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I don't have the courage or experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:40 PM
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I'm plenty warm by myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:40 PM
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Redpill me on non thin women. Waifs are so much hotter but I don't stand a chance. Tell me why I should lower my standards and get a "thicc" (fat) gf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:08 PM
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Rich politicians not everyday folk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:01 PM
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All my gay male friends are muscular Chad types and I'm often left thinking how bad it'd be for unremarkable straight men if these gays weren't off the market lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:39 PM
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Repealing the 19th would be so bad for Republicans lmao trump literally won white women as a demographic and the most freverent pro life ban all abortion people are women Anyways no immigrant or brown man ever called me incel so I don't see how trp and alt right intersect at all. Non immigrant white liberals are 10x worse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:37 PM
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Is there a possibility my brain is just gone too far then? I did nofap for three months and still was not attracted to fat girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:13 PM
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How much of the "don't watch porn" argument is about becoming more attracted to women in your league not the infinite customizable options every porn site has to coom to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:59 PM
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Ugh but I don't wannaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:41 PM
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I do for common human struggles just not dating ones
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:41 PM
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A "nice guy" wouldn't care I'm just trying to understand more than I currently do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:47 PM
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I'm actively trying to better myself by asking how I can not be dismissive of their problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:38 PM
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Because I completely lack the ability to feel bad for them on the matter and I know that's wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:21 PM
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I wouldn't be here if I was but my standards are non existent at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:20 PM
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This is perfect thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:19 PM
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How do I develop empathy for women's dating problems as a man? Any books or movies I should watch that aren't just about women dating above their league and getting ghosted because duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:50 PM
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If you had to put a dollar amount value to dating a non boring non insane attractive girl what would you put it at? I think I'd rather have that than 5 million dollars, but probably not 10 million
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:08 AM
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Had a thought. If schizophrenia is genetic and dating is hard for mentally healthy men, won't it sorta be bred out of existence in a few generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:13 AM
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Both don't live in desirable areas (rural NC and rural NH), are nerdy (not fat/ ugly tho) work from home and have undesirable hobbies (guns mainly) still interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:38 PM
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Do any of you guys have male bisexual friends who just choose to date men only cause it's easier? Two of my irl friends are like this always engaging in dating some gay far away then finally meeting up and making it official. Both still 100% like women/post regular female porn/aren't pussy virgins and aren't ugly/fat and certainly not poor. But both describe dating women as entirely too much hassle in comparison (the "competition with dozens of other men" for the woman's attention seems to be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:24 PM
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I'm happy ur happy but man there are just zero drawbacks for men who become baby daddy's in comparison to women who become single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:28 PM
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Thank goodness tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:18 PM
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Ty for answering my q first thing. Second thing is idk I'd push back so much harder with a woman friend on the issue than a male one. Maybe it's just grass is greener but not a chance in the world I'd date a single father if I was a woman in my mid 20s. So many other options that don't drag along such dead weight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:17 PM
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I don't totally agree with how you got there but I agree with your overall conclusion that there's no changing a woman's mind on such a touchy subject and any pushback is just gonna make her dig in here heels more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:14 PM
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Do women who date men who already have kids just get zero pushback whatsoever from their female friends? That's just what I see and it's so different on the other side. It was an intervention style meeting with my very successful male friend who fucked a coworker with kids, reminding him not to "catch feelings" quite forcefully, our married friend saying "I won't let you do that man". Repeatedly telling him he's better than settling for that. I've had to personally just myself intervene with les…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:03 PM
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I have been doing that for years I'm still cordial, friendly and geniuenly happy for them. But doing that for years hasn't made my self resentment any better in fact its made it worse. I'm quite literally living proof your idea here doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:26 PM
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book recommendations if seeing other people, even very close friends succeed makes you want to kill yourself? ive always struggled with this but after multiple therapists ive discovered therapy, at least the kind medicaid can get me, is pretty useless by itself. hearing "dont compare yourself to others" does nothing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:00 PM
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No? It's for marriage and maybe kids? Like duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:38 PM
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idk man most of my male friends qualify with some/most of those traits and probably do open mindedness even better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:16 PM
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idk seems like a stressful adventure even compared to a long hike or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:47 PM
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ok advice i guess, but no idea what you mean "qualities of feminity"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:46 PM
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I'm ambivalent. I don't hate them for sure, if anything I'm just jealous of their societal position. I want to like women in the end, mainly to not die alone, but I've only been friends with like two ever in my adult years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:16 PM
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That's literally what I've been doing and now I realize that if i don't get my shit in gear now it's only gonna get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:40 PM
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How can someone who's 24 and never dated learn to enjoy dating like at all? Instead of just seeing it as a means to an end, a thing you "must" do, in order to not die alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:10 PM
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"Start dating when your ready" as advice for men is equal to purposefully misleading the retarded off of a cliff. Ugly as sin men with experience since high school or even college have a bigger advantage dating than a super attractive male model who's 35 and an anti social virgin I'm the worse of both worlds. 24 and bald, not even that fat but zero experience and totally mentally ill. And the complete lifestyle change I'd need even stand a chance at not dying alone or having to settle for a fatt…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:12 PM
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its been suffering a stark decline over the last years for sure, posts that make /r/all are upvote botted to hell and back worse than ive ever seen on a social media site before. however small-ish communities like this are still ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:00 PM
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I'm 24 and refering to women around my age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:33 AM
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That's the thing, they want a pass to be sensitive and judgemental themselves but not men. Unless ur their gay eunuch bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:30 AM
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After a while you'll have the realization that one's gender has minimal impact on one's personality. Do you sincerely believe that? No hate I'm just wondering are you being completely serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:28 AM
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Movies, Shows or other media that will help me learn to understand and love women? No pua shit or relationship advice garbage, I just want to stop finding every woman my age to be highly sensitive insufferable r*tards I've done all the self introspection I can. My male friends comment on how less cynical I have been recently with them. But I cannot turn off the switch with women as I just do not get them at all. They are just more sensitive, more judgemental, less funny and less enjoyable humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:27 AM
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How about "most fat women can go from a 3 to an 8 if they lost weight" I firmly believe this btw, 90% of women below the age of 30 with a healthy bmi are easy 8's to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:28 AM
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I have been on many different anti depressants and anti psychotics in the past and they really hardly did anything. Continued to get worse slowly but surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:02 AM
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That's exactly why I want nothing to do with dating and need to find happiness in being alone forever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:15 AM
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Do you mind if I push back on the weightlifting just a little? I just don't see the point man, strength has never been my weakness but endurance/cardio type stuff is. The thing is weightlifting is easy vs working on endurance/cardio isn't for me. I just don't at all get how it ties into self improvement when I can already work a pretty labor intense job with little issue compared to most I work with. There's just no tangible reason to be able to lift heavier than I already do imo and increasing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:07 AM
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I've had one most of my life but after I was all alone after my dad died the stress outweighed the benefit of feeling less alone (and no an easier to care for cat wouldn't do it for me sadly) Also wasn't exactly the love I was searching for as I was used to the love from the dog. Lucky to have my cousin who's great with dogs and lives on a farm take him tho and I still see him every year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:02 AM
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That's really good actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:52 AM
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Yeah that's how I felt going into college but as soon as I got there and saw friends getting into relationships I got jealous and when my dad died I realized my mom (and me) and our humble lives made him happier than any amount of money could have. I did a complete 180 from "get an bachelors then an MBA and make great money" to "I will never be happy without love like my parents had". Which as hard as the former is, the latter is much less of a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:47 AM
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Thank you for giving me actual topics to look up. The path to self improvement is difficult because It's constantly undercut by the idea that I currently barely see it as worth in any self improvement if I still in, hell in ten years even, will be alone. Key word currently. I want to change that. But I also don't want to pretend "I'll find someone someday" because I'm exhausted of that dumb gen x and below mantra
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:43 AM
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Regarding your last point, I'm Starting to get the idea that most ppl can really buy their own happiness on things that make them happy. Quitting drinking a month ago and smoking weed two months ago has made everything more dull and lead me to dwell on my own status as being alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:30 AM
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How'd you end up happy with that tho? I don't even need the hookers but I'm seeking to become happy with a life exactly like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:27 AM
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I've accepted I have no intention to do the insane work needed to even give myself a shot. The direction to self improvement is completely different and way easier (e.g. get a job in the forest service either with or without college) than the direction toward getting a gf. That's just one example What I'm really asking is how to be OK with being alone forever, that last word meaning it's explicit definition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:26 AM
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If I don't even want a women friends I'm never getting a fwb to occasionally help patch over that "love hole" nor do I really want one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:16 AM
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What's the best path for accepting always being alone? I don't want to do anything that's required of me to find a gf ever. I don't place blame with anyone but myself for it but I just refuse to change everything about who I am to even have a chance at a gf. I don't even want women friends in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:08 AM
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