HistorianOk9981 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Approach anxiety	Fundamentals	HistorianOk9981	/r/seduction	11/01/22 07:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
115	My coworker lately has gotten used to stare at me, and we just look right in each others' eyes for a long time Do this bro. I have regrets about so many girls... Just do it! Side note: these girls told me later when they had a boyfriend they we're super into me...	/r/seduction	23/01/22 05:44 PM
1	Am I bad if I just want sex? I'm in the same mindset U are. When I go on personal dates (a co-worker asked me if I was single on monday and we fked yesterday and today) I just slip in the middle in the conversation I got out off a long relationship recently and not looking for anything serious. Sometimes they will ask you what Ur looking for, sometimes U ask them and they ask you back. U just have to feel the mood. Side note: pls don't tell them U just want to have sex/fk/etc... That doesn't work	/r/seduction	19/01/22 11:46 PM
1	"You look familiar" opener Going to use it rn at a bar just because U reminded me of it 😎 ty bro	/r/seduction	16/01/22 11:00 PM
1	"You look familiar" opener Great opener! I use it a lot of time and it works miracles! Doesn't matter the end result! Gj bro	/r/seduction	16/01/22 10:59 PM
4	Just did my first cold approach! Wanted to share Best first cold approach I've read on this sub. I think condicional approaches like this, where U using sth funny that's happening are the best ones! Age doesn't matter, I'm 27 and have been with 21's and 37's it's just a number. Hit her up and give her a chance. Keep going bro Ur in a good path	/r/seduction	16/01/22 07:13 PM
1	The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once. At this point in time I have 5 FWB, multiple dates from Tinder, and some from cold approach/being approached. I don't text anyone unless I want to get laid or set up new dates. I connected with some of them, they would buy me presents for Christmas, birthday, desserts from other countries. Recently I have my whole week busy and started to refuse sex , ghosted some of them who would constantly send long messages and harass me. Sometimes I just feel like being alone and getting back to my ex (5 ye…	/r/seduction	16/01/22 07:04 PM
2	I'm a virgin and i dont friends, im 20 I was a virgin until 21. There's no pressure on it. Focus on being more social daily, maybe do some challenges like speaking to people U don't know e.g. waiter in a coffee shop, college students, co-workers,... just say good morning, ask their name, present urself, ask if they're having a good day (guys! and girls). If U improve urself and Ur anxiety in social interactions U'll make friends and be better with girls. Don't tryhard with girls I never go on a date thinking I'm going to hook up with…	/r/seduction	15/01/22 08:58 PM
1	Shifting focus to being social and having fun conversations Go for it bro. Fun is the way! Remember U do it for urself! Also approach guys and haver fun! They will admire U for being social and get the girls for U xD and U'll make friends for life	/r/seduction	13/01/22 10:59 PM
9	Girls look at me when I'm in a bar Just walk away from Ur friends and engage lightly like this. Sometimes girls are interested and scared to give the first step. U just have to engage and it will flow from there	/r/seduction	13/01/22 10:56 PM
3	First cold approach in my life: traded Instagrams with two girls in convenience store Most awkward sucessful cold approach I've ever heard of xD congrats bro keep going U can only improve from that. And fking send a meme to that girl! She wants U badly 😂	/r/seduction	13/01/22 10:51 PM
2	Approach anxiety Thanks for advice. I overthink when going for the approach and let it pass. Maybe I have to shift mindset. Side note: just the girls I've hooked up with withou sex.	/r/seduction	11/01/22 11:09 PM
1	Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you? I'm 27 and hook up with 31, 32, 37, 39's. Think older aged women know more what they want (like casual relationships) and are easier to deal along. They are also more inclined to younger guys and have more experience so the sex is amazing. If Ur 30 consider going for a 40+ for some serious fun time	/r/seduction	11/01/22 08:32 PM
2	Ideas to get exposed to more people & women? My advice will be to find the most interest places in Ur village (stores, coffeeshops, icecream, croissants) or if there is some nice spots to see the sunset or have afternoon drinks, walk near the most crowded places after classes and cold approach. U can also frequent college bars as it's supposed to be social and they won't label U. Just an idea	/r/seduction	11/01/22 08:23 PM
1	Approach anxiety Maybe Ur right and I should pull back a bit and be good by myself.	/r/seduction	11/01/22 08:13 PM