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Congrats on taking the first step to completely reinventing your life. Don’t be discouraged in these early stages: you’re going to have to experiment with portion sizes, eating windows, macro breakdowns, etc. until you find something that works for you. Once you do, the weight will start to come off and you will start to feel amazing. Your body will adapt and things will get easier. But if you do mess up a day, just chalk it up as a loss and do better the next day. Don’t give up. Remember: long-…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/22 05:12 PM
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Learning the language better would be a step in the right direction. It would open doors to more possibilities (including education and training opportunities) and show your husband that you’re taking personal growth and initiative seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 07:16 AM
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Those would be the perfect birthday presents even if you were worth billions.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 05:20 PM
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Privates are freshly enlisted soldiers. They shouldn’t marry because they’re young, impetuous, and wild. Sergeants are grizzled enlisted veterans who should marry so that they have a strong feminine influence to balance out their abrasive, tough-as-nails nature. Officers have a lot of responsibility to shoulder and their careers become increasingly political the higher up the ladder they go. They need a strong and shrewd woman in their corner to help bear the weight of this responsibility and to…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 08:41 AM
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What does slow to reply mean? You take too long to formulate a response? Learning vocabulary can help in theory, but needs focus: study lists of the most common 500 verbs and their declinations, for example. But foreign language acquisition is really just about practice, practice, practice. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if he says something you don’t understand. Speak up. Just be sure to learn something new each time so you both feel like you’re making progress and try to practice things you f…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 04:13 PM
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It just hits harder. It seems more intentional Marriage is not a piece of paper or a better tax class, it’s an oath you swear to something higher than yourself. That’s what separates it from a long-term relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 08:43 AM
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You are on an absolute roll in this thread. I sincerely hope the OP takes your posts to heart, because the number of places online she’ll receive these truths - at no charge, no less - is rapidly dwindling.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 07:52 PM
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I was expecting something much worse on your part when I clicked to be honest. It might have been a bit snide and out of place to mention it right in that moment, but you raised a legitimate concern and his pity-party response was manipulative. Let’s assume everything he says is true: why isn’t he planning for contingencies? That could be through maintaining a small emergency fund or using a credit card he pays off in full every month for expenses. I suppose being low on funds could happen if he…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 06:05 AM
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She’s single because she wants (no, deserves) the top 1% of the top 1% of men and brings nothing to the table except her body. She’s abrasive, crass, insecure, and probably a big fan of shit tests. A relationship with her would be an utter nightmare. 9/10 in attractiveness is also extremely generous.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/21 10:11 PM
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My first impression is that you’re deep in your own head here. You’ve spun a complex narrative based primarily on your own interpretation of decade-old Facebook posts. You may be on the money, but you could also be wildly off the mark here and missing key details that put things into a different perspective. That’s a dangerously fine line to walk, and relationships are very complex in general. The problem is you’ve opened Pandora‘s Box and cornered yourself. If you don’t vent your feelings now, …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 11:07 AM
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I stumbled over that too, because as far as I can tell, the meaning of those terms is pretty well established. Maybe that needs to be rephrased from “meaning” to “degree” in the sense that the terms are based in truth, but the degree to which they apply varies individually.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/21 11:55 AM
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Showing him was absolutely the right move. You could gauge his reaction, his empathy to your predicament, and have a chance to discuss things with him as adults. You skipped stewing in speculation and jump straight to fact-gathering. BTW this will reflect better on you as a potential partner as well. You avoided drama by tackling the awkward situation head-on. Guys appreciate that, a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 08:07 AM
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You’re protecting your children‘s future by giving them structure, discipline and love in their daily lives. They will do infinitely better in the world than kids who did not have this upbringing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 07:11 AM
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If your husband seems happy, he is. You know him far better than anyone else on this earth. For your peace of mind, however, what you could do is ask for a moment of total honesty and vulnerability one last time: you’re still feeling guilty about how you treated him in the past, you’ve picked up on comments he’s made that give you the impression there may be some lingering pain or resentment, you’ve been working hard to make amends, and you’d like to give him a last heartfelt apology. Then drop …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 08:07 AM
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Well the geographic distance wasn’t clear from your post. That changes things obviously. Can you order him food online? Can you help with informing people about the passing? Give feedback on the arrangements? Call venues? I don’t know you, him, or the specifics to be able to give specific advice. My point is that a first mate doesn’t turn to the captain in a storm and say “I’m here if you need me”. He (or she) analyses the situation, surmises where his (her) help is needed most, and takes approp…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 09:09 PM
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His dad just died and he doesn’t even have time to mourn because he has to handle all the arrangements. Forget hobbies and books: if you like him and think you have any potential as a couple, then you better sit down immediately and think about what you can do to help. Support him and help make his burden easier to bear. This is a massive stress test for your relationship whether you want it or not. It will either destroy your relationship or solidify it immensely.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 08:30 PM
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You can’t help him, only he (with the help of trained professionals) is capable of helping himself. Your kindheartedness will only be repaid with suffering.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 09:55 AM
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When you wrote you were obese, I expected something much different than your photos. I think you would feel better, look better and have loads more confidence if you started exercising consistently and eating well. Notice I didn’t say “dieting”. You shouldn’t be doing trends or transactional lifestyle changes, i.e. I’ll diet and lose weight to attract more suitors. Instead, you should be changing your lifestyle permanently to improve your health and self-worth, to push your limits and cultivate …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 09:45 AM
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I haven’t posted in any of your threads, but I have read most of them. I think you have a lot of guts to expose yourself to new ideas. I get the impression you have had to shoulder a lot of pain and responsibility early on in life. You seem to be on an important soul-seeking journey, maybe for that reason, and I hope you find the answers you’re looking for someday. Also, you’re not ugly. I’m not just saying that to be nice. If I thought otherwise I just wouldn’t say anything at all. Maybe a litt…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 07:36 PM
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I wasn’t looking to burst your bubble with 2 and there are exceptions to the rule obviously. In any case, the best thing you can do is not contact him (pick me dance), as it’s one of the most unattractive things a potential partner can do. But don’t look at it as some kind of relationship power play. That’s not healthy. Instead you should just be using your time for valuable self-betterment activities, which can take a million different forms and varies person to person. You’re not sitting aroun…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 08:05 AM
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Example 1 could have been him fishing for the “child-like wonder” (i.e. cheerful innocence) that guys love. Instead you gave him a jaded response, as if he didn’t know everything you were telling him anyway. Example 2 is generally not a good sign. Guys who are enthusiastic and committed don’t leave their women hanging in the wind. Even if my timeline shifted unexpectedly, I’d still check in, even briefly, as a matter of courtesy and respect.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 07:06 AM
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Echoing what SunshineSundress said: ultimatums don’t work, especially after 14 years. Think of salary negotiations. What is more effective: marching into your boss’ office and demanding a raise, or presenting him with a competing offer from a different company? I do not mean cheating on him in this context, I mean having a viable alternative to your relationship, including being single again. Your only realistic option is to set off on a path of physical and mental self-improvement (a la RPW) to…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 06:33 AM
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You’ve already received a lot of good (and bad imo) advice here, but I’d like to weigh in too with some thoughts: She sounds very insecure. Needy, attention seeking women have no qualms about being shameless, so she would have no problem undermining your relationship behind your back. It’s something to be aware of, but not panic over, because turning into a jealous, nagging shrew over it will only make things worse and diminish your worth in his eyes. That being said, your boyfriend should have …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 11:06 AM
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The essence of his financial philosophy is get out of debt and stay out of it. It may be obvious, but it’s a message literally millions of people need to hear. I personally agree with it, regardless of how “cheap” money is to borrow nowadays.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 09:24 AM
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Just my perspective as an outsider looking in on your exchange: you sound like you would make a great mother. It’s obviously your choice, but you might want to revisit the topic sometime with your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 02:27 PM
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I‘m a big, big fan of total honesty, framed in a non-accusatory way. He needs to know you‘re scared now and for the future, exhausted and growing resentful. You need to let him know an abyss is growing between you and it has to be stopped, immediately. He‘s downtrodden and distressed, I get that. How he got there isn’t important. What is important is that he’s got a stressed, worried, pregnant wife. If he doesn’t have a solid, actionable plan for his current career trajectory, then he really nee…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 05:46 AM
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I don’t agree at all with the person you’re responding to. I think your assessment is absolutely correct. Your boyfriend is used to navigating a culture that is increasingly hostile towards men and masculine energy. Your RPW approach to the relationship is probably incredibly validating and uplifting in comparison. Him opening up to you about it is proof of trust and confidence in you. You know him best, so go with your gut and don’t second-guess him because of anonymous speculation on the inter…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/21 09:04 AM
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Absolutely not. I can’t speak for others, but I think I’m an average guy with stuff like this. I get kinda squeamish at surgical shows on TV, and in our case I saw the birth, the blood, the placenta, everything. But I saw my wife, teeth clenched, fighting through intense pain to bring our baby into the world, then she was there, and everything else didn’t matter. If anything, the whole process left me with a deeper appreciation for nature, because I saw her body grow and prepare itself for birth…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 11:17 AM
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My wife was concerned like you, but in the end me being there for the birth was more important. Looking back, there was so much going on, we were so tired, and the doctors were so professional that the “gory and gross stuff” never really registered. It just happened, then it was done. It’s nature, it’s natural, you’re his wife and you’re delivering his child; if he’s a good man he’s going to respect you to the moon for shouldering this pain for your family and won’t care a lick for any of the th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 08:30 AM
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Guys let their friends crash on the couch, an air matress or the floor. They don't invite them into bed with them for the night.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 07:06 PM
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You’re welcome. Keep in mind there is never a perfect time to have kids, just times when the conditions are more favorable than others. Also remember that having family nearby can be an incredibly helpful thing for young parents. I like my life in Europe, but not having family nearby is difficult at times. Also, if you’re not doing a zero-sum budget yet I would suggest you start now while you’re saving. You and your husband should account for every single euro that enters and leaves your househo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 12:40 PM
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You seem to have an answer already. Your kids would grow up culturally different and their first language won’t be yours, it’d be Danish as soon as they started pre-school. In my case, I speak both languages, but I still find it sad at times that English is inevitably relegated to the minority language. Frankly, I can’t imagine how troubling and alienating it would feel if I didn’t speak the majority language, but my child did. I think your question is less “should we” than “how do we”. In your …
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 07:43 AM
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Not an experienced woman with children, but I am an expat with a family. I know the feeling of longing for home conflicting with the more positive aspects of being an expat. My situation is a bit different since my wife is local, but it’s largely the same. There are a thousand questions in your head right now, each more pressing than the last. But the key question is: where do you want your future kids to grow up and go to school? Here or there? Closer to family or (perhaps) in a better European…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/21 10:39 AM
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If people simply ate real food again, and ate it at mealtimes again, the obesity problem, and the healthcare crisis, would be solved. This is absolutely true, and you can see it in action if you visit other countries. Germans, for example, have an abundance of carbs in their average diet (beer and bread, for example). But why doesn’t Germany have an obesity epidemic? Because the quality of food is generally much higher than in the US. Germans also tend to eat more at home, and less processed foo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 07:25 PM
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You’re not looking for advice, you’re just looking for people to indulge and enable your infantile views. Congratulations on turning 18 and figuring out the world.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/21 07:19 AM
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Give that little knucklehead a noogie and tell him you love him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 07:41 PM
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Cool wine aunt settling in for the long darkness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 06:27 PM
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Given how systematically filtered German news is, this isn’t surprising.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 09:02 AM
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Built like a bowling ball.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/20 11:49 AM
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An orderly line into a woodchipper sounds more appealing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 03:45 PM
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Fear of God doesn’t necessarily mean fear of punishment within the codified framework of a specific religion. It can also translate in a broader sense to humility, lacking arrogance, an understanding of the world that goes beyond immediate personal gratification. Religious men certainly don’t have a monopoly on those character traits.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:43 AM
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Thermonuclear redpill right here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 06:45 AM
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