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Fundamentals Holiday_Treacle6350/r/seduction06/09/24 09:03 AM
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ResourcesHoliday_Treacle6350/r/seduction16/08/24 07:50 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationHoliday_Treacle6350/r/seduction22/04/24 05:17 PM
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do a hard reset
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:40 PM
1

Do both.
/r/seduction10/09/24 05:53 AM
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there will be new girls on new trips :)
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:55 PM
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OLD is perfect if you’re in the top 10% of profiles. top 10% of attractiveness /= top 10% of profiles
/r/seduction06/09/24 04:18 PM
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Good for you but it simply shows how much effort you put in OLD and cold approach
/r/seduction06/09/24 04:16 PM
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I understand your point, this is meant for beginners. If they had wings or had the balls to go solo nightgame they would be doing it already
/r/seduction06/09/24 04:12 PM
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yeah sure dm
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:54 PM
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be a passport bro and get some experience
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:54 PM
-2

Sure, try and be in that group. Or be a passport bro and get some experience. Idk man people are being quite negative here.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:53 PM
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You will find many videos on youtube and good articles on reddit. some subreddits also offer feedback. This is a whole other thing so won't go into it, but there is a lot of material you can research
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:51 PM
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Do more research, really try and maximize your profile's potential. If five people look at your profile they should barely suggest any changes.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:50 PM
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Okay lol
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:49 PM
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But have you truly optimized your profile? I am a brown guy living in Montreal who doesn't speak French. The excuses are easy to find. But one can make it work with effort and some creativity. And so what if you get ghosted? Something you did was wrong - work on it.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:47 PM
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Just delete the apps and only cold approach now that you're familiar with this.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:46 PM
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For your friend, it's clear he hasn't truly optimized his profile. Like really to the point where if you show it to five people they can't think of many ways to improve it. And as for the AA...that's complacency. If you truly wanted to do it, you would. Or that now you're good with OLD and know the game better, delete it and only rely on cold approaches.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:45 PM
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Listen even if you get her on a date from OLD...it's not like the game ends there. You're just changing the funnel, now she's at the bar with you -- why does it matter how she ended up there? For a beginner, it's much better to go out with women on the regular and be used to the female company and touch.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:43 PM
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Exactly my point. The fact that you have some success keeps you from losing hope, even when you approach you're doing it somewhat with an abundance mindset. You know that even you're rejected 10 times in a row there is someone online who sees value in you and wants to go out with you.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:41 PM
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Sure they can go do 100 approaches but really how many women are available and interested in a guy in a sample of 100 (even if he does everything right)? How much time does this process take? And let's face it - OLD is just a funnel. Once she's on the date, you still need game.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:39 PM
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I was in the same boat, now I'm matching and going on dates with 7-8s. You really have to optimize your profile and make it the best version you possibly can. Once your profile is in the top 5% or so you will see the difference.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:36 PM
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A very negative perspective. Have you seen what the competition looks like? Absolute garbage. I used to not get matches until I started using boosts, got some professional pictures taken, and worked on my bio and messaging. It takes effort but an attractive profile doesn't need an attractive man behind it.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:34 PM
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How is your success online?
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:54 AM
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its a lot of fun with the right people. But no totally you don't have to, focus on your strengths :)
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:20 AM
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sure
/r/seduction25/08/24 09:13 PM
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sure but with all the fluff, so many might stop replying midway through the script
/r/seduction25/08/24 04:48 PM
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you don't need all this, too much work for nothing. Just be normal & ask her out
/r/seduction25/08/24 10:58 AM
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introduce them to each other, all girls are bi & you know it
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:09 PM
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I am in the same boat. What I do to keep sanity - date many women until one of them says I love you then I drop everyone else. The process repeats.
/r/seduction22/08/24 02:19 PM
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There's some people who I know have been daygaming nightgaming for 3-4 years consistently but they have 0 results. So it's also about altering your approach, growing as a man, etc. at the same time which will truly unlock your true potential
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:13 PM
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no bro i was so bad, like so so bad. 1000s of rejections. this takes a while and you have to go through a solid one year pain period where you're just game game game. You're trying to change yourself, your personality, overcome your fears and this is the hardest thing to do
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:07 PM
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no bro not weird at all, if anything this will work in your favor. girls in their 20s typically go for older guys, enjoy the buffet :)
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:29 PM
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yes that's when the magic happens. i was dating hot girls like solid 9s but then out of the blue i met an influencer with 120k followers here in Montreal. She was so into me texted me all the time and like literally when i saw her instagram there were hundreds of dms and messages that she never opens. and more recently i started dating the most beautiful girl i have ever seen like everyday im like holy shit she's with me?? and she keeps telling me she loves me blah blah. These experiences make y…
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:08 PM
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are you speaking from personal experience?
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:04 PM
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this guy fucks
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:41 PM
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best case if you're out among strangers a hot girl gives you an approach invitation. delulu is strong. please be more masculine and approach - don't be scared buddy
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:02 PM
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looks are important. other comments make it seem like its either or. but dont obsess and be negative work with what youre given
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:48 PM
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bad mindset - why are you waiting for women to approach you?
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:29 PM
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once you fuck a few 10s you don't really care if some 7 rejects you. Other comments are ignoring this. Until you're really successful, rejections will hurt you and bruise your ego. There is a mindset shift from "what is wrong with me what did i say why did she reject me" to "meh" because you have much hotter girls in your rotation
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:53 AM
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depends where you are, i know a website that delivers in canada. personally never used it but i know many who have
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:42 AM
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girls are attracted to passion, if you're passionate about a topic and you've done your research you come off as 'intelligent'
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:21 AM
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Not really, a group is better. You learn off of the skills of so many people. 2 sets 3 sets 4 sets - there's enough people to occupy everyone. 90% of the people simply have AA and that can be fixed just going out with people, we all help each other out. For the 10% of people who have been approaching for 6+ months and still have no closes, a paid workshop might be worth it.
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:56 AM
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anyone reading this, join a game group and find wings. don't pay for this. if you're in montreal i can introduce you to awesome wings who pull / close 2-3 times a week from nightgame
/r/seduction18/08/24 05:52 PM
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Just paying for the date is ok in my books
/r/seduction16/08/24 11:39 PM
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cialis gang
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:49 PM
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dont give cash or allowances, if they ask for it move on to the next one. it's not as black and white as you think
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:03 PM
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time to find a wife bro
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:30 AM
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bad mindset. why would you ever wanna ask for sex
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:29 AM
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disagree with the other comments. spend 1k get a photographer get all the apps pay for premium and if you want extra easy mode take a flight to colombia. point being optimize online game first before cold approach. this would get you solid 3-5 dates / week so your overall game would improve and abundance mindset would be established automatically. then you can learn how to pull close etc
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:27 AM
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could be your insta is shit. try whatsapp / number & report back
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:24 AM
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talk to other girls infront of her whenever you get the chance. then see what happens
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:21 AM
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cialis gang lol
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:19 AM
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yes but if you're older you might have competition from guys that are older & paying them. so ymmv. but good pics & good text game will give you the edge def
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:18 AM
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us guys on this sub bro lol. like im assuming most guys here are < 35
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:16 AM
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so its a sugar relationship dating website. hot girls mid 20s mostly. they're kinda the gold digging type. its a beautiful website bc you don't have to match with anyone. anyone can message anyone no matter how far away. we're young so the competition is incredibly bad, girls to guys ratio is 4:1. downside is chicks will ask for allowances - if they do then move to the next one. hope you have good text game.
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:13 AM
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yes
/r/seduction16/08/24 07:57 AM
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any "easy" country with white girls, OP?
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:55 PM
10

Go all in and get your heart broken. Then you can see the suffering in life & move to the himalayas
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:55 AM
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Traveling will open your eyes my friend, plenty of 10s who will love you for who you are. Just enjoy the moments you spent with her and let her go :)
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:41 PM
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This is reality, unfortunately. If you keep at it while focusing on other parts of life such that women don't make you overly happy or overly sad, you will start experiencing more success. Or the same amount of success, but it won't bother you as much.
/r/seduction20/07/24 08:33 AM
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Try everything, reach your highest potential. But never try to put on an act. Cheers! :)
/r/seduction17/07/24 02:35 PM
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Been exactly where you are. I'd say embrace yourself the way you are, you're the prize here. If you want to change, instead of being fake and try to look dominant, join a fighting class. Do more masculine things. But if you don't want that, just be yourself. Go on dates until you find the right ones that match your energy.
/r/seduction17/07/24 02:28 AM
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Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge have done wonders for me. Also, seeking arrangements (ifykyk). In fact, I'd argue why anyone would wanna go to a bar / club for night-game. Or on the streets for daygame. The chances of success are so low. This is coming from someone who did daygame and nightgame for one year 4 times a week.
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:33 PM
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I dated an influencer and had a great time. She was very sweet. I learned a lot about life by looking at her loneliness.
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:46 PM
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Go someplace easier, Colombia comes to mind
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:27 AM
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You have love to give - if you feel anxious about "being too available" after 5 months, you need to ask yourself if this energy could be directed towards someone more deserving of it.
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:29 PM
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Assume it's ASD and go out with her. You will know soon enough how it is
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:12 PM
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Find her interests. Say what are you doing this weekend, suggest going to an event that aligns with her interests. You could also make it more digestable for her by saying oh I have an extra ticket because my friend cancelled at the last moment, etc.
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:09 PM
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This. And if you put on a performance, you will eventually have to remove that mask one day. This will make you anxious because you will worry that she doesn't really like you for who you are. And if she doesn't like you for who you are, that will hurt.
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:07 PM
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You have a fear of being judged. You are socially conditioned not to talk with strangers in particular settings, that's why it's okay for you in a bar. Remember your first few cold approaches - it probably took some balls. You just have to go through this pain period again.
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:05 PM
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See you're pushing and pushing with no pulling back. With every push she moves farther away. Don't text her and put an instagram story with another girl, or at a bar of 2 drinks. She will see you're moving on. If she's still interested, she will send you a signal. But like the other comments say, it's best to move on. Furthermore, if you do this enough you might get a sense of which women will pull back after sex. So in these cases I withhold sex and say oh it's too soon I barely know you, etc. …
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:00 PM
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So if she's not taking initiative in hanging out with you that means she has other guys in her life. I tried this same thing with many girls where I stopped reaching out and they didn't ever text me. So you need to ask her out, fuck her, and then during pillow talk bring up the conversation - are you seeing other people, etc. and she will tell you her situation
/r/seduction01/05/24 06:37 PM
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Show me one good infield of Todd V, I don't know how y'all rate him so high. Owen all the way
/r/seduction01/05/24 05:48 PM
12

If you don't look bothered by it, she won't be bothered by it
/r/seduction01/05/24 05:39 PM
0

Control the frame, don't let her just run away with it. Cocky funny should work well here, give her shit like she'd do to you.
/r/seduction30/04/24 05:12 PM
2

Depends on your goal, if you're just trying to rack up closes then maybe don't hit them up. But if you're looking for something deeper what does it matter if you close on the 1st date or the 5th
/r/seduction30/04/24 05:07 PM
2

Do the things you mention at the end first, they seem good
/r/seduction30/04/24 05:06 PM
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They don't come off as needy or desperate. A woman knows she can be her feminine self with them and not be stressed about anything because they have their life in order.
/r/seduction30/04/24 05:04 PM
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I got you bro. Make her a song and send it to tell her how you feel. Corny af but works like a charm - I made one with just your post for reference (https://suno.com/song/2a140e96-55e4-403c-b3e6-62a8618ffa13)
/r/seduction30/04/24 04:59 PM
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Once you get the numbers, do something different. Send pictures, voice notes, call her. Give her more of your personality, as you build a deeper connection these problems will go away.
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:11 PM
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Been there and suffered too but this is not super hard to crack, let me tell you what I do. When I match, I send voice notes, as I move them to imessage I call them to set up the date. After the date I call them to make sure they're home safe and to let them know I had a good time, etc. etc. Basically -- I never text a woman, only phone calls & voice notes. As you have a few successful phone calls, this will almost be a normal thing between the two of you and you really can't be in the backdrop …
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:04 PM
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Tried yesterday it works like a charm, she doesn't get frustrated because you actually still escalate in other ways. You do everything else normally but no kissing.
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:51 PM
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