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1

Lmao so do women. We get radicalized by observing mens behavior and locker room talks in online spaces, not the feminist agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:10 AM
9

For me it's sex i relate to the men on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:09 PM
7

Yes. Good dad > no dad > bad dad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:35 PM
8

They can look at a woman and find her sexy but the thought of having sex with her or any woman is unappealing still
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:40 AM
2

Lol why not? She has a pretty face and is in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:06 PM
2

Sorry you have to hang out with creeps. Are these your family members?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:18 PM
0

Lol i suppose. Men crave novelty so their needs will never be met with just one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:25 PM
6

Gen z women are more against porn and less sex positive than millenial women. Look at the loveagainstporn subreddit, theres mostly women in their 20s posting about their porn addicted boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:58 PM
1

Women are uncomfortable with their husbands and boyfriends watching porn, i doubt anyone cares that much what single guys do as long as they keep it private.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:56 PM
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6, Pim mogs him imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:58 PM
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I feel the same but opposite genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:00 AM
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Because women have the leverage here and ability to make demands and requests, men don't. Women have something men want so men are inclined to listen to women and change their behaviours if they think it will increase the odds of getting the reward, it doesn't really work with the genders switched. This goes for groups of men/women, not one on one relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:46 PM
5

Guys think all women are sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:45 PM
2

Yes but after 45 the status cant compensate for the lack of attraction as much anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:08 PM
10

Men in their 40s dont look good to most young women, not compared to one in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:06 PM
8

The 42 year old is probably appealing to women 35+ and gold diggers but for the vast majority of young women we'd take the burnout any day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:58 PM
4

Too ugly, the money aint worth it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:56 PM
17

I've only been cold approached by really drunk men, looks ranging from ugly old hobo to handsome chad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:38 PM
2

I just woke up but protein shake, ham and salmon is on the agenda for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:35 AM
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Tastes better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:32 AM
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Yeah i used to hide in the bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:42 PM
7

How did the current anti-child people get their ideology? Not from their parents obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:44 PM
11

I think he's trolling, he makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:03 PM
8

Every chilfree person was born from someone who had kids though? Wanting kids isn't hereditary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:02 PM
1

You clearly think radical feminism and extreme feminism is the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:24 AM
2

Comparing your gf to another woman will not go well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:56 PM
1

Not a man but my brother liked getting shoes, tshirts/merch with his favorite superhero on it, sun glasses, games/gaming accessories (fair equivsalent to jewellry imo) and fun treats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:53 PM
5

That don't matter, men cheat on loving wives all the time, for variery and excitement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:51 PM
3

Right cause married men famously never visit prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:05 PM
4

Lucky women who get to be settled for!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:49 AM
3

Under 30 and skinny makes her top 20% so how is that any less unfair than women only wanting chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:17 PM
2

Me and my now fiance, we were in my bedroom talking about the movie we were watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:01 PM
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What, a scantily clad man being ogled by women? The reverse happens all the time, there are naked women everywhere in media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:52 PM
1

[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:41 AM
1

He might not be straight up drooling but every man is gonna be lusting after younger women yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:35 AM
1

This isn't about glancing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:16 AM
2

Cuck wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:51 AM
3

She was probably attracted to his personality or vibes but not physically
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:40 AM
1

We did a rat and a sheep head
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:48 AM
1

Your metabolism doesn't change significantly with age, it's 90% getting lazier and eating more calories
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:11 AM
1

You'd probably have to pay more taxes if all those women ended up pregnant with kids they didn't want instead. Foster care aint cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:40 AM
1

A really cute face
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:31 AM
1

Right because men with tradwives don't watch porn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:34 PM
1

Don't need porn for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:34 PM
1

Ok, go visit deadbedrooms or loveafterporn if you want thousands of examples of men rejecting their horny girlfriends for porn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:50 PM
3

Attraction to a sexual maturity characteristic is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:03 PM
3

They wouldn't like that one bit but women are supposed to enjoy being cucked because biology or some bullshit excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:46 PM
-1

Lots of guys aren't meeting their girlfriends' sexual needs because porn is easier and the women are hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:36 PM
6

Never, if he wants something cleaned right away or in a different way he does it himself, same goes for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:18 PM
2

It's female biology to be repulsed by male sexuality so that won't stop either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:27 AM
10

lots of people think it doesn't count if you're not in a gym
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:11 AM
3

He should make her finish with oral or fingers before penetration since most women don't orgasm from that anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:38 AM
2

5-10 minutes is the norm for us, with around 20 minutes of foreplay. I get sore if it lasts much longer than that so i'm happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:37 AM
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Fucking ew
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:25 AM
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Did you mean to say "thin women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:22 AM
13

Would you be okay with your gf cuddling with a cutie all night telling him how much she loves him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:24 AM
3

Okay and those alt stacies still get cheated on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:36 AM
1

He works exclusively nights and i work days so the only times we're sleeping at the same time is the odd weekend, it sucks major balls. Only temporary though thankfully, we love morning cuddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:32 PM
6

The problem is they continue this habit into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:47 PM
1

Not me queen but i did lift weights 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:40 AM
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They're fetish videos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:09 PM
4

Yeah whatever me and many other women don't want a community sausage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:03 PM
2

Many do, many don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:33 PM
11

Yeah the fantasy is "he COULD have anyone" not "he HAS had everyone". That's just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:14 PM
10

Then don't pick a woman who did that? Plenty of women don't do casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:10 PM
3

For sure. It's just that we no longer confuse stability for attraction. A same age partner is more compatible and has better finances usually but in terms of raw appeal young men win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:52 AM
1

Not mine! He only gets attention from me ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:11 AM
1

If she lost weight she'd mog him so hard. Fat vs dysgenic...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:10 AM
2

Do you mean that taller women are fatter? If so that's objectively false.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:17 PM
2

Most women arent a natural hourglass shape, that's why we think we need the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:16 PM
1

There are several branches of feminism and they have different opinions on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:53 PM
1

The small percentage of blackpilled women would have a significant overlap with the small percentage of women who don't care about attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:27 AM
7

Subscribing to pill ideology is super rare in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:49 PM
10

Blackpilled women dont usually want a man so why would they care about looking conventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:34 PM
4

Feminism mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:33 PM
23

They may have read too much about male nature and ended up feeling that everything is hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:18 AM
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While cheating with the first as soon as an opportunity presents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:11 AM
1

High estrogen doesnt make you horny and impulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:49 AM
9

I was celibate for years before i got together with my husband and it was not a problem at all. I thought i had a very low sex drive but it turns out i just needed to be really into someone and i actually enjoy sex a lot. If we were to break up i think i would crave sex more than i did in the past because i now know how good it can be. It would still have to be with a person i trust and love though so chances are i'd be celibate again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:03 AM
8

No one working a full time job is a bum
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:10 PM
3

Yes it's less but it's a growing problem. I work with uni students and they get fatter each year, kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:07 AM
1

Wants to be courted and chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:05 AM
2

BMI has been on the rise in europe and asia as well. Im scandinavian and we're supposed to have good looking people but 1/3 of us are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:01 AM
2

I think he meant that men nowadays are more interested in bulking up with muscle instead of being lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:59 AM
3

Indeed, men just spend their 20s (and beyond) jerking off to stacies which has a similar psychological effect as their brains think they're actually mating with these women. They then continue this habit during their marriage to their looksmatch which makes her very well aware she's being settled for as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:13 PM
4

Same could be said about men. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:49 PM
6

I wouldn't waste my emotions feeling jealous over a flirt lol. If we were in a committed relationship that's a different story but i don't committ to men who are easily swayed by the attention of a more conventionally attractive woman. If he's with me he values other things than beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:46 PM
3

This guy thinks mid women just stay single all their lives seething with jealousy because they can't get chad to committ or whatever is the current meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:40 PM
2

Everyone settles, no one is perfect. Most couples still love eachother to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:36 PM
4

Less attractive women end up with less attractive men usually. Beautiful women aren't into those types of men unless they're loaded so it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:47 AM
0

The same exact thing can be said about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:26 PM
1

Liar i had this picture as a pc wallpaper in 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:54 AM
12

You were talking about "feeling it move" to "barely legals"... It's not unnecessary negative framing, just realistic. Male sexuality IS nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:31 AM
2

True, men say every day how appalled they are that attractive men get treated better than ugly men and act like this is pure female malice instead of a basic human trait. Like, welcome to earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:53 PM
1

Where did i call you unattractive? You were talking about women being more eager to sleep with chad than less attractive men and i replied to that. Idc about your online dating career lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:50 PM
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Aren't young women having less sex than ever? Hardly chugging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:29 PM
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Eh i think her analogy was about pregnancy. Can't really "pick" your way into a painless pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:29 PM
4

Unattractive men are justified in feeling insecure about it but the insecurety just makes them even more unattractive. Men jump through more hoops and put in more effort to have sex with a hottie rather than an uggo, and ugly women are insecure about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:25 PM
1

Walled but decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:57 PM
1

Eh for me it's the same thing. If i like you enough to hookup i like you enough to committ as well. My soon to be husband was a drunken hookup but i wouldn't have slept with him if i didn't have strong feelings for him and a desire to progress into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:05 PM
1

Duh but i'd be pissed he was hiding a million from me all this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:22 AM
1

Decent for an old man but stunning when younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:45 AM
1

We have a guy who got into med school (dropped out) at my kitchen job lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:21 AM
1

Y cromosome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:13 AM
4

Yeah i call bullshit. Men who marry young women are magically excempt from the male biological desire for teenagers? They suddenly desire older women just because they're committed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:31 PM
4

Why the fuck would a woman marry a man who's gonna lose attraction to her in a couple of years? That's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:32 AM
1

Aww yall have the same age gap as my mom and dad, it's rare to see. Happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:47 AM
2

Or maybe because there is 1 woman doing something disgusting vs 100 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:11 AM
-1

You're obviously porn rotted. In my 20 something years of living, i've never met a woman who's had a threesome, let alone a gangbang.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:08 AM
1

This is true and it's very annoying to hang out with ladies like that. I feel like i always have to be picture-ready and on display. I know a couple of guys like this too, most of them gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:52 AM
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When i put effort into my appearance i do enjoy seeing the results in the mirror, but i can recognize that i enjoy it because i'm conforming to society's beauty standards and that makes me recieve better treatment and reputation. If i lived in a hut in the woods i wouldn't wear makeup or worry about my waist size lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:49 AM
1

I'd guess it's a fear of being cheated on, or not feeling like they could satisfy him. Homophobia in many cases too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:01 PM
-9

Not true lol lots of men reject their (long term) partner to jerk off instead. Doesn't matter how attractive she is, she's just his boring wife he's had sex with a 1000 times before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:40 AM
2

what why? i thought women settling down early was a good thing to you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:58 PM
-2

damn i hope she cucks you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:10 AM
1

It's not? i know the study he's referring to as it has been misquoted a million times by people who havent actually read it. It might not have been exactly 50% but a lot of lesbians have had male abusers which skewed the stats significantly. It's misleading because "lesbians have experienced the most DV" is true but people assume lesbians have only been in relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:09 AM
2

Yes. So when removing the male abusers from the lesbian stat, the percentage of lesbians having been abused by women was lower than the percentage of bisexual and straight women having been abused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:07 AM
-1

Why get into a relationship then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:35 AM
2

Things only people who settled say:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:35 AM
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No it doesn't. It says lesbians are more likely to have been abused in relationships, and like 50% of their abusers were male.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:32 AM
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Most women don't report either and nobody cares when yet another woman is assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:08 PM
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Including old and fat ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:48 PM
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How would that fix anything? Unattractive woman approaches man, man says yes because any hole is a goal, man treats her like shit afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:47 PM
3

Now it all makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:48 PM
2

But there are a ton of women who are either too unattractive to post such things or simply don't want to, there are not a ton of men with the willpower to abstain from easily accesible porn. You think the frumpy walmart cashier or the friendless no self esteem nerd posts ass pics on instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:47 PM
4

I'm impressed! The amount of men jerking it to internet thots is way higher than the amount of women who post provocative pictures though, your 0.02 percent figure is way off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:20 PM
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I hope you don't use social media to look at "low quality" women or look at porn then, for fairness' sake. The fact you think 99.98% of women post thirst traps makes me think that's what you look for online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:02 PM
1

Absolutely. I never said handsome men don't cheat, just that ugly men do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:56 PM
2

That really sucks, hope things are a bit better now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:05 PM
-1

Whatever you wanna believe. Handsome men are shitty in a lot of other ways but they're not as likely to hook up with the first pretty woman who offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:03 PM
1

Why did you guys break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:07 PM
1

Have you been in a position where you could? Aka have you gotten casual sex offered to you by an attractive woman while in a relationship? You can't say for certain you would never if you havent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:04 PM
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That's not true, tons of ugly men cheat with prostitutes or fat women. Handsome men are used to getting female attention and won't fold as easily as an ugly guy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:02 PM
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gen z women primarily don't pick at all. they're single
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:56 PM
1

5 or 8 depending on if i'm compared to women my age and demographic vs the average woman nationwide
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:51 PM
1

That sucks im sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:49 AM
1

Birth control fixed this for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:42 AM
1

If there's nothing in particular to cry over then why bother upsetting yourself? I'm emotionally repressed as a woman and crying just makes me feel worse even when it only happens for a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:40 AM
2

It's like when your siblings were acting all tough when they had friends over as kids. Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:31 AM
1

She doesn't look "worse" because of aging though just weight gain. That's not the wall. I personally think she looks better thicker and blonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:02 PM
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A shy, reserved woman probably wouldn't be keen on dating (hookup) apps either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:17 PM
0

Men have the option to do that aswell if they find themselves as a single father to a newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:29 AM
3

Way to out yourself as a betabux
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:28 AM
6

There are several consequences to pregnancy, abortion being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:35 PM
4

There is also a relatively easy way to keep having sex and not carry an accidental pregnancy to term. Win/win. Why shouldn't a loving couple be intimate when we have modern medicine that can protect against and terminate unwanted fetuses? No one "needs" sex but people enjoy having happy relationships and sex is usually a part of that. As a northern european, the fact that abortion is such a controversial thing in the US is crazy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:33 PM
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Unwanted pregnancy fucks up an individuals life, and it can affect every fertile female voter. Income inequality and climate change are huge issues too but it's not like they can force policies upon individuals to solve it as it's more of a wide society issue. It makes sense to focus on abortion as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:16 PM
3

Duration and intensity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:37 AM
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I'm only 24 but i was practically asexual as a teenager and now i'm very much not. My libido seems to increase as i get older and more in tune with my body, and as my relationship deepens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:31 AM
1

The majority of people lash out when in pain, that doesn't make them dangerous or immoral. I'm not talking about hitting people or saying foul things but just being in a bad mood and being snippy. Have you ever been around a man with the flu or a tummyache? Grumpy and whiny, but it's understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:05 PM
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Periods have gotten heavier and more painful with all the microplastics and toxins we ingest though. It's not okay to have straight up outbursts but being grumpy because your insides feel like they're ripping apart is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:36 AM
4

They will use their old wife as a fleshlight while fantasizing about teens, not reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:33 AM
0

1/4 of households are single parent and 75% of those are single mothers. Women are overrepresented in infanticide because they're attached to the baby 24/7 and may develop post partum psychosis, but for children above infant age there isn't a significant gender difference. https://jaapl.org/content/35/1/74
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:05 AM
1

I honestly think it's morally worse to murder a healthy young person than a sick old person, aita?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:12 AM
-1

That's just because women have custody of their children much more than men. If you adjust for that, men are more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:11 AM
1

Hey that doesn't apply to those of us that are poorly endowed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:51 AM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:48 AM
1

Especially iced coffee pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:59 AM
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It's not really an interference to think lowly of someones love life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:11 PM
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People get to judge whatever they want actually. And you get to react to their judgement with whatever emotion you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:33 PM
1

Yeah okay but not even kissing/cuddling? Do they just close their eyes and thrust lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:05 PM
1

I can't fathom having sex without kissing, cuddling and "i love you" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:25 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:57 PM
2

She wants tips to get him in the mood for her, not for another woman. Bad advice 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:18 PM
2

She got a lot of the fillers dissolved recently and looks better now though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:46 AM
1

I've succesfully lost over 30 pounds but it wasn't that hard for me since i'm tall and have an active lifestyle. But i'm just saying between an average sedentary man and woman the man has more wiggle room in his diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:26 PM
1

Men burn more calories and have a higher bmr though partly because of testosterone. Yeah it's calories in vs out but it's harder to have to restrict to 1200 calories a day vs 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:09 AM
1

Chicken nuggies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:27 PM
1

Because those are the posts you get on your algorithm. The minority of women who celebrate sex workers are more likely to be chronically online and make tiktoks and thinkpieces about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:35 AM
1

The problem isn't how the porn girls look, it's that men in relationships get off to thousands of women other than their partner which usually damages the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:07 AM
1

The onlyfans girls arent the ones complaining about porn addicts though. Most women don't think sex workers are girlbosses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:03 AM
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Who said i don't like them? I'm mid myself. Women date men ranging from uggos to hotties but no woman wants a coomer bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:57 PM
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Those are niche fetishes though. The beauty standard is loud and clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:22 AM
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As if fuckboys are the only ones who openly follow and thirst after pornstars? Please, it's usually the mid dudes who can't get their hands off their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:17 AM
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Not at first sight since we first met in elementary school lol, but i always liked hanging out with him and thought he was kinda cute as a kid. I disliked him for a while in middle school because he was acting gangster with a group of guys who were not nice to the losers (me and my friends), but they eventually grew into fine young men and my man started hanging out more with my friend group. He also got better at styling himself and lost a bit of weight and i developed a little crush on him. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:28 AM
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Well i don't love it but i like it and that's good enough for me. I wish the pay was better though. I'm a chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:55 AM
-2

Yeah, if their sexual past is on par with using prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:05 PM
1

When we do that we're called misandrists and bitter femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:59 PM
-8

Hiding something like that warrants a little betrayal in return
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:59 PM
-3

Guys like that deserve to be cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:30 PM
2

It is for losers. If the majority of men need(ed) to pay for sex then majority of men are losers. Especially the married ones who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:29 PM
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It's still misogyny. The fact that they get off to it doesn't make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:47 AM
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Women get pregnant more easily and have healthier pregnancies with younger men so women can do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:30 PM
2

That's just cope and choice feminism. Sure they feel happier seeing themselves after doing beauty enhancements but that's because women attach our value to conventional beauty standards. No one gets surgery to get a bigger nose or smaller lips after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:58 PM
1

Yeah max miller seems to take great care of himself. Gay guys usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:24 AM
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It's always been insane but women of the past didn't have the choice to not have children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:11 AM
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I don't take peoples opinions on a huge group of people personally. I know i'm allright and i know plenty of great western women so why would it affect me that strangers have a negative view of that group? It doesn't affect my life at all, and if it keeps more men from creeping on us nasty westerners then win-win but we all know that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:29 AM
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The fact that he needs to be nagged to do shit is the true red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:25 AM
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I'm a great cook, pretty, kind, has a job that pays the bills, tidy, funny, generous in bed, loyal. I wouldn't say i have absurd standards though, my requirement is a man i find attractive who makes my life much more enjoyable than if i was single and i thankfully found him quickly, by pure luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:23 AM
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Yeah i wouldn't look down on bald guys for wearing wigs or getting hair plugs or minoxidil either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:09 PM
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Girls spend their entire life getting bombarded with perfect looking women at every corner of the internet with perfect features, big lips being one of them, it's not that strange that some of them cave in to the pressure and try to match the beauty standard by surgical means. It's not to get more dates it's to feel less inferior to the stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:38 AM
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Men age like milk fr smh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:36 AM
2

It's happened a handful of times in bars by normie men, and a handful of times at work by old stinky guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:24 AM
1

Still way more men are into morbidly obese women than women are into morbidly obese men. So yeah there are more morbidly obese women but they alteast have value as fetish partners while morbidly obese men are just expensive eyesores.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:18 PM
1

Still fattie men are more of a menace to society. There are lots of bodybuilder women too defying typical BMI but most post 25 bmi people are fucking far not ripped, male or female:
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:05 PM
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They weren't very attractive though that's the thing. The couples i know aren't knockouts they're very average looking, men and women. But i'm not american so dating is probably different over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:11 PM
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I have a similar experience. Most couples i know started dating after having sex. The hookup happens drunk at a party and if they like eachother beyond that they start dating. It's definitely not a chad thing in my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:46 PM
2

Healthy 19:00-21:00 bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:49 AM
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Men too. Fattie males are more inconvenient for society as they have more health issues, are smellier and uglier than fattie women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:48 AM
1

Female friends is fine because it's an adjective. "Females" is the one that sounds bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:26 PM
1

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:04 PM
1

Sometimes i do when i see cute babies or imagine having nice family dinners and holidays but ultimately no because i'm lazy and unwilling to sacrifice my body and comfort for another person for 18 years+.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:35 AM
1

Hungerpilled and fastingmaxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:33 AM
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Female is fine if you're talking about female humans from age 0-100, but in which contexts do you do that on a dating debate sub? Woman works 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:28 AM
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So what, men will think about instagram thots and pornstars in bed, that's worse imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:28 AM
1

Only the top percent of prostitutes make enough to "never work a day in their life". 90% my ass lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:30 PM
2

Well allright that's good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:24 PM
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We met for the first time in elementary school lol but got together in high school at a party. Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:22 PM
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It's still gotta be a shitty feeling to know your man isn't attracted to you anymore because you got wrinkly and would rather drool at teenagers on instagram. You're just his life partner not his object of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:21 PM
1

Then the couple will get fat and that's not good for the marriage either smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:14 PM
2

What happens when your girlfriend gets older?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:29 AM
1

Most baked goods can be frozen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:01 PM
2

Men should take accountability and not marry gold digging leeches then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:37 AM
1

No it's both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:20 AM
7

They're not expected to do that. Yall choose to do that instead of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:44 AM
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She can want all kinds of things but it's ultimately not happening unless the man cums inside, his choice in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:25 AM
6

What pill are you referring to? Birth control pills aren't 100% effective and abortion pills are a horrible experience physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:39 AM
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Both genders struggle with dead bedrooms, on the subreddit it's almost a 50/50 divide of men and women. Men who prefer jerking it to teen pornstars over their wives, women who's libidos dry up because the novelty wears off etc, it's not just because women want chad. Last time i checked the average couple has sex like 1-3 times a week, hardly a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:30 AM
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chads aren't committing to mid women though, there aren't enough chads to go around so most average women are with average men. sure it's a bit skewed but most people end up with someone in their league. you were talking about marriage too not just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:38 AM
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same with fat and homely men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:14 AM
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Drinks and smokes, ally, atheist. Shucks only 3/15 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:44 AM
1

Sure it matters but it's not that important. When i met my fiance he was a neet and i fell for him hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:16 PM
1

Men have much higher rates of beastiality than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:50 AM
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That's not true. It's very hard to prove that sexual assault happened without witnesses or other hard proof, most rapists never get punished or even questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:39 PM
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They can demand whatever, in reality they end up with men a few inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:42 AM
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Most men are taller than most women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:48 AM
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It's literally a common stereotype that men cheat on their hot wives with uggos just for muh variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:23 PM
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Majority of women follow the beauty standards and care about being percieved as pretty by society which includes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:33 AM
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Nah i'm a woman and i agree with the possum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:55 AM
1

Yep. Disloyal ass gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:35 PM
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Yeah it's much easier for women to cheat yet men and women cheat at equal rates. It seems men jump at the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:44 AM
1

Both are gross actually but at least real people aren't being hurt in erotica stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:53 AM
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Because that's risky and men are a headache more often than an asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:34 PM
3

Accountable for what?? For other women posting online? I swear you guys throw that word around like confetti, zero meaning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:13 PM
1

What her jaw is slim i think. Any smaller than that and she'd be a chinlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:12 PM
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Having kids is a much bigger sacrifice for women than for men. Without education or a job she would have to find a male provider and give him kids, but when she can take care of helself having kids is more trouble than they're worth. I'd want kids if i could be a father too, but a mom? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:09 PM
2

Should have gone for a nice girl instead of stacy smh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:41 AM
1

Most fashionable shirts are cropped, and small top big pants is trendy and flattering on most body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:50 PM
1

I only do it when i do a full house cleaning, once a month max. Regular weekly cleaning i'm not moving shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:49 PM
1

Lol, you're in scandinavia too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:47 PM
1

No but those aren't the only people who have sex and write about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:46 PM
3

Everyone does that, you try to show your friend they're not alone and try to relate to their struggles by bringing up personal experiences. What do you want them to say, "that sucks" and then the conversation is over? After they say their anectode you're supposed to continue talking about your feelings and keep venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:44 PM
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Young women don't want to start families either which is why they're a good match with young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:15 PM
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Men usually cheat with women uglier than their partners. They seek muh variety no matter how the woman looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:55 AM
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I'm european and i can verify you're full of shit. American women are almost tradwives compared to western euro women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:33 PM
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They don't love senior men in a lustful way, they're utilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:53 AM
4

they're seeking women higher value than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:29 AM
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Yeah and i prefer my husband but you made the claim "most married women would fuck jason momoa" and i made the claim "most married men would fuck a hot actress" so idk what our personal preferences has to do with it, we're generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:57 PM
1

Yes one man not several men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:37 PM
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The big boobed euphoria actress. Substitute her name with any other pretty celeb, my point stands true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:31 PM
1

Yeah i know, i've lost 30 pounds by calorie restricting myself but you cant deny that you're hungrier and it's harder at 1400 calories vs 2000 calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:50 PM
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She doesn't like men (plural) doing that. Read.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:49 AM
2

Infertile women don't go into womens pregnancy groups and complain that they feel excluded though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:43 AM
2

Rude, hairy women are based and show that they have resistance to societal brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:39 AM
1

To be fair it's harder to cut calories when your maintenance calories are 1500 instead of 2000+. Men can eat more without gaining weight, and have an easier time building muscles to burn more cals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:38 AM
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Same could be said about actual rapists tbh. Most don't get punished for the lives they ruin. That's the justice system for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:12 AM
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Yeah and most married men would jump at sydney sweeney, i don't get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:59 AM
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Some people don't carry extra weight well, me included.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:46 AM
1

I have his hair color, hobbies and social awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:59 AM
1

Men can be beautiful with proper grooming and styling, just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:24 PM
1

You want to be wanted and thats fine, but she can fuck off if she wants to be desired (wanted)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:22 PM
1

Full head of hair mogs bald 90% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:21 PM
1

The poisons make it more fun though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:18 PM
1

I love salt and probably eat too much of it. But i have low blood pressure so it's probably fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:11 PM
1

It's actually pretty effective if you do it right and have a predictable cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:09 PM
1

Condoms and cycle tracking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:08 PM
1

Condoms stay winning
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:07 PM
1

Her body doesn't matter, men will seek out the opposite of what they can get at home because muh variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:44 AM
0

The problem isn't his looks at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:43 AM
1

b but only because a is too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:42 AM
1

5 ish times a week, half of those i wash my hair and trim my bush, other half just a quick body washing. 5-20 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:34 AM
1

Finally someone who appreciates us pancake ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:58 AM
1

Good luck. I want to do the same but i think the gym is so insanely boring. One hour in there feels like an 8 hour shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:35 AM
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Personally i'd prefer younger. They look better and are probably similar to my life stage/lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:24 AM
1

Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:01 AM
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Yeah my brothers have aesthetically handsome faces, but they look different. Younger one is dark and skinny, older one is fair and bigger. I ended up with a man who looks a bit like my older brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:55 AM
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Most women are insecure about their appearance, what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:45 PM
4

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:11 AM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:43 PM
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Did you see where she wrote "most women are affected too"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:16 PM
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Yeah i was just adding to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:14 PM
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If the average woman openly thirsted after and jerked off to other, sexier men while in a relationship as much as the average man does, men would lose their minds i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:55 PM
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They didn't "always put out" as that implies enthusiastic consent, they just didn't have a say in the matter. Porn is never needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:57 AM
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She didn't ask if he's likely to wank to his exes, but how you would feel if he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:51 AM
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Women have the same worries. How can one plain jane compete with thousands of perfect looking whores? How can they be more sexually appealing and satisfying than the endless online porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:45 AM
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Luckily you don't need to be hot to find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:09 PM
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They won't die from not having access to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:07 AM
1

Hair mogs every time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:01 PM
1

An adorable creature to cuddle with and take care of and exercise with. A dog would fix me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:07 AM
1

My entire body is bloated and rotund from pms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:00 AM
1

That has nothing to do with it. Even the most beautiful women get cheated on and have their men ignoring them for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:58 PM
1

Of course you can have one without the other. I have a great diet but i find the gym excruciatingly boring so i don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:51 AM
1

I think we lost more geniuses to misogyny than to female sexual selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:23 AM
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Yeah i hope so but i think it will become more and more common in younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:16 PM
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I wouldnt say incredibly rare, r/loveafterporn has over 50k subscribers and gen-z girls on tiktok get millions of likeminded comments on their videos about their addicted boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:19 PM
2

Weird how
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:52 PM
1

Eh, plenty of men in relationships use porn, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:47 PM
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The sex they're having is real, their bodies are real. You guys arent watching porn for the story so what does it matter if that's not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:46 PM
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And if a woman likes you she wont shame you for your dick size or stamina. But people don't have to like eachother to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:14 AM
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Sure they will sleep with her but degrade her behind her back before and afterwards. Not much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:49 AM
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95% of men watch it, not just the incels. I'm pretty sure married men are among the highest offenders, and their wives who get deadbedroomed in favor of porn sure do care, and with good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:47 AM
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Or you can just listen to your body. If you wank when your body naturally wants it you will be fine with imagination, if you do it by habit that's probably more often than your body naturally needs it, so you depend on extra "tools". If you're not aroused without porn you weren't horny in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:44 AM
3

Stacy fucks becky bucks huh..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:53 AM
1

I cook for a living dude i cant have longass nails or painted nails getting little paint chips in peoples food.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:47 AM
3

Being slim doesn't help that much if you have an unattractive body shape and facial feautures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:19 PM
1

Easily forgotten, that's relatable. I used to be able to skip school whenever i wanted cuz the teachers and classmates wouldn't notice my absence lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:51 AM
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And pretty much any woman can get laid downloading tinder, should that not count towards n-count either?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:37 PM
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How can you say women attach love to sex and women should bring in other women to fuck their man in the same sentence?? Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:56 AM
3

Maybe not leaving but they sure cheat on good pussy. Greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:25 AM
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The sperm quality degrades with age and causes higher risks of birth defects, disorders and dangerous birth. Time to concieve isn't the only important aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:39 PM
1

Agreed. Both are reasonable imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:17 PM
1

Lol that is not genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:58 AM
1

She has a lot of belly fat she just had it transfered to her lower body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:57 AM
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Yes, i'd guess her bmi is in the obese category or late overweight. Still cute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:56 AM
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Maybe not a backup committed partner but they can always cheat with a prostitute or e-whores, married men are a significant percentage of sex worker clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:25 PM
1

I think most peoples lips are pinker than their nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:53 AM
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Only when i was a child and a couple of times by drunks on the street at night. It made me feel scared and small. I pretend i don't hear it and walk faster. It has never happened when out with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:32 AM
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That's so gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:16 AM
2

He's having a great time don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:34 AM
0

Yeah feeling attractive and sexy gets me off. I can get horny just looking at my man too but not horny enough to do something about it until he feeds my ego a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:42 PM
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This explains why i find older men so unappealing. My dad is much younger than my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:38 PM
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Having kids with a 43 year old man is really fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:34 PM
2

Maybe, i don't think insecureties are bad though, we all got them in some areas on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:41 AM
1

Getting drunk and eating lots of good food with the fam and hubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:23 AM
2

Yeah that and if you have an ounce of introspection as a mid woman you'd realize the super good looking guys have nothing of value to offer you. They don't truly want average women, and will thus treat us accordingly. It's much better to have a relationship where both parts value and desire eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:21 AM
2

We have to sometimes because of work but it sucks because we're codependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:18 AM
1

Amen girl. Insanity is the spice of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:52 AM
1

That's gross unless you're single imo. Just look at your woman or at least have the bare minimum decency to not have 2000 favourite thots you save to look at later again and again. It honestly reminds me a bit of the whole af/bb phenomenon. Your gf is the good girl who gets to wash your laundry but the thousands of hotter girls online are the stacies that get your raw sexual desire. Bit of a digression but alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:49 AM
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Nah if the sex don't make you hungry and thirsty afterwards you didnt do it right 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:15 PM
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You can drink 10 sodas a day as long as they're sugar free. I don't think people trying to lose weight are drinking the sugar versions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:01 AM
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Yeah it seems really stupid to date a youth obsessed man, you're setting yourself up for failure since his love and attraction has a (short!) expiration date. Luckily most of the men i know seem to adore their same age partners as they grow and mature together, so NAMALT and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:11 AM
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The women who do it irl are probably getting some action from other men too on the downlow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:04 AM
1

Duh of course being single is better than being in a bad or incompatible relationship, but a great relationship is the best, it enriches your life on another level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:57 PM
1

Got in trouble for stealing my moms tobacco when it was my brother who did it 🙄 I mean, i did steal tobacco but that specific instance wasn't me. She refused to believe me though, i got so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:59 AM
1

Hannibal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:23 AM
1

I could do that easily but hubby needs his rest days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:20 AM
1

If you were a woman you'd have the same reservations against sex work as most women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:19 PM
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Yeah the equivalent would be videos of older women acting like "karens", that's widely accepted, there are entire karen compilations on youtube but there's not a trend of creep-shaming videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:13 AM
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Nah it would be equivalent to refilling his drink or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:00 PM
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Opening a door is not equivalent to preparing and cooking a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:50 PM
2

Go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:37 AM
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I hope you get malware and viruses with your nasty pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:26 AM
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I've been told i have sexy ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:23 AM
2

I can be myself 100% with him and he always puts me/us first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:32 PM
1

I talk constantly with my coworkers and customers. I work in a convenience store.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:29 PM
1

It makes sense to use condoms around ovulation and not during infertile periods but you need a regular cycle and a good understanding of your own body for that to be completely safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:02 AM
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Very hairy if they're a big boy. Skinny/lean guys look best with little hair on their supple frames.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:51 PM
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Some of the only times i've lost desire for my partner is when other women are giving him attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:49 PM
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Very important, he's my other half. My job is just somewhere i go to make money to pay for our home and life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:43 PM
2

Having lots of sex doesn't really prevent anything if men cheat for variety and novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:36 PM
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Reddit males think most women are sex workers because that's the type of woman they most frequently interact with and see online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:45 AM
2

Matt rife looks like a minecraft villager.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:33 AM
2

Men do the same shit tbf. For example if an ugly woman is good at videogames it's whatever but a hot woman who gets carried on league? Cum city, dream girl, simp level 1000. Attractive people and their halo effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:32 AM
2

No, most women have low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:25 AM
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Guaranteed lots of money huh? Then yeah but i would post hobby things or something, not nudes. Wasn't onlyfans originally not a porn site but just a place people actually posted interesting stuff for their "fans"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:57 AM
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No that's disgusting. I wouldnt be able to enjoy him knowing 100 other women have been there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:22 AM
1

Mine had a nonce stache too until he started using minoxodil, it worked really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:15 AM
1

No, i use my imagination or my mans nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:51 AM
1

Whatever he feels best in. My man is rocking a bushy mustache rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:28 AM
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No way, i'd rather stay celibate if that was the only way to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:25 AM
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Yeah it's a bit unique, our store is in a university so we close when the school closes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:52 PM
1

Not the sex scene, it's only there to arouse males, no plot relevancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:57 AM
1

I have a retail 9-5 job with weekends and holidays off. It's super chill and pays better than most other jobs at this level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:16 AM
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Yeah i wish i could skip breakfast but last time i did i had a low blood pressure episode that sent me to the ER.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:53 AM
1

Yes you should look at the ground. This is basic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:30 AM
1

Nah i wish my libido was a bit lower actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:28 AM
1

She never said personality is most important she said she doesn't like assholes. You're arguing about a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:17 AM
1

First guy is completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:42 PM
1

That happens even with the same libido. Many women complain about their men choosing porn over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:55 AM
1

A daugher cause she's less likely to committ family annihilation and otherwise wreak havoc on innocent people. And women seem to cope better with loneliness and isolation so she'd probably be more content with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:12 AM
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I'm healthy (19-21) BMI but i've never gotten my free daily validation 😠 what the hell!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:09 AM
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Women want spaces without men, men don't want spaces without women. No one is legally discriminating women from stem but it's still largely a boys club and being surrounded by fellow women in the field makes it easier and less intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:07 AM
1

Dinner and drinks with my colleagues and christmas shopping with hubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:03 AM
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Yeah i thought that too until i fell in love and found myself caring about my partner and by extension his family, and now i look forward to hanging out with my awesome inlaws. Love does crazy things to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:00 AM
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Ew no. A super simp only for me is the hottest thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:52 PM
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My experience in retail has been far more positive, it's super chill and i sit on the phone drinking coffee most of the time. But then again im not american either so we don't get whipped around by bosses without the union whipping them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:44 AM
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And? Men get "headaches" too and then go wank it to pornstars 10 minutes later. Everyone seems to grow bored of their partners after some time, glad that hasnt happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:26 AM
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What happens when these 25 year old girlfriends age? Bye bye?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:36 AM
3

Twox is moderated by men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:21 PM
1

That's pretty depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:33 PM
1

It's good for weight loss but it did land me in the hospital so your mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:06 PM
1

You obviously wouldn't see the plenty of women who are generous people but NOT posting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:57 AM
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Too high for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:54 PM
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If you watch serial killer shows every evening and orgasm to it then yeah that would affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:31 AM
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Not everybody has the same opinions and preferences as you. Tons of people desire fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:21 PM
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That can easily be a source of insecurity too. If he's just watching average women then why not just get off to his girlfriend? He just wants to nut to anything but his partner, it doesnt even have to be an idealistic fantasy woman. Porn in general makes women insecure and with good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:48 AM
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A paycheck? Do you think the average woman makes money off simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:02 AM
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Peak performance sure but not attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:32 AM
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They're publically embarrassing their partners by openly ogling stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:37 AM
1

Be careful with that, i ended up in the ER from fasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:59 AM
3

And if he gets with a girl who didn't sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:29 PM
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Women have always had kids into their 30s and 40s, what did you think happened before contraception became widely available?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:05 PM
1

You wouldn't think men were the visual sex by looking at their self care, fashion choices and living spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:36 AM
1

I'm intrigued
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:25 AM
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Woman attracted to men. Mild overweight can be really attractive if it's not pure lard but some muscle too. And body hair. I'm committed to staying lean, and being with a partner who really likes junk food and sitting still will cause me to gain weight too and feel bad about my body, so lifestyle is more important than number on the scale. Obese or underweight is a hard no though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:23 AM
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No but i don't use discord anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:10 AM
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Hiii
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:28 AM
1

I get my cardio every day walking to and from work 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:30 AM
3

Penetration still feels good even when you don't orgasm from it, so it's a bummer if it's quickly over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:04 AM
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Ah okay fair, i havent seen porn in years but i see lots of dudes slanging milf comments to any woman that doesn't look like a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:41 AM
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I got chubby/borderline overweight as a teenager since my parents always had snacks in the house and fattened up our meals to make my underweight brother gain weight. I got skinny at 22 by tracking calories and having a physical job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:39 AM
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"Milf" porn stars are like 30 max and have 0 kids usually. Doesnt say much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:18 AM
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The vast majority of prostitutes aren't like you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:49 PM
0

That sub is full of husbands who reject their wife for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:13 AM
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Everyone in love thinks their partner is the best thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:04 AM
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No, scandi. That probably explains it now that i think of it, we're a pretty attractive population.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:48 PM
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Nah, i think most men my age look fine. Maybe 30% are straight up unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:27 PM
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You're not weird, just human. The idea that men are sex machines is damaging to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:46 PM
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The only focus on women in the movie happened to be sex scenes which was kinda distasteful but whatever. I liked the movie, and am looking forward to seeing barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:43 PM
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Not necessarily, i like penetration more even though i can't finish from it. But that varies from woman to woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:16 PM
1

Sounds right. None of my female friends can but most have lied about it, which explains the males commenting "not in my experience" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:13 PM
1

My dad was happy when i started dating since i used to hole myself up in my room with the computer for most of my teen years. I was starting to get maladjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:10 PM
2

Men on their level want to cheat they just can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:01 PM
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I think it's a valid thing to ask your partner, as long as you arent being hypocritical by looking at slutty instagram models or staring at those kinds of women in real life. If your woman is modest, don't give your attention to other women who aren't. Why should she be deprived of getting attention from other men if her own man is doing the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:14 PM
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6-7 now, 8-9 when he was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:10 AM
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No one lives life without hardships and obstacles. If the only thing you count as an obstacle is lack of sex then yeah woman easy mode i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:22 AM
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I've been told i look like Alicent from house of dragons, i can see it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:14 AM
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I think that's unrealistic but i've always made sure to hug and kiss goodnight, even just a quick peck when you're mad at eachother lol. Just to show that at the end of the day we still love eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:06 AM
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Not a turn off, they're attractive. My man has only recently started looking "rugged" but he was just as fine when he was more cutesy looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:01 AM
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Mine is like this too, male moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:59 AM
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Anti porn/kink is not the same as anti sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:56 AM
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The women back in the day were on barbituates and valium and alcohol, not much better than antidepressants. Humans will always be miserable creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:18 PM
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So what? They'd clearly rather be alone than compromising on their needs for a partner, that's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:18 PM
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As she should be. When you choose to spend your life with another person it kinda sucks if you aren't besties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:17 PM
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But i fell in love with him, not the hypothetical perfect version of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:16 AM
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Nah, flaws are what make us human. I have flaws too, i wouldn't want to be with a perfect specimen. He wouldn't be the same person without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:29 AM
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They're both cucking eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:29 PM
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Yes they do?? Where do you get this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:32 PM
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90% of them are undesireable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:53 PM
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Men. I'm not an actual slut but men sure like to call women sluts and whores when they get their feelings hurt, women don't usually do that unless they know that the woman has a reputation of being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:13 PM
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The subset of women is small too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:44 PM
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That's silly, they can consent obviously. People thinking it's gross is understandable but women in their 20s are grown and able to make that desicion for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:24 AM
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I think women would just take the lead in the sex offender statistics. No one would follow that law.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:21 AM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/08/well/live/female-male-surgeon.html this article goes into it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:54 PM
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By practicing medicine i meant being doctors. Female surgeons have lower complication and mortality rates etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:29 PM
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I didn't say it was good i just said women are better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:28 PM
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I think my peripheral vision is good but idk how mens vision is so i have nothing to compare it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:02 PM
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staying off the sex offender registry, surviving suicide attempts, hygiene, empathy, hyper-endurance based sports, flexibility, surviving famines, making women cum, remembering their childrens birthdays, practicing medicine, driving, being attracted to people their own age... just off the top of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:52 PM
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This is true, most men have some degree of madonna whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:59 AM
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Women know that but when WE say it you guys go "not all men" and "misandry"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:54 AM
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No, they're just female.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:19 AM
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In the case that he didn't want the kid yeah but many deadbeat fathers actively chose parenthood but changed their mind when it got hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:54 PM
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Why build a family with someone who could throw you away for a younger model, or lose attraction to you for aging and ruining your body making his kids? At least in the corporation you gain more value with age, get paid and have protections against unjust treatment. Betting your future on a man is very risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:51 AM
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And they're all convinced their bf truly sees them as a non binary creature instead of a quirky woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:04 AM
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The incel, as long as he's just a regular guy who can't get laid. If he's a misogynist coomer like most incels i'd marry the micropenis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:43 PM
1

Same here sister 😔✊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:58 PM
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Oh it can absolutely happen when you lose weight too. My boobs and butt have shrunk after losing 20 kg but my hip to waist ratio is a lot nicer so it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:19 AM
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Bruh how many transwomen do you think are posting on fucking PPD lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:19 AM
2

Dating my best friend in middle school, ruined a good friendship when we inevitably broke up a month later cause i wasnt into him but dated him to be nice. Other than that i've been pretty lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:23 AM
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Fake tan does smell weird, but she would have to have been using it several times a week for the smell to be constant and then she'd be orange as hell. Strange stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:08 PM
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Most? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:02 PM
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I turned my man into a weeb. Great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:33 AM
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There are way too few consenting prostitutes for that to work. Is the entire male population gonna share the 10% of an already tiny minority of women, that actually want this "job"? Or do we resort to sex trafficking as usual because pimps making money is more important than womens wellbeing..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:58 AM
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How will worldwide prostitutes be provided? 90% of current prostitutes don't even wanna be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:40 AM
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And people wonder why women don't wanna get married anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:30 AM
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Women can be misogynists too, no one should watch that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:24 AM
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I really don't think the ratio would be that different even if more female predators were caught. Women largely don't have a natural inclination towards raping people. Most male sex criminals never get caught and charged either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:19 PM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:13 PM
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A handful of times a year maybe, and those are mostly customers at work since i don't really meet strange men otherwise and i'm from a very socially reserved country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:36 PM
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Same as women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:39 PM
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Lame and stupid opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:01 PM
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Men and women aren't that different either. If women can control their hypergamy desire in relationships so can men control their polygamy desire. Most people, men and women, simply don't want to though. But it's still gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:50 PM
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It's slutty for women to indulge in sexual behaviours but when men do it every single day that's fine and dandy? I think both are gross and unacceptable in a relationship. Women's drive to attract handsome men and feel sexually validated is huge too but most women don't advertise themselves to chads while in a relationship at the same level as men lusting after everyone but their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:27 PM
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As often as the average couple does it, 2-3x a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:23 PM
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No, but ended up in a serious relationship anyways. I originally only wanted a FWB situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:27 PM
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Yes it is. Women get off on being desired, men get off on desireable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:26 PM
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No reason to feel shame over liking natural healthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:22 AM
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They have a turbulent but loving marriage, and i wished many times during my childhood that they would divorce, But even still, they didn't turn me off from marriage, i'm engaged to my sweetheart and determined to do better than them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:12 AM
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That's usually a response to men accepting all kinds of bullshit and toxicity as long as the woman is hot. So raise your standards on personality and lower them on looks. Same advice women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:54 PM
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I've had the exact same experience. I swore i was asexual when i was single because sex just didn't interest me at all, but then i fell in love and now i'm the one who's simping while he's got a headache lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:37 PM
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I work at a university so i see young couples all the time, usually looksmatched, and if not, the woman is more often the attractive one. I also am a young woman of average attractiveness with an average man, same goes for our friends. I think this really has to do with where you live and what you see. You most likely don't pay attention to those who don't catch your eye, aka average people and below.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:26 PM
1

gave a free lollipop to a little girl at work gave my fiance a sensual massage after helping him with work stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:43 AM
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I've seen this phenomenon more often with men tbh. They love the chase and are very attracted when the woman stays aloof and cold, but get bored when they finally get her and she starts simping for him back. I think a certain subset of men and women are like this, probably due to emotional issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:34 PM
1

2018, i invited my best friend over for movie night that turned into a hookup that turned into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:27 AM
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Most men cant handle a high L woman, especially after the honeymoon phase is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:57 AM
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I would feel sad and jealous, which is why i picked a guy without exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:26 AM
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There are plenty of feminine fashion styles that can be questionable. Shein bbl fashion, rockabilly, lolita etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:24 AM
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I forced myself to be more social and go to parties so that i could flirt with my now fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:58 AM
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Im just saying the vast majority of men have a strong need for sexual variety and cumming to other women than their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:05 PM
3

Maybe he just liked the pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:27 AM
0

It's white people taco night at our house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:25 AM
1

I bet you still watch porn when in a relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:12 AM
1

Have you ever heard of rap music?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:50 AM
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If he wants to feel desired by randoms who want to use his body he can sign up for grindr. Btw im a woman and the only social media dm's i've recieved are ads and bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:28 AM
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It's hypocritical to hate women who do degrading things while at the same time jerking off to it. No one demands you respect them, but the vitriol is uncalled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:29 PM
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Yeah i don't get why thats a thing women need to be "held accountable" for. They're not hurting anyone but their own wallets and sometimes self image.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:01 PM
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Of course they're responsible but they're not the ones hating on their customers for using their content. Men point their finger with one hand and jerk off with the other etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:59 PM
1

Almost every man on the planet is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:30 PM
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You're describing the madonna whore complex though which is very real. Men who don't want to "degrade" their innocent wife with animalistic sex, that's for hoes only. Men not getting hard for their boring wives but will jerk off to hoes all day or has to fantasize about them to cum during sex etc. Women don't want threesomes and anal but they want to feel desired and it's no secret many men prefer variety and novelty and will be more horny for strangers than their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:29 AM
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Incels can already buy prostitutes but many don't because they want to feel desired. The same problem will appear with sex robots, how validating is it to have sex with something that's only there because it's programmed to fuck you cause you paid for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:52 PM
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Why does it bother you lol, isn't it good that all kinds of people find love?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:17 AM
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Getting fat is a choice, but a healthy fullblooded man should not lose his boner over fucking stretchmarks or a scar lmao, signifiers of fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:16 AM
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No ones going to be attractive after a baby? Are you straight? A marriage without genuine sexual desire sounds like hell regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:57 AM
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It's cruel to settle down with a woman you don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:38 AM
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Same, i see the appeal but i've never been into those huge mammoth hunter types.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:53 AM
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I don't think the boy toys of famous/rich women care about their past either lmao. Celebrities are a whole other league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:46 PM
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Negative value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:45 PM
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It would depend on how the guy looked honestly. If he was handsome i'd assume he was mocking me, if not i'd be flattered and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:34 AM
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Ew, no. I mean, if the woman is okay with it then sure but most women play the cool girl and say they're fine with it, but secretly feel disgusted and insecure when their man drools over onlyfans thots. It's an intimacy killer. If one woman can't satisfy you, don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:21 AM
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I had a pregnancy scare at 21 and my 21 year old fiance was 100% ready to call the abortion doctor for me if the test was positive, thankfully it wasn't. I think most guys that young would want an abortion, at least in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:13 AM
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I had a pregnancy scare at 21 and my 21 year old fiance was 100% ready to call the abortion doctor for me if the test was positive, thankfully it wasn't. I think most guys that young would want an abortion, at least in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:13 AM
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We didn't have that stuff. We got handed out condoms in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:49 AM
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Tall women usually have gorgeous proportions though. Short women look more "squished" if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:33 PM
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I wasn't talking about bathrooms but internet spaces, which you seem to agree with me on. Trans only spaces are allowed, but cis women only spaces will be banned. The only cis women exclusive spaces on reddit for example is porn subs, because men don't see trans women as real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:49 PM
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There are differences between cis and trans women and we should be allowed to have separate spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:43 PM
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Ew no. And it's by definition putting down someone to call their lifestyle miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:28 PM
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You're delusional. Men can't handle women having their own thing and will ruin it with raids and brigading, even in mens spaces all they talk about is their cocks and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:45 PM
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Where are women allowed to exclude transwomen without being dogpiled and threatened with all kinds of shit? I'd really like to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:42 PM
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You gotta have some godly card playing skills to find a man who will desire you as you age, and not drool over teenagers on pornhub when he has "me-time".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:38 PM
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Nothing women say or do will dissuade men from getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:50 PM
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You really don't need that much fat to be classified as overweight by bmi. A fat ass and boobs on a slim frame is enough. And most men like that. You could say the same about men that have enough muscle to put them into the overweight category too though, that they're attractive to a minority of women. Because most women like men that range from lean to dadbod. Some like huge guys, some like sticks. Most like the middle, and they arent super muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:03 PM
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And from what i've seen it's the opposite. Anectodal claims are fun huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:57 PM
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This is what i've experienced too. To be fair we both gained weight but i gained 10 and he gained 20. I blame it on me being an excellent chef and cooking too big portions to a man who doesn't like to waste food. Doing a weightloss journey together is good bonding though so i don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:54 PM
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Women are supposed to have way more fat than men though, and most of the "bad bitches" with big boobs and ass will be classified as overweight, same as muscular men. I think the amount of curvy women and muscular men is about the same, so the average woman and man are both of the regular chubby variety still.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:48 PM
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I'd want to have kids if i could be a dad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:17 AM
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Taking antidepressants is a good way to handle it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:32 PM
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We kind of are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:36 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:52 PM
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That's understandable then but it is possible to masturbate without porn, and if the libido is so mismatched you have to masturbate many times a week that would be a red flag imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:35 AM
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My height or slightly taller (5'8), decently muscular with a solid layer of fat ontop, hairy, symmetrical, classically beautiful face, large penis, funny and goofy, financially smart, responsible, sociable. One of my favorite traits about my fiance is that he's socially intelligent, he can read the room and adjust his behaviour according to other peoples feelings. I don't have to instruct a grown man into comforting his friends or doing chores or giving me a hug when i'm down, he just knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:08 PM
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Damn i wanna move to where you live then. In my experience, the vast majority of young guys expect their girlfriends to be okay with them jerking it to porn. If not, they're branded as controlling and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:02 PM
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An overwhelming amount of men can identify with rapists which is why they so desperatly try to disparage and delegitimize victims. Rape isn't just a stranger pulling you into a dark alley, it's your boyfriend pleading until you give in, your date feeding you drinks until you reluctantly say yes etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:47 AM
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Yeah genetics play a big role and i'm sure there were a lot of early girls in the olden days that didn't get counted in the statistics. The trend of girls on average starting puberty early i still think is linked to our modern way of living, but there will still be plently of deviations from the norm regardless of lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:44 AM
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Yeah i'm not familiar with the hispanic community my apologies. If a white man is accused of rape with no evidence (evidence can rarely be found regarless of if the rape is legit or not), he will in 90% of cases be found innocent and the woman will be branded as a crazy reputation ruining whore. Rape is basically legal at this point, no wonder women are avoding men en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:40 AM
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Out of the ones that do file reports, the majority of perpetrators are not charged, nevertheless sentenced. Feminists don't have to inflate the rape stats, men do that all on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:30 AM
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I knew 12-14 year olds on contraceptives to treat acne and moodiness. If not for lifestyle idk whats causing early menarche in first world countries. Something in the water, environmental toxins?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:28 AM
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Most women have experienced sexual assault or harrassment, with the fear and trauma that comes with those experiences, i'm guessing that's what she's reffering to. Just maturing from a girl into a woman is mentally damaging, as you go from being a person into being sexual prey pretty much overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:21 AM
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Oh please. There's a reason the majority of rape victims don't file reports, cause it reflects negatively on the woman and the man gets off scott free.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:19 AM
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I think the early menarche trend is largely due to processed food diets and unhealthy lifestyles. I'm european and me and most of my friends didn't hit puberty for real before 14-15 years old. The ones who matured early were sedentary, started on hormonal contraceptives and ate poor diets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:15 AM
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Mentally and financially sure, but bodies? No way. Men look their best in their early 20s, just like women. A full head of hair, tight body full of stamina and sex-drive, youthful and attractive face, it's the peak for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:13 AM
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My fiance, 17-22 (the span of out relationship), he's very turned on by my pleasure and makes me feel like the sexiest woman in the world by not giving attention to porn or social media girls like most men do. I'm the only woman for him and that makes the sex phenomenal. When i feel sexy and appreciated i go all in and he reciprocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:10 AM
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Then you say you didn't do it and walk away scott free like 90% of actual rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:20 PM
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Men already do that though, in public subreddits and forums. At least the facebook groups are invite-only.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:17 PM
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There are also many subreddits where men post pictures and names of women they know and ask what sexual things the commenters would do to them. This stuff never gets taken down cause they all use the fantasy and kink defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:16 PM
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Yes, as much as possible. Especially if it peeks through the top of their tshirt. I like it because i have a thing for scents and body scents are more prominent with hair, and because it's soft to touch and makes a man look more sturdy and strong (ie masculine). I also like body hair on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:49 PM
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Im not but im not skinny either since i like good food and drink more than i like being lean. I'm also too lazy to do structured exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:46 PM
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No, there's a lot. Yeah they can keep up in the honeymoon period but then the coolidge effect sets in and the men would rather jerk off or play video games than fuck every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:34 PM
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Below average? By what metric?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:05 PM
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Hand stuff is sex idc. I usually only orgasm through hand stuff so it ranks pretty high in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:53 PM
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Yes i count everything sexual. Hand stuff, oral, and penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:24 AM
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Then they'd have sentience and demand human rights and you're in the same predicament of them not wanting to fuck you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:57 AM
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I don't think so. Rape is mostly about power, they won't feel powerful raping a piece of plastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:51 AM
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There is not a grain of truth to it. Labia develops during puberty and stays that way unless you get surgery or other medical procedures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:49 AM
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Porn in general is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:32 AM
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Men won't be satisfied with sexbots cause they don't get validation from that. Sexual validation from human women are you guys' lifeblood. I wish sexbots would be enough though, i really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:25 AM
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Of course men would be thrilled, who wouldn't want their prey to offer themselves up on a gold plate? Men will never understand because they never went from being a person to being prey basically overnight. Not to mention that men and women fuction very differently sexually so sexual validation from strangers means jack shit to us, and is a threat subconciously and consciously. On a primal level, a man wanting to fuck you will lead to to the damaging and life threatening burden of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:20 AM
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You think 40+ single women don't get shamed and ridiculed? What planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:12 AM
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Yeah it's young uneducated people that are most likely to divorce lol idk why he thought it was the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:11 AM
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Oh im sorry i thought i responded to your comment that listed lots of specific things, in which i don't do. I do use the internet and take the bus sometimes, you got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:06 PM
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Noo he's not like other boys 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:04 PM
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I do none of those things lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:47 AM
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Been together for 4.5 years, very happy, he's my best friend and lover. Can't imagine life without him. I'm very glad i found a well adjusted gentleman and didn't have to do modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:11 PM
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Male sexuality is honestly demonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:08 PM
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For some peculiar reason i suspect the women who claim casual sex is empowering are also the ones in favor of "sex work" and using those services. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:05 PM
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They're still penetrating someone who doesn't want them, and the body and psyche subconciously reacts to that the same way it reacts to "traditional" rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:02 PM
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Even with legal prostitution the demand far outweighs the supply so exploitation and sex trafficking will still make up a significant amount of prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:56 PM
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What does onlyfans have to do with getting women? Lots of sexually successful men are huge coomers with porn addictions. Most young men in general have a porn problem tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:42 PM
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That's such a lame reasoning. First off he's lying because men by large don't give a fuck about ethics if it gets their dick hard, and second, he should just abstain from porn as a whole if he actually cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:37 PM
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4k videos of every fetish imaginable and a constant roster of various women has nothing to do with natural sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:31 PM
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Both are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:18 PM
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Why would feminists support antifeminist women? Do you hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:16 PM
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Feminism has nothing to do with validating womens individual choices. Feminism is liberation from male oppression and women will get criticized for partaking in behaviours that hinder that, such as prostitution. Choice feminism is a cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:14 PM
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You sound unattractive. Most women have sex due to feeling horny for their partner. Sorry you never experienced that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:12 PM
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She already said it's a mismatch in sexual values.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:20 PM
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Nah they call you a controlling nazi prude now if you don't want a romantic partner to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:35 PM
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This. I have a friend who is a self described coomer, and he's extremely critical of womens looks. If they don't look like a retouched OF babe or a hentai girl he don't want them. And he's not exactly good looking himself. The same can be said about some of my female friends who are hyperfixated on fictional men or celebrities and think all other men are uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:33 PM
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There is nothing natural or healthy about porn. Sex and masturbation sure but not porn. And please don't come at me with "porn has always existed caveman boob drawings!!" it's not the same and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:30 PM
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Not to spout an old mantra but: have you ever been outside? Tons of women pick dadbod guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:28 PM
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I've been sleeping with the same dude since i was 17-18, we're the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:25 PM
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This is the real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:25 PM
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Exactly my experience too. Everyone from my hick hometown got their license as soon as possible while the brainiac academics in my college town have barely touched a steering wheel. I'm an outlier though as i'm pretty dumb but no license.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:13 PM
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Whatever you say american.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:53 PM
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Just budget and live within your means. Most families are not rich and consist of parents that have similar ages, and they make it work with their salaries. Or move to a first world country idk. Having kids in america sounds like hell if your only options are poverty or procreating with an old dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:47 PM
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That's just not true. Maybe in some countries but not Europe as a whole. It's way too diverse to make such a bold claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:45 PM
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Which european country are you basing your claims on exactly? Rich soccer players and celebrities can whore around as much as they want in all countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:14 PM
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As with most families both parents would have jobs that give them money in exchange for labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:12 PM
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old guys and drunk fratboys, probably because i'm mid and shy-looking and in their minds an easier target for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:06 PM
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Europe is an entire continent dude. I promise you that polygamy is not socially acceptable in my eu country or the neighboring countries. Women here are also aware of redpill, PUA and incels and steer away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:57 PM
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Your last paragraph hits the nail on the head. If these men really are as family oriented as they claim they should reproduce with a likeminded woman their own age, while still young and fit. Yes men can have kids old but they really shouldn't if they care about their offspring. I think the family thing is just an excuse, the real reason they go for young women as old men is purely because they look prettier, and are more easily impressed and influenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:53 PM
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Nah, girls are forced to grow up before boys and mature slightly quicker physically, but not mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:36 PM
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Your age divided by 2 plus 7 is the lowest age you can date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:25 PM
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The same reason an average woman is supposed to be happy a guy picked her when he's still fantasizing about stacies during sex and watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:31 AM
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No, im not talking about weight but body composition and proportions. Some women have a very weak hip to waist ratio and are literally bullt like brick houses, or rulers if thin. I don't think you tomboy lovers are into that. Yall just want a classically feminine hourglass woman with short hair and masculine interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:56 AM
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Yep, most men are shitty parents compared to mothers to begin with but the Muh Legacy kind are just bottom of the barrel. They really think being a father is just jizzing, assigning their name on the kid and maybe reluctantly participating in some kodak moments. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:40 AM
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Most of us have risen above base animal instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:38 AM
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It's completely valid to be terrified of pregnancy and childbirth but still want kids. Do you know how much irreversible damage is done to womens bodies because of pregnancy and birth? It's horrifying. I want children in the future myself but i find surrogacy immoral so unless artificial wombs are perfected in 10 years im staying childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:32 AM
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Yall tomboy appreciators don't actually like women built as brick houses. They still gotta have that hip to waist ratio right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:16 AM
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No. I don't like the limitations and suffering that comes with my female body but i would never want to be a male, ruled by his testosterone and penis, getting clinically depressed because no pussy. I'd rather keep my period and mental sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:15 AM
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The secret to a great meal is a womans touch!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:13 AM
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It's harder to develop a sense of humor and charisma when everyone already pretends to like you to get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:12 AM
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Fair, but i wonder if this is more of a male phenomenon. In my experience women don't crave more depraved things in bed as the relationship progresses, provided they're with a man they're actually attracted to. They may fantasize about sleeping with different men but are satisfied with the same old sex with the same old man as long as they get off and the man stays attractive. It seems to be men who crave this constant variation and excitement, which they achieve by neglecting their boring old p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:07 AM
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I agree that sex toys should be used in moderation and if it causes problems in regards to sex with a partner one should abstain, this goes for both genders. My issue with porn however is that in addition to decreasing sensitivity and appetite for a partner, it also supports a very abusive industry. Sex toys don't cause vulnerable women to be trafficked and addicted to drugs to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:03 AM
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Sure. Aint nothing wrong with embracing the hair mother nature gave us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:01 AM
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Nah they get clowned on, just like you're attempting to do now. I know men have testosterone but some of them use it on willing partners or nudes or their imagination lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:02 AM
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Lmao okay sure. Just keep supporting a disgusting industry and feeling good about it because it adds something (what, exactly?) to your sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:37 AM
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No one knows i'm porn negative and they admit to not watching porn while hanging out with our quite sex positive friend group. It's really cute that you cant wrap your mind around men not being a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:35 AM
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I unironically think so yeah. Most kinksters are ugly or weird and overcompensating for lacking natural, healthy attraction,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:34 AM
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Porn is getting off to other people while stimulating yourself, sex toys just stimulate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:33 AM
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I also have anecdotal evidence, i have two platonic male friends in long term relationships who don't use pornography when committed to someone and they have no reason to lie to me, because i'm not a romantic prospect to them and they're already in relationships. I also have a fiance that quit many years ago, who i spend the vast majority of time with and have all his passwords, no traces of porn except titty mods on skyrim lol. He also thinks i would be accepting of porn usage so again, no reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:39 PM
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You're literally just projecting. Yes, the majority of men watch pornography but many don't. Sorry you cant imagine being a man who doesn't need porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:34 PM
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People with actual high sex drives can masturbate to their imaginations just fine. If you need porn to get off you're not as horny as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:32 PM
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Sex toys are not comparable to porn what so ever. I agree on the first point though, porn consuming women have no business condemning others for doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:31 PM
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This is completely valid. I feel the same way as you even though i'm technically in my prime and all that. Porn is damaging and watching it makes you complicit in trafficking and exploitation of very vulnerable individuals. Porn-free men do exist, and it's worth it to be single instead of settling for a coomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:29 PM
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I completely agree with you. The reason men are fine with their partners watching porn is because they do it too, and because their partners arent leaving their porn preferences out in the open (preferences that are the opposite of their man), and don't use it instead of sex. I think a huge amount of men would rather jerk off to pornstars to get their variety fix rather than have sex with the boring old wife, which hurts deeply for women. You've also got to consider that looks and youth are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:25 PM
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Don't you see how your statement confirms that men largely don't see women as equals? We didnt have rights for thousands of years but because we bitched and moaned about it and threatened to stop fucking you and providing maid services, and the men in power saw the potential in us as taxpayers, they graciously granted us the same rights as men. It wasn't because of some respect for womankind, it was purely economical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:17 PM
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They really don't. Look at any comment section where a woman is doing literally anything, or just the number of men regularly watching rape on tape/porn (96%) and indirectly contributing to human trafficking and consuming women as sex products. Men may do performative feminism in order to get pussy but idk if that would count as advocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:13 PM
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Cardi B didnt rape anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:30 PM
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Do you perform this whataboutism when people talk about men killing themselves or working dangerous jobs too? Or is it just to own da wimminz.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:30 PM
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you're rambling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:27 PM
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the rainbow hairs are libfems. radfems don't support costly and time wasting beauty products.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:26 PM
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there are plenty of vile comments on news articles about it too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:22 PM
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reported rapes are low. over 90% of rapes are never reported because it's near impossible to get someone convicted for it and they just end up retraumatizing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:22 PM
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For me it seems pretty equal. Most people are matched up with partners on their level, then there are some people who date partners more attractive than themselves of both genders. Usually those less attractive partners seem to "make up" for it in charisma and humor. I work at a shop at a university so i get a pretty good view on young peoples relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:18 PM
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It's an annoying meme because those old grumpy men are usually anything but good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:26 AM
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If you don't have standards that companion can quickly become a net negative in your life. If you're dating to settle down with someone you need to be picky!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:12 AM
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Same thing happened with us and ever since we had that drunken hookup he's been the hottest man on earth to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:13 PM
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Your sample size is women on dating apps not women in general though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:54 AM
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Yeah and that sounds good how? If she ghosted those dudes she obviously didn't like them. At least the dude in your scenario got into long term relationships, which are rarely formed unless the people love eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:35 PM
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You can't compare it like that since the woman would likely be much happier with 2 sincere relationships than 6 one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:23 PM
0

This is the case for teens of both genders in my experience. I'm not a teenager but it's not many years since i was, and i wouldn't say the majority were shut-ins, but maybe 1/3 of my hs class rarely saw the light of day outside of school, and the gender divide was pretty even. I'll say, even the normal/popular people were less charismatic and socially skilled than their older counterparts so i do think those skills are getting worse with every generation, this i blame on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:16 AM
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I can dismiss the male suicide rate with shit like "we do not live in a culture that discourages mental health for men just book a therapy appointment" and "i thought men were supposed to be strong" too but i won't cause im not educated on the subject (and i don't believe in those points), same as you on these feminist issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:54 PM
2

Feminists get made fun of for talking about rape culture and sexualization of women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:45 PM
2

Yes they would. Have you ever seen a sjw/feminist triggered compilation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:19 PM
4

Yes, immoral. Yes you technically have no obligation to help other people be loyal but you're still knowingly contributing to massive suffering for another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:13 PM
1

Why not? Some people like to crochet or play video games to relax, others like arguing on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:13 PM
5

The female user base on this sub skews older than the male, and older people tend to be more accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:36 AM
1

Not the one you replied to but based on who my friends date, it's pretty varied. Most of us are in relationships and the guys range from balding short guys to tall chubby nerds to charismatic trans men. The relationships seem happy and healthy, and imo we're all dating our looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:18 AM
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There is a middle ground between virgin and promiscuous though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:10 PM
1

He doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:33 AM
1

They all say that then when it happens after a while it's "sorry babe i have a headache"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:14 AM
5

It's easy for them to have this opinion when it'll never be reality for them. If they actually were hit on by multiple huge gay men a week the tone would change real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:00 AM
5

I'd rather you guys be hypergamous then ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:59 AM
1

All interactions involve something being exchanged, and in healthy sexual relations sex is just being exchanged for sex, because there is mutual desire. I still think it's extremely reductive to compare everyday relations where sex is involved to a transaction between a customer and a prostitute who is only servicing you to get paid. It's like saying that hanging out with your friend who's a good listener is the lite version of going to a psychiatrist but you're paying your friend in time and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:54 AM
3

With that logic you can call all interactions prostitution lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:52 PM
4

Objectively it is not. Prostitution is buying sexual access to a woman who does not desire you. Casual sex or dating is two people who want to fuck eachother, and hang out with each other, and will maybe even fall in love and build a life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:01 PM
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It's legal in germany and tons of women are trafficked from third world counties since german women don't want to prostitute themselves. It's not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:45 AM
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It makes sense that men who think consent can be bought, also have skewed perspectives on consent in "normal" situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:37 AM
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If you think prostitution is the short version of a relationship i really wonder what the fuck you're doing in your relationships, and i pity your exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:36 AM
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He literally has to pay to be with her, he has to pay for her "consent". Consent under duress i might add (90% of prostitutes are trafficked, substance addicted, without citizenship and/or mentally traumatized).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:34 AM
3

Try arguing without getting emotional next time lol. What is your evidence of these violent, genocidal feminist extremists that society praises? Society praises bullshit "feminism" like hoe culture and pay gaps so that we can ignore real issues like the deep seated resentment and superiority complex men have towards women. And if that's the "feminism" you're referring to, it's been supported a few decades, while misogyny and women being second class citizens have been the norm forever. Men don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:36 AM
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Funny how when women talk about social issues it's moaning and crying but when men do it it's rational discussion. You guys are just as bad. At least "misandrists" don't kill, rape, and spew genocide and pedophile ideology towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:09 AM
3

Yeah even small amounts of pressure can lead to brain damage, it's insane how normalized it has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:12 AM
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I don't like it in a partner because i've yet to date a man who could match my sex drive. If i found out he was jacking off while i was horny and available (which i am almost always) i would see red. And it's distasteful to not have the decency and self control to abstain from cumming for a few days if i were sick or away. At least jerk it to my pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:37 PM
1

The daughters of these insane mothers don't turn out to be serial killers though so maybe they should just not have sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:58 PM
1

Women don't need men on a personal level (neither do men but they seem to have a much stronger want for women), but on a collective/ssocietal level we all need each other, obviously. Every man and woman (or most men and women) do their part towards the collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:57 PM
1

true they just have depression and higher chances of cardiovascular and neurological disease
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:00 PM
2

perms are really bad for the hair and most women don't have the time for daily blowdry hairstyles and intricate washing/styling routines
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:57 AM
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Womanhood = being an adult human female. Typical femininity = being compassionate, caring about hygiene, status, details, appearances. Social butterfly. People pleaser. Projecting negative emotions inwards instead of outwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:04 PM
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They appreciate the utility and comfort femininity brings them, but can you truly say that men as a group respect and view women as complete humans the way they do other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:56 PM
3

Hope is always good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:46 PM
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Men need to stop viewing womanhood and typical femininity as inherently degrading and inferior to manhood and masculinity, but i fear this mindset is ingrained in the y chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:42 PM
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It's also because femininity has become a degrading thing. It's associated with being stupid, vain, a sex object etc so many women distance themselves from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:29 AM
1

Childish mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:26 AM
2

what is a sundress even? most dresses can be worn in the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:04 PM
7

Not to mention that prostitutes were (and are) very popular amongst those super monogamous married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:35 PM
3

Healthy women tend to prefer men around their own age. Deviations occur but most women who like significantly older men have some kind of trauma or issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:27 PM
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Lol im not trynna do anything about it i'll just look down on you and pity your kids like the rest of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:26 PM
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It still works but it's significantly lower quality than a 20 year old's sperm, plus, your setting your child up to be your caretaker when they're young adults which is just sad. Some women can get pregnant well into their 40s, does that mean they should?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:30 AM
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If a man in his 40s wants to have children he should have thought about that earlier. Should have done that when his sperm quality was still great. It's selfish to become an old parent even though you technically can and i say that as someone whose parents had me in their late 30s. And i can't really see a situation where a woman in her 20s would want to procreate with a man that could be her father in age unless she was mentally ill/damaged, which also sucks for the potential autismbaby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:35 AM
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Lmao no. There are limits to what one does for love. Besides, if my partner really loved me he wouldnt want me to do depraved things i wasn't comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:46 PM
1

Eh i think that varies greatly. Some people (like me) are vanilla by nature but when the attraction is strong i'm willing to try new things (within reason) if my partner wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:09 PM
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Oof no. Most women who are into their partners (important) want regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:42 PM
3

Just date someone who changes their niche every year like me uwu.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:01 AM
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It's not a coincidence that males of the vast majority of species, including humans, do the pursuing. Males need to persuade a woman into bearing his offspring, women can find a dick in seconds. Women build communities and create offspring, men compete to be a part of that, usually via force or, in newer times, economics and social policies (which could only be enforced because men are physically stronger and women have a terminal case of empathy, projection and understanding wrt social issues).…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:06 PM
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Yes, men do need women. The entire point of males is to compete for pussy or die trying. Entire civilizations have been built around granting subpar men access to women, that's the entire reason most men nowadays get no play and spend their days whining on reddit. Blame your ancestors for enforcing incel affirmative action programs for centuries. Male psychology and relationships with women stem from envy and self hatred. They hate that they need women. They can never be free and actualized indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:57 PM
2

Dementia videos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:28 PM
1

yeah men view women as sex toys aka it isnt validating that they want to fuck us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:24 PM
1

true dat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:27 PM
2

men have no purpose beyond cumming, it's not weird that they make it life-consuming. entire civilizations have been built around granting subpar men the right to breed ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:25 PM
2

well duh why would we be into someone who didn't like us back? most of womens sexuality is about feeling desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:34 AM
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you just gotta do it like me and turn the FWB into a husband. problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:31 AM
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that's because female-attracted women are into women, not displays of femininity. butches are popular because they're authentic and usually confident, and most importantly because they're women. most men aren't supposed to be attractive, yall are just here because your ancestors enforced state funded incel relief programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:29 AM
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That desireability doesn't feel like much when men find a wet hole in the ground desireable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:48 AM
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I know that men have a much higher libido than women due to testosterone. In fact, i have a higher than average level of testosterone for a woman while my fiance has low test for a man, so i can definitely relate to what you're saying. Your excuse to mens cheating is that they're hornier, but if their wife fucks them whenever they want (100% sexually satisfied), the only reason for them to cheat is simply wanting "new" pussy or being a scumbag. My comments were about male and female cheating bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:39 PM
2

Explain to me then how a 100% sexually satisfied man still wants to fuck other people. Is it just greed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:18 PM
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It doesn't matter how smart you are, if your only exposure to women are whores and servants (mommy) it's gonna warp you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:56 AM
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They're still learning how to have sex, how to view and treat women, and it ain't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:53 AM
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If the man was completely satisfied with his partner he wouldn't fuck other women. Even if the thing he's missing is "just" new pussy that's still very hurtful to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:47 PM
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Yeah, it also tells her she doesn't sexually satisfy him which is a huge blow to the self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:45 PM
4

Men have no problem beta buxxing as long as they get to do it with a stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:23 PM
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body dysmorphia for women isn't helped by men wanting to fuck us, men would fuck a watermelon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:39 PM
2

they're most attracted to a certain type they ignore their wives to jerk off to though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:37 PM
4

Projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:05 AM
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1, my fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:30 AM
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On the contrary, my antiporn views stem mostly from feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:54 PM
3

No, pure monogamy as in no sexual gratification from other women, including porn women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:54 PM
1

Maybe, but men also claim that they need variety to be satisfied, though certain types of men seem to be happy with pure monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:28 PM
1

Yeah, he probably wishes my libido could be slightly lower even.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:22 PM
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This. Im so happy i found a legit pornfree man who doesn't disrespect me by wanking to other women and thirsting over them etc. If he turns into a coomer i'm staying single cause i don't think i'll ever find another one like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:10 AM
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Straight women are into men but we don't like seeing softcore porn all the time or even any of the time. Attraction to men is much more about "vibes", smell, conversation, touch etc than looking good, so of course looking at pictures of hot guys is unstimulating. Seeing a man i liked having a feed full of IG models would make me depressed lol. Men and women are very different in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:39 AM
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my bad, it's only 81% of violent crime and 98% of homicides https://open.lib.umn.edu/socialproblems/chapter/8-3-who-commits-crime/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:04 PM
1

sexual empowerment isnt a thing aside from maybe fucking your way to a better career or wealth but even that is debatable as it usually lowers status. empowering doesn't mean "makes me feel good" it means something that actually grants you tangible power
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:51 PM
1

that and the whole concept of menstrual cycles, pregnancy and birth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:38 PM
2

hate fucking is such a male concept
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:32 PM
1

This is why i refuse to upgrade from my iphone 8 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:01 AM
2

98% of violent criminals are still men though so women posting a bit of manhate doesn't mean shit really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:00 AM
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The difference is that radicalized women just stay away from men and hang out with each other, radicalized men are a whole other, more dangerous thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:59 AM
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Assuming you'd be hot enough and have low enough self respect for that, which most women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:41 AM
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If there is love and attraction they're winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:31 AM
2

Yeah it does cause men get off on seeing women, women get off on being desired. It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:44 PM
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Nah it's depending on men not actively hurting us. We dont need protection unless men are violent. The predator protecting the prey from his brothers lol great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:38 PM
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Men should be wary of low self esteem in women if they want a healthy sex life and a woman who's secure in her attachment to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:44 AM
2

I feel the same way but i only want to please someone i care about, and i don't see myself caring about a casual sex partner, in that case it isn't casual anymore. So comparing casual sex to masturbation, masturbation still wins. Sex in a relationship is on top though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:50 AM
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Yep, it's unnatural and exhausting for 2 people (or really, the mother) to take care of and raise children all by themselves while also working to support the family and keep everything else in order. It's no wonder people are opting out and getting pets instead. At least your dog wont turn into an incel or a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:22 AM
0

Ok? Doesn't that just answer your question then? Why make a whole post about it if the article is so straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:59 PM
1

It's not "expectations" it's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:58 PM
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Most rape happens in established relationships aka way past the point of approaching so idk how women approaching would make anything easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:17 PM
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It's not only cultural, it's also men wanting women more than vice versa. Women don't desire men enough to go through the discomfort and anxiety of approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:16 PM
5

YOU literally posted a source that says women are less promiscuous than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:32 PM
5

The people who fuck the most are people in relationships/marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:31 PM
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Why do men do 90% of pursuing, and even pay for sex/sexual material if they dont have a significantly higher libido? If both genders were equally interested in sex the world would be a fuckfest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:25 PM
2

you dont need to do either if you just settle for your looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:16 AM
1

I don't like going out without my fiance and on the rare occasions i do, i don't get hit on. I dress like an art teacher or a teenage boy and i'm a little ugly. I would probably enjoy getting attention like that but it doesn't happen to me. So, going out is purely about getting drunk and talking to friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:18 PM
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Those meme betas are probably happier than mr trad whos working 80 hours to support 4 kids and a wife who doesn't have the time, health and energy to fuck him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:16 PM
2

For my social group it's pretty much 50/50 on how the couples met. Us and another couple met through school, one couple met at a party and the other two through dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:52 AM
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Yeah why wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:08 AM
9

Thought the sub was called arsonafterinfidelity first and that made perfect sense actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:47 AM
1

3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:48 AM
11

install grindr and find an old thirsty guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:37 PM
3

Agreed. Sex is the highest form of intimacy which is why i disapprove of both infidelity and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:09 PM
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i think they cant get horny with just eachother so they need kink or other people to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:52 AM
1

Finishing male puberty makes you a man. That's it.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 12:57 PM
1

d), from my man. I get compliments from friends and family if i've achieved something or put extra effort into my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:03 AM
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We didn't go on proper dates until after we had sex and committed to eachother, and we were both pretty broke so we split the costs. Then we moved in together and we pay 50/50 on the rent, he pays for insurance and internet bills and i pay for most of the groceries. I make more money than him since he's a student and i do the cooking so prefer getting groceries myself. I definitely save money by being in a relationship with him. I wouldn't be able to live on my own without splitting the rent, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:58 AM
1

I trim the hair on my mans back 😎 Granted, we're both 22. I would never trim old man hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:12 AM
1

Decent but goofy looking. 4-6 depending on ones preferences. I like stocky cute-faced dudes so he's a 4 to me. But tons of women are into the whole lanky goofy adam driver-esque look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:45 PM
1

It is in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:29 PM
1

I'm 21 and engaged to a shorty 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:19 PM
2

Not her but my man is 5'9, same height as me. It's not short by american standards but it is in my country. My highschool crushes were both 5'6. I've got a thing for compact dudes. I dont think my taste is that unique as most shorties i know have no more dating woes than my taller friends. Ugly short dudes struggle more than ugly tall ones though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:11 PM
4

Hate crimes? Call me when the rate of female-on-male violence even starts to approach the reverse number, nevertheless radical feminist violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:53 AM
4

Misandry doesn't exist, in the same way racism against white people doesn't exist. Women who hate men don't hurt and oppress them, they just avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:50 AM
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They like it because they have been conditioned to find body hair gross. No one shaved "for comfort" before the razor companies started to push it, and before hairless women became the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:40 AM
1

Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:52 PM
1

This is the one. I don't find taken guys more attractive but i feel comfortable being nice and polite to them because they're less likely to take it as a sex invitation. But apparently they still interpret it as flirtation, single or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:27 AM
1

Hey one percent of one million eggs is still 10000 eggs. You only need one 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:26 PM
3

Fine, you still did say the brain isnt involved when men jack off which is blatantly false. The equivalences to hunger don't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:16 PM
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Nah cause you said the brain isn't involved when jerking off to porn. Using your tounge while eating would be the equivalent of using your genitals when masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:35 PM
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Same thing in reverse. A guy who watches insta baddies has no right to be upset that his gf posts pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:25 AM
2

Good man. This is me and my partner's stance on it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:24 AM
1

If the brain isn't involved why do you need to feed it with videos of women? If you're actually horny and not just having a craving for an orgasm you can jack it without supporting human trafficking and abuse. Same as hunger, if you're truly hungry you don't need a special super high calorie meal to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:17 AM
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It feels disgusting when a man has to use videos of other (actually desireable) women to get horny and then use you as a cum depository afterwards. Makes you feel unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:16 AM
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Yeah, based on solely the penis. If all things between two men were equal except for the penis i'd prefer the large guy. But sex is much more than a penis for me. I'd much rather have someone who was a passionate lover who liked to eat coochie over a big dicked guy who uses that as his only playing card. Sexually settling for me would mean being with a guy who is selfish in bed, prefers porn over me, doesn't make me feel desireable etc. The penis doesn't enter the equation much besides being nic…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:11 PM
2

Yeah no. I fantasize about my man because i love him even though most people would call him average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:14 PM
3

Doesn't matter what it is. I think the reason many women dislike bisexual men is because they're assumed to be (and often are) very promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:58 AM
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That's because those insults hurt. Men base their ego on sexual success so of course that's the main attack point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:14 PM
1

Which is why they used to kill themselves or be killed before state enforced waifu distribution became a thing. That's unnatural, letting all kinds of people breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:09 PM
1

Oh, you must be american. Nvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:07 PM
2

That really says something though considering most men have to go out their way to cheat while women get dick offers left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:49 PM
1

The most natural thing in the world is low value dick being dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:42 PM
1

Why do you think splitting bills is stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:41 PM
3

I've never been cold approached and if it happened and i were single i would probably accept getting their number to be polite and then block them afterwards. I don't trust strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:01 PM
18

Sadly many guys view it as prideful to hurt a woman with their penis. Pornsick. They get offended if you say they have the perfect size cause it doesn't hurt.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 12:52 PM
7

For me, i like a big penis and will compliment it accordingly. It doesn't matter to me orgasm-wise though since i need clitoral stimulation for that so the statement is true. If i was with someone with a smaller one i'd still compliment it but not in a fake way "you feel so good" vs "you're so big (lie)".
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 12:51 PM
4

How would you know how female friendship dynamics work? You sound like you only hang out with/notice superficial "stacies" if you think all women do is gossip, eat hot chip and lie. You're right i would call a male friend for help moving cause they're stronger, but if i needed a place to sleep, a ride, or emotional advice i'd call a woman. I currently have a friend living at my place as we speak lol kinda funny example. I don't think either gender has deeper or more shallow friendships, but wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:44 PM
9

This is flat out wrong. Men use their girlfriend as an emotional tampon while just doing superficial things with their bros. Women enjoy being single because their emotional needs are met via their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:07 AM
3

When he desperately wants to cheat on you but he cant 😍 You're marketing men pretty badly here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:23 AM
1

If you had experienced it you'd know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:06 AM
1

One of the free guys is a short twink and girls went crazy over him. He was my fave too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:04 AM
2

Look at the deadbedroom sub, tons of women begging their husbands for dick but they choose porn over sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:10 AM
3

What if you had the choice between 1 hot woman who loves you and 5 hot women who like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:22 PM
3

Damn that type of relationship would ruin me. It's good you found something that works for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:21 PM
2

I hope thats true 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:59 PM
4

I said for men who DON'T want kids. Why would they give a shit about muh fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:43 PM
5

Why do you feel bad for them? It's a simple, painless procedure for those who don't want kids. Birth control has all kinds of side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:45 AM
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If we could develop a way to let women have children without having to carry and birth them i'm sure we'd see an increase in babies. My number one reason for not wanting kids is the physical toll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:38 AM
5

You cant apply math to things like what ideology people will believe in. In 20 or 30 years "conservative" and "liberal" may not even be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:28 AM
9

Ideology isn't hereditary lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:26 AM
20

You know why...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:25 AM
3

Maybe initially, but while in a serious relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:38 PM
10

I disagree with this. If my bf got a lot of female attention i would get jealous and insecure, which would make me question the relationship all together. I would be inclined to leave a relationship that negatively affected my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:13 PM
1

No cause our job is straightforward. The work we produce is the same. Hard to compete when we're just cooking and cleaning and hanging out with patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:26 PM
2

Yes. A good mix of couple-friends, childhood friends and gay guys. Those categories usually overlap too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:14 PM
0

Say what you want i lose respect for porn watching guys. The mental image of a dude hunched over in a dark room looking at all sorts of deranged shit while tugging his meat makes me disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:48 PM
2

You really think OF women are the ones who dislike porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:46 PM
1

Inexperienced people gain experience through sex lol. Me and my man were both newbies at sex when we got together and sure it wasn't mindblowing at the start but now 4 years later i can't imagine a better sex partner than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:43 PM
1

It doesn't really matter when you settle down if he's just gonna drool over teenagers and resent you for aging regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:41 PM
2

Young women complain about age gaps and virgin women complain about slut shaming too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:24 PM
2

You can't understand it cause you haven't grown up as a girl, going from an innocent child to a prey animal overnight. Of course it's validating when the prey desires the predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:02 PM
1

The question was about being a sex-object.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:00 PM
0

As if perfectly nice guys don't abandon their kids all the time. Please. It's male nature. And even if they stick around they're not gonna do a fraction of the childcare and work the woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:56 PM
4

"Women are human" isn't dating advice it's just a fact that a lot of guys haven't learned. Viewing women as humans in the same way males are human isn't a way to get laid but a way to lessen social retardation and anger at the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:49 PM
7

Lots of them have posted selfies and not many them are irredemably ugly. I know lots of ugly dudes with gfs or hookups, the difference between them and incels is that they like women and have social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:47 PM
1

1, 22
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:22 AM
9

Well someone's gotta do it. You don't think your wife would rather chill after work too? You think women don't find housework draining? Or would you rather pick up extra hours at your miserable job to fund her being a stay at home wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:30 AM
11

Bruh lots of people think leo and johnny are creepy. Imo it's even creepier when they're famous and rich since the power balance becomes even more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:29 AM
1

It's the same thing for me. If someone is good enough for me to sleep with, they're good enough to be my boyfriend. My long term relationship started as a hookup between two good friends and it's been wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:04 PM
0

Yeah due to raising the next generation and being sick (nearly all medicine is based on male bodies and womens diseases are brushed off with birth control). I understand you're speaking in general terms, but the average man and woman works and pays taxes, then you have the outliers (single mothers who recieve more benefits and rich guys who pay more taxes) that skew the statistics. If a woman doesn't pay taxes that doesn't mean she's just sitting around in her nice house watching tv. She's eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:56 PM
0

No one says "not all women" when a woman does something bad though. Then it's "women are wicked", just look at the amber heard case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:57 AM
2

The Y chromosome is actually dying out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:41 AM
3

How are womens lives easier in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:33 AM
10

Women are also generally built for durability while men are built for strength. Womens bodies respond better to diseases, injury and famine for a reason. If mothers died there would be no next generation, fathers are not so important (survival wise) after cumming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:20 AM
13

That's biological, combined with women being more likely to go to the doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:23 PM
5

I was just responding to the comment about people wanting low-n partners due to insecurities which i agreed with. Being misogynistic and calling people names is bad regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:07 PM
7

It still makes me uncomfortable due to insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:02 PM
12

I'm a woman with a preference for low n-count men, and i agree somewhat with your reasoning. I can admit that i'm insecure and i don't want him to compare me to others, and have memories of fucking other women. It's also a matter of values and lifestyle. I doubt me and a typical manwhore would get along as life partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:11 PM
2

If they thought they deserve one they would be creating femcel movements and pursuing these men on their own. They don't though, these women are happy single. There's a difference between desiring and being entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:04 PM
5

My apologies, I just really wanted to type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:35 PM
8

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:24 PM
2

Again you're talking about hotties when you say "women". Look around you, most couples are looksmatched. Women opt to stay alone because of lower sex drive and their emotional needs already being met by family and friends, not because they only desire chad. Chad may be the only one worth the effort of a relationship though for many of these modern spinsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:45 PM
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Women don't need self improvement to get a man though. Men will fuck anything and shockingly often, committ to anything. To get a handsome, great man then yeah you need to match his level, but many women think the man isn't worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:42 PM
1

True, they never admit it though. They think a slimthick young woman with a beautiful face is average so go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:19 AM
1

Not really. It's a pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:30 PM
2

I think so at least. But I'm a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:23 PM
9

Women and men will never agree on this because generally women don't value being treated as a hole and men don't value being left alone. If you're a casual sex enjoyer then yeah being a woman is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:05 PM
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As an ugly woman you know he's only sleeping with you because you have a wet hole between your legs, not because he's truly attracted to you. The truly attractive women are the ones he imagine while his eyes are closed during sex. You could compare it to a prostitute or sugar baby fucking a customer, would that raise your self esteem? She's doing it cause you have a resource she wants, the same resource all her clients have, not because she desires you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:02 PM
1

Yeah it is. Straight up hoe number.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:10 AM
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If you only count slim, young women as women then yeah that number makes sense. If not, that's absurd. Men will offer casual sex to ugly women but that doesn't make them less ugly, or make them feel desired. If anything it lowers the self esteem even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:16 AM
12

Cringe. Me and my bf did all that when we were teenagers, but being together as adults with goals, money, choices and an actual place to live is much better than frolicking in the fields lmao. And that part about the sex is just creepy. Teenagers don't look like the porn teen category, most are chubby and awkward. You'd cum in a condom in her unaroused vagina without either of you saying a word, and then have a pregnancy scare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:47 PM
2

I think about sex i've had or wish to have with my boyfriend, or i think about nothing if i just want to relieve pressure. When i was single i thought about having sex with crushes or made-up people. But it's also just as common for me to just masturbate while watching some generic tv show or staring at the ceiling. I don't like getting hot and bothered for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:04 PM
1

My mom had two batches of kids. Two between 20-25, and two between 39-41 . Sometimes people get remarried etc and their new partner wants kids. Or they just didnt want kids until a later age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:26 PM
1

Absolutely. It's crazy how marketing can suddenly make natural, biologically desireable traits "disgusting".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:35 PM
2

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:34 PM
2

You'd think it would be very popular considering it's an obvious masculine trait. But societal norms and advertising definitely shapes desires, not just biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:09 PM
1

Depends on when you met, but generally yeah. It's probably wise to wait until you're financially stable and fully mentally developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:16 AM
0

Jesus christ, don't you get tired of this? Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:11 AM
3

IMO posting sexy pictures is the female equivalent of men jerking off to porn. Women get off on being desired, men get off on desireable women. I find both are disrespectful in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:52 AM
5

1/5 of known pregnancies end in miscarriage, and it's estimated it's a lot higher for unknown pregnancies. They often look just like a regular period but a bit heavier. It's extremely normal and most sexually active women have or will experience miscarriage whether they know it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:48 AM
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Agreed! Healthy weight too, and preferably lots of body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:43 AM
4

I'm not in my 30s but I'll chime in and say that in my relationship, i'm the one with the higher libido. And his isn't low either, just average. Anectodal though, and i agree with you on a general basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:39 PM
1

Good looking ≠ attractive. There are tons of reasons to reject someone that have nothing to do with how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:03 PM
6

They're at worst average looking. All three of them have symmetric, pleasing faces, and the added attractiveness is their image and vibe. Physical beauty may be objective, but attraction isn't. You can say someone isn't handsome but to say they aren't attractive when tons of women are attracted to them is blatantly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:01 PM
1

If the LTR didn't work out what makes you assume a marriage with the same man would work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:40 AM
1

If the LTR didn't work out what makes you assume a marriage with the same man would work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:39 AM
2

they do it as a joke here too but that still counts as physical affection imo. i don't cuddle with my female friends unless we're joking around either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:05 AM
1

Hmm, I don't know why you haven't experienced it. Do people there really think it's weird if two bros hug or are physically rowdy together?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:49 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:39 AM
2

There is nothing natural about half the population only doing childcare and sitting at home. Both genders have always worked. Modern jobs are equally unnatural for men and women, but humans are great at adapting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:21 AM
-1

Yes it's made by women for women. Why don't men try to uplift other men for their bodies? Because men are too focused on what makes them fuckable to women. Women know they aren't more attractive when fat, but the movement is about self love, not attracting a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:46 PM
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I've never met a man who genuinely liked chubby women for more than a quick fuck, but that's anecdotal too. Most women are dating average men (who are chubby, and not in the bearmode muscular way), and I assume at least some of them are attracted to their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:45 PM
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All i can say on this topic is that my objectively average self and my objectively average boyfriend are extremely happy together and low drama, compared to the more hot, high status couples I know. Just saying. Normalcy is bliss. Be content with what you have and what you are, instead of chasing better, bigger, more, etc. Just be, together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:32 PM
5

and men dont actually like chubby women either but the movements are there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:23 PM
2

Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:18 AM
2

My relationship is 4 years old, my friends with the same issue are in 3 and 5 year relationships. I absolutely believe that on average women have lower libidos i just disagree that it's Really Odd if a woman has equal or higher libido than her man. Women tend to fixate on the one man they're with while men calm down when they're not on the "hunt" anymore and have secured a partner, in my experience. I think mens libido decreases when sex is always available, with the same woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:07 AM
1

It's a good quality!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:32 PM
8

I don't think it's that unusual for men to be less horny, especially in relationship. Me and some of my female friends complain that we want sex more often than our significant others. And yes, it's based on feeling validated and sexy, but horniness is horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:07 PM
1

Yeah i don't really care about the physique since i prefer soft cuddly men. Not overweight but not defined muscles either. It's attractive if he can be helpful with manual labor but he doesn't have to go to the gym to get decently strong. The most important thing is health and that he's strong enough to feel confident. The once a week thing was just to illustrate that i don't prefer complete couch potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:42 PM
1

Gym once a week-fit with a nice layer of fat on top. Hairy, my height (5'9), pretty-boy face and nice fluffy hair. Bonus points for a cohesive and fashionable closet. Big peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:11 PM
7

I'm scandinavian and people my age are very affectionate with their friends, both genders. Hugs when sober, kisses when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:47 AM
1

Absolutely. I can hang out with an absolutely gorgeous chad but if he is below average in humor and conversation i will put him in the friendzone. However, if a guy is at least average looking or even unconventional, but knows how to make conversation and laugh with me, i will get certain intimate tingles. It's a very important quality in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:52 PM
1

My bf wants it 2-5 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:43 AM
1

There are lots of men with access to sex who choose to prioritize other things. Me and most of my female friends have a higher sexual appetite than our male partners and i don't think we are extreme outliers. They're young, healthy men with no reason to "cope".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:36 AM
1

A fwb is the same as a relationship imo. If a guy is a good friend and a good lay (fwb), why not date him? A ons would be a guy who looks decent enough and makes me feel desired, when i'm sexually desperate. Relationship matierial is a guy who is a good friend (which includes making me laugh and me making him laugh, shares similar worldview, we have chemistry), plus he looks decent and makes me horny. To clarify, i would never make a guy wait if i genuinely desired him and i felt that sleeping w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:20 AM
1

Some woman from my old high school class is doing onlyfans. Only bikini pics, no one cares. Or, some people probably care but as far as i can tell she still has a good social, romantic and family life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:32 AM
5

We have been raised to think women and men are equal and put in equal amounts of effort in every part of life though, so i can't blame women for having an idealistic image of domestic life. Most people dont look up statistics before getting married, they just assume their partner is "one of the good ones", and it bites them in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:35 AM
2

Eh, it may seem that way but it's extremely rare to lose feelings overnight. Women are just better at concealing our emotions and pretending everything is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:01 AM
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I know what you mean. Though, as someone who has worked in both manual labor and caretaking i would take laying bricks in the sweltering sun over wiping old people ass in an air-conditioned facility any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:58 AM
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I mean, yeah those are choices, but most women and men end up married/in a long term relationship with or without kids. Thats's just a natural part of life, but the choice to get married/have kids doesn't mean she chooses to be a homemaker and childcarer. Most women are naive though and assume that their man will put in the same amount of effort at home, so it's not an informed choice really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:55 AM
5

It's not really a choice. If the woman doesnt take care of the home and kids, no one will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:39 AM
13

The school system was never a problem when girls weren't allowed there. Boys were perfectly capable of sitting still and paying attention up until very recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:38 AM
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Arent "womens jobs" mostly nursing and caretaking? Hardly cushy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:36 AM
2

I can really only measure this by my own experiences. 100% of my friends who are in relationships are happy and feel loved, based on what they tell me and how they behave with their significant others. My parents and my partner's parents are together still even tough i sense toxicity and being with eachother out of convenience from all of them. Maybe the older generation is better at following through with committments even though it's not that great? I know in my gen-z generation most of us hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:32 PM
1

Yes i know. Gonna get around to it some day. To be fair i am physically active during everyday life. Dont have a car so i walk everywhere, and my job is fairly physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:56 PM
11

Yeah I don't doubt it. Is this a woman-exclusive phenomenon though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:13 AM
6

For me, settling down just means finding your "foverer person" to build a future with, and stopping the single hoe lifestyle. I was never a hoe but i settled down with my dream partner at 18. There's a difference between settling (begrudgingly getting with someone who's "good enough") and settling down (getting into a serious relationship with someone you love). So my opinion on settling down is that it's great and everyone should do it if they get the chance. Out of all my friends, the ones who…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:38 PM
4

It would benefit everyone in america if the social attitudes towards male affection was changed. I have no idea how that would happen though. It has just always been accepted in my area (scandinavia), and even more in recent times due to "kissing the homies goodnight" memes and such. My male friends sit in eachothers lap and give eachother hugs and no one bats an eye. It's expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:23 PM
19

Absolutely. I hear the cringe and otherwordly descriptions of love from fiction and i think, damn that's exactly how i feel about my man. I would take a bullet for him. I know i'm extremely lucky though to have found that type of love on the first try, but then again most of my friends are in relationships similar to mine, pure love. I guess it's something in the water lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:10 PM
4

There are a lot of sex toys for men too, but i guess there is more stigma for that unfortunately. Then again sex toys are a private thing so no one needs to know you have a XXL Booty Blaster 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:57 PM
6

America seems fucked in regards to physical affection. In my country it's normal for guy friends to hug, cuddle and even kiss without it being seen as weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:53 PM
4

I dont work out but i'm young so things arent "melting" yet. 60 kgs, 175 cm. I think i look okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:58 AM
1

You don't really need kids to have someone care about you when you're old. Nieces and nephews, friends, siblings, care workers. It hurts more to have kids who never visit you and view you as a burden (very common) vs just paying a nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:19 AM
1

Surrogacy is unethical imo but adoption would be fine. I'd be interested in the numbers of men who would regret their decision though because single parenthood is a nightmare, especially for men who havent been socially conditioned or prepared to take care of kids properly. Then again, those who can afford adoption or surrogacy can probably afford help too. I don't see why they would do this though, sounds horrible. Just wait until your friends have kids and become a fun uncle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:57 AM
6

Your source literally states that only 400 000 americans out of 329 million (0.12%) receive alimony, so yes it's a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:24 AM
2

Yes.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 08:18 AM
4

Those guys that make tiktoks eyefucking themselves that get crazy popular. Usually kinda alternative style, pretty face, skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:11 PM
2

Lots of women are into more feminine men so i wouldn't make such a bold claim. E-boys and kpop guys wear makeup and look feminine and they're drowning in coochie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:48 PM
16

Eyeliner and concealer is popular with the gen-z eboys too. I think it looks great.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:46 PM
1

Eh, he's not the approacher type of guy, never done online dating and we got together when we were both 18 and virgins so i haven't had a reason to think about it. The less women that want him, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:58 PM
4

Why do you want psychopaths to have children instead of aborting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:23 AM
3

There are still lots of women/couples who don't want children at all. Most women who get abortions are married. Women who get abortions usually arent casual sex enthusiasts who use abortions as birth control despite popular belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:21 AM
1

She would still have to go through excruciating pregnancy and labor, thats hardly getting to give up without consequence. This issue can't be equal because our biology has made us very unequal in this aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:12 PM
2

Rich men don't marry broke women. Being a sugar baby is work.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:34 AM
1

Never, i live in scandinavia so people don't talk to each other, especially not flirting, without being super drunk. And when i get drunk im with my boyfriend so doesnt happen then either. It's great. Only time ive been hit on is when obviously underage and insecure, kinda gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:00 AM
3

30 ons in a summer is about every second/third day.. i think there are many relationships that have the same or higher frequency of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:40 AM
4

How did that womans boyfriend above get in touch with her? By having his female friends introduce him to her. Men can have female friends, and his odds for being set up with someone skyrockets. The man in the scenario you replied to had it just as easy as the woman, they were both set up by their female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:38 AM
4

Because men don't have friends? Take some responsibility for your social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:27 AM
7

A 30 year old guy who wants 5 kids shouldn't have waited until 30 to settle down in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:56 AM
3

4, but you made it sound really unnapealing when you really just meant an average guy. Why did you word it like that? Pick-me and losing self respect for dating a normie? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:57 AM
5

The commenter was talking about fertility. A 19 year old woman likely isnt mentally, financially and emotionally strong enough to raise kids well either but purely fertility-wise, men and women that age are best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:43 AM
1

Women don't have to be exciting since men desire women more than the reverse. It's up to men to seduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:08 AM
0

True, i think most men though are wired to get tired of banging the same woman for years, no matter how perfect she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:42 AM
4

These women still get cheated on when the man craves variety, or when she ages. You can be absolute perfection but it's never a guarantee. Ironically it seems the toxic, trashy ladies are the ones who can best keep their men in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:28 AM
5

No i understand the preference but saying that being hairless = looks like a woman is odd phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:00 PM
17

It's so weird to me that "looking like a woman" in this context means removing the hair that comes with growing from a girl to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:36 PM
5

What responsibilities are there in a marriage that aren't in a long term relationship? But i agree with what you said, that happy people may be more inclined to get married, while unhappy people stay unhappy regardless of relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:28 PM
16

That's odd considering married men are happier and healthier than single men, while the opposite is the case for women. Marriage supposedly being a shit deal for men is just societal gaslighting to make women try even harder in their marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:41 AM
1

True, but i know there are also men who aren't like that. Men who feel bad because they don't want it every day, and their gf feels ugly due to the expectation of men wanting sex all the time, yet their bf doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 08:53 PM
1

I don't think it's that unusual. There is an expectation for all men to be sex-crazed beasts, and while there sure are enough of them, i think having a moderate interest in it is just as normal, just stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:28 AM
1

Yeah which is why i was confused that you called it toxic femininity. Toxic masculinity/femininity does not mean any toxic behaviour from a man/woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:56 PM
1

Being physically aggressive and making a scene isn't toxic femininity because those actions are masculine actions lol. It's just garden variety toxicity, but nice attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:50 PM
1

Im just saying that this protection wouldn't be needed if men as a group weren't depraved. And yes the men (multiple?) protecting me from afghan slavery could very well put me into slavery themselves. After all, most abuse comes from men in close proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:59 PM
4

Who would women be raped and enslaved by? Other women? Who do we need protection from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:34 PM
12

Amen. I can't believe they're equating people being cautious of men to little girls and women being ogled and assaulted. Ask any woman when she first experienced feeling like prey from men and i guarantee she will say as a child/teenager. Do they think we aren't affected by that? Going from being treated as a person to being treated as a woman, aka a potential conquest. I'd take being ignored over that any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:21 PM
3

I think they would sooner give up their rights before their porn. Completely dependent on it. I agree with you that it makes me proud to be a woman, and not have to share a gender with the ones responsible for 99% of depravity in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:32 PM
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Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:27 PM
3

Did anyone ever think porn performers enjoy their job? The exploitation, abuse and financial desperation has always been glaringly obvious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:27 PM
5

Just cause it's easy doesn't mean it's desireable to sleep with lots of men (and yeah 2 new guys a year is a lot imo). The negatives outweigh the positives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:57 PM
1

What does that have to do with vaginal orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:41 PM
4

Your brain can get used to instant 4k stimulation of all kinds of women in all kinds of positions and then struggle to get excited by real life women. So yes it can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:52 PM
1

No. I wasn't interested enough in sex/men for that to happen to me prior to getting with my boyfriend. He was supposed to be a FWB but we fucked around and fell in love. I only know of 1 of my female friends who have been actually pumped & dumped but afaik it was more of a one night stand type of deal but she caught feelings. But that doesn't fit the definition in your post so idk. I do have some male friends who have been hurt by their date fooling around with other men because committment was …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:35 AM
1

The majority of men i see out and about i consider decent to good looking. I wont feel actual attraction though before getting to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:39 AM
14

Try dating a woman that actually likes you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:43 PM
6

Absolutely agreed. We could do everything "right" and still get fucked over because men will be men, men will always want to fuck other women etc etc. I haven't been fucked over yet, and i made the same choices as you in my romantic life but i still have a voice in the back of my mind reminding me to not get too dependent on my partner in case he turns into a coomer/cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:17 AM
1

Yes cause this is such a widespread and female exclusive issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:26 PM
2

Nah. There is absolutely a double standard. Men fucking love teen girls, it's what they want porn of (petite barely legal, step-daughter, teen abuse), and what they fantasize about. Obligatory not all men but the market for as young as possible girls is huge. Women consistently want and desire men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:55 PM
1

No porn. Hentai would be fine albeit weird and he has plenty of pics/videos of me if we're in a situation we can't have irl sex. But he gets laid whenever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:33 PM
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Link to them saying they want to rape teen boys? If you're referring to the post im thinking of, it was an "imagine if women objectified and got off to abused teen boys like men do to girls" type of scenario. Not an actual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:36 AM
2

It's a great idea. You're a grown man, fully capable of making desicions about your body. And you can freeze a sperm sample or two if you do change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:00 PM
3

Yeah why go through a minor surgery when his female partner can just take poison, im sorry, birth conteol every day that fucks up her mind and body!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:59 PM
2

Lmao i wish my man wanted it 3 times a day. Huge generalization there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:23 AM
1

I don't know. If we want kids in the future i'm sure my/our mindset is different - not being the top priority isn't that important anymore. But i can't speak to that now. It's one of the reasons im leaning towards childfree. A strong, fulfilling relationship is rare and i don't want to risk that for a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:35 PM
1

Absolutely not. It's not about cucking/raising another womans child or anything like that (i'm considering adoption in the future), but i (selfishly?) want to be the number one priority/person in my partner's life and with kids that understandably doesn't happen. I'm also 21 and not a very motherly person either, and i think most guys with kids are either too old for me, or too irresponsible/impulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:37 AM
2

This is just straight up bullshit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:26 PM
1

Hell no. I'm already not getting laid as often as i'd like, if he wanted to fuck a robot instead of having more sex with me i would feel very insecure and frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:03 AM
1

It's a couple of inches below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:53 AM
1

I'm in the same situation as her and my man is 5'8.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:10 AM
2

Butt stuff, pain, other people, degradation are hard no's. My biggest kink is real love and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:32 AM
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Isnt this the opposite of what redpill claims? All women are the same so just try to bang the prettiest ones? I've never seen a man get a boner from a womans PhD. Both genders have people on the more shallow and more "deep" side of the preference-spectrum ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:00 AM
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I'd rather date someone a bit uglier than me instead of more attractive than me. I would get insecure if my partner had hot women lusting after him, and i'd feel like he settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:03 PM
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I think finding a devoted partner is a lot of luck, but being attractive certainly helps. Attractive people have more options (but also more shit to filter out). Anecdotal but I'm not a hot woman, not ugly either but people wouldn't pay for my feet pics to put it like that. I found a great, loving partner who matches me perfectly and that was pure luck. We ran in the same social circles and got a crush on eachother, only effort i had to make was socialization and basic grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:08 AM
3

Bit of an exaggeration. You dont need to own a business to be a mature adult lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:10 AM
1

You replied to a comment saying "most married/LTR women arent interested in swinging" with "most women swinging are LTR or married".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:21 PM
1

Most swingers being married =\= most or even many married couples being swingers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:14 PM
1

Hey if they wanna call themselves incels for only getting sex sometimes they are free to do that. I was under the impression that an incel didn't have sex point blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:24 PM
1

Arent most men in relationships? If not they can usually score from time to time. No one has as much sex as chads but most men have sex sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:46 PM
1

80% of men arent incels. Incel is a whole other category than "cant get laid as often as chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:21 PM
1

F21, i have 1 (my partner). He was also inexperienced before we got together, i think it's perfect. It's fun to learn together and i know myself well enough that i would have been insecure if he had lots of sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:08 AM
3

As you may have heard once or twice, it's hard to seduce women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:51 PM
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He did say she was the most loving woman he ever met. Thats a pretty good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:17 AM
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I know, i've "locked down" mine already and try to think he's a unicorn who will still love me when i get ugly. I know most men dont divorce, but i doubt they have much passion for their wives either. Maybe thats fine, and people dont care about passion when they've aged, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:59 AM
1

Whats the point in locking down a man if he's just gonna lose attraction to you when you hit your 40s though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:35 PM
1

90% of men in that age group maybe. Do you seriously think most grown ass men ONLY date 20 year olds? Wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:25 PM
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Nah, if you think every woman can get a 6-figure earning guy, who both provides for her AND takes the majority of childcare (this is a big one) you're delusional. A man cheating on a woman caring for his child is just as scummy as a woman cheating on a man paying her bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:18 PM
11

Making less money =/= never seeing your partner. Why arent women more likely to cheat on higher earning partners if the issue is loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:15 PM
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But a woman who does this is the scum of the earth huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:46 PM
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They've been gaslighted into thinking they will make money and feel empowered, so thats the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:29 PM
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"Easy money" lmao. Most onlyfans workers are broke, i believe average monthly earnings are around 200 bucks. Women start doing onlyfans because they have been brainwashed and tricked into an MLM-esque scheme. "I bought a mansion with my OF money, use my referral code and you can too 🤪". And boom, your future is ruined, all for some chump change and cheap validation. It's sad honestly. The only ones making big bucks are either super gorgeous, already famous from other platforms, or extremely good…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:52 PM
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A relationship is different from a crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:32 PM
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That's a mindset women simply cannot empathize with, because it's not desireable for us to be treated like a toilet. How are we supposed to feel bad for ugly men not getting hatesex, when the entire concept is horrible from a womans POV?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:35 PM
10

men arent attracted to the ugly women they fuck for sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:37 PM
0

Having one partner is great, but it's important that they aren't much more experienced than you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:05 PM
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My man has a slightly lower appetite than me, i dont do anything about it besides try to seduce him more but if he still isnt feeling it i just go play video games or something. The horniness fades away quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:58 PM
1

Women have varying sex drives based on individual biology and psychology. But i think most women crave sex with their man often if they are in love with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:08 PM
3

No, a stacy is a hot woman with feminine curves. Every reply wants some variation of curvy beautiful woman, short "thicc latina" or tall athletic blonde, same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:07 PM
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Why not. All these guys' answers are "stacies" so let her have her chad preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:06 AM
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Zero, out of the ones i know at least. It doesnt matter how hot the woman is, if the man is addicted to Muh Variety of different women she will never be able to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:31 AM
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You're not articulating yourself clearly. I understand that most men watch porn but i think many women find it disrespectful and can get insecure because of it. I disagree that porn sick men dont have relations with women, just look at r/loveafterporn and r/deadbedrooms to see many women being ignored for porn, or feeling bad/having bad sex because of partners porn use. I have many female friends, and it's trendy to be a cool girl who accepts everything sexually and porn-wise with their man but …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:29 AM
1

But if your woman is available to either have sex or send you pictures/videos of herself, why use the screen babes at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:25 AM
1

Thank you, i'm very grateful and we're happy. I didn't even know it was normal to watch porn while in a relationship, after learning that i gained even more appreciation for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:23 AM
3

Found him on the first try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:47 AM
2

Agreed, i find it disrespectful. If he needs to orgasm to other women getting fucked, he doesnt get to fuck me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:46 AM
3

This is one of the reasons i'm so glad i met my partner young. Less chance of being porn sick, and as luck has it, he was "detoxing" from porn a good while before we first slept together, so i have thankfully never experienced porn-influenced sex, unrealistic expectations or PIED. I hear stories from my female friends about 20 year old guys in the prime of their life having to close their eyes and jackhammer their dick to be able to orgasm, and my friends arent ugly either. It's really sad. It a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:38 AM
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Condoms in fertile periods, pull-out the rest of the time. Hasn't failed us yet, i have a very predictable cycle and we always use condoms the days before, during and after ovulation. I am open to trying hormonal BC but my partner doesnt want me to suffer eventual side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:56 PM
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Yes but the context is men who pretend sex isnt the most important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:39 PM
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Liberal feminists are pornsick so thats not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:44 PM
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They often say "its not about sex, i just want love and for someone to care about me uwu" but they don't JUST want love, they want sexual love from a hot woman. How many lonely guys would pick a platonic friendship with a man or ugly woman over a one night stand with a hottie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:43 PM
1

Right, but my point was that it's not a huge amount of work. I exercise 2-3 times a week, it's not a big part of my life or a lot of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:25 PM
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Dont know about that. I think people act/fuck differently when they have a camera pointed at them no matter how homemade the film is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:20 PM
2

Im not attracted to men that are very tall or promiscuous. If he's much taller than me (5'9) i just feel like a child next to him and he seems scary not in s good way. Harder to kiss and have different sex positions too. Promiscuous men don't align with my values and seem more likely to have diseases, cheat, be coomers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:00 PM
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Nasty was a rude word but people can dislike big butts or any physical feature really, nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:52 PM
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Nah, at least in my circle, our boyfriends/fwb/flings' work out habits range from never to maybe thrice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:50 PM
3

Looking at the men me and my female friends like, being normal weight and a bit toned is more than enough to get us in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:26 PM
3

would be kinda stalkerish to link the picture of a guy with 5 followers wouldnt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:35 AM
7

You cant control an ugly face either but most people have that as a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:36 PM
3

compatible humor, great friend, handsome face, big D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:58 AM
2

"Amateur homemade" is often traffickig or revenge porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:34 PM
2

To your last paragraph, it seems a lot of these addicted men have very sexually willing partners though, ignoring them to wank instead. At least from what i've read on the porn addiction subs. But for single men i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:29 PM
1

They should be shamed, but they are not. Have you seen any popular meme pages or heard what zoomers joke about? Porn is treated as normal as playing video games these days. Those who get shamed are those who dont watch porn, who dont have special kinks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:25 PM
5

Not hard. I have female friends who are obsessed with their average looking boyfriends, i also have a partner who i guess is objectively average but i get butterflies when i see him and want to jump his bones every night. Im not from the usa though, might have something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:41 AM
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Dating a pornsick man who sexually rejects you to beat his hog to pornstars would hurt pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:19 AM
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nursing and caretaking is pretty dirty though but i get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:29 PM
4

If you like each other you have a conversation and agree to be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:01 AM
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You talk to eachother lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:40 PM
1

Damn i guess i won when i settled down with my badboy highschool sweetheart. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:19 PM
1

Do fathers who leave the primary caregiver role to their wife give off the vibe that they dislike children?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:50 AM
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Since when does nursing give you a good work-life balance? They are understaffed and work shifts, weekends and holidays, not very practical with kids. Otherwise i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:52 AM
1

I think it also has to do with feeling like men wont make advances since they see the ring on her finger so she can let her guard down, which is a generous assumption but still. That "attention" is oftentimes just friendliness.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 02:07 AM
2

Being an absent father (thus creating a single mum) makes you a bad father, point still standa.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:52 AM
41

Look, im very sexually conservative myself but losing ones virginity is the most important event of someones LIFE? Cmon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:50 AM
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I have a pretty disappointing dad and me and my siblings are all well adjusted adults lmao tf 🤣 I dont think this thread is about the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:46 AM
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Definitely understand your reservations. Best of luck to you, i sincerely hope you get what you desire someday, even in this hellscape that is modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:42 AM
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Hindsight is 20/20 but you really should have locked someone down early if you wanted to find a likeminded woman. I "saved myself" for my partner and so did he, and i dont think i ever would have found an attractive, compatible inexperienced man if i didnt get lucky at 18. It gets harder every year. My guess it's the same the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:00 AM
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as a gen z, i'd say it's very much the same for us. i know zero women who dont work or study, or who dont clean and cook. same as the guys. sure, i have some female friends who largely rely on takeout and ready-meals, and have messy apartments, but they dont really make their boyfriends pick up the slack either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:54 PM
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cook and eat dinner (a couple of hours), walk the dog (an hour), shower and do housework (an hour). then it's 9pm already and you probably wanna relax before going to bed and doing it all over again. but people are different and some find going out and meeting people more rewarding than chilling at home so it depends. im just glad i never had to participate in the dating scene, seems exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:06 PM
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Because porn has been so normalized to the point of it becoming a hobby. I agree with your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:20 PM
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Oh, that is not my experience. I would say a woman gave you an orgasm even though you adjusted yourself physically and mentally stimulated yourself though. All people do this when having sex, you still got an orgasm primarily via your partner. Women dont just lay there when you help them cum either, mental stimulation, clenching muscles and moving your body is required for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:39 AM
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Both are responsible but it requires more work for a woman to orgasm so more teamwork is needed. And men often get offended if the woman finishes herself with hands or toys and want to be the ones to do it, hence requiring more work from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:49 AM
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Any man will be sexy if the woman has feelings for him.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 11:40 PM
1

stretch marks imply puberty having occured
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:14 AM
0

I think it's spelled "based".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:40 AM
0

Are you so weak that you need porn to orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:09 AM
5

Isnt this discussion about friends, not women you try to date? Why does she need to find you desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:04 PM
4

I'd guess lower income women are more likely to have higher n-counts if thats what you're worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:53 PM
14

obviously straight men find other men unattractive but there are definitely a ton of repressed bi men out there who dont know they are bi/dont want to admit it because of stigma. they werent talking about heteros.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:02 PM
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