Holiday_Jeweler_4819 Archive

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1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do You don’t have to say it, but the first comment in this thread is doing the old “I’m sure it’s possible and I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but…” rig amoral that people raped by women have to deal with constantly and the focus on strength differences is probably the biggest stick used to beat these people over the head. Hell even the women I know who have been raped by women have the “why didn’t you just fight her off” line used against them often	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 07:06 PM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do So what’s your argument? That it’s impossible for a woman to rape a man? Because I know several dudes who would take issue with that idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:38 PM
2	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Do you seriously believe that there aren’t women who lie to men to get said men to sleep with them? If so I have several bridges I’d like to sale you	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:32 PM
6	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do There’s literally people on this post saying they “don’t understand how a man can be raped by a woman” so… is pretty bleak out here	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:28 PM
4	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do I think a big problem is that tackling modern rape myths requires two things that I don’t see happening any time soon. 1. For people to admit that a lot of assumptions they make about what rape looks like and who the victims are doesn’t paint the whole picture or in a lot of cases are just straight up wrong. 2. For a lot of people to admit that some of their behaviors actually fall under the category of sexual assault and rape. An example I always use is a buddy of mine, when we were in college …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:27 PM
3	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do It’s means that a lot of people won’t touch this subject because they believe it gives ammo to misogynist, which is ironic because the same misogynist they claim to not want to give ammo to turn around and use the fact that these things are rarely talked about as ammo for their argument that feminist don’t care about equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:18 PM
2	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Probably not, people seem to have this weird need to make people raped by women a footnote in the discussion about rape but never a serious topic, that’s why every conversation about it starts with the person groveling about how they know they aren’t the main victims or apologizing for their existence in some way shape or form, because when they don’t the comments are filled with “you know it happens to women more” or “women make up such a small number of rapist that it shouldn’t be the focus”, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:15 PM
2	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do You made this claim “Women are raped in prison too, esp from male prison guards actually. Does the rape of men in prison outnumber the rape of women in prison? Does adding those numbers to the general (noncriminal) population actually make men the majority?” When the amount of inter inmate rape in women’s prisons out number the amount of rape they experience from guards, also yes the number of men raised in prison does exceed the amount of women raped in prison with women representing only 33% o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:00 PM
0	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Weird how you completely skipped over the part about women prisoners and how they’re more likely to experience sexual assault from their fellow inmates than they are to be by a guard where the numbers are relatively low	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 03:37 AM
1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. The person you’re responding to pay off “womenarentintomen” which is a collection of right wing incels and progressive incels who have decided that women aren’t actually sexually attracted to men as a way to cope with whatever their problems with women might be. I’d refrain from taking them too seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 11:56 PM
1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Did Jim Crowe harm white people to the extent and in the same ways that it harmed black people? Obviously not, but if you don’t believe that Jim Crowe laws also hurt white people then I think there’s a gap in your knowledge about the civil rights struggle	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 11:52 PM
1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Idk sounds like a pretty common human stumbling point. I hear people blame others for their problems all the time. Something I constantly see online that drives most people who engage with these matters from a professional stand point insane is instead of having actually conversation about how these things effect people people engage in constant hyperbole “men don’t do that” “a woman would never do that” “well I’ve never seen a man/woman do that”. We can engage in reality and still call out shit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 11:45 PM
7	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. And men do have the ability to form support groups and social groups for men. We can do that. But it seems like we just complain on the internet and then stop there. I mean men do that. No need to engage in hyperbole	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 11:29 PM
7	Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humans I see this so much on the internet, a dude will say something like “me girlfriend/mom/sister/friend reacted negatively to me opening up about something that was bothering me” and the responses are “you must’ve done it wrong” like there aren’t plenty of women who don’t take the emotions of others well, it’s human, and to my knowledge women are in fact humans so I don’t know why so many people find it hard to believe. What I find hard to believe is that they themselves have never had a women react…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/07/25 05:37 PM
8	Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humans The thing I find about most “progressive” people is they just flower up the language of the status quo and then act confused when the status quo keeps chugging along, plus being critical of society and other people is way easier than being critical of yourself, so tons of them stop being critical at the societal level and believe that because they espouse progressive views that they must be modeling them as well (hint: they’re not)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/07/25 05:31 PM
5	The Economist: The stunning decline of the preference for having boys [full article in comments] Tailoring policies to help struggling boys need not mean disadvantaging girls, any more than prescribing glasses for someone with bad eyesight hurts those with 20/20 vision. This author does of course realize that being born a boy is in-fact not a physical or mental handicap right? It would not be as bad as too many men. A surplus of single women is unlikely to become physically abusive. Indeed, you might speculate that a mostly female world would be more peaceful and better run. Ah yes because …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/06/25 07:20 PM
4	"I don't hate men, I hate the patriarchy" What are some things you think of when you hear this statement from feminist? If I’m talking to a college professor, or someone who I know, knows what these kind of academic terms means of have a different reaction than just talking to some rando off the street. I don’t think most people who use the term really actually knows what the fuck it even means, they’ll give you a cookie cutter definition of you all but then continually apply it in ways that make little to know since or straight up contradict what they’re trying to say (an example “and who created the system” as …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/25 11:07 PM
3	Why is it that whenever men try to open up about serious issues mental health, loneliness, systemic struggles the conversation always gets hijacked or derailed with blame, deflection, or “women have it worse”? Where are the spaces for honest, empathetic discussion? This bleeds into the topic where so many “progressive” people feel the need to qualify the suffering of some demographics with the fact that others have it worse “I know I’ll never understand what women go through but as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse” are words I’ve actually heard come out of a dudes mouth in one of these spaces, I wanted to say to him “you know you don’t have to point out that other people suffer in order to deal with your own out have meaningful conversations about the …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/05/25 01:02 PM
6	The mockery of male loneliness I just think it’s fascinating that men and women can report the same problems for similar reasons and people will still go “nah I know a guy, and based off that all the data is wrong” I know that’s par for the course on the internet but it’s extremely frustrating	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 07:30 PM
7	The mockery of male loneliness So the studies that show that many of the reasons that men and women report mostly the same levels and feeling lonely are what? What about the ones that show that deviating from gender norms actually showed an increase in levels of loneliness? https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11829320/ I am and will continue to be suspicious of anyone who blames problems that can be found across multiple demographics in statistically significant amounts on individuals	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 06:38 PM
8	The mockery of male loneliness I think the real problem is that people have a child like understanding of what society is and how it’s formed, and then they take those half baked ideas and attempt to tackle social problems they don’t understand.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 05:08 PM
7	The mockery of male loneliness Bad news it’s not just the men who are lonelier it’s everyone https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 04:56 PM
8	The mockery of male loneliness I do feel that the male loneliness thing is self-inflicted for a lot of reasons. The biggest reason is whenever you ask a guy who says he's lonely he often always mentions lacking a gf. And that's the issue: the goal is to just get a gf, like this would magically fix everything that's making him feel lonely. See the problem is I always see people say this or some variation of “well I asked my friend why says he was lonely and he said he wished he had a girl friend so it must be that” when none o…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 04:53 PM
18	The mockery of male loneliness It’s crazy how it perpetuates both the “man up” and the “men only want sex” narratives that so many of these people claim to be against. Literally a few moments ago I saw I conversation on instagram where some guy was implying that the male loneliness epidemic was “just incels who are mad they can’t get laid” despite the research into the topic not showing that at all, and when someone pointed that out others joined in on the bandwagon of claiming that “no it’s just incels”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 04:43 PM
10	The mockery of male loneliness It's ironic because in mocking male loneliness they are, in effect, demonstrating why the male loneliness epidemic exists in the first place. They’re also perpetuating the same ideas that fuel this loneliness epidemic, because despite constantly blaming it on incels the data shows that loneliness is up across genders and they largely report similar reasons for feeling lonely to the point where many studies haven’t been able to find very meaningful differences in why men and women are lonely. So …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 04:38 PM
9	The mockery of male loneliness Most people in general “stfu” in the face of oppression, just like most people had little to no hand in getting us to where we are today. The idea that people aren’t allowed to voice their discontent of a system because they share some immutable trait with some of the people in charge is an immature way to view the world	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 04:27 PM
11	The mockery of male loneliness The system doesn’t have some over arching designer it comprised of many ideas for a variety of people and places. The idea that of current system was set up by the collective machinations of people past present and future is a fantasy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 04:24 PM
15	The mockery of male loneliness It’s also just a silly argument, if a white woman complains to me about how the system has disadvantaged her my first thought isn’t going to be “well white people made the system so go complain to them” because that would make me an asshole	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 03:59 PM
7	The mockery of male loneliness The same thing goes for the education problem that people love to hand wave away, it’s typically the communities that already aren’t doing well that are hit the hardest, that’s why when talking about actual social problems the term “men” almost never paints an actual picture of what’s happening because “men” covers an extremely large category of people and can mean many different things depending on the context.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 03:56 PM
11	The mockery of male loneliness This is a part of a larger problem when it comes to online commentary and how despite how much some narratives are proven wrong they stick around. Right now the prevailing idea behind the “male loneliness epidemic” online is that it’s just a bunch of sad boys who can’t get laid despite the fact that studies have shown men and women report similar levels of loneliness and similar reasons for having feelings of loneliness ( https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11829320/), and often times if yo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/25 04:49 AM
3	Men in Shed’s pressured into allowing women to join To be fair a lot of that was do to their inability to actually keep boys safe which rightfully nose diced their reputation causing membership to plummet	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/25 02:26 AM