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I have a suspicion that a large number of modern young men think hentai child pxrn images are fine because they are victimless, but I would have no clue on how to vet for that. They discuss it openly on reddit though. There’s a thread now on the dataisbeautiful subreddit where a commenter is upvoted for correcting another commenter that the child pxrn and violent rxpe images on hentai sites are not real, but animated. The original post is about what hentai is most popular in each country, and ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:09 AM
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Leo Decrepitcock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 02:37 PM
94

I’ll never forget one I saw earlier this summer that read “I’ll make fun of you. Then I’ll give you a compliment.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 08:32 PM
183

Older men also start making gross sounds all the time. Constant burping, throat clearing, sniffling. I hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:57 AM
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At first I thought you had written “look directly at his crotch and cock your head to the left.” I think women should do that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:51 AM
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You may know, but just in case - He wrote “tacos” as in a euphemism for eating pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:58 PM
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I thought it was from My Best Friend’s Wedding at first. Similar dialogue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:03 AM
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Not surprised. I think before the internet popularized it was common for people’s first porn experiences to come from discovering their father’s porn or a neighbor’s father’s porn. And when I hit a certain age, my dad would skeeze on women in front of me. He would capture video of women with my old camcorder for example, like when we went to festivals. My dad, brothers & male cousins all think it is funny to hint at their skeeviness until it’s me doing it about a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:05 PM
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“For some reason…” We know the reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:45 PM
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Wow, that was clear and powerful. All the men defending this guy should be deeply ashamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:28 AM
3

Hmmm🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:10 AM
126

Men are a meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:19 AM
10

He takes forever to poop because he is masturbating and gaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:07 PM
189

A guy acted interested in me earlier this summer. He initiated the convo, and seemed very nice. He volunteered his name and asked mine. We had a lot in common. So I offered my number like I clown. We texted a bit and it turned out he was newly dating someone. I imagine men reading your post and thinking that women are too high maintenance or that there is little wrong with a woman pursuing a man, but honestly, it is not worth it at all. At all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:09 PM
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Last weekend a middle aged man walked into a movie theater I was in about 20 minutes before the film ended. He sat fairly near me even though the theater was mostly empty. In addition to hacking and coughing, he had a bag of individually wrapped candies that he ate the entire time. I know I am not the only one who notices that men cannot help but make grunty or phlegmatic sounds every 30 seconds. I will not live with an old man in my old age, at least not in a small home. An old woman may fart s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:39 AM
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He’s trying hard to get someone to buy in, but with families and with love, the product has to sell itself. That’s a high risk investment. His ad sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:31 PM
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They want us to walk around with our eyes down? Probably… then they can glare. I feel that glare often, so cringey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:55 AM
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Eeeewwwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:28 PM
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Men be like: of course a woman can’t compete with a man physically in such and such sport. Also men: wE alL hAvE tO wAtCH oUR BaCks I’m tired or the constant paranoia and reminders though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:41 PM
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Agreed. It makes no sense. There would be no hike if it weren’t a date, I assume. Who does a part of their date by themselves? The point is to be together. So he lets an exhausted woman walk back alone, when she flew into the state to see him? I can’t believe they get away with this crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:18 PM
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Agree about the inconsistencies. I just found out about this today and shared it in your post. One article points out there was no heat advisory that day. That it was 105 degrees that day but Arizona heat is a dry heat, hits differently. The family says that Tramonte was an active person who made it a point to stay hydrated. The cop has a history of lying and was reprimanded for that. The coroner has not issued a clear autopsy result yet. But besides all that, it makes no sense to me that a man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:32 PM
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I went looking for some proof of this and found other disturbing stories to share. These articles aren’t about serial killers but they are about women who died related to first dates that included hiking: https://www.kron4.com/news/national/missing-woman-found-dead-after-hiking-in-phoenix/ This woman went on a first date hiking date with a police officer. This is a weird story- in one article it says the guy claimed she went back to her car on her own, but told him to go ahead to the summit beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:36 PM
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Nah, and this article isn’t related to the tweet above, but I went looking for recent news and found this: https://www.kron4.com/news/national/missing-woman-found-dead-after-hiking-in-phoenix/ This woman went on a first date hiking date with a police officer. This is a weird story- in one article it says the guy claimed she went back to her car on her own, but told him to go ahead to the summit because she wanted him to take pictures for her instagram. I can’t imagine caring if a stranger takes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:11 PM
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I’ve had men take offense to me being reserved in the workplace even. Hell, just on the street. “Smile, girl!” And they will literally sound irritated when they say it, as if it were a threat. They won’t even be smiling when they tell me to smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:16 PM
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Right, and he was wrong anyway from what I googled. I read the oxford comma is a stylistic choice used when listing things. These men, they're so entitled and used to blathering unchecked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:00 AM
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This is fire. Straight facts. This is why I live on this subreddit. ETA: I just broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. Our last argument was over a sentence. He said that I admitted that I would not "give an inch" in a situation we were arguing over. What my text actually said was that "I am not dumb or afraid to give an inch." I asked him share the text to prove that I said I wouldn't give an inch because it had been autodeleted from my chat. But I knew what I said. So he sent me a different t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:08 PM
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In general I like to eat bacon and eggs for breakfast. Male: You're generalizing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:52 AM
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This was my mom. She didn't help raise the child, but she told me that she always felt protective of the child for some reason. I was born a couple years later and raised by a pickme... I love her but... Ok, here's the tea: My dad broke the news by showing her a photo of the baby and asking her who it resembled to her. She admitted it resembled one of their kids. He then said he didn't regret it and broke down crying. She comforted him! Men are WEAK WEAK WEAK WEAK. Yes, my mom was a clown for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:00 PM
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Sounds like we need a remake for The Sandlot with girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:06 PM
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Sometimes we end up back in situations we shouldn't be in. Before you do, make an extensive list of dislikes about his person. Tell someone you trust about him, someone that maybe you have protected his image with in the past, tell them the full story. Make the list, but don't make a list a positives, only the bad. Go in with eyes wide open, so that next time it will last less time before the next breakup. Remember that the damage that will be done will make you more bitter toward new and better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:58 PM
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This may sound controversial; I wonder what others may think: but have you considered momentarily attaching to someone else in order to break free? Maybe there is someone who wants to give you attention that you have brushed off? Or maybe there is a large purchase you have been putting off that you might indulge or borrow the money for? The reason you want to go back is likely low self esteem. I think you need an alternative dopamine hit. Other ideas: Consider dressing up hot and getting some at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:44 PM
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I see where you are coming from. Their* strategy makes them dull and basic, but maybe not dumb in terms of their personal goals to minimize expended effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:23 PM
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Amen to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:42 AM
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This doesn't really answer your question, but for some reason, some of my favorite memories in life were times when I thought I was sad and lonely but I was also taking myself out for dates and exploring new areas. I like to take walks and get lost. Something like reading a book in a park can feel so rich. But yes, 50/50 chance that a scrote ruins the moment these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:46 PM
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I just saw an eharmony ad that seems a wee little bit FDS inspired. I'm not praising it, but I want to share: It's three guys featured. The first one is at a park with his dog. He says something like "for a walk around the park, I have this guy" indicating his dog. The second guy is at lunch and he says something like "I can go out myself for a quick bite, but I want something real." I forgot the third dude's line, but I found it interesting that they are marketing to women/men in such a way tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:39 PM
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This is a good opportunity to share my Mother's Day story. My brothers took a trip to NYC for some reason and weren't around. They sent flowers to our mom, but it still rubbed me the wrong way that they weren't in town. One of them lives in another state and he literally decided to go to a third different state to hang out when he could have made that a trip home. So anyway I took my mom to lunch and a bunch of flower shops. But at lunch I saw an old high school friend waitressing. She was at le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:43 PM
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What is this "man" you speak of?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:12 PM
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This is a good opportunity to share my Mother's Day story. My brothers took a trip to NYC for some reason and weren't around. They sent flowers to our mom, but it still rubbed me the wrong way that they weren't in town. One of them lives in another state and he literally decided to go to a third different state to hang out when he could have made that a trip home. So anyway I took my mom to lunch and a bunch of flower shops. But at lunch I saw an old high school friend. She was at least 7 months…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:12 PM
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That sucks... I rarely check people's profiles but once I saw a random comment that I thought was super smart and empathetic, and when I went into their profile I found it was an Indian woman who was GORGEOUS and she had made a post on some subreddit offering free coding lessons for urban youth. What a goddess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:34 PM
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Rad Bods ! (No dad bods)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:30 PM
185

🤪🤪I'm a simple man. I watch teen gang r#pe, I cum."🤪🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:55 PM
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There are plenty of funny women comics out there, but sometimes I think many women are just not able to workshop/grow their material and move deeper into that career because the environment is extra toxic. Plenty of male comics discuss politics without punchlines or attempt/commit suicide because they are very sensitive people with a serious side, but women are not allowed to go there. A lot of good potential probably gets wasted in comedy clubs because their industry is so narrow and male domin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:33 PM
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🤪🤪fbi open up🤪🤪 🤪🤪where might one find that video? Asking for a friend🤪🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:26 PM
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Also had 6 therapists. You ever feel like one of those people that others just like to hate on? I personally look younger too, yet I am fairly well educated (masters degree) and skeptical, and I think those characteristics are especially offputting to some. I sense people think I am spoiled or ungrateful or coasting off looks. Add in the fact that I am a WOC and I get a lot of people who assume I don't know much about their world- but I grew up in their world. They don't know my world. People li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:45 PM
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Exactly. She just wanted to change the setting, but he is the one who brought the drama to the play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:16 PM
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Then after they repeat it I can say "oh" or "hm" rather than fake/awk laugh. Or maybe I will have a better reply by then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:59 PM
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Ugh, I had to log in to write this garbage out- 2 years back this dude at the gym was pacing back and forth in front of me until I finally looked at him. And when I finally did, he pumped his fist to self congratulate. I almost don't believe it happened because it was so dumb. During the pandemic though? It's wild out here. I started to write them out but there is too much material, I won't bother. I am going to start going out with a camera, material is guaranteed. ETA: lol I have to share this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:51 PM
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It is somewhat hazily understood by them to be less respectful of a word than woman, but more respectful than bxtch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:53 PM
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Good ol' NBTSOOAR Day, a magical time of the year. And if you don't want to beat your rapist, feel free to ruin their public reputation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:26 PM
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Gonna try and keep this quick- I am wordy. When I was 19 I dated a man 26 years older than me. I thought we could have a normal relationship and was continually frustrated with how he treated me like I child. I cut my hair off after an argument. As a long haired black woman who was envied her whole childhood, I was challenged and got so lany groans for cutting my hair. My best friend remarked with awe that I looked older. I have a classic baby face. I felt great. My boyfriend told me not do anyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:00 PM
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I see a lot of people complain about the negativity on FDS and I get it. They may want to hold out hope for HVM or just have a safe space to talk with women. I understand. I also feel that women discussing these shocking topics is the only way to move forward. The negative posts on this site affected me so much yesterday that I ended up having blunt conversation with my boyfriend last night about men and sex workers, including his porn use and past visits to stip clubs. I challenged him to talk …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:44 PM
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I don't remember exactly, I think between 20 and 30 million
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:17 PM
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Ah ok, I assumed that it was par for the course with the content of the post I am commenting on itself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:16 PM
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There's a video on pornhub with a very very very high view count of an anorexic woman who looks young building sandcastles on the beach. She is meant to be cosplaying a child. A guy approaches and then brings her back to his hotel room for sex. When I am at the beach now I feel extremely nervous for the young girls there. My eyes dart around to see if men are checking them out. I do see men body check girls in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:54 PM
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I look up to you! Having a man will likely mean more work managing the house, not less. There was a study someone here shared about that. I think the single parent mother stigma stems from the associated poverty coupled with misogyny. A child of a single mother might lament being raised that way because they were poor, just as much as someone from a two parent household in poverty. But you have the money end covered. I literally would prefer either single parenthood or co-parenting with another …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:57 PM
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My impression is ONLY 50/50 chance it is satire. Because plenty of men really don't value their lives or life in general. Makes me think of that line from Fight Club: "you are the all singing, all dancing, crap of the world." There is some weird romanticism men can have in acknowledging their impermanence and their meaninglessness; and if one couples that hopelessness with society's standard misogyny then we will have sentiments like this. Sorry rapists, but I am trying to make meaning in my lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:17 PM
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What in the? Where is this posted? 3 upvotes? Eeeewwww this reminds of the bedroom security video of the cop who was caught sniffing a toddler's undergarments. A toddler's.... Y'all we need a pill that makes us lose attraction to men, they aren't worth it y'all. This comment was written anonymously and the cop was unaware of the camera in instance I mentioned- this crap is way more common than we think. Also the guy commenting had to put effort into commenting. The cop had to choose to be devian…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:43 PM
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I'm a black woman and I feel you 100%. I do have to say though (and I will also not be very eloquent because this feels so personal)- I think it goes both ways, because when women don't have as much power as men they will "punch down" and white women have certainly punched down at me or positioned me as a naive pet or something. It's tiring to keep going back and forth with women though. But living in the U.S. I can't help but sometimes want to fire shots at the large amount of white women who d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:15 PM
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Sometimes I see men say this in reference to what they perceive to be "the real world." As if I been sheltered so much that I have avoided rape, assault, bullying, verbal abuse, hard labor, monthly bleeding, stalking... Just because they enjoy swimming in the filth of extreme violence and porn and sport doesn't mean my reality isn't often grim at times. Women know how the world is, we just have the ability to be whimsical, corny and sweet despite the way the world has treated us. We pamper ourse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:27 PM
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I have been arguing the spirit of this post recently in regards to extrajudicial murder by cop and protests that get out of hand. These topics often align for me. Biden and his pre-emptive scolding of property damage, as compared to his language about "wait and see, investigation, process of justice, blah blah..." People are tired and angry. Women don't have patience for the patriarchy anymore after (checks notes) millenia; and fewer and fewer black people have no more patience to focus on peace…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:18 PM
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Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:07 PM
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I gotcha, I wasn't trying to be sassy, I was just taking an opportunity to concretize something I think about often but don't often say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:02 PM
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I hope to adopt and raise a kid in a women's community someday. In a warm climate. We will have fruit trees and treehouses and a big tall fence and guards and jiujitsu lessons and solar and gardens and........ Putting it out there, Universe! 🙏✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:29 PM
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Yeah and it goes way deeper than MLM. She channels an alien spirit named Abraham, she says. She does allow people to use all or most of her content for free though- that's actually rare imo, and to me it suggests she believes in her message, which is basically Law Of Attraction stuff and about positive self talk. I don't see anything wrong with this video just using the voice over and I see nothing wrong with people subscribing to LOA either. I buy into it a bit, in my own personal mythology: su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:12 PM
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When I first viewed FDS I was hooked, BUT for a few reasons I kept getting vibes of the wives in The Handmaid's Tale. I don't feel the same now but I can kind of explain: The descriptions of HVM. I didn't have the full picture yet but I saw it as if they were decribing these CEO types with fake personalities who act like strong moral men who spoil their women to keep them satisfied. This is more an indictment on the fact that there are so few HVM that I can only imagine pretenders. I didn't feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:36 PM
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Hm I never think of centrist as common sense but status quo. It irks me when I sense they feel they are the common sense choice because it isn't normal to be in the center of an unbalanced dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:17 PM
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I like the way you think! Your idea centers the health of the family, which will then lead to a better workforce. Women who work and have children have two jobs. And when you factor in house management, that's three jobs. Men only have one job really but they should also have three. And they need to be evaluated on whether they meet good standards- women certainly are. If a child shows up to school dirty and malnourished, mom will be getting a visit from CPS. But if she is a single mom, does CPS…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:16 PM
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Lollll why is the guy on the floor at the end?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:42 PM
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I hear you. She reminds me of a couple former bosses actually and it triggers me. One in particular: a hot blonde older woman dating an alpha douche. He was also in the business, and he would sexualize women (me included) in front of her. She hated me. She was rude to me even before he sexualized me in front of her, but that instance must have made her hatred more intense. She was also racist. Even so I felt for her. As time passed I learned about how her father beat her. She passed that tyranny…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:23 AM
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Yes my impression is it might be 65% teens or more. Very sad. I do see a lot of guys talk about how they lost their 20s and even 30s to porn addiction though. They warn the younger ones not to be like them. One of the most sane comments I read was an older man who was counselling a younger woman: she made a post asking if she would fit into the community. Most replies said yes but he said "Honestly, no" and that he felt that the community was fairly immature and sometimes misogynist. He recommen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:51 AM
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I saw a post there where a guy was celebrating that after a long streak without porn he was finally becoming attracted to his significant other again. My jaw actually dropped. That poor lady, totally unaware of what he is going through and talking about with internet strangers... I'm glad that subreddit exists but it is wild in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:33 AM
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That forum is something else: There's a good amount of women blaming, a lot of religious and susperstitious comments, poor language skills... I'm glad it exists, but they need a makeover. There aren't enough men who seem relatable and even tempered that post there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:51 PM
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I just can't wrap my head around it- yes the epidemic of boys viewing porno is a problem, but how is that compared to the many many girls who are being coerced into actually performing that degredation. And the so called adult girls were raised on the same filth, and do not deserve to be villified without at least acknowledging that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:00 PM
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I don't know if this was the original tweet I saw, I think it is actually another popular one that uses "adult girls" https://mobile.twitter.com/lnvertedwinger/status/1368349939206602758 "Boys under-18 being exposed to pornographic material is the most unspoken problem in our society & we got adult girls here profiting off of that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:13 PM
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Have you read this entry in the handbook? "There is zero benefit to having a crush" https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dl57z2/there_is_zero_benefit_to_having_a_crush_eliminate/ The comment section has some tips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:32 PM
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Rigjht. She is trying so hard and "keeping it tight" for her man. I just wanna ask her "ain't you tired?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:15 PM
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"You live with your mom?" Why is it always men living with their moms? Are there legions of women living with their dads? I know the answer, I just wonder why people accept this commonality so readily. My brother lives with my mom, and I needed to live with her this year, but I couldn't because my brother is extremely toxic. He talks at me nonstop, he has blown up at me (yelling that I was negative for hating Trump), barely follows covid rules and won't be getting vaccinated, accused me of cryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:04 PM
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I was recommended a video on youtube about a 19 year old female tiktok star who was allegedly grooming a 13 year old male. The video was posted recently and had 1.5 million views and many comments. Guys were going on and on about the double standard of it all: How they can't feel safe around women now, or how male victims are ignored when the predators are women. But I actually saw some pushback from women, thankfully. Some comments mentioned that it is men who actually silence each other or act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:48 PM
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Women have always made me laugh harder than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:22 PM
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Pickme, the house elf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:41 PM
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Thanks, I hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:19 AM
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That's exactly what I noticed. As if he was like "dang, my gf isn't horny, I guess I'll try that porn stuff I've heard of."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:24 PM
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I bet he has gotten off several times to videos of women tied up like starfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:59 PM
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That's what I thought. How does that have so many upvotes? They really don't want us to view them as logical because the post is full of easily challenged notions. Lmao at "if you turn him down for sex....eventually he learns to blow his load to porno" as if he has just discovered porn as a remedy to his girlfriend's lack of enthusiasm- cmon nowwww he has been watching porn since he was a preteen, it is not a case of "Dang, my girlfriend isn't horny, hmmm maybe I should try that porn people have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:52 PM
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I'm very sorry to hear that. The babysitter experience in particular unsettles me. Children live in such vulnerable and insular worlds, and it's hard enough to communicate our boundaries and trauma as adults. No wonder the memories fade or become cloudy, how can we even file them and make sense of them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:50 AM
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I hear ya. My best friend in my family is a male cousin a year younger than me who never tried anything. I remember a great aunt once making us out to be deviant when we were only 6 and 7, while we were dancing and kissing one another on the cheek enthusiastically at a wedding reception. I clearly remember not liking her comments. Couple years ago while babysitting the siblings that I mentioned my niece is close with, I witnessed them emulating husband and wife energy. I didn't feel a need to sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:28 AM
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Yeah it's a no brainer. Reminds me of a few instances... When my parent's divorced I would stay at my dad's some weekends. He was living with a woman who had a grandson near my age. They thought we would get along but he was always sexually harassing me with borderline touches, comments or bullying. I was maybe 13 and he was 11. One night he pulled up porn on my dad's computer and told me that he was going to blame it on me. The stress I felt... My grandmother remarried at 70 and so I had "step-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:52 AM
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I'm proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:45 PM
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Needs to be a song if it isn't already... I can hear it. FuckDemScrotes can be the title and an acronym hommage to FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:04 PM
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I totally vibed with that post someone recently made about how men idolize the joker, but women are the real ones out here growing cynical and fed up in the face of our current society. I have the same thought often. The comments didn't really get into it though... But there are many male protagonists who face themes that would be so much richer and nuanced if they were women. Imagine a prostitute who finally gets fed up. It also bothers me when men frame women as not being risk takers or advent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:30 PM
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Thank you because I don't want to sound like a know-it-all or bitter: I just want to sincerely and honestly try to dissuade women from these high risk situations 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:08 PM
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This reminds me - I wish the handbook had an audiobook version.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:04 PM
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My first thought was he has probably has a pickmeisha girlfriend who will be butthurt to discover he was "making eyes" at someone else on the train.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:37 AM
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If they want to call it hatred then I hope they are smart enough to then acknowledge that at least our hatred manifests by protecting our necks, not choking theirs. No respect given for anyone who acts like women and men have a bOtH SiDeS dynamic. Women are built & socialized for empathy, for creation, for peace keeping. Even our hatred serves a greater good because when heterosexual women start actively fighting their inborn desires for union with men, wishing they were lesbians, it is a canary…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:27 AM
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He told me I reminded him of a girl he crushed on in his youth who ultimately rejected him. He confided that he used to throw large parties to impress her. He did little to impress me, unless it benefitted him in the process. I have no doubt he felt he was balancing some karmic scales for his younger scrote self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:59 AM
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I feel a mix of gratitude and hopelessness when I see these posts because I remember how I was in my late teens. I was 19 when I started "dating" my boss who was a whopping 26 years older than me: a greater age gap then my literal age at the time. I was cocky about it. The sex was better than with my first boyfriend who cheated on me. The old man took me to dinners. He complimented me. But now that I have experience with adult men my age I see that the old man was less of a gentlemen than he sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:35 AM
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Here for a year but still haven't learned to save your breath/words and just block and delete when someone or something doesn't serve you? This place is a much needed "black mirror" of sorts for society at large, and it can hurt to take a cold hard look, but there is an undercurrent of warmth and wit and humor here that keeps me hooked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:45 AM
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I cheated on a partner once- not sex, but I was disrespectful. I enrolled in therapy on my own immediately after realizing the territory I was playing in, and I eventually ended the relationship on my own after a time. I take full ownership, anything less seems dishonest or weak. There's something so visceral and shameful about cheating- it's heavy, at least it was for me. I can't imagine placing blame anywhere else could lessen the very real actions and emotion involved when cheating. Just thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:09 PM
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I have far more misogynistic beliefs to work through than misandrist ones. I have so contorted my outlook by growing up emulating my brother's humor and male gaze, ignoring my father's behavior toward my mom and trying to fit in with male peers. I am a textbook pickme and cool girl on the path to recovery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:59 PM
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This topic has been at the forefront of my mind for the past week or so. The weather is getting nicer, and men are constantly approaching me. My new rule is that if they only say "Excuse me" then I will not engage at all. If they have something specific to share with me they can keep talking and make their point clear immediately. This has cut down on about 80 percent of my interactions with male strangers because most men just seem to say "excuse me" over and over. If I dropped something or nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:45 PM
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