HistoryPelican Archive

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3	He said he doesn’t want to lead me on and then comes back and says this? He wants to sleep with you, that's why he's texting you. He still doesn't want a relationship, if he did he would open his text messages saying that. Nothing's changed. If it did, he'd tell you. If you want something casual with him now, go for it. He's not leading you on, you're still not getting a relationship, and he's not suggesting you will. There's no leading on. He just wants sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/20 11:13 PM
8	Redpill and marriage?? Your definition of RP men is off. The RP equivalent of this sub would be men who want to be responsible, maximize their value through their careers, are very picky about the women they date and who they want to marry and start a family with. Who want to be valuable enough to support a family and who want to find a woman who contributes just as much to the marriage unit. This isn't the RP men that exist on most male redpill subreddits. Most are just trying to game women and sleep with as many wom…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/20 11:03 PM
1	Help me reconcile lifting with my goal aesthetics please! There’s tons to unpack here. There are biological reasons why heavy lifting for women is just not a good idea. I’m not a doctor, but have read stories about female athletes who can’t give natural birth due to muscle strength and require c sections. There are also uterus prolapses and a whole bunch of other stuff. Maybe it’s safe, maybe not, I have my suspicions. I would talk with a doctor. As a woman you probably have a few specific muscles you’d like to make bigger. Focus on those, less on squa…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/19 10:45 AM
2	Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men? The female red pill here comes from a place of respecting men, but also weeding out the garbage. Women here seem to want to give men the benefit of the doubt, but still have a healthy emphasis on not being walked all over. With male red pill, they seem to come from a perspective of mistrust and actual hatred and resentment towards women, usually because they can’t get any. It’s pretty unhealthy. I think the women here have it right. There’s conservatism here. Guys on the male red pill don’t seem…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/19 03:57 AM
3	I think I made a mistake and now he’s pulling away Regardless of the problems, communication is key. When someone cuts communication with you, that’s pretty much the worst thing they could do. It means they’re not being mature, or not even interested in resolving the problem. It doesn’t matter what you did. He should be willing to give you a chance to explain and talk. He isn’t. He either isn’t very mature and is being butthurt, or he doesn’t really value the rest of your relationship. This is a red flag. Don’t ignore it. Try to talk things out …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/19 03:40 AM
5	How to avoid continually running into the situations? You didn't do anything really wrong, he just doesn't seem interested in actually dating you. Guys who are actually interested in you will text you and pursue you. Even if you made him wait until the 5th date to have sex. Plenty of dudes might even be willing to wait that long to get laid. You'd just be delaying the inevitable. This only seems complicated because you don't want to admit the truth. He's not really interested.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/19 03:41 AM
3	How to avoid continually running into the situations? There are plenty of people on Tinder who are actually looking to date and have long term relationships. It isn't true that it's just for hookups. Nowadays using the internet and apps is the easiest way to meet people. Just date people off Tinder how you'd date anyone else you met anywhere else.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/19 03:39 AM
3	I just got used by a friend I was in love with. He is now dating a friend of mine who is way more educated then I am, supermodel hot, and more accomplished. I’m going crazy It doesn't sound like he actually "used" you. Did he make promises to you that he was looking for an actual relationship with you, and more than just casual sex? Sounds like he just wanted something casual, you gave it to him, probably hoping that it would turn into something real, and you're now disappointed that he's moved on to somebody else. It doesn't really sound like his fault. It sounds like you were hoping for something real and are disappointed that it didn't happen. If you didn't slee…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/19 02:36 AM