Holodoomer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Women's putting effort in getting relationships actually are hurting their natural chance	CMV	Holodoomer	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 02:34 PM

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3	q4w what is your opinion on "femcel" women? Yes, but those communities are often made for that, and honestly most of those people in those gropus look very weird, like this. I see it a bunch of nerds masturbating with each others' bodies. Nothing wrong with that, but usually not what people think when they talk about sex and dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 03:09 PM
1	q4w what is your opinion on "femcel" women? Agreed, I'm not judging women for being pickier. That is a good thing... men also don't take seriously women who are open to sex with anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:45 PM
2	q4w what is your opinion on "femcel" women? Yeah, I get your point. Maybe volcel/incel is an spectrum. I would just say women who "suffer" this are closer to volcel than those men, because women are pickier on men than men on women. At the end it seems that these people are controlled be a lot of unconscious drives that they shall first to deal with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:30 PM
1	Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ?? Not necessarily. Plenty of people who are depressed become workaholics. Living a chill life not doing more than you need is perfectly fine, especially if you have no dependents on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:22 PM
2	Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ?? But my problem with such a mentality is that, once such a hope of finding someone good for you is lost, all that drive goes away. It seems like a good strategy. Why put more effort than necessary if you have no future? Why work for free for the future of other people's children and women that are not into you? It makes no sense. Men can work for themselves and live a comfortable life working minimum for themselves; no need to do more if you are not getting more from society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:22 PM
9	q4w what is your opinion on "femcel" women? I feel like some of these uninterested men are problems solving themselves (abusive, misogynistic, porn-sick, etc.) There are always men interested in you, but probably you don't look approachable or don't leave the group of friends for a while to allow men to approach you. Porn is not an issue because even married men, dad, etc. watch it. If it was a problem, like 90% of men would be undesirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:19 PM
8	q4w what is your opinion on "femcel" women? Those women are just volcels, tho. If they really wanted to date they could just go out and let themselves be approached. If they are anxious, there are pills for that. You can be autistic, ugly, fat, etc. and still have options as a woman. Maybe not the options you prefer, but way more options than average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:17 PM
6	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke I notice this too. Trying to seduce as a joke seems surprisingly more successful than seriously dating. You cannot make this shit up, but so it seems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:14 PM
1	Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why? I'm not saying porn is a replacement for women, obviously. I'm just saying that it makes sexlessness a little more tolerable for men who watch it. Porn is also not an issue, it is a relief that both men and women shall welcome. In the past sexless men got very violent, not anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 06:03 PM
1	Men with few options usually screw up the few options they had I'm sure men with plenty of options have the energy and charisma to not find issues with any of that. Men were designed to try to get the most sex with the most women, for women the investment is too high so they want the best man only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:45 PM
3	Men with few options usually screw up the few options they had I gave up looking for love and relationships ten years ago shortly before my 30th birthday. I've since made peace with being alone and found acceptance. It's got easier for me the older I've got. I hope I was able to do that without feeling it is cope. I mean, it feels like cope because obviously parts of me still want that... I want to not want that totally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:44 PM
15	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? It depends on what kind of single man you are. If you are not attractive, it is worse than being taken because you probably don't have options for sex and love. If you are attractive, variety of women, fun and non-serious relationships can be very satisfying. At the long run, I do believe most men and women choose stable monogamous relationships, but single men who are successful with women can be very happy meanwhile. Another advantage may be that as a single man you are not necessarily respons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:39 PM
4	Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why? What baffles me is the obvious contradictions: Men shall lower standards but also the issue men are having is that they don't' have standards. You have to be friend of her first but if you do you are just manipulating her for sex. You have to be happy in your own anyway, but also you have to desire her the most. Tate may be wrong about many things, but he is right about not listening to women for advice on dating. Even if you know it is bullshit, just listening them about it is damaging to commo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:31 PM
2	Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why? There are many reasons: Contradictory information. A lot of information about women is contradicted by what family says, their culture, etc. What women say they want is clearly different for what they date. Lack of acceptable spaces and ways to approach women. As rules become more strict, women Alternatives such as porn. Plenty of men find enough pleasure in porn and not spending money on women, many days, etc. just to maybe get sex and relationships someday with a woman that fucked other men af…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:24 PM
3	How are celebrities like Zac Efron, Taylor Swift, etc still single and not married in their 30s? This about what a celebrity is. Half a year they are traveling, meeting people, negotiating, hidden in hotels from people. Do you think a healthy relationship can thrive there? Sure, some may make it work, but the stability for a healthy marriage and family would be rare and requires extra effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:20 PM
2	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction They are also way more classist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:15 PM
1	Is gold-digging on the rise? So many manlets with microphones banging on about how shit women are, No need to say that, women publish it themselves in social media for narcissist supply, they are terminally online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:11 PM
1	Is gold-digging on the rise? Women who do that usually are pass their time, tho. Men has always only been interested in commiting to a minority of women, not party girls or old used up women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:09 PM
1	Is gold-digging on the rise? Women are still the ones that find commitment as valuable, though. They don't realize the facade of it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:09 PM
1	Is gold-digging on the rise? "They'd prefer a more traditional culture but honestly, fucking feminists behind fast food restaurants, is kinda fun too." Why is that a bad thing? Women wanted open sex market. They just hate that the few men they do want also have options and wouldn't commit to a ever-decreasing-value asset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:06 PM
1	Is gold-digging on the rise? Women in general have always been highly attracted to men of status and abundant resources. It just wasn’t politically correct for the average woman to admit it in the past. I would rather say that in the past, just as women today in poor countries, women tend to be more open about it, tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:03 PM
1	Men with few options usually screw up the few options they had Yeah, this explains a lot!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:00 PM
1	Is dating more messed up in the US than other Western countries? Of course they weren't, 50% of the population didn't have a choice in the matter. Not necessarily true in the West either. Except for some families using families as leverage for power, marriage was still a free choice for most people, for both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 05:49 PM
4	Is dating more messed up in the US than other Western countries? This is not totally true, though. Poland and most Central and Eastern Europe still have social views that are way less progressive than in America, usually on LGBT issue but also on gender roles. Most Europeans are also progressive because they live in cities, but just as in America, people outside cities are way more conservative. Freedom in Europe is also more limited by regulations, which is what prevent Europe from competing with tech giants of Japan and USA. Whatever this is good or bad, de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 02:47 PM
6	Is dating more messed up in the US than other Western countries? I'm sure these issues with dating were not as common 300 or even 20 years ago, tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 02:46 PM
8	Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties? You are not up to date about the new normal, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 02:40 PM
1	Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties? Yes, but Boomers and Xers are usually too selfish to care enough, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 02:38 PM