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| 2 | What are your thoughts on dating work-in-progress insecure guys?That was beautifully worded :) To me narcissism and self-loathing are two sides of the same coin. I really think Chris Fleming nailed it, with the self esteem "tower of terror" in this sketch https://youtu.be/T-0py62rbm0 I struggled for years going from inflated ego to absolute self-disgust. True self-acceptance isn't absolute confidence bordering on cockiness, it's much quieter, steadier and way less flashy. It's feeling on par with others, nor better nor worse, just a human being who makes mis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 04:29 PM |
| 23 | What are your thoughts on dating work-in-progress insecure guys?Hey man ! 23F here, here are my thoughts. I've always believed the whole "you can't love someone else until you love yourself" to be armchair psychology. Yes, insecurities can and do cause strain on a relationship, they certainly have taken a toll on mine. But loving yourself and loving others are not opposite, rather learning to love others make you better at loving yourself and vice versa. Self-love is a happy byproduct of a healthy life, not be the goal. If you have struggled with mental illn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:33 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?I genuinely feel sorry for them and wish they can find the love and intimacy they need. Lack of relationship, lack of sex and even lack of human touch really takes a toll on someone. I'm a former ugly kid, on the spectrum, and date women as well, so I know how ruthless modern/online dating can be. Especially if you're someone who has difficulties with the texting banter required to be successful on dating apps. HOWEVER, for some men -not all- but a vocal minority, empathy for their situation has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:11 PM |
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