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I don't see the world like that. I'm bisexual and my friends are just my friends. We like each other bc of our shared interests, hobbies, sports, history, humor and shared friends. I don't really care if my friends identify as a man, woman, or somewhere in between and I don't care if they're heterosexual, bi or gay. It's just about who they are, not about their gender or sexual orientations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:15 AM
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I think it's more important to have social skills and some humour. Looking average is totally fine for a lot of woman. Earning just an average amount of money is also fine. Most woman are looking for someone to spend their life with, someone to talk with and have fun with, not some supermodel or high achiever who is always busy, or get tons of attention from other woman. They just want to feel save and secure and want to have fun and are able to communicate and share their feelings about the mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:07 PM
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Sure there are a couple of past partners who I (F/38) still find attractive. There is a reason why I had sex with them in the first place, so why would that suddenly disappear? Ofcourse I don't want to have a relationship with them again, bc we split up for a reason and I don't want to go threw that again, but that's something different then casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:12 PM
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On the street: catcalling ( a lot). I don't like it, please mind your own business. Most of the time it's very disrespectful. At parties/bars: often, they approach me in a flirty way, try to hook up with me. I don't care if they're respectful and if they're still respectful when I say no, or start talking about my SO. At work: sometimes, mostly when I'm traveling for work and stay in hotels on my own. It's annoying, awkward and sometimes a bit scary. Most of my co workers know I'm married and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:50 AM
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I don't think so. We would rather use the sperm bank to get pregnant. When I'm not attracted to a guy and he can't contribute much, why would I hook up with him? What's in it for me? I earn my own money, I already have kids and lots of lovely friends and family. Also, I'm bisexual, so I would probably hook up with some sexy good looking girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:24 AM
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Yes, I prefer shorter man. My first bf was 2m (6'5) and I didn't like it, bc the difference was to big, so we couldn't kiss comfortable. I'm 165 (5'4) myself and I prefer a man who is slightly longer, everything between 170 (5'5) and 190 (6,2) is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:12 PM
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It depends. When it's a nice lady, a bit older I can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:09 PM
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She was drunk. The next day she was thinking... Shit what have I done? She's too shy! It's possible she likes you, but she don't have the nerves to go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:33 PM
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Men aren't less emotional, at all. A lot of them have anger/aggression issues, they never have learned to deal with their emotions, that's why suicide rates are much higher. They also kill their (ex) partners because their jealousy and anger is out of control. Or they fight with each other, fight in wars, or just do other stupid stuff bc their emotions are out of control. It's a big problem for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:20 PM
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Haha no they're 50-55y and still look amazing. And yes, there are plenty of 30-45y old man who would love to hook up with them. It's very common. The same with 50-55y old man who are hooking up, or dating with 20y younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:29 PM
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There are many, many older man who are interested when you're older yourself, they don't even need those younger ones for anything serious. When you're around 55 years old, there is a lot to choose from. Man from the age of 50 till 70y wants to have a serious relationship when they're divorced (and sometimes even when theyre still married). But these women don't want a serious relationship, so yeah ofcourse they sleep around with guys who are much younger. It's a win - win situation, so why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:09 PM
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They do. Because there is a lot of benefits included for them. Actually those older woman I know gets a lot of attention from both younger /older and married/single man. They can get together with someone in a heartbeat, they just don't want to (for obvious reasons).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:50 PM
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You can't compare the things you did before you had a relationship to the things you're doing while you're having a relationship. What happens in the relationship is something you can discuss together. It's possible for both man and woman to have had casual sex prior to the relationship. Some people don't like it, that's fine. In that case you don't start a relationship with that person. Nobody is forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:46 PM
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No, it's not about Chad at all. People have their own sexuality. Bisexuality is real and even woman who are straight sometimes likes to flirt and dance with other woman, or just act totally out of control, just for fun. It's actually more fun to be around woman most of the time, then to be around man who are desperately just want to fuck you and that's it, that type of behavior is kind of boring and insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:43 AM
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I'm bisexual. And I know a lot of people who aren't totally straight. It's kind of typical that you as a straight guy thinks the whole world is about your sexuality, but I have news for you: people have their own preferences apart of your sexuality. If I kiss or have sex with another women, it has nothing to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:38 AM
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I know a lot of older woman who never want to marry again. Why would they? There is no benefits for them. They already have kids who are independent adults and they took care of everyone for years and were used as household slaves for their families. Now they're just tired of caring for everything and everybody and just enjoy their free/fun time, without too many responsibilities. They work to earn some money and that's it, the rest of the time they spend to their hobby's and friends and maybe h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:31 AM
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When you look at man in their 50s, 85% does have at least 1 child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:30 AM
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85% of all man get at least 1 child in their life. So 15% don't get a child, but more then half of those man don't want a child. It's only a really small number of man who want it, but can't have them (sometimes it's due to infertility).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:39 PM
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22&24y we met each other at a party, which was organized by mutual friends. I really believe in networks of friends, bc you already feel attracted to these people who are a bit the same as you (background, intelligence, interests, humour). So there is a huge change you like friends of friends, or family members of friends and there is a romantic connection. We're now 36&38 and still together, still in love with each other and we're still friends with our mutual friends. My advice is: go out of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:15 PM
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When you're away all the time it's a huge red flag. I don't want to be with someone who isn't around much. Especially when you want kids someday it's obvious a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:18 PM
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Good question. I thought about that one for 2 years, but I just had a very strong gut feeling that we had to go for another kid. It worked out fine, they're best friends and they play a lot together. So after all, 2 is easier then 1 (and yes, I'm a bit lazy, so thats a good thing, lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:20 PM
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I have 2 kids and I don't want another one. Why? Finance: I want to retire at 45, instead of 65, lol. I'm on my way to FIRE in 10y and I don't want to ruin that perspective. Attention & time: I want to give my children enough time, love and attention. I also work ft and want to do fun stuff and exercise, so 2 is definitely enough. Kids are a Lot of work and I don't want to just work my whole life. Call it 'irresponsible' but for me it's just common sense. It's not getting more fun with more kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:58 PM
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When you're incredible good looking, successful and rich its much harder to filter people with good intentions. A lot of people just want to hang out with you, bc of your fame and money and looks. Also, you don't have a lot of time for each other, bc anyone wants something from you. So you have to be very strong to say no all the time. And apart of that you're very busy with your career and it's never free time, bc when you walk on the streets, people will recognize you and want something. Imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:38 AM
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Which standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:40 AM
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The average amount of sex partners for both women/man is 7. Most women just have a couple of shorter relationships before they get married and maybe they have 1 or 2 one night stands, or really short flings. Sometimes they divorce and they will get a few more sex partners, before they end up in another long relationship. A lot of women never get threw a phase of sleeping around, that's a minority. I guess your image of women is very biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:33 AM
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These are just some typical traditional masculine traits, which can occur in both M/F. I'm bisexual and when I think about masculine traits I like in a romantic/sexual partner (M) I'm thinking about these things. That's all. I'm well aware that those traits can occur in woman, I'm a woman myself and I do recognize these traits in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:25 AM
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Confidence, taking action, having a passion and go in full focus to reach his goal, being assertive, logical thinking and communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:23 PM
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I actually had the opposite experience. I experimented for a few years in my 20s and almost every guy I had sex with, wanted a relationship with me. It was almost like the more freedom I wanted, the more these guys wanted to claim me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:43 PM
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On average, US women are even 5.1 years older, reaching an age of 81.4. Women are better at surviving lower temperatures and they can survive without food for longer periods of time. Woman perform better at school. Suïcide numbers are lower for woman. Men commit more acts of violence than women. The U.S. Department of Justice sponsored a National Crime Victimization Study in 2007. This evaluation found that 75.6 percent of all offenders were male and only 20.1 percent were female. Woman don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:31 AM
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1 hour max.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:44 AM
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Your reality is not the only reality. And your work environment is not the only environment possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:28 PM
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You're saying stuff about all woman (that's 50% of world population) and it's just total crap. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:08 PM
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And what are those man of career woman doing? They aren't at home either with their kids, do they? Why you pretend like it's only woman who are hiring a cook/nanny/tutor? The man/father is also hiring those services, otherwise he can't do his job outside the house either. Do you recognize your own sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:07 PM
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But they already meet and settle in their twenties. Also, think about all woman who didn't have a lot of sex in their twenties. Not every woman is some big boob bimbo running around in bars. There are just a lot of shy, introvert people (M/F) who don't even meet each other bc they're at home playing videogames, watch Netflix, or post on Reddit, or whatever crap they're doing. You can't blame all woman bc you didn't get laid in your 20's, bc you were too anxious to leave your freakin front door.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:54 PM
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English is my second language. I bet that you can't communicate a single sentence in my native language, so stfu. Oh haha I'm talking to a robot XD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:48 PM
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This is such bs. My SO by instance, didn't have much when I met him, no car, no house, miminum payed pt job, bc he was still studying and so did I. A lot of couples meet in their 20's when they both still building their life's and careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:46 PM
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This is so old school, haha! I don't know were you all live, but it feels like I just cough up in a time travelling machine, lmfao. In my culture/this time, it's normal for both M/F to work hard on their careers in their 20's and settle down and get more family-oriented around 30. And yes, a lot of woman gain weight in their 30's and get kids, but the same is true for man that age, bc they're kind of doing that shit together. I don't really see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:35 PM
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