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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Accepting Feelings too soon? | Historical_Button_34 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 05:38 PM |
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| 2 | Woman I met said we have to be exclusive to have sexI would say, next time speak this before the sex. In a way, to bad for her for having sex and then asking for exclusivity. If that is her mindset, exclusivity before sex, then that is what she should practice, and it is completely valid as long as it has been communicated prior and both agreed. But she went the other way around (sex before exclusivity), and now seems to want to correct her ways. You are also entitled to have your own mindset, and believe me, you are NOT ready for exclusivity aft… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/23 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Divorce initiators, do you regret it?The one advice I would give you is to abstain meeting anyone (romantically) for some time after the divorce. You either go back to your EW or stay single for some time. If you stay single, this time serves to heal, get to rediscover yourself. Right now, other people might seem more attractive than your EW, because they are getting to know you, everyone is more likable when you’re getting to know each other. Don’t jump into a new relationship. And this is besides all the legal repercussions that … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/23 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Divorce initiators, do you regret it?It sounds like she loves you enough and is humble enough to try to change. In real life, most of the time there are no victims and no villains. Just different circumstances. At least yours is willing, and promising, to make a change. Mine never did. We divorced and she literally made me the villain, the worse man ever alive, after she put me on a pedestal (which I hated BTW, because I felt like I always had to live up to an expectation). On my first month of separation, I would have probably gon… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/23 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Divorce initiators, do you regret it?Was an extremely jealous woman, self absorbed. Everything was about her. We had to live where SHE wanted. Career wise, she did not want me to form alliances or relationships at work… she never wanted me to participate in any work activities (parties, outings, etc), bc it was time to come home. My only friends had to be her friends. She had to spend like crazy, because she had to look good, so stupid debts and no savings. And finally, married way to young (we had been dating for 8 years, since co… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/23 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Divorce initiators, do you regret it?My only regret is having being married! Much better life now without my EW holding me back all the time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | FWB questionsSeems like a full on relationship to me if you want to be exclusive with her. The only rules should be: 50/50 costs, protected sex, and no catching feelings. The moment you catch feelings, agreement ends. You both should be able to sleep with others, OTHERWISE IT’S A ROMANTIC EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/23 07:16 PM |
| 24 | Anybody ever regret getting divorced because you never got as good sex again?Nope. Not regretting ever getting divorced, not even because of sex. TBH, having more and better sex after getting divorced. Yes, love makes sex better, but I don’t miss having sex with the EW | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How did you decide to call it quits?When I had been providing for the family for over 9 years, providing for “our” money. The moment she got a job and said that was “her money” and I should continue to take care of all the bills because that was my job as a man. She never really followed the “traditional” task for a stay home wife (I ended up doing most of the chores myself). That same day she asked for a divorce, I said “ok, you asked for it, you pay”. Best decision ever | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | No more kidsDefinitely! I have one daughter who I love with all my heart, but things are harder due to having her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How to PrepareThere is definitely a chance that things can go amicably, specially if there are no children or assets involved (I don’t know if the later is the case). The more things in common there are, the bigger the trouble. Just know that there are two sides of each story. Today I learned about the things I was doing wrong that lead for my STBE to ask for the divorce. And on my end there were things about her that she was not aware. I was surprised that we are working everything amicably, even though we h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/21 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Accepting Feelings too soon?In my Country, the law dictated that abandonment only occurs when you stop providing child support to the child. Due to a financial pitfall, we had moved to her mom's house, so she kicked me out on the argument that this her house, not mine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 06:03 PM |
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