, what does IOD stand for? | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?Man, I wanted to say that IG line but Walmart was getting crowded and customers were coming and I’m not on the level of shooting my shot in front of random people yet lmao. But if she was more solo I for sure would’ve said that. Thanks for the advice and i will most def watch that vid when i get home! | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?You know that makes total sense. I just direct approached her because she was working and I didn’t want to hold her up. And although my approach anxiety is gone, I’m not on that level of approaching in front of random people (in this instance, customers) lol.Thanks for the advice next time I’ll try that. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?You been meeting this same girl for like 6 weeks now.... | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Girls never text me first! How do I build attraction?I find that the girls that text me first are the ones that enjoy our conversations. We never have boring convos always something to say to each other, rather were flirting, talking sexual, or just regular conversation. Also they text back when I leave them on read (idk why they hate that so much). | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Wow, that’s a great way to put it. I needed to hear that because I always relied on motivation to go out. Just need to discipline myself better. | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl with intentions of becoming just friends.You might have a point. I’m just at that phase where I really don’t want to date anybody or have casual hookups (basically no relationship at all atm) so I figured having a “girl friend” would be a nice change of pace. You may be right tho. | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How I'm currently taking actionWow, that really helped me out a lot. I decided to go out 1-2 times a week then gradually increase it to about 3-4 times a week in the future. But ya I agree every time I DO force myself to go out I feel 20x better overall. Thanks for the advice! | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 06:15 PM |
| 3 | How I'm currently taking actionMan #3 is the only problems I’m having. Approaching I can do easily, but actually motivating myself to not waste my off days bumming around the house instead of day gaming is really difficult for me. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 02:23 PM |
| 8 | Total Failure, help me.You did what a lot of grown men are afraid to do at the age of 14. Keep it up and you’ll be godly in a few years. Don’t sweat it bro, just move on and keep approaching. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Any older guys here? 30's or 40'sYes its 16 in my state, but you hit it right on the head. The stigma surrounding age is so annoying but we can’t really do anything about it. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Any older guys here? 30's or 40'sThe age of consent in my state is 16 so it would be perfectly find legally. But the whole “societal views” and stigma surrounding age is what’s really annoying. Maybe I shouldn’t care what other people say and just suck it up. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Any older guys here? 30's or 40'sI’m 21 and from the US and want to go out with this 17yr old girl, but I’m so confused because people will probably be weirded out. Its so stupid because once she’s 18 people wouldn’t care. Like something will magically change her overnight once she’s 18. She said she would love to date me, but idk what to do with the age gap. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Feel like an idiot for never escalating with this girl, now I cant stop thinking about it. Need suggestions to get out of my head.Better to go for the escalation and have a chance of getting rejected, then to not do it and have an immense feeling of regret (exactly what you’re doing right now). She seems really into you, especially if she still put herself out there with you being oblivious after all this time. Don’t dwell on the past and the next time you guys chill don’t hesitate to go for the kiss. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl I’m talking to ghosted me todayPeople really do get busy with life sometimes. I wouldn’t worry about it, give her 1-2 more days to respond to really see if she lost interest. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Approached A Reporter *WATCH THE FULL VID* & Give FeedbackI really appreciate it bro. Never really cold approached except for recently where I got this girls number on my first ever approach (check my only post on my profile for details), but I always had girls from social circles, friends of friends, and school. Really appreciate the tips, you should most def post more vids. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Approached A Reporter *WATCH THE FULL VID* & Give FeedbackIts been thunder-storming all week where I live in in the south. So basically wherever you run errands thats where you approach girls if you see one you like? For example in the video you said you approached at the mall, target and at a grocery store. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Approached A Reporter *WATCH THE FULL VID* & Give FeedbackThanks for the advice, I’ll make it my goal to go out next Tuesday and approach at-least 2-3 girls. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Approached A Reporter *WATCH THE FULL VID* & Give FeedbackAye bro dope vid! Do you have tips for a beginner who needs motivation to go out and daygame? Like I want to day game so bad but I have a hard time making myself go out lol. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | A first date???Nude imo is the next best thing after lip gloss. Lip gloss>Nude>Any other lipstick. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | A first date???I’m 21 so we’re about the same age I think. Me and most of my friends like when girls wear lip gloss over lipstick. Makeup is fine but don’t cake your face. Wear anything you want as long as its casual. Nothing skimpy like the previous guy said. Don’t be nervous just focus on having a good time. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Is this what you guys would call a "shit test"?Agreed, I need to go out and do more approaching but I only do it when I’m in the mood to. I need to learn how to force myself to go out. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Is this what you guys would call a "shit test"?Lmao that’s pretty good I need to use that. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Is this what you guys would call a "shit test"?I do exactly what Eclecto1 said. I hate when girls try to make me “Jealous” by saying they going out with another dude, when all actuality I don’t care. I usually say “He seems cool asf, have a good time.” Then I’ll leave it at that and later by the end of the day they’ll text me saying they had a terrible time lol. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl On dating app wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder picWhy haven’t the mods banned this dude yet? | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get the motivation to go out and Daygame multiple times a week?Sounds like something I should be doing. Need to motivate myself to get out there and daygame. I’ll set small goals at first like going 2-3 times a week then I’ll probably increase it later on. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys get the motivation to go out and Daygame multiple times a week?Sounds very reasonable. Appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 02:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys get the motivation to go out and Daygame multiple times a week?How often do you do this weekly? | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Leveraging super hot friend as a wingman - how?Really really good Gym | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Just wanna say fuck you!Lets goooooo haha | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Just wanna say fuck you!Honestly I didn’t call mine approach anxiety, I just thought of it as a mental block. Once I got my first approach out the way I felt way more confident and now I’m going out tmr to approach more females that look interesting to me. It’s wayyyyyy easier than what I made it out to be, just go for it my man you got it in the bag!! Ps: I know what you mean. I missed so many perfect opportunities to approach too, but can’t fret over the past, just look forward to many many years to come of getting d… | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Just wanna say fuck you!Hey man read my only post on my profile. I literally had to force myself to approach for the very first time and it turned out better than I thought. Maybe it can give you some motivation. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Best places to approach for a beginner?Would it be rude to approach a cute girl thats working at a fast food register or a restaurant waitress? | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How can girls tell if a guy has gained confidence?It may seem like a small change, but ever since I fixed my posture I feel so much better and more confident wherever I go lol. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Ahh man I wish I could provide insight, but I’m ignorant about mental health. Ever tried a therapist or a counselor? | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Honestly read through the comments where they are talking about the age. As of 2 days ago i was totally against it, but today I’m going to text her again and see what’s up with situation. Everybody says the 4 year gap is not that big of a deal snd told me to try to pursue because I may regret it later on. You should do the same. The new girl honestly seems much more cooler and open minded the way you’re talking to her. Only thing you may have to worry about is her parents. And here’s another clo… | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.This is a comment I posted to someone else. This is literally all that said!- Copied comment below- I’m not an expert by all means because this is the first girl I ever cold approached, but what I said was relatively easy. “Hey excuse me, whats your name?” “My name is sarah (random name I picked)” “Well Sarah im Hisoka, I just came over here because I thought you were really pretty.” After she say thank you you can continue the conversation or just say “no problem, as much as i would love to mak… | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 05:52 PM |
| 3 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.I hoped that helped you out! | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Great comment! I actually forgot to mention I started going to the gym consistently for 2 weeks now and I feel greater than ever. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Honestly I will most definitely try to answer your questions. I’m not an expert because this was my first ever cold approach. Like you said it is flattering that she would lie about her age just to talk to you, but what if that one lie got you into huge trouble with the law? If she lies about her age what else is she capable to lie about? That’s just some questions I would ask myself in your situation. I suggest you don’t talk to her anymore. Not because of age (Other comments made it think 21 a… | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.I get what you’re saying, but I’m telling you I was never taking selfies, or in my mirror tooting my own horn having a big ego. To clarify I didn’t think I was one of those Attractive handsome dudes at all. I don’t think I’m part of the minority with the godly handsome type genes. If anything I think I’m part of that majority you’re talking about. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 12:47 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.What I’m saying is. Unless those girls actually tell you that you’re ugly you shouldn’t feel like it. Even if a few of them tell you that you’re ugly hold your head up and keep it moving. I really don’t know how else to explain myself. Even if you think you’re a 2/10 you’re most likely a 7/10 if you change up your style a bit. New haircut, new clothes, etc. And if that happens to me in the next 10 years I would try to focus on improving myself rather than trying to get girls because something cl… | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Sorry but here’s a comment I copied from telling someone else the same thing. Copied comment- “I won the confidence boost in actually approaching a girl when I had a mental block that kept me from ever doing it. Even If she rejected me I woulda wrote the same post the same way. This post is to mainly explain how overthinking and making “future” situations with talking to girls complexed and complicated when its not and that’s how it can hold you back from achieving anything. Also the “cute” word… | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.I won the confidence boost in actually approaching a girl when I had a mental block that kept me from ever doing it. Even If she rejected me I woulda wrote the same post the same way. This post is to mainly explain how overthinking and making “future” situations with talking to girls complexed and complicated when its not and that’s how it can hold you back from achieving anything. Also the “cute” word was her saying not mine. I always thought my lack of girls were because of my looks BUT it was… | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.I’m surprised about how many people are telling me to go for it despite the age gap. Maybe I’m just being close minded. I will talk to her tmr. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 06:28 AM |
| 3 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Hahaha dope man!! And I loved reading the long reply, it was really helpful and gave me a lot of insight!! Off topic, but I’m so close to joining motorcycle gang, just have to take my MSF course! | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 06:03 AM |
| 2 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.I’m not an expert by all means because this is the first girl I ever cold approached, but what I said was relatively easy. “Hey excuse me, whats your name?” “My name is sarah (random name I picked)” “Well Sarah im Hisoka, I just came over here because I thought you were really pretty.” After she say thank you you can continue the conversation or just say “no problem, as much as i would love to make small talk I have errands to run, mind if I get your number?” [I basically said all of that to the… | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 05:55 AM |
| 1 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.You think I should try to set up a date one last time? She already said she would love to but her parents probably wouldn’t let her. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 05:21 AM |
| 2 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.You’re right. I need more practice in recognizing signs. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 03:21 AM |
| 5 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Any tips to get her to persuade her parents to let her? Or should I just say whatever and move on to the next? | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Lmaooo! | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 02:44 AM |
| 11 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Did people care at all? She said she would love to go out but her parents probably wouldn’t let her. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 01:34 AM |
| 2 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.She said she wouldn’t care about the age difference and would love to go out, but her parents probably wouldn’t like it. I’m not tripping about it tho I’m just glad I actually crushed my mental block and approached a cute female!! | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Thanks bro!! | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 01:24 AM |
| 6 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Thank you! That is something I have to be aware of. Even tho the age difference is only 4 years I still wouldn’t feel right about it haha. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 01:23 AM |
| 9 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Thank you!! I’m just glad I can finally approach now. After this situation It gave me a lot of confidence and any cute girl I want to talk to I will not miss the chance. Rather she reject me or not. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 01:21 AM |
| 25 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.It’s mad easy. I feel so stupid for making a big deal out if it and missing so many chances. But I have to look forward to the future instead of fretting over the past. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think.Sorry for the long post just wanted to help out other people that was in the same situation as me! | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 09:41 PM |
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