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HomeHornet/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/22 04:59 AM
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You're people pleasing, or living up to someone's (maybe even your own) moral standards. I wrongly assumed she got sick after you married her. It turns out you just made the wrong choice. that changes the equation to being mr nice guy. I understand why you chose to keep your commitment, but you have to know if you can do so without self-destucting. If you can, then stay. if you can't, then you break your commitment, because it's a matter of survival.
/r/askMRP04/12/25 12:51 AM
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I'm not the exponent of this subreddit, but, dude, you're no weak man. no amount of MRP will make your wife's illness go away, nor take your guilt feelings go away. Of course you'd find someone else, but that's not really the point, is it? The point is that the reason you're not leaving is because you don't know if you'd be able to live with being a piece of shit. I can't tell you what to do, because there's no good answer and I won't moralize you. Ask God. Truly ask Him.
/r/askMRP03/12/25 05:56 AM
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it's definitely not good for him to try to replace porn with you. I know it sounds like it's much better, but his abstinence from porn should not be conditioned on sex with you. It's certainly easier, but not really addressing the compulsion he feels. He's still dependent on a dopamine hit. Of course intimacy is good for the marriage and I do think scheduled sex can be good, but it should come AFTER he has addressed his porn compulsion, not as a replacement.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/25 10:04 PM
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may I DM you?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/25 03:11 PM
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I don't think scheduled intimacy is a boundary. You are imposing/forcing something on another person. Boundaries are supposed to be what YOU will do if the other does or doesn't do something. More like a behaviour of yours that is a consequence of his actions. That being said, God do I understand you. I am also wishing for more intimacy from my wife although I am the sex addict. Whenever I suggested scheduling, she was very upset, felt like I am manipulating or cohercing her. Perhaps a boundary …
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/25 09:39 AM
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I hope you won't take offence, but it seems that you are simply more like a man in this regard. You have a strong biological drive to reproduce. Don't beat yourself up, it's nature doing its thing. However, just navigate it well, so you respect your partner. Some hot guy got you revved up? Go home and take it out on your husband/boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 04:11 AM
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Hey, I'm a complete moron too. Where the f is it? I can't find it on the computer.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:29 AM
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Ok, I'm dumb as a goat, but wtf is hotel res?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 02:10 PM
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perhaps guilt?
/r/askMRP12/09/23 05:19 AM
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I don't have an answer, really. I am a man and have these same exact question. I see it as the cornerstone, the crux of the problem with the make RP sphere. Resolving the issue of how exactly respect is earned or given is also an existential lynchpin in the female RP philosophy. It requires careful thought, debate and written work.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 06:45 AM
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How about Ryan Michler's "Sovereignty". Not a book about marriage, but about being a man. Gifting him this, with some excuse, he may not feel so defensive in reading as it's not a reaction to his relationship and anger issues.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/23 06:47 AM
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So what is the right way to bring it up?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 03:51 AM
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To be honest it's not out of love and care, I show those in other ways. Her orgasming 8s a form of validation for most men. It's confirmation that you are a good lover. I do agree with you that it's something that men should stop and think about. Maybe a drive that is worth reconsidering. The male orgasm, objectively speaking is more important - without it there are no babies.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 03:36 AM
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My wife is not red pill but she often tells me that to her it really doesn't matter if she orgasms or not and not to hold back my own until she does. (She doesn't like receiving oral). So yes, I would say she would be of similar mindset to yours. I do find that mindset actually VERY erotic. After years, I have embraced it and stopped trying to make her cum, but it's not just liberalist thinking, it is a male drive and ego boost to know the woman has orgasmed. I suspect there is some biological d…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 03:16 AM
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I don't think there is a single answer to this question. I will give you my 2 cents. Porn can, indeed, be very detrimental. I was addicted to it for a long time, and have recently completely stopped (8 months clean). It has done tremendous damage to myself and my partner. In reality, however, it has only exacerbated the addict mind behavior, and is not the root cause of the problems. It makes self esteem, sexuality issues worse, but it did not cause them, in my instance. I think there are 2 issu…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 05:40 AM
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I am a husband and obviously my ego is stroked when I read this. I don't think my wife truly embraces this and part of it is my fault, for being too demanding and self centered on sex. I have changed and continue to change. I try to let go of any desire of her being more like this or more like that. That being said, can I know how you came to the realisation that your grandmother was right? It's not something I can teach, cajole , or even suggest to my wife, but I do fear that it will be too lon…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/22 06:02 AM
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If I can be blunt, from a purely male perspective: have amazing sex with him, and compliment him, and show him how into him you are. It's not logical, it just works for men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 02:25 PM
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second best, make it direct. Will be better than no money, because he will still have a contribution to it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:35 PM
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My wife does not always orgasm, and it used to bother me; I really wanted to bring her to orgasm. Yet she repeatedly told me that she doesn’t need to, she wants me to just let go, and enjoy myself and cum, without regard of her. It took a very long time of her saying that to me and reassuring me, for me to believe it and embrace it. In fact, now I see it as a wonderful gift from her and as an act of submission and it enhances the experience for me. (I want and enjoy being mildly dominant). Perha…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 12:59 PM
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Perhaps listen to Jordan Peterson (you find plenty on youtube). He makes very powerful arguments, he’s very well informed, and these may help you in making your case with family and friends.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 05:43 AM
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I read it, yes. It's very valuable to read with your SO, if you have one. I think it's not incongruent with RP philosophy.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/21 01:34 PM
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Hello Marie - I am a male, so maybe not who you were hoping to hear from, but I live in the UK and I definitely resonate with the fact that society is leaning very hard to the left (or whatever political direction you want to name it). Media is inundated with racial issues, LGBT rights, sexuality non-conformism, etc, while the traditional values of having a strong family unit, secure home, and enabling healthy male and female dynamics are marginalized and viewed as toxic. It saddens me, and all …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 01:32 PM
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