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Be very careful with my following advice in the selection of a mentor, but you should identify in your life an upstanding man and ask him if he would be your mentor when making decisions in life. This request might be out of the blue for that person but often they will suddenly realize the importance of this request if made seriously and may rise to the occasion or be honest on saying they are not the person. This may start a meaningful discussion and speaks volumes that you wish to become a bet…
/r/MGTOW225/11/20 05:57 PM
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Sometimes a life is meant to serve as a warning to others. Married 33 years with grown responsible children out of the house. I married at 22 as I feared being alone and would not find a similarly-minded woman once I left college. Married a woman I was infatuated with. What I thought were common interests was that we instead had similar tastes and that is not the same thing. Being raised traditionally as she was too, marriage was the only respectable path forward together. Well. Gentlemen. Forge…
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 02:28 AM
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Well, here is my theory. We need to be relevant to sense our worth. Relevant to ourselves and validating ourselves. Relevant to a goal or mission we take up. There are three types of relevancy: POSITIVE : You engage with people and activity in a positive way : good for you and others. Through work or self improvement. NEGATIVE : Imagine someone in jail. Disregarded and locked up. No one pays attention to them. Unable to feel relevant, they make themselves relevant in bad ways / spitting on the g…
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 02:38 PM
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Thank you. I do love her : it’s just that when I made that decision I was young and, per the original post, I did it out of feeling I had to have her / anyone. I was not confident in myself to be alone / life teaches lessons / and sometimes a life is meant to be warning to others / ha !
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 01:34 AM
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No. I have a daughter who is handicapped and, once one brings another life into the world, we have a responsibility to them. She needs both of us. But I speak in retrospect. Hindsight is 20-20, and that’s the advantage I have of writing here to you-all to avoid the whole mess of relationships in the traditional sense. It is a sad thing that western society has reduced relationships to legal transactions. That was not the case when I married nor the expectation that we would divorce. In life you …
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 12:54 AM
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This is true. 56 years old married with three kids. I have been following MGTOW for a few years. I chased a woman and she finally married me. Biggest mistake of my life. After 33 years together there is nothing in common. Live your life for YOURSELF and never put your self confidence or self contentment into the hands of another. Humph. Be well y’all - be your own man.
/r/MGTOW218/07/20 10:33 PM
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Where did this post go - nothing like teasing me with a story and moving it. If not appropriate here remove the whole thing y’all. Humph.
/r/MGTOW227/05/20 04:17 PM
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No. Of my three children my daughter is autistic from her MMR vaccination. Medical insurance at the time excluded covering services. As a result she is affected for life. To do all we could for her to help her overcome it, I was forced by circumstances and responsibility for my family to take a second job (that I held for 25 years) to private pay thousands per year for her care. We had to take out a second and third Mortgage against our home as a result or foreclose. It is only now that she need…
/r/MGTOW225/05/20 11:29 AM
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Amen !
/r/MGTOW224/05/20 06:13 PM
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Added points. It was several young men - around 25 - who told me all about this MGTOW thing years ago. I was like “ naw - if any dude finds the right pussy he’ll lose his mind and go for it”. And then I told my wife of 33 years about this movement. And she said : “ that shit will fly right out the window when he has to have it”. So there ya go. Married in a Christian household 33 years and even my wife know that a man is gonna fall for pussy. And then they are taken care of for life. So I tell m…
/r/MGTOW224/05/20 03:16 PM
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Married dad here. Three grown children. Mortgages. No hope of retirement. Worn out. So I have to say: nope. If she wants to accompany you in your life and your plans, then maybe she can be welcome to ride along. But education, earnings, or not, all women have one thing in common - their hormones make them controlling and irrational. Don’t think cause she has an education and is a doctor that it makes her different. She isn’t. Hormones make people thing wrong and believe me, women eventually do t…
/r/MGTOW224/05/20 02:23 AM
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True. Each side always needs their devils. I think it was John Adams that said politics is a blood sport and something about it being the systematic organization of hatreds. I would suppose the opposite would be anarchy or chaos...seems like we are headed that way unfortunately and I hope it returns to civility before too much longer, but I have my doubts :/
/r/MGTOW208/05/20 11:13 AM
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Respectfully, Imma not so sure the right brought up Tara Reade against Biden. Biden is not favored by the DNC as while he got into his current position in the delegate count by the democrat electorate, he is, sorry to say, just a senile has-been and in worse physical shape than Hillary was. Dems needs to stop voting for the leftovers from the 80’s and I speak as a Bernite who wants a socialist take over of our country’s economy for the poor. However; I digress; the DNC has Tara Reade coming fort…
/r/MGTOW208/05/20 02:32 AM
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Married 33 years. Lived my life by the checklist: Good grades. College and find wife. Career and marriage. House and kids and bills paying for everyone else under the roof. Still do. One child handicapped: wife cares for her while I iearn earn earn. No money for retirement. Still paying off a house. Gentlemen: it’s a shame to say but I wouldn’t do it again. Just sayin’. None of this family schtuff is easy at all. Yes I love my children but nothing in life is assured. Health wealth peace - no gua…
/r/MGTOW203/05/20 11:57 PM
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Something to consider about the Insurance topic that’s been discussed. If you have no mortgage you do not need to insure the place - you can rather invest money and self insure - in other words you will pay for your own losses through your own independent investment actions. This might be an option if the building itself is not horribly expensive to begin with nor would be horribly expensive to replace. Of course advice like this is untenable if you have a large home in a typical suburban city t…
/r/MGTOW223/04/20 11:19 PM
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To hell with society. Stop measuring yourself against society. Keep making these gains in your health and mind and mindset. I say this as a 55 years old married dude who never had MGTOW back in the day and am locked into a typical western culture marriage. I am trapped - my cast is set. Your cast, however, is NOT ! You are free to do what you will, and point your energy into yourself. Keep going. Do the best you can with what you got and make your OWN happiness everyday. Advice from my 96 year o…
/r/MGTOW227/03/20 02:00 AM
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I appreciate the comment all. And I understand the encouragement to lay down the law. But maybe some more background is in order. I will say that the core values my wife and I have are indeed the same. But after that our perspective on life is deffo different. I am not treated horribly but she just picks and picks and has become nagging. I would say that I put up with it mostly for my daughter who is autistic. As much as my wife and I privately agree we should probably not have married - and tha…
/r/MGTOW212/03/20 01:01 AM
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Ok - I’ll bite. 55 year old man here with wife and three grown children. Two at home but they share expenses. Daughter has a high functioning disability who must be watched after. Classic middle American middle management suburban dad. Mortgages. Car debt. Credit card debt. Lawn to mow. Lovely dogs. Work two jobs for 25 years. So my stay-at-home wife for the first time in 25 years takes her parents to visit sister. I have house for 5 days to myself and grown children. I promptly straighten up th…
/r/MGTOW211/03/20 02:47 AM
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I once saw this : Don’t chase people. Be an example. Attract them instead. Work hard and be yourself. The people who belong in your life will come along and find you and stay. Just do your thing. As a married 55 year old dad who did not have MGTOW back in the day and lived his life by “The Checkist” (school,career,wife,kids,mortgage,stress,no freedom,no money,no time,no friends) I still take encouragement from the MGTOW concepts of independence and investing in yourself. Life is made-up of meeti…
/r/MGTOW229/02/20 01:57 PM
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Yes, you are right and considering the choices I made I am proud of my children. However, I have the advantage at this age of hindsight. I was raised to believe that happiness was found in living life by the checklist : Good grades Work summers Go to college Find wife material at school Graduate Marry Job House Kids Grow old gracefully So I did all that. And now I see what MGTOW is which while based in the reality of how in today’s world intersexual relationships are damn risky, I feel the conce…
/r/MGTOW208/11/19 12:39 AM
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If I may briefly wax philosophical regarding marriage today ... as I get older I feel that people need two things to thrive. Companionship. Note that contrary to my Christian upbringing and expectation to be fruitful and multiply, I did not define what that looks like here and today. Companionship in life is important and needed but you can get that in meaningful ways outside the relationship laws that oppress men and really, women, as they are affected by men who have chosen to not engage the s…
/r/MGTOW205/11/19 12:51 AM
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I should have seen the writing on the wall before kids. We are a Christian home - but that does not mean we are exempt from anything difficult in life: it is a struggle - but I say that because perspective is needed for the next update / my wife INSISTED we watch the Video Tape marriage series from Focus on the Family in the late 80’s. Guys - I got through three tapes of 20 and shut down. It was all propaganda that the wife is the determinant of a happy marriage. I was too young to see it. I was…
/r/MGTOW204/11/19 03:55 PM
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Your points are concisely what I see through MGTOW eyes in today’s world. Yes we have been faithful to each other and the children are deffo mine. We were raised in strict Christian households and that viewpoint is the basis for our relationship ship. Hence the divorce is not gonna happen also because of those restraining viewpoints. But regardless of that, and yes, I have the best outcome from that transaction 32 years ago, I am NOT partnered with someone who is my soul mate - my mistake - and …
/r/MGTOW204/11/19 11:56 AM
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Ok. I’ll bite ... I’m 55. Did not have MGTOW back in the day. Married after college at 22. Job-Mortgage-Kids. Married 32 years. I married at 22 fearing loneliness. I married at 22 to a good Christian woman fearing I would not find one and feared my tendency to get with women who wanted to take advantage of a man. I married to avoid “degenerate habits” because I have a lot of partying tendencies. Now - marriage did keep me on the straight and narrow, but the relationship was never meant to be. Lo…
/r/MGTOW204/11/19 01:51 AM
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Dude I’m in Florida now - Alaska ! Ouch ! (Lol)
/r/MGTOW203/06/19 01:28 AM
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I like how you are talking ! Yes !
/r/MGTOW202/06/19 10:59 PM
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Yes - Agree or rather they would welcome someone with marketable skills I would think. But the cost of living in those countries is high I would think.
/r/MGTOW202/06/19 10:03 PM
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Why do you recommend these places ? Not that I doubt I want to appreciate more about this - thanks !
/r/MGTOW202/06/19 09:36 PM
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Dudes .... way back in 1985 before MGTOW, and before such a thought or movement like MGTOW existed, once a month me and my posse would get dressed up decent and go out to the movies followed by a huge steak dinner overlooking Pittsburgh followed by sipping whiskey in the bar afterwards. Not a date. All the money spent on ourselves. Good company. Fun time. AND NOT LONELY ! So - next time you want dinner and a show make a plan to get some of your like minded bros together and have a MGTOW night. I…
/r/MGTOW211/05/19 08:39 PM
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