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And that’s ok, but it just means he has to do some work to not come off too strong and scare the girls away.
/r/seduction16/08/26 08:28 AM
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I never said women can’t be “strong,” but the fact that they’re just copying men’s standards of strength is what is weird. Some are actually taking steroids and testosterone to actually resemble a man that lifts then they get mad when they can’t find men to date like duh you don’t attract a man by looking like one. And it’s not just that, they’re talking like men (slang) and even dressing similar to men. It’s a trend that’s been going on since 2010 or so. Same goes for the women that chase caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:35 PM
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Because they’ve been brainwashed by feminism/the government to believe that being feminine and gentle is weak… So now they act like men to seem stronger, which is a stupid idea. They’re just looking weirder and decreasing their chances of dating a good man. The smart women aren’t doing all this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:38 PM
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True. It’s a test to see if she actually likes you. If she declines then she’s not really into you. Move on and find a woman that is interested
/r/seduction25/01/25 03:25 AM
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Problem is they keep talking to you and you don’t want to hurt their feelings…but eventually you’ll have to tell them respectfully of course
/r/seduction15/12/24 11:13 AM
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What type of dates are you going to? Like coffee dates? Most girls on dating apps don’t like that. Some just want to have a fun time and possibly f*ck. Maybe try going out for drinks? It also helps to lighten up and make things more fun
/r/seduction30/10/24 01:23 PM
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I would move on because this woman isn’t interested and she friendzoned you. And you taking care of her kid isn’t helping your case either. She’s just using you as a babysitter. Workout, make sure your looks are on point, wear good cologne and find another woman that IS interested in you
/r/seduction30/10/24 01:17 PM
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Maybe you have very low libido. Perhaps go to the doctor and check that your hormones and all that is at normal levels. At least rule out physical health being the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:14 AM
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That is not ok tbh. A girl that has a boyfriend inviting another man (non-family member) to stay at her place is not a good idea. As men, we know how other men are. We know how they think. Your bf is trying to protect you because he cares about you. You don’t know how that friend feels about you. Guys lie ALL THE TIME to girls they are “friends” with. He might secretly like you. I’ll go out and say he most likely does. Psychologically, men are usually friends with women they find attractive. The…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 01:28 AM
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This is what I wish my ex gf understood. Instead she called me controlling and broke up with me. I hope one day she understands it’s out of love not control
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 01:22 AM
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I’ve always tried to kiss on the first date because that usually determines if you’ll get a 2nd date or not. It shows you want to be more than friends to the lady. It’s critical to go for the kiss on the first date imo. You might want to change your strategy, brother. Don’t beat yourself up though, it happens. Maybe try to schedule another date or invite another lady
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:39 AM
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Good idea 👍🏼
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:32 PM
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Yeah that’s definitely a risk
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:12 PM
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How so? Only thing I can think of is if the ex gets violent. But idk. It seemed like she was the one that was chasing him. He seemed indifferent
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:58 PM
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I said “young looking” lol. She looked like she was in her 20s. Stunning for her age. That’s cool. Glad it worked out for you. Ima invite her for next week. See what she says
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:31 PM
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Yeah that was also something I was thinking in the moment. I left a bit after I asked her to go to another venue. Cut my losses. But if she agrees to a date then that’s a good sign
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:56 PM
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Thanks bro. Yeah I thought so too. Gotta shoot my shot
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:14 PM
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I will give it my best try man 👊🏼
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:24 PM
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I used to work at this call center. This girl liked me from the jump when I started there. We would chat during breaks and stuff. I could tell easily because she would make an effort to talk to me. Then other girls she knew, her, and I would sit at a table. So now, other girls would see that girls liked to be around me. Next thing you know the thickest, hottest girl started liking me, but she was a thot, so I didn't go through with it. I dated the girl that liked me from the start. Thing is, If …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:32 PM
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It's only fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:17 PM
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I agree, but I do think that some women should lower their standards BECAUSE their standards are ridiculously unrealistic. You've heard it, they want a 6ft+ tall man that's rich and fucks like a pornstar. The women with that mindset and that are average or below average SHOULD lower their unrealistic standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:58 AM
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Never did I say that. I'm saying that alot of the women that are putting their careers FIRST are the ones ending up single because they don't work on other areas that are important when it comes to relationships (are you kind, feminine, supportive of your husband). Sidenote: men don't want women that are rough and tough and that compete with other men. Back to the original point, women are putting their careers first like men do and expecting men to love them for it. That only works for men. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:47 AM
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Facts. The men also need to know when their wife has high interest or low interest. Usually, by learning a bit about her dating history and the type of guys she's into and has dated. I refuse to marry a women that sees me as a 2nd choice. It's a waste of time and energy for the both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:45 PM
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100 percent! Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:26 PM
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Do you have any cats by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:46 AM
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They're buying things for themselves. According to Bloomberg, women make more than 85% of the consumer purchases in the United States, and reputedly influence over 95% of total goods and services purchased. Women as a whole are considered more sophisticated shoppers than men, taking longer to make a buying decision. Ya'll do take forever in the malls now that I think of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:25 AM
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Spoiled is the right word. I've learned to not lean towards hate. It's really whoever is making these BS laws that deserves to take the heat for this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:16 AM
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Ok. What do you mean by moving forward though? I'm genuinely curious. Like flying cars and through more innovation? Something like what Elon Musk mentioned, Neuralink? For me personally it sounds cool, but I don't think it's healthy. Eitherway, yeah I'm curious as to what you mean by moving our species forward
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:57 PM
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I'm just stating common knowledge. We're not designed to just be alone. Human beings are meant to mate and reproduce. Can a human get used to being alone, yes, but I would argue it's not easy and it's not our default state of being
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:58 PM
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exactly. Men are more inclined to get out there and do something because that's what we've done for ages. Go out and hunt, go out and approach women and talk to them. Women generally just wait passively until a man goes up to them. But if no men go up to them, then they just suffer in silence and the men want relationships but don't approach suffer too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:55 PM
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I don't think it's like that at all. I don't think women are "just fine" living alone with their cats and occasional nights out. That's just a cope. Both sexes want each other. That's facts. It might seem that women are more ok because of feminism, but it's all a facade. Perhaps, men might seem like they want to be in relationships because they understand that's what it takes to build a family, but it's usually the simps that exhibit extreme despair and women hating. I believe women are more pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:47 AM
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AND she's extremely into you. She sees you as her #1 choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:17 AM
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Don't talk about yourself like that bro. You're not ugly, you're just not putting in effort to look your best. Dress nice, fresh haircut, workout, using face cleansers and lotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:31 PM
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I think you're overstating things. More women are college educated, but still men outnumber women by a longshot in STEM fields, the fields that tend to pay more. More women are taking gender studies, dance and art and that's fine do you. I'm not knocking it. I studied economics in uni and in 95% of my classes the men outnumbered women lets say 15 to 8 and the professors were 30 something year old and middle aged men with the exception of 1 lady professor. Yes, women are more independent now, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:42 AM
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That would be the dream for most men, but it's not as realistic nowadays. The more people someone has been with affects their ability to pair bond and marriage quality, it affects women more however. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness#:\~:text=Psychologists%20Galena%20K.,for%20women%2C%20but%20not%20men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:23 AM
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Social media has given women the illusion of endless options and has made alot of so called men into simps. The real men recognize this and don't fall for it, but unfortunately many of these boys are still simping and continuing this illusion. Then we got the scumbag ppl that don't respect others' relationships to make things worse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:28 PM
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To add, technology and big daddy g0v are heavily supporting women now. They're making it harder for men and disrupting men to women relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:26 PM
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What I meant by that is when women put their careers FIRST. Of course, it's going to be harder to date when you put that first and not family or developing yourself. As I said, your career does nothing to attract men. Not wanting to depend on men is your choice and you have the freedom to do that, but women that want to date and start a family should know that having a career doesn't do much for them when it comes to dating. And yes, morals do matter. Compatibility matters in relationships if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:54 PM
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I would argue porn and video games has fucked men a bit, though that could be a small factor. You got a good point BECAUSE they've been fed the feminist lie. Now all of them think they can act like men and attract men. Idiocy. Women focusing on their career does NOTHING to attract men. Conversely, for men it's CRUCIAL and determines how good a relationship will be. This is a fact proven by studies, women prefer men that earn equal or more than them and that # goes up with college educated women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:20 AM
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Society is telling women to focus on their careers (as men do) instead of focusing on starting a family. Also, women are being most affected by social media since they are the ones that are on there the most. Men are being bombarded by p0rn, video games and are being feminized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:07 AM
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Lived with a girl roommate before, we had 2 other roommates which were guys. She invited me to smoke weed in her room, but I declined. I would've probably been in your situation tho had I gone in there and not escalated lol
/r/TheRedPill23/12/21 11:32 PM
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Well of course we can't. We're animals too, just more sophisticated than others
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 12:23 AM
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I see what you mean. Well, history repeats itself, so eventually things will revert back to how they were a century ago. I'm more traditional in dating. I'm not into casual sex. It just doesn't fit my lifestyle. To each their own though
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 04:05 AM
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It won't change immediately, but it'll send a message to the women that are thinking about hoeing around that there won't be any guys to do it with anymore. Thus, they will have to go through relationships to get sex. It's like we're testing them. That's how it used to be 100 years ago. It'll take some time to get back to that dynamic, but it's worth the shot I think
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 01:08 PM
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It would be nice though, if you come home from a long day of work. If a woman can't do that, then she's very similar to a man. The career woman nowadays that behaves very masculine. What man wants that? What man wants a woman that acts like a man and isn't feminine and a nurturer, isn't good with children or can't cook food for them? I know the overwhelming majority don't. FYI, I'm a guy and I know how to cook and lived on my own when I went through college. I'm just saying that a husband and wi…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 04:50 AM
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I don't think game is as common as you think. Also, it's not a good comparison, mentioning kim and kanye. They're celebrities, who have no privacy and pretty much don't live normal lives. Kim is a mega th0t so of course she's going to hop from guy to guy. Kanye can get with any girl because of his status, if he wanted to. ​ You underestimate the number of simps that are out there. Good quality women are disgusted by them and are not just going to date them. High quality men are RARE and no, you …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 03:14 AM
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lol you have poor judgment. I'm not saying for guys to go on a "pussy strike." I'm just saying to stop having casual sex with random women and actually look to be in serious relationships. You can have all the sex you want within the relationship. Most importantly, work towards marriage and I know this might take a long time because of all the BS laws we have to change, but by focusing on bettering the relationship, that's a good first step. Once most men actually get serious about relationships…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 02:55 AM
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I share that view a bit. I still think it's possible, but we have to move very carefully and vet the woman. Make sure she has a strong father and family. That's a good sign right off the bat. No thot friends either. Christian preferably, in my case
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 02:45 AM
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I do realize that. Marriages aren't doing too good in the west. I'm still debating if I should go through that myself. For sure, if we can work to change those horrible marriage laws, we can get somewhere
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 02:43 AM
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Maybe so, I just like to remain optimistic and work with what we have. There's still good women out there, the ones that have a strong father and family. It's not impossible imo
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 02:42 AM
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I see where you're coming from, but I honestly don't think women will ever lead the way back to good marriages. It's up to men to do that. Not sure if you're religious, but biblically, that's how it has been done. Men are the leaders. To give the power to women to "make things right" is not a good idea. Look at Adam and Eve. Eve ate the apple and doomed us. It's like a never ending cycle. We should strive to be better than Adam and this time watch over Eve, so that she doesn't fall to the Devil'…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 02:39 AM
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The reason thottery is being celebrated and widely being done by women is because men are allowing it. As you mentioned, the frat guy cheating on his gf, the 30 something year old man just looking for casual sex, and many more men having sex out of wedlock. These men are enabling thottery. Us men have the power to stop this, but the trick is that we all have to behave accordingly and stop hoeing around as well. Once we do that, women will know that men are not messing around anymore and thus hav…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/21 06:34 PM
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As long as a guy is earning a good income a year (financially stable) and has his own place + car, he's valuable to some women. You don't have to be earning millions
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 09:41 PM
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Facts brother. I have been cold approaching. I got a woman's contact info, but she had kids and was a bit older than me so I didn't pursue it further. It definitely works though. I got into martial arts and I've started lifting weights again. Once you better yourself, it pours into other areas of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:15 PM
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Well said brother! I'm glad there are people like you out there. Continue to be the light in the world. From man to man, I'm right there with you
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 01:42 AM
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I would say it's more of a "provide" thing. Let's be honest, generally women don't want to lead in the relationship. For example, when women get asked what they want to eat, a lot can never decide. Another question. Why is it that women don't approach men and ask them out? I believe it's because they want the man to initiate and lead. Perhaps the women that earn more than their husbands see earning more as leading and I can see why. They just want their man to be more capable. I know that might …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:35 PM
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I'm glad your relationships are working. However, your experience can definitely be of the minority. As a lot of men have observed, women tend to date up because they want men to provide and protect for them (I'm willing to say for at least 50% of women or more, financial status is a great qualifier for that). Perhaps it's because of an evolutionary, psychological reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:20 PM
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That is true, I forgot to mention that. To add, it wasn't unusual for men to gather as well, although less. Also, let's not forget the "protector" aspect that comes with being a provider. I would say that this role of men has existed since the beginning of time. Regardless, my point still stands because men were the ones that primarily hunted and provided/protected. Like you said, women gathered and took care of the kids. What we see with these "breadwinner" women now is also less likelihood of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:52 AM
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I think this is biological, at the end of the day. Thousands of years ago men went out to hunt for food while the women stayed home to watch the home site and take care of the kids. What we're seeing now is basically a sort of unnatural, artificial environment where some women are also hunting, so to speak. Due to this backwards dynamic, a lot of these women tend to resent the guy if they make more than him. In a complete natural environment this wouldn't happen, obviously. But we have to deal w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 04:42 AM
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