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this sub is starting to become a war of genders at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:25 PM
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but then how am i going to make friends to go with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:08 PM
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How can i meet girls and make friends if everyone at my social context, only think and like going to bars and clubs while i hate to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:00 PM
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thanks for the advice men, all of that sounds right and possible for me to do. im also introvert and never felt the need to make friends and meet new people since i always had my childhood friends, but now i moved to another country to go to university and everything is new to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:55 PM
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thats a way to make things go south
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:29 PM
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also, in another post, someone suggested to imagine that im talking to men and trying to be friends with him, and that should make me feel less anxious and more chill, do you think thats a good way or that will put me in the friend zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:27 PM
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in another post, someone suggested to imagine that im talking to men and trying to be friends with him, and that should make me feel less anxious and more chill, do you think thats a good way or that will put me in the friend zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:26 PM
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thanks, i guess ill try that. tomorrow we have a class that i missed a lot, so ill ask her for some notes or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:10 PM
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but like, what should i say after greetings? my mind is literally blank, i cant think of anything to say. id like to have a conversation with her first before asking to go for a coffee or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:41 PM
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that actually increases the chances of him to be bad in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:39 PM
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To me, its not necessary about the number, but the personality and lifestyle that comes with it. its just not for me. I respect others who disagree with me, but i dont want that to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:34 PM
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How do I start a conversation with this girl at uni? I'm in the first year of uni, and I guess I could say that I have social anxiety, but I'm trying to get better. I already made friends at uni, so I take that as a win. So there is this girl at uni and she is kinda cute, definitely my type, she seems to be shy and doesn't talk much. I have thought about talking to her, but I just don't know what to say after greetings. Any advice or help?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:32 PM
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This argument doesn't enter my head. I have always been an athlete since I was a child, I was/am always the most muscular and with the best body of all my friends, but at the same time I was/am always the least successful with woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:34 AM
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having female friends is a green flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:05 AM
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but do you think thats your preference, or is a consensus to woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:56 PM
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yeah, i misread your first comment, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:55 PM
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she didnt turned me down, she was the one proposing sex, we stopped because i moved to another country
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:54 PM
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getting to know someone, having a relationship, making a new friend. not every guy wants to fuck and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:53 PM
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of course, the "just be yourself" advice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:47 PM
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if id known, i wouldnt be here asking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:44 PM
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but the present and the future is what matters. all that matters is that im commited to my partner and im faithful. the only place where you could argue that past matters is that if i have cheated before, in which i have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:44 PM
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thats not the "accepcting" that i meant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:42 PM
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but we are only friends right now, we dont talk about it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:40 PM
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Not every guy is only looking for sex when approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:39 PM
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In general, guys are way more accepting to small tits and ass then woman with short hight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:32 PM
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Is it a red flag to have female friends, as a men? I have a best friend for about 7 years and we are really close, like we tell each other everything, we even fucked once, but now we live far away, so were dont do it anymore. do you guys think that other woman would see this as a red flag even though we are only friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:31 PM
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ideal to who or what? Humans are tall relatively to dogs, but are short relatively to girafes. Those really are subjective terms. Again, if the average human height was, 7ft, a 6ft guy would be considered short, which in to this day, is considered tall. Looks is the exact same thing. If everyone has the exact same face atributes, then no one would be better good looking... It feels like im talking to a kid who doesnt know basic stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:27 PM
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If everybody is "tall" and "good looking", then nobody is tall and good looking. Those are relative terms. If everone is equal, no one is better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:21 PM
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Woman struggle is that the most of the houses they go, it's always dirty and messy, Man's struggle is that they are living on the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:32 PM
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its not an opinion that men are generally more undesireble, thats a fact proven by studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:29 PM
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Only people who are physically blessed, say things like looks is not the most important thing, or that personality is the most important, or that you have to have game. Sure, those are important things, but looks is what makes the door open so you can use your "game" and show your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:45 PM
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and what is your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:36 PM
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In my view it’s like having friends. It’s an absolute necessary thing to have to be happy and mentally well. Me not having friends or sex 🤡💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:36 PM
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that everyone can have a SO if they lower their standards low enough and actively look for them, but somehow, im a anomalie to that concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:39 PM
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surfing, cooking, helping street cats, playing guitar, fishing (but i see how this is not an attractive hobby so i dont usually mention it), etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:23 PM
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im okay with not hot girls though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:22 PM
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but everyone on my class seems to have already made friends, like im the only one alone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:53 PM
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what kind of social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:51 PM
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they dont go out of their way to hang out with me without a reason, like just for the sake of it. Once a girl asked my insta for her friend, but i think thats about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:44 PM
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but everyone at my uni have already made friends, and it seems like im the only one who didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:42 PM
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there you go what? i shouldnt respect woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:41 PM
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it is the 2 best in my country
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:40 PM
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i didnt mean to be offensive and/or mean. i just said that i dont think that my social skills are that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:39 PM
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i dont do online dating, i just think is a bit weird for someone at 18 be there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:38 PM
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but listen, my mom said i am good looking, and my mom doesnt lie!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:35 PM
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yes, i do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:35 PM
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you dont even know what uni i go to bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:31 PM
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yes, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:31 PM
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im 18, and im trying to meet people at college, which i just started, at the gym and at the beach because i started surfing. since i moved to another country, i dont have any friends to hang out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:30 PM
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they could be better, but its not like i am autistic. i can talk to people normally without getting anxious and nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:29 PM
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i have people who tell me that i am attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:27 PM
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not really, no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:26 PM
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you can ask me questions. if i were able to figure it out by myself, i wouldnt be here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:10 PM
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making friends, relationships and romance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:09 PM
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making friends, relationships and romance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:08 PM
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what is wrong with me? Im decently attractive, a 7 on a good day. im above average fit, i workout, have interesting hobbies, im studying at a well prestige university, and im not poor. can anyone help me find out what is wrong with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:00 PM
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im 18 and i gave up from even trying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:33 PM
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The thing is, I dont want to live in function of getting woman, of dating. I have my hobbies, friends, family, career, things that takes time and energy, and nowadays, it feels like in order to be successful at "the dating game", you cant spend time, money and energy on those things. i just want a happy balanced life and still enjoy the company of someone, but that feels unreasonable somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:06 AM
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No, incels are the very minority of society. You are looking at things inside of a bubble of the internet/Reddit. the HUGE majority of guys you described are not incels, and dont have much problems with dating, they surely are not full of options and success, but they are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:38 AM
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For women who do not have downright ugly faces I think that makes every woman that is near their healthy fit weight a 7 or above. No shit! If she doesn't have an ugly face and is fit, how do you think that someone would be considered under average? ​ I think if her face is a 3 and she is at her ideal weight then she is a 7 Well, you're just wrong. The face is one of (if not THE single) the biggest factor of how attractive a woman is. And if the main aspect of someones attractiveness is a 3, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:04 PM
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In my opinion, parents shouldn't be encouraging competitiveness until the kid is at least 14-15. It can be a really a bad thing for their mental health. I speak from experience, the fear of letting my parents down, the constant pressure from other and me to perform. And after some years practicing a sport, you can just stop enjoying it and want to give up, but the kid will be afraid to give up because of how invested their parents. Kids already have too much going on during the teenage years, ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:52 PM
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