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It's kind of the only thing left to be aspirational for. It's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:49 AM
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I believe part of what made past men great was partnering with women early and growing together. I think that's a really huge thing we just don't do anymore. Like that is how you form lasting connections and empathy. Mutual struggle. This modern idea of picking someone off a shelf who meets your standards is one of the biggest wastes of human potential we engage in. Like where are these supposed attractive character traits from the shelf-men coming from? nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:53 AM
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Anyone with eyes can see the internet turned women into a hive mind that's enacting revenge on men as a whole. Nothing happening though? It's just like the weather? Mental illness. Women got the power they wanted and immediately abused it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:08 AM
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I think the risk-seeking is a by-product of men needing more extrinsic motivation and purpose in life. It's this that leads them to doing stuff like leading, exploring or doing anything bombastic that isn't really "necessary". I think it's very rare for a woman to be able to match that innate drive, and outcompeting all the men already competing with each other for whatever position it is. If women ever do start becoming more prominent, It's probably a sign men are being handicapped severely and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:03 PM
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You're confusing cause and effect. Men have to be compensated in some form to do these things. You can't shit all over a man and tell him to go die in a war, then laugh when their coffins are brought back home. Men weren't mocked and shamed into storming the beaches on D-Day. You sound like you're describing a slave army, which have historically proven to be inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:29 PM
1

Yet every modern industrialized nation is seeing the same pattern play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:01 PM
1

Yes actually. Their role is to rattle the cage. Your role is to agitate and stoke hatred. Both weaken the foundations over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:49 AM
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I'm assuming this is all in bad faith and I also vaguely recall someone with blonde in their name being a cunt. If I am mistaken in either of these, I apologize, unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:20 AM
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I think there can also be an opposite effect where having good parents sets your expectations too high. If everyone around you is operating off lower standards, you are incompatible in many ways. Though of course, nobody would believe you, because the idea of men having standards and women being at fault in any way is unthinkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:43 AM
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Thats very nice sweaty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:17 AM
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my bad. Assumed your "what do you mean by not fat" question was asked in bad faith. I didn't realize you were just mentally challenged. See, when calories in > calories out people develop excess body fat. Men typically find this unappealing. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:36 AM
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What a sincere and good faith reply. This will surely be a productive discussion. PPD is so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:56 PM
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: --^ |
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:16 PM
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Men by and large are designed to kill each other or to explore frontiers and maybe build stuff. That's what men typically find fulfilling. Since technology eliminated the need for most fulfilling manual labor and made war humiliatingly impersonal, there's really nothing to like about modern society as a man. A life of pursuing "hobbies" and surrogate activities while working some meaningless job that probably doesn't even do anything is pretty much describing hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:42 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:05 AM
1

There was actually a whole belief system and metaphysics those people sincerely believed in to go along with that, believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:57 PM
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There's nothing to get. You sound like you're trying to present this as some moral failure on mens part. The system is working as intended. All modern capitalist trends point towards atomization, devaluation of children, devaluation of family, and unnecessary relationships. Transition away from fulfilling masculine work to corporate slop jobs. Where is a man supposed to fit in here? Businesses discard unnecessary labor. People discard unnecessary relationships. Men are no different. God this sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:32 PM
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clown world
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:02 PM
1

honk honk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:55 PM
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The word masculinity has been men corrupted by too many people leveraging it as a shaming tactic and equating it with "thing women like". Masculinity is fundamentally active and revolves around stuff like strength, hard work, sacrifice. It loses a lot of its value when there are little to no real struggles left, and almost everything we do societally works towards reducing the need for those virtues. Everything becomes progressively more passive. Eventually it's just a disadvantage, since mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:57 PM
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Cart before horse. Modern world is fundamentally narcissistic. Convenience and minmaxing are the central values. "Not my job to fix you" is pretty much inherent . It is funny to see people try passing it off like it was some conscious moral decree for this incredible new idea of not helping other people at the expense of themselves. No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:21 AM
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That is not what flipping the script means. You change too much and too little in different areas. This is more like retroactive time traveling revenge fantasy in a world where social scripts weren't practical things informed or rooted in biology. I don't even know if it works as that because men switching to the 1950s woman role while retaining all the biological perks of being male sounds like some anime gooner portal fantasy. 3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:37 AM
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When an engine burns through enough oil it can no longer function without risk of exploding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:12 AM
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yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:43 AM
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The harm is indirect and abstracted for the most part, but that's not really important. The whole idea of civilization is that it's supposed to make our lives better, not worse, than living like animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:22 PM
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The man-bad narrative doesn't really work here. If the social contract is making enough men so miserable to where violent revolt is an appealing alternative, something went seriously wrong with the society. It would essentially have become so shit, they'd rather have barbarism. Can't really man-bad when it would just be rational self interest at that point. To not revolt would be like a prisoner upkeeping his own chains and torture devices
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:09 AM
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bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:14 AM
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Alienation from women has been the default. Rarely come across them. It's probably not good how easy it is to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:33 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:06 PM
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It definitely can. Think it takes a specific mindset to become resentful by any significant amount though. Maybe I just focused on the self improvement areas that guarantee at least some benefit even if it does nothing for attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:23 PM
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Idk starting to think women understand quite well, they're just wired to disdain complaining men. Like a bug in the code.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:15 PM
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You go queen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:25 PM
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Have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:11 AM
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You'd be surprised. I'm a gen Z pipefitter and most of these dudes opted out of one of the best places to meet women (college), to work in fields that are 99% men. The basement dwelling nerd guy people imagine as the only ones struggling isn't accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:49 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:34 AM
2

Then it's even worse than we thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:09 AM
1

Yeah you're right it's just like those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:17 PM
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Transitionary makes it sound sustainable. Things will inevitably snap back at some breaking point. Might take a couple more generations of pointless misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:38 PM
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You're right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:47 AM
1

Crack pipe. Put it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:55 AM
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why you are cracking on autists You're hallucinating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:34 AM
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Not sure what any of this has to do with what I said. Lay off the crack pipe sharpie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:57 AM
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When courting goes from something that just naturally happens to this recent "meta" perspective you see online where people are minmaxing it like a video game, it's really easy to understand why resentment builds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:40 PM
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I think it's a spectrum how much you rely on others. Bet if I were more schizoid or psychopathic I'd be more comfortable. I don't know why an animal brain would evolve the ability to pointlessly torture itself this way just through some belief. Don't get me wrong I enjoyed hobbies, growth and sought fulfillment growing up the same as most. Met all my personal and career goals I cared about. Timer starts here. At this point whether it's imagined or a natural thing doesn't make much difference. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:49 PM
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Not having a woman doesn’t. Big difference. Only difference is how long it takes. There is a real and constant psychic pain that will wear you down in time. Eventually it will suffocate your ability to even enjoy all those hobbies you took up. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:47 PM
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Not falling for this shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:41 AM
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Who asked? Again, totally irrelevant. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:57 PM
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Ok. Most dudes aren't on that website. It's actually totally irrelevant to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:59 PM
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At this point I'd wager the majority of awkward guys who genuinely do not have autism have been accused of having it or have been made to question if they have it at some point. People are loose with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:08 PM
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Yeah bit of a rugpull moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:00 PM
2

I'm not convinced. Seen too many counterexamples anecdotally. I think this is just the inevitable outcome of how tech has been progressing. Guys struggling were just unlucky to be born with an obsolete personality type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:55 PM
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You're not comprehending the thing being discussed. Most women won't (ideally men wouldn't either) , but you aren't even interested in comprehending either. You just enjoy inflicting pain you think is moralized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:35 PM
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Doesn't need luck. Dudes who try repressing natural biological responses are the ones in need of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:06 PM
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Growing up is just accepting the bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:02 PM
5

Nah it just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:40 AM
24

Bitterness after going through your 20s with next to nothing is the correct and healthy response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:25 AM
2

Haven't seen it communicated so accurately. Thank you for writing this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:36 PM
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Nobody is bullying sexless men except other men what planet are you on bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:02 PM
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I haven't received a hateful dm, or any dm at all posting on reddit, and I'm a dick most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:16 AM
3

The entire process.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:43 AM
6

Too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:05 AM
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Sexual assault is closed off to most women by their biology and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:12 PM
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Resonate with this 100%. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:50 AM
1

Idk why you think shaming would do anything but cause them to sink further
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:55 PM
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I don’t think you understand attractiveness OR confidence. I think you have an outsiders perspective and you’ve drawn a bunch of conclusions without having actual experience and context. I think people who hold this opinion feel a certain level of comfort in blaming their failures on variables that they think are either unchangeable or difficult to change, in order to justify laziness, and/or a more nihilistic view. I think being more attractive makes you more confidence is a pretty basic and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:41 AM
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Idk how you expect me to dissect where exactly the confidence from getting fit comes from. Other than that, what is there to address? All else equal, an attractive man will always be more confident than an unattractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:21 AM
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“now I am attractive, now confidence magically appears”. That isn't what I'm saying though. It doesn't fix you instantly, but you're pretty much always better off than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:14 AM
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I don’t think there is a relation between attractiveness and social anxiety. None at all? I think there's a very direct relationship. One of the main reasons guys work out is for the confidence boost that comes from getting fit (attractive). Was for me anyway. Attractiveness is definitely a kind of social lubricant. But it’s NOT magic. Of course. I know this very well since I went most of my life unattractive until a glow up along with a bit of aging in my early 20s by the time the damage done t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:01 AM
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You're a lot less likely to develop anxieties over socializing when everyone is by default warmer, more open and less guarded around you because you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:31 AM
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This just flies in the face of the mathew effect. Just going off my own experience it doesn't seem accurate either. Socializing is effortless when you're attractive compared to an ugly or mid dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:12 AM
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Not even sure what most men prefer, just shocked at how certain she was making such a wide claim based off absolutely nothing. Actually I'm not shocked at all tbh lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:14 PM
3

Men prefer multiple short term relationships over one LTR Quite the claim
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:54 PM
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Men seem to get attached more over time. They also don't have 100 potential replacements in their back pocket at any given moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:09 PM
1

Feel exhausted just reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:23 AM
1

Feel exhausted just reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:20 AM
6

I think there are some men who for them, it really is just sex. Then there's also men that just phrase it poorly or don't fully understand what they want themselves. It really feels like a hopeless situation at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:08 PM
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In all fairness to OP, she seems to understand it a lot better than most. But it's true women don't seem able or willing to grasp the whole picture. It honestly borderlines being funny seeing some guy pour his heart out only to be met with some variation of "women dont owe you sex sweaty" in reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:11 PM
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Ok well I think the disconnect we're having is I never said it was to be platonic. Like ever. That is entirely projection on your part. I don't want platonic affection from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:30 PM
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It's actually demonic behavior. The type of manipulation and gaslighting I'd expect to read in a layer of dantes inferno.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:27 PM
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I just listen to what men say they want from women Seems to me like you take every chance to point out how I don't actually want what I want in this thread and assume the worst in every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:23 PM
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How convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:20 PM
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Your hatred of men seems to be getting in the way of understanding really basic and easy to follow logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:09 PM
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Not sure why you think I want to force women to hug me. Really bizarre thing to come away with after reading what I've said. Have you been tested for autism? It sounds like you have trouble understanding basic communication
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:06 PM
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Touch starved is a euphemism for physical attention of a romantic/sexual nature. Thought this was obvious. Doesn't necessarily mean sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:31 PM
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This is such a weird hangup to have. You were fine with men desiring physical intimacy, but if it includes sex, you get annoyed? They're kind of inseparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:21 PM
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I love how you're using this as some kind of shameful accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:07 PM
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You’re not satisfied with hugs or massages I literally am though. I actually enjoyed cuddling more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:04 PM
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Obviously people like you will interpret it that way no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:53 PM
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I prefer the term touchstarved as it gives women less room to accuse you of being some sex obsessed freak for feeling the way you do. As for your post, the former always leads to the latter. Depression is inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:45 PM
3

The fact there's this much neuroticism and stupid rules and bullshit involved in what should be something simple tells you the game is pretty much broken. Really is no surprise dudes don't want to approach anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:37 PM
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the vast majority of men are overweight to obese and broke. The men who are in this pool are undatable. The ones who are not in this pool are undable. This made me laugh IRL. Was this a typo or are you really saying all men are undatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:31 PM
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Cope. The same trend plays out across every subreddit except askmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:25 PM
1

You're welcome I accept your apology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:30 AM
9

probably because it doesn't actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:05 AM
1

K I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:41 PM
1

sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:44 PM
2

Pointing out in detail how much harder life is for men and then concluding with some condescending platitude like "that's life" seems to be a repeating occurrence in your posts. If you're wondering why people respond negatively (tbh I think you already know) it's because it's grating and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:43 PM
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I am no MRA. I find it interesting you think men just hate women for no reason at all though despite me explicitly stating why it may appear that way. None of my comments were generalized and hateful, I was deliberate in focusing my hate on the ones who gaslight and mock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:33 PM
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You're trying to condescend, but it's simply the reality for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:01 PM
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My bad I didn't see your flair and thought you were a dude at first. The laughably naive and utterly useless advice from a male perspective makes sense now. But yes, women can get away with not attaching their self worth to desirability, men cannot for the reasons listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:53 AM
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That has nothing to do with my comment, though. Attaching your self worth to sex/desirability is not emotionally healthy. Full stop. It is certainly unhealthy. Unfortunately it is also the reality we live in. We live in a society. Even if you attempted to cope by trying to convince yourself you're fine dying alone and undesired, you're actually putting yourself in an incredibly vulnerable position at the mercy of literally anyone who lives in the real world who can just shatter your whole sad li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:39 AM
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Show me the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:09 AM
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So you think men are wrong to hate people who gaslight, mock, and downplay their issues? You go queen. You're so in the right morally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:35 AM
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I cannot blame any man for hating women who consistently gaslight, downplay their issues, and mock you for even bringing them up in the first place. If it seems like these men hate all women, it is only because so many women default to this position.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:11 AM
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cool. I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:47 PM
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Exhibit A, gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:02 PM
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Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:23 PM
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Normalized hate and beratement I can handle. The infuriating part is the mass gaslighting done to any men who point it out or acknowledge any of the struggles unique to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:15 PM
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You just blanket accused all men of being pedophiles as justification for resenting all men, so yeah I guess it was written about me, since I am a man. I get you're trying to imply I'm personally offended because I'm a pedophile, but that's on you and your failure at reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:52 PM
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Oh yeah give me more of that sweet superior female empathy! I can't get enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:28 PM
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She is here to punch down on struggling men. She has no interest in empathizing with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:23 PM
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Well that explains your position
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:09 PM
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Least abrasive gen Z woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:29 PM
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We live in a much better time where men no longer need to shoulder those burdens solo and (at least theoretically) have access to women across the class spectrum. More like men still shoulder the old burden except without any of the old benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:16 PM
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You failed to read three sentences and can't admit your own mistakes. take the L, and move on. Don't resort to shame tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:06 PM
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It's not really ad hom, I just pointed out how you failed to read the original post containing a whopping three sentences in a snarky way. Which you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:41 PM
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Nah. I specifically said success. The discomfort I’m talking about is the growing pains you have to make to be successful at the thing you want. The guys here want to be more successful with attracting women heres the original comment: So basically men whose goals don’t naturally align with what women find attractive should just make themselves suffer by building a life they don’t want so women want them? My comment comes across as bizzare and uncharitable because you have really poor reading co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:27 PM
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Nobody was arguing growing in something doesn't require pain/effort. The guys point was that if that "thing" a guy is naturally drawn to does not align with what women find attractive, he has to essentially restructure his whole personality and life to something else. I don't think this is entirely unreasonable and even worth it a lot of the time, but I also recognize it is no small task and really only falls on men. You're condescendingly dismissing it as some trivial part of growing up that ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:15 PM
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You say that as if that isn’t what everyone in life does. To an extent. You are stretching it massively while omitting the aspect of how the burden to change falls almost entirely on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:52 PM
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It's helpful to guys so they don't get their hopes up believing women act in any other way. Men are the ones who suffer the consequences for believing in these fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:25 PM
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this just isnt true for all women. it is “unattractive” women arent going to be hyper focused on looks or only wanting attractive men They are women who are a bit awkward or anxious, aren’t going to expect charming They will and do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:57 PM
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I don't think most people in abusive relationships view it as abusive, especially if its subtle emotional abuse like a woman would use. I could totally see why a guy with no options wouldn't mind being in one at least temporarily. I think being alone and unwanted your whole life is a lot more psychologically damaging than an abusive relationship. It'd also help if the guy just wanted experience, because we all know there's nothing women hate more than not having that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:09 PM
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Uhh, the way their brain works? How they think about stuff, their sense of humor, how pleasant they are to be around? Like the other dude said, it's something different for every man, but imo focusing on these things is a greater expression of love than on what their career or degree is in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:10 AM
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Yeah that's pretty obvious. I don't think even the most red/blackpilled guy expects women to resolve any of this. Especially when the solution most likely involves adjusting the scales to favor women less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:22 AM
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I think they definitely have a much higher floor than us, but until recently men had enough actual privileges over them that it balanced itself out. Today women have all the same rights and opportunities as men on top of retaining all the social support that gives them their higher floor, so from our perspective it just looks like they play on a lower difficulty. Hey, at least we don't have to deal with periods. There's also some nice things about being the invisible disposable but stronger gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:43 AM
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