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I didn’t try tinder until I was 35 and set the age range from 18-50 and most of my matches were early to mid 20’s but a girl that was 19 hit me up. She was hot too but I passed. Too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:45 AM
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Social media and video games for the most part but in person in various situations like parties and bars etc. I never set out to meet younger women they just pursued me. I understand that’s a unique situation though. For example here on Reddit in my late 30’s early 40’s I’ve met multiple women in their 20’s who wanted to talk. I turned all of them down because of the age gap. I tried it a few times and it didn’t work out at all. My hard line now is 30 and above. To date a girl in her 20’s she wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:43 AM
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The real death blow is if you’re talking to a woman and she gives you a legitimate insult. Like not playful flirting but she makes usually an underhanded comment about something she thinks is negative about you. At that point it’s over, she’s made her decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:44 PM
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Honestly that is often one of the very first questions a person, man or woman asks me after meeting them for the first time. It’s just basic small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:37 PM
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I don’t want to change it, it benefits me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:36 AM
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I don’t care. I was just pointing out an observation. That women are attracted to guys that are technically bad for them logistically but good for them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:34 AM
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No, no one has to fuck anyone. Who ever said anything about people being forced to have sex? Like what are you talking about? I was talking about how women date assholes. I never said they didn’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:31 AM
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Assholes and chads are not the same thing. A Chad can be a nice guy, but even nice chads get skipped over for the asshole chads. That’s the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:00 AM
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I mean it’s not that hard to find. https://reddit.com/r/ActualPublicFreakouts/s/qn33ynGk9I https://reddit.com/r/ActualPublicFreakouts/s/VFUklauCL8 https://reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/s/9y9NE2Z1GF
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:04 PM
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Yes, but it goes a lot deeper than that. See men are always doing things for women. At any given minute in life any man is doing things for women, essentially if you think about it. We build the world both literally and figuratively for them, that’s because we want them to acknowledge us. They will never understand how that feels. What’s it like to care so much only to be mocked and ridiculed. I understand both men and women feel pain but I’m only speaking in my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:27 PM
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Think about modern dating this way, women don’t need an AI boyfriend because they can get validation from real men if they want to. Most men can’t and are turning to OF and AI bots for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:22 PM
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I consider it racist.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/23 06:17 PM
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From my experience in life women seem to often date “bad boys” when they are young and settle down with a “nice guy” later in life. Not always though but I definitely see that a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:48 PM
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I think it depends on if you are talking about hook ups vs long term relationships. Social status is much more important for women than men in long term relationships, but when it comes to casual hook ups looks matter the most. Men don’t care about looks as much for casual hook ups, in fact if a guy is looking for an easy hook up he’ll have more success hitting on less attractive women. The same goes for women, but because of the 80/20 rule women have the ability to hook up with guys who are bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:42 PM
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I’m 42. When I was 14 I would never label a 21 year old guy dating a 17 year old creepy. Now if I had seen a 21 year old woman dating a 17 year old guy that would be considered kind of weird because women usually date guys who are at least a little older than themselves. Off the top of my head I believe the age difference in the US is around 5 years on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:23 PM
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Then they should specify that. Because I’ve had way to many conversations with older women who claim younger women (in their late teens to mid 20’s) would never date a guy in his 30/40’s. But in reality you see that all the time. You can try to label the guys as “creepy” to insult them but it won’t change the reality that a lot of younger women actually prefer older men for various reasons. I myself could care less about what age grown adults choose to date but the denial of reality is kind of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:16 PM
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Yeah I agree but my point was that when I was growing up the older guys in their 20’s dating teenagers weren’t social rejects. They were usually popular amongst their piers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:45 PM
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And just FYI all older women were once younger women Then why do they lie about younger women being attracted to older good looking and/or successful men? A good looking 40 year old man can attract a woman in her 20’s really easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:42 PM
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When I was growing up the older guys were usually popular, and always had a “cool” car.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:30 PM
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Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:58 PM
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The main insults that feminists’s usually use against men they are arguing with are making fun of them for crying or the size of their dick. I guess the only way to smash the patriarchy is by re-enforcing traditional gender roles. Totally not confusing at all. Let me put it this way, no one is trying to force society to pretend that fat guys are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:04 PM
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And we all know that when women are in power they aren’t violent and society is a utopia. Just ask Margret Thatcher, or Joan of Arc, or Cleopatra…oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:38 AM
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TIL that it’s Chad to simp for hoes.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/22 10:08 PM
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There is nothing less Chad than paying for sex.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/22 10:02 PM
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I’m a straight guy so I don’t think I could objectively rate the men but I will say most of them could really boost their ratings if they worked out, dressed more stylishly, and took better pics. Red Pill 101. Women: 2- 6 I might have rated you higher if you lost the septum piercing. I’ve never found them attractive at all, especially on women. 3- 5.5 Again I can’t stand when women stick out their tongue in photos. It’s an instant turn off for me but everyone’s different. 4- 4 I think you would …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:24 AM
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Yeah same here, I have a similar story as most guys who become red pilled. Growing up I was good enough looking that I didn’t have to try very hard to get girls but I totally noticed that what they said and what they actually did were almost always different. And because of societal conditioning I was in denial about human nature for a really long time. That denial resulted in a very hit or miss love life. I consider my self a relatively smart person but for the life of me I just couldn’t figure…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 07:56 PM
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That’s the anti beta filter. Submissive men will take her at her word and not try to hook up with her. Dominate men will just ignore it and try to pump and dump or set up a friends with benefits situation. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that if she is a single mother at 19 she’s probably really, really into hook ups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 06:35 PM
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I don’t shame sluts, I just avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:04 PM
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Everyone knows that a random dudes cum heals all ailments.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 09:56 PM
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Yup. Short haircut dyed hair librarian glasses tattoos etc. Looked like the typical profile picture of a SJW feminist on Twitter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 02:42 PM
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I looked at her profile. Overweight Unattractive Divorced (supposedly her ex husband had major mental health issues. Threatened to kill himself and her dog then left her) Makes posts that sound like a 13 year girl wrote them Dresses like the “quirky” goth tech chic on cop shows The fact that she was actually going to reject one of the only men who would go on a date with her amazes me. She’s such low hanging fruit a midget could pick her without a ladder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 08:42 AM
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Hmm, it seems the salt brigades hove found this post. Oh well I found it entertaining nonetheless.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/21 10:41 PM
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LEFT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 05:42 PM
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LEFT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 08:41 AM
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The whole thing is about the human psychology of a persons mind. That’s essentially what the red pill is. Using psychology to improve your results in dating/relationships. So personality is the single most important factor in TRP. The theory goes that if a man can accept human nature objectively instead of based on subjective emotions or lies he was told by other people and adjust his personality to fit the traits that women are attracted too (like being confident and not neurotic) it will impro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:14 PM
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You know it’s funny because quite a while back, maybe ten years or so ago a young women wrote an article anonymously about a minor celebrity she had sex with. I can’t remember the dudes name but he was mildly famous because he wrote a blog about his sexual conquests during college and I guess he was your typical douchey frat bro. He talked about banging sorority chics who came to his frat house and got black out drunk. I think in today’s #metoo environment he would get canceled immediately there…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:56 PM
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The reason most news outlets don’t use the term rape is that feminists hat a shit fit a while back claiming if a woman does it it isn’t rape because women are oppressed or some BS like that. They said if a man has sex with a minor it’s rape because men are in a position of power over young women but if an adult woman has sex with a minor it’s not rape because women are not in a position of power over young men. So they were basically condoning adults raping children. They even were trying to get…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/21 09:46 PM
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It’s really kind of ironic if you think about it. The whole point to women’s lib and the sexual revolution was to empower women and give them control over traditional gender roles in dating and sex. But all it’s really done is enhance men’s ability to get away with not having to commit and still get sex. It’s almost like some masterful male horn dog Svengali was the real origin of the sexual revolution. “Let’s see, how can we create an environment where women actually think casual sex without co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 05:37 PM
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LMFAO I just knew that post would end up in here I almost posted it myself. Honestly whenever I see posts like this I have a hard time believing they are real, but I see stuff like this so often that there is obviously a pattern. What I find hilarious is that she is essentially bitching about guys not rejecting her in a mean or callous way. Like a guy being polite and doing the right thing absolutely disgusts her. She wants a guy to be a jerk to her because in her mind being polite and nice equa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 05:12 PM
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Another single mom looking for something serious. Literally, why not want something serious before having Chad's kids? Come on man, you know why.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 07:07 AM
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I think when guys think of average they think something like this: https://images.app.goo.gl/gpQMMSFTNaadGPN38 Or this: https://images.app.goo.gl/ugD8yLx3qgJxMynS6 And when women think of average they think of something more like this: https://images.app.goo.gl/19pD4cnWWSTPPu619 Or this: https://images.app.goo.gl/P2AxedyAS4Ff8e7w9 I feel like for men if a guy is even just a little bit good looking he is above average but for women average means a guy who is base level attractive. So like a male …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:55 PM
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Mr. Pendantic. Did you seriously just assume their pronoun? I’m literally shaking right now. You should be ashamed of yourself bigot.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/21 08:11 PM
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They are talking about how the director of the film said if it didn’t do well at the box office it was men’s fault a week before the movie came out. I could be wrong though.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/21 07:04 PM
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They should make a holiday we’re all women have to go without makeup for a week and see how it works out for them. It would be like that Chapelle Show skit where a woman with big boobs is complaining to her friend about how annoying having big breasts is. Then a “fairy godfather” ghost like in A Christmas Carol shows up and shows her what her life would be like if she was flat chested. Basically every dude she thought was nice and would do favors and stuff for her now gave zero fucks about her a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 10:14 PM
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Nah women do care about sex as much as men, they just have better self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:00 AM
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And put “she/her” in her profile description even though no one asked.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/21 06:43 PM
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For the life of me I can’t figure out why in a million years someone would want to watch a ten second video of a person doing some cheesy dance. Like I’ve seen an actual funny tik toc video once or twice before but it seems like 99% of them are just some moron doing a dumb looking dance for a few seconds. WTF is the point?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/21 07:45 PM
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So I just responded to another user and I feel like it addresses your comment as well so I’ll just copy it verbatim: I just used starvation as an example to show the extremes of what feminists consider male “privilege” in the west. She thinks because she can’t wear sweat pants to a party she is oppressed by the patriarchy, meanwhile some poor guy in Africa is lying in a ditch slowly starving to death. She wouldn’t know oppression if it smacked her in the face yet here she is on social media whin…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/21 12:26 AM
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The fact that she thinks a fashion choice is a societal privilege shows just how much of a privileged life she lives. People are waiting in food lines for hours because they can’t feed their family and this woman is complaining about having to wear more than one dress when she socializes.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 09:31 PM
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She’s just cosplaying a lumberjack.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/21 08:22 PM
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I would have liked the security guard wearing a badge and uniform plus hotel staff and bystanders to physically restrain her until police arrived and the police charge her the same day like any other common criminal.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/21 09:39 PM
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Just reverse the race and gender. Imagine if a 22 year old black man tackled and assaulted a 14 year old white girl going to brunch with her mother and tried to take her iPhone. He would be under the jail the same day. All the men in the area would have tackled him and held him down until police arrived.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/21 09:10 PM
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Just reverse the race and genders. Imagine if a 22 year old black man assaulted a 14 year old white girl like that and tried to steal her iPhone. He would be under the jail the same day. All the men in the area would have tackled him and held him down until police came instead of letting him walk away like she did.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/21 09:07 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/20 06:29 PM
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That’s so hilarious because that entire website has been built on simping. If it wasn’t for simps it wouldn’t exist or at least wouldn’t be as big as it is.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/20 07:33 PM
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Holy crap did they ban the word simp on twitch?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/20 07:17 PM
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Can anyone here explain the problem to me? Sure, there are a million reasons but I could just start with a few of the most obvious. Would you want a girlfriend who any man you know can go online and see her naked fucking a dildo? Your dad, brother, creepy uncle, friends, that dude she talks to during breaks at work? Or let’s say you end up getting married. Then one day your own son finds out from his friends at school that mommy showed her titties and pussy online to random strangers when she wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 08:17 PM
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The thing is, people who look young for their age like Selena Gomez win in the end because when they are in their 40’s they look like late 20’s early 30’s. People are always surprised when I tell them my age. Back when I was younger, looking youthful bothered me because I wanted to look more mature and grow up faster like most kids but as I got older it’s helped more and more. I see people I went to high school with who look like 10 years older than me now. They didn’t age well at all. I think a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:30 PM
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A lot of the LTRs I’ve been in the woman was seeing another guy when I first met her including my last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:29 AM
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Dude, this sounds like a conspiracy theory. Got a source that is not a private blogpost? https://reuters.com/article/amp/idUSTRE5064YM20090107
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:20 PM
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Yeah my sister doesn’t have a reputation for being a slut. Is that supposed to be a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:11 PM
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Yeah I agree the president is sort of like the king of America in a way. But just look at who the president often is, men from super rich dynastic families that often have multiple generations serve. The Bush’s, the Clinton’s, the Kennedy’s, the Roosevelt’s, the Trump’s etc. In fact I would say that uber rich families have more power than the government does in the US. They control political elections and directly influence congress and the president. The president is mostly a place holder for o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:37 PM
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If you go far enough right you get sovereign citizens and libertarian’s who hate the state just as much as Antifa. It’s called the horse shoe effect.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/20 08:54 PM
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Well my observations are mostly anecdotal, but this is just one study I think it would be good to look at multiple research studies to get a better idea of the numbers. I was mostly pointing out that even if low value women are in the majority I myself have still seen plenty of high value women (by my definition) that get into a AF/BB situation. I would say that one reason there are less HVW that AF/BB is because when they get married they don’t get divorced because the fact that they and possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:27 PM
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There are plenty of examples of AF/BB with high value women too. My own sister did it and she’s far from low value. She was born into an upper middle class family, raised by good parents who aren’t divorced, she has always had a lot of success in school and her career. She has never been the type to sleep around she only has sex in committed relationships. She has a masters degree in psychology and her own practice. She’s good looking and has a great personality. She is currently married to a be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:45 PM
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I agree with all of what you said. My main point was that common sense and logic would tell a person not to get into a romantic relationship with a person who has BPD, but because women are attracted to him (for whatever reasons) logic and common sense go out the window. I’ve been saying for years that the emotional side of the mind usually overrides the logical side of the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:50 AM
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I would say the same applies for the mental health issue in terms of dating a man who has an OnlyFans. But that was very astute of you because when it comes to “slut shaming” there is a double standard. When a woman sleeps with a lot of guys she is called a slut but when a man sleeps with lots of women he is often admired as a ladies man. I think that has to do with who the gatekeepers are of sex. Men are the hunters and women are the prey so if a woman gets caught all the time she’s seen as an …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:47 PM
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Yes as usual I probably should have put a disclaimer in pointing out that I definitely do not think every woman on earth looks up to Cardi B. I know there are lots of women out there that have more positive role models which is a great thing. I respect that. But I have noticed an uptick in trashy worship on social media and it’s kind of sad. Not only that but if I were to make a comment on certain subreddits or parts of twitter about how I think Cardi B is trashy and shady for drugging and robbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:30 PM
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The thing I find interesting is that sure, if I see a mug shot of a very attractive woman I might be like wow she’s hot, but I wouldn’t in a million years consider dating her. And I remember with Meeks women saying they wanted to “wife” him or get into a LTR with him. I feel like that’s the difference. I could use Pete Davidson as another example. Pete isn’t really super attractive like Meeks but he’s not bad looking either, slightly above average some might say. But because of the earth shatter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:06 PM
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Fair enough. I get your point about the difference between personality and character. They are different. But I feel like that doesn’t make women’s choices of men any better. You would think women would date men who had good character like they say they want too but they seem to often do the opposite. I think that bothers a lot of guys who were raised in good homes and spend the time and effort it takes to be a man with honorable character. They were told that if they did that life would reward …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:30 PM
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Here’s the thing about Jeremy Meeks, all of the women who were going nuts on social media saying they wanted to date him didn’t know what his personality was like. They hadn’t met him nor had he done any interviews in the beginning. All they had to go off of was a mug shot and the info that he was a convicted felon. But they still went crazy for the felon not knowing if he had a good personality or not. I think that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:10 PM
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You would be surprised there are tons of girls out there who know what’s up and are down for a casual hookup just to get their rocks off. But I think what you’re talking about is when a woman who has tons of thirsty betas orbiting them then they meet an alpha and actually get it into their heads he might be willing to become their boyfriend then after sleeping with him get ghosted or friend zoned and can’t take the rejection because they aren’t used to getting rejected. They still have billy bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:15 PM
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Incel has become the male equivalent of Karen. If a guy says anything a person disagrees with online they are called an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:01 PM
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No
/r/seduction01/11/20 08:27 AM
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I would urge you to look into all or nothing thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:04 AM
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No I think they just mean to treat them like human beings and some some scary creature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:57 PM
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That’s just because men are WAY too thirsty. Aside from being super desperate trying to get laid on a dating site men do judge women very harshly on their looks. Just go into r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen and read the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:33 PM
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I agree. Society judges women more on their looks than men. But let’s face it being born unattractive is a horrible twist of fate. When I was growing up I saw how people treated both men and women who we’re unattractive. Because I was young I never really thought about it, but a few years ago when I first heard about incels I realized how much it must suck to go through life like that. So I do have sympathy, but there is a healthy way to handle your problems in life and unhealthy ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:29 PM
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Tbh I think the main issue is that most people who criticize the red pill have no idea what it is because they are basing their opinions on third party information, and because some members of the community do not know what they are talking about unfortunately. Nothing in your post has anything to do with the red pill really, except that the red pill is partially based on evolutionary psychology (and biology). I agree about the debate between nature vs nurture, that’s an important part of TRP. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:01 PM
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What conclusions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:53 PM
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I never understand why people get so butt hurt over evolutionary psychology/biology. It is what it is quit trying to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:38 PM
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I’m a guy and I could tell which dude they were going to pick the second they lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:14 AM
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Yeah I agree that it’s different for men and women when it comes to physical touch. I would never in a million years touch a woman before I knew it was acceptable, or I guess I mean I knew she was conferrable with me doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:38 PM
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Well yeah obviously if you were slapped or assaulted that’s wrong. When women have grabbed my ass or rubbed their hands on my chest I didn’t consider it assault because it didn’t hurt. If they straight up slapped me in the face I would get upset because that is crossing a line into assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:30 PM
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Didn’t bother me really but it did make me see the woman doing it as lower value because of how thirsty she was. Tbh I consider myself lucky that women want to touch me at all after spending time in forums like this. For most of my life I had no clue how miserable life must be for people like incels and femcels who never get the chance to feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:18 PM
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I was in a bar one time and a women I didn’t know pulled up my shirt and rubbed her hands up and down my chest. That isn’t the only time that’s happened either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:05 PM
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Based on looks I’d date some of them but based on personality I’d probably date zero of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:46 AM
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PPD women love him though because he’s a dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:39 PM
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Literally no such thing as an unfuckable woman. Oh I highly disagree, but the army of simps disproves me all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:48 AM
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Ewwww, average men are so creepy. I wish we could pack them all in a spaceship then send it into space so we wouldn’t have to look at their gross average faces all the time. All right I gotta go, I’m late to meet a tinder date that wants to put me in a dog collar and shit on my face while he calls me his little cum dumpster, then throw me in his “dungeon” (closet) until I know how to behave. He treats like shit but at least he isn’t average, errr I mean creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:41 AM
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That’s San Francisco when the sun disappeared for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:34 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:31 AM
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Damn she looks exactly like the archetypal BLM white female protester, all she needs is a mask and an entitled attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:27 AM
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If a guy is truly “red pilled” he isn’t spending any time complaining, he’s out trying to get pussy. Incels and MGTOW I’m not sure about I don’t frequent those circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:22 AM
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Well because this is purge week I was being sarcastic but I looked it up and Nick Jonas is 5’6”. He is clearly way under a lot of women’s height preference they claim is a deal breaker. BUT, as I’ve said time and time again women’s “rules” and “standards” go right out the window when: A. A guy is really good looking. B. He is rich. C. He is famous D. He has a lot of power. So, one must conclude that what ever “standards” a woman claims to have is absolute arbitrarily BS. It’s just to boost her e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:18 AM
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If we all walked around naked it wouldn’t help because some guys are growers and others are showers. Why women don’t understand this yet is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:12 AM
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Damn, it all makes sense now. These bitches believe in voodoo. Probably cuttin chickens heads off and shit just to get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:06 AM
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Nick Jonas is like 3 feet tall. According to Tinder profiles he wouldn’t even come close to being above the 6 foot cut off a lot of women have. Unless...women’s standards go away if a guy is rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:02 AM
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It’s purge week muthafucka!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:45 PM
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What rights are women missing out in the west? White women? Zero I would even say that white women in the west have more rights than white men and POC. That is where the whole “Karen” phenomenon comes from, entitled mostly white women having major freak outs and meltdowns in public the second their pussy pass gets denied. They go crazy if someone denies their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:12 PM
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Do all men approach everything with a pulse? It depends, if you’re really a Chad you have the ability to pick and choose if you want too. But I’ve had friends who were good looking and when they hooked up with women they didn’t care about looks. Of course when it came to LTR’s looks were important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:36 PM
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I think it has to do with how often you see women vs men leaving their SO the second they meet someone they think is better than their current SO. Throughout my life I’ve seen both men and women “upgrade” from one partner to another but in my own personal experiences I’ve seen more women than men do it. I have a pretty good perspective on this topic because I myself have been the upgrade so many different times. It’s happened to me so often that it’s hard to ignore the pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:27 PM
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I’m not sure if my real N count would be a good thing or a bad thing in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:05 PM
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I don’t care what types of men women are attracted too, but I do find it frustrating sometimes when women lie about it or deny it. They will say they just want a nice guy who will treat them right then proceed to date nothing but douche bags. Not all women but many do that then when you point out that what they are saying isn’t matching up with what they are doing they get defensive. It’s exhausting how contradictory women are sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:58 PM
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Men date asshole women too. It's quite symmetrical really. Assholery knows no bound and is evenly distributed among genders. I respectfully disagree. For the most part men try to avoid crazy women. Sometimes it’s hard to tell in the beginning how crazy a woman is but we try as hard as we can to avoid it. But studies have shown that women are attracted to cocky bad boys, and men who are openly sexist. I have a couple of female friends I was talking to once, they said they found a guy attractive w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:49 PM
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And reddit TRP used have tons of threads about how women shouldn't be allowed to vote That’s not inline with mainstream RP’ers that is a very fringe view only held by a tiny minority. or how sexual liberation was destroying society and so on. Stuff which had nothing to do with their "sexual strategy" and was repellant to anyone who wasn't some supreme incel. So they pretty much tradcucked themselves. I think most RP guys would agree that neither system is a perfect solution. I myself think that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 12:13 AM
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As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh https://web.archive.org/web/20091121080804/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/2009/11/17/your-looks-and-online-dating/ Abstract (TL;DR) This study was conducted to quantify the Tinder socio-economic prospects for males based on the percentage of females that will “like” them. Female Tinder usage data was collected and statistically analyzed to determine the inequality in the Tinder eco…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:38 PM
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I never said you should be disrespect women. I was just pointing out that studies show that even feminists are attracted to bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:57 PM
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The logical mind can not override human emotions and feelings. That’s why so many women date assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:28 PM
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I said this in another comment but it applies to what you’re talking about: Humans are like 99% instinct and 1% rational thought the majority of people on earth are in denial of this. And I didn’t learn that from TRP I learned it from a biology professor at Stanford University who teaches a course on Human Behavioral Biology. People run off of instinct so if you can learn about how those instincts work you can easily predict human behavior. Aside from outliers the majority of people will react a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:19 PM
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I was later introduced to feminism and it makes a LOT of sense. Also, feminism somehow brought me more pussy that the red pill ever gave me. Turns out women appreciates men who see them as equals ! Who would have thought? Psychology disagrees: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201812/feminists-think-sexist-men-are-sexier-woke-men?amp https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2016/09/13/im-a-feminist-whos-attracted-to-manly-men/?outputType=amp https://theconversation.co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:08 PM
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Because women do not like the idea of men having an advantage in sex and dating. Traditionally women have always had an advantage in dating because society doesn’t look down on them for using their own self improvement strategies. There is an entire industry built around improving women’s chances at attracting men, magazines like Cosmo and Teen this or that are filled with articles about how to improve their chances; makeup, hair, clothing style, what to say and do, and even what sexual position…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:49 PM
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This is a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:23 AM
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Yeah I have broad shoulders and have always got comments from women about it. I had a brief “dad bod” phase in my mid 20’s but I read something about the V shape and realized I needed to get in shape to better my chances. It’s funny though because I still had women pursue me with a dad bod(one actually told me she actually liked dad bods) but the thing I noticed was that I attracted completely different types of women than when I’m in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:48 PM
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It always has been I’ve seen studies in the past that show a man’s shoulder to waist ratio is attractive to women. Broad shoulders and a slim waist creates a upside down triangle shape and the wider the triangle is the better(for attracting women).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:36 PM
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What about dancing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:29 PM
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Women Are Wonderful Effect The women-are-wonderful effect is the phenomenon found in psychological and sociological research which suggests that people associate more positive attributes with women compared to men. This bias reflects an emotional bias toward women as a general case. The phrase was coined by Alice Eagly and Antonio Mladinic in 1994 after finding that both male and female participants tend to assign positive traits to women, with female participants showing a far more pronounced b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:27 AM
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IDK why we have to keep going over this. FDS will make you less attractive to men. Men do not like entitled women, a high maintenance woman is a guys worst nightmare. Only wet tampons and men with a sub/dom fetish like unrealistically entitled women. Good looking successful men avoid entitled bitter women like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:04 PM
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I’ve actually seen what several FDS chicks look like and one was ok, not my type but maybe like a 5.5, 6 on a good day. But her personality was absolutely HORRIBLE I wouldn’t touch her with a 10 foot poll. The rest were unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:34 PM
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Do you have a link to that purge post with the pictures? I missed it last time and I’m dying to see how attractive the “queens” of FDS are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 08:39 PM
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Probably would
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 08:17 PM
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I just looked at her twitter feed. The majority of the posts are negative things about men. Non stop getting angry at guys for various reasons. She had some normal tweets too but a ton of angry tweets about guys. She seems bitter, but that’s just my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:18 PM
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If you look at the picture it’s actually the man who is re-tweeting and responding to a woman’s tweet complaining about men. So in this particular case it’s the women complaining about men and men are responding to the complaint. Edit: Also if you look at the tone of the comments it’s obvious both men are being sarcastic and the woman is obviously salty about men, her comment has a very bitter tone. She’s probably one of those women you see on Twitter constantly tweeting about how men are trash.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:25 PM
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Neither can men
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/20 02:39 PM
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The rules women make are completely arbitrary. One time I was dating this girl and she told me she waits at least a month before she sleeps with a guy. A couple days later we fucked, which she initiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:08 PM
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That’s exactly what happened. I called her out on it and she said he looked really young for his age so he’s different than other older men. It was the classic “I would never do that” than she does it and uses the “but that’s different” justification. Crab bucket mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:44 PM
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No
/r/seduction18/09/20 07:09 AM
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Yeah like 2-3 times in the past I was discussing the age thing with women in this sub and after a while they finally revealed they were dating older guys. One women kept saying 20 somethings aren’t attracted to 35+ somethings but it turned out her current boyfriend was 37, just a year younger than me at the time and she was 26 if I recall. Classic shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 09:11 PM
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What’s interesting to me is that I constantly see older women complaining about men dating younger women IRL and at the same time I constantly see women in this sub and elsewhere saying younger women aren’t attracted to older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 08:06 PM
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My ex is 28 and I’m 40., we met when I was 36 and she was 24. We actually have a lot in common. There were a few generational differences from time to time but I’d say we had more in common than we were different. The whole reason we got together was because we were both really on the same wavelength about most things in life and had amazing chemistry when we first met. TBH in my mid-late thirties I’ve dated mostly women in their 20’s, and pretty much all of the women I‘ve dated have had somewha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:43 PM
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If that was true why would you care about my opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 07:03 AM
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You don’t have to be a chef to know if the food tastes bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:50 AM
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https://youtu.be/6rycK1daG9Q Sounds somewhat derivative of Necro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:08 AM
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My ex would be on the FBI’s most wanted top ten list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:58 PM
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But looking more attractive to feel comfortable has nothing to do with male attention, rather my social standing amongst my peers (mostly women) If that were true you would be single or dating a women. The fact that you are in a relationship means at one point you did want to attract men. Women compete for male attention. Why is wanting to feel confident and happy in your appearance a negative? It’s not. Why does it bother you women enjoy feeling gd about their appearance? It doesn’t bother me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:27 PM
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Not at all. There are a lot of different components to what makes someone attractive, not just how they dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:31 PM
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I not talking about how revealing your clothing is or was. What I’m saying is that the reason you wear makeup, fix your hair nicely, shave your legs, and dress in a cute outfit is to look more attractive. That is one of the reasonings your SO was attracted to you in the first place along with your personality. Unless he’s blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:24 PM
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I’m not trying to impress the random bar flies on the street, I’m not trying to attract men. How did you meet him in the first place if you don’t dress to attract men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:12 PM
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You can’t see how those two statements are contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:50 PM
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Women aren’t dressing for you. the only & mean only time I wear something riskant is on dates with my guy. Sounds like a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:42 PM
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Well said. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 10:56 PM
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Hey sorry for the super late response your comment got buried for some reason. Anyway there are men’s rights groups out there including women who are fighting for men’s rights. If you watch the documentary The Red Pill by Casie Jaye it highlights some of those organizations. Here’s a clip: https://youtu.be/HK7n_XA40V8 The issue is that society mocks and ridicules men who try to bring up men’s rights issues because there are more men in power than women. Anytime a person tries to shine a light on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 10:00 PM
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I’s not a religion it’s just a set of rules to avoid failure, not a spiritual quest for salvation. It’s just a specific approach to sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 09:47 PM
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I do t think you understood what I said. What I’m saying is guys who are naturally successful with women use a lot of the same techniques that TRP teaches like hitting the gym to look better and not being needy. A lot of it is just basic common sense but some guys are clueless about that kind of stuff. Other guys are in denial about human nature and TRP helps them accept it which is a very difficult thing because if social conditioning. In terms of outliers yes if TRP doesn’t help with a woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 09:45 PM
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Yes assholes do well with women. Maybe with women who are also assholes? I’ve actually found from my own experiences and observations in life that it’s usually the opposite. It’s often the sweet and innocent seeming girls who go for the bad boys. My ex was like that. She presented herself as super sweet and innocent but the guys she liked were more the asshole player type. The guy she was seeing before me was like that and the guy she started seeing after me was like that. He literally had his t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:27 PM
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I usually just pick the bill up, give it a quick glance to make sure everything is correct and then put my credit card in the bill and put it back down on the edge of the table. If a woman says something about splitting the check I’ll try to refuse but if it actually became an issue I might let it go and have her pay half. But I’ve never had a woman offer to pay when I did that. If it’s coffee or something more casual where we are at a register I’ll usually just say “I got this” and pay. Woman u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:34 PM
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My go to used to be sushi because I thought it made me look classy and hip or whatever but my current go to is pizza. Everyone loves pizza and it’s a lot more fun and casual. I still go to somewhat “fancy” pizza places so there aren’t 2000 kids running around and screaming but at the end of the day it’s still pizza so it’s fun. Plus it’s not super expensive which is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:20 PM
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How would you have handled it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:15 PM
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I’ve had women plan dates. But every single time they cooked me dinner at home. I’ve definitely never had a woman take me out somewhere to a restaurant or movie and pay unless we are already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:13 PM
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Some people really do act like looks aren’t important but swipe left on unattractive people, obviously those people are hypocrites. But for me personally TRP has never been about looks it’s been about personality. The blue pill says that looks aren’t as important as they realistically are, but it acknowledges that at the end of the day the better looking you are the better your chances. The real part of the blue pill that fails men is that it completely and utterly lies about what types of perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:08 PM
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How do you know who the guys in this sub follow on Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 06:03 PM
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Maybe not on the first date but they’ve been talking for months and have met in person. If it was me I would definitely invite her over soon. Maybe cook her dinner then watch a movie on Netflix.
/r/seduction26/08/20 10:23 PM
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There are lots of different ways. Try to remember a specific detail about something she told you about herself and do something for her related to it. Something small like a type of drink or snack she likes. Then casually mention you remembered she liked xyz and give her something related to it. But it has to be small not like an actual gift or anything. Even if it’s super subtle and you barely acknowledge it she will notice big time because it shows you were actually listening to her when you g…
/r/seduction26/08/20 10:08 PM
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I’ve never not payed for a date in the beginning. I usually try to make the bill paying as least awkward as I can so when the bill comes I grab it and quickly look it over to make sure there aren’t any unusual charges than I pull out my credit card, slip it in the bill and slide it over back to the edge of the table. I’ve never had a woman say anything about it. I’m just curious what would you do in that situation if the guy you where with did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 08:22 PM
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Casual sex is difficult to obtain for men even if good looking From my experience in life it’s almost the exact opposite. Casual sex is extremely easy if you’re a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 07:38 AM
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The problem with dating advice is that you have to have a lot of experience to be able to tell what advice is good and what advice is bad, but if you have a lot of experience (and success) then you don’t need advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:46 PM
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That sounds like the opposite of what I’ve observed in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:43 PM
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According to PornHub woman are more into kinky porn than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:13 PM
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I think RP theory is all about accepting the reality of observable nature. One thing I’ve noticed is that most guys go through different phases or stages similar to the stages of grief when they become red pilled. At first it’s denial, then anger, and eventually acceptance. So the guys in the anger phase are the ones you are probably seeing complaining in TRP forums. Most guys come across TRP because of a really bad breakup or divorce so they are definitely not incels, and veteran RP guys are us…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:47 PM
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I feel like your confusing the red pill with incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 08:44 PM
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One thing I’ve noticed is that it has a lot to do with having strong boundaries. There are so many people out there who try to manipulate their friends, family and romantic partners so they can get things from them. Sometimes it’s very small things, like cutting in line at a store, sometimes it’s big things like co-signing a loan on a home. But in the end when a person who has very strong boundaries comes along and doesn’t allow those kinds of people to leach off of them whether it’s financially…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:35 PM
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On Reddit, in subs like r/datingoverthirty or forty, r/dating_advice etc. I see way more posts of women who are 35+ whining about not being able to find a guy to settle down with. They constantly complain about either not being able to find high quality guys or only meeting guys who just want sex. I see posts like that on a daily basis. I also constantly see articles about middle aged women who are asking “where are all the good men” because they have a hard time finding the type of guy they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:50 PM
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I saw this post in relationship advice the other day about a girl who’s boyfriend didn’t like her N count and in the comment section I saw tons of people saying having a high N count wasn’t a bad thing and having 20 partners at 21 wasn’t a high number. But here in these studies I see that 20+ partners gives you an almost 50% chance of cheating. I’d love to see those people read these studies and have their minds break. Of course they would come up with some excuse anyway but it would still be ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:07 PM
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You might want to read a few posts like this in relationship advice first before you jump to conclusions. I see them all the time: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hqzpmb/my_boyfriend_isnt_okay_with_me_being_promiscuous/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:01 PM
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Persistence is the one I’ve experienced the most, I’ve had women that just won’t take no for an answer. I’ve even had women get a little violent with me when I turned them down for sex but that only happened a couple of times and they were very drunk at the time. But the most common one is saying I must be gay if I don’t want to have sex with them in an attempt to shame me. I think it has a lot to do with the stereotype that guys want sex 24/7 from any woman who will give it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:49 PM
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I’m trying to get a gauge of what people mean when they use the term manipulative. Im a guy so I’ve had women manipulate me into sex but I’ve never done it myself so I was curious how it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:18 PM
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One of the main things I see pushed by TRP is to essentially manipulate women into thinking your going to commit to them in order to get sex. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:58 PM
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I’m curious, what in your opinion would be a good real world example of a man manipulating a woman into having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:54 PM
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I'm just pointing out that if you need to lie and be manipulative to get in someones pants, that's fucked up. Well yeah obviously it’s fucked up to lie or be manipulative to get in someone’s pants. TRP teaches you to be direct and upfront about your intentions when it comes to sex. If you just want a hookup or FWB you should make it clear that’s what your looking for to avoid drama further down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:35 PM
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Lying is not how you pass a shit test. It’s exactly the opposite. The way to pass a shit test is to either ignore it and not react (confidence) or to throw it back in a humorous way that points out why it’s dumb (confident humor). Either way you aren’t lying or being manipulative you are showing you don’t freak out in uncertain situations which is a positive trait to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:05 PM
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Also, just based on personal experience, don’t need it. I’ve attracted great women and am currently in a great relationship without using red pill. Probably because I consider women people. If I had to look at every woman the way RP does, I’d be miserable. Even if I could fool them into sex, I probably still wouldn’t be happy with my worldview. If you’ve ever attracted a heterosexual woman to you then you have used TRP whether you knew it or not. That’s kinda the whole point. TRP truths exist wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:56 PM
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I don’t think passing a shit test is shitty behavior. I feel like you don’t actually know how to pass a shit test if you think it’s somehow being manipulative. It’s just not letting your emotions get out of hand or being anxious about it. Confidence is being certain in times of uncertainty. A lot of people can’t do that and the ones who can are good leaders. A lot of women want a man who can be a leader and not a guy who freaks out in trying times, both small and large. You know I have a friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:40 PM
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Yeah there are tons and tons of factors that go way beyond just looks although obviously looks are still a major factor. I like to use the term “full spectrum” to describe a person who uses all or as many factors as they can to have a more multidimensional persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:20 PM
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Yeah well I’m sure it depends a lot on how the guy looks. A good looking guy could probably get away with a touch or two during a conversation with a woman he just met if he knows what he is doing. But even then you’d have to be super subtle because human touch is a boundary a lot of people don’t like crossed. But I myself have had women touch me during our first conversation at like a bar or a party, it’s usually when they laugh, they’ll put their hand on my arm or shoulder, and sometimes knee.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:40 PM
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They would never consciously say that out loud because of social conditioning. But unconsciously woman see men who get a lot of attention from other women as higher status than guys who don’t. It’s called preselection. I saw a TED talk about preselection a while back. In it the presenter had everyone in the audience look at identical pictures of a nice hotel room. Then he asked half of them 2 questions and the other half 2 slightly different questions. For the first group he asked if they though…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:21 PM
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My point is that some people are naturally good at social interactions and others aren’t. But regardless of your skill level it always helps to learn, practice, and get better. Your social abilities can be improved at any level giving you a better chance of success. Isn’t the whole point of dating to achieve a goal like love or sex? I mean what would you tell a guy who comes to you and says every time he asks a woman out she rejects him? Every time things are going well with a girl he likes he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:59 PM
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I think the shit tests themselves are way more manipulative than the responses I give to pass them. If you like me you like me, if you don’t you don’t, why the need to play games. I wish I didn’t have to but I also want to date and have sex so what other choice do I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:38 PM
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Personally, I don’t really subscribe into the idea of needing to pass women’s tests - just behave/reply as normal and if things work they work. Let the chips fall... Yeah I took tennis lessons once and my instructor just handed me the ball and said, “here, just be yourself, let the chips fall where they may”. Then I went to medical school and when I first got to the hospital they put me in the emergency room to operate on a dying gunshot victim, handed me a scalpel and said, “here you go, just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:31 PM
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They will literally pick hight over integrity. Other cultures seem to be far more focus on who he is as a person. I’ve studied this before and it’s a phenomenon you see across the entire human race. Both men and women completely loose their ability to filter for negative personality traits when they are romantically attracted to someone. That’s why you often see a persons friends and family thinking a partner is a bad person or a bad match but the person in the relationship is incapable of seein…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:18 PM
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If you are talking about the study digedag posted, it's not talking about how they rate appearance but about how many approaches are accepted. In some studies that’s called “courtship compliance”. The most well known one was based on touch, it showed that women are more likely to comply if the man touches them first before making a request: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2009-03671-001 But I personally like the “Foot-in-the-door Technique” study that shows that if you can get a person to agree t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:06 PM
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Men do support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:17 PM
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Yeah it was funny because I knew when the older couple joined them that they would realize right away the blonde girl was utterly useless. She acted like it was her partner’s fault but that dude actually did really good especially considering he had to put up with her childish BS the entire time. She literally just sat around and sun bathed and complained constantly. Then that one time she tried to make a fish trap it was a total piece of crap and then the older chic made one that was really wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 12:10 AM
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It’s definitely not scripted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 07:00 PM
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Have you seen the show?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 06:59 PM
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Yes 1000%!!! I just starting watching it recently when they had a marathon and the first 3-4 episodes were like taking a course in male/female human behavioral science. One episode the woman said in the beginning she hated sexist men and was worried her partner would be a “man’s man”, welp it turned out her partner was exactly that. I thought the producers did it on purpose so sparks would fly. The woman spent the entire time being a complete bitch to the dude, at one point she gave him the sile…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 06:54 PM
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A lot of the girls I was talking to on IG followed me first. I’m always kind of surprised but I would post something then they would like my post and start following me, I would follow them back and they would DM my about the post. Sometimes they did live relatively near me but a lot of them where all over the place. I never really knew how they found me or my posts. They also vary in age a lot some are in their twenties and others in their thirties or forties. But I agree it can definitely be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:10 PM
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I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:48 PM
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As long as you're not being weird or creepy about it AKA be good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:05 PM
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To me orbiters are people (both men and women) who befriend a person in hopes of having a chance with them at some point. They constantly hang around and message you, like your posts, make comments that are complimenting you. They ask you to spend time together with them but don’t make any overt passes but give you compliments and make little comments about how you choose the wrong people to date and could do better, obviously meaning that you should choose them. They say your such a catch and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:59 PM
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The only issue with IG is that a ton of specifically female profiles are private so unless you’ve met them IRL or through another online app you can’t really slide into their DMs. The other issue is that on IG a woman that catches your eye can live anywhere in the world, but on dating apps it’s designed to look at profiles based on distance from your current location. I was DMing a few different girls a while back before I took a break from social media and they were scattered all over the place…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:30 PM
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On IG you can put a text comment under your picture which a lot of people do, and you can put text into the picture frame itself and make a statement or tell a story. Plus you can put text on your stories so there is actually a lot of info you can get from a persons profile. For example one might take a picture of some food and drinks at a restaurant they are eating at. And they will leave a comment under it saying something like “so glad I got a chance to finally try out restaurant xyz. The foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:19 PM
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The real truth is it’s not actually unfair. It’s never been unfair. The only reason women have an advantage is because most men are super thirsty. I’ve seen it my whole life and I’ve tried to tell other guys about it. I often get asked what tips or secrets I have to attract women and obviously like anything in life there are many. You know the obvious ones like dressing well, proper grooming, not being overweight, and living a life that’s actually fun and interesting. All of those things will he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:40 PM
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This is the correct answer. Women are constantly looking to upgrade and climb the ladder of hypergamy. If you’re already at the top there’s not as many options. That’s why you often see really attractive women dating less attractive men that are very rich and successful. They’ve maxed out on looks in their late teens early twenties so they upgrade with social status. Of course that’s just based on averages there are always outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:35 PM
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Just thought I’d leave this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:32 AM
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It’s interesting because whenever I’ve mentioned that relationship on Reddit I often get mixed reactions. Some think it’s fine while others have been critical. I know how I felt on my end and I thought it was a mostly healthy relationship. But I think for the people being critical they would really have to ask my ex how she felt. I myself would be fascinated to be a fly on the wall when she told someone honestly how she felt about the relationship and the age difference. I’ve always wondered why…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:11 PM
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I think people should be free to date whoever they want. As long as it’s consensual it should be up to each individual to decide what they want in life. At the same time your entitled to your opinions. I was just using my own experience as an example of a relationship with an age gap. I understand not every relationship is the same. My ex was a college graduate with a degree in psychology that had a job and lived on her own. I agree that 18 is too young for an adult over the age of around 25 or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:23 PM
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When I met my ex she was in her early twenties and I was in my late thirties. I never tried to manipulate her I actually didn’t want to pursue anything when I found out her age. She was the one who pushed our interactions in the beginning. Eventually I thought hey what do I have to loose? I was starting to really like her, she also seemed extremely mature for her age. Honestly she’s more mature about some things than a lot of women in their 30’s and 40’s. So we got into a relationship and it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:04 PM
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I said that because I’ve been both guys before. I’ve been the meet on the dance floor and go have sex in the bathroom while no ones watching dude and the he’s my soulmate let’s settle down kinda guy. The sexual preferences of the women I’ve been with varied a lot and it didn’t matter what the context was as long as I was leading the interaction. Some women were vanilla pillow princesses and others were animalistic sex goddesses. With all that said was the sex better when I was the bathroom dude?…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:53 AM
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She’s right, I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:37 AM
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I doubt your going to get a lot of honest feedback from in this sub. They’ll probably say they don’t have any issues getting men to commit. But if you go on almost any other dating/relationship related sub on Reddit you see a million posts a day with women complaining that almost every guy they meet says he wants commitment until she sleeps with him then he disappears. You hear it constantly all the time. The vast majority of the posts are on that subject. Something doesn’t add up. Maybe cogniti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:05 PM
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I read a study a while back about why women are attracted to “dark-triad” type personality constellations. It said that ideally women are the most attracted to men who have a perfect balance of positive and darker traits. In the writings of C.G. Jung he refers to this as integrating your shadow, the idea that to be a complete man you can’t be too nice, or too mean, you need to be open to the darker aspects of your psyche just as much to the positive sides and use each in a accordance to the situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:06 PM
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Because it speaks on a persons mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:10 AM
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Or objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:59 PM
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Who said that comment had anything to do with TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:54 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:03 PM
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Go back. We fucked up everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/20 04:28 PM
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I’m not sure what the laws are in France but in the US he could have gotten money from her if he had a really good lawyer. That would have been hilarious if that had happened. She’d probably go nuclear and join a convent or something instead of writing shitty articles about how it’s all men’s fault for her own dating woes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 06:39 PM
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Exactly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 06:36 PM
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Yeah I I was just thinking about how other subreddits for dating advice like relationship_advice, datingovdrthirty, datingoverforty etc have non stop posts of women who are divorced with children, and/or talking about being very promiscuous and in the comments you see tons of other women (and a few pathetic manpons) saying that they’re behavior is totally justified and if I make a comment about personal responsibility or how they are living a unhealthy lifestyle I catch the wrath of the blue pil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 06:35 PM
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Read this article she wrote about it: I wished my husband would die—then it actually happened It’s unbelievable how easy it was to predict how she would be in real life based on OP’s article. She met her husband at 34 when he was in his 40’s dating an attractive 21 year old. They got married and she almost immediately started to resent him because he makes less money and prefers to have fun more then focus on a career. He quickly moves on to a better looking younger woman and she flips out and p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 05:17 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. She was alpha widowed, literally. Check out this gem of an article she posted: https://hellogiggles.com/love-sex/blamed-myself-husbands-death-widow/ I wished my husband would die—then it actually happened When I married Olivier after moving to Paris and having a whirlwind romance, I couldn’t have imagined that it would end the way it did. I would have laughed at the mere suggestion that after ghosting me for three months, he’d leave me for his new “soulmate,” a 21-y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 04:53 PM
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I agree mostly, at least here in the US it seems like a lot of men do not put enough effort into making themselves as attractive as possible. I feel like that is because women on average are more judged by their beauty and men on average are more judged by their accomplishments. The blue pill tells men to “just be yourself” and a nice pretty girl will magically fall into your lap. Just like in those Hollywood movies that are blue pilled. Well life doesn’t work that way, some men are just not nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:28 PM
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What’s “the wall sub”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 09:10 AM
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Yeah I agree no one cared about incels until one of them committed a terror attack. FDS is a sub dedicated to posting about how much bisexual men, male virgins and men who visit prostitutes are bad husbands, boyfriends, friends etc. It’s in their sidebar. In the link I posted she is trying to take away basic human rights from men because she is a misandrist. That is a way of taking away men’s autonomy. Men should have the right to self govern their own bodies and minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:36 AM
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Yeah incels definitely have issues within their own ranks in terms of hateful ideology, many of them cross the line. But it is true that they are mocked by women for being virgins and/or are incapable of not being “creepy” because they are unattractive. I don’t think I need to justify what the issue with r/femaledatingstrategy is. One just needs to read a while into their post history to see how toxic their mentality actually is. I think a lot of men are trying to warn other men but I agree othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:06 AM
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The reason is because you don’t have subreddits and entire forums by women dedicated to constantly talking about how evil male virgins are. r/inceltears Women can state their preference without developing into a neurotic crusade to find studies to justify their feelings and constantly post about it. r/femaledatingstrategy With some posters here, we get it you don’t want to date women with a high n count, then don’t, nobody is stopping you. I think it’s more about warning other guys who are vulne…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:24 AM
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Why would someone want to fuck a person they aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:39 PM
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There wouldn't be a hierarchy if women didn't fuck whoever was at the top of it. Who should they fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:10 AM
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https://blog.apptopia.com/dating-apps-male-dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:52 PM
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She got 7 dates in 1 week. That’s pretty good odds actually. Before OLD existed going out every night and getting 7 dates in a week would be doing pretty good if your a guy. I feel like OLD has jaded people’s expectations on matches, message reply’s, and dates. Who the hell has time to go on 7 dates a week anyway unless your not living a busy fun/exciting lifestyle. If your focused on your career/school hobbies and passion projects you shouldn’t have time to go on a date every single night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:14 PM
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Well that’s just two posts, I don’t know if that makes it 90%. But the first one is a woman with a pretty cringe worthy profile and the second one says the woman is currently pregnant and on Tinder, a hook up app. Those are low effort though. I definitely agree that there are a lot of incel tear comments. The comment section can get a little over the top sometimes. I guess I just find a lot of the trending posts pretty hilarious. It reminds me of a female version of r/justneckbeardthings. It’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:19 AM
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What specifically about the red pill posts is vile?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:10 AM
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Can you post a link to some of the 90% of posts in that sub that are nothing but bitterness and massive over exaggerations with no connection to reality whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 10:22 PM
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I noticed that in some of your comments you are asking specifically how to deal with male rivals while you are in a relationship. You should have added that in your post for clarity. Anyway it’s never easy to deal with rivals who are good looking alphas. There are techniques to use in social situations that disarm pushy guys hitting on your gf, you can google it or watch YouTube videos that talk about that kind of stuff. Some of it works and some doesn’t but there are no silver bullets. Personal…
/r/seduction26/05/20 01:04 PM
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How is 50 a boomer? You realize what actual generation baby boomers are from right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:48 PM
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From my experience feminist get really pissed when you link to actual research studies that completely destroy their false claims. It drives them crazy because they’ve been using the same debunked claims for years and completely expect every other person on earth to just believe them without actually looking into it. Like the gender pay gap myth, the fact that women commit just as much or in some cases more domestic violence than men, or that the women’s lib movement of the 60’s and 70’s was mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:39 PM
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Why in a million years would any man with even an ounce of self respect not be against FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:31 PM
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a large city, an upperclass area, or a place with a lot Asians. That’s basically where I live. Large city, upper class, and a lot of asians. There are definitely some single moms on dating apps here, but not a ton. One of my best friends was dating a single mom for a while, and one of my other best friends married a women who was a single mom when he met her. They have two kids together and are a happy family now. She’s actually a really great person and her ex who she had the first kid with was…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:14 PM
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How so? Sounds more red pilled to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:02 PM
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They don’t, that’s the whole point of the sub, to make fun of how some women make horrible choices in life then act like there won’t be any negative consequences because some moron will still put up with their toxic bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:59 AM
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Men could be less thirsty though. It works for me, I’ve never had an issue not being thirsty. Well actually maybe once or twice but 99% of the time I’m not a pathetic thirsty sap like a lot of guys. Not sure why they can’t control themselves acting like a 5/10 is a beauty queen. Just look at rate me subs the comments are so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:54 AM
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That’s not even remotely true. The dating profiles in that sub are absolute train wrecks. Some are so bad I can’t even believe they are actually real. The craziest ones are when someone is currently pregnant but they are on Tinder and say “no hook ups” LMFAO. You know if they had a sub for cringe worthy male dating profiles no one would give a fuck because of the giant double standard between critiquing men vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:42 AM
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Is this supposed to be ironic? Worst advice I’ve ever heard.
/r/seduction25/05/20 09:29 PM
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Like half the posts on r/whereareallthegoodmen are from Reddit made by women 30+ complaining about how hard it is to meet good men. The rest are online dating profiles of real women. Not sure how that’s being selective it’s just a snapshot of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 10:36 PM
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True, but to get over the fear of rejection you have to get rejected enough times to realize it doesn’t matter. It’s impossible to learn a new skill without failing at it many times.
/r/seduction23/05/20 04:52 PM
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Here you go: Why I won't date another 'male feminist'- Kate Iselin Dating male feminists turned out to be one of the least empowering decisions I’ve ever made. I don’t care who opens the door for whom. I’m sick of the predators and approval-seeking men who call themselves ‘feminist’ to get my attention. Feminists Think Sexist Men Are Sexier Than "Woke" Men Why do women find sexist men appealing? Even feminists don’t want to date beta males. Biology has a term for males who try to trick and befri…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/20 10:53 PM
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The reaction to the man tax “showed us how fragile masculinity is and solidified the necessity for us to confront and dismantle patriarchy”. Alright guys the jig is up, they’re onto us. The super duper secret patriarchy meeting is canceled this week. We’ll just have to come up with a new plan to systematically oppress women. Also, let’s try to strengthen up that masculinity because apparently it’s too fragile. Can someone write that down so we can discuss it next time. Ok great thanks.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/20 05:59 PM
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A lot of rappers are red pilled AF. Like Jeru the Damaja, he has two songs called Da Bitches and Me Or The Papes and dude breaks it down, he talks about hypergamy. Jay Z has a song about spinning plates called Girls Girls Girls. Boo Booheads by Del tha Funky Homosapien and Gang Starr - Ex To The Next are about nexting girls. There are so many hip-hop songs about TRP. It’s funny too because you always hear blue pilled dudes complaining about girls liking hip-hop because it’s misogynistic, but tha…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:02 PM
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When your young focus on learning things, not just in school but in life. Have fun in your free time when you can but focus on cultivating a full spectrum persona. You have to accept the fact that women’s SMV is really high at a young age peaking at around 20, and that a man has a lower SMV that peaks around 35. For a young man your SMV is a slow burn so you are just going to have to wait. 18-25 focus on school/career goals, and also build social circles. Have fun with women when you can but don…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:58 PM
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Yeah but if a guy who has a high SMV in his 20’s plays his cards right it just goes way up as he gets older. When a guy who had a high SMV at a young age takes care of himself and curates an interesting life and career when he gets in his 30’s and 40’s the world is his oyster. He can sleep with women at any age and class because he blows the young guys out of the water. A young guy living at his parents house playing video games all day can’t compete with a jet setting playboy who has nice homes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:39 PM
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I think a lot of people are over generalizing. But there definitely is a social hierarchy. attractive women > attractive men > average women > average men > unattractive women > unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:24 PM
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Never. Lose. Emotional. Control.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:45 AM
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I think OP meant something more like: “Want” If you can't imagine that would you want your brother or son to get married? Or “Approve of” If you can't imagine that would you approve of your brother or son getting married? But that’s just my interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:58 AM
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They don’t get banned on Twitter. The crazy conspiracy theorist who created it still has multiple posts up on Twitter saying it. People have been trying to get her banned for a while but Twitter won’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:31 PM
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No, if I’m not at my best she should reject me. But in the past there have been times when a woman chose another guy over me, once or twice I directly competed with a guy and lost. Then when the relationship with that guy didn’t work out (they never do) she came crawling back acting super interested in me. All of a sudden I was the greatest thing since sliced bread. I never play second fiddle. I just laughed at their attempts. I straight up told them “you had your chance and you picked someone e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:35 PM
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You should look up #KillAllMen which has been used in posts and comments on misandrist subs on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:45 PM
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Yeah the only female friends I haven’t had at least one moment of sexual/romantic connection with I didn’t find attractive. Pretty much all of my friends who were good looking we had some sort of thing go on sometimes only for one night other times becoming a full blown LTR. A few times the ones I didn’t find attractive made a pass at me it was pretty awkward. People hate on this idea but it is what it is, I can’t control who I’m attracted to and who is attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:32 PM
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Ask her out on a Zoom date. It’s not as good as meeting in person but it will escalate your relationship from texting.
/r/seduction15/05/20 06:34 PM
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I get what you’re saying. I feel like in life, it’s genuinely better to take an objective approach in most situations. But when it comes to love/relationships logic often doesn’t apply because it’s more based on emotions than facts. So I’ve learned to go with my gut which 95% of the time seems to work out better for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:25 PM
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It’s natures revenge, and we all know revenge is a dish best served cold. George Orwell said about the future that the sex instinct would eradicated and that the orgasm would be abolished. The only thing man would focus on is the highs and lows of the conflicts between states. Not just governments but ideologies and movements. Always seeking validation and power, with no other worry than the next moment for victory. Becoming withdrawn and internal, positioning the image of positivity while secre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:10 AM
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Thanks for the advice I didn’t ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:04 PM
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You’re implying there that hook up culture is a negative thing Yes, that is exactly what I’m implying. Legitimately ridiculous view points. Sorry to disappoint you. The number of sexual partners she has had will not tell you this. I completely disagree. It will tell you a lot about who she is and what type of person she is, and especially about her mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:59 PM
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I feel like we are not reading the same screenshot. He says that he didn’t even add all of the details but from what he did say it’s pretty obvious what’s going on. I would dump her and move on. She’s not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:56 PM
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You can say whatever you want but I along with the majority of people on earth think sugar dating is cringe. But you have no clue who I am or what I do for a living. Yes I do know how to grow wealth through investments, why else would I have brought that up? And thanks for the words of encouragement but I’m doing pretty fine on my own as I don’t have to wait to be successful. Just ask my account.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:13 PM
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Because she said her ex made her feel better in bed? I’m not buying the thing about being happy either why else would she be talking about her ex being so good in bed to a friend if she was satisfied. OP should find a women who prefers his penis size, obviously his gf is a size queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:52 PM
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LMFAO what? Do you live on another planet? First of all your profile pic is a hand with those gross looking pointy witch nails holding hella cash like it’s the main facet of your personality. Plus rich people don’t use cash anymore it’s 2020 no one cares about actual cash. Now days it’s all about investments and assets it’s just a bunch of numbers on a computer screen. Second of all I watched a documentary on vice or MTV about sugar babies and it was so sad. Those girls didn’t even realize they …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:09 PM
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A lot of RP men actually do have LTRs but a woman has to reach a VERY high bar to get promoted to girlfriend. And if she crosses any boundaries she is dropped quick. It’s an objective based approach to dating and relationships. Edit: Wait hol up, your a sugar baby obsessed with using men for money and your on here trying to give advice about having healthy long term relationships. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:49 PM
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What does rape have to do with anything discussed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:36 PM
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No one is stopping you from committing long term to a hoe. And it does mean something. It means that she is more likely to have an STD. It means she has a higher chance of not being able to have children. It means from a psychological stand point she is probably unhealthy and has some serious issues with seeking validation because of a past trauma or a bad relationship with a caretaker. It means she isn’t intelligent or confident enough to not play into hook up culture or have a strong enough mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:20 PM
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Oh man I remember that post. I love how she tried to pass off her unhealthy behavior by saying “but it was COLLEGE!” as if that changes anything. I’ll never understand how someone even college age can’t understand that if you act like a hoe for three years straight you shouldn’t expect a high quality guy to want to marry you if he finds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:05 PM
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I’d break up with her if I was him. Why be with a partner you know you can never truly satisfy in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:30 PM
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Honestly not a ton and when I do I don’t say I miss a girl because she had nicer pussy than my current girlfriend. That would be a kinda weird thing to complain about to another person on the phone. I usually keep that kinda stuff to myself unless Ive been drinking with the boys and we start reminiscing about past lovers. And I definitely wouldn’t talk about that kinda stuff if I was in a small apartment with my girlfriend, that’s just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:19 PM
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TRP says its focus is male sexual strategy. They could give a hoot how it affects women Do you think that is a good thing or a bad thing? I don't understand why men think their wellbeing takes precedence over a woman's own wellbeing. Do most men actually think that or is it over generalizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:22 AM
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I’ve been to Chicago. It seems like driving an electric motorcycle or scooter would still be faster than public transportation. Plus you can practically park anywhere you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:23 PM
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It wasn't absurd because a non-Chad who wasn't up to date on the latest tech had dared to think he had a chance with her. I feel so sorry for her. Imagine having to interact with an average looking man, how horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:29 PM
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Nah small self driving electric vehicles are the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:25 PM
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I could t agree more. Twitter is like the gutter of the internet. Nothing but toxic shallow people telling us things we don’t want to know. And it’s a whole culture now. You can tell by their profile pics. Look at her profile pic, bathroom selfie with Snapchat filters. I’m sure her current one is of her sticking her tongue out and flipping off the camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:22 PM
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I never said they weren’t. But most cities I’ve been to public transportation is slow as hell. Out of curiosity do you have any specific examples of a city with public transportation that is faster than driving a car or motorcycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:59 PM
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Not in the city I live in. It’s slow as hell here. I grew up taking the bus/train to and from school. Took me almost an hour to go like 4-5 miles (literally I’m not exaggerating).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:55 PM
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Yes and taking public transportation is slow as hell wasting a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:22 PM
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Because it’s cheaper than riding around in a luxury car with a private driver?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:19 PM
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Not OP but some people in this world are gross AF. They don’t wash properly and smell. So when you ride public transportation you might have to touch/sit in their filth. But I’m sure it depends on where you live. I live in a big city so we get all of the different types on public transportation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:18 PM
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The blue pill doesn’t exist. No one actuality follows the blue pill if they are getting laid or dating. It’s a myth that children are told to feel better about themselves when they let their inner shadow loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:17 AM
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When physical aggression is the subject of inquiry, studies consistently find that as many women self-report perpetrating this behavior as do men; some studies find a higher prevalence of physical aggression committed by women (for a review see Archer, 2000). For example, the National Family Violence Survey (Straus & Gelles, 1990), a nationally representative study of 6,002 men and women, found that in the year before the survey, 12.4% of wives self-reported that they used violence against their…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:22 AM
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Purge mutha fucka!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:10 AM
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Gender equality and Feminism are two separate things. One is a societal goal and the other is a radical ideology cult not based on fact or an objective view on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:09 AM
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Equality of opportunity and equality of outcome are two separate creatures. But yeah what I find crazy is that the US Women’s Soccer Team made more money compared to the overall revenue generated than the men did so their argument is ridiculous. That’s like saying that LeBron James should make the same amount of money as Jeremy Lin in the name of equality. Give me a break that’s not how capitalism works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:04 AM
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I see a lot of assuming going on in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:41 AM
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Maybe you look like her ex, or she was feeling lonely, or being peer-pressured into hooking up with someone, or wanted to get out of a dry spell - point is, only so much of the process occurs consciously. I think zero percent of the process occurs consciously. But that’s why people who are naturally good at or learned how to seduce another person use PUA like (key word) tactics to do it. Obviously not all PUA stuff works every time and on every person but the psychology behind it does have a bas…
/r/seduction08/05/20 12:40 AM
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Wait, so a guy who is forty is an “old man”now? What are you thirteen? When Jaaon Mamoa takes his shirt off women loose their damn mind, you hear audible gasps in the theatre. He’s forty so I guess old men like him are doing something right (being good looking and hitting the gym).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:28 AM
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You know you are being extremely hypocritical about all of this. Your upset because a guy posted a negative meme making fun of FDS women’s appearances. Yet your on here making fun of guys based on their age, appearance etc. If what OP did is wrong why are you doing the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:20 AM
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What’s wrong with being 40? That’s a good age to be as a guy. Young enough to look good and old enough to make money and be respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:05 AM
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Good point. So what did you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:58 PM
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Dude she has pictures on her bio. Decide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:56 PM
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Thanks for the link I’ll check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:35 PM
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I’m not doubting you, but do you have any sources on that? I’d be interested to check out the studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:56 PM
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Not only do men overestimate their attractiveness Huh interesting, see I think it’s the exact opposite. I feel like because most guys are pathetically thirsty that average looking women have a super inflated view of their attractiveness. Yet at the same time they also seem very insecure about their looks so maybe they are just projecting to cover up their insecurities. Not sure but I see more self deprecating men most often. But I’m a guy so I could be biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:09 PM
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I think your confusing me with another user. I did respond to you but I was just adding in my own 2 cents on hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:55 PM
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I think one key is to switch it up between being funny and being serious. Joke around but bring up more serious important topics too. Ask questions but not too many/too often. Like ask a question about her than use what she said to make a statement about how it relates to you or tell a funny story related to that topic. I guess the bottom line is that you want to come off as an interesting person by having a lot of different things to talk about and being humorous and playful at times too. Show …
/r/seduction05/05/20 05:09 PM
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See I feel like that just furthers point. There’s a reason why they date bad boys. When it comes to dating/sex the emotional side of your brain overrides the logical side of your brain. They can’t control it.
/r/seduction05/05/20 04:40 PM
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I think it’s an unconscious thing. Women have the advantage because they use PUA tactics themselves to get guys so unconsciously it scares them that a guy would do the same thing making the playing field even.
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:52 PM
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I’ve said this before, but if you’ve ever had sex or been in a relationship wether you know it or not the other person used PUA tactics on you. That’s just how people who are naturally good at seducing another person operate.
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:46 PM
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Have you ever met an actual woman before? They don’t choose what they find attractive.
/r/seduction04/05/20 06:35 PM
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Men weren’t the ones who invented the rules of the game, they are just playing by them to avoid fouls.
/r/seduction04/05/20 06:30 PM
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Yeah I wasn’t really disagreeing with you. I just feel like some people don’t understand what seduction is. It’s a strategy to make a person attracted to you for the goal of having sex. But I get what your saying. I agree that if you can become a better person eventually you can be yourself because that better version of yourself is enough to bring to the table.
/r/seduction04/05/20 06:07 PM
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I did read your comment. You know I made a comment in another thread on here that explains what I’m talking about in better detail: I’m not saying to be something you aren’t. What I am saying is to learn to be a person who a woman will desire. There’s nothing wrong with striving to be a more attractive person both mentally and physically. There’s no need to play games or be manipulative, but understanding the psychology and biology of what makes people tick can greatly improve your relationships…
/r/seduction04/05/20 05:40 PM
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“Just be yourself” is the worst advice you can give someone if they are trying to seduce another person. The whole point to seduction is to learn how to attract a person to you for sex. Check the definition. seduce verb US /səˈduːs/ UK /sɪˈdʒuːs/ C2 [ T ] to make someone feel attracted to you and want to have sex with you: He felt that she was trying to seduce him. C2 [ T usually passive, T ] to persuade or cause someone to do something that they would not usually consider doing by being very at…
/r/seduction04/05/20 05:17 PM
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“Just be yourself” is a disease and the main symptom is mediocrity.
/r/seduction04/05/20 05:08 PM
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So your saying he would be better off staying needy? Come on women HATE neediness! This is a sub about learning how to seduce women not become their buddy.
/r/seduction04/05/20 05:05 PM
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This sub is called seduction not the friend zone.
/r/seduction04/05/20 05:03 PM
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A lot of women want to play the games though because it’s more exciting, that’s the point.
/r/seduction04/05/20 05:01 PM
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One is overly political in hers and even said "no (guess who) voters wanted" the other isn't much better. But they meet this (guess who) supporter and they want to fuck me because people are deeper than the puddle of OLD. How did she react when you told her you support (guess who)?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:51 PM
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Evolutionary psychologists propose that men and women have different strategies that underlie short-term mating.1 According to the sexual strategies theory (SST; Buss & Schmitt, 1993), men and women have different mate preferences since the levels of parental investment in offspring are higher for women than for men (Feingold, 1992; Trivers, 1972). While women invest nine months in pregnancies and even more years to raise their offspring (e.g., lactation and care), men do not have these responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:43 PM
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Nah, it’s possible to be smart and charming. I know the stereo type is that intelligent men are nerds but some are naturally capable of having adept social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:40 PM
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I understand that not every guy can pull it off, that was kinda my point. But I’ve seen plenty of guys in their thirties date women in their twenties. I’ve done it and plenty of guys I’ve known have done it. I wouldn’t say it’s a massive outlier but it is not as common. In fact it would be interesting to see the actual numbers on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:59 PM
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It all depends on your looks and lifestyle. If you are good looking and take care of yourself your dating pool just increases as you get older. But like all things it has it’s limitations. I’d say guys in their 30’s and 40’s have the most options when it comes to dating. I had a lot of options in my teens and twenties but when I got into my thirties it went way up because I could go to a bar/club and take home women aged anywhere from 18 to whatever if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:02 PM
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If a guy is really good looking and has his shit together at 35 he can date and have sex with women of any age really easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:56 PM
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I’m probably going to get shit for this from non believers, but I believe that the majority of humans on this planet are extremely predictable. It’s like clockwork from a psychological standpoint. In fact whenever I meet an unpredictable person I’m really surprised because it’s so rare. If a person takes the time to study and learn the psychological triggers of the human mind it’s like having a super power because you can essentially instantly read people and predict their behavior. I can do it …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:53 PM
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The study I read was from a few years ago and it included married couples and also other relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:29 PM
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I agree. It’s not a zero sum game there are always outliers and people who are just good at hiding things. But I already addressed what you’re talking about in my previous comment: You never ask for an actual number. In fact act like you don’t care. But there all sorts of things you can ask. Like ask about past relationships, has she had mostly monogamous long term relationships, how many? If it’s a lot she probably has a low n count. If she’s only had one or two or none at all she’s probably mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:42 PM
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Only a moron would ask for an actual number.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:40 PM
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You never ask for an actual number. In fact act like you don’t care. But there all sorts of things you can ask. Like ask about past relationships, has she had mostly monogamous long term relationships, how many? If it’s a lot she probably has a low n count. If she’s only had one or two or none at all she’s probably mostly done hook ups or fwb. Ask about her childhood and family, her views on religion, politics. All of these things can let you know. Ask about what she likes to do in her free time…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:38 PM
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I’m not saying to be something you aren’t. What I am saying is to learn to be a person who a woman will desire. There’s nothing wrong with striving to be a more attractive person both mentally and physically. There’s no need to play games or be manipulative, but understanding the psychology and biology of what makes people tick can greatly improve your relationships with both women and men. I’ve always felt like “just be yourself” sends the message that mediocrity is ok. It’s kind of like the co…
/r/seduction02/05/20 05:05 PM
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Well yes it definitely is. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one...and some stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:12 PM
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Hey your words not mine. But I think oral sex is definitely sex but obviously it’s different than PIV, it’s still sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:07 PM
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The only way to know for sure is to hook her up to a lie detector test. I think a smart person can get a pretty good idea of a woman’s n count by observing their lifestyle (social media makes it a lot easier nowadays) and asking the right questions. You’ll probably never get a real number but you can get a feeling of if it’s high or low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:04 PM
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Not if I'm talking about sex. had oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:00 PM
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The average age gap statistically between men and women is 5 years (with the man being older) so if a mid to late 20’s guy dated a girl aged 18-22 it wouldn’t be that big of a deal. If someone had any issues with that they’re probably just jealous about seeing two people in a happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 03:45 PM
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“Just be yourself” is the single worst piece of dating advice I’ve ether got in life.
/r/seduction02/05/20 02:53 PM
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I don’t consider my self 100% red pill but what I’ve said before in the past is that I was red pilled for most of my life without knowing what it is. Your saying that red pill techniques are bad but they work, so why not use them? Not using it hasn’t worked for me not just when I was younger but just in the last several years of my life as well. Also I see people on this sub constantly not seem to understand what exactly the red pill is. I mean incels are the opposite of being red pilled. They a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:20 PM
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Rosie the riveter was a propaganda image during WWII promoted by the government to encourage women to work in munition factories because the male workers were fighting in the war, and dying in large numbers. Her image was based on a song with these lyrics: All the day long, whether rain or shine She's a part of the assembly line. She's making history, working for victory-- Rosie, brrrrrr, the riveter. Rosie's got a boyfriend, Charlie. Charlie, he's a Marine. Rosie is protecting Charlie, workin' …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:11 AM
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Are you talking about the actual 80/20 Rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:56 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:49 PM
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While I am in disagreement with the "men will fuck anything" trope, that doesn't matter. Have ever heard of the Slaton sisters? They are objectively two of the least attractive 500+ pound women on the planet but they have zero problems having sex with skinny average looking guys. The one sisters boyfriend turned out to be married but regardless he still fucked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:26 PM
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Feminist only want equality that benefits them, which I understand because it’s a protection instinct. But it is hypocritical. Feminist complain about there not being enough female CEO’s and politicians but last time I checked they aren’t complaining about there not being enough female brick layers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:15 PM
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Was she from Missouri?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:59 PM
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I watched Once Upon a Time in Hollywood with a 22 year old and she thought Brad Pit was hot AF. He’s 56. And yes I understand that he’s really good looking but that’s this guys point. If you have model like looks and actually take care of your self a woman in her 20’s can still find a man 50+ age attractive IF he hasn’t let himself go and is very good looking. I think what your thinking about is some older married guy who was always average looking to begin with and completely let himself go, is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:42 PM
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Personally I don’t think most men are upset that women won’t let them show emotions. I think they are upset that woman claim that they want men to show emotions, and then when they go it backfires. It’s kind of like having a chair pulled out from under you. Like here come sit down, then when you do she pulls the chair out and you fall on your ass. Then you look up and say “why would you do that?” It’s confusing and hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:27 PM
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My ex girlfriend (and most ex’s) were the exact opposite. “Liar!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:10 PM
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The issue for most guys is that no one teaches them where specifically the line is for being overly sensitive. Men are taught by the blue pill to “just be themselves” and to be kind and caring and they’ll have success with women. Any guy who has enough experience with women knows that’s total BS. The guy in Fifty Shades of Grey isn’t sensitive, James Bond isn’t sensitive, the guy from Outlander isn’t sensitive. They are very stoic and mysterious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:58 PM
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But the thing is, a lot of guys are just going off what works and doesn’t work. Like I’ve been hooking up and dating since middle school and after all these years I’m able to look back and sort out what’s worked and also not worked. I also can look at my friends as examples of works and doesn’t work. With that said what I’ve learned is that sensitivity does not work for hooking up or dating unless you meet a woman who actually likes sensitive guys, and they do exist because I’ve met them before.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:41 PM
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Most straight women do not find sensitivity attractive, it’s a huge turn off. But there is a minority that actually do love guys who are sensitive and in touch with their emotions. So sensitive guys have a disadvantage because their pool is smaller but if they look hard enough they can find women who like soft guys. The knuckle draggers on the other hand are lucky because they naturally have an advantage because they aren’t soft. In terms of how many guys are sensitive vs not sensitive I have no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:16 PM
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I had two long term relationships between which took up most of my twenties. They were pretty good and I learnt a lot. What specifically did you learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:37 AM
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Growing numbers of women are feeling that men aren’t worth marrying because they think men are childish, broke or whatever else. Women are slowly starting to realize that alimony is income based not gender based etc. Hmm I wonder who created the environment for that to happen. I’m sure it has nothing to do with the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:48 PM
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I’ve never met a woman who posts on FDS in real life (at least that I know of) but I’ve seen a few of them get doxxed on here including the woman who started the sub and it was pretty sad. I actually felt kinda sorry for them they are crazy delusional about themselves and what they bring to the table. So I understand their anger because don’t give them attention or treat them well, but some of the stuff posted on their is straight up toxic AF so there that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:46 PM
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Oh the irony, may I count the ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:41 PM
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Yet here you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:40 PM
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If a woman wants to sleep with me on the first date I consider it a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:25 PM
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When I was younger (18), I dated older guys (30) who were essentially broke losers because I thought them being older was cool in itself. So basically you were younger and still dated older guys even though they were broke losers? Imagine if you had met and dated an extremely good looking successful older guy. Some women are so delusional about what they are attracted too. A 30+ year old guy who has his shit together and is good looking can crush with women at any age. Young guys are train wreck…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:36 PM
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I know I’m just one man but my options have gone way up as I’ve gotten older. I can date women of almost any age right now. I’m not sure how common it is but the fact that some men “let themselves go” just means less competition. It’s a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:22 PM
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My last LTR hid it from me. Didn’t find out that her brain was all kinds of fucked up until months down the road. I knew something was off pretty early on but she wouldn’t tell me until I got her to open up one night. Turns out she tried to commit suicide at age 11 and her parents threw her in the looney bin for a while. She had a horrible relationship with her father her parents were divorced a year after her suicide attempt that she blamed herself for and she currently had severe depression an…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 12:22 AM
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I only told you my height so that you wouldn’t think my opinion was coming from a place of malice. I’m really lucky I’m over the 6 foot requirement and I feel bad for short guys, it must suck having an uncontrollable disadvantage in life. But I personally do not put my height on my dating app profiles because it is too try hard. Only someone who lacks confidence needs to brag about height. I obviously disagree with taking pride in being a shallow person, that isn’t a personality trait I find app…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:05 PM
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Well I would hope that she wouldn’t tell me her weight because a guy asking for a woman’s weight before he will date her is a huge red flag. That’s my point. See I’m 6’2”, so I usually pass women’s arbitrary height requirements. But if a woman asked me on Tinder what my height is before she would date me I see as a huge red flag and would reject her. I personally don’t care if a woman has a preference for tall men but if she lacks the social awareness to realize that it makes her look shallow by…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:40 PM
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Well according to studies women are more neurotic than men, and also more agreeable. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/books/article-1305997/amp/Why-women-neurotic-men-heck-lot-nicer--USE-YOUR-HEAD-BY-DANIEL-AND-JASON-FREEMAN.html Neuroticism and Agreeableness are two of the “Big Five” personality traits in psychology. So that RP guy had a point, but I agree TRP can go too far sometimes in the general hate department and it takes away from what they teach. On the surface they simply teach that mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:37 PM
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Yes that was my opinion so...yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:27 PM
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It’s different though. I’ve been to one of the types of events like OP is talking about and it was different than hobby groups because everyone there knew they were there to meet a potential mate. It was very organized and straight forward. If you saw someone that caught your eye you could just start talking to them. And it didn’t have to be hidden what your intentions are. I feel like purposely going to dance lessons or cooking classes etc specifically to meet a girlfriend is kinda disingenuous…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 07:35 PM
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This is interesting because I dated an Asian girl once and she invited me to an organized event set up by older Asian parents for single young Asian adults. I was the only white person there so it was a little awkward at first but the event was really eye opening. The whole seen was really positive and not weird like I thought it was going to be. They just played music and had refreshments/drinks and people mingled. It seemed like a great way to meet someone because it was way more organized the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 07:26 PM
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I ask for her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 07:24 AM
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Just thought I’d leave this here for reference: I slept with 130 men by age 28 including four in one day – and it almost ruined my life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:08 PM
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If she asks for your height just ask for her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:45 AM
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That’s not true. TRP says that a man should only commit to a woman who is worthy. Personality is actually more important than looks when it comes to a LTR. TRP teaches to avoid women who have mental issues that will cause a relationship to fail. That’s why very few women can get past the casual hook up fase with TRP guys. Of course looks always matter but it’s actually personality that separates the hook ups from the girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:16 AM
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Men actually have no appreciation for a woman's personalities, hobbies , interests and achievements. It would probably be the same to them if they could love a soulless robot as long as they convinced themselves that it is a real woman. Men see women as objects they possess , when someone hurts their women it hurts them because they subconsciously feel that woman belongs to them. You’re overgeneralizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:03 AM
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Yeah the age range should be like 18-45 to get a better idea but the reason they are usually 18-24 for sex studies is because they do the surveys at Universities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:18 PM
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Yeah but in most cases men are the ones who decide to commit regardless. For both relationships and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:10 PM
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One thing you gave to take into account was that the numbers were just for people who are having sex 4 times a week or more. I’m sure there are way more married couples who are having sex like once a week or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:05 PM
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As a male feminist, I disagree with the dangerous notion that online dating is harder for men. Welcome to earth, what planet are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:32 PM
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What’s a brad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:16 PM
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I’ve had the exact opposite experience in life. In the beginning I usually don’t put a lot of effort in which for me seems to work in terms of attraction but once I actually form a bond I start to put a lot of emotional effort in and that’s when things go down hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:45 PM
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Oh ok, that makes sense. What types of countries are you specifically talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:38 PM
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I’m just speaking about what I see and my own experiences. When I got into my 30’s my options became way broader then in my 20’s. In my thirties I could date anyone from the early 20’s to as old as I want. I just turned 40 and my options are still way better than in my 20’s. I would say my age range is about 12-15 years. Anything in that range seems to work for me if I actually make an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:26 PM
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I’m white, my ex is white, and we both live in the US. In the last 2 years I’ve dated women ages 23, 22, 42, 35, 26x2, 27, 29, 33, 21, and 31. In terms of race/nationality they were white, Mexican, Asian, Eastern European, white, Brazilian, white, French, Jewish, and white. Like I said it just depends. I personally don’t go for any specific age or race I just meet people and see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:17 PM
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It is very common for women in their 20’s to date guys in their 30’s. The average age gap is 5 years statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:48 PM
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My ex is 24. We met when I was in my late 30’s. I think it just depends on the circumstances and the two people involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:38 PM
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This is what I was going to say. It’s because of the thirsty guys. If every time I posted a picture of myself on social media ten thousand girls blew up my DM’s asking for nudes and stuff and sending me pussy pics I’d probably feel like a Greek god. As it is I get compliments from women on my pics but only like a few here and there. And those 2-3 comments still give me a huge ego boost. I can’t imagine what it would do to my ego if I had that many thirsty guys swinging on my jock 24/7.
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:17 PM
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Ain’t that the truth. It took me a long time to accept that often what people say and what they do is different. Now I watch their actions and not listen to their words. It’s helped me a lot in life.
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:09 PM
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Just saying your secure doesn’t magically make it so. Emotional insecurity is a very complex psychological concept that isn’t exactly black and white. It’s usually born from past traumas imprinted on one’s unconscious mind and must be integrated into your consciousness to overcome. Being willfully ignorant of a potential threat isn’t being secure. In fact it can often be a defense mechanism used to combat the realization that one is actually quite insecure. Out of site out of mind. It’s not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:00 PM
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It’s biological and uncontrollable. Research studies have proven that women are attracted to men who will be stable providers(not just financially) and protectors of her offspring. It’s been proven that men are attracted to women who will physically be a good choice for child bearing and women are attracted to men who will take care of the child after the child has been born. Also the studies are recent so don’t try to say it’s old science it isn’t. It’s new science. Traditional sexual scripts s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:09 PM
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In our society there is no such thing as a promiscuous man. Men are rewarded for sexual conquest. They are revered by other men and sought after by women. That’s why you constantly hear woman complain non stop about the slut shaming double standard. They complain about how if a women sleeps with a lot of guys she is labeled a slut but if a man sleeps with a lot of women he is called a stud. Edit: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:57 PM
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It’s not insecure to be fearful of being stolen from if the conditions are right. There’s a difference between fear and vigilance but they are both interconnected. I grew up in a big city so I’m relatively street smart. You have to very vigilant when walking around a dangerous neighborhood. You have to be very aware of your surroundings and check your back every so often to make sure your not being followed. If you do suspect someone is going to rob you you need to be able to take effusive actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:24 PM
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A person bragging about anything comes off as insecure, man or woman. But in terms of alpha males I like to use the term “dominate” because research studies have shown that women are attracted to men who display dominate traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:39 PM
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From my experience in life when a guy has a reputation for hooking up with a lot of girls other women gossip about it and get curious to see what all the hype is. Also pre-selection is a real thing and based on scientific research so if a guy has a lot of other women interested in him it will make him appear more attractive to a woman. But I agree that a guy shouldn’t go into specific detail about previous conquests while on a date. I constantly hear women complain about that. Like women find me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:19 PM
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You rang?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:09 PM
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The posts in r/niceguys aren’t usually from men. They are usually like 17 year old boys who haven’t learned yet. Also, I’ve noticed in that sub that often the girls messages are really condescending and bitchy, again I’m assuming because they are also young and inexperienced in life. That whole sud is kinda sad to me. Plus the comments are usually toxic as hell too. One big shit fest all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:08 PM
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No offense but you are kind of proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:15 PM
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I’m confused, I thought the term “purple pill” refers to a mix of the blue pill and the red pill? Incels aren’t red pill. Incels are the opposite of red pilled, they disagree with most RP concepts. They don’t think bettering themselves will improve their chances with women they think they are a lost cause because of the way society is. TRP is the opposite of that. TRP says through hard work and discipline a man can improve him self and get laid. Am I missing something here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:07 PM
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Demographics are demographics. Women haven’t needed men for a few decades now. That ship has sailed and it isn’t coming back. Not according to actual research studies. The National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health) found that 84 percent of women(average age of 22) report that being married someday is “very” important to them. 🤷‍♂️ Source: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25332511/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:17 PM
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Fact is, women live without men. No women I know. As I said sure you see a tiny minority of outliers who are usually really unattractive or hyper focused on their career. The only woman in my life I know who is alone is my aunt who is in her 50’s and has mental health issues. She got divorced like 10 years ago and had a string of boyfriends then eventually gave up and has been single for a while now. 99% of the women I’ve ever met were only single for the short amount of time between guys they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:52 PM
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I disagree. Women still and will always need men. Most women I’ve met in my lifetime can’t stand being alone and desperately seek out men for validation and companionship. Getting in and out of relationship after relationship. Sure there are some outliers but the vast majority definitely seem like they need a guy in their life. It seems to be the main focus for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:27 PM
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Incels aren’t red pilled though, they are the exact opposite. The reason red pillers don’t want single mothers is because they are low value not because they don’t need men. Plus according to dating apps single mothers need something because they are all over the apps looking for men. And single mothers don’t want RP guys anyway they want a beta blue pulled guy who will take on parenting another man’s child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:01 PM
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The old, married, female battle axes die quicker than the single ones The difference is only a couple of years anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:35 PM
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Why do you care if a few randos on the internet are angry about something? Like 99% of men don’t think women shouldn’t be allowed to work so they can have a sex slave. That’s a pretty extreme view. Even back in the traditional days women were “allowed” to work they just didn’t get encouraged to get jobs in a position of authority. They worked as secretaries, nurses, school teachers etc. And after they got married, and pregnant they became stay at home moms to raise their own children instead of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:25 PM
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Pussy whipped
/r/seduction17/04/20 05:07 AM
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“You catch more flies with honey than vinegar” It’s all in how you say it, your tone of voice and the words you choose. It’s ok to ask your partner for something as long as you do it in a nice way. To me nagging is when you do it in an annoying or mean way. Guys know the difference and women who nag are insufferable and like to beat down men because they are missing something from their own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:03 PM
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Oh ok thanks.
/r/seduction16/04/20 04:45 PM
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What do you mean by “kill the task”?
/r/seduction16/04/20 03:12 PM
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That’s not how I see relationships, that’s just reality. I never said that’s necessarily a good thing it’s just how it is. If my girlfriend/wife is in physical danger as a man I’m expected to protect her because men on average are physically stronger than women. Again I’m not saying it’s good or bad but that’s how society sets the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:10 PM
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I never said they need them for survival. I just meant they have a need they want met in their life which is having a man by their side. Needs don’t have to be just for survival. Haven’t you ever heard a woman complain about not getting her “needs met” in a relationship? I hear it constantly all the time. Often those needs are things like listening to them or giving emotional support, not just I’ll die with out him. Of course if you really want to break it down the majority of soldiers, police, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:53 PM
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Yes they do, and they always will. I’ve never met a woman who is average looking or above who doesn’t constantly seek out the attention of men for most of their lives monkey branching from one hook up/relationship to the other. The only women who seem to not need men are old spinster cat ladies and young unattractive femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:43 PM
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Women have always, and will always need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:31 AM
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Yup I experienced that as well. The last relationship I was in was one giant power struggle. My ex hated the fact that I wouldn’t kiss her ass and eventually broke up with me after I put my foot down one too many times. The guy she is with now presents himself as kinda alpha on the outside but I actually ended up hanging out with them several times and he was super beta, I could see through his fake facade like a wall made out of glass. At one point he even referred to himself as her “assistant”…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:41 AM
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Oh no it’s not strange I definitely know how that can be a problem, I don’t consider myself 100% RP but I definitely agree with many of their concepts. TBH he wasn’t really a “nice guy” but he also wasn’t supper Alpha either. He was kind of in between. He wasn’t overly nice, I just meant he wasn’t an abusive asshole. He does pretty good with women in general. But she was a text book false feminist. She presented her self as super “woke” but secretly read Fifty Shades of Grey when no one was look…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:15 AM
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She needs to be logically consistent . Good luck with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:36 PM
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Her BMI is 22 which is in the “normal” range. For all we know she could be in great shape with a 22 BMI. Of course we don’t know what her face looks like so who knows. Based on her post she seems like she might have some neuroticism which could be the main reason she’s having issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:14 PM
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She told me herself that she definitely blindsided him. So it’s not just my interpretation of what happened, that info came straight from the horses mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:42 PM
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I heard that when they take a shit it smells like flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:47 PM
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Yeah I agree with you that there often are super obvious signs including the woman literally saying to the guy she’s not happy, but other times they keep it a secret until the breakup. I’ve had that happen to me. One time I could definitely see the signs but when I confronted her about it she told me how crazy she was about me and all that. Then a week later she broke up with me. She told me she knew I wouldn’t understand, and I was like well yeah I could tell you were questioning the relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:39 PM
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I already responded to another comment with this example I personally witnessed: I know a girl who was in a relationship for 2-3 years with a guy I’m also friends with. They lived together, they had cats together. Then one day what seemed like out of the blue she dumped him, and immediately moved out of their apartment. A month later she was dating a new guy posting pictures on Instagram of them kissing and making comments about how much she loved him. I talked to her about the breakup because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:19 PM
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I already responded to another comment with this example I personally witnessed: I know a girl who was in a relationship for 2-3 years with a guy I’m also friends with. They lived together, they had cats together. Then one day what seemed like out of the blue she dumped him, and immediately moved out of their apartment. A month later she was dating a new guy posting pictures on Instagram of them kissing and making comments about how much she loved him. I talked to her about the breakup because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:17 PM
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I know a girl who was in a relationship for 2-3 years with a guy I’m also friends with. They lived together, they had cats together. Then one day what seemed like out of the blue she dumped him, and immediately moved out of their apartment. A month later she was dating a new guy posting pictures on Instagram of them kissing and making comments about how much she loved him. I talked to her about the breakup because I had just broken up with my girlfriend and she told me she had been thinking abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:14 PM
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That’s not true. Hot guys sleep with average looking women all the time because at the end of the night after several drinks if there aren’t any hot women in the bar to smash they take home a woman who will pass enough to at least get them off. Then the average woman who experiences this thinks she can get guys way above her looks match. That’s why so many average looking women have unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:33 PM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/i7GYt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:18 AM
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He doesn't. He does. Different rules for the top percentile that DON'T apply for everyone else. Isn’t that the point though? He’s rich, that’s why he is married to a super model and has had multiple affairs with Penthouse models and porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:23 AM
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The only advantage women have is makeup and fake boobs. Take things like that away and they’re fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:44 PM
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So then how does a man like say Donald Trump’s old, bald, fat, disgusting skin, gross looking ass get to bang a super model and porn stars? They had to be attracted to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:36 PM
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Exactly, that’s why I find the anger about having good game from women very interesting. But I have a theory on that. See for hundreds if not thousands of years women have used their own both physical and mental “tricks” to seduce men. This is mainly because in most cultures traditionally women don’t chase, they wait for the man to make the first move. So how can a person get another person to make a move if they can only sit there and wait? Well women have an entire industry based on the idea t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:27 PM
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To add to what you said even if TRP disappeared tomorrow off the face of the earth, there would still be men all over the world using it to attract women to them because that’s how seduction happens naturally. That’s why whenever I see a heterosexual woman saying TRP and PUA is BS and toxic I wonder if they’ve ever had sex or dated or been in a relationship. Because if they have then there is a 95% chance the guy used at least some elements from TRP and PUA to get her attracted to him. Unless sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:33 PM
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I think the main issue with TRP is too much theory and not enough real world evidence. It’s great to sit around coming up with theories but eventually you have to use data from the real world to prove them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:22 PM
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Socialize more, it will increase your odds. Of course you have to have the ability to attract the opposite sex, but that should always be a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:20 PM
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The only reason there is a discrepancy between men and women is because of make up. If women stopped wearing makeup that number would reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 08:12 PM
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There lots of different reasons. It’s dangerous, you can get STD’s, a lot of hookers are being forced to do it and don’t enjoy their job, it’s expensive. The list goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 08:08 PM
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Fair enough. But for the record my friend Joe is definitely not that great looking at all, and I’m not making anything up. I have tons of other examples from my life but he is a good one because he does date above average looking women casually. Maybe it’s a location thing I’m in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 07:30 PM
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I agree there is a threshold but I feel like some guys over exaggerate how high it is. Just go on YouTube and watch average looking PUA’s take women home. Take Neil Strauss, if you look at who he was before entering the PUA world vs who he became its crazy. That guy was old, short, very average looking, doesn’t have a square jawline, and had a squirmy voice. But after learning about game and look maxing he started to get good looking young women. He documented it all too you can look it up. He e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:54 PM
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I get your point but that’s just not been my personal experience in life. When I was in college average looking guys got laid relatively often, if they put in the work. Maybe not as much as the star quarterback on the football team but they still got some. I also saw average looking guys who didn’t put in any work and never got laid too. I’ve seen good looking guys who don’t put in the effort not get laid except every once in a while when a girl threw themselves at him. It’s all about how much w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:54 PM
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I see average looking men pull chics all the time. Maybe our definitions of average are different. Now if you’re talking about below average looking men or men with poor social skills I would agree. If you’re below average looking or average but have really bad game then yeah it’s gonna be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:14 PM
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Men aren’t turned off by women that have sex while in monogamous relationships, only women who have a lot of random hook-ups and one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:09 PM
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That’s not true. Just look up statistics. A ton of guys are out there having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:05 PM
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I think anyone always has the ability to improve themselves at any given time. But the vast majority of people simply don’t do it because they don’t think or realize they are the ones who need to improve and think it’s the other person. I feel like it is similar to the people who say,”just be yourself”. It’s like yes, sure you want to be yourself and not pretend to be something your not, but life is a never ending learning experience. We all should want to improve ourselves whether that is being…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:31 PM
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Women don't date guys that they hate What women say they want is often different from what they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:46 AM
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A lot of examples I’ve seen of women being alpha widowed they were the ones who ended things. Then for years afterwards they pine after the guy. From my own experiences it takes like 6 months to 1 year or so after the breakup. But I’ve had ex’s come back 10+ years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:06 AM
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Some women meet their best ever and get dumped by him then they never meet another guy as good and think about him for the rest of their life. That’s what alpha widowed means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:56 AM
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I have, plenty of times. I dated this girl when I was younger for a while. I broke up with her which she didn’t take well. Afterwards she got into new relationships, hook ups etc for years then she settled down and got married, eventually had kids. One day years later she sent me a friend request on Facebook, and started liking my posts and commenting on them. She sent me a message saying how long it had been since we talked and was reminiscing about when we were together. She ended up deleting …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:50 AM
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Anxiety is the key to attraction. There’s a reason people like feeling butterflies in their stomach when they first meet someone. It’s not the ride itself that creates that feeling, it’s the lead up to it while waiting in line and hearing the screams, or the plane ride up to the sky before jumping out of the plane. The anticipation is the best part, the sex is just the cherry on top. Anxiety is tied in with a women’s desire. Example Also it’s not about acting like you don’t care, it’s about legi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:56 PM
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Oh yeah for sure. Back when I was younger I always went for the cheerleader/homecoming queen, and often times it wouldn’t end up going well, but sometimes it did. I made a lot of classic mistakes back then. One of my first girlfriends had BPD which I didn’t learn about until much later and I think it jaded my viewpoint. I’ve had a lot of negative experiences with women over the years, but I’ve also had positive ones as well. Unfortunately the negative out way the positive by a considerable margi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:37 PM
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I mean I have tons of specific examples from my own life, but in general guys often hear women say that they want a guy who is nice, kind, sweet, treats them right, but when they date or hook up with guys the men are often not like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:02 PM
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A lot of guys have spent their entire life watching women say one thing then doing another. So yeah to them it’s also bizarre and doesn’t make sense until they finally come to the realization that most women they know will not either admit, or know themselves what they really want. At least thats what logic would lead one to assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:37 PM
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It’s not about scaring anyone, or being abusive. I’m not sure where you got that idea. It’s simply creating attraction anxiety by acting like you don’t care if she rejects you or not. You know like the old “he loves me, he loves me not” game. It’s the same reason people like to ride rollercoasters or sky dive. If a woman knows she can have a guy at any time she doesn’t see him as exciting, making her less attracted to him. But in terms of women in FDS not liking it, TRP guys are not looking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:25 PM
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Wow there is some hardcore denial in this thread rn. Guys don’t listen to them, they say one thing and do the other watch their actions NOT their words. Trust your gut, not a person who is using reality distortion to defend a certain type of behavior.
/r/seduction27/03/20 09:50 PM
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I was definitely going to say single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:17 PM
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One thing you left out is that woman want a man to play a similar role to their father. That’s why you see so many failed relationships, the guy is looking for a mother figure and the gal is looking for a father figure. The two are in conflict with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:29 PM
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It just takes time. You said it’s only been a couple of months after four long years and thinking about proposing so it’s probably just going to take more time. How long? Well everyone is different, so unfortunately it’s probably not what you want to hear but you’ll just have to wait and see. I think the key is to take the time to take care of yourself. I made the mistake in my last breakup of trying to numb the pain by drinking amid other vices. I tried to escape the feelings so it took me long…
/r/seduction22/03/20 01:01 AM
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Ok Dorothy. There’s no place like home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:42 AM
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Everyone is different but I don’t feel any less energetic than I did at 25. Same sex drive, same level of exercise and physical activity. When I think of a person being an “old person” I think of 65 and above. Every generation lives longer. In my generation 40 is like the new 30. My ex definitely didn’t want a sugar daddy. In fact she couldn’t afford something one time and I offered to pay because I have money and she refused. She wanted to pay for things herself. But she was pretty mature for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 06:22 PM
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Why couldn’t you have a child with a man in his 40’s 50’s or 60’s? Men don’t go through menopause, David Letterman had a kid at like 65 with his partner who’s younger than him. You might not like to date older guys but a lot of women do. I’ve never been married and don’t have any kids. I’m currently talking to a 22 year old who approached me about dating, I didn’t approach her. She could care less what age I am. She’s above average looking and has a relatively good job. No daddy issues or anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:50 PM
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That’s just not true. There are tons of early 20 something women who are hankering for 40+ year old dick. Maybe it’s because I’m a guy but I see it all the time. My ex girlfriend is 24, I’m 40. We met when I was 38. I’m currently talking to a 26 year old, 22 year old, and also a 45 year old woman. I myself could care less what age a woman is as long as I’m attracted to her but women in their 20’s do find me attractive. In fact, when I hit 35 I found that women of all ages were interested in me w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:18 PM
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I feel like unattractive people have it bad in general. I also think most people are not empathetic towards them. Before I heard about incels I just never really thought about it. Looking back on my life I took the fact that I’m not ugly for granted. And now I feel bad for not being more empathetic. I’ve rejected women I didn’t find attractive but I’ve never been a jerk about it. But I still feel kind of guilty for taking looks for granted. Now I am starting to realize how hard it can be to live…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:02 PM
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Young women don’t want older men. r/agegap says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:53 PM
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There is a never ending river of young women who prefer older men. Not sure what reality your living in. There’s a reason leading men in entertainment are usually late thirties/early forties(like Ryan Reynolds and Jason Mamoa).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:49 PM
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I agree. I’ve always used the term “pussy whipped” and skipping an exam to have sex definitely doesn’t mean your pussy whipped. It just means you really wanted to fuck. Being pussy whipped would be if you missed the exam to take your girlfriend to the mall and sit for hours outside of stores while she tries on clothes holding her purse for her. That’s being a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:55 PM
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From what I’ve seen in life there are 4 distinct types of men. The nice guy, the asshole, the cynic, and the full spectrum. Most guys fall into one of these categories. In terms of numbers I would say the majority are nice guys, then comes assholes, then comes cynics, and lastly the smallest number of all are full spectrum, who are extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:39 PM
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There’s always hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:37 PM
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I’ve noticed, especially recently that what women say is their “ideal” partner, or at least the laundry list of stuff they list that they want, often isn’t what they end up with because not all women can get high value men. That’s why you see subs like FDS, which is basically a bunch of women who are trying to learn how to manipulate high value men into committing to them which in itself is an oxymoron. Not all women can get high value men. They say things in dating profiles like they want a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:37 PM
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I know I hadn’t lost it. TBH I think my point went over her head and I didn’t feel like getting into a back and forth that lasted forever. I was tired and just wanted to go to sleep. One thing I’ve learned about Reddit is that no matter what you say some people simply don’t get the point of your argument or are too stubborn to concede.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:14 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen some guys get bent out of shape over the idea of women using sex toys to masturbate. Never understood why either it’s none of anyone’s business IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:35 AM
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Point taken but I was referring to OP’s wording. I have heard people making fun of guys for using them before. Same with like a blow up doll or whatever. I wouldn’t use a sex doll because it’s not my thing but I’ve always noticed a double standard when it comes to sex toys for men vs women. Not everyone feels that way, but many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:22 AM
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I feel like one day, maybe or maybe not in my lifetime, that androids will be so realistic you won’t be able to tell the difference between them and real humans. At that point they will become our friends, family members, and lovers. But that’s a long way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:18 AM
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Why would you assume that the men women want wouldn’t use them? Woman that aren’t pathetic losers use vibrators and dildos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:28 AM
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I’ve always wondered why only “losers” use fleshlights but “normal” woman have closets full of vibrators and dildos like it’s no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:15 AM
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I think their point is that if it works why not do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:00 AM
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The study you sighted wasn’t based on what TRP guys think of when they say “nice guy”. A nice guy isn’t literally nice per day, but a kiss ass pushover. Alphas can still be nice to a woman he wants to have sex with but he isn’t a push over or kiss ass. He also uses push/pull to create a disparity in interest levels increasing a woman’s attraction anxiety. Uncertainty drives desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:56 AM
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The reason I started coming in this sub is because I don’t consider my self to be any “pill” really, but I do agree with some of the concepts I hear pillers talk about. Often I’ll agree with part of the concept but not the entire thing. About two years ago I got into a relationship and ended up making the same mistakes I have made way too many times in the past. But unlike the past instead of just putting my arms up and saying I guess that’s how love, dating, and relationships work, exactly like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:30 PM
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Yes I have. I don’t care about class as long as the woman is attractive and has a great personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:12 AM
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Yeah for the most part I’d say the majority of women who’ve rejected me were polite about it. But I’ve seen other guys get absolutely destroyed by girls before. I’ve always felt bad when I whiteness it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:18 AM
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realizing the limitations of your age Isn’t that what some guys call “the wall”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:04 AM
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Wait, is that guy talking about men wearing makeup? Are there straight men who wear makeup? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:01 AM
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Good points, but I guess what I was trying to say is that women’s standards would change if men raised their standards for both sex and relationships. If they stopped being able to have their cake and eat it too things would change. As you said in the last 50 years women raised their standards and look what it got them. Now they can date up. Men should learn from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 01:11 AM
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For me it’s way less about looks than it is about personality. Of course the better looking a guy is the better his chances, but women in modern times always claim to like down to earth guys who are nice, kind, thoughtful etc but then turn around and date douche bags who treat them bad. That’s what screwed with my head for a long time until I took the time to educate myself on the psychology surrounding sexual attraction. We’ve all heard a woman say that she dumped a guy because he was too nice.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:30 AM
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Yeah but who’s fault is that? Guys are just way too thirsty. It’s all our own fault we’ve made the playing field uneven. We are to blame. The call is coming from within the house. If men raised their standards everything would change. Btw I think women should lower their standards a bit too but not as much as men should raise them. The whole reason a 4/10 thinks she can be with a 7/10 is because at some point in her life a 7/10 lowered his standards because he was drunk and horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:16 AM
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Yeah I myself am kind of all over the place on this subject because of my own experiences in life. I was born and raised in a large city so I’m street smart and have been exposed to the criminal lifestyle. A lot of criminals are alpha but a lot are not. I’ve had friends who sell drugs etc. but I was more dominate over them regardless of what I did to make a living. I think that there is a sort of romanticism surrounding criminality, like Bonnie and Clyde. And I understand why that is it’s just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:00 PM
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I already kind of addressed this in another comment so I’ll quote it. Throughout my life I’ve noticed that most criminals are not very intelligent. I mean, to sell cocaine for example the profit margins aren’t actually that high, you usually net around 50% profit, and you have to risk your life and/or freedom(potentially for life) to succeed. So I’ve always believed the idea that criminals are just dumb because I can make more money selling legal products on Amazon than any drug dealer can ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:50 PM
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You know it’s funny because I was just thinking about this as I got your comment notification. Throughout my life I’ve noticed that most criminals are not very intelligent. I mean, to sell cocaine for example the profit margins aren’t actually that high, you usually net around 50% profit, and you have to risk your life and/or freedom(potentially for life) to succeed. So I’ve always believed the idea that criminals are just dumb because I can make more money selling legal products on Amazon than …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:38 PM
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It doesn’t take balls to rob a liquor store or sell drugs, it takes low intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:01 PM
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I feel that alpha and beta traits can be seen in men regardless of their lifestyle. In my life I’ve come across alphas who are lawyers and business men and I’ve also come across betas who are criminals. But to lead a criminal enterprise like drug dealing gangs etc you kind of inherently need to be alpha because if your not you’ll get walked all over and not succeed. But it’s not a golden rule, it’s just the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:56 PM
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According to the studies I’ve seen marriage doesn’t decrease a woman’s life span(the study you linked said it did but only by a year and other studies don’t show a significant decrease). Researchers think it has to do with support from women’s friendships. ”Women who thrived in a good marriage stayed especially healthy,” explains Howard S. Friedman, a professor of psychology at the University of California, Riverside, and author of The Longevity Project, which breaks down and continues to build …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:13 PM
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Sure. And Are you getting to know these women before you express interest? Because the only way that would cut down on rejections is if you're going up to women and ask them out right away. It depends on the situation in terms of how much I get to know them before asking them out but that’s kinda my point. I always try to gauge how interested or not interested they are first. If you know what to look for you can tell even before you make a single move.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:06 PM
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My point was that men, with high standards and expectations (especially for a woman’s appearance) simply would not put them on their dating profile. This is because it would turn away (and turn off) many of the women looking at his dating profile. At the end of the day, the guy with a dating profile is trying to maximize his chances of meeting a woman. Agreed. Regardless of what my standards for looks are I would never put them in my profile because it would be strategically detrimental to my su…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:01 PM
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Ok I was just double checking because you originally said you didn’t have to fight but it sounds like you did, and succeeded in landing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:54 PM
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I don’t think that is necessarily indicative of women having higher standards for men than men do for women. I think women have extremely higher standards than men. I actually feel like men’s standards are too low. A lot of men are just too thirsty which ruins it for the rest of us because it creates unrealistic expectations of what average women think they can get(because if a hot guy doesn’t have any other options he will take her home at the end of the night). I also think women should have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:41 PM
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Have you ever seen those clips on YouTube of a British TV show that followed an unattractive disabled woman in a wheel chair around while she tried dating? She met a guy who also had disabilities who wasn’t a male model but also wasn’t too bad looking(plus he was really nice and treated her well) and she acted literally disgusted by him and treated him badly. Afterwards she kept saying she wanted a non-disabled guy who was tall, in shape, and very good looking. She said she liked footballers. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:17 PM
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Imagine the shit storm if men put physical requirements for the women they were looking for in their OLD profiles. “Must have a BMI under 23. Sorry ladies if I’m not attracted to you it ain’t gonna work. Must be above 5 feet tall and below 5’9, I’m a tall guy so I don’t want to be looking up at my woman. Sorry ladies it’s just a preference I’m not being shallow. Must have tits that are b-d cup and perky, I want at least a handful but not saggy beach balls. Must have measurements around 36-24-36,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:04 PM
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I usually wait for a woman to show me she’s interested. Things like eye contact, puting themselves in my orbit, making subtle comments etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:29 AM
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Is it hard having to fight for the small percentage of men who are attractive amongst the majority of women who are average? Going back to my original point I’m assuming your husband is in the small percentage of men you don’t hate and find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:14 AM
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So you don’t hate all men like your flair suggests?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:07 AM
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Lol have you seen men? Do you find your husband attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:53 AM
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Most men So some men are good at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:36 AM
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Is it hard having to fight for the small percentage of men who are attractive amongst the majority of women who are average?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:34 AM
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I usually don’t approach a woman if she doesn’t give a clear sign that she is interested in the first place. Cuts down on rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:27 AM
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Good points but women statistically live longer than men by 6-8 years overall. Women generally live longer than males – on average by six to eight years. This difference is partly due to an inherent biological advantage for the female, but it also reflects behavioural differences between men and women. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:22 AM
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That’s because men are too thirsty. Honestly it’s pathetic sometimes how hard I see my fellow man kiss women’s asses. I don’t kiss ass, for anyone. Bosses, teachers, famous people, attractive women, friends and family. I just don’t do it, never have never will. If guys would just stop kissing women’s asses things would change. Yeah she has a pussy, so what? She’s also just a person too like anyone else. Sure setting strong boundaries and not letting someone break them can get you in trouble at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:14 AM
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Be careful who you stick you uncondomed dick into. I think that is very good advice but I still disagree about parenting responsibility. If the choice to have the child was equal than I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:00 AM
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Yes, but the woman also bears 50% of the responsibility to have sex. So if afterwards the man doesn’t want the woman to have the baby he has ZERO choice in the matter. The math doesn’t add up. Why should a man have to pay 50% for a baby he didn’t want 100%? And I know what your response will be, it will be something along the lines of that he took the risk by having sex in the first place. But the only problem is that so did the woman. She also took the risk so it’s a 50/50 thing. Now if your go…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:27 PM
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I agree that’s it’s biologically riskier for women to have sex. I’ve been commenting about that in this sub for a while. This is a source I use: https://www.cdc.gov/std/health-disparities/stds-women-042011.pdf That’s why it’s also riskier for men to date more promiscuous women than less promiscuous women. And I didn’t mean that men are more responsible than women when it comes to sex, I meant that people in general aren’t very big on personal responsibility these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:08 PM
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That was one of the things I disagreed with. I’ve never had any issues getting dates. If I have to work super hard just to get a woman to go on a date with me I move on to the next one because she’s obviously not very interested or just stuck up. Of course when it comes to OLD it’s a different story. That shit is like shooting at a target in a dark room. I’ve always been amazed at how much more successful I am asking women out in person. Way easier. I’m still not sure why too but I feel like may…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:17 PM
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I’ve had women ask me out before but it’s not very common. And I’ve never had a woman ask me out the way guys ask women out. It was usually more of a nice guy technique of pretending to want to be friends with me then ending up in my bed naked. Like one time I had a girl I had been friends with for a while ask if I wanted to hang out, and when I came over to her place no one else was there and she cooked me dinner then asked me to spend the night. It was basically a surprise date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:05 PM
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You say this like abortion is as easy and simply as going to get your nails done. That isn't the case. Plan B is available in most states and sold over the counter. No need for an abortion anyway now days. Of course going to the drug store after you have unprotected sex and paying 30 bucks takes actual responsibility so I guess it’s not very common either these days since most people don’t do responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:52 PM
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Sex is a 50/50 deal. The woman also knows the risk when agreeing to have sex so it’s her responsibility as well. Going on a date - the woman’s decision Having Sex - the woman’s decision Wearing a condom - the woman’s decision Having the child or not - 100% the woman’s decision I don’t see how in a million years it’s just a man’s responsibility when every single decision that leads up to having a baby is 100% up to the woman. But now after she decides to risk having a child the guy has to be forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:45 PM
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Neither, he would be a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:35 AM
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Well, see that’s unique. Most women are attracted to alpha like traits in men. And I’m not talking about guys who just want a pump and dump I’m also talking about social and financial alphas as well. Like the guy from Outlander. But I should have added before that most betas are also going to try and avoid FDS women. That entire sub is one giant red flag. A lot of the content in there is a major boner killer, and betas get boners too. Unless your talking about religious guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:15 PM
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Hmm ok, well just for the record I’m not TRP. I personally think some of what the TRP guys believe is true if you’re just trying to get laid, but beyond that I feel like their philosophical theories aren’t complete, but relatable. Overall seduction, love, and sex etc aren’t so one dimensional IMO. But the question I have is are FDS women sexually attracted to betas? Because that would go against everything I’ve ever learned in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:45 PM
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What I don’t get is that FDS women claim to want a HVM but no HVM in his right mind would touch the type of women who post in FDS with a 1000 foot poll. Those are the type of women HVM men are vigilantly trying to sniff out and avoid at any cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:35 PM
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Also it's no surprise to anyone that most men are incapable of being human, it's just suprising to see how little of them try to rise above their animalistic tendencies. Sounds like you have a pretty negative view on men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:47 AM
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I’m sure it does, but I’m a guy so I was just speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:43 AM
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Even chad’s don’t think they’re chad. If your a 8/10 and your girl leaves you for a 9/10 it still fucks with your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:57 PM
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You should hear what guys actually say about women behind closed doors. You know “locker room talk”. If you think for one second that chads do not treat women as objects your delusional. Jocks and frat bro’s are the types of guys you see in the news all the time getting in trouble for rape and sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:43 PM
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This is what I’ve been trying to tell them. As a man we’ve all heard what chads say to other men behind closed doors. You know “locker room talk”. I mean shit, the god damn president of the United States got caught on camera saying what chads often think. You can just grab them by the pussy and they like it because your either, good looking, rich, and/or powerful. It’s so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:35 PM
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But his now ex wife is better looking than him and like 15 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:30 PM
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If I had a dime for every time I heard a woman “complain” about being treated poorly I would be a rich man. Attraction is based on anxiety and women don’t get anxiety from nice guys. There’s a reason people ride rollercoasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:23 PM
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What about Rebel Wilson?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:13 PM
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If being a chad just means your attractive not all chads are jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:05 PM
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It isn't as simple as that. Well yeah, that’s the understatement of the century. But I’ve leaned about the ovulation thing before. Women’s sex drive is the highest right before ovulation because in the early days of human evolution the best chance she had at getting pregnant was right at ovulation. Not only is her sex drive higher but she physically looks more appealing to men at the time of ovulation according to some studies. Then right after ovulation her sex drive goes down because if anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:26 PM
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The main character from 50 shades of grey is a hardcore misogynist. Woman say that a man being a misogynist is bad and not what they want. That’s what I think is part of the confusion. My mom is a boomer and the one character she has always thought was the sexiest was Sean Conery’s version of James Bond. She doesn’t even like action films but her and her girlfriends used to go to the theater and pay money just to see him on the big screen. Obviously he gave them what some around here refer to as…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:19 PM
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Ok but what I’m saying is that if only 20% of men are bang-able, that makes those 20% men extremely sought after since they are far less common. So those 20% men are the prize in terms of mating. It seems like they have all the power because if 80% of woman are bang-able that means they aren’t as rare and come a dime a dozen to the 20% man. If your a 20% man than you have your pick of the litter and all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:11 PM
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Wait, if only 20% of men are “worthy” of being with a woman wouldn’t that mean they are less common and a lot harder to find? That’s just simple supply and demand a product that is in high demand but low supply is worth more. So those 20% of men are the prize. Of course if a woman can’t find a 20% man than she will settle for a 80% man because the 80% woman has the ability to do that. But she still have to settle. That’s why you see so many 80% men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:09 PM
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Your entitled to your opinion but the way you worded your comment comes off as kind of ignorant and judgmental. That’s fine if your preference is to not date older or younger men but as long as someone is an adult they have the right to be with who ever they want. I feel like people should just mind their own business and stop judging other people. If it’s actually an abusive situation then yes that’s a major problem but age has nothing to do with if a man is abusive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:18 PM
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Yeah it was a really hard thing for me to deal with. We broke up about a year ago and now when I see some of the comments in threads like this it makes me sad. I feel like some people are just ignorant. I loved that woman I would have done anything for her. I still think about her and worry about her because of some issues she has in her life. I would never want myself or anyone else to hurt her. That’s why it’s so hard when I think of people judging us, because it wasn’t like that at all. I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:11 PM
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I recently turned 40 and a couple years ago got into a relationship with a woman in her 20’s. I wasn’t actively looking for a relationship we met just by chance through mutual friends and interests. And we were just friends in the beginning. We didn’t know the age gap at first because we both thought each other was younger/older and when we found out we were like holy shit and both were hesitant to continue anything. Eventually we both decided it was worth a shot and things grew pretty serious. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:50 PM
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It’s always been what you have to do. It’s never changed female attraction is based on human evolution. Are you familiar with Casanova?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:48 PM
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aka anal, calling her a slut, slapping her around, things like that. What if she enjoys those kind of things? What should the guy do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:30 PM
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For me, it doesn't matter if some women like it. I don't want to do it no matter what. You don’t have to do it if that’s not your thing. Not all men automatically expect you to do non vanilla things you aren’t comfortable with and if they do then that’s their issue not yours. You mentioned being tied up, I had a gf who was into being tied up and blindfolded etc. She was the one that suggested it. If it was something I wanted to do and she didn’t want to I wouldn’t expect her to do it. But I unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:25 PM
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I think it depends on the context. For just a hook up or ONS then yes they aren’t looking for romance they want to get fucked. But for longer term relationships most women I’ve been with want at least some romance. But I feel like the term romance doesn’t really describe what I’m talking about that well because romance is tied in with Hollywood movies and romance novels. I think a better term is emotional connection. Women don’t want to be just a piece of meat(all though some do in the fetish sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:07 PM
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I’m not sure what “porn like sex” even means considering how much vast variety there is. There is vanilla porn and there is fetish porn it goes both ways. And as a guy I like romance for sure. I know guys sometimes might be less engaged in a relationship when it comes to things like giving flowers or stuff like that. But I like falling in love and I try to do romantic things for my partner. I feel like it’s a stereo type that men don’t like romance. Yes some don’t, but many do. TBH if a guy isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:58 PM
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Yes most scenes I watch there is kissing, fingering, oral sex(on the woman), light touching and other things like that. I prefer to watch scenes where women have real orgasms and enjoy themselves regardless of how vanilla or non vanilla it is. Not all porn is women faking orgasms and getting taken advantage of. And any guy who’s good in bed knows that blowjobs only before sex is not fore play. Guys like that know that you have to build things up and that it’s not just about their own pleasure bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:32 PM
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Since when is there no foreplay in porn? I see lots of foreplay but maybe that’s just the scenes I watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:14 PM
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Women initiate sex all the time. It just depends on the situation and the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:45 AM
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I’ve known, met, and dated plenty of women in life who claim to be feminists but they are attracted to misogynistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:38 AM
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That makes sense because he is the poster child for the whole looks over status troupe. I’ve been saying in this sub that IMO women are attracted to emotions more than looks but obviously there is a spectrum. A guy like that has way more leeway than a guy like Lyle Lovett but that didn’t stop Lyle from bagging Julie Roberts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:47 AM
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Really? For me it’s the exact opposite. I rarely wear a suit but when I do I get a ton of compliments and looks from women. I showed up to a party in suit once because I came straight from a wedding and felt like a celebrity or something by how much attention I was getting. A bunch of women I had known for years were acting like a teenage girl at a Beatles concert in 1964. Damn now that I just read that back I realized I should wear suits more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:56 AM
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Well, I would say that it’s freaking out guys who aren’t that good looking but put in a shit ton of work to have a good career and money in the bank because it no longer gives them an advantage. Just look at Jeff Bezos or Donald Trump. Bezos looks like schmiegel but was married to a good looking women 15 years younger than him. Trump is old, fat, and bald but is married to a much younger model. So these guys were probably hoping that if they worked hard enough and made enough money they would ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:44 AM
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What about the hot felon? Dude was in prison on a felony charge but women on social media said they would date him. Funny enough he’s a model now which I guess is fitting. I had a friend who was a chad that worked as a grocery bagger in his late 20’s. Never hurt his chances with women he slayed. I myself went through a period in my 20’s unemployed because I was trying to focus on becoming a music producer and it had zero effect on my ability to get women. As far as I could tell they could care l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:28 AM
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Why does it matter what gender the best directors are anyway. Should the awards be based on talent or the sex of the director? Seems kind of counterproductive. I mean, the winner should win because they are the best not because they have a dick or pussy.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/20 01:48 PM
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I agree. I just see people constantly talking about a double standard when it comes to heterosexual men having a high number vs heterosexual women. So I like to point out that it’s for legitimate reasons it’s not just because of men oppressing women’s sexuality, of course that does happen too on many fronts but for promiscuity it’s smart for guys to avoid women who have a lot of different sexual partners. There all sorts of reasons beyond just STD’s too. It’s just not very safe all around. Does …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:23 AM
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Yes, see the thing I think a lot of women don’t take into account is that as a man you know exactly what the other guy is thinking, and he’s not “being funny” because he wants to have a slumber party and do each other’s makeup, it’s because he wants to sleep with her. So if your in a relationship and the girl your with goes out of her way to talk about her orbiters it feels disrespectful because any guy who’s had enough experience has seen it happen a million times. You get in a big fight and gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:30 PM
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There are legitimate scientific reasons why it’s riskier for women to have a lot of sexual partners.So it makes sense why a man would want to avoid a woman who has high body count. https://www.cdc.gov/std/health-disparities/stds-women-042011.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:41 PM
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The reason women test men is based on evolutionary phycology. It goes back to the “cave man” days. Women want to feel safe with a man so they subconsciously test him to see how he will react under uncertain circumstances. If he freaks out or avoids it then he looses, if he leans into it and acts like it’s no big deal he passes. If he turns it around on her then he gets extra brownie points and she’s calling her mom and telling her about this new amazing man she met.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:03 AM
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The reason girls go crazy for rock stars has nothing to do with looks. Just look at them, a lot of them are average looking. But put a guitar in their hands and have them walk out on stage and women loose their damn minds. I would give specific examples but do I really need to? The reason that the girl you like is obsessed with a Ringo Star type isn’t because of his looks, it’s because of how he makes them feel. You guys are like a broken record with this looks thing. Yes obviously it helps a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 12:53 AM
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Your an exception to the rule then. I find it hard to find women who feel like you do and when I do I love it because it’s so refreshing to be with a women who only wants validation from her bf. A lot of women I’ve dated seek validation from their orbiters regardless if they have a bf or not. So yeah I wish more women had your attitude. To me independence is really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:20 PM
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I myself just base it off of my own personal experiences and those of my peers around me. I’m I’ve been dating since I was a teenager and the vast majority of women I’ve dated have orbiters that they seek validation from. They never sleep with(unless it’s pity sex to fill the void after we broke up) or actually want to date these guys but they sure seem to like getting attention from them. And as a man when I’m in a relationship I do the exact opposite because if I constantly sought validation f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:12 PM
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Sleeping with your orbiters does make you an exception What is your source for that claim? Red pill forums? Your own "orbiter" experience? Your ass? You don't know shit about people's sexual lives. You'd be horrified to learn the lewd shit your parents did back in the day and probably still do. My point is that even if you sleep with the guys in your """friendzone""", it won't be enough. It just moves the goal post so these spoiled pieces of shite will think they're entitled to a relationship in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:40 PM
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30 years ago, young men were so much more respectful. That’s because men are finally starting to realize that they don’t owe women with toxic personalities respect simply because they are desperate for pussy. That was the 80’s and 90’s, it’s 2020 now and things are changing. I was that young man 30 years ago, and if I had learned that back then I would have a body count that is 10 times higher and my body count is already pretty high. Also there is a scientific reason why women with high body co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:05 PM
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She keeps proving our point over and over again. It’s just so typical too, when confronted with the truth a lot of women freak out because they are so used to guys lying to them and kissing their ass because they are desperate for pussy. I would say entitled is an understatement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:49 PM
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With all do respect I’ve learned that when women gives me dating advice I do the exact opposite, because that’s what works for me. I’ve found that women tend to say literally the exact opposite of what they really think in terms of attraction. Of course that’s just my experience, but it has helped me a lot when it comes to getting laid. And I understand that the reason for that is societal pressure so I’m not playing a blame game, obviously saying things like just be yourself or be nice etc soun…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:24 PM
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As a man the one trait that turns me off the most is women who need validation from men. I’ve seen it time and time again. My last relationship was with a young woman who constantly needed validation from men, even in front of me. I didn’t like it and it’s the reason we broke up. The majority of women I’ve met are like that to varying degrees but the women I’ve dated who aren’t like that we’re really great in terms of our relationship. It’s nice to have a partner that doesn’t constantly seek out…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:55 PM
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I like the way you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 07:55 PM
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Women don’t fuck men based on attractiveness, they fuck men based on emotions. When you learn that every thing changes. With that said being muscular and/or at least in halfway decent shape does improve your chances. Just like dressing well, having a good sense of style, having your own house/apartment that is clean(not too clean), smelling good, having a good career etc etc etc. All of these things improve your chances but let’s face it, every one of us have seen it time and time again. Often w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 07:51 PM
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We should just use the term “Toxic Humanity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:38 AM
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I just saw a post in FDS about this. The post was about asking why men acted surprised that their wife’s divorced them which OP thought was dumb because the wife’s had been giving the men warnings for years. Every single comment was women complaining that they had to do all the work and that the men weren’t meeting their “basic” needs. Their overall point was that men need to step up and take charge of the relationship while still treating their wives like a queen or whatever they say. It sounde…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:47 PM
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But the ads are encouraging men to buy these things and give them to their partner as a gift. The women don’t even know money is being spent so how can they control it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:34 PM
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Definitely. Some people want to have their cake and eat it too. I’ve met both men and women who cheated in pretty much every relationship they’ve been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:53 PM
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But how would a guy in a relationship even get to the point of wanting to leave the relationship with another women if he wasn’t already being shady behind his partners back? Like did he just wake up one day and decide to leave his partner or did he develop a romantic relationship to the point of making plans to leave? If it’s the latter then that’s a huge red flag he’s an asshole because of how he treated his previous partner. Plus if the new women knowingly developed a romantic relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:42 PM
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Yup that’s the main point. It’s like Goldilocks, too skinny isn’t good, but too jacked isn’t good either. It’s the same for men when it comes to boobs. Too small isn’t ideal but too big is even worse because it looks bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:37 AM
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It’s just like anything else in life, there’s a spectrum. Most women like a man to be in good shape, but they don’t want someone who is a roided out gorilla because it looks weird. There is a subset of women who do like giant dudes just like there is a subset who actually prefer the dad bod. So if you want to make yourself more attractive to the majority of women getting fit and in shape will boost your chances. Lifting weights will help too but if you go too far with the muscles it can actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:31 AM
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Yes they do. After confidence humor is often the second most mentioned trait that women find attractive. Obviously you don’t want to over do it but being able to make a woman laugh is definitely a part of seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:04 AM
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She also met women online and went on dates. After the dates she told the women about her book and that she was really a woman. A few of them said they were still interested in pursuing a relationship with her even though they were heterosexual. Also she said the guy who she was closest to on the bowling team didn’t open up much emotionally until she revealed she was a women. Then he started to open up more emotionally to her. I found it fascinating because I myself definitely try not to show to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:36 PM
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Being a dominant man is like walking a tightrope. There is a very thin line between dominance and being a condescending asshole. I think especially on Reddit a lot of men get it wrong and can’t tell the difference between having strong principles, values, and boundaries from being a manipulative prick. I agree some men simply will never be able to do it because it goes against their nature but I feel like a lot of men are somewhere in between. Just like any learned skill in the beginning it migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:52 PM
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Yes non-dominant and submissive are the same thing. And the majority of men are non-dominant. But even non-dominant men are attracted to submissive women most of the time. If a non-dominant man is one in the minority that finds dominant women attractive and he can find a women that is attracted to submissive men then that’s great. But I was more trying to explain where the OP is coming from. Just based on his post I would assume he prefers feminine women and is probably feeling frustrated that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:57 PM
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That’s true, but here’s the rub: most men find dominant traits in women unattractive. Just as most(not all) women find dominant traits in men attractive. So even if a non-dominant man can find a dominant women there is a very good chance he won’t find her attractive. This is the reason: Dominance = masculinity Submissiveness = femininity You can even see this effect in same sex couples. Often in lesbian relationships one of the partners is more masculine/dominant(butch) and the other is more fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:18 PM
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The vast majority of women prefer dominant males to sleep with. If you don’t your an outlier. OP’s point is that he feels that it is unfair that non-dominant males have to get the left overs later in life while dominant males get to sleep with women in their physical prime. Unfortunately for OP it has to do with evolutionary phycology that most women prefer dominant traits in men so there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:35 PM
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My ex was avoidant. It’s been almost a year and the way she treated me still fucks with my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:10 PM
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I was thinking of making a post about this. Growing up I was lucky because most of the female role models in my life were amazing women. Loving, caring, empathetic, overall good people. Unfortunately when I started dating and meeting women looking back, the majority were not great people. Often selfish, un-empathetic, cold, and not caring. Over the years I was lucky enough to meet a few who were like my role models growing up, but those relationships ended. I’ve had female friends and also met w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:04 PM
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Do you think the term dominate might work better? Because in my circle of friends some men are way more dominate than others. And I mean amongst each other not with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:57 PM
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I disagree. I feel like fuckboys or whatever you want to call them have just as bad if not worse views on women than incels. But from what I’ve seen they are about the same. Slightly different but for the most part they line up. And obviously I’m not talking about the radical weirdo thoughts I mean the average mainstream thoughts from both archetypes. Just for the record I think both archetypes are bad, I wasn’t trying to defend either. And my point wasn’t about which one is worse. My point is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:08 PM
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The only difference between an incel and a fuckboi are looks. They both have the same views on women. And tons of women tolerate and date fuckbois. Not all do but enough do. You hardly ever hear people complaining on Reddit as much about good looking assholes, just incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:34 PM
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I will tell you as someone who has been rail thin most of their life how thin you are and how in shape you are have absolutely nothing to do with each other. You can be thin and in terrible shape. I find it bizarre that people are acting like just because she’s skinny that means she shouldn’t exercise for good health.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:41 PM
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What’s a moid?
/r/seduction30/11/19 04:24 PM
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No I’m talking about guys who are overweight, average looking etc, that I see all the time with women who aren’t bad looking. Same with women I see who aren’t very good looking, maybe overweight etc with a guy who’s skinny and not too bad looking. It’s just not very common to see a couple who match exactly in attractiveness. This has do to with several factors such as personality comparability, but one of the biggest factors is power dynamics. A lot of people prefer to date someone less attracti…
/r/seduction23/11/19 05:00 PM
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I get what your saying, it can be hard. Whenever I’m having an issue I’ll see guys out there with the same issue not having problems and I think why them and not me. But usually it’s my own mental block that’s the problem not the actual issue.
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:23 PM
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Ask women what they do for fun. Go do those things. The bar is just one thing to do out of thousands, and the bar is mostly for hooking up. You’ll meet higher quality women at say, an art event at a museum.
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:18 PM
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You know just the other day there was a post on Reddit about height in like r/datingadvice or somewhere, and there were literally hundreds of comments from women saying they had dated and/or found shorter guys attractive. There were a lot of short guys commenting that they had success with women too. My best friend’s dad is 5’3” and his wife is 5’11”. I have a friend who is 5’7” and he does great with women, he kills it. Some girls even prefer shorter guys like my sister. She is 5’4” and she has…
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:02 PM
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I don’t know, maybe it’s just me but I see guys who aren’t that attractive with average or above women all the time. I see the reverse a lot too. Not every relationship is equal in terms of looks. Most aren’t IMO usually one person is better looking than the other.
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:31 PM
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Height’s not a deal breaker for most women. It might be a preference but it’s not a deal breaker.
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:15 PM
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Do they show clear indications they are interested during 1 and 2?
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:00 PM
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Yeah I agree. Like I said I definitely don’t blame her. I knew what I was getting into when we got into a relationship. I could have avoided it and dated someone closer to my age. But I was infatuated with her and my emotions overrode the logical side of my brain. We were together almost a year. I wouldn’t take any of it back though we had a great time. Unfortunately it didn’t last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:36 PM
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As someone who recently dated a younger woman I would say that she definitely seemed to not know what she wanted. But like you said she’s young and wants to experiment which I never held against her. I just wish I didn’t have to be the lab rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:41 PM
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“Believe a persons actions not their words” applies to both men and women. The human mind is driven by the subconscious which controls emotions. Speech is regulated by a different part of the brain than emotions(most of the time but not if someone has an issues with anxiety) so a lot of people are able to logically say one thing, but then do another because the subconscious will take over and cause a person to act based on emotion. That’s why you yourself in the past might have planned out exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:29 PM
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Oh, my sweet summer child.
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:54 PM
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But that’s not how it works. A guy isn’t going up to another guy at the gym, having a short convo then asking him for his number on the spot to be friends. Are you a man? And have you ever in your life gone up to another man and asked him for his number after a short conversation? If so you are an outlier. No offense but I find it interesting how there are so many people in this thread, and this sub that keep trying to argue about who does or doesn’t have good advice about this kind of stuff. Yo…
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:26 PM
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Hey OP, if she really had a boyfriend she was being shady to him for giving a random guy she met at the gym her number, if she doesn’t then she was being shady for lying to you. Your probably best to steer clear of her anyway. But your text game could probably be improved. I thought you handled the rejection well though and the fact that you had the confidence to approach her in the first place is a step in the right direction. Don’t give up your on your way.
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:36 PM
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That’s not how guys make friends though. Guys don’t just go up to random people, strike up a convo then ask for a number. Guys make friends through mutual friends and interests then over time become friends. I don’t walk down the street see someone then think, I’m just going to go up to them and get their number...to be friends. It doesn’t work like that.
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:23 PM
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I agree. Should have text gamed a bit first.
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:02 PM
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Yes, many times. I’ve had girls approach me IRL at parties and bars etc and cold call me(I never understood how they got my number). It’s always extremely flattering. But I will say that if I think back, those relationships were on average not as good as when I approached the girl, and I’m not sure why. Maybe it has to do with a power imbalance?
/r/seduction18/11/19 02:08 PM
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I was talking about this with a friend recently. When it comes to honesty it goes both ways, men and women lie. But since I’m a guy my experience is with woman lying to me, or friends of mine getting lied to. A lot of guys have been in this situation before, it’s a classic well known one. You’re dating a girl and things are going well, then one day she meets a guy and it’s extremely obvious from the start that she likes him. You try to communicate with her and ask her if she has feelings for the…
/r/seduction14/11/19 10:25 PM
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Thanks for the response. The reason I asked is because I’m starting to see patterns in posts like this all over the internet. It seems like women mostly complain about guys not putting enough of an effort in to it. And men mostly complain that women don’t give guys enough of a chance to get to know them before getting rejected/ghosted etc. and lack empathy for how hard it can be to be the one who puts themselves out there and makes the first move. But if you ask me I feel like looks is what caus…
/r/seduction14/11/19 09:54 PM
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So would you say that guys who put out more of a concerted effort to hold an interesting and engaging conversation stand out from the rest?
/r/seduction14/11/19 09:08 PM
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My sister. She married an asshole. I could tell he was a giant asshole the first time I met him. I always regret not saying anything but I doubt I could have changed her mind. Eventually he became abusive and she divorced him. My ex is currently with an asshole, he’s a real dick sometimes and constantly puts other guys and girls down. When I first met her we were just friends and most guys she showed interest in were total assholes to other guys but nice to her. Total d bags but she loved em. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:38 PM
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Yes, unless your legitimately busy. Do you think it’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:08 PM
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I read my comment back over I can see why you might have thought that, especially because I used the term emotional spark lol. But yes it’s true. The thing is, both men and women’s thoughts are driven mostly by the subconscious mind. If you can learn to tap into that then it’s much easier to attract someone. How you present your self is a big part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:14 PM
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I’m a guy. I was talking about girls who aren’t what I’d normally go for when it comes to looks but something else about them sparked something in me. Attraction isn’t just about looks. Of course it does play a factor especially for a casual hook up but it’s not the only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:20 PM
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No, they aren’t getting laid because they lack an ability to put themselves in a position to get laid. If they took the time and effort to learn how to meet women they would get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:58 AM
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True, but there are many other factors involved. I myself have had times were I was attracted to someone who is below what my normal standards for looks are. It was something beyond their looks. To this day I don’t exactly know what it is, but it happens. It’s an emotional spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:51 AM
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If women had equal rights there wouldn’t be feminists.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/18 05:07 AM
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How would that make her a feminist?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/18 03:50 AM
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He was already in a fight with that guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/07/18 11:15 PM
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Who said she is a feminist? Edit: who
/r/PussyPassDenied17/07/18 11:14 PM
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Any source that she is feminist? I can’t find anything on the internet about it.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/07/18 11:13 PM
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