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| 88 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability. | Debate | Historical-Music5486 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 02:21 PM |
| 21 | What does love look like to you? | Discussion | Historical-Music5486 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:46 PM |
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| 1 | What does love look like to you?Well I’m glad that business deal exists I’ve never been happier! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 04:01 AM |
| 0 | What does love look like to you?Honestly gotta be the best chemical I’ve ever felt. I’ve never wanted to completely give myself to someone like this. Absolute 10/10 imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 04:02 AM |
| 1 | What does love look like to you?Interesting I think the smallest things throughout the day is what constitutes as happy for me. Like I get to hangout with my bf and friends it’s a happy day or tested high on my tests it’s a super happy day. Whereas the meh or sad stuff is treated more like a small nothing lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | What does love look like to you?So your norm would be more meh days I suppose? Or do you feel it’s an even split? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | What does love look like to you?True you can’t be happy all the time but if you’re happy a majority of the time I’d call that the norm. I’d say 2024 was a time where I was happy most days like I’m pretty sure I developed smile lines from how much I laughed and smiled. What are your plans to reach some form of happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | What does love look like to you?Wdym by the norm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What does love look like to you?Well as long as it benefits you in a sense! :)) Also I can’t help but smile at someone mentioning the giver I remember watching and loving the movie as a good so thanks for reminding me that it exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What does love look like to you?Does that train of thought make you happy or fulfil you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What does love look like to you?I agree for me i but him games and figures and today he randomly sent me these ugg sneakers I wanted but didn’t get because of how expensive they were. That’s what really inspired me to make this post just feeling that love and giving it back it’s a nice feeling. And I love how some of us took a break for the usual blah blah here to talk about it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Most men are actually simps.Btw you can still Love someone and realize they aren’t good for you people getting a divorce doesn’t automatically mean they never loved that person or stopped loving them. As for women not proposing it probably has more to do with societies idea of masculine and feminine. Also the fact that many women who do propose typically do it after a man couldn’t have made it clearer that he didn’t want her makes it look bad. Also it seemed you were hinting at women being manipulative with the video you l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Most men are actually simps.In a loving relationship both people submit to eachother in some way. You share your deepest secrets and eachothers bodies. And many women have children with a man they love which is one of the biggest sacrifices that can be made. I think this is one of those things that if you don’t get it you don’t get it. My partner plans on proposing to me that’s not simping especially since id give anything for him it’s quite ridiculous that you would see that as being some type of manipulation because he p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Most men are actually simps.It’s seen as one of the most ultimate signs of commitment. It’s the same reason why a person would make a blood pact or have a baby with someone. It’s typically an act of love from both sides. If you don’t see it that ways that’s fine but don’t try and tell the people who do that they’re simping… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:08 AM |
| 3 | What does love look like to you?Interesting well as long as you’re happy with that conclusion it doesn’t matter ig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | What does love look like to you?This but reversed hehe 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:09 PM |
| 2 | What does love look like to you?What makes you feel love doesn’t exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How would you do better if you were a manI’d be slanging that thang in rotation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Most men are actually simps.Simping is when you love someone so much you want to be with them for life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Men love idealistically, where women love opportunistically.Why do we need to categorize love? Why can’t it just be you love how you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:50 PM |
| 3 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.At least you’re being honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.I don’t see how that’s relevant when you look at the context of the statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:47 AM |
| 9 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.We start a bonfire… like as long as y’all are happy and healthy I see no issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:01 AM |
| 8 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.You can want someone and still be a relatively terrible partner. Just because you want them doesn’t mean you’re better than the women who cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:51 AM |
| 9 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.Brother your whole argument is “I wish they wouldn’t get hurt does that make me a good guy” no it doesn’t. Give that person the choice to be with you tell them you want to seek outside sexual release if that’s a dealbreaker leave them alone it’s that simple. Like you said you can’t always get what you want and life is hard you cheating is just being selfish and immature. If you didn’t want to hurt them YOU WOULDN’T HAVE DONE IT. That’s like slapping someone and saying “well I didn’t want you to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:48 AM |
| 3 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.Cheating is realistically the last option. Especially for what you said in your original comment. 1, let’s be honest here most of these men do not actively seek open or polygamous relationships because the vast majority of prospective partners do not want that so in selfishness they rather waste time. You do know cheating is like legit trauma 2, either end the relationship or suggest opening it. Like I said they cheat because they’re cake eaters monogamy isn’t for them but they don’t want to los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 01:07 AM |
| 7 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.This feels like a troll comment 💀 but if you’re being serious you know you can do most of that in an open/polygamous relationship right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 09:38 PM |
| 6 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.I know you have a justification but according to you she deserves to be cheated on. She must’ve been poking that bear for not taking one for the team. A lot of dead bedrooms are caused by hormonal issues or medication so I guess it’s fuck them then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.So if your wife has a health issue that causes her not to want sex she is in the wrong? But I bet if she just lays there and let’s you finish your business she’s also in the wrong. If you’re separated And you both understand that the relationship is over than I wouldn’t call that cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:36 PM |
| 6 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.If you’re at the brink of cheating and you haven’t sat down and talked to your wife about it first you can’t expect sympathy. Especially if the dead bedroom is being caused by biological things and actual health issues. I’m not even being moral I’m being logical don’t screw yourself over by cheating. Talk about it first if that doesn’t work plan a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:27 PM |
| 6 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.You lose your dignity because cheating is frowned upon especially since it was UNNECESSARY. And frankly if you’re planning a divorce and you cheat you’re honestly kind of dumb like if that person finds out do you think you look good in court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:20 PM |
| 10 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.I agree just be a bachelor if new partners matters that much to you or be polygamous unfortunately too many people enjoy wasting time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:18 PM |
| 5 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.If you don’t tell her how will she know you’re unhappy? Also what I said is just to show there are several things you can do before you cheat. If you want to cheat don’t try to make excuses for when you get served with papers lol. Also just to add I don’t think a lot of men would be giddy for duty sex either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:12 PM |
| 6 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.I understand that as-well but it’s really one of the best options you have. Suggesting cheating over leaving in my opinion is praying on someone’s downfall and just adding unnecessary pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:43 PM |
| 11 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.You say that as if dead bedrooms are just a random fuck you. Ive heard it’s typically hormonal or like genuine health issues i don’t think that woman deserves to be cheated on. It really sucks for everyone because it’s a relationship lost but it is what is. It’s better to end the relationship somewhat clean than lose your dignity and respect by cheating. Especially since the end result is basically inevitable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:35 PM |
| 10 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.Thank you explaining that lol like no where did I say all men I’m very clearly speaking about a certain group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:29 PM |
| 8 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.People definitely don’t deserve sexless relationships if sex is important to them. People also don’t deserve to get cheated on. So either leave or suggest an open relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:27 PM |
| 12 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.How well do you think it’ll translate for a man who cheated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:19 PM |
| 12 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.He can’t speak? He can’t file for divorce? His only option was to cheat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:10 PM |
| 11 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.Let’s be real those types of men don’t want poly women and they don’t want to limit their options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinityDo they genuinely think that or are they using it as a gotcha to evo pysch redpillers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 02:37 PM |
| 4 | To Test or Not to Test…🍼Exactly this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.As I mentioned before developing empathy and figuring out how to basically be a functional person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.The goal is to just get rich they don’t know how to get to it. Me personally I’m in a pretty good relationship and didn’t do a lot of dating around before that but I’m around my peers I hear their woes and yeah when guys talk about dating for potential 9/10 it’s like legit soul searching issues. Funny enough the second I ask if they’d date a fat girl trying figure out how to manage her food addiction I get a sharp “no”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Most women don’t feel comfortable with their sexuality because they’re explicitly told to be. Even in the OP he tells women to just masturbate without realizing how many women are taught that it’s gross and just a man thing. Once they do decide to go that route 2 things tend to happen 1, the overwhelming shame and guilt 2, trying to learn what sex is through porn which sucks for everyone but especially sucks for women because porn was not made for us. Some people may say that men aren’t exactly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | The fundamental difference between misogyny and misandry: against "enlightened centrism"Most misogyny is still very much accepted mostly because it all starts in the home and you can’t really police what some random parent does. Where were the white knights I’ve been hearing so much about when my mom kept telling me I need to know how to cook and clean to keep my husband or when she somehow made it my fault that grown men lusted after my minor body. Where are the white knights for the women out in the workforce who are talked down to. We just had an issue at my job pertaining sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.I’m talking about essentially teaching someone how to take care of themselves, how to manage their time, getting through an addiction, motivation to get a real job sometimes even teaching them basic empathy etc etc. (honorary mention sometimes even through infidelity problems) It’s great if someone wants to improve those areas of their lives but realistically that’s too much for most people and most women aren’t exactly ready for something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.That’s great and all but it’s nobody’s job to stick around when someone needs to be molded THAT MUCH. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.I think this is a really good perspective of the dating for potential mindset but realistically a lot of men especially young men of today aren’t asking you to just date them while they get through school. They often have no real goals besides getting rich,smoking weed and gaming. And they expect someone to guide them into being a much more productive and functioning member of society preferably their gf . I think someone choosing not to build with a man who hasn’t even picked up the hammer isn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 11:52 PM |
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