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Well I’m glad that business deal exists I’ve never been happier!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:01 AM
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Honestly gotta be the best chemical I’ve ever felt. I’ve never wanted to completely give myself to someone like this. Absolute 10/10 imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:02 AM
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Interesting I think the smallest things throughout the day is what constitutes as happy for me. Like I get to hangout with my bf and friends it’s a happy day or tested high on my tests it’s a super happy day. Whereas the meh or sad stuff is treated more like a small nothing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:18 AM
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So your norm would be more meh days I suppose? Or do you feel it’s an even split?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:10 AM
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True you can’t be happy all the time but if you’re happy a majority of the time I’d call that the norm. I’d say 2024 was a time where I was happy most days like I’m pretty sure I developed smile lines from how much I laughed and smiled. What are your plans to reach some form of happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:04 AM
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Wdym by the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:55 AM
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Well as long as it benefits you in a sense! :)) Also I can’t help but smile at someone mentioning the giver I remember watching and loving the movie as a good so thanks for reminding me that it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:53 AM
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Does that train of thought make you happy or fulfil you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:44 AM
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I agree for me i but him games and figures and today he randomly sent me these ugg sneakers I wanted but didn’t get because of how expensive they were. That’s what really inspired me to make this post just feeling that love and giving it back it’s a nice feeling. And I love how some of us took a break for the usual blah blah here to talk about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:36 AM
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Btw you can still Love someone and realize they aren’t good for you people getting a divorce doesn’t automatically mean they never loved that person or stopped loving them. As for women not proposing it probably has more to do with societies idea of masculine and feminine. Also the fact that many women who do propose typically do it after a man couldn’t have made it clearer that he didn’t want her makes it look bad. Also it seemed you were hinting at women being manipulative with the video you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:32 AM
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In a loving relationship both people submit to eachother in some way. You share your deepest secrets and eachothers bodies. And many women have children with a man they love which is one of the biggest sacrifices that can be made. I think this is one of those things that if you don’t get it you don’t get it. My partner plans on proposing to me that’s not simping especially since id give anything for him it’s quite ridiculous that you would see that as being some type of manipulation because he p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:18 AM
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It’s seen as one of the most ultimate signs of commitment. It’s the same reason why a person would make a blood pact or have a baby with someone. It’s typically an act of love from both sides. If you don’t see it that ways that’s fine but don’t try and tell the people who do that they’re simping…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:08 AM
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Interesting well as long as you’re happy with that conclusion it doesn’t matter ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:22 PM
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This but reversed hehe 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:09 PM
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What makes you feel love doesn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:03 PM
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I’d be slanging that thang in rotation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:02 PM
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Simping is when you love someone so much you want to be with them for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:52 PM
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Why do we need to categorize love? Why can’t it just be you love how you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:50 PM
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At least you’re being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:10 PM
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I don’t see how that’s relevant when you look at the context of the statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:47 AM
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We start a bonfire… like as long as y’all are happy and healthy I see no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:01 AM
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Yes communication will always be better from my experience cheating has always hurt more than it helps. Dating isn’t meant to be simple 100% you’re dealing with an entirely different person with different thoughts and feelings. That’s why we as adults have to make tough choices even the ones we don’t want to make . We do it every day do you think I like working and dealing with people? I don’t but you know what I don’t like more being homeless and being broke so I’m going to get my ass up and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:50 AM
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Yeah I do not think monogamy is for everyone I would not force it on anyone. All I and others ask for is a little bit of respect and transparency.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:40 AM
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I think most cheaters are I’ll intended simply because you breeched a deal breaker and you are robbing a person of the choice to find someone who won’t. You are wasting someone’s time and their life that’s something I personally take seriously because you can’t fix that you can’t get it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:35 AM
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Because it makes them uncomfortable most likely the same reason why I ask for no tomatoes on my sandwich. It makes me retch and uncomfortable so why would I eat it if I don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:33 AM
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It is mind boggling if you feel that cheating isn’t wrong then don’t enter a relationship with someone who specifically asked you not to cheat. There’s no need to argue just say “I can’t meet the expectations of monogamy I apologize” you don’t agree to monogomy and then go against it that’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:20 AM
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I do care if my partner cheats I care deeply because I want someone to be romantically and sexually focused on me if that doesn’t satisfy you then don’t date me. It’s how I express my love and I want that to be reciprocated. I care deeply for my partner’s pleasure if you want sexual variety that involves other people then I will make you happy by leaving you and giving you that opportunity. If you want one that we can do together exclusively I’ll excitedly do that. But bare in mind just because …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:18 AM
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So cheating is not stepping out of a relationship for you. I’m all about my taxes but not in the mood to pay the troll one. This is like legitimately ridiculous like at first I was frustrated from how slow you were being but after finishing this comment of yours I’m actually cackling. That was a good one man you got me bro. Good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:56 AM
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I love how you glossed over the part where if you didn’t want to hurt them you wouldn’t have done it in the first place. Staying with someone and stepping out on them is selfish you have to pick either be with them or don’t if you’re not ready for tough decisions don’t sit at the grown up table. Cheating is severely harmful it may not always be physical but it can and does traumatize a lot of people. You fucking someone else does involve your partner when they specifically asked you not to fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:22 AM
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You can want someone and still be a relatively terrible partner. Just because you want them doesn’t mean you’re better than the women who cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:51 AM
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It actually boggles my mind the leaps these men take to cheat lol like it has to be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:49 AM
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Brother your whole argument is “I wish they wouldn’t get hurt does that make me a good guy” no it doesn’t. Give that person the choice to be with you tell them you want to seek outside sexual release if that’s a dealbreaker leave them alone it’s that simple. Like you said you can’t always get what you want and life is hard you cheating is just being selfish and immature. If you didn’t want to hurt them YOU WOULDN’T HAVE DONE IT. That’s like slapping someone and saying “well I didn’t want you to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:48 AM
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Cheating is realistically the last option. Especially for what you said in your original comment. 1, let’s be honest here most of these men do not actively seek open or polygamous relationships because the vast majority of prospective partners do not want that so in selfishness they rather waste time. You do know cheating is like legit trauma 2, either end the relationship or suggest opening it. Like I said they cheat because they’re cake eaters monogamy isn’t for them but they don’t want to los…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:07 AM
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This feels like a troll comment 💀 but if you’re being serious you know you can do most of that in an open/polygamous relationship right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:38 PM
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I mean nothing has to be permanent. 1 year of hormonal issues or bad birth control and according to you it’s cheating time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:22 PM
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So it doesn’t matter if he’s unhappy just as long as he has a warm hole to go into…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:15 PM
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I know you have a justification but according to you she deserves to be cheated on. She must’ve been poking that bear for not taking one for the team. A lot of dead bedrooms are caused by hormonal issues or medication so I guess it’s fuck them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:53 PM
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Also as I said plenty of men dislike duty sex as well so even if she did just lay down and take it and he’d still be unhappy. Sooo now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:46 PM
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Not allowing someone to put his penis inside her is quite reasonable. If that obligation of caring is a man bending over and taking it up the ass is he in the wrong for refusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:40 PM
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Sure I’ll give them shittier solutions that you agreed too. Cheat, ruin your reputation, get divorced. That sounds wonderful :).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:38 PM
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So if your wife has a health issue that causes her not to want sex she is in the wrong? But I bet if she just lays there and let’s you finish your business she’s also in the wrong. If you’re separated And you both understand that the relationship is over than I wouldn’t call that cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:36 PM
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When the option was to get a divorce before cheating… yes most people will look at you sideways. Because as I said it’s not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:32 PM
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You’d be surprised how much cheating is not just on one person’s control and even if it takes years after the fact it tends to come out one way or another. Don’t hurt yourself more if the relationship ending is inevitable just plan your exit… like you’re making your life sooo complicated fr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:29 PM
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If you’re at the brink of cheating and you haven’t sat down and talked to your wife about it first you can’t expect sympathy. Especially if the dead bedroom is being caused by biological things and actual health issues. I’m not even being moral I’m being logical don’t screw yourself over by cheating. Talk about it first if that doesn’t work plan a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:27 PM
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Do me a favor and read the previous comments so you can grasp the context please and thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:21 PM
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You lose your dignity because cheating is frowned upon especially since it was UNNECESSARY. And frankly if you’re planning a divorce and you cheat you’re honestly kind of dumb like if that person finds out do you think you look good in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:20 PM
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I agree just be a bachelor if new partners matters that much to you or be polygamous unfortunately too many people enjoy wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:18 PM
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I’m pretty sure Libidos and lack of sex are usually hormonal or physical issues. The pain matters because it’s unnecessary you don’t win much in that scenario just a ruined reputation, possibly a guilty conscience and a petition for divorce sitting on your nightstand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:14 PM
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If you don’t tell her how will she know you’re unhappy? Also what I said is just to show there are several things you can do before you cheat. If you want to cheat don’t try to make excuses for when you get served with papers lol. Also just to add I don’t think a lot of men would be giddy for duty sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:12 PM
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So I guess cheating won’t fuck them over? Even tho we both agreed that the relationship ending is inevitable? So being labeled as a cheater by your friends and family and still getting divorced is a better option? Also never called myself some relationship guru I answered a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:56 PM
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The question was focused on an already existing marriage so my previous suggestion is based on that fact obvi.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:53 PM
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I mean if you don’t want to get married no one is stopping you as long as you’re honest with a partner who cares. I think that’s common sense but unfortunately a lot of men who do not want to get married enter relationships with women who do and over complicate their lives. Or if similar to you the west doesn’t work for you then date out or make plans to leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:50 PM
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I understand that as-well but it’s really one of the best options you have. Suggesting cheating over leaving in my opinion is praying on someone’s downfall and just adding unnecessary pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:43 PM
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You say that as if dead bedrooms are just a random fuck you. Ive heard it’s typically hormonal or like genuine health issues i don’t think that woman deserves to be cheated on. It really sucks for everyone because it’s a relationship lost but it is what is. It’s better to end the relationship somewhat clean than lose your dignity and respect by cheating. Especially since the end result is basically inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:35 PM
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Thank you explaining that lol like no where did I say all men I’m very clearly speaking about a certain group.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:29 PM
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People definitely don’t deserve sexless relationships if sex is important to them. People also don’t deserve to get cheated on. So either leave or suggest an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:27 PM
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How well do you think it’ll translate for a man who cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:19 PM
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He can’t speak? He can’t file for divorce? His only option was to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:10 PM
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Let’s be real those types of men don’t want poly women and they don’t want to limit their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:55 PM
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Cool lol 👍🏿 i think this is going to be an agree to disagree conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:50 PM
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If you look at the explanations for mistreatment towards any gender they’re all typically connected. Take for example the idea the men are naturally more logical and women emotional. Despite this have next no scientific backing it’s perpetuated a lot. This causes men to suppress their emotions and for society to look down upon men who express emotions that are not deemed masculine. Whereas on the other hand it causes people to dismiss women and not take them seriously even in very important fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:39 PM
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I say weaponizing because I see this person’s story always being used to invalidate the struggles of women. Even with how you mentioned that person’s death it was extremely aggressive for like no reason for something you don’t even know if that was the sole cause of their death. I think both men and women struggle but in completely different ways and different areas that are still connected to each other. I think that’s what the previous person was also saying that there are certain areas in lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:20 PM
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I heard of a story like that where they said that person already had history of severe mental illnesses. There are also multiple trans women who also take their lives and multiple trans men who don’t and speak on the differences. Overall I’m not denying that men have a hard time but it’s honestly sickening how so many men weaponized a legit tragedy without actually trying to understand the life of trans people let alone actually listening to multiple life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:46 PM
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Hmm when I was younger definitely But now I really like being a woman I like being feminine i like female friendships and there are definitely things that i can get away with as woman. But there are also some days that I wished I was a man because of certain treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:42 PM
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Do they genuinely think that or are they using it as a gotcha to evo pysch redpillers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:37 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:23 PM
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To an extent yes and no I’ve met a few 20 yo and I’m about to be 20 myself. I knew how to emphasize with people before i hit double digits so did the people i know as far as I’m concerned I have no addictions, I love gaming but I’m very moderate with my time, I work hard and do zero substances, I exercise and manage my weight and looks, and everyone I’m around does same I also have a very good savings and I’m building my credit rn. So really it’s a choice to be that productive and I expect my pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:17 PM
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As I mentioned before developing empathy and figuring out how to basically be a functional person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:38 AM
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The goal is to just get rich they don’t know how to get to it. Me personally I’m in a pretty good relationship and didn’t do a lot of dating around before that but I’m around my peers I hear their woes and yeah when guys talk about dating for potential 9/10 it’s like legit soul searching issues. Funny enough the second I ask if they’d date a fat girl trying figure out how to manage her food addiction I get a sharp “no”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:26 PM
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Most women don’t feel comfortable with their sexuality because they’re explicitly told to be. Even in the OP he tells women to just masturbate without realizing how many women are taught that it’s gross and just a man thing. Once they do decide to go that route 2 things tend to happen 1, the overwhelming shame and guilt 2, trying to learn what sex is through porn which sucks for everyone but especially sucks for women because porn was not made for us. Some people may say that men aren’t exactly …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:18 PM
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Most misogyny is still very much accepted mostly because it all starts in the home and you can’t really police what some random parent does. Where were the white knights I’ve been hearing so much about when my mom kept telling me I need to know how to cook and clean to keep my husband or when she somehow made it my fault that grown men lusted after my minor body. Where are the white knights for the women out in the workforce who are talked down to. We just had an issue at my job pertaining sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:52 PM
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I’m talking about essentially teaching someone how to take care of themselves, how to manage their time, getting through an addiction, motivation to get a real job sometimes even teaching them basic empathy etc etc. (honorary mention sometimes even through infidelity problems) It’s great if someone wants to improve those areas of their lives but realistically that’s too much for most people and most women aren’t exactly ready for something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:21 PM
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That’s great and all but it’s nobody’s job to stick around when someone needs to be molded THAT MUCH.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:35 AM
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I think this is a really good perspective of the dating for potential mindset but realistically a lot of men especially young men of today aren’t asking you to just date them while they get through school. They often have no real goals besides getting rich,smoking weed and gaming. And they expect someone to guide them into being a much more productive and functioning member of society preferably their gf . I think someone choosing not to build with a man who hasn’t even picked up the hammer isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:52 PM
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