Historic-Alley-Cat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Guys, how do you deal with competition ? (Girls opinion also wanted) Just my two cents: don’t think of girls as target, catch, prey, or guys as competition. This mindset is toxic and will give you nothing but disappointment over time. Instead, think about guys and girls as people and humans. Real confidence is relaxing into who you really are without anxiety and the fear of losing. Chill out. There WILL be someone for you, multiple someones. Just relax and don’t think of dating as a game or a competition. Smile. Be genuinely happy about your life and don’t worry …	/r/seduction	08/07/20 09:59 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 June 2020) This is definitely not the beatles. Beautiful poem though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/20 11:31 AM
1	I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do? I’d say men generally can do better dressing well. And having a sense of style doesn’t mean expensive clothes. Just things that work out on your body without sagging or being too tight or outdated. Earth tones and tailored pieces instead of graphic tees and messy looks can do wonders for your audience be it a date or friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 09:30 AM
1	1+1= patriarchy! Consequences are tools of the patriarchy! Someone help this guy	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/05/20 11:48 AM
0	1+1= patriarchy! Consequences are tools of the patriarchy! You need a therapist, not anymore hatred. Damn we all need a therapist at some point but your time for therapy is now and asap.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/05/20 11:47 AM
5	22 year old Chinese-Canadian girl looking for love. Modest and reasonable requirements, wants to try out Asian guys for the first time (From Subtle Asian Dating group on Facebook) Looks like someone’s been watching too much K drama to the point of delusion.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/05/20 11:26 AM
0	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it And that ladies is how you meet a predator.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 11:20 AM
1	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". “So if you have more to lose in a game, then the solution is to make yourself ignorant to the drive behind the other person who is also playing the game?” -No, since they have more to lose, their preferences take precedence over the man’s. And I’m sure in the man’s mind, his own preferences need to take precedence granted the female has more to lose. In fairness, the party with the biggest margin of loss needs to take precedence over their wants if there is a “game” to be played. With all this s…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/02/20 12:50 PM
3	I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌 Preeeeach!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 11:48 AM
2	I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌 Sis this is a DREAM! If only I had this many girlfriends left :’(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 11:46 AM
2	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". Eloquently put. Thanks.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/02/20 11:16 AM
1	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". Do you prefer to “marry” the hot banging body (no resources) or the average woman (with resources) ? I’m with Neo:(	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/02/20 11:06 AM
0	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". Well said. Reinforcers are present and they differ across genders. Women CAN be blind to what men want but this behavior was conditioned for good reason. Women have more to lose biologically. Also those college majors are necessary to help with women’s rights through education and enlightenment. You can’t deny history being abusive and hostile towards women in general because men possess more physical strength.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/02/20 10:55 AM
1	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". Ok understood, thanks. I have to add something; it’s not like men are dating good girls who wear glasses and are average looking ALL the time! All men date “sluts” for sexual pleasure and if given the chance, most men (not all) will choose a hot young wife for their senior years. Why are you guys discriminating against “choosy” Beckys? I get it, women can be materialistic but for good reason. Biologically speaking, they’re putting their uteruses in use for the sake of humanity! (Lol)	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/02/20 11:35 AM
1	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". So “circuitry” isn’t really different. It’s just the TYPE of goods are that being exchanged/sought that differ.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/02/20 12:46 AM
1	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". What do you mean by “enacting the latter half”?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/02/20 11:21 PM
1	Single mom of 3 expects to be spoiled but split chores and responsibilities 50/50. She is "old fashioned" and "won't settle for less". I’m curious, how does a man’s circuitry function that is different from that of a woman’s? I’m not salty, just curious because I’m a female.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/02/20 11:16 PM