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She enjoys it when she wants the same thing. If I am thirsty I like the fact that there is some tap water readily available, but if you come by and offer me some water five times, and I’m not thirsty, at some point I’ll be annoyed. If I’m thirsty, I’ll be grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:02 PM
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I mean, yeah. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:55 PM
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That’s a good question, i think I agree now. if her friends have to lie, they are not doing her the favor they think they are doing and maybe the best move is to go separate ways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:02 PM
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Of course she is dishonest. She hides it because you care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:56 PM
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If she explicitly tells them to keep quiet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:45 PM
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Why would they trust you? You are like some random Justin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:40 PM
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Maybe she needs better friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:36 PM
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I can’t take it seriously, it’s the same emotion you experience when you want to crack a joke in the middle of a funeral. the entirety of the experience is best described as cringey and it feels staged, maybe because I’m expected to act like this dude isn’t a pathetic monkey, and like I’m hot shit, even though I’m just an annoying mammal too. And also, the truth we both suck at sex and try to impress one another because our egos are so so fragile. The guy is one rude comment of mine away from er…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:43 PM
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This is… Not a flex you think it is 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:17 PM
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What’s the appeal of eating Macdonald’s? After all, you feel terrible after eating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:09 PM
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Women might not break up with a dude to eat ice cream, but they will break up with his suffocating ass to go clubbing and hoeing or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:07 PM
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There is very little you can do, but this is just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:50 PM
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Too bad, as I said, nobody is supposed to not capitalize on their advantages - the idea that we all have to be on timeout is something that they just decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:12 AM
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Self-aware people constantly trip on that Dostoyevsky pill: you shouldn’t be your own type
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:28 AM
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It’s tinder tho. In real life women evaluate men in a much more well-rounded way. What the duck did you think was gonna happen if 20 dudes want to fuck a girl and she only has their photographs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:44 PM
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For men at the bottom - they are not. Average guy is coupled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:06 PM
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Decent men like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:01 PM
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And people still buy tickets to watch these clowns, it’s unbelievable how dumb and gullible an average person is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:54 PM
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Anybody who answers with “I’d look for myself” lacks class and, frankly, self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:32 PM
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If you went on a bunch of first and second dates with a bunch of dudes without validating them with sex immediately you’d become resentful very quick. You’d probably find out many of your so called options don’t want to work with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:30 PM
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You hit it as soon as you were born /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:26 PM
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Wow, seems high, but okay. Then it’s 82% of women who are willing to take on this liability given that a guy is sufficiently attractive. And who are unwilling to bear primary responsibility for sexual contact with an average Joe. This doesn’t not make sense, we all learn that people are fundamentally unequal when we first read the animal farm. For example, I have to work my job, and some 10/10 blonde gets to ride a millionaires cock. I also experience a lot of negative emotion while you, for exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:58 PM
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So, here is where I agree: after the sexual revolution women have trouble understanding that they are the owner of their body, and they bear prime responsibility for their sexual choices along with responsibility to communicate their boundaries clearly. In my mind, I don’t see how lack of this understanding relates to our conversation, unless we are trying to make it about every single thing every gender does or doesn’t do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:28 PM
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No, not really disrespectful, but you did bake some anger-driven assumptions into your paragraphs, that might not even apply to me, so now I’m supposed to be on the back foot defending believes I don’t even hold, because I what, don’t have a penis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:15 PM
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Well why make actual sacrifices when you get to wear it as a Pinterest aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:06 PM
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I think tomboys will be bullied out of both male and female spaces. You aren’t a guy, but you aren’t too feminine either. Usually they’ll form groups with gender non conforming boys - creative types who don’t exactly vibe with men. I like gender non conforming people, they seem to be more well rounded and interesting than stupid dildos and hysterical cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:02 PM
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It’s much worse that a guy divorce rapes his wife, than if a woman divorce rapes a man, because female need to secure resources 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:57 PM
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I think the complaints of average guys is that they don’t get casual sex from what I’ve learned - the private jet of dating life so to speak. they look at a minority of women who are willing to provide it to an even smaller minority of men and decide that it’s supposed to be for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:55 PM
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I’ve been respectful to you. Am I not respectful to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:45 PM
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😃💁🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:40 PM
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They are actual deviants, the preachier a person is - the more warped his psyche is. Men who shame women the most probably eat animal poop and fuck corpses, and this is just Friday.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:37 PM
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If a woman was walking around actively making men shorter, and bitching she can’t find a tall dude - I’d have a problem, yes. If she walked around bankrupting men and bitching she can’t find a millionaire - I’d have a problem. If she littered and complained that streets are dirty - you guessed it. I don’t think anything is wrong with wanting a woman who is capable of self-restraint, I think it’s wrong to positively reinforce a social dynamic in order to complain on PPD that 😖 women are promiscuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:32 PM
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So, the guy who prefers chaste women for religious reasons is not the guy who supports OF models or puts his shlong in every single dumpster of a girl because he is 🤓 biologically wired this way. Like, we all know who is genuine and who is a bad actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:19 PM
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This is fine. Then TRP doesn’t need to dip “this is what I find hot” in some sugary syrup of morality and Christian outrage at female sexual behavior. What is it with every motherfucker telling us he is a man of God? Other commenters already said the exact same thing to you, so just piggybacking off of everybody else’s observation that this community tries to ride too many cocks at a time: we are going to be pragmatic when convenient, but when others do the same thing we will shake finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:17 PM
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It also increased the GDP and overall life standard. If you went back to 1950s you’d be surprised how poor people were by todays standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:36 PM
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Well maybe then they should get off of Twitter and invent something for us imbeciles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:35 PM
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Yeah, it’s a problem. That’s why nobody wants to fill in the feminine role - because it sucks the spirit of adventure out of you and turns you into a fat, dumb, financially and socially handicapped creature. Unless Christian right actually brothers selling us the idea rather than shaming us, we will continue not do the thing they say they want us to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:33 PM
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By who tho? By party chicks? Mechanical engineers can afford a lifestyle that many women have never ever seen and will never see, unless they get with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:12 AM
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Yeah, we were fwb and I could just smell insecurity when he went off on his rant. I told him that all his cute little ideas made me think he was an insecure beta man, because he gave too much shit, and cut ties with him
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 06:03 PM
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What? Yes, I was, you monkey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:25 PM
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Wtf, wait, women don’t need to do strength training? We lose a pound of muscle mass each year after 30, strength training is important. Women need to resist gravity too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:03 PM
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Having some muscle definition, but not looking like a bulky piece of furniture. dudes are just selling Myron look to dudes imo kinda like beauty industry sells stupid junk men don’t care about to women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:02 PM
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The most attractive guys are the ones who hook up the most in college, it would not be men who are hardworking. That’s what I observed. And it makes sense because on tinder people will see your face first and foremost
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:41 PM
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Well a man can look good just by doing strength training and diet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:08 PM
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Because twink is disrespectful and precise. Okay, but I don’t mean that a dude needs to look like Myron Gains and obtain quickest results
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:05 PM
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Well the woman in your example is doing something to earn her privilege the man in mine was born lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:56 PM
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But I thought men were rational and logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:52 PM
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I hate humans 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:52 PM
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I never said that a guy needs to look like grilled chicken btw. There is a monkey somewhere in the comments, he spends some ridiculous amount of time to sustain his fitness model shape - that’s an extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:51 PM
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What? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:48 PM
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Dude leave me alone. If you aren’t one of the people who believes in the assumption, I’m not talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:47 PM
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I called them twinks because they are pretty. I didn’t mean they literally take cock. I know it’s difficult, but if I can do it as a female, men can do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:46 PM
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Of course I have
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:45 PM
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Or you need to post selfies on tinder and there will be women in your bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:44 PM
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AF/BB. If it requires work you are not AF
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:51 PM
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💀 When I said “working out” and “being fit” I didn’t mean fucking around in the gym and eating omega3 and kale til you have bloody diarrhea
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:49 PM
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I’ve been on timeout so many times, I’ll rise like a phoenix and will learn nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:38 PM
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Shit dude you should do open mic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:37 PM
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Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:36 PM
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Tons of chicks resist gravity and stay in shape, get over yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:34 PM
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😱 Whatcha gonna do, punch a hole through the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:28 PM
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Let’s assume that a pretty 6’3” guy is in fact a fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:22 PM
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So you are on of the people who thinks that collective says something about an individual? Yeah, no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:22 PM
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Then why aren’t they admiring the effortlessness with which a woman can pull hookups. If both you and I are hot, both are born into pretty privilege, both can get sex effortlessly, there is no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:08 PM
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I’ll repeat: if you are born a hot dude, just like if you are born into wealth, there is nothing to respect there. In fact your community tells women that we personally did nothing to earn the pretty privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:06 PM
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then it just proves my point that being a Chad is easy if you are born with AF privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:58 PM
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In the world where tinder exists no Chad will move mountains to charm anyone to put their penis inside her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:54 PM
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Either say what you dislike about fitness being equated to hygiene or what are we even doing here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:47 PM
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You didn’t read my post or you didn’t comprehend it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:44 PM
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I’m in a good shape because I’m not a swine 👸🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:43 PM
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It’s absolutely difficult for a genius to get a PhD because it’s a test of his discipline. For years they have to glue their butt to the chair and do underpaid work while they could have slayed it in the real world. In fact, most smart people waste their IQ points, because they are lazy. Chad is only downloading tinder and capitalizing on his matches, he doesn’t do any work, wdym. Pussy absolutely throws itself onto him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:10 PM
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Your admiration for her beauty does not translate to you respecting her for her beauty. You are just horny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:06 PM
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Honestly, I don’t know anymore. If you tell me men put in a lot of effort and barely get anywhere I have to believe you. The only ones I hear complaining in the real life are absolutely a horrible choice because they are more lazy and whiny than girls, this is who I refer to as vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:05 PM
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Nobody respects me for my looks when they try to slide their cock casually in me in a nightclub, that I can tell you for sure. Even if you think that beauty is admired, to link it back to the original argument, a beautiful woman would not be shamed for sleeping around. Not my mother tongue either 😃 I use admiration interchangeably with “respect”. Well do you admire nepo babies, for example Lily Rose Depp coming out of nowhere and blurting out something silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:42 PM
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Probably not, but they both are doing something. If the 165 IQ boi is playing league all day, I don’t care how intelligent he is I never said doing something earns respect, I said doing nothing will definitely not earn it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:30 PM
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Leonardo Da Vinci put 100x more effort into every second of his day than me and you combined, I think he is fine at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:20 PM
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They will not admire them, they will pray after them. People don’t precisely admire beautiful women, or women general for having a pussy. Admiration has to be earned. In fact that’s what TRP tells women: you are not as hot/smart/desirable as you think you are, men are just horny and will say whatever is necessary to get you to sleep with them. And that’s exactly correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:18 PM
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Sorry, I meant nobody in TRP community would shame him. I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:13 PM
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I’m sorry, I’m talking about TRP community
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:11 PM
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You are wasting everybody’s time by not saying anything substantive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:11 PM
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Wait, be careful, because when you go on rants like that you are assuming that as a girl I don’t put effort into anything and hoe around and wait for Prince Charming to save me. As a woman, if you don’t do anything, you will still be sought after. That doesn’t translate into an individual woman’s situation You make men sound like a bunch of useless vaginas. If you are isolated socially - go make a friend. I saw these dudes, and tbh there is a good reason for why they don’t get picked that has no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:08 PM
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It’s not an “achievement”. It’s luck. You will not eat ass of a person who won a lottery and say “what an achievement” nor will you admire a trust fund baby
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:50 AM
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Most of country also doesn’t wash their ass but I would not give too many browny points for the remaining 30% for making themselves look presentable If a man has to jump through hoops to get poon, he isn’t a natural AF. All my character has to do is download tinder, match with girls, send a message, watch a movie, and liquidate his matches into sex - which is also the assumption that TRP gives me to work with, I don’t come up with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:48 AM
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Nobody would shame him either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:36 AM
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I got to the pleasurable eye rolling part when I sat on your moms face without even listening to her nagging, because my game is on point. Unlike yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:06 AM
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“I hooked up with you simply because I was horny, you used my hormones to your advantage” 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:45 AM
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If a 32 year old woman doesn’t love you what makes you think a 20 year old woman loves you rather than strategically investing her resource in a established business, so to speak. I think age isn’t a problem here if your concern is to find a woman who loves you for your personal qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:02 AM
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So this is true… For you and your skank. Either you piss her in the mouth, or she pisses you in the mouth. Discovery channel stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:49 AM
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Any time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:37 AM
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Your takes make no sense whatsoever. Ever. None of them. They are just bad takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:33 AM
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Overall, you would want higher degree of freedom and responsibility over a lack of either, so a lot of what we experience is being jealous of this degree of leeway that men have over their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:07 AM
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You are saying that female toxicity is a social construct, essentially. You are making a typical leftist argument 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:58 PM
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Making fun of you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:03 PM
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You are an idiot ToXiCiTy Is A SoCiAL CoNsTRuCt WOmEn Are BoRn GoOd
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:57 PM
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If you are after variety and if you are trying to drink from as many lakes as possible, then don’t complain that a few of them are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:59 PM
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What if I do makeup, wax and have a sense of style where my clothing hides imperfections of my body, am I technically more fake than a bitch in sweatpants and therefore have less grounds to complain than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:58 PM
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You are not literally dying from actual thirst You aren’t in a desert where there is only one woman around with inability to reach others If most men were in a oasis with fifteen different lakes they would overwhelmingly choose the water that looks best much more so than women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:16 AM
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They want to be kind, IDK. Even though I don’t see it as mean to say: different men are blessed with different things, it would be stupid for a 100 IQ guy to try to impress a girl with his verbal debate skills, and it’s silly for someone not conventionally attractive to hope that a woman at a nightclub (who they selected for looks btw) overlooks it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:12 AM
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dishonest women are the ones who fake their beauty by wearing makeup OP probably complains that women also fake hairlessness by waxing their pussy and legs. Lying bitches be doing that 😡 what you gonna do punch a hole through the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:07 AM
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For women who are willing to go to bed with a stranger and Chads, yes. What did you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:02 AM
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What makes you think her parents are not idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:04 AM
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Because they wear the conservative aesthetic because “it looks cute”, like white bitch wears a kimono or attends a yoga class on Sunday It’s not genuine conservatism, they just decided to make it look this way as a fashion statement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:43 AM
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Either engage with my points or you are wasting my time. What’s more important is you are wasting your own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:29 AM
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It’s absolutely not a false equivalency, if you spend enough time in the red pill community they will tell you exactly why we are not equal participants when we have sex. In fact, this topic is exhausted. First of all, most men do not ignite sexual attraction in women because of how expensive sex is to women. You can tell me to take accountability, or you can take accountability and go find someone who wants to have sex with you. I don’t know which part of a woman not being interested in being p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:27 AM
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If you don’t enjoy giving me money, that’s on you. You are an equal participant of this transaction. Take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:17 AM
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They are unable to deliver an orgasm and add nothing to a woman’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:06 AM
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Women age out of attractiveness/being able to reproduce quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:05 AM
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Okay, sounds reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:04 AM
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But profile in tinder is an even more ridiculous metric than looks, and in order to take it slower I would have to swipe on them first. If you are recruiting candidates for a job posting and all you have is a stack of CVs (shitty metric), you will discard applicants based on CVs. If you have a stack of photos on a dating app, you will choose people based on photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:44 PM
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Generally speaking men who are into the idea of casual sex (most men) will act like a pushy salesperson: everything they'll do will be instrumental in getting us to sign a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:28 PM
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Unlike deep personality-driven creatures known as men who are famous for being wiling to date everything that moves, and are double as famous for being able to date everything that moves and has nice tits? Also, how are we supposed to select for shit that matters in strangers who swipe on us or Tinder or try to get sex from us in bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:26 PM
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Yes! We don't consider men we would not have sex with men, so we are, in fact, heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:23 PM
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Sex with most men is absolutely a one-way street, and your idea of a tree, that we are born with "money" is precisely why we hate the idea of giving it out to ugly and broke men - because our resource is finite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:20 PM
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So then it’s easier to date and fuck then just fuck for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:01 PM
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So if she gives you a commitment free blowjob, she is def willing to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:00 PM
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That’s an interesting take. How is it possible if men gatekeep commitment and women gatekeep sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:52 PM
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I’m irritated at framing of OPs question, because he made a few assumptions and set it up in a very particular way that I don’t find reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:28 PM
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I don’t know how more rude you want me to be. Your looks don’t cut it - don’t cold approach. Or do, but everything that follows is completely self-inflicted. Asian and white women, and black and white men will have a massive advantage when it comes to how sexually attractive others perceive them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:15 PM
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Paraphrase your snark please I’m foreign
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:46 PM
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ex runner, hits the gym, stress tolerant, 5' 7'', 170 income at 27, hard-working, agreeble and kind, and the list of things that he will not tolerate for sex is very long. You know how you mfs complain women weaponize pussy? Because it works. On you. Because you have zero self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:33 PM
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"If you woke up a man how exactly would you go about making a million dollars considering that it's the quickest an easier way to make you not an incel?" Watch the hands! OP casually slides in the idea that: a. Casual sex is the quickest way to solve the problem of being an incel, which is untrue, because casual sex would be harder to obtain than sex in a relationship b. Casual sex is the easiest way to solve the problem, which is untrue... Because it's harder to obtain. Statistically speaking, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:05 PM
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Yes, but if his dick is screaming at him chances are he will not do it subtly, that’s why I said: spend your time doing something you like, but with likeminded people. And it can’t be video games. If everything you do is instrumental to getting laid - you already lost, your game sucks. You give too many fucks. We get so many random dildos approaching us we see this shit through
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:21 PM
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Not specifically nightclubs. At places where you are likely to cold approach in general, women will be very judgmental of a guys looks and self presentation, if he isn’t blessed with height and a pretty face he will have a hard time to appeal to a total stranger, therefore he is setting himself up for a series of stupid rejections that will do nothing but wearing him down and making him dive into the rabbithole of black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:04 PM
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If you are not good looking - don’t approach women in places like nightclub or Tinder or else you are up for a series of brutal rejections. If you have something you like it’s good to meet women at social clubs/ events dedicated to the subject, and it’s good to cultivate a social circle without feeling like you need to fuck every bitch who floats through your space time. In other words, if you are busy doing something fun and building your own life, your dick will not scream at you. I think “cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:44 PM
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Listen, I can’t explain it or justify it, but this is science. Like this example isn’t so much about appearance, but if a guy looks mysteriously to the side in a tinder profile and has this philosophical 🧐 facial expression like as if he was looking at the birth of Jesus I know he has a 100 IQ automatically. Another example: google pics of Luke Lintz. This dude is apparently a self made entrepreneur and all, but I smell some crypto bullshit. his whole face just looks dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:15 PM
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Okay, this is controversial, but there is clues about intelligence too. There is this facial structure and a haircut where I can say a dude is an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:05 AM
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I’m sorry about your situation whatever it is. I want to say a guy doing pre med wouldn’t be somebody I’d accuse of not doing anything nor are you average. I suspect you will get the upper hand in negotiation with women long before the age of 35
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:19 AM
2

You don’t have to be a doctor, lolwhat, I said “learning a skill” and “getting fit” not making a fuck ton of money at some job that you hate to pay your way through fucking a bitch You also would not be lonely for long if you became a doctor. Just a side note
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:52 AM
1

Okay, sounds like we are on the same page then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:36 AM
2

It's hardly a sign of brilliance to realize that you are horny and no bitch is around to satiate it, just like it ain't no accomplishment to realize that you are hungry and you have no food. I've done it five minutes ago. Most importantly realizing that you are hungry is pointless if your step two is to, for example, make paper boat, because Andrew Tate told you it will help you get a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:36 AM
1

I know! women abso - fucking - lutely go to the gyms for wrong reasons, the main one being attention whoring. They will show their asses and new manicure and bitch with their friends about friends of their friends, they will take up a piece of equipment and text, they will wear all red outfits and have a face full of makeup. But they are perfectly content, and aren't the ones who are complaining about not getting Chads in this post. When women complain they aren't getting the sort of men they wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:29 AM
1

They are shying away from doing something by deluding themselves into thinking they are making progress. I might as well fold paper planes and say that I'm doing something to attract a GigaChad I do believe in charisma/social skills/personality, but consuming theory is not a way to cultivate it - it's a classic case of paralysis analysis. Attractive women get so many random dildos approaching them, they have this shit figured out inside and out since grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:21 AM
1

I've been to so many gyms because I move all the time, the only gym where it was different was an elite fitness club in Europe - guys there actually worked out and women just would show up to flex their looks cuz dudes there make money. And my attention will be drawn to the hottest men, 80/20, remember :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:58 AM
2

Most men in the gym go there as an act of socializing and pussy watching. They are there with their idiot friends in hoodies, staring at girls and crowding space, looking at memes in between pieces of equipment. When I say "going to the gym" I don't mean the act of walking to the gym and doing whatever the fuck under the excuse of bench pressing for the total of two and a half minutes, I mean going there for results and actually achieving results
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:51 AM
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It's irrelevant to the point I'm making: people have to earn the right to complain about the world and have their problem be taken seriously The vast majority of dudes complaining have not done the two obvious and basic things that are absolutely under their control: getting fit and learning to do something, but sit on the couch all day and bitch about 80/20. It would be the same as if I bitched about Harvard being biased and arbitrary in its admissions. It for sure is, but I've done 0 things to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:47 AM
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The difference between me and what you just said is that I only hold these beliefs with regards to environments where people have to make quick decisions based on limited info, and I believe that looks can be improved by self-presentation, right haircut and exercise. If you are a recruiter and you have a pile of resumes you will select candidates based on resumes. If you have a bunch of photographs on dating apps, you will rank order them by looks. Fucking shocking so black pilled! There is an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:36 AM
2

This is the problem of individuals involved and for sure is not the problem of the society. Figure it out. 95% of men who claim to be dispossessed never stepped in a gym and don't have a skill, meaning they've done nothing to help themselves besides listening to stupid pick up courses and hoping someone will reveal the holy grail of knowledge on how to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:29 AM
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It’s a dating app 🥲 how am I supposed to decide who to go out with if every single mf there wants to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:28 AM
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I will disappoint you: men select women by looks to a much larger degree than women select men for looks, this has been researched and documented so many times that by having this conversation you are wasting your time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:57 AM
2

In general, would you? Outside of bio saying “child molester”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:54 AM
0

And if I lined up pictures of ten women with bio you would select which one to fuck by bio, Mr. Deep?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:50 AM
0

Do you think you just made a good point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:46 AM
1

That is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:46 AM
3

Do you think you are making good points right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:29 AM
3

I'm hooked. Elaborate pls?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:16 AM
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this take is so 2019. Only looks matter is something that's true for men (and even then not fully), what you are doing is projecting your mentality on women. Looks matter initially when you have 0.1 seconds to swipe through a pile of people, but if I observe you in real life, the landscape starts changing very quickly because now a pretty guy has an opportunity to fuck up and irritate me, and a average looking guy can show me his intelligence, play guitar or make a joke or some shit. Charismatic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:14 AM
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Are you serious? How an I supposed to know your goals - aside from a few sentences that you put in the bio, let alone your whole personality - aside from the little MBTI thing you might have hanging there? Then, you can, and you absolutely will lie, because you are in your salesman's shoes. To figure out what you are up to I at least need a date, but to get a date I need to choose who to go with, and for that I will swipe based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:58 AM
1

Well, apps are not for everyone. Sorry ;(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:56 AM
2

So this is true... About you. You should not care for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:54 AM
1

I think this gets a bad rap because many people assume that the women only want a ticket to America and the men want a domestic slave for a wife. My wife and all of the women I know from her culture, family and friends are not like that. They are not like that because you are probably not a soy boy, if women in the West dislike a guy, the predatory beautiful parasite is exactly who he will attract, because nobody will get wet for him in East Asia either. The kind of guy who jumps through immigra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:53 AM
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I'm tired of all dating app - related info. The basic conclusion is that looks and only looks matter on dating app, none of which is shocking or unfair. What else is there to select by?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:13 AM
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I was with you until the last sentence where you basically... Well, pardon my french, whine. Let me make this clear: everybody will absolutely ignore you when they are at their best, and they will absolutely try to catch you when they are at their worst. What did you think? Just because she is a liability now does not make it a coherent point to get all hissy pissy that she would not have taken you back when you were a liability. This does not prove anything about women, and most importantly it …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:04 AM
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Women have to be good looking and present themselves a certain way to get quality male attention, which is the only thing that counts for our argument due to biological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:21 PM
3

Every woman thinks the same she is just polite enough not to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:14 PM
3

For women average guys = unattractive guy. At least initially. At least most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:40 PM
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The best strategy is to cold approach women who are likely to find you sexually attractive, otherwise you are setting yourself up for a line of brutal and unnecessary rejections, because you are acting like you are hot to women who don’t find you this way. Approach whoever but if you get shot down - that’s typical and normal. I don’t care and I don’t even know you. Riddle me this: some other dude is born 20 IQ points below you and never gets to learn a skill because he is mentally handicapped, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:59 AM
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Initially, yes, but a charismatic guy will filibuster through if given the opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:07 AM
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Places for somebody who isn’t conventionally attractive: co Ed spaces with shared interests, social circles, clubs, charity orgs, conventions, d and d nights
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:12 AM
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Of course, you know who else is? Most men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:11 AM
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Well, then OP is up for the company of skanks and complaining that all women are so shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:57 AM
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you too, best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:18 AM
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that’s tough. I’m sorry about this, it’s definitely going to be harder to play the game. Though, my fiancé is autistic, took him a longer time to learn the implicit social rules and a few fuck ups, but from perspective of someone who lays him - it can be helped and it’s far from the worst thing in social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:10 AM
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Is this a routine experience for every semi attractive woman in America? I honestly don't know, I've only been myself. With all the immaturity on both sides I take everything with a grain of salt unless I have a specific account of a particular story with all details. If I had to put a finger on it, every pretty woman has some wild stories, but it's probably the product of the same few poorly socialized idiots who are unable to read the room ​ I would hate to slut shame but is this behavior gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:52 AM
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And guess what? It’s fucking fair. If you aren’t blessed with looks, it’s simply silly to think that it’s a good idea to approach a woman - especially if she is hot - in the social environment where she can only get a grasp of your looks. Pretty people or people with polished self presentation will always have a massive leg up when they cold approach, and pretty women will have a leg up when they are trying to get cold approached in these environments. This includes: bus stop, gym, bar, tinder, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:59 PM
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Well you’d be annoyed if instead of ladies you caught the attention of middle aged creeps who ask you if you’ll blow their dick. In fact, enough of these interaction and you’ll prefer no attention to their attention. We dislike them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:53 PM
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True, but a woman with a brain will not go for an asshole even if she is attracted to him. Being attracted to a guy =/= laying there with my pussy out. We aren’t zoo animals. That being said, an asshole will definitely fuck, but that has nothing to do with “finding a good woman whose brain isn’t rotten by modern culture” which so many people on this sub say they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:50 PM
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Assholes get results, creeps don’t. Men think that math is supposed to math the same for all men, and it kinda does, but two guys have drastically different inputs so outputs will also be different. Creeps think they can be like assholes, but they are bad looking, have poor hygiene and 0 social skills, on top of this cake they put the icing of cold approaching and cry that they don’t get the same results as assholes. Assholes have broad shoulders, more muscle mass and their hygiene is good, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:44 PM
2

Okay I see
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:25 PM
3

Well you know what I mean, highly career oriented women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:21 PM
4

Well I don’t think “we” includes you as of now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:39 PM
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So, nobody is going to make it their goal to know their place, nor is there a stockpile of women who will make it their goal to even respect you and serve to you, while you are Justin from Indiana. That’s why they all got together and started taking birth control when it became available. If you were desirable women would serve you like they serve chads, but..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:24 PM
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If you refuse to believe - can’t fathom a way - how women were as important then men, you better not be one of those people who advocates for women performing their traditional role instead of studying a phd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:22 PM
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Oh okay, I misread. The question still stands, if somebody is younger than you and they have a pussy, the burden of proof is on the (much) older party. Especially if they don’t want to offer money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:49 PM
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I’m allowed to reply. Also his response is irrelevant. What is your name? I’m 23 years old. That’s… not relevant info
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:45 PM
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Single women at 35 don’t go for 20 year old guys, why are we talking about them. It’s single men at 50 who claim to do it, so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:37 PM
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Well, the average woman still has something to give to an average man. That’s why she can obtain a partner easily. Men and women are not the same, all things equal a woman is a better dating prospect. From that follows supply/demand. There is more demand for women than vice versa, that’s why women aren’t as motivated to self-improve. I don’t know what to tell you. If they were sufficiently motivated they would. But they don’t, therefore they aren’t motivated. Capitalism. Unless you are the tall …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:23 PM
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If children are necessary - and they are necessary - he will open his wallet and pay for somebody raising one, just like the rest of us. It’s not like taxes aren’t being taken out from my paycheck. What does it have to do with being a man or a woman? Also, It’s irrelevant how he 🥹 feels about taxes. Any mf who is upset about taxes should quit eating soy, go to the woods and survive on his own without the rest of us. The woman with a kid will always be a liability, so probably her chances will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:51 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:26 PM
0

I'm happy for you (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:21 AM
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They aren’t saying it directly because they are playing fucking games, because if they say it no guy will go through the trouble of entertaining a conversation or a getting a drink with them, which proves my point. This is like etiquette: dude writes that he wants to find “a wifey”, girl writes that she wants to “see where things go”. No woman wants a guy to just nut and go even if she kids her matches into thinking this, she wants at least an experience. Use your head a little bit for crying ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:43 AM
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it tells me nothing besides the fact that your matches specifically aren’t looking for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:33 AM
2

A message that leads to a woman being pumped by a rando is the same as a message from a girl who “just wants to be platonic friends” with you. Do you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:30 AM
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It’s true, for you. Like, clue in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:26 AM
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It’s definitely true… For you. People meet on tinder and get into relationships damn often. But prettier women will have an easier time to get into a relationship while ugly girls will be used as cum dumpsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:22 AM
0

Are you familiar with TRP content?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:40 AM
1

They find someone more attractive in their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:39 AM
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even if unattractive women get a date the guy will be out the door the moment he busts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:54 AM
2

They ll even put their dicks in electrical sockets it doesn’t prove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:09 AM
1

No, I’m saying: swap passports. Don’t hide behind American protections and cute little human rights
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:33 AM
1

That’s some privileged white bitch level take. Wanna go to Russia and swap passports with some mf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:28 AM
0

Doesn’t everyone and their dog know about the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:23 AM
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The complaint is that men want women to admire them and fuck them without having to pay, sex with a prostitute won’t cut it, otherwise they can just save up and get an escort
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:22 AM
1

Well, not everyone can stay calm and collected, somebody has to take on the burden of being emotional and defensive so the rest of y’all can shine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:42 AM
1

You talk too much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:27 AM
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First, I refused to dance. Then, I said no thanks to him offering to buy me a shot. Then I stonefaced his pick up line. Refused a dance again. He thought it was a great idea to ask me if I want to Netflix and chill on Tuesday, and it was Thursday. I said: “I said no like five times, there is absolutely no way in the world you will be fucking me by Tuesday”. So he blew up on me. We were both rude, but he started stress testing my patience himself so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:17 AM
1

Was she white herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:06 AM
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This post is so dumb. If somebody was turned out by four girls and you are fifth in line you wouldn’t be flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:01 AM
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And I want to be valued for more than youth and looks, so I guess we all have to swallow it. If somebody wants to be valued for jokes and shirts - these redpillers need to be redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:59 AM
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TRP is partially a product of male sexslessness. Increase in sexsless men is partially due to increase in sexsless women. Women aren’t as pressured to enter sexual relationships with men, and as our libidos are lower men aren’t always going to be met in the middle, particularly below average men. Since our supply is smaller than the other genders demand some guys will be left out, sometimes justly sometimes unjustly, but they all will gravitate to manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:31 PM
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You are wasting women’s time, our time on this sub and most importantly you your own time by overthinking it and coming up with cute little theories. Analysis paralysis
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:02 PM
15

If only you put a fraction of this effort into hitting the gym and learning a skill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:34 PM
13

Existence of TRP and rise of tradcon culture
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:08 PM
1

If she is the one asking for a guys company, yeah, she should pay. If he is asking me out, it means he wants something out of me, meaning that he will pay for a platform for this interaction. I don’t see how what I’m saying is illogical or controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:25 PM
-1

My time is more valuable than his because I have less of it and there is more demand for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:01 PM
0

But I’m only valuable till 35
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:46 PM
2

Well y’all are getting half of it right somehow, so I’m concluding y’all are in touch with grass just picking and choosing which reality to digest. a narcissistic playboy is of course sexually attractive, but if you guys want to say that just say that and don’t sugar coat it with any “I’ll commit to a 20 yo virgin” bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:45 PM
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I’ll reluctantly pick 2. Are you tryin to calibrate this thing? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:00 PM
3

Oh yeah 2 for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:55 PM
4

Then why are you asking me, you punk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:42 PM
8

I never said looks don’t matter. Take a logic course because how you are thinking is like retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:57 PM
1

Pff whatever you can manage to pull I don’t give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:26 PM
1

🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:24 PM
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I understood they are actors, I have a shallow knowledge of culture and don’t know what these people look like I mean, I can give you a hot girl and a ugly girl, set you up for choosing the hot girl as opposed to ugly confident chick and cry that all you care about is looks. And then I can say: wouldn’t be fun if I made you choose between hot option A and hot option B. Like, none of what you are saying is a flex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:16 PM
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I don’t know who they are Do you know that I can say the same thing about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:11 PM
7

He literally gave me two bad options 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:07 PM
0

That’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:48 PM
1

I guess? if you say it’s the same, it’s the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:41 PM
1

It’s not prostitution if I don’t fuck him after he picks up the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:37 PM
-4

Why did you downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:35 PM
1

Everyone understood why if you are not an idiot and are a woman, you should make him pay for every minute of your reproductive time that he is wasting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:35 PM
-2

Yes, because he wasted my time. If he asked me, he pays. The fact that I don’t ask anyone out is irrelevant to the fact that he wanted something out of me, and therefore should pay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:30 PM
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I’ll take 1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:27 PM
3

Why do men think they are supposed to be successful on dating apps? Casual sex will always be handed out on women’s terms. It was never designed to be equal. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:25 PM
0

All data is fabricated, we know nothing about actual number of his supporters. My anecdotal experience is that men legitimately enjoy it much more when strong papa Vladimir pisses them in the mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:05 AM
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People who allow the government to drizzle come upon them. Clearly men have a problem with electing authority and bending over and taking its cock up their asses, then what does any of that have to do with women who continue to live their lives and not giving a flying fuck? You are addressing your (rightful) concern to the wrong people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:35 AM
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So we have to people. One of them gets cum drizzled upon him by the government, the other one doesn’t. Do you want both of them to have this problem or neither?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:31 AM
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Nope, if men didn’t fight the government would find a way to deliver the product called “peace” which is coincidentally its job. And women would make relationships with these men, because they would happen to not be dead. Like what do you want women to do, not procreate? I don’t know what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:24 AM
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Nope. Don’t want to fight? Don’t fight. I would not sacrifice my tinder experiences because somebody decided to volunteer their time to do Zelensky’s job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:15 AM
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The men in Russia supported the ever living fuck out of this government and are happy to continue sucking Putin’s cock. Also, it’s not really mandatory to go to war: they all could have refused, because all execution of laws in Russia is half assed, draft included. They could have literally not showed up to the recruiting stations, but they were happy to do so and continue to bend over. It’s natural selection really. What do you want women to do? Not a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:08 AM
2

It’s a red flag. I hate it when people exploit me and waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:48 AM
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Your society gives you your phone to type this post, the food to feed you, free time to think this shit and human rights for everyone around you to respect. The last part I find questionable. Why should you have human rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:35 AM
1

I wouldn’t say anything but I cut people out of my life if they cross a boundary with what comes out of their faceholes. It happened with my friend in college: she slurped up and said “you could do better than him” so I went no contact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:36 AM
1

I mean, you are owning your phone Get rid of your own property and I’ll take you seriously Point fingers and you are wasting everybody’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:51 AM
23

Do tell me. It’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:25 PM
2

Acknowledge their existence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:01 PM
5

I have an issue with this. You don’t own TRP, therefore you don’t get to decide “what it’s really about”. Have goddamn respect for different schools of thought
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:29 AM
2

I’d rather be a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:53 AM
1

It’s different kind of criminality. An abundance of single men creates more violent criminals who are likely to flip the system, single motherhood is still damaging to everybody but it’s not lethal to existing social structures
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:26 AM
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$700,000 annually would be what I’d describe as extreme success and where I’d feel conflicted. I grew up relatively well off tho, so girls from most households would be swayed a lot earlier than this. Maybe I’d be swayed earlier too. But at $700,000 I would get over myself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:40 AM
1

Like, successful man provides the American dream. A hyper successful man provides a lifestyle that you see on tv
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:35 AM
0

Nope, the stupidest connection flight, so my argument will have to die with my brain cells
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:32 AM
2

They are with uglier narcissistic men who filibustered their way through by having extreme confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:28 AM
5

if you want a take devoid of nuance what I’m thinking is: If we had five Chads and five Stacys they will still rank order each other and exercise their sexual selection mechanisms. three girls will go for number one, one girl will like number two, one girl will like number three and two will be option B for everybody. Source: the Petri dish that is love island. On a large scale 80/20 will be accurate. I don’t know how many men have no shot at reproduction. Maybe bottom 10-20 will totally fall ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:39 AM
1

It’s kinda true, but: many dudes aren’t trying and cross themselves out of the run. People say they do things but much of it is just talk as women age they drop their expectations and for dudes who are trying it reportedly gets easier to date there is foreign markets that men can penetrate with their passports and lifestyle perks. Many Russian and Ukrainian men are/will be dead yet again wink wink Like, there is still things people could do to improve their situation, I think, but many of them (…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:56 AM
4

It’s kinda true, but: many dudes aren’t trying and cross themselves out of the run. People say they do things but much of it is just talk as women age they drop their expectations and for dudes who are trying it reportedly gets easier to date there is foreign markets that men can penetrate with their passports and lifestyle perks. Many Russian and Ukrainian men are/will be dead yet again wink wink Like, there is still things people could do to improve their situation, I think, but many of them (…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:55 AM
2

Yeah, they aren’t lying, personality and confidence are important and there was a cult of pick up artistry for a reason, but not at a bar and not on a dating up. Think about it: you have such limited room to assess this and have to make a decision quickly. id hope when you are actually taking a bitch out you try to hear what comes out of her mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:34 AM
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Oh, of course it’s a problem. Women need men. Soviet women in 1940s completed their job of raising a generation, with three and a half drunks per ten women. There is still echoes of the gender imbalance in post WWII eastern states. It fucking sucks to deal with a dating market that is skewed not in your favor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:28 AM
1

Because female traditional roles objectively fucking suck, and they suck more than working your 9-5. Working a 9-5 is what we all already are doing and I’m fine. Shit, no wonder women avoid it like a plague
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:18 AM
1

Constant penetration of the buttchicks of my brain with stupid shit like jelaousy and offense taking. Just get over your bullshit. If you are choking all the air out of relationship it won’t last: go marry a frigid Bible loving Christian but if you are deliberately making me not attracted to you man you got me the other way around we are just wasting everybody’s time at this point. Everything is on the table. If you want to cheat on me, we will discuss it like adults and not pretend we only want…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:12 AM
3

It’s, well, not. How important is personality to you when you select which girl to approach? I guess the Hispanic girl just found him more handsome. As simple as that. A woman will not tolerate a guy she isn’t attracted to grinding on her. Attraction is weird sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:55 AM
39

Single women are never a societal problem. A structure consisting of single mothers is crippled, but can limp along. Men are very high maintenance: they need a sense of purpose, direction, role models, women, families
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:54 AM
1

Yes, of course. There is people of both genders who are very good at tapping into the others brains
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:46 AM
3

On PPD a lot of takes are pretty leveled. The thing that matters the most is intelligence tho let’s be real, your height matters when you are young but when people age - man, that’s a great equalizer, your choices matter more than your jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:34 AM
5

No, but there is a lot of women who would, and if you are past the “successful” stage of life entering into “hyper successful” stage there is a lot of women who would. If you are past 40 there is a lot of women in thirties who would, but girls in their twenties just don’t feel the overwhelming need to settle down yet so wait a little
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:31 AM
2

No, I tried to make a good point, but I’m too sleep deprived to make it sound coherent from beginning to end. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:21 AM
0

On TRP and PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:18 AM
4

Your statement: men don’t hookup with young chicks and marry old ones. My rebuttal: for men it’s vice versa, they will tell how they hookup with older chicks and marry young ones. Meaning that they want young ones most and when they marry old ones they are settling. Your statement should be flipped, and we get the same amount of settling on the male side
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:15 AM
4

Oh but a lot of men are just sleeping with an older woman and committing to a hot and young one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:12 AM
6

“It’s funny because - * I googled respect. Copy pasted the first definition. Definition: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. You are confusing respect and baseline level of politeness. Unless you again, think, that western women need to admire individual western men by default
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:08 AM
6

I think you are the one raging, I noted what is known as common sense and if anything I’m confused You never heard that human decency is a default and respect is earned? If a barista is making their coffee they don’t even know you, how do they even determine whether they respect you or not. think about it for longer than fifteen seconds before being outraged. Thai people don’t have my passport and my privilege, of course they’ll treat you much better, but this is a meh representation of how a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:59 AM
1

That’s not exactly true, there is men who appreciate the beauty of [blank]. I wanted a scnadinavian boyfriend for a while. If you can pick why wouldn’t you go for something exotic, like you wouldn’t go to the same restaurant for every meal right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:40 AM
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Human decency, yes. Respect, fuck no, you earn that shit. That’s why I asked you to specify. Dude, half of them are trying to get your money in the service industry, half of them are trying to get your passport. I have a PhD in how girls operate around expats. They don’t “actually” respect you. Not more so than an average person pulled from the street. Asian are also very accommodating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:34 AM
5

of course she is a gold digger: she dates a gentleman double her age with an American passport, because pretty boys from her country can’t give her the lifestyle perks you guys can! Shock - shock - shock! 😱 y’all need to stop pikachu jpg when you deal with women from traditional cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:30 AM
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When someone tells me women treat men with disrespect in a developed country I take it with a grain of salt, because men take everything so personal and believe that respect is owed automatically just because they exist and breathe air. What does it even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:21 AM
2

A and B there is an 80% chance that women don’t really care, so C if you so wish Just do whatever you want why are you asking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:29 AM
1

If property is a construct of patriarchy you are more than welcome to, you know, get rid of everything your own. The system that allowed men to posses is the same system that allowed women to posses after the invention of birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:51 AM
1

I didn’t even read the last part tbh, but the thing is I’m wasting my own time, while you are wasting mine. It’s different. Also don’t use personal insults, I’m not your therapist to dig through these monologues. Keep it classy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:07 AM
1

What do you mean look the same? They are different people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:14 PM
1

Mister, I’ve been told 24 is when girls expire
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:01 PM
2

Go for women your age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:44 PM
1

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:33 PM
1

They asked me on a date in order to what, play chess and talk politics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:03 PM
1

He wants to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:50 PM
0

For now it’s you who is wasting everybody’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:51 AM
0

Pfff watch me a. Getting my food paid for b. Not doing anything afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:50 PM
2

He asked out every female he knew and got rejected every single time. He was fat, and had a 0.0 GPA his first semester, had to drop out. Each time somebody had a slight criticism he got all hissy pissy and emotional. He thought that feminism was stupid but couldn’t hold himself to the standard of being a strong protector and provider, which I thought made him unqualified to bitch about all the masculine women out there. I mean, someone had to do his job after all. Made racist jokes, thought they…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:02 PM
1

🥹 so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:44 PM
1

😢
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:26 PM
1

:( sorry to see you go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:22 PM
2

“Men invented property to gain leverage over youngsters” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:13 PM
2

You are wasting everybody’s time here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:06 PM
0

Why, I’m hot. He will pick up my bill and I get to do whatever I want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:05 PM
0

I… don’t have an obligation to provide care to anybody. I am the healthiest person alive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:25 PM
1

I’m trying to say it’s pretty selective how people push the idea that we need to be more than animals, but at the same time people will resort to using biological essentialist argument when it benefits their cause. Maybe it’s not the same people, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:42 AM
1

Listen, whatever happened you didn’t deserve it and it takes a strong person to drag themselves out by the bootstraps, so kudos to you big time for not wallowing in self pity all your life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:29 AM
1

I’m sorry about your situation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:59 AM
1

🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:35 AM
1

Great. What are you doing here tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:13 AM
1

It’s not that I don’t agree with it, it’s just totally besides the point as subjectively decided upon by me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:01 AM
1

Oh, LSD is for cheap😝 I have something for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:00 AM
0

I mean, you guys have no problem running your mouth on this sub and tell women they are valued for sex and before they are 25, and now boo-hoo you don’t like women benefiting from it aggressively 😭 because it makes you feel objectified 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:15 AM
0

This isn’t about you. Engage with my actual argument or you are wasting your time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:12 AM
1

The guys are struggling because sex is their goal, not mine. My goal is to extract maximum resources with minimum effort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:12 AM
0

This isn’t therapy. For that I charge much more than a burger and fries
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:11 AM
1

I mean, you can claim to be independent and still charge money for your effort on any dimension, right. Nobody is truly independent, but this would be as independent as it ever gets
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:10 AM
1

They aren’t trying to be nice, they are trying to fuck. I don’t get the analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:07 AM
1

I agree it’s cringe to be a boss babe I just didn’t see the argument as consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:47 AM
1

When I’m older I’ll be the milf that will ruin your parents marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:35 AM
1

Men are valued for their accomplishments and resources, that’s what’s wrong with “himself”. Didn’t you guys read the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:34 AM
1

Why is it an issue? Men and women aren’t the same. Men will always have to set the dating stage and pay for it, so that the girl doesn’t become a thot by fucking many dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:33 AM
0

:) of course it’s all about me I was told by PPD I’m the prize
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:31 AM
0

Then he is wasting everybody’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:30 AM
1

I’m entitled to getting something out of my god given talents. If you think young and hot chicks are supposed to land on your lap for free, maybe you are entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:29 AM
0

I don’t really care about how my thoughts affect broader communities. Go get therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:28 AM
1

Ouch 😣 Th thing is your time just isn’t as valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:26 AM
1

Pfff, who is asking you. We own dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:26 AM
1

I know right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:25 AM
0

They would need to take me out to find out so sounds like win win
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:25 AM
0

What? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:24 AM
0

I don’t need to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:24 AM
1

Pff, you wouldn’t find out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:24 AM
1

Young + hot, that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:23 AM
1

Im pretty much saying it directly what do you mean “implying”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:22 AM
1

If I’m going to be exploited I will rip off the benefits of exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:21 AM
1

Of course it’s narcissism, who craes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:20 AM
3

Dude I just need to go outside to get dick what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:20 AM
1

I don’t care enough to prove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:19 AM
1

If they are inviting me, it means they are trying to fuck. Meaning that they will pick up the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:18 AM
1

Yeah, what did you think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:18 AM
1

“Women are best when they are young and hot” “Why do we pretend we are animals?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:17 AM
1

I said I couldn’t care less about the subject he chose to ramble on. I need feedback on the subject that I chose not just “feedback”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:16 AM
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She just needs to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:54 PM
2

After she is young and hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:34 PM
1

Dude go get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:34 PM
1

Make your own post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:33 PM
-1

This isn’t about you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:28 PM
1

If he gets this far
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:10 PM
2

35 yo feminist with a degree in social work, n count - 3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:29 PM
2

Why? I’m young and hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:28 PM
-2

They receive a time of day in return
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:28 PM
1

😝
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:40 PM
1

No I’m strong and independent period. If he wants to fuck he will fix the tire tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:40 PM
1

What if he requests something outside the scope of my obligations to him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:36 PM
2

I can make babies he can’t - root of my argument. However many reproductive options he has - I’ll always have more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:20 PM
-1

In what situation, that they pick women for youth and beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:19 PM
1

But you are only subordinate in the boss-worker frame, as far as you are willing to be subordinate. If he requests that you do something outside of it, like give him a blowjob, you will walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:17 PM
1

We both make money but I have a uterus, beauty and youth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:14 PM
-3

Women’s reproductive time is more valuable because there is more demand for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:13 PM
0

Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:12 PM
1

I know everything about this guys wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:12 PM
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Then you aren’t making sense. You are selecting pretty women who are younger and are getting pissy that they want to compensate the age difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:11 PM
1

If I’m told I depreciate in value and it depends on my looks, yes, I will leverage that do get something out of relations with men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:02 PM
0

I never said they must, I said unless they do their chances are damaged. Supply demand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:58 PM
1

It does. All I’m saying is women, however masculine they are, will not go out with a guy unless he offers an incentive. Supply demand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:58 PM
1

Thank you is a must if someone pays for a meal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:56 PM
-2

Because a guy thinks a girl is hot and wants to fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:36 AM
2

Then he doesn’t have to approach her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:35 AM
1

They ask me because they are horny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:34 AM
2

I didn’t say that women are masculine till the right guy comes along, I said if a guy wants to fuck he better offer something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:34 AM
-2

If they ask me out, it by definition does because there is a demand for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:50 AM
1

Did you actually read my post? You are just repeating shit I already adress
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:42 AM
2

It’s not bad ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:30 AM
2

Women will split the bill if he is charismatic enough, I know. How is what I said contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:29 AM
3

I don’t get how it’s entitled and which aspect of it is entitled do you mind explaining further this part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:16 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:11 AM
2

It’s nobody’s fault that they are born ugly. This is a place where they are supposed to self reflect and realize that they and Chad aren’t equal and aren’t supposed to get the same deal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:02 AM
5

I mean you evaluate women based on attractiveness. Why would they like you for your heart and soul
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:00 AM
1

Attractive women’s curve is shifted upwards along the y axis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:35 AM
1

If women are designed for it why do you have to remind them of the correct course of behavior. You are a monkey
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:43 AM
1

Then pick a better word
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:42 AM
1

My coochie is about me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:26 AM
1

I’d rather have a son. I don’t know how to tell my daughter that to half the human population she is a piece of meat with expiration date set at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:33 AM
2

Because women bear most responsibility for sexual relationships with men. Sex is expensive both socially and metabolically, and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:41 AM
5

Not semantics, you just identified exactly what’s wrong with nice guys You can fuck a woman’s life up without having bad intentions, just as a byproduct of being clueless, stupid and self-obsessed. A man who doesn’t add anything to a woman’s life takes away her reproductive resource, adds to her body count, creates emotional baggage and conjures up single mothers - all without bad intentions mind you, but men will definitely not seek a committed relationship with her after all the mess a guy wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:11 PM
1

No, it’s popular enough for me to memorize it. I heard it enough times to remember this argument people are making
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:11 PM
2

Then pick a different adjective. Competent guy? Hardworking guy? What does nice even mean and why would women go for his puppy luv?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:07 PM
3

I thought young hot girls go for 45 year old men who peak at that age due to abundance of resources
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:58 PM
7

This doesn’t exist. If you are labeled a “nice guy” she is really saying “he is tolerable enough to be around but has nothing else going for him”. If you are tolerable enough to be around and have nothing else going for you, you are not a good person. If the only adjective I can say about a man is that he is “nice”, he isn’t even a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:57 PM
1

They should not. We aren’t your therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:50 PM
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A nice guy is the sort of guy who will abuse a woman during pregnancy. I don’t think you understand what “nice guy” really is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:49 PM
0

I thought women are hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:30 PM
4

You would never do that. Your dick is special and removes the cum of other men out of girls pussies. And all the dicks that are not yours strip her of her value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:57 PM
1

No, you guys do want a slave. You just can’t get one and pretend you want a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:43 AM
5

And whoever is a good girl is the girl who swallows your cum and addresses you “senpai”. Because that’s not considered damage. If she doesn’t do it, she is a bad girl. And a bad girl you will damage. Sounds like she is screwed in either scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:58 AM
1

Tolerating your shit means being subservient to you. Which nobody will do unless they have to/unless you pay them a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:57 AM
1

Not being Mordibly obese - fair. being subservient to you - if you were worth it, college Stacy’s would line up for you here. But I guess gotta do what you gotta do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:56 AM
-1

women here don’t have to tolerate your shit. Finding a woman in Japan is like tutorial
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:02 AM
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“less damage” - okay so we agree that the problem is you guys damaging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:55 AM
-1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:29 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:30 PM
1

Nope, capitalism Uber Alles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:05 PM
1

Okay, you got me there. Michelin star chef is not a talentless biogarbage. Fast food workers will be paid more when they become three star chefs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:02 PM
2

You can’t even get up and go jogging, who is asking you to fight for your cringy ass cancerous tumor on North America
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:09 PM
4

How do you know they are in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:08 PM
1

Try again what, working at Macdonald’s 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:06 PM
4

Very specific older men. Not just older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:54 AM
-1

No one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:28 AM
2

You are not an average man. For you to pull a hot young woman a guy next to you had to fail
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:22 AM
1

No, she is a good girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:31 AM
1

While your mom is eating me good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:23 AM
2

No. It makes me feel superior. Your break is over, shut the fuck up and go fix dem power lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:13 AM
1

Hell is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:06 AM
3

People legit have this sensation that the world is looking after them, peeping through the blinds of their living room, thinking: “how is Justin? Oh no, he is gone from the dating market!” 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:01 AM
0

We don’t vote for male candidates because they are men, but because they are competent, you punk. People vote white men into power because the world is an oppressive patriarchy. White men are over represented among competent people. Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:58 AM
1

What’s the worst thing that can happen besides losing $1000? That’s some cheap wisdom. Young men seriously have all the time in the world to dick around unlike us young women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:44 AM
2

Not “all”, but enough for me to sit here and cite it. I mean I didn’t come up with this shit by myself, so I read it somewhere - and it just happens to be on manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:50 AM
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but bullshitting the ever living fuck out of cooking is stupid. If you have time to dick around in the kitchen than you are useless talentless biogarbage and this is a hill I’ll die on. Cooking is sort of necessary, but isn’t the flex tradcon idiots think it is. “I can CoOk And cLeAn and IM a HoUSEWifE!1!” Yeah bitch, we all do, we also wipe and wash our asses every day. Why are we talking about that? PS And I am a good cook btw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:35 PM
2

Men never bring up women divorce raping them and ending 80% of marriages? Men never bring up women locking them down for resources and fucking Chad on the side? It’s very arbitrary how you decided to only mention that men won’t complain about abuse while ignoring all the other shit men complain about. I can say the same thing: pick better women. If better women don’t choose you, quit whining and die alone. Like, we can play the game both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:36 PM
8

Baby daddies are more than welcome to step in and correct the situation, yet most of you motherfuckers don’t give a fuck about your kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:38 PM
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And men will not? They will logically evaluate the girl without projecting their fantasies and delusions on her and will never ever commit to an idiot just because she is hot? I’m not the type to cry patriarchy but if men ever sold anything to the masses it’s this absolutely ridiculous idea that they are logical and rational beings. Btw, men who think this about themselves are the most thin skinned hysterical vaginas I ever met In the world where Amber Heard trial is a thing I suggest we end thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:27 AM
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They are. Aren’t they? I find intelligent men extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:15 PM
1

Then my degree does not make me that much more masculine. You can’t shit on women with careers for being dikes or whatever and simultaneously cry that having degree and being employed in a competitive field isn’t enough to attract a woman, because women are… attracted to masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:04 PM
1

Why don’t we remove your freedom instead? You are the one who screeches the most now, so why would we chase half the humanity if we can just bitch slap you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:49 PM
1

What toxic views? The toxic view that I don’t owe OP my time and attention? I’m sure he got over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:32 PM
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Degree of course yields a higher income, if you were to compare a group of people who went to college with a group of people who didn’t, the former make more money. Men make more. That’s why I don’t understand why people complain about boys dropping out of shit. Apperantly the minority of men succeed, then we have women, then we have a ton of men at the bottom, something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:25 PM
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All the stats people cite about men dropping out of high school etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:21 PM
-1

I’m a masculine woman with degree and an income so apparently I’d do great. You guys literally bitch at women being better at being men than men are, and then you simultaneously ask stupid questions like this one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:13 PM
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How are we supposed to know? I guess we will have to die wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:11 PM
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Bro, I can have whatever bullshit on my profile and be showered with attention still. “Oh whemhen so shallow, they care about loooks!!!” Unlike men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:10 PM
1

Unlike you, who fixed hunger in Africa? This is just empty virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:54 PM
1

I don’t care nor do I want to care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:44 PM
1

I don’t know what you are trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:14 PM
1

People who think like you do are the biggest vaginas, and it’s science, because when someone reaches across the table and bitch slaps the ever living fuck out of them, their bravado disappears like morning hangover and they suddenly want human rights, respect and protection for themselves and their loved ones
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:07 AM
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OP said stupidity and I am not going to entertain his cute little ideas in order to bitch slap him if I can get to the meaty part right away
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:00 AM
-1

DD/MM/YYYY hh:mm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:20 AM
2

You want to traffic girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:24 AM
1

This conversation reached a dead end. If you want to cry about lack of extra inches I suggest you pay me the hourly rate of a licensed therapist in my area
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:01 PM
1

Where I talked about breaking dietary habits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:09 PM
1

I already responded to this :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:53 AM
1

Meaning that people have greater struggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:19 AM
1

But I don’t care enough to engage with your point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:16 AM
1

I super don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:11 AM
1

Agency has little to do with income
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:01 AM
1

A TRP brain rot dude and an attention seeker with creative gender ideas dating. Is it on Netflix yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:40 AM
1

For the same reason why people can’t quit alcohol or sugar, or can’t stick to anything. Because many people who are fat are fat from childhood, their parents never enforced discipline, diet, habits. You are asking them to do something they were never taught to do. Being overweight is a mode of being. Like imagine I raid your fridge and remove all the carbs, you will last Monday through Wednesday and on Thursday night you will binge fried potatoes covered in chocolate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:32 AM
1

From your experience as both?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:29 AM
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Well, you are for sure a gem for many heavier women, there isn’t enough of you to give one to each fat girl. It’s not as much of an issue if you are in a good shape. It’s still there, but attention from desirable people is there too. On the other hand, if you are obese, only the negative aspect of dating is present for the most part with no positives to override it. I’m not sorry for fat girls, they are making this choice themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:26 PM
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Doing everything that I’m doing if he is my age. Same income, same looks. Willingness and genuine desire to be in a relationship with me. Wanting to get married at some point. I don’t need anyone to move mountains to sleep with me. I don’t care what percentile of income/looks my salary falls into, if I’m able to do it while having a pussy and being all emotional, I’m not handing out participation trophies to men who can’t do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:17 PM
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It can be that sometimes, but the truth is most of the attention will be from men significantly lower in quality, or the “pump and dump” type of attention, because everybody tends to like fit girls. Guys of high enough caliber usually find someone more attractive. While there is niches of all sorts, the tendency is still there. I actually haven’t observed fat men’s dating struggles enough, I’ve only observed my heavier female acquaintances, so perhaps you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:13 PM
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Meh, napkin science. I’ll agree very carefully with the fact that women are more homogenous. Large scale dynamics does not tell you anything about an individual woman, so your observation is not applicable anyhow in any conversation, period. Also, OP, but many men claim that they dislike masculine women, and ability to go against the grain is a masculine trait. So I hate to be this person and all, but my recommendation is to pick women with masculine temperament and make it the new black or get …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:08 PM
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Noted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:00 PM
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I mean, fat chicks might get shady characters simping for them in hopes for easy sex, which is hardly a boost for a woman’s self esteem if she happens to be burdened with intelligence. I don’t know if fat women have it better than fat man. Fat men can improve other factors to appeal to women: they can be a software engineer or have a cool sense of humor, but fat women are pretty much done. But again, the body fat percentage requirement is a lot more lax for women. I genuinely don’t know who has …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:59 PM
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What the fuck, did you even fucking read and comprehend what I said you punk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:58 PM
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I didn’t read the post, but I disagree and here is my opinion: most posts are a waste of everybody’s time anyways 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:43 PM
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There is not enough men with this preference for all fat girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:01 PM
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If looks are not the only thing that feeds into sexual attractiveness why did you find me bringing up obese women and single moms irrelevant? I find it pointless to have a conversation just about appearance because it makes things more confusing then insightful, in case if there is much more factors than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:34 PM
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But even though your girlfriend fulfilled the purpose of taking dick (sorry), you just admitted she wasn’t attractive. I understand a guy will fuck ugly, but he will still recognize ugly and will not be oblivious to the fact that he fucks down, and will trade ugly for something better looking when presented with a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:42 PM
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I’m disputing the claim that men are not selective with who they are attracted to. They are not selective until they have more than one option, and as their leverage grows, so does the list of what he finds attractive and what he absolutely will not bother with even for a casual encounter. I am making the point that once men can get women, they will select for all sorts of things when it comes sexual attraction, and they absolutely will nit pick who they have sex with. You can say that they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:12 PM
2

fat % and age -> looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:47 AM
1

Nope. Just two very popular opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:42 AM
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I didn’t author anyone of these opinions, I don’t know what you mean by “you are making”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:39 AM
2

What is cost inflicting mate retention tactics?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:02 AM
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“The dating pool is full of fat chicks, women with no accountability and single moms” “Men are happy with the pussy they get”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:41 AM
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If you have a kid you are responsible for them whether they listen or not, whether you like it or not. “Oh but they don’t listen!” Oh, but the rest of us don’t give a fuck, it’s you responsibility to make them listen as a parent. A leader assumes responsibility for failures and successes, or else you are being not an adult but a crybaby when your subordinate decides to act out which they will. Apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:36 AM
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The last one doesn’t make any sense. If your child doesn’t listen to you, I don’t give a fuck that you don’t assume responsibility over him. It’s your job to make them behave, and if you don’t for whatever reason - you fucked up as a parent. The adoption of responsibility came before the consequences of their upbringing. You don’t look at the consequences and then decide whether you want to attribute it to your success or disregard it. Also, the pilot one: if you aren’t rich enough to fly a priv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:29 AM
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Yeah, now I’m kind of irritated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:12 PM
1

Cool me too, now be a doll and piss off with your stupid verbal ping pong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:39 PM
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I’m sorry you had this experience. I know what you are talking about exactly, if you care for my opinion here it goes: generally I get the impression that women pretend to listen and let this woman to talk the talk, while feeling second hand embarrassment. It’s not that women with functional lives draw wisdom from the fds expert. This in fact happened to me: I’m not going to make a public scene and explain why I respect my boyfriend, I think the fact that he fucks me argues for itself, but when …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:59 PM
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I assure you promiscuity does not correlate with looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:39 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:21 PM
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Let me make it clear: If women collectively decide someone isn’t relationship worthy, then he isn’t, because genders determine each others worth. You aren’t born with a price tag - people attach it to you. Sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:42 AM
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If the only reason why you won’t pump and dump me is because you can’t get away with it - I don’t actually have your commitment. I have an illusion of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:39 AM
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^ This guy definitely fucks, everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:34 AM
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Cheating is not hat big of a deal tbh, or maybe I just do not respect myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:27 AM
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Yes to the first one, no to the second one. No one cares enough about me specifically. I never called anyone a slut shamer for having standards around sexual behavior, I think it’s just like weird to expect 50% of the population to roll down the red carpet for some Justin to march in and select a virgin out of available willing chaste women. I think we are talking about the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:11 AM
2

You are phased by comments about these comments enough to make a comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:22 AM
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Well now you are the one whining about me whining 😨 what are we gonna do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:58 AM
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I have a hyper responsive circuitry that gets triggered by whiny people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:35 AM
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True, insecurity big time. It’s not like we live in the war zone, all pussy convulses at arctic monkeys concerts anyways so OP is competing in the wrong contest to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:24 AM
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Didn’t say a word about how horrible the standard is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:40 AM
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Nothing is wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:33 AM
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That’s precisely why I’m sensitive to conversations that are done and dusted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:19 AM
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I’m not judging people for having a judgmental standard, I’m judging people for talking and acting like somebody other than themselves is supposed to do something about it. This no longer has anything to do with sex. I just don’t like whiny people with no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:11 AM
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Newly celibate virgins of course exist, and they of course wonder why simply saying that you are a good Christian woman isn’t enough to actually be one. You think that the former doesn’t happen because you are not the one dealing with dudes, it absolutely is a mindset that many idiots are a guilty of: to try and hook up with girls at a bar, miraculously fail and bitch that that there isn’t a single chaste woman around the next morning? Check, check and check.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:09 AM
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So your post boils down to: date whoever you want but don’t throw hissy fits at people not wanting to measure up to your standards, and if you are a girl don’t get pissed off that your promiscuity is a problem for many men. What’s there to disagree with. When I tell dudes who are fixated on body counts that: “look, you can reject anybody for whatever reason you want, your body your choice, but you can’t go around and measure people with your yardstick and get pissed off that they don’t make them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:53 AM
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I agree, and I question the intent of taking away someone’s coping mechanism to prove a point that argues for itself already.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:22 AM
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I know, and it doesn’t justify getting down to their level, like you wouldn’t bark back at a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:19 AM
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Biologically speaking WhEMHan and mHan - 🤓 You are tolerable, but annoying. Of course if one gender is attracted to something across the board there will be all sorts of reasons for it tied to survival. No shit. It doesn’t justify preaching at half the population because they don’t live up to a standard that they can’t help - and this is what you are trying to do with your (painfully obvious) post. Would you like it if some fifty year old idiot decided to preach at you about virtues of college g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:47 PM
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I don’t think she was kidding. I think she was interested, you ignored her, and bitch tried to pull the rug from under your feet by saying that she was kidding (like you are an idiot for thinking she’d be interested). Men do it, they do all sorts of things when they are rejected, including saving face and try to pretend they didn’t imply cheap commitment free sex when they said “Netflix and chill?”. It’s not gender specific, it’s this type of person, they pivot, flirt and refuse to put labels on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:40 PM
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Yes, I wouldn’t have swiped on him if I found him unattractive. I didn’t make him wait, he was free to continue exploring his options before making a decision whether he likes me enough or no while I was trying to make this same decision. “OMG women make me wait!” Then don’t wait. Get up from your ass and get a life outside of the one tinder match you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:47 AM
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An absence of random dicks in one’s coochie is about the coochie, not some other random dick. Aka not everything is about you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:40 AM
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I don’t get it. And what in TRP community doesn’t apply to unattractive men? Work out, be confident, make fuck you money, and you will succeed orders of magnitude more than if you say on the couch. Man if you are unattractive but intelligent and hard-working it’s better to be a man, trust me on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:33 AM
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No prob :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:13 AM
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Pipidastra is another word for dust brush 😅 maybe it means bat in Italian too, I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:05 AM
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Im not shitting on him, I said he has a massive chip on his shoulder, which he does. So thin skinned 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:00 AM
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You have a massive chip on your shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:30 PM
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I sleep around and my ego is inflated 😗
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:01 PM
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People take something that’s is true and bullshit the ever living fuck out of it. For example, men prefer women who are younger than them. The optimal age gap is what, four or five years, but people exploit evolutionary biology to justify why it makes sense to date somebody 1/2 their age. Same for the woman in the scenario: I’m sure she explains why it’s great to screw a raisin for lifestyle perks. “We are traditional!” Nope, you are just a fuckboi, and she is a prostitute, and it’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:38 AM
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I don’t think you know anything about biology, evolution or genetics 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:31 AM
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If it’s in moderation, it’s good. Men probably want to be careful when it comes to shaming women for expressing their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:15 AM
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Well if men sleep around and women sleep around sounds like the net impact is 0
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:05 AM
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My default position holds people in general in a negative light. If we control for opportunity for cheating, I actually believe that HVM will run through fewer women than an average guy. So, I’m not on some vindictive quest against successful men just because I say that women should not invite people’s predatory impulses in their lives by advertising that they can’t stand up for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:43 PM
1

What does HVM desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:36 PM
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Visibility on linked in, salary >$100000 for at least 5 years and something else, I forgot what. How is some random dudes definition of something relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:33 PM
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that’s what I suspected: a woman who helps solving problems or at least doesn’t create them as a byproduct of stupidity and laziness masquerading as virtuous traditionalism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:18 PM
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Of course not, I’d hope an HVM can be reasonable and fair, not tyrannical and arbitrary. A cocky crypto fuckboi is the JPT definition of HVM, which is the assumption I’m going off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:16 PM
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No, I’m not. I don’t think all HVM cheat. But I think that all HVM are people, and people are full of flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:14 PM
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I’m saying, if a woman has her own income and if she accomplished anything at all she will not tolerate being pushed around. Not to say that she will be a stuck up bitch. But she will make it known if she doesn’t like her husband cheating on her, and why the heck wouldn’t she.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:34 PM
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Lets go by the worst (for us women) scenario and say they are Leo’s. Leo still did not marry a hot submissive virgin housewife, he dicks around with bikini models. So, wouldn’t the statement just be “HVM wants to use your holes, be a sexy chick and maybe he’ll fuck you” as oppose to “bend over backwards and be x, y and x to get him to commit” if these people are genuine? They are stuck with explaining why Leo Di Caprios of the world can’t find a HVW to wife her up aside from the fact that he doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:29 PM
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Just because I’m not licking someone’s anus dry it doesn’t mean I’m attacking them. Chill. I said, it’s a good salary, of course, and kudos to them, but nobody will bend over backwards and stay a submissive hot virgin to keep a guy with this salary - which doesn’t provide a stable above average platform for a housewife and a couple of kids - around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:04 PM
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Okay sounds good, though by the time doctors leave medical schools they are often taken. Even if not, A woman who has enough brains to get her own career going is not going to shut up and swallow, right. Mostly because she isn’t as incentivized to do so as a jobless housewife. We’ve already established that economically independent women impose higher requirements on men. I can’t help but see massive holes in the narratives they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:57 PM
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I’m addressing my post to the people who think they do qualify for such discussions. When women say they want an HVM, they want a doctor or a lawyer, or an actor, or a CEO not a guy who bitches about relationship s on alphadudebro episode 500 while getting yesgirled by other shady characters. That’s what I do with my girls when we get each others nails done. When it comes to Leo, the perception is highly skewed. For each Leo there is a Will Smith, for each Will Smith there is a Donald Trump, for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:52 PM
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Dude, I had an opportunity to briefly meet a, let’s just say, a very high earning and competent guy. Smart and disagreeable as fuck. Apparently he broke up with his ex because she was a literal baby and expected him to solve all her problems, and he got frustrated with her being not independent and not having her own shit going on. So each time someone says HVM (excuse me such vulgar language) wants a traditional virgin housewife I wonder how he would even have time to move mountains and protect…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:41 PM
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I’m dressing down her character. Also: She understands what a woman needs to do to lock one down To lock one down you need to revolve in his social circle or lock him down early in life. So which one is it? She doesn’t recommend 2, because to revolve in his social circle a woman needs to be the opposite of a kitchen dwelling submissive wallflower, become useful and get - shock! - a useful and difficult degree in business/STEM from a competitive university.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:32 PM
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It’s sort of paradoxical: the moment you enter the chat announcing your market value it becomes debatable in the eyes of the audience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:23 PM
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That’s what I noticed btw, desirable men don’t need to announce their desirability. It’s like being a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:20 PM
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I usually listen to a few videos before dismissing somebody as a 🤡 but the whole perspective turned out to be like, very one-sides and heavily loaded
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:18 PM
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Not to say that women don’t fuck up in their quest. The bar should be high, but maybe not on the metrics many women put an emphasis on currently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:02 PM
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Bich, we are literally doing our job of passing on the best of male genes. The bar is exactly where it’s supposed to be. Men make an assumption that sex is supposed to be obtainable for an average guy and women conspire to keep them away from this oxygen tank. Wrong. It’s an experience reserved for some, but not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:18 PM
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For many men the wall starts when they are born
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:22 PM
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I’ve never ever heard this opinion in my life 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:39 PM
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I’ll take the first guy any day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:37 PM
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You are right, this is a ridiculous take. A man’s nature is technically to eat himself to death while wasting his life on pursuing pussy, if we define nature as following your animalistic impulses, which is coincidentally how you define it. Everything else is a social construct and therefore it makes a man less masculine. If you get a degree in a field of your interest you are a beta because you are adhering to rules and it runs perpendicular to your masculine nature. You should be fucking women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:30 PM
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So you just don’t want to commit and the n count conversation is a bunch of bullshit to save face 🫠 get the fuck outta here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:49 AM
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23F, 5 n count. And, I don’t care. I wish it was higher there is a few things I’ll never get to try
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:42 AM
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Because you are forming a relationship based on a shallow metrics in order to complain on PPD that all blanks are blank, not to say that people should not have appearance requirements of course. But currently people take a metric of sexual selection and escalate the ever living fuck out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:45 AM
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Yeah, I do, partly because I am one of the people who definitely enjoy conflict and enjoy telling the truth, and if somebody is going to vent about nobody meeting their requirements I have no problem telling them the problem is them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:24 AM
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I will if I see a girl actively defending her 6’0 baseline I’ll for sure poke her in her axiomatic beliefs, but women don’t do it as often because the mainstream narrative skews female. In fact I call women out all the time for all sorts of things, especially in real life, and especially when they are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:19 AM
1

You are on PPD of all places aren’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:14 AM
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I am not complaining about men liking it, I am complaining about this being a hardcore requirement and an obsession of sorts. Just because technically I prefer taller men it does not mean that I will be actively enforcing this requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:14 AM
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What does it have to do with fatphobia? I think you are saying that skinny average-looking guys are delusional about their prospects, which I’m sure some are, but there is not a cultural narrative in favor of skinny men, in fact it’s the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:11 AM
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Dude, for me base biology is eating cake all day and watching Netflix, and having tons of dirty sex with strangers. It’s not a good argument for actually following through with degenerate impulses 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:09 AM
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Young women with such salary requirements do not want to go for grandpas who can provide this amount, mostly because they want a guy to be on a certain career arc, if it makes sense. If you make $80.000 fresh out of school, it’s one conversation, if you are near the retirement age - sorry, but who exactly is supposed to be impressed/drop their panties? I for sure am not, considering that many college educated women will end up making this amount themselves. $80.000 is not such an insane requirem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:05 AM
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It’s kind of a slice of their personality, for sure. I don’t think it’s an issue, considering that you are choosing us, degenerates, on the daily basis and nobody puts a gun to your head :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:58 AM
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I thought it was sorta obvious that skinny guys end up with chubby girls and muscular guys end up with skinny girls. Nobody precisely praises men for being skinny themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:57 AM
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As a female woman, I’m surprised. If she is a bad person you stop being attracted to a woman? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:05 AM
1

That is also true, but if I say that the moon in Aquarius has impact on my sexual response I’ll be called a liar, so with TRP I speak the TRP language
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:08 AM
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Well I’m not gonna sit here and say that all men are the same. Some animals are more equal than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:56 AM
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C, unless he is really physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:35 AM
2

Sure, if that’s your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:57 PM
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I don’t see a problem. She can treat him like he is a Chad, and he will treat her like a kween
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:49 PM
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No, that’s not what I’m saying, I’m saying that the questionable goal of pulling 25 year olds is only attainable if you are a very particular person: you are handsome, intelligent and you put in a lot of work when you are young. Advertising this lifestyle is some hustlers university bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:20 PM
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😄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:04 PM
0

Oh yeah hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:02 PM
2

How would u know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:02 PM
2

That’s what women say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:58 PM
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I’d date a bisexual guy exactly because of all reasons that you listed, because it’s hot af. It’s also fun af. And before this sub i sort of thought everybody would want it. I don’t get the high n count oversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:20 PM
2

Honey, most men are unattractive period.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:18 PM
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“A HVM will not play your bullshit games if you don’t put out because he has an array of willing women” “If you are a willing woman HVM is not interested in committing to you”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:18 PM
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The following: men peak in their 30s I don’t want to fuck a 35 year old dude when there is a plenty of available guys my age. you are just angry and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:13 PM
1

Where did you go? 🥺 come back
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:10 PM
1

Dude I am literally talking shit about your wife and you are still calling me a misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:05 PM
1

Oh, why, isn’t she BP and amazing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:01 PM
1

I just didn’t know bluepilled feminist yaskweens was a suitable alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:59 PM
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Ouch, I thought being bluepilled is the golden nugget, yet you are saying I’m not redpilled enough 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:57 PM
2

Oh yeah, yet the space where people discuss ideas is 🥹 toxic. Man now I want your wife too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:53 PM
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Do they, or is it jealousy masquerading as a virtue?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:47 PM
4

That’s honestly more of a reflection of you if wifed her up. Could have just hit it and quit. This girl is like tutorial
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:45 PM
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women exist in two ways: naive idiots like your wife (bless her soul) or cold and jaded bitches like myself. If you are not an idiot, you are a cold and jaded bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:32 PM
2

Yup. Intelligence is a big one for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:21 PM
2

I agree, and now we are having an adult conversation. but there is little to no emphasis on realism in TRP community, and I honestly understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:16 PM
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While I admire y’all’s aggressive capitalism, TRP is tripping on copium. Not to say that self-improvement is not helpful, but you guys are giving a false message to men the same way corporate America sold a big lie to women to exploit them for $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:09 PM
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This conversation is still on the same spot. We need food, floor, or interaction with humans. Meeting strangers does not carry any inherent benefit to us. We have no reason whatsoever to entertain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:03 PM
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Because this is how most 40 year old men are - unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:25 PM
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I have no idea what you mean? I just said that I’d be more attracted to an objectively fitter and better looking dude, if I had to rank order these two men. In real life, I’d chose neither, but that’s a whole different branch of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:24 PM
2

The difference is you have to eat food, but you don’t have to entertain stranger’s attraction to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:21 PM
2

The second guy is more attractive for both is what I’m saying, but it runs contrary to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:20 PM
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This post started as a would you rather, but then you started attention whoring when you brought yourself into this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:10 AM
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posts a question to women where one guy is unattractive, and another is a version of him You are asking for my validation. I’m NOT ASKING FOR YOUR VALiDATION!1! I FuCked PlentY of YOUNg GIrLS!!!1! you are acting like this one bitch who gets a tattoo on a visible area and says “none of your business” to anyone who asks her about if
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:58 AM
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Dude, shut the fuck up. It only takes one psycho to kill you and cannibalize on your corpse. If there were people trying to do it to you, you would treat all m&m as poisoned too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:10 AM
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Dude, you aren’t doing okay on a level that’s so deeper than your physique. You are asking for validation from twenty something year old girls on PPD and implicitly requesting permission (?) from women to hit on them. The truth is old age and death are coming no matter who you fuck. You are 50. Given this circumstance, I suggest you get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:01 AM
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No doubt. And the abusive side will not show until she is in a vulnerable position too: lost her job, pregnant, or is burdened with kids. That’s why I mistrust men who trumpet tradwives: are you for traditional values, or do you just want to master somebody so they have to take your shit and can never leave
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:47 AM
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Well the women they want to marry are not the women who had tons of wild sex, allegedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:18 AM
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If you’re not attractive enough to her for a hookup, she doesn’t serve for anything more than friendship. OP, if you are not attractive enough to her for a hookup, then you don’t deserve a hookup. You also better not be one of the guys complaining about n-counts and decline of values, and all the flaky bitches who don’t want kids and get drunk on Friday as if they are 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:09 AM
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Yes, I would open it. I would not proceed until my fiancé finds somebody, which might take him longer due to the nature of these things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:58 AM
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Free country
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:46 AM
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The reason why women say they don’t go for 40 year olds as oppose to 20 year olds is because age is a proxy for bitch tits, beer guts and baldness. Given that all of this is present in the younger guy as opposed to the older guy, I will go for the 40 year old. I think I know the point you are trying to make, but this 40 year old has nothing to do with realistic expectations from aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:42 AM
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Male projection. Women don’t get degrees in order to suck your dick, women get degrees in order to not have to suck your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:47 PM
1

More like scenarios: a priest, a cop, a musician, I don’t care for ethnic diversity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:39 PM
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Pfff, AND she is Japanese? Don’t say no more. Doesn’t every guy in the US want to marry an eastern woman these days or did I miss something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:23 PM
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I seriously don’t get the question. You are lonely? -> date. Marry into an existing family. If you are pretty and financially okay. What’s the problem again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:13 PM
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Okay, she is 35, pretty and doesn’t bring financial problems to the table. She wants a man who is 35-45, successful, wants marriage. What is this man like? Well probably he didn’t dick around for half a century in order to wake up with a realization that he wants a family. Date single dads. What’s a problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:10 PM
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I don’t see a problem if she is okay with being a stepmom. It’s just, like, a stupid post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:01 PM
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If you understand it right sure 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:57 PM
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No, but telling the truth doesn’t make any difference with delusional people. If a man can’t understand himself that I’m rejecting him when he is 1.5x my age - if he seriously has absolutely no idea - nothing is going to convince him. He doesn’t even listen to himself let alone to me. I’m going to be a masculine frigid dike. With women too - if she herself doesn’t understand that being 300 lb is a problem - I guess I’m not changing her mind on this one. Why would she swallow the truth if she can…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:00 AM
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🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:45 AM
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Are you a disgusting masculine dyke tripping on blue pill, dear stranger on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:04 PM
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Let me put it this way: having shit going on is definitely not going to make anyone less attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:10 PM
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Why would anybody need anyone to be honest? Like, look in the mirror. Then at your ID. Then at your bank account. Then at your post history on PPD. I guarantee them they will find the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:51 PM
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True for normal men. But the guys we are most scared of are the guys who are least in control of their impulses, which are also the guys who are rejected most often. It’s not just us being flaky and dishonest, it’s like a biological mental block, and it’s there for a good reason. So how about we don’t escalate the conflict with somebody who is strong and unpredictable, and normal men - if they are normal - clue in a little bit in what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:48 PM
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If it helps you, I take jabs at women regularly. As long as I speak constructively I reserve the right to take jabs. Get over it. The second paragraph: I’m talking about a generic tendency. As a woman ages she (hopefully for her) develops liking for positive masculine as oppose to psychopathy and narcissism. Not everyone does of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:38 PM
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There is a necessary prerequisite of good faith: as a girl you just can’t assume that all dudes will be reluctant to start something meaningful or else you will end up in a very misandrist space. It’s better to get pumped and dumped than poison yourself on the “men are dogs” mindset. If someone is after just sex they will usually try to keep you around tho, I don’t know if pumping and dumping is that much of a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:36 PM
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First of all, I’m sorry about your situation. But holy shit OP. I’m gonna piggy back off of other comments and say that it doesn’t make sense to regard somebody as an option, and at the same time say they are beneath you, which is what men on this sub are guilty of. If you are taking on a responsibility associated with dating a single mother, a fat woman, or a broke woman it implies that for you the deal is worth it. You wouldn’t sit your butthole on an uncomfortable chair, would you. Wanting ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:26 PM
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I feel personally attacked 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:17 PM
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This. BDSM is fun to women when they see a guy who they want to stick around. Aggressive and unsophisticated men observe the dynamic and make the reverse relationship: “if you make it very known that you can BDSM a bitch good, she will want you”. I agree with OP, but part of me is like, who, if anybody, will see his post as a call to action? The men we least want to. Because the ones we want to do not need this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:15 PM
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*by men that we respect and are attracted to Authority is earned. Yelling at people, accusing them of having a feminist brain rot, stomping your feet like a four year old, putting responsibility to be “submissive” on a random bitch is easy. I can do it from my couch too. Guys put a cart before the horse by attempting to come off as dominant while they did not earn the grounds for a woman to take them with any degree of seriousness. Dark triad is so popular because it mimics the competence and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:59 PM
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Well, I have a remedy to offer you, and it’s called get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:31 PM
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30-something yo California blonde with a job and her shit together approaches you You: — Fuck off whórë. You aren’t worth a dime. Women with degrees are too masculine and have no original thought of their own. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:25 AM
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Women half their age want to do nothing with them either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:22 AM
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It can be a toxic thing for sure, I’m trying to emphasize that no does not always mean no, and just because it’s a no one time does not mean it will remain a no. I understand it’s safe and smart to treat it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:24 AM
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What you are saying is the same as somebody claiming to be a natural leader telling that they didn’t have a chance to showcase their leadership skills because nobody wants follow them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:09 AM
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If you have to exercise force to keep your perfect woman around it kind of negates the purpose doesn’t it. Just kidnap a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:11 PM
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Of course if you ask a stranger out - when she knows nothing about you - you will be rejected if you don’t have good looks. That we established. If she has been around you enough to observe you, that is an open mic to demonstrate personal qualities. A hardworking and confident guy doesn’t need a date to project confidence and competence, people just notice it if they are around him long enough. Don’t you have a social circle? It’s like, I like conflict and am argumentative. I don’t need “a chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:07 PM
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Yes, really, and yes, I am commenting on good faith. I am not going to discuss money with broke people so to speak, but if you really want me to, I’ll answer. You show who you are before showing interest in her. If you are in college (because I’m in college), how would your scenario even happen: “hey, are you a girl from my algebra class?” - “piss off, I’m not interested because you are not a Chad”. I am sure that’s not exactly how it goes, right. People start trading with people in pennies and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:59 PM
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Are you a developed person? Do you have a strong personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:19 PM
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Dude I don’t know what you want. I told you I don’t have stats like how else can I assist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:57 PM
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If you just say that it doesn’t, then you are probably charismatic. If you whine that it doesn’t, you are the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:47 PM
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So, your point is that many educated women are not creative. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:32 PM
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My original point is that there is a underrated route to score women, which is being a productive individual with strong personality. If your goal is to have casual sex, you are not a productive individual. It does not make sense that you are trying to obtain female attention for casual sex while advertising yourself as useful person. If your roadblock is that somebody did not give you a chance to showcase strong personality, you don’t have a strong personality. It doesn’t make sense that you pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:30 PM
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I am answering to your comment to the best of my ability. Nice guy is a very specific thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:52 PM
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What do you even mean by innate sense of curiosity? Creativity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:36 PM
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Actually, biologically speaking womhen - 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:44 AM
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Bro chill the fuck out it’s like 5 am Because she doesn’t get to choose it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:38 AM
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Yes, of course utilizing the channels for casual sex will get = or > casual sex, not less. I don’t know. Looks and money help massively to attract people don’t get me wrong, and it’s hard to tell because they subscribe to the entire package. About the movie: but a guy who developed himself would not want to score points with every girl just because she has a snatch, the problem would be getting the woman he wants, not wanting many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:20 AM
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You mean narcissistic traits? Because women like sociopathy more than they like niceguyhood. You call them toxic traits, but it’s a part of what she likes in him. I promise you a guy who acts like a lil bitch she will lose attraction for and will stop respecting even if he is good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:10 AM
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then don’t invite a stranger to Netflix and chill! Its silly to open up with flirting and stupid pick up lines when you are not hot and she does not know you 😕 there is like modes of talking other than niceguying somebody - trying to fuck somebody and seeing a mate in every female just because she has a twat is precisely the lack of likable personality I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:07 AM
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It does not even make any sense. If you are going to claim 80/20, then women would just ride 20% of dicks and not care about his personality because there is such a small pool already. It would make more sense if you said that upper 20% is where personality no longer matters
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:00 AM
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You perfected discipline? You can stand up to authority in ways that are useful? You can forego impulsive pleasure? You can set your emotions aside when circumstances and others’ wellbeing requires? See, this sort of person would not “try and quit if it doesn’t work”, it would be their mode of life. This is just something that they do. I am not just being casually nice when I use the words “good person”, not being a volatile dick and impossible to be around is just a prerequisite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:56 AM
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Yeah, that’s because it’s not the case. It’s the case for the majority of people, because it’s very demanding and hard to be a full on good person, and attractive people do get a headstart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:48 AM
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Wait I’m confused how what I said in the first comment discredits what I said in the second.? Personality is a given, but you can tweak it by exposure to experience, that’s the whole reason why therapy works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:44 AM
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Yes, men do need to earn women's interest for reasons that everyone and your dog knows. All requests will be redirected to the flying pasta monster's complaint log
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:44 AM
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Of course they do, no fucking shit. Because men with negatively unique personalities capitalize on their options orders of magnitude more than men with positively unique personalities (who have more options than narcissists and psychopaths, which is what I meant). The latter marry someone and stay faithful to her by definition, they don't fool around with town bimbos
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:36 AM
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What do you think mechanical engineers do? They're like a high-level mechanic that generally work for construction or manufacturing companies. I don't think it's a particularly ambitious or creative career. Their average salary where I'm from is 80k and I think it goes up to 120-150k. What is a desirable guy supposed to do? Some say that an alpha bitches on podcasts about women and sells access to hustlers university or sells online porn - maybe, who am I to argue. Starting a business in all lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:26 AM
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Okay, this is going to be poorly phrased. If you are overweight you would need a big amount of charisma and character to where a woman would overlook it and evaluate people on the same level, because good looking 6 ft+ people of course get a very substantial headstart, and I fully acknowledge that. I do realize halo effect is a thing, and pretty people are treated leniently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:58 AM
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I don't know, I am hoping this is an attempt at comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:47 AM
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For me? I absolutely care about behavior/personality. For many women, yes. The world does not revolve around me tho. For the fraction of women that men complain about, not at all, just rent a buggatti, it's easier too than cultivating something actually interesting. Top 20% factors in character, not just a bunch of useless twinks with jawlines. How else would you want it to be? You want it to be solely based on looks? Just like determine exactly what you want to complain about: female selectiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:44 AM
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Well the physical attractiveness bar that a guy needs to pass is way lower than 80/20. 80/20 is a bar for instant (arguably) attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:27 AM
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if personality was more of a factor than success I don't know if personality is a bigger factor than success, because I don't know how to separate the two. One leads to another. But let's say a guy did not use his personality to obtain success - daddy handed him over a trust fund and even made him famous. Would he get women? Yes. Would he be attractive to women? Questionable. Probably not. Like there is a reason why BB is a thing. Is very obvious most attractive guys are the guy who are famous o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:00 AM
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Why? Every informal social interaction with a woman is an open mic. We aren't walking around wrapped up like muslim burritos
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:39 AM
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Mechanical engineer is a 10/10 on the career dimension. What else is an ambitious smart dude supposed to be doing, dicking around with crypto? There is not many levels above that. people argue about 500 different things on this subreddit so it's hard to take the discussions seriously. Yes, I know, it's kind of hectic and hard to come to a mutual understanding because even when i said "personality" about 50 different things popped up in people's minds You will not fuck loads of hot girls as a mec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:35 AM
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Oh okay, I thought you were disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:27 AM
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I am literally answering your question. Sorry if my response is scattered or unclear I am saying that I do, in fact, like men who can endure and survive hardship, and I see it as reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:26 AM
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If your standard for life is just pure numbers, definetly bowie... ...But, that doesn't work on every woman, like the koreean boy toy look doesn't either. I don't think Tate has game, but he is the good example of the right temperament. Nothing is universal, I guess, so the best estimate of success would be numbers. I hard disagree with you on Andrew Tate. It's just raw aggression, which I guess is better than thoughtless soyboy miledi, but leaves a sour taste in my mouth. But I mean apparently …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:21 AM
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Hold up, there is not such thing as systematic luck. If luck is systematic it's not luck, it's generated by the individual. Any casino would be suspicious if somebody was just systematically good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:07 AM
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Lmao, dear diary, Jeremiah was blunt as fuck and introverted as fuck, but also capable of being empathetic, though he was conservative and thoughtful with how he allocated his empathy. I saw him unleash himself on others verbally and he did people who stepped over boundaries rough, but 99% of the time he was extremely laid back and permissive and did not waste his breath on stupid shit. That's what attracted girls. Jeremiah had a girlfriend, who I don't know if she was prettier, but definately h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:05 AM
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Anecdotal experience. If I fucked with sources I'd be writing a paper, not talking to u/andrejusilva123 on reddit. Well this would make sense, because guys with positive personalities have a range of reactions that narcissists exploit in their arsenal, and on top of this they can be generous and productive. They just have more to offer, so of course they would attract more women that actual narcissists. It's like which woman will attract more men and better quality men too: a hot woman, or a hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:50 AM
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We don't like being treated like dancing monkeys. Sometimes playing hard to get will breach this territory, but some people enjoy cat and mouse. It does not mean that a guy has to be treated like a dancing monkey. The only "negotiable" (if you even want to call it that) aspect of women's attraction towards men is familiarity/comfort. Comfort can easily kill attraction. People say this, but I have personal experiences that contradict this, where my attraction developed when I got to know a guy on…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:42 AM
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I agree with everything that you say, though I don't have qualifications to state for sure, I lean on human psyche being mostly shaped as a result of the genetic makeup and polished by the environment Thus, being defeatist is more often than not self-sabotage Again, agree. That's sort of an underlying assumption in my post. Saying that we are 100% nature is the opposite of helpful and is just laziness masquerading as intellectual sophistication
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:30 AM
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Look, "Chad" always wins - he gets to break the rules and not go to jail so to speak. If somebody has looks and a productive positive nature, they are of course on top of the game. Bar none So yes, a average guy can get girls with personality, but it takes longer and you have to actually be interesting. I don't know if it takes longer. It takes longer to develop traits, of course. I don't know if the process of attracting the girls will take significantly longer, it will just require a few inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:18 AM
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Who is capable of enduring and surviving hardship yes, and why the heck would not I. Oh no please give me a nice guy who says mi lady and grew bitch tits on soy lattes, or dudes who eats crayons in finance while wasting his parents trust fund, that's exactly the pinnacle of gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:12 AM
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Usually a person who is in tech would be judge immediately more intelligent than someone that knows philosophy, for example Aren't dudes who eat crayons in business famous for slaying sorority poon?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:03 AM
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COVID was there for what, year and a half. This does not explain twenty something years of dicking around around COVID Although I don’t disagree that some people are acting in bad faith or have underdeveloped personalities/social skills, there are definitely some real losers out there. I know, we disagree on the details. I am sure there is people in situations that are so desperate, it's rather stupid to tell them to pull themselves by the bootstraps when they don't have, like, shoes. They never…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:58 AM
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Better but tweak the part in the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:48 AM
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It of course extends to approaching women, but I can't emphasize the "productive" part enough. There is some dudes who are just weird, they almost don't have a sense of time and place, and they make rejection the girl's problem and fault. "Hey, I like you, would you want to grab a coffee?" - if they are roughly in the same box (not professor and student), then if a woman finds it upsetting or insulting, it's literally on her and she is being a prima donna. It's like, why precisely can't anyone s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:46 AM
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the only easily offended bitch out of 200 comments is... Nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:27 AM
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It’s funny to me tho that women swear up and down they have personalities when in fact most of y’all are copies of each other First of all, duh. Second of all. What does this have to do with my post? Go write a few paragraphs about it if this is something that disturbs you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:26 AM
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Already ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:24 AM
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What's ironic is you know what I wrote my post about? I wrote it about you, so don't cringe too hard. Think about it for more than two minutes before typing something else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:22 AM
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I don't see what approaching girls at bars or clubs has to do with not having a personality. The fact that if you play a personality card it's cringe to approach women at bars and nightclubs, which are spots where pretty men will have all the leverage. A stranger, who you selected because she has a snatch and that's it, will not engage with you to know you on the platform for mutual objectification. ​ overstating the importance of personality I literally admitted that good looks give people mass…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:17 AM
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Lmao you’re so cringe. I'm out past this. Lmao. Let's try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:08 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0ScUyPu\_jE that too. though it's sort of a shallow mimicry of the real thing, it's orders of magnitude above an average neurotic weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:07 AM
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And it's probably again true, but it takes something to create a cross-section which would hit all right spots and nourish people's illusions - this is why psychopaths are so liked by women, at least this is why they get such a headstart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:39 AM
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The question of opportunity is secondary to the question of capacity. If you have an attractive personality, you will find an opportunity... There is a demand for character, especially in our culture. The drive to find opportunities and capitalize on them is also a part of what makes personalities attractive. People do not have the work ethic to even go to the gym consistently, even though it's a solid opportunity to cultivate something attractive to women (not just the looks), but they are sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:34 AM
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I got minuses on responses above so apparently it's even higher than I claim :\
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:18 AM
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Starts with a false premise that personality matters, continue attacking anyone that holds divergent opinions and I am just at the title. Yeah, opinions are inherently offensive, and dating opinions will be judgmental de facto. I was pretty fair in my post, which is evident from the fact that most of the engagement is polite and good faith. The reason why it is polite and good faith is because 1. I am speaking in good faith 2. everyone is tired of the doomsday mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:14 AM
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Exactly! No kidding -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:09 AM
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Many women in fact think success is a mark of a good personality. This. don’t have status that get attention, and this happens usually despite that some look good and seem to have very interesting lovable personalities. Trivial point, but good point. I will argue that If you are talking about truly productive lower class men, lower/lower middle class women are desperate to find somebody who does not have a drug habit and works, and betters the environment. Can these men find two or more fives or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:08 AM
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I’ll say it again: it works the other way around. Women are very lenient on attractive men, just like men are lenient on attractive women. If you are not attractive, how women respond to you is her actual reaction, minus the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:21 PM
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Even if so, an average looking guy by my standards (whatever it is) can be a top 20% (whatever percentage of men I find dateable/fuckable). It doesn’t change my fundamental point. Look at the amount of good faith engagement this post has gotten with men. The reason why is because everybody is sick and tired of the doomsday mentality, constant neurotic anger, cynicism and whining that the same four or five clowns shove down people’s faces to make a quick buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:19 PM
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For me too, I actually gave someone else a definition: I boil down great personality aka being a good person to an ability to break rules productively
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:19 PM
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Yeah, you have to be kinda exceptional at it. No kidding. Good people are rare because it’s so difficult to be one. Doing what every mf next to them can do will not grant anybody an abundance of options. If we define mating success as having more than one sexual option so that a guy can discriminate, just being not completely shitty will not cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:16 PM
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I never said that a dude without one can’t get laid. I said that a meh dude with great personality will make top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:14 PM
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Well if you truly are a good person, you wouldn’t want a 20 yo naive sweet little angel, you’d be more sophisticated in what you desire, right. You would want the type of woman who pays attention to this things. Otherwise, your personality might still be unique, but definitely not in the positive direction. Not on tinder. Tinder is reserved for a very particular person. Good one! Because female attraction boils down to finding a capable man, they just use looks as a proxy for capability ultimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:09 PM
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Positive data point and why the hell would not it be. The only reason why it wouldn’t is if a person is intimidated by competence, man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:03 PM
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There is open mics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:01 PM
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No, but in social situations I can. and that’s why “good persons” will fail on tinder. But excuse me, tinder is reserved for a small minority of men and fairly women too and was never meant to be for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:49 PM
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No, but you can get a reading by observing a person across situations, that’s why a nightclub wouldn’t be a spot for you look for a woman if you aren’t blessed in the looks department, but a social circle would. and if you can’t get an exact reading on some things it makes them interesting to explore, if their set of reactions is broad and data points are scattered. That’s arguable why bipolar unstable Amber Heard types are captivating to some men - it’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:46 PM
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I mean, good luck is a thing of course. But if you don’t have the said social skills/you are not a developed man what good is it to bitch all day “mhan I have shit luck mhan”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:42 PM
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people with good looks will get a head start which they might even sustain, but yeah, the amount of personality needs to be quite substantial because looks are powerful. It needs to be so substantial, that you need to in fact be a good person - which is a very high bar but sounds cheesy because everyone throws it around so casually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:39 PM
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No, I just used Joe Rogan as an example of somebody with great personality. You wanna talk about my random friend Jeremiah instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:37 PM
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True, guys with negatively unique personalities, aka capacity to break rules, score the girls they score. Guys with positively unique personalities, aka capacity to break rules for productive results, score even more girls and the girls who aren’t stupid and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:32 PM
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Yeah, but if eventually they became a stand up comedian, aka they impressed a room full of men and women, they could impress a girl on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:29 PM
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I mean don’t have an attractive/positively unique/interesting personality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:24 PM
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I said it to someone already and to piggy back off of what u/wallagrargh already said, places like bars and Tinder are reserved for a particular kind of man, and it's kind of annoying how everybody and your mama almost feels entitled to sliding past all female bullshit filters straight into her bedroom. I'll say it this way: you are not looking for anything resembling personality in a woman at a bar, but if you are starting a family with somebody you most likely do pay attention to who you are L…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:22 PM
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,that’s not a sustainable strategy for any man That's not a sustainable strategy to rely excessively on social skills for men who don't have any, but it's not at all like lottery. If you improve yourself the return is guaranteed, and lottery is a game of chance ​ they are attracted to and also has a cool personality 9/10 times My point is that an interesting guy can be the guy women are attracted to even though he is not classically handsome, but of course we all want to maximize looks, and inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:12 PM
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Something like: "A great product will sell itself"? If it's visible. The issue is visibility. Personality is visible. Everything about us is marketing. Just like any other part of self-presentation, it's a part of your packaging, it's not just the content, because people cannot be broken into content and packaging unlike chocolate. People are trying to see a slice of personality. How you talk, what you say, whether you are chewing gum or not, whether your shirt is ironed or looks like somebody c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:06 PM
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​ I think this post adequately illustrates why bluepill isn't rooted in reality. Great. I'm not bluepill, unless you call everybody who does not choke on the whole bottle of red gummies bp. ​ The reality is that while personality matters, and it may make someone more attractive in the eyes of a woman, physical attraction virtually always precedes getting to know someone's personality. Of course physically attractive people will have a headstart, I am not demented. But I would argue that if somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:50 PM
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No one is sneaking their way into the top 20% It was a figure of speech. I am saying, they are 20%. Unattractive men are absolutely treated more harshly by both other men and women alike You just repeated the thing you said before. And I think, that it's attractive people who are treated more leniently but unattractive ones are seen for what they are. Average engineer is absolutely a reality. There’s a meme about engineering classes being full of virgins. Tbf many of them are very unlikeable and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:36 PM
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I'm sorry, for all the complaining about horrible men, *eyeroll* Are you saying that anyone who was attracted to someone based on physical appearance alone has no personality? No. I'm saying that anyone who claims that attractive personality does not matter/has no bearing on female sexual attraction simply does not have an attractive personality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:28 PM
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Fuck, no, haha. Well it's negotiable until you display a nice guy behavior, this will make her disgusted on a biological level and there is pretty much nothing that can be done to redeem oneself. It gets to the point that the general advice is if she says "no", then move on. You have nothing to do there. That's just a rule imposed by the society, it might or might not be a reflection of truth and proves nothing :\ Sometimes "no" is a "I'd rather lick my own anus then kiss you" and sometimes it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:25 PM
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I do think masculinity / game matters. So if you count that as personality we good, we're on the same page. God forbid not the game noooooo But I get a feeling you mean interesting/fun by personality, not masculine with a strong frame. It can be masculine with strong frame, but it does not have to be. My icon is David Bowie. Korean dancers score more pussy than Andrew Tate and it's like look at them. While TRP gurus of the world preach game, bugattis and two coffees when they only drink one, whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:20 PM
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I knew someone would say this. The things that make you a beta bucks are as follows: being a beta, and having bucks. Where do people see "unique personality" on the list? I never said that cool personality stands for being a pushover beta with no self-respect, in fact I said the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:04 PM
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This also goes into the whole free will realm, but I don't know how deep you want to dive. Many elements of personality are fixed like our eye color, but exposure to experience seems to be able to slowly shift it, though it's nothing but humbling. But that's why people listen to motivation talks and go to therapy - because it works even though it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:00 PM
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Women do not need one, but I'd strongly advise getting as bigger fraction of it as she can cultivate in herself Not extroversion necessarily, extroverts have this annoying quality - they have loud voices and do not know when to shut the fuck up. I do not know where this obsession with extroverts comes from. Intelligence - helps to have more IQ than a target of romantic/sexual interest, but if a woman is low in intelligence herself would she really appreciate somebody who talks philosophy and lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:56 PM
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That's also true! Of course, and it makes total sense. But "most people don't have a cool/unique personality" and "personality does not matter" are completely different statements. The first one is like duh, the second one is a cover up for "I think I have a unique personality and people do not appreciate it"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:49 PM
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True, but female attraction is, in fact, negotiable. The same person can sneak their way into a girls radar, and I can't emphasize this enough, but god forbid, i'm not talking about being nice or a good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:47 PM
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I'm not sure I'd call that a personality. A personality trait, maybe, but that in itself is pretty one dimensional, it's an ideal, a shallow stereotype. More a result of any configuration of traits Why do they break rules? What drives them? Are they just rebellious? Do they hate authority? Are they righteous and trying to make happen what they think should happen? Is it a moral thing? A "looking cool" thing? Is there some greater purpose, or is it just fun/funny to piss off their parents? Does n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:44 PM
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I know it's rare! It's supposed to be rare! Initially good-looking people have a massive headstart, obviously. I'm not arguing against the basic 2.5 points around which TRP revolves, I am adding an exception clause
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:37 PM
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Sure. No judgment if they are 16, 17... 20? Nope, harsh judgement kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:28 PM
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I’m going to assume you are a woman. There are a few studies that suggest 80% of men are viewed as below average by women. Women in general have a skewed idea as to what “average” means to them, and chances are these guys are actually decent looking compared to objectively average men. Even if you think my perspective is skewed - let's say it's so - men who are not top 20% by looks standard sneak their way into top 20% by being cool. Would you accept that? ​ Additionally, you are understating th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:26 PM
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Let’s say, capacity to break rules in a productive way. That’s a good short definition of what I mean by unique personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:12 PM
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Let’s say, capacity to break rules in a productive way. That’s a good short definition of what I mean by unique personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:11 PM
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If you have a unique personality you would not need “a chance to show it”. It shows itself. “They didn’t give me a chance!” - says no stand up comedian ever, the truth is you either have it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:09 PM
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being a weed addicted band idiot is not what I meant by personality but okay, that flies too with not the brightest of 19 year old girls 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:04 PM
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No, it’s not a fault. I literally just said that. It’s nobody’s fault that a guy was born not a confident person. It is a responsibility that some people deflect by consuming TRP content while listening to my chemical romance and being self-righteous and oh so misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:56 PM
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I agree, but the strange thing about human brain is that you can change it orders of magnitude by subjecting it to experiences. But this goes into the whole free will debate which is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:50 PM
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“Especially women” Bro lives in the pre TRP world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:02 PM
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They are half right. Women no like sex. With them. Some nice guy called me a frigid cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:59 AM
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Yes, though I don’t like the phrasing. It stops men from developing into the men that women would want to have relationships with. When you seriously undermine one gender’s leverage, both genders suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:42 AM
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You and the government are not getting into people’s personal lives. Keep your good intentions out of the taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:21 AM
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Actually, they are probably just not her radar, which I guess is a form of judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:09 AM
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Oh, that I agree with. I’m saying that not only women with feminine values create a problem in male exclusive spaces, but women in general create a problem by being there, and the men in the bottom who see them as a source of judgement will be affected the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:47 AM
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Obviously if a woman brings feminine expectations and values to the male oriented game people will dislike it. Is it the point you are making,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:39 AM
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Not the reason why you want male exclusive spaces, but not everything is about you. Daily on this sub we have men complaining that there is 0 empathy and support for below average guy, that masculinity is bullied out of public spaces, that “fashionable” virtues are female-oriented and men have no room to cultivate their identity away from feminine so that they can be liked by the feminine. I’m glad it’s not your set of problems, and if you want to talk about your problems we sure can, but by den…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:28 AM
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Honestly, I don’t care. I’m talking about the most important reason for male spaces, which is that female presence does not allow confused men to form their identity. But if you are going to scream in my face for two paragraphs not only will I scroll past it, but you will actually prove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:16 AM
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I’m not your therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:03 AM
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Yes, I do in fact believe the thing I just said, which is that men lacking social skills have problems socializing with the opposite sex, which also can be paraphrased to: the lack of male exclusive spaces disproportionately affects the ones who are petrified of women. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:02 AM
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Women didn’t “force” themselves in. It just seemed that there wouldn’t be any problem with allowing women in, men, especially confident and socially skillful men, are very much on board with inviting girls because it’s like the whole point. But the problem is that girls create a competitive environment as a byproduct of their presence which leaves no room for someone insecure to find acceptance and encouragement. Successful men had every reason to welcome women and bear as much responsibility fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:08 PM
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There is a whole breed of men with minds of five year olds who can’t do anything without guidance, let alone form friendships with actual people. The only solution is to organize the environments with no girls - because girls are scary - and provide them with guidance in a “safe” environment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:37 PM
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Been together for 4 years, engaged. We fought a lot at first but were stuck together as we were co-signers on the lease a couple months after we hit it off. It’s good now, but we both had to grow up pretty quick if we didn’t want this cohabitation thing to turn into nightmare. Would recommend co-signing a lease to anyone who wants to try out an actual LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:25 PM
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I’ve never heard women being congratulated on blowing their way through dicks of Dominica 😕 I see your point tho, male sexuality is seen as more predatory and it’s easy to paint a guy as a villain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:38 PM
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Saying “you don’t know what you are talking about” is not the flex you think it is, because it proves me and others nothing besides the fact that you disagree. Present a set of arguments, and there will be people who agree with you. Type a lazy sentence that carries no substantive criticism and you are wasting everybody’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:04 AM
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I by no means defend useless discriminatory men, who will of course use my set of arguments in their favor, even though these guys are last people on earth to open their mouthes, because in USA of 2022 they at least have human rights and aren’t dying all the time. We all know stories of guys who whine about good old days, but very selectively. Somehow it gets lost in the dialogue that back in the days when women got no education he would not be a patriarch, but someone’s anal bitch because he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:54 AM
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A bad option is better than no option for men because every woman always has something to offer you. Bad options are worse than no options for women because useless men will have nothing to add but will take away. Everyone and yo dog knows dating is hard for men, but abundance of terrible options has 0 benefit to women. Like, clue in a bit, for crying out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:29 AM
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I hear it from both men and women. Chill we all are friends here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:18 AM
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As a man, you don’t know what you are talking about 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:49 AM
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Sure, I’ll take that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:00 AM
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Catherine De Medici, Isabella of Spain, Catherine the Great and empress Yelisaveta, Elizabeth I, Elizabeth II, Bloody Mary, queen Victoria, Marie Antoinette, Christina of Sweden and many more women in position of exceptional power and influence in Christian Europe. barely anyone was let in the position of power, and women would take a huge hit from pregnancy and childbirth, so they had too much on their plates to compete with men on equal footing for power, none of which is an evidence of male i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:58 AM
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That's not my point. Get a refund from whoever gave you this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:25 AM
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OP, you really believe that men used to enslave women for their own selfish reasons? If this was the case, women would have revolted and turned against men way earlier than sixty years ago. As you yourself are saying, it's really ineffective to force women to carry babies they don't want and to take dick they don't want: when white men raped Native American women they would drown themselves and throw away babies. The degree to which women don't want the men we don't want is too large for us to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:16 AM
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Look at who Hollywood actors marry - pretty women from their circle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:51 PM
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Hell yeah let’s all volunteer for the noble cause 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:48 PM
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Exactly, insulin is more of a priority but that’s just me 😗 might wanna try to solve Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s, cancer and rabies. Humanity has so much work to do. Nope, my mhan gotta get his hoes delivered and fries with that, cuz mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:23 PM
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They should try this new mental health remedy called get over it 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:19 PM
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Not if you casually slide hookers in your proposal 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:34 PM
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I’m all for legalization but as far as subsidizing - not paying for that. They can jerk off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:23 PM
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I can just as easily say as a man you have no idea what the fuck you are talking about. We can play the game both ways 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:21 PM
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We have brothels. Why do you need them to be state mandated? You want the big papa of government to blow your nose and wipe your tears and give you emotional support before you fuck a hooker?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:17 PM
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I mean, by the time I need to use it there is already no point in it, is there, cherry pie 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:27 PM
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I’m not going to be confrontational unless there is something for me to gain in the confrontation 😕 I’m not trying to blow through people just for the sake of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:15 PM
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Well, men don’t exactly react well to being rejected, so I’ll just exit the dialogue If they need somebody to give a fuck they can book a therapy session
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:35 PM
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There is nothing for me to gain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:28 PM
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I’m not afraid. There is just nothing for me to gain by saying no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:07 PM
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It’s 2:35 am. Goodnight 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:36 AM
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you can delude yourself into eating your cakes all you want till you die from diabetes at 40 but at your own parole and don’t shift the burden of responsibility on the cake because eating it is your own choice 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:26 AM
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When your mom was pregnant I dunno who told you that ({}) was an entrance to paradise because it’s sort of something that you will maybe get in the afterlife if there is such thing. We didn’t hustle hard enough to roll down the red carpet in front of your moms snatch for you to both have the privilege to live in 2022 America and have willing virgins at your disposal. There is also a whole bunch of guys who think like you think and make it worse. Sorry?😕will you please forgive us OP? Considering …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:11 AM
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Bro, do you fuck like grandmas 🤓 this doesn’t even make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:48 AM
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You are the source of pollution OP😕 I don’t know if you realize it but you are creating an argument for all of us to take away your human rights privelege and handcuff you, this way no food will be polluted and everybody can eat clean food. It’s too troublesome to bother with keeping the food clean while you are around if we can just constrain you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:41 AM
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ghosting is more of a no than an actual no because it eliminates room for dialog
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:33 AM
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“I’m against pollution but my tiny contribution into the problem will not change anything so I’ll continue driving my car and wiping my ass with toilet paper. Other people are responsible for propagating the problem” Nope, it’s propagated by you. this whole lack of personal accountability thing is making my ({}) dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:30 AM
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If I leave somebody on read it’s a pretty obvious answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:24 AM
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You are creating the n-counts that you say lower women’s value, while hoping to discriminate against high n women. In your world, there is no low n women. Remember, nobody commits to girls anymore because the price of pussy is 0? And then you titled your post with something along the lines of women propagate the current dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:18 AM
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I… 🫣 am being straightforward. Or so I thought. I don’t have an opinion on n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:48 AM
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Women are having casual sex because of them, and you are having casual sex because of you. My point is not rocket science, it truly isn’t. It doesn’t matter what I think about n-counts. I don’t give a toss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:45 AM
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I don’t care about your n count. I am quote-unquote mad about the shifting the burden of responsibility for your n-count from you on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:53 AM
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I don’t care about women having a shot at locking him down, I’m saying what I’m saying because I’m grounded in facts and common sense. He can make whatever choices align with his vision. I also don’t care about ducking around, I care about the part where someone other than our fictional character has to be accountable for some grown ass man’s bedroom. It’s a fuckboy’s responsibility to exit situations that don’t align with his values/belief system. If they despise the woman who mirrors their beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:47 AM
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Ghosting is not "no answer". It's a very straightforward answer that you dislike. And it's one people should give each other, for no one is obligated to provide anyone with advice or a therapy session at no cost and deal with consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:20 AM
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I assumed you are a fuckboy that’s why I said “you”. Im saying, it’s fuckboys responsibility that he is who he is - he might like it or not, I don’t care, but ultimately it’s his choice what he is doing with his dick. No 1960s feminist has more control. It’s the same as saying that women having triple digits n-counts or gold diggers is propagated by men - I mean, not incorrect, but irrelevant, because individual bears 100% of accountability for their sexual choices, and people around them will e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:04 AM
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Nah, you bear primary responsibility for your actions. Right now you are playing chess, pointing fingers at your opponent and claiming that it's his and only his responsibility that you are playing chess. Like chess? Then you have as much responsibility in playing it. Don't like chess? Don't play chess. Now apply to sex and case closed. On to the next post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:34 AM
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I’ll tell it to them if they write a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:25 AM
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Of course. So? Women are not the ones with this problem tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:10 AM
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it seems this way because you would not be the one to deal with men, nor is it interesting to you to observe male behavior so i would expect it to fly past your radar. Women will go to bed with predatory men and then cry wolf that the pretty sociopath who pumped them is a snake and does not want to put label on things. Or that he is exploring the dating scene because he can. That's just, like, stupid. The average man will not get as far as fucking a pretty woman most likely. But he will 100% del…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:16 PM
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You might say the blame is not on the guy, but he is still the one with a problem that no one else will solve for him. This is not about fault. It’s about responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:26 PM
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You can make your intentions known and try to get to know them as a person. This isn’t mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:13 PM
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Both are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:09 PM
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Man I’ll pick cynicism over a soup of mindless niceties any day of the weak, but after some time it gets boring to everyone. It’s like, you figured out a generic trend, here is your cookie. Every red pilled loner wolf so desperately wants people to engage with his ideas and convince him that there is, in fact, such thing as pure love. It’s cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:52 AM
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It was a figure of speech
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:58 AM
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You have a responsibility to yourself to exist social situations you dislike. That's first of all. Second of all, I'll restate but shorter: your assumption that guys who Stacy does not fuck will treat her better than guys who Stacy fucks is unwarranted. This is something that you just decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:56 PM
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What are you trying to tell us, that average guy who allows some girl to treat him poorly for sex is this innocent white knight with a heart of Jesus? Fuck that. ow about he is just an invertibrate. He has no self-respect, so women do not respect him either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:50 PM
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So your assumption is that a guy treats a girl poorly he is above her in sexual market value? It does not make sense. Unless you are also assuming that all non-Chads have hearts of gold and 0 propensity to sabotage whatever relationship they can get, or that they will always be satisfied by their partner, or that they harbor no resentment and will absolutely not take it out on her when they think they have her locked down. You can say that pussy has a powerful enough gravitational force to keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:40 PM
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Although they can easily get sex You mean they can easily give sex away? It's like saying men can easily be friends with women. Big brain. How come women don't seem to understand that these top tier men have multiple options and usually just use them for sex? Good question, I'm wondering the same thing. For the same reason why so many below average looking men approach solid 7s at bars and try to Netflix and chill them. It depends. Some women are oblivious to where they really stand. Some are ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:23 PM
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No kidding 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:50 AM
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I just made it an option, look: A. Exclude him B. Don’t exclude him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:49 AM
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I would specifically like to exclude him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:47 AM
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Look at you being all adult
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:40 AM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:34 AM
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WhO iS TeLliNg YoU ThAt? No OnE EvEr SaYs It
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:07 AM
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Stated a random stranger on the internet, thus proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:49 AM
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I’m sorry about your situation sir
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:38 AM
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I find time to do so many things you’d be in the hospital if you followed me around in the last week Again, I think you are a cretin, but this has nothing to do with your gender. Not all men of course. It’s not their fault that you are the way that you are. I think I call out women too, actually pretty often, you are projecting like an unhealthy amount
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:18 AM
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🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:10 AM
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duh of course you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:06 AM
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I do I made a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:51 AM
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Not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:51 AM
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He is like 50
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:51 AM
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if we were a practice round they would not give two shits. Sounds like they fuck up every time and cope by saying we're a practice round. Suuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:50 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:49 AM
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Okay, fair, women do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:48 AM
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It's like, first we had women screeching about patriarchy, now we have men screeching about their rights. It's like, the society is equally unfair to everybody - get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:47 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:45 AM
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Did you read what I just said? What I just said: Nope, never said that. I’m sure I’m bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:42 AM
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You're engaged and worrying about random old dudes wanting to fuck you? ​ I didn't ask you any questions. You keep pissing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:41 AM
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Nor is it red
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:38 AM
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Then go and write a post about it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:25 AM
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Why am I a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:23 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:10 PM
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because they make a scene when told to cut their shit. Don’t fuck around with strangers like that if you don’t want consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:41 PM
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Dude I’m not your therapist, take your shit elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:34 PM
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True, but this does not translate to individual men and individual women. Men see Timothee Chalamet who is 30 and will identify with him because they are also 30, but some Hollywood twink and them are different biological creatures as far as women are concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:33 PM
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Yeah, probably true, my experience is limited. Though if somebody reacts badly to rejection they of course don’t have another group of women in their back pocket
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:30 PM
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Chill, I just didn’t see his comment for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:27 PM
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Nope, never said that. I’m sure I’m bad too. I am hot tho, but whoever is praying after me is not (usually)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:24 PM
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Men are the only ones with this particular problem. Women have other problems sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:00 PM
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get of your head and look around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:53 PM
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You asked me a question which I answered. You don’t have to engage? I’m also not searching for your recommendation, you weren’t around for anything that happened and if you were you’d be more cautious with advice. It’s not personal therapy or legal consultation either. It’s hardly a shock that a lot of opinions on this sub will come from a place that’s personal so again, you just swing and miss
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:52 PM
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Old men are the ones who are trying to start age gap relationships and get pissed off if the other party doesn’t reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:36 PM
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Meh, I don’t know if it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:25 PM
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😨 preach, random stranger on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:24 PM
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I never said anything about men, only men who make their thirst my problem. You just put a whole lot of words in my mouth. Again, I never said I have a problem with any group of people based on their biological trait. Why would I confront him? What would be the result of this confrontation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:03 PM
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Yeah, kinda. I had a very inappropriate encounter yesterday with one of my professors that should not have happened so I’m not in the best mood
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:58 PM
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Alas :( I could make you a visa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:22 PM
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Those were all jobs honey :/ independence is not a good thing if the only crap you can offer is a bunch of propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:19 PM
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And what happened then, you decided to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:18 PM
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You are commenting on this sub :/ I like to argue with people. If you care, I’m pretty well adjusted for my age. I earn a very good living, am engaged and graduating in 2 weeks. Everything is alright with me, I just don’t like old men trying to fuck me. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:18 PM
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Then go and exchange your passport for a Russian passport. They will line up to get yours. You would piss in your pumpkin spiced lulus if you were in Russia right now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:14 PM
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Oh yeah, you fucking tell that to all the Russians who lost their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:12 PM
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Fair, women do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:12 PM
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China or the Soviet Union without Putin’s Russia on the list. This will at least make him a consistent degenerate For now he is just a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:39 PM
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Let’s put it this way: they are subordinate to something other than them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:34 PM
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Slay kween slay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:31 PM
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Oh shit, you got me there you gorgeous devil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:26 PM
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😑
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:26 PM
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Men have more resentment not because their lives are harder but because they are more prone to blaming external circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:51 PM
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Sure, there is some stockpile of admirable and productive alphas who live the Hugh Hefner lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:49 PM
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But then they will find a brand new one ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:39 PM
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Of course. I’d say the only men whose authority I respect are the ones who would not look at me as a dating prospect in principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:38 PM
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I think their idea is that they will spend these formative years with her to help her craft the “right” identity, because he will have authority over her decisions (aka innocent) as oppose to contending with someone who already has a solid sense of self (aka baggage). She sure will turn into something they resent, unless they step in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:25 PM
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You too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:50 PM
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If I need therapy I’ll hit you up 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:55 PM
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Then go interact with them and don’t waste you time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:27 PM
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Of course, otherwise why date at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:08 PM
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it starts with ideological possession, the rest is just tools and formalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:53 PM
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Omfg, if we allowed Matt Walshes of the world to walk into the White House we would have the same amount of crazy shit in our legislature. Too much effort to replace idiots with idiots, they are all equal before my eyes. If you are saying that the mainstream climate has been too left-leaning, I agree with you. If you are saying that the right is better in principle, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:50 PM
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Im shifting the burden of responsibility on the guy in this scenario: like, okay, you are seeing that women are expecting so so much from you, because they are not into you, why do you keep wasting your time, so that you can complain? It applies to girls pursuing Chads too, of course. If I was proactive about getting some guy and he just was ambivalent, I’d be like, okay, he doesn’t owe me reciprocity, but clearly I’m not his first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:46 PM
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There wasn’t a misconception. I’m sure some women will go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:52 PM
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When a guy goes after a hot young girl he subscribes to this dynamic. She is the prize, and it’s his job to obtain her. It’s not the prizes job to be obtainable and easy to deal with. If men don’t like it they are welcome to date women their age, their level of attractiveness, with degrees and jobs, in this scenario we can talk about equal effort. It’s silly to talk about equal effort before talking about equal sexual value. In the second scenario, a guy should initiate it, but a girl should rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:49 PM
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Not true. I am pro-freedom. There is a plenty of social conservatives who say they preserve freedom and then piss themselves on Joe Rogans when their perspective is questioned. And I’m not a lefty going crazy, I vote Republican. If it makes my perspective more sound to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:31 PM
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What do I need this information for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:28 PM
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Well if men go for someone young and hot it’s not really one-sided, is it. If the girl is their age and their league, it doesn’t have to be one-sided. Take 5 steps, if it’s not reciprocated, find someone else who will. I don’t see the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:34 PM
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Dude, every point of view leads to authoritarianism if not confronted by other perspectives. Leftists didn’t invent totalitarian regime. What do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:29 PM
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Yes, but rightism ends in totalitarianism too. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:05 PM
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When you are 23, it is. What red pilled fantasy do you live in? What exactly are you upset about: older women screeching at age gap relationships or young women refusing to enter them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:04 PM
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Bro lives in the world where bitter old women are the only ones who express opinions he dislikes. Im 23 and I cringe when dudes older than 27 ask me out. Like, what if I accidentally unplug your life support while riding you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:57 PM
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I just told you why I’m upset, you punk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:50 PM
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One more time: I don’t think abortion is moral. I think it should always be legal for any reason. I think that in some circumstances it’s not immoral. But it’s hardly ever moral. It’s bad for everybody involved, and should only be resorted to if an alternative is even more fucked up. You are raped? That’s one story. The fetus - shock! - happens to be a girl? That’s a completely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:49 PM
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You think these parties are legitimate? That’s cute. North Korea has “parties” too. I don’t know what you mean by the last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:38 PM
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Nope, I didn’t even read it. I didn’t skim it. I scrolled past it and came to the comments to express my irritation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:36 PM
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Leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:35 PM
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I can’t entertain the thought if I didn’t read it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:35 PM
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Really? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:49 AM
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Oh, you think these numbers are legitimate? That’s cute. Do you wonder why Navalny was barred from race when you read the article? Of course he does not let anyone vote. Did you know that they also have eLeCtIoNs in North Korea? Putin fakes his elections, this is how he gets elected. All elections in Russia are fake. And when he can no longer run, he amends the constitution. He isn’t subordinate to anything besides his own will - a very definition of dictatorship. Anecdote: a couple of my friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:39 AM
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Dude, I grew up in Putin’s Russia and I know how to tell a dictatorship when I see one. I might not know POLS, but I’m not just speaking outta my ass 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:51 AM
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Can you describe how you feel when you find out a girl you like is a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:26 AM
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I responded in the other conversation branch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:16 AM
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Hold up a second, of course Putin is a dictator. Russian people voted for him in 1999, and then the fucker just elected himself and wiped his ass with the constitution. Not to say that American politicians aren’t clowns, of course. I don’t think he protects Russian people, I think he is the problem. And every single one of his political opponents was mysteriously poisoned with radioactive substances in London. Yes, the White House is full of clowns but they are at least subordinate to the electi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:11 AM
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I got your point. When I said he is far right I indeed meant his poorly crafted nationalism. Any related reading you can suggest as homework?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:06 AM
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How would I know, my perception is poisoned so I didn’t bother to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:02 AM
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No kidding 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:02 AM
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Socially conservative + nationalistic propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:01 AM
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I am triggered because you repeated the thing about me that bugs me and that I just admitted myself for a sole reason of using this as a leverage against me. I would definitely notice. you cant see certain mannerisms that are expresions of emotions and triggers because you have no idea how other people perceive you. lots of super masculine women think they are feminine because they look feminine, but they are not. I m very perceptive. you cant fool me. No amount of trying can successfully imitat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:24 AM
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Then which states would you say are right leaning? What comes to mind when I say “right leaning state”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:23 AM
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Of course you do, I just told you that. Tryna be smart with me over there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:21 AM
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OMFG you so exposed me, I tried to hide it for so long that I have the worst temperament configuration, let’s all tell me that again 😱 In real life, you would not notice. I have a feminine self-presentation. We present other people a certain cut of ourselves, right It’s also not helpful, because I don’t know which hormones, so like 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:19 AM
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Whichever metric we go buy Russia is on the right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:11 AM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:20 PM
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Based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:16 PM
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This sub doesn’t revolve around OP’s cute little opinions, there is 100,000 mfs next to him having things to say. I don’t want to read the rest of his opinions. I acknowledge my bias. Please forgive me. Will you forgive me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:03 PM
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I didn’t know that he did that, but I believe you 😂 of course it’s his role model. Of course it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:35 PM
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I agree with that, I just can’t with the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:15 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:52 PM
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I didn’t read his points ngl, and if he did I would have been biased. Can’t go in a serious discussion after his intro. I can’t take anybody who wishes to be a part of Putin’s Russia serious. Especially if they are also left leaning, bro just tries to ride too many dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:45 PM
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Even if he is, it’s like, Putin’s Russia is right leaning. I can’t put two and two together so I was hoping he would educate me on his views. Bro is in the 5th dimension.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:04 PM
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You lost me at “my ideal country is Putin’s Russia” 🥲 and then I read that you are leftist and was like whaaat. Have you ever been to Putin’s Russia? Edit: I’ve been to Putin’s Russia because I spend first 13 years of my life there, also I visited many times. I know what the fuck I’m talking about. Please consider this before pissing yourself in the comments to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:23 PM
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That can be kind of true, but not exactly. It's true in the case of American women in college, lemme put it this way, where there is a lot of dudes around, and many have a lot of things to offer + are eager to commit and find a partner. In this scenario, it's hard to take their complaints seriously. In dysfunctional environments men are broken down by external circumstances to a much higher extent and resort to alcoholism or drugs, or crime: for lower class women it's better to not make a choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:32 PM
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Let’s put it this way: it definitely can’t be cured if its carrier wants to continue being traumatized and finds comfort in it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:43 PM
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Who else doesn’t understand you? Men are mysoginistic, I am a degenerate, the list of people unable to tap into your experience and appreciate it keeps growing. Who isn’t a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:26 PM
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50/50. I collected worst qualities of both genders like goddamn pokemons. I’m neurotic and disagreeable. Any element of insecurity is enough to take me out, and I noticed that I don’t experience too much compassion, so I present very feminine, and then I’m told I think like a dude once people get to know me. I don’t know what it is. Attracted to both, as lone as they are not too feminine or too masculine. If they are too agreeable I can’t respect them, if they are too authoritative, I can’t resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:04 PM
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To address your point about uncured trauma preventing women from understanding men, and misogyny preventing men from understanding women. Most people despise the other gender because of childishness and their own stupidity, but women will bullshit their negative experiences into the state of “trauma”, and we all are supposed to sit here and pretend we feel sorry. It’s female self-pity vs. male entitlement, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:56 PM
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You can stretch everything to being the product of your body, ultimately, but money is not physically attached to you. Nor is it “you”. I get the logic, but we are comparing something that’s so much more expensive than money with money. If you were obligated to donate blood to your kid, this would be a different convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:44 PM
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Well even if we roll with the fact consent to sex constitutes consent to pregnancy why can’t we unconsent? If you consent to taking care of someone medically, you can still go back on your word. The child support thing: I think the other parent has a right to child support not the child. Spending your money is less involved than spending your bodily resource. If we could put an embryo in a capsule that would help it survive and make it the moms and the dads obligation to finance, it would be a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:33 PM
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Haha, thanks)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:43 PM
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I don’t know, but let’s say it does. But so does the girl. It’s a question of which human right is more valuable. You said it yourself: you are pro-life with exceptions, so there is nuance right I believe that kids don’t have a right to child support. The parent who raises them has the right to child support. I also think that the twins should be separated, yes. I don’t think the active/passive is the issue here, we can pull the plug on people. Okay, let’s say someone pulls the plug on you just …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:42 PM
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It should be legal in my opinion, but it’s not moral. Why are we talking about legality again. I don’t know what it is. Let’s say it’s a human. You have a right to life. You don’t have a right to someone else providing you with assistance so you can live, right. But if somebody refuses to perform CPR on you just because you are a man, that’s messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:21 PM
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Well it’s a little more complex than that. A fetus is more than a cluster of cells and less than a human. The other thing is if you are discriminating against a female fetus - it’s not just a female fetus that you are discriminating against. I would say the reason why you are getting an abortion is pretty important to determine it’s morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:28 PM
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Yes, killing is legal in certain circumstances. I mean do you believe in death penalty? What about killing in self defense? But you don’t believe in abortion. So killing is okay unless for the reason you approve? Sick morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:35 PM
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I think it’s a bit of both: both genders feel like they are entitled to all sorts of things. That’s why it’s stupid to have these discussions over the internet, we would need to assess you and assess the girls you are approaching and find out who is a lemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:19 PM
1

I would give him a reasonable amount, if I’m not met halfway I’ll take it as a rejection, which is exactly what it is. But I do not need any “nice guy” to roll down red carpets for me. Among a disinterested Chad and a spineless creature women choose neither, not to say that some women don’t get tricked/trick themselves into thinking they can obtain the Chad. But if she has a little bit of brain she will choose neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:19 PM
2

Wrong analogy. To us nice guys is like free garbage over an expensive diamond. Not free gold. Men seriously underestimate degree to which we are repulsed by nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:12 PM
1

Relax, we all are friends here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:24 PM
1

No one cares dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:10 PM
1

So like… Discipline? We have a word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:05 PM
1

Power over who?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:59 PM
1

I don’t know why you are calling it “personal power”. You mean having his shit together?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:57 PM
0

I don’t know what personal power means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:54 PM
2

The men we like will probably try to be pushy. It’s their energy. If you put them in their place they will come apologizing, and will think twice before doing something like that again. Just draw a boundary and watch them jumping through hoops for forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:39 PM
1

Weren’t you caught yesterday complaining that low n count women don’t spread their legs because they want to stay low n count? Why are you still talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:36 PM
2

Honey, men don’t become a prize until they become competent. This has nothing to do with power. And many liberal women, myself included, are contemptuous towards “powerful” people - the ones who try to impose their authority on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:32 PM
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Im sure many men would like to be a sole provider, but can’t, because they struggle so much, and because they weren’t given a good start in life. And they think it’s the women’s fault. A lot of this “women bring nothing” shit comes from a place of insecurity. Of course they know it’s not true, they chase them on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:23 PM
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That’s what I’m asking, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:12 PM
1

We need men. In the "have their shit together" aggregate state. A couple of last decades produced an army of soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:14 AM
1

😳This is seriously wrong. May I ask you what your major is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:28 AM
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I know they aren’t values. I know my shit behind this whole conversation. I’ve done my homework. And I am not just emotionally attached to the process of reproduction. I am saying we don’t can to choose our values the same way we don’t get to choose our organs. If there weren’t organs there would not be a you to select them. If there weren’t values there would not be a you to select them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:56 PM
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Just like the women can't make you happy whether they are promiscuous or sexually selective? :_ )
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:50 PM
1

Vladimir Putin is the most powerful man alive. Joe Biden will get his demented ass impeached if an intern blows him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:31 PM
1

Or if you are refusing to work your job for free. The fair exchange for you working your job is the CEO working his job 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:25 PM
1

I don’t think you get to select your number of arms of legs. But nobody assigns it to you either. Nobody assigns a predisposition to cancer, or violent temperament. We do not get to control our values, we get to discover them, like erasing this sticky thing from a lottery ticket. I fucked up. When I say “there is a choice”, I mean to say “you get to act out your egoism in the absence of external forces”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:51 PM
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Sure, but you certainly did not have a choice in whether you see your kids as a point of life. The maternal instinct either overpowered women and men or, in some cases, it did not. Why do you think that you are this metaphysical creature who gets to select its values like from a cafeteria menu? ​ because then how could someone act in an unselfish way? ​ I don't know. That's why people make a religious argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:26 PM
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It was the point. Now we have an option to make another point. If you are going to make your own point you have to do so in the context of your current set of conditions/limitations, which exist independent of what choice you make, and they exist as a consequence of a point with which you were designed/evolved/whatever. Well wolves don’t have an option to sit around and converse about usefulness of reproduction. Fishes and shrimp don’t have a choice, they are just dealing with biological reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:51 PM
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Humans as a whole might or might not have a predefined point, I don’t really know. But us as individuals do have a point, which is to make other humans. You might be able to escape what used to be a predetermined reality thanks to scientific advancements, but your circuitry is still designed around not dying and therefore reproducing or just reproducing. The whole overpopulation argument is so 2010, please stawp 😑 it’s just wrong. If you look at it this way, either choice is rooted in selfishnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:10 PM
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No, sounds like we came to a consensus. Chill out with the personal attacks, this doesn’t have to be more than what it is. FYI, I am a girl. My avatar has a ponytail. People here assume I’m a dude. I am not a dude. I am a girl. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:44 PM
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Well reproduction is our whole point as individuals, we are built to ensure it. We are interesting because we can bargain with the reality that was prescribe to us and be selfish, as you said. But it’s a reality that we have to bargain with. What makes you so special? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:39 PM
1

Would you leave her alone if she started this post with: “I’m speaking to those of you who hold the following opinion: blah blah blah”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:16 PM
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Bro what? She isn’t making a generalization she is just talking to people who are not you. You don’t have to be the star of the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:51 PM
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We are taking doses of hormones that change our perception of reality and our bodies. Considering that a human being is a cocktail of periodic table elements, if you add or subtract something from it, you will change who is standing in front of you. A constantly pregnant and breasfeeding woman is a different creature from a woman who never had kids at, let’s say, 27, and takes estrogen and progesterone. She is designed for having kids, and is not fulfilling her design because we have a pill that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:48 PM
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Prostitution is an exchange of sex for money, but not all exchanges of sex for money is prostitution. A transaction becomes prostitution if it’s only sex and only money. Otherwise all relationships throughout human history can be classified as prostitution. What isn’t it, women being promiscuous? We all are hookers until we are hoes? Male sexuality and male time is of significantly less value due to the biological reasons that everybody has covered like 20 times on this sub. This is how - and ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:30 PM
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She isn’t obligated to acknowledge the distinction. The only one who cares about is you. No, I’m tired of this thing: each time somebody makes a statement there will be people who need to educate others on how “it’s not everybody in X community who believes in Y”. Of course it’s not everybody. If it’s not you, this post is not for or about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:21 PM
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It altered our biology, and therefore it changed (partially) the perception of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:14 PM
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What’s manipulative is to lecture us on how we are supposed to give up something of value to us - our body - with nothing in exchange to it, OP. Also, it bugs me how much people throw around the term prostitution. You can will not give up your youth working for an establishment that does not give you anything and only preaches company loyalty to you. Isn’t that very much like prostitution? Then what isn’t prostitution? How about none of us have sex except for procreation and all of us just have …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:00 PM
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If you want women to have sex for the sake of having sex, men need to start having relationships with disagreeable women their age with degrees for the sake of having relationships with them. But you will not make your sacrifice to bring equality, and we are not morally obligated to make ours. Men and women are not the same in how they see relationships and sex as they fundamentally search for different things. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:52 PM
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She obviously talks to the ones who believe in traditionalism. “Not all TRP believe in the thing you are calling them out for” is also irrelevant information
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:48 PM
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Irrelevant except for all the times when people in your movement preach marriage and 4 kids. There is different schools of thought in TRP please appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:23 PM
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Due to the biological revolution that bc brought
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:02 PM
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He is well and alive wdym modern
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:02 PM
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It’s almost 2023, and people still think that romantic expectations are socially constructed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:42 PM
1

Rollo is married
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:22 PM
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I think in their minds patriarchal norms are still imposed on men but no norms is imposed on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:22 PM
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That’s not the point, you are missing the forest of the trees again. so biased and ideological it’s painful, sounds like you had a tough life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:27 AM
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You just think of people in terms of men, the holy fools who gifted women birth control in exchange to women being better wives and now unjustly suffer because of their benevolence, and women. who promised to be on good behavior but took away your colleges and enslaved men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:44 PM
1

Do you mind if I ask you a different question if you are willing to humor me: how much responsibility does an individual Russian have in Putin’s invasion?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:14 PM
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The easiest targets would be fat women that TRP says it doesn’t want. I think they are shooting into the 7/10 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:33 AM
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Well, the women are not wanted or desired for making the world a better place, because men want beauty and positively reinforce the bad behavior you are complaining about. Like, if we start pointing fingers might wanna look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:30 AM
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we should subsidize teenage boys nutrition instead of women’s poor choices. What’s so valuable about teenage boys? Most of them have an iq of 100 and no impressive skills, and no uterus. They can skip a meal. Let’s not subsidize anybody. Why should you be allowed to divorce a liar that you married? Divorce would degrade the act of marriage to a lavish ceremony. I say dissolution of a family cannot be performed solely on the basis of betrayal. Bear your cross. Let’s push it even farther, why are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:52 AM
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Can you clarify what policies you want passed/reversed? Also, why are you blaming women? Isn’t it the same as blaming men/the patriarchy for imperfections of the system? I still fail to see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:51 AM
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I actually do tell them that they have a personal responsibility to not allow for victim-abuser dynamics, so your shot is like way off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:38 PM
1

Women are right for lining up for guys who are “hot”, because hot is a marker of good genes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:27 PM
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No it just means I’m rude. If you were right women would line up at your door
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:22 PM
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I mean, yet here you are crying that not enough women show interest in you, which is also a foolish thing to cry about. Isn’t that… hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:27 PM
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Why do you care? The Leo’s of the world don’t care and continue to sleep with whoever they want to sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:22 PM
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If you require people to jump through hoops to prove you their intentions, the Shrodinger cat immediately collapses to the worst scenario and the girl does, in fact, become disinterested. Because you are difficult, neurotic and defensive, and life is too short for her to solve your 🪄enigma🪄 That’s how RP confirms it’s own bias that women are unlikely to cooperate. I’m afraid the truth is even more terrifying: women are unlikely to cooperate ☹️… with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:20 AM
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I am speechless. Calling a woman a slut is misandrist 🧠🧠 bro is so visionary that he ran from right to the left, horseshoed his way to the right and portaled to another galaxy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:02 AM
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There is definitely a number of people who are offended by the sexual standard itself, because it’s a fundamental expression of criticism of who they are. Standards make people feel inadequate about their insufficiency, and they lash out. They aren’t crazy for thinking that people try to restrict their right to state preferences, because there is, in fact, people who try to do this very thing. Let’s not gaslight each other into thinking that everybody takes a graceful rejection with an equal amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:58 AM
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You know what, I agree. Let’s all build a male exclusive traditional world with no welfare under one condition: you will not get education either. You will work in a coal mine or best case doordash to support your family: after all, someone has to support the submissive woman and 4 kids in the world where welfare and birth control is absent. Why are we stopping at excluding me from educational facilities, let’s give you a nice kick on the butt too. In that world, if a woman betrays you, the taxp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:25 PM
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You are really trying to debate with me and it’s flattering, but you are gonna have to stop this bold font I can read without it please Do you think some men leech of off welfare too? Deadbeat dads who come in a pussy and are unable to pay their 5 kids bills? Progressive men who advance democrat policies, liberal engineers in California - are they to blame for female liberation? Do we lump them with men, who invented birth control, or with women, who vote democrat? That gets complicated very qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:17 PM
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Your intentions is to punish some fictional big bad wolf in the face of women, my intention is to make things balanced. So the problem is you used the wrong formula. There is a thick glass between how you think and how I think and it will require a long conversation, so I don’t even want to unpack further than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:20 PM
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Playing victim after fucking up big time. Double points if the same person holds progressive points of view about feminine behavioral patterns being nothing but artificially constructed and socially reinforced stereotypes. Allowing herself to gain lbs while being all surprise Pikachu face that the men she wants have standards of their own. Not admitting that her place in the mating hierarchy is below all the “conventional” women who actually take care of themselves. Actively arguing against this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:31 AM
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BDSM ain't Justin's story, since he does not understand why women are reluctant to give up their agency. They absolutely like to play the masochistic role in the bedroom with the men who know how to take charge, but these men can write a paragraph of text without asking stupid fucking questions and irritating these women to begin with, because they are different biological creatures. So, for Justin, the conversation will end at "because you don't pay women enough duh".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:08 AM
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Sounds like it’s tempting for men to choose an easy opponent. I can’t judge, because there is a tremendous pressure for them to win to be taken seriously. and if I felt like my relationship success depended on failure to win ratio at a dinner table of course I would choose the most obedient and the dumbest doll I could find. I would say that if a woman is more articulate, it’s her responsibility to play with the guy and not against the guy. This is not submissive - this is called being helpful. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:32 AM
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TRP no longer belongs to a few founding fathers who put together the sidebar. It’s a complex and diverse body of thought with different schools within it. Have some goddamn respect for internal disagreements, which there is a plenty of, because the movement has been hijacked and adopted by too many people with too many temperaments/ideas/visions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:59 AM
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Because I’m using history to support my conclusions. You seem to be pointing fingers at modern women and call them out on their bullshit to deflect. I said it like ten times, of course the way we have it is quite self-contradictory and meh, but when you are proposing change you need to offer something better otherwise you are wasting everybody’s time. Sorry? At the moment you are offering the deal with equal degree of stupid in it, except it will benefit you subjectively more. What do you want m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:48 AM
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This is just your idea of TRP. I spent as much time in this community as you and nothing makes you qualified to educate me on what TRP ReAlLy MeAnS. I’m sorry for being blunt, I’m just tired of a bunch of people going “That’s not what they mean! That’s not what they advocate for!” You don’t. Some of them do. I didn’t come up with this shit in between my nails appointments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:28 PM
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That’s not whataboutism, this is me using precedent to support my (realistic) POV. Can you stop being sloppy. Make it more redpilled - you’ll just piss off half of the population and they’ll be motivated to exploit vulnerabilities of your system, not cooperate with you. If I’m a domestic slave of a guy who beats me and who I don’t want and don’t respect why wouldn’t I, and other women, screw someone who is at least good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:16 PM
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Oh not the bold font 😱 Men have historically been allowed to punish wives, yet the numbers on paternity fraud are rather eyebrow raising. Because women would rather get a beating than carry the babies of men they don’t want. If you insist that men in the TRP world should be allowed to punish their submissive wives - have at it, you can beat her, historically she and the kids would still unfortunately be your responsibility so I’m not sure what exactly you are trying to prove with physical violen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:42 PM
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I said it to a previous commenter and I’ll repeat it again: I don’t want to engage in whataboutism. If the existing dynamics is something you want to talk about create your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:25 PM
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If men were truly masculine their masculinity would persist through social changes in your world, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:05 PM
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Did you read the PS in my post? This is the response to your first and second paragraph. And third paragraph I don’t want to unpack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:39 PM
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I’m saying, her ideas about dating are equivalent to broke people ideas about money, when your twice bankrupt uncle coaches you at a family gathering. Anyone can sit on their ass and ramble, theorize, brainstorm. It’s this type of person, they only show their wit/talent/smarts at a dinner table.. But if you look at their life, they are worse than the people they aggressively point fingers at.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:37 PM
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Did you even read the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:30 PM
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I’ll tell you why I’m here if you are so concerned: because I enjoy to argue with people, and people in my inner social circle get tired of it. Why are you hear, no pussy? Can’t pull women and don’t have an amazing enough career? Are you talking to a chick instead of fucking one because you are a loser? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:30 PM
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Why would they if it’s not even that good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:26 PM
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Aren’t all people selfish and disloyal tho? How is it a gender thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:03 AM
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What women? The women in your social circle? Why aren’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:00 AM
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Then don’t complain that women treat you like an animal for exploiting their bodies. If this is the active position your community is advertising, it implies that all female misbehavior that your community stands against is justified. We just have been better at playing the game that you guys are also playing. Sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:57 AM
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Oh so now we are getting selective 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:55 AM
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There is this type of person who thinks that the world is looking through the blinds and doesn’t stop wondering about their 200 lb 5’8” self 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:48 AM
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Bro what lmao if they don’t know how to give good head would not it make sense for you to stick with the woman who is a guaranteed provider of head rather than having to search for a new supplier of the same quality head Like if most women suck why are you sliding in their dms Which one is it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:45 AM
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It’s not the “I think”. I didn’t come up with this shit - someone in your community thinks that, dear stranger on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:32 AM
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It’s not an either or. Narrow specialization is for chimps. A human is supposed to be able of arrays of different behaviors depending on a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:46 AM
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I’m using the actual psychological definition actually. I know what agreeable means, and what it really means is too agreeable for one’s own personal gain if we remove all the fluff around it. I don’t trust anyone who wants to talk me into this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:41 AM
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We are going in circles. The whole reason why I regard him as high value is because he is capable of take on some of my responsibility for my wellbeing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:29 AM
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Well there is quite a number of TRP sources who want women to be submissive and take responsibility for their shit, so I dunno if TRP agrees with me. Quite a few people can’t pick what to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:19 AM
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Not many enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:17 AM
2

Nope pretty different to me. Too lazy to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:16 AM
3

Go get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:01 AM
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So here is the thing: no woman will consent to a guy having leadership unless she is motivated by desire to lessen her struggles with the masculine world of financial/legal/emotional responsibility for herself. We give up our agency to gain your protection from accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:00 AM
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Because nobody wants to dedicate their time, agency and freedom to you unless you pay them, Justin. Talk to me when you are married to a gay billionaire and take his fat alpha cock like a good submissive bitch that you are, then we will listen to a lecture on the wonderful world of feminine virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:57 AM
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Agreeable is pushing it for me. The whole reason why people want agreeable is so they can take advantage of somebody, so that doesn’t go far from submissive. Cooperative makes sense tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:48 AM
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I don’t think you are one of the people me and the previous commenter are complaining about. A lot of people will use the word “cooperative” to hide they intentions, but a lot of them will use it in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:45 AM
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I think so too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:23 PM
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Women take accountability and become the bhad bitches they say they are. That’s my solution. Personal responsibility for you own choices of men/baby daddies/sex partners, with no obligation to submit to anyone. Your solution does not cut it, because the submissive woman who is prone to hysteria will die with no support of yours, and her offsprings will die. She spent years of being incapable of financing her sexual misbehavior after coming to your house at 17 - because you financed it, and thank…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:02 PM
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Yeah, of course everyone wants someone who will cooperate with them, if that’s what TRP means they need to revise their vocabulary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:47 PM
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Yes, I do want a solution. In fact I have one in mind, but yours doesn’t cut it. The thing about taking responsibility is that you take it first, and when things don’t go your way you don’t get to abandon it. Sorry? Also, please stop downvoting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:38 PM
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they say they want a submissive partner. What does submissive mean, other than the partner who submits to them? Oh what an assumption! Enlighten me 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:29 PM
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No, you don’t get to break the contract if the woman that you have the right to discipline wrongs you. It just means you are a shit disciplinarian. You are given all the tools to make her subordinate to your whim, and if you don’t succeed it’s a failure on your behalf, you are a weak man and therefore deserve to be cheated on with a guy with better genes. Welcome to the world of tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:19 PM
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Sure, all of that would be legal. You can beat the living crap outta her. What’s you point? If she fucks up, you’ll most likely be providing for another man’s offspring since in the majority of cases paternity fraud was undiscovered. Even if they were discovered, it was in the best interest of the society to shut you up and beat you up, before you return home and beat up your wife. The estimates of female infidelity are rather eyebrow raising, because the society was set up for women to exploit …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:55 PM
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They do. Otherwise they wouldn’t use the word submissive, unless they are collectively clueless about the implications of somebody being submissive to them, which are… Somebody submitting to them. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:53 PM
0

Men lose their shit in conversations just as often. They call me a cunt :O
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:49 PM
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If she doesn’t, you are a good for nothing leader. In your world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:40 PM
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Yeah, your whole take with figuring out what upsets “men” doesn’t make sense then 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:39 PM
2

Did you read the PS in my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:37 PM
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They, in fact, have been throughout the history when if comes to expectations of different sexes. Men had more social freedom, but they carried the burden of responsibility for their wives and families, and the offsprings who were frequently not theirs. I don’t understand the anecdote. I would assume anybody arguing in good faith would ideally be loyal whether they are dominant or submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:33 PM
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Can you specify which idea exactly you refer to when you say accelerationism? To me it sounds like you are referring to radical involvement in the existing gender dynamics, forgive me if I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:16 PM
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Okay, sounds like you are not into submissive women, which makes you not my target audience. When people say they want someone submissive it without a question implies a level of authority they want to hold over another individual. That’s what submissive means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:06 PM
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You are accelerating to a place that isn’t any better than the place we are at
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:04 PM
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Same thing. If you are a leader, you hold more decision making power, so eventually it will boil down to “do as I say” if the conflict in opinions escalates far enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:53 PM
3

Im trying to tell you that it’s a whole different conversation, and i’m trying to keep whataboutism out of this discussion. What PearlyThingsAlly is proposing is not an adequate solution for what we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:50 PM
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Of course, we all know that 🙄 I’m saying both is as utopian and contradictory as neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:43 PM
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It's just not a good strategy with somebody who has more options than you, so the prescription for most men is to become the best option. They can play hard to get, but the problem is that nobody cares and nobody will move mountains until they have something of value to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:16 PM
2

Why is not she married to a HVM that she and her community thinks she deserves at the age of 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:34 PM
1

She is 25. And still unmarried by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:32 PM
3

True, everybody fucks up, and there is many people willing to only point finger at men. However, only pointing finger at women is no more just, and no more objective, and no more rational. It's like, okay, here is an award for being an idiot in a uniquely different way, I guess? Secondly, I have a problem with this argument, because an average woman gets all the positive reinforcement that she needs to continue thinking she is the shit. She was not born with this delusion. It's years of guys lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:26 PM
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No, it's what uniquely upsets you. There is an array of men who cry that women are too masculine, have degrees and ambitions. And then there is men who hate gold-diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:19 PM
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It's more complex than should we/should not we do anything. In theory, we should. In practice, turns out that the only effective things that can be done violate the freedom of individual - I don't understand why I can't stick a coathanger inside myself if I so wish. It's extremely hard to make people have kids in the world where pregnancy is optional, and where there is only economic losses from having a kid. I would say we need to continue fixing existing institutions so that having kids is eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:10 PM
0

Why do we need a larger population every year? Is there a book/article that will guide somebody economically illiterate like myself to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:52 PM
1

For the same reason why people like learning. A person was born to work - his job is expansion. Even if you are an insurance broker, it's better to be a corporate slave than a sex slave to a corporate slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:02 AM
1

I'll reconsider the whole boundaries thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:03 PM
1

You make some good points besides that, but what you are describing is very primal and I can tell you that kids might do that, but grown men, at least decent ones dont push your boundaries to “figure you out” I promise I'm not gaslighting you. Isn't it why the whole 'treat women like men' thing was flushed down the toilet - because men like testing each other out jokes and watch how the other one reacts?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:56 PM
1

​ About the self respect thing, please tell me why would women push their boundaries in the first place, once again who is really the bad guy? For the same reason men and kids and dogs push their boundaries: to evaluate who is standing in front of them. It's mammal behavior, and it's a necessary mechanism we all employ to figure people out. For example, now it's rather uncomfortable to listen to how my gender makes errors on the evolutionary scale. Your comments are on the line. But I'm allowing…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:11 PM
3

Your point is valid, but the delivery irritated me. OP, all this shit is a bunch of flirting. Also, I mean, astrology? I hate to use myself as an example, but here we go: I am not a very empathetic person, and last thing you will hear from me is "I feel you pain", or it will be a fake one if I'm feeling polite. Most of the time, I'll just tell a person their problems are self-inflicted and how to not get in the situation again. I can't count the times men - men like you - got upset, because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:01 AM
2

It's the other way around. It's not that a regular guy will not be abusive, it's that a guy who will not be abusive is a regular guy (a good guy). Do I make sense? The reason why "nice guys" have the worst reputation is that they have all the flaws that normal people have minus three things: self-respect, self-control, and self-awareness. They don't have self-respect because they are willing to tolerate ridiculous behavior from women in hopes to get sex. They lack self-control because they are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:36 PM
2

Sorry, what I'm saying is we can sense that if we give a shot to a nice guy he will abuse his position. We are in a bit of a loop right now. Like for example you said "nice guys will never abuse you because they won't even get this far", but that's precisely their problem: the only reason why they will not do any damage is because they will not be in the position to do so and get away. That's not very... Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:05 PM
1

I'm a girl FYI ;o
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:52 PM
1

So your argument, as far as I understand it, is that it's difficult to play it cool unless you pull women consistently? If that's your argument, I understand and I agree. My point is that the guy thinks he plays it cool by doubling down on neurotic women, but his behavior is not the flex he thinks it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:37 PM
3

Because we foresee the sequence of events I described with our animal brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:30 PM
1

Ithink people should be more conservative with their expectations, men and women should abide by the male standard (in this case). What I'm saying of course can be misused by people who just want to be mean to others and vent their anger - there is definitely people like your coworker who are desperate to project assertiveness (especially at the expense of others), that's why I'm saying we need proper social tools. I apologize for getting political, but it's a bit like these gender people and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:15 PM
1

Yes. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:48 PM
1

I don't view them as weak, I view them as bad actors who want to steal the floor or get away with something by talking about their problems when it's inappropriate to do so. Seriously, if somebody has a problem they should sign up for therapy or talk to a close friend and not waste the time of people who are not equipped nor want to deal with their trauma. I'm tired of girls being entitled to everybody's time and sympathy and it's a hill I'm will die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:47 PM
1

Sorry, I thought it was you. Why would you be his defense attorney tho, but fuck it. To answer your question: it's apparent throughout the sequence of his actions that he gives a shit, from deleting somebody's number (why, if he isn't hung up on the person? I don't need to delete numbers of people I know I'm not going to text) and down to finding it amusing that someone as emotionally vulnerable as him now depends on him for approval. It's like a psychological cage fight of two people who depend…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:38 PM
3

Honestly, same. And there is a lot of girls who get annoyed at this main character energy, we just don't have social tools to deal with this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:27 PM
0

Tell me why. Why can't they get this far, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:19 PM
1

I'm joking. Don't take it seriously. You are a real man. Here is why I'm poking you. The difference between what I'm saying and what you are doing is intent. You get hung up on people and are getting off on pissing upon your dates for not accepting you as a mate or whatever, and I'm recommending to walk away to spend time on somebody who wants to cooperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:17 PM
2

The nice guys will do all the same things the dark triad men do, but without realizing or admitting that they are doing them. The nice guy is a passenger in the backseat of his emotions, the dark triad guy is the driver. We are not flirting when we say that nice guys are the absolute fucking scums of the Earth. No sociopath is capable of their level of destruction, done with clueless effortlessness of a pin up blonde.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:33 AM
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I don't question, it's more like I observe and try to see the world with other people's eyes. I learned a ton. To me it was a surprise that men have it difficult too but I think I slowly woke up to it. Like for example, I started noticing social privileges women enjoy: there is a girl in my inner circle who talks about her shitty childhood at every social gathering, and it's annoying to listen to it. She also is the type to complain about oppression. I think she is the last person to talk about …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:21 AM
1

You are bragging to us for our approval and validation about all the chicks you could not fuck and ragequitted. Real alphas don't ragequit - they have no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:05 AM
1

Looking past all the napkin gender thisissciencedude, if somebody expects you to literally move fucking mountains to meet with them, if it's easier to make an arrangement with the Pope than a Tinder chick - say "it was nice meeting you, McKayla", turn around and walk away and don't look back, which coincidentally increases your chances of McKayla camping in your dms. A mature woman who wants to be in a relationship with a guy will reciprocate his effort by at least making the time to meet him ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:53 AM
1

Both female and male experiences average out to something moderately tolerable, among men the spread is just greater. Actually, because the female experience is sandwiched between two male layers of the food pyramid, people tend to make this assumption of similarity about women more than about men. Pretty much everybody acknowledges Chad Thundercock harvests all the poon, but there is fewer conversations about how two women can have drastically different dating situations due to genetics. It's j…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:32 AM
2

Reading comments on this sub they are just as unhappy with 30 year old women with good careers and degrees, so go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:55 AM
1

It's not a dating option if they are, ya know, not dating you. In evolutionary terms: hooking up means they are wasting my reproductive time and I'm risking being left with his child with no assistance. it's an option for you because it's a good deal for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:32 AM
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No. Nature did not just gift all women and take away from all men, both genders have an equally shitty experience. Female experience: a fat girl on Tinder still has something to offer and you have something to gain by interacting with her. By interacting with a undesirable men, I have nothing to gain and a lot to lose. You are underestimating the degree to which women are vulnerable emotionally, physically, sexually. Luxury of being picky is, in fact, a luxury - for men, but for women it's a bur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:18 AM
0

Let me put it this way: a woman, no matter how low value, always brings something to the table. That's why for men it makes sense to think that a partner is better than no partner, so you guys compare it to different flavors of ice cream. The analogy is true, but it's only true for men. You are projecting the same mentality on women. But bad options actually take away from women. We are picky because a bad deal is worse than no deal for us, it's not that we are just confused and overwhelmed with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:00 AM
1

Most people will marry and date people in close proximity and it's not talked about enough. I'm dating a traditional high income man and I'm not a traditional woman at all, at least because I needed to go to the same university to meet him, but also because he was not searching to drag somebody dependent through life or jump through 10 hoops including the courthouse to get sex. It's just too much headache to move mountains to meet a princess. I know men are in theory willing to upgrade someone's…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:33 PM
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