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| 9 | Final strawI couldn't load the dishwasher correctly and I would leave the refrigerator door open too long. You know, all of that important stuff. She suppresses her childhood, not my words but hers. Childhood trauma changes a person's personality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/26 07:45 PM |
| 8 | Alimony, the cancerMarriage is a state government Prenup. The State Government will decide the outcome of a divorce. Remember that men and women are equals. Majority of the time the man will be forced to pay child support alamony. You will pay alimony because she can't make it without it but we are equals. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 10:17 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce?That ship has sailed. She's coming at you with Papers! Papers from the State Government and from her Lawyer! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/26 01:08 AM |
| -1 | How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce?It wasn't a rant! It's a fact. It doesn't matter how long you are married. It will still determined by the State! With or without " Children"! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 11:55 PM |
| -2 | How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce?I didn't say that | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 11:03 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce?People don't realize that a legal marriage license is issued by the State that you live in and so it is basically a Prenuptial agreement between you, your spouse and most importantly the State. So the State determines what who gets what in assets during the marriage. The State doesn't want to pay any welfare and food stamps so it will make the bread winner pay what it deams reasonable to maintain the personal welfare of the children and the spouse who it determines who is best to take care of th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Happy Sunday fellas, divorce sucks but what's one thing you're looking forward to this week?I'm going to load the dishwasher incorrectly, leave the refrigerator door open too long and eat on my couch! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 12:47 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorce and she’s the breadwinnerWhen more men make more money than women more baby's are born and when more women make more money than men less baby's are born! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Question for divorced men who hookup how do you find so many women to have sex with?Three six rule. Six foot tall, Six pack abs and most importantly a six figure income! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Who Here Has Had More than One Divorce, and Why do you Think it Keeps Happening ?Marriage is a Prenup. It is a State Government Contract. Guess who the government favors the most? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 10:59 PM |
| 18 | For those who made it through to the other side…I will never allow another woman to treat me like I am a second class human being! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/26 11:49 PM |
| 3 | There's no incentive to being a good man anymore.A lot women grow up watching Disney and Hallmark movies thinking that there is a Prince Charming to come and sweep them off their feet. They feel that they deserve a 3 Six Man, 6 feet tall, 6 pack abs and 6 figure income. Most women end up marrying the"Good Guy". A good guy is a good provider, good father and a good husband. Good guys don't die when their heart stops beating, good guys die when their heart is broken! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/26 01:29 AM |
| 1 | It was her that held me back, but my fault for not seeing it.After divorce I realized that I'm saving at least 4 rolls of toilet paper a month! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/26 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Talk me out of it.It will make you look weak to her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/26 11:52 PM |
| 10 | How to move onI married when I was 26 and my wife was 20. We were married for 42 years. Two children now 39 and 36. Divorced 2 years ago. My wife has several unresolved childhood traumas. She told me that she should have gotten help a long time ago but now it's to late. I'm not saying that was the fault of our divorce but it played a good part. A lot of other stuff that I won't get into. I just turned 70 yrs old less than a month ago. I have always been very active and I'm in very good shape for my age. The f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/26 08:17 PM |
| 3 | What’s the most desperate thing your ex wife ever did?She got those but after 25 years one started leaking so got to get new Boobs. $15,000.00! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 10:10 PM |
| 8 | What’s the most desperate thing your ex wife ever did?She said that she was going out of town to go shopping. In reality she had an appointment with a plastic surgeon. She paid him $2,000.00 down payment non-refundable. She got her face lift which cost $8,000.00 total. 62 year old woman trying to fight Father Time! She's now single. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 05:50 PM |
| 3 | How to figure out my identity…Before you got married You were a Man, but then you got Married! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife invited me to Christmas day activities.Women's marriage vows. To have and to hold unless I become unhappy. To forsake all others unless I become unhappy. Til death do we part unless I become unhappy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is CowardlyEvolutionary | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/25 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Divorce Over: Dealing With The LonelinessYes it is possible. The void is there. I would rather be married and happy with my partner but her past and my ignorance was too much for us. We have two children and my daughter has my 3 yr old and 1 yr old grandsons. That's what I focus on! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/25 12:49 AM |
| 16 | Divorce Over: Dealing With The LonelinessTwo years for a man to come to terms after divorce. I am 1 yr 9 months after divorce and I am mentally and physically doing good. Married 42 yrs and I have spent 70 yrs on this planet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/25 11:56 PM |
| 5 | Did you think you were a prince and a hopeless romantic?Too many people have been indoctrinated when they are young by Disney and Hallmark movies about the Prince and Princess. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/25 02:03 AM |
| 7 | So F’ing SadFunny how her new life didn't change, she's still the same old girl that she used to be! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Miss herOnce upon a time I was a man but then I got married! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I’m not a bad man…Alexithymic? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/25 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Is marriage burnout a thing?Once upon a time I was a Man but then I got married! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 12:58 AM |
| 3 | 8 years together and suddenly I discovered her serial cheating. Her lack of effort to hide things hurts more than the cheating itself. (Long rant and trigger warning, it’s Very cruel cheating)It's Evolution. Women desire the biggest, strongest and fastest Spear Chucker! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | I think my stbxw is in AI Psychosis, and I don’t know what to doIt may sound made up but it is real! Look it up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/25 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Found out my wife hasn't felt the same for a year, devastatedShe feels differently about your relationship? Translation= She has or wants someone else! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 08:38 PM |
| 5 | What ruined your marriage?Marriage turns Love into Labor! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 01:04 AM |
| 13 | It was “just” an emotional affairMarriage isn't worth divorce. Don't get married! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/25 12:54 AM |
| 12 | A positive thing about divorceAutonomy = Self government! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Do I visit my dying Ex-wife?For better or for worse she was part of your life. If some part of you wants to see her and to say your goodbyes and your new partner is okay with it then I think it would give you some peace of mind. We are all human and none of us are perfect. Do what you think is best for you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Divorce is finalized today, which she instigated seven months ago, but why do I feel like shit?Studies say that it takes a man two years to get over divorce. Funny thing is my doctor told me this too. I'm one year divorced and it has been a struggle but I am in a much better place mentally now. Time heals in some ways. By the way, I am 69 and was married for 42 years. I wish you well brother!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/25 01:19 AM |
| 12 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.I drove down the street and there were kids on bicycle's in the street. I didn't run over them! It's amazing how I can drive my car without my Ex with me! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/25 12:51 AM |
| 9 | What Is Behind the Trend of Women Initiating Breakups and Divorces?From 1870 to 1970 a man working could provide for his family because wages increased more than inflation. From 1970 inflation increased more than wages so women entered the job market to make up the difference. Also Americans were introduced to the credit card with extremely high interest rates! So Americans went into more debt by paying for the mortgage, car payments,credit card and day care. During this time the divorce rate increased to 50 percent or more. Divorce is filed 80 percent by women… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/25 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Put Truck Nuts on Her CarShe is living rent free in your brain! Get your sh#t together! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 06:05 PM |
| 6 | For recently divorced menI'm 69 yrs old. Married 42 yrs. Been divorced 11 months. I need to say no more! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/25 05:19 PM |
| 39 | My brother in laws divorce settlementMan gets on his knees with a ring and says . "Will you destroy my life". She says "OMG" Yes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 01:42 AM |
| 7 | How do you cope?Time. That's it my friend. You will grieve, you will cry and you will reflect but it takes Time. You will survive and you will move on sometime! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/24 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Recovery TimeTogether 42 years. It's been 8 months since divorce. It's getting better but it's still tough! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you cope with guilt?Yes that's right, you need the Hindu God, the Muslim God, the Jewish God, the Buddha God, the Apollo God, the Dionysus God, Hermes God, the Poseidon God, the Zeus God, the Hades God, the Aphrodite God, Osiris God, Isis God, Horus God, Nephthys God, the Odin God. Do you want more? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/24 02:15 AM |
| 3 | My Story…a summary of 15 years. Can you relate?Sounds like she is like my EX. Childhood Trauma! It alters and changes their personality. Maybe or not? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/24 01:17 AM |
| 9 | Missing her latelyLoyalty? Most men take the vows and want to be loyal and honor it out of Love and duty! Most women take the vows but are loyal to their feelings. If they love you and are attracted to you then they are loyal! When they stop loving you and are no longer attracted to you then guess what? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Why do men take divorce so hard?For better or for worse unless I'm unhappy To have and to hold unless I'm unhappy To forsake all others unless I'm unhappy. You need to free your man from this nonsense! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Wife No Longer In Love Me, Wants OutSorry 😔 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Wife No Longer In Love Me, Wants OutYou asked for advice! I hope you are right about your situation. You said her feelings are "Probably Valid" ! Probably is a little more than Maybe. She's told you that she doesn't love you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 07:11 PM |
| 22 | Wife No Longer In Love Me, Wants OutWhen a woman wants a divorce she more than likely has a backup plan and a backup Man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 05:47 PM |
| 13 | Getting a divorce at 70 years old - any advice?I'm 68 my ex wife is 62 married 42 yrs and divorced for a little over 6 months. Staying mentally "Ok" during a divorce is virtually impossible and extremely hard after the divorce is final. Time heals somewhat but it doesn't erase your memories. You will go to bed at night and you won't be able to shut off your mind. So far for me it's a process that gets better then it gets worse then it gets better. You and I are close in age so we have something in common. PM me if you want. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 02:26 AM |
| 0 | Ex-wife wants me to not dateDo you want to feel like a Man? Does she do things that make's you feel like a Man? The answer is right in front of you! Do you recognize it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Light blub momentI know! BDD big time! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Light blub momentMy Ex told me she was going out of town to go shopping. But she was lying. She had an appointment with a cosmetic surgeon. She paid him $2,000.00 for a down payment (non refundable) with the total cost of over $8,000.00. She got her "Facelift" and years later I couldn't tell a difference. This was after breast implants, liposuction on her hips and legs, vaginaplasty, Botox injections, tattooed eyeliner, many bottles of fat burners and anti-aging pills ( $150.00 a month). What a fuckin waste of m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 01:55 AM |
| 5 | My Divorce is finalized. Seeking advice to stay strongLet it Go, you are not married to her anymore! Who she is with is not your business and who you are with is not her business! Look to the future and stop dwelling on the past! Let It Go! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 09:04 PM |
| 6 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolLet go of the past. Do you want to go back to what was? You won't change and she won't either! Forget it and move on into the future! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 11:21 PM |
| 11 | What were the ethnicity/race of your ex-wives?Martian! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 06:30 PM |
| 6 | How much did you spend on your divorce?$1,800.00. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 02:09 AM |
| -6 | It wasn’t an accidentYou refer to your imaginary "God" as "He" and "Him"! Does this God have testicles? Maybe your God has a Vagina? You have no idea because you have Never seen It with your own eyes! Grow up! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Why would you recommend against marriage?I would remarry if she has Millions of that green stuff! 😀 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 04:24 AM |
| -4 | Ugh.I may be wrong but I don't understand why women who have sex with multiple men are referred to as "Whores" and when a man has sex with multiple women are "Studs"!. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 06:29 PM |
| 3 | I'm so....lostFirst thing that I would do if it were me is I would get checked for STD's! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 01:53 AM |
| 13 | Healing?"Men value Love and women Love Value"! "Women marry men hoping they will change and men marry women hoping they won't change"! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 01:03 AM |
| 7 | What do you think people usually get wrong about you and your divorce?You're in my club buddy. Married 41yrs 9mths. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only one that finds it hard to trust women with my feelings ever again?Love this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Share experience for those of us staying in marriage for the kids?Our childhood whether good or bad has a tremendous effect on who we are as adults! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Question for everyone - What advice did you get here (and other div subs) that proved to be useful? Did you take it/not take it, and how did things play out?Never separate, end it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How old were you when you get divorced?68 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | What songs helped you ?You should have seen by the look in my eyes, baby There was somethin' missin' You should have known by the tone of my voice, maybe But you didn't listen You played dead, but you never bled Instead you laid still in the grass, all coiled up and hissin'. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/24 12:50 AM |
| 20 | What is one line or quote you can share to help fellow divorced men?Women marry men hoping they will change and men marry women hoping they won't change! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/24 11:57 PM |
| 14 | The Divorce TemplateWomen marry men hoping that they'll change and men marry women hoping that they won't change! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 07:29 PM |
| 13 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?You will use less toilet paper! A lot less! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 11:01 PM |
| 10 | I have the deepest empathy for all divorced men.I can put my dog and my ex wife in the trunk of my car then let them out after an hour and guess which one would be more happy to see me? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | The most significant factor to make you go through the excruciating process and lost half asset/pay alimony/CS?68 yrs old when I divorced. 41 yrs married. Not one major factor. I believe that our childhood has a tremendous effect on who and what we are as adults. My childhood was good. Her's was very bad. No father, sexually molested, living on welfare and food stamps. It was worse than you think! She would not get therapy or any kind of help. I finally just gave up! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/24 04:04 PM |
| 2 | How much money did you lose during the process of divorce?WTF! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Trying to find balanceWomen don't fall in Love, they look for opportunities! It's evolution! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/24 03:59 PM |
| 3 | How much did you spend?I spent $1,800.00! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/24 01:49 AM |
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