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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Child Support is Confusing | Historical-Face3434 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/23 05:24 PM | |
| 5 | Last Minute Change to Negotiations | Dealing with the Ex / STBX | Historical-Face3434 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 12:25 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Last Minute Change to NegotiationsMy understanding is that in my state she is allowed to ask for a modification once per three years. My understanding is that if she agrees to a $500 reduction then that reduction will always be there. Ie if in 3 years my income doubles and she asks to modify and the state says my obligation is now $2,000 - they remove the negotiated $500 and the new modification would be $1,500 But I need to be 1000% sure and ask my lawyer again | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Last Minute Change to NegotiationsYou’re right. It’s 42/58 based on this last month. But she wouldn’t go for an even 50/50 and this is the best she would concede to. Frankly she wanted me just to have Every other F-Su because she just wanted her more but we argued for 50/50 but she wouldn’t budge so a major concession she did was give me a few more days than I got originally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Child Support is ConfusingI just feel there has to be a better system. Why not a joint account where each parent puts in 1/2 of expected cost then all costs for the child come from that account like how a health savings account works where it can be audited. I mean, sure the numbers can be skewed and mom or dad could claim that the child NEEDED only designer things to survive or whatever but that can be looked at in court and evaluate how each parent spends their half. I just feel a variable “they get so much money becau… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/23 06:00 PM |
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