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fifth or sixth place yes, I 100% am ok with not being a top priority for my partner. what makes them attractive is not their attraction to me but their own pursuit in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:38 AM
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I dunno I've personally learned to detach my ego from my partner sleeping with other people. if they want to, they have to communicate, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:37 AM
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you're missing out LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:51 AM
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or being gay 💗
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:48 AM
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no I spoke directly to that one woman in particular, and everyone who agrees with her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:07 PM
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how can you categorize an entire gender like that?? furthermore what constitutes morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:56 PM
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if all your men cheat on you then you're the common denominator. only 8% of men report infedelity. even if so many lie there's a plenty good sample size of faithful men to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:55 PM
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sounds like that pussy isn't as good as you think it is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:20 PM
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I thought the same thing, and honestly you may be right. My take is that for some women and some men, only women are getting to deconstruct. Many women act androg and expect the men to be big and strong. Thing is, wanting a hyper masc/fem partner is a problem of dysphoria imo. Having a hyper masc partner makes a girl (who feels dysphoric cuz of what I mentioned in my comment) feel more fem, since society doesn't let them feel feminine enough on it's own. Boys have it so fucking rough right now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:41 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:11 AM
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baste
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:59 AM
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Everyone in todays world is experiencing gender dysphoria like no other generation has. The idea of a man or woman is so far out of reach and so unattainable that its crushing the average cis person. imagine being a woman, getting on social media, and being constantly bombarded with pictures of photoshopped and filtered girls. imagine looking at yourself and knowing you can't hope to be that no matter how hard you tried, in a world where a woman's worth is almost entirely dependent on her beauty…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:58 AM
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I think the important factor is that this is how women like to cope. they enjoy spaces they can aggrandize their problems so they can harness the bad bitch energy they need to get what they want... I'm sure many are nice people. there's tons of totally unproblematic posts on there, and you'd be hard pressed to find an FDS person who agrees with everything on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:44 PM
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Why do you think this is? c'mon, stem has been male dominated for millennia. You think suddenly just because like 20 years ago we finally quit saying women aren't too stupid to do science that magically the ratio is going to close? fuck no. perfect example, my calc professor in high school, god bless her. She used to work in a lab. she wrote fourtran for them. but her main job was answering the phone because the boys were too scared to do it. THIS IS WHY WE NEED WOMEN IN STEM. and when I say I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:40 PM
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Men outnumbering women in stem is a perfect example of socialization. I'm a DSP engineer. the hard sciences have been male oriented for millennia. It would scare a woman to jump into a male dominated field. There's harassment, for one, which of course every male doesn't do, but it's a real issue for most women. Intellectually the door is wide open for women to enter the stem field, hell, encouraged. I've never met a female programmer who was simply shit at it. Also, my classes have a way higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:36 PM
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Then just give up lmao kidding. all it takes is one good friend. seriously. I met this guy on campus, got invited to a party. two weeks later I walk into the library on campus guaranteed to know somebody there. it's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:56 AM
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personally I kind of vibe on my grungy Android style. I hate taking pictures of myself. anybody who knows me knows what I look like and if they dig it I don't need to reinforce it with filtered, cleverly angled pics. it works for me. but I do have an aesthetic in what I post, and it's very carefully crafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:55 AM
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This. the red pill is seriously flawed. Being overly confident and stuff preys on insecure women and it enables mental illness on both sides. just be a good person and look for someone who values that in a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:50 AM
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yeah so you date men
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/22 05:02 PM
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yeah. gay.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/22 03:45 PM
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in other words, gay
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/22 03:43 PM
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This, but have an aesthetic. Like, I put a licence plate I found on the side of the road up on my wall. I thought it was cool lol. Have taste. Take inspiration from what you see other people doing with their rooms.
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:20 PM
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you will. when you least expect it. love hurts. it's so powerful that when you love somebody it never goes away. you'll be thinking about them years down the line even if you hate them. love is crazy. but when you're in love and things are good... it's the greatest feeling in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:12 AM
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I'd like to add, and keep in mind I'm a no piller, but women do not get societally outcasted for this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:06 AM
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not because you are trying to complete some transaction that's what I fucking hate. the transactional nature people view human relations with. I think this is honestly the biggest issue in relationships today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:08 AM
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just go outside doesn't have to be a blue pill. clearly there's no pussy in your house or you wouldn't be bitching. go where the pussy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:33 AM
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Ah yes, this is the true purple pill. I think it's fair to say that everyone's "standards" are too low. I would never date a woman who acts like an FDS person. Likewise no woman should date a redpiller. These people are insane and probably constantly lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:29 PM
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you don't even want the kind of women you'll pull
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:26 AM
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don't worry about game bro. you gotta lose weight. get under 200. you don't even want the kind of women you could pull at that weight.
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:46 AM
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first of all, yeah. just a bit. don't feed her ego. she's doing that cuz she's insecure. instead, I'd say "lmao you're looking to fish for compliments from me?" call her out on that bullshit, she'll love it.
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:44 AM
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I'm in a similar situation. first of all, nothing wrong with responding fast. nothing wrong with being close to her. but you need to realize that your time is precious. if she's getting what she wants from you and you're not getting what you want from her then you're wasting your time. the quick responses, being there for her, all that should be in exchange for what you want. you gave her a taste and it sounds like she took it for granted. if she wants any more then she's going to have to recipr…
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:36 AM
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I won my last girlfriend by having both. I work my bleeding ass off in my classes and I frequently find and do fun things like concerts. I'm hella fun to be around because of this, balancing a need to relieve the stress of a tough week with fun shit. work hard, party hard. there's nothing "bad boy" about a man who grinds his ass off, but there is one about a man who'll pull up to a concert, smoke a blunt and wash it down with 5 shots of tequila then proceed to mosh like nobody's ever seen him be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:13 PM
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success is getting what you want; happiness is wanting what you get
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:57 PM
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Yeah plenty of people don't date 50/50. the issue is that there's no pill out there that tells men to be highly selective. they just want you to get as many bitches as possible. have high standards. nothing destroys the dating market like the bar being incredibly low for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:51 PM
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They're never 50/50 looking issue to issue, but on average you absolutely should be 50/50... or maybe that's just me. there's nothing hot about a woman whod starve without me. maybe she doesn't make as much as me but she should be pursuing legit things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:43 PM
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yes. some of his ideas are entirely fine and very helpful. nobody on the left is encouraging people to work hard to mold themselves into somebody successful in a capitalist world and I have absolutely no problem with that. where I don't like him is how he promoted a competitive atmosphere and makes his viewers feel like they're better than everyone else just because they watch him. That's how he keeps you coming back, and then he leverages that power to get people to turn towards a political ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:46 PM
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See this is how you know most of you have had traumatic relationships. There should never be an imbalance of power between two people in a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:41 PM
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fucking this. you just solved the entire subreddit. people are less social than ever, especially men. they'd rather complain about how the deck is stacked against them instead of learning how to interact with human beings. they don't see that the incel grift is literally made to ruin society, make them feel inadequate to go out there and do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:46 PM
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yeah so that way your relationships are still built on a power dynamic but at least you're in control of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:43 PM
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Jordan Peterson most definitely was not responsible for a "shift in that direction". Jordan Peterson is a lying fucking grifter that makes immasculine neet knucklefuck shutins feel like "alpha males", when all they really are are just "beta males" who treat everyone like shit and don't care about other people's needs. That's my problem with the "alpha male" grift: it emphasizes being a self centered, neurotic, egotistical fucking asshole. It would never occur to these people that going out of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:41 PM
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Cheating is a result of immaturity and egotism. the people at fault are the individuals who cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:36 PM
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yeah FDS' core is totally acceptable. Know your worth and all that. Where I get lost is the fact that other people pointed out, but I'll reiterate it in other terms: FDS fails to emphasize self growth in the way that TRP does. A core tenant (THE CORE TENANT) of good social skills is that everyone is selfish. "Ask not what your mans can do for you, but what you can do for your mans," and then market yourself accordingly. Obviously seek out men you think are deserving of you, but if you want someb…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:30 PM
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sexlessness is a symptom and not a cause read any post here. looks are 30% of the game. the other 70 are living your life the way you want to live it. what attracts women isn't money, but ambition. the idea that you've got something outside of her that means you don't end up boring and no fun to be around. I dated someone whos entire life revolved around work and looking at tik tok. she wouldn't even go to concerts with me. it was boring as shit. no hobbies, no long term goals.
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:12 AM
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I personally would not fuck most women. Majority of people I've had sex with I immediately regretted. I only ever enjoyed sex in a long term relationship and even then I've only really had one good long term relationship out of three. As far as looks go plenty of women are attractive to me but in personality most people don't have the chemistry with me that I'm looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:40 AM
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family events 😟😕
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:24 AM
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It's not because it's manipulative and lame. Just be yourself, enjoy the company of others and don't play games with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:16 AM
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Yes, with one caveat: If you want someone attractive and decent, you're going to have to bring the same value they do. In my experience, it feels awful to bat below or above your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:14 AM
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Make more money. But seriously, spend a few years saving up. Learn to invest. Make your money work for you so you don't have to work so hard. Your job is totally fucking you if you work that much, and there are jobs out there that won't do that to you. Forget getting laid bruh, the man is dicking you down every day.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:49 PM
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I think they key is also knowing where to approach. At the library when her head's in her laptop? No go. At a house party when you're in the kitchen pouring up a drink? Definitely. This sub is very silly about approaching. Just talk to people. Learn to make friends first.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:43 PM
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It's not a marathon or a race, it's human connection. I hate people who are wrapped up in their own little worlds and only talk about themselves. Sure, it's important to give them time to talk and to get to know what they're all about, but that's not any kind of "game". You do this when you take genuine interest in someone.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:33 PM
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This is totally dumb bro. If you're letting her carry 90% of the conversation then what are you actually enjoying about the other person's company?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:19 PM
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He's not accepting like a "beta"... And if she does cheat then he didn't meet the one. Not all women are whores
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:11 PM
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No no no yeah I didn't mean they deserve a constant stream of hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:33 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. A point on your last two sentences though: Fat women do get a lot of hate, but so do fat men. I think the by and large overweight people deserve it, but only just the ones that act like it's not their fault. Sure genetics and stuff play a role but the reality is that the severely overweight lack self discipline and should not be rewarded for that. That's the problem of the fat acceptance moment: it tries to take away and often minimize the successes beautiful people have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:14 PM
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I agree with everything you said, except your last point: Society should most certainly place all the emphasis it does on beauty because beauty is a result of nothing hard work. We elevate the greatest artists, musicians, writers, engineers... Greatness in any craft is a result of intense self sacrifice and a rejection of normalcy. The most talented have to slave away for hours at their craft–why shouldn't we elevate people who are so beautiful? Of course that should not come at the price of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:20 AM
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I'm sorry to hear you had bulimia at such a young age, and I apologize for speaking so black and white. I agree that eating disorders themselves are horrible, but I think their root cause is a lot deeper than Instagram models and other things that perpetuate unrealistic beauty standards for women. I think the food industry is a major culprit. Like I said, many people eat way too much; the 2000 calorie diet is bullshit. Personally my maintenance is around 1400 calories. Should they vomit their me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:40 AM
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I'd argue they don't develop unrealistic or bad relationships to food, and there's also absolutely nothing wrong with exercising obsessively. Food is so fucking good it's like a drug; just look at how food companies market their shit. Most people eat way too much. And I'm not talking about staying skinny; a little extra meat never hurt nobody. But older people who get fat have absolutely no excuses in my eyes. They should quit drinking and eating so much. Natural aging does not account for the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:13 AM
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I don't think so! I think people glorify past generations. The older people from your time definitely said the same stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:52 PM
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I wouldn't say that I'm the Jesus-ing type. But I am a musician. Maybe dancing could be cool, or like... More gigs. I used to love local shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:48 PM
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It's not that they don't like it, it's that my generation goes to clubs more than bars. The music is so loud it swallows you. It'd be like trying to pick up chicks at a Metallica show... Not happening. And usually I go there for the music anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:47 PM
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Ok, this is BIG. Every older person I know met their person in church. Our generation doesn't have communities like churches :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:45 PM
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Right. That's why I say it's toxic. It leads women to have power over men when they want it. I don't place hardly any value on sex. Many men do, and it leads women to believe that if they offer sex they can have whatever they want. I think their mindset is hurtful to men like me because it poisons the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:28 AM
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"the old methods"... Well, it's quarantine. So I dunno. I will say that tinder encourages codependency and 99% of the time you can't find a good relationship when you're looking for one. I guess yours is an odd case? I'm not really sure. I don't think we should normalize tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:13 AM
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No dating apps happened as a way to capitalize on people's codependency. It's completely ruined relationships. Dating apps are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:02 AM
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But that's just it! The red pill is a very important step and I honestly don't see it as wholly bad. Being a total bitch will never get you laid, but trying your very hardest to be an """"alpha"""" just makes you look like a pompous fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:14 AM
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Yeah presenting the best version of yourself is always best. You want to look like you're trying, but pretending to be something you're not is a major gap between you and your ego, which is never a good thing. You can't run from who you are forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:12 AM
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It's not supposed to always work. It's supposed to help you form deeper relationships built on the truth instead of lying to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:08 AM
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Sure, I'll try and elaborate a bit. Inceldom is radical because it's so end-of-the-world. These people can't get laid and they think they're just the absolute worst because of it, or they blame women and leftism and feminism for their problems which ties it to radical conservatism. It's extremely depressive and sad. TRP is just shameful. They're just shallow people who have completely commodified human relationships. It turns you into a fucking robot. Radical? Maybe not. But certainly very dange…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:01 AM
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First of all, "respect wamens" is not my goal. I don't value any person over any other just because of their gender. Most of the women I know are dirtbags. No, TRP isn't a dating sub. I guess I misslabeled it, but it doesn't change my point. FDS' first rule is to work on yourself and to be self sufficient. I agree, but it does it with the most sadistic ends in mind. I used to go on trp back in 2015 all the time. I know that community well. It's shallow and vapid. When they say work on yourself, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:57 AM
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It's deeply rooted in a lot of problematic ideas. Like I said, it's not all incels, but a large number of them subscribe to white supremacy and otherwise deeply misogynistic viewpoints. It's deeply tied to their ideaology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:42 AM
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I've had my share of bullshit in my life, especially in dating. But I learned where I felt most of my anxiety around finding a partner came from this vapid expectation from myself that I have a partner or that I'm getting laid. I feel like society compells us to have sex or we're less of men if we don't, but I rejected that and found a lot of peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:40 AM
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There's nothing appealing about being a fucking dick. Having a strong will and not being afraid to say what you're thinking is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:34 AM
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I disagree. I was having regular sex in 2018 and '19 and now in 2021 I feel genuinely much better. Sex has never been very pleasurable for me and it always leaves me feel like I'm giving more than I'm receiving. ... But I think that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:18 AM
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Straight up. You'll never please everybody. If a girl thinks you're too feminine then let her date her "alpha" man. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:10 AM
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