HomelessAlan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How should I have dealt with this shit test? ' I'm checking what's the best thing to drink here, since I'm new to the place. Are you ok? You seem a bit flustered. '	/r/seduction	18/05/15 02:15 AM
1	Balance between being direct and not seeming desperate? Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head there!	/r/seduction	07/04/15 02:20 PM
1	No. I am not after sex. I just want to have some good time. Would you think it would be bad or awkward if a girl started talking out of the blue to you in any random situation? You'd probably think it was good! It is the same when you initiate with them.	/r/seduction	07/04/15 01:47 PM
1	Balance between being direct and not seeming desperate? I don't think OP means it in this way. I think he means that the act of going up to someone and either expressing interest or trying to create attraction can seem needy. It is hard to get a balance. At least I think that's what OP means.	/r/seduction	07/04/15 01:32 PM
1	Advice: On talking and being comfortable anytime. Help please? I am no expert. But sometimes in these situations, everything can be a bit tense, nobody knows where they stand, and awkwardness can be felt by quite a few people. Sometimes a quick remark about the awkwardness of the situation can diffuse it and get people instantly on your side. Rest assured, you have huge balls to go and do something like that in the first place.	/r/seduction	31/03/15 04:19 AM
1	I have a confession: Over the last 8 years I've done boot camps, studied DVD programs, read countless articles, am personal friends with the most "famous" PUA in SF, slept with a good number of beautiful women, and a shameful number of less-than-beautiful women, and rejection still TERRIFIES me Without trying to generalise because I know each case is individual, but, can you spot a trait in your workings for each time you have done well with a woman? As in, has there been something in common each time you have done well.	/r/seduction	24/03/15 03:10 AM
2	What do you guys read from /r/seduction right before heading out to a date / party / bar or club to get amped? Usually I don't read much from here before going out, but I do have some rituals. Before I go out, I stand tall with my hands out high and wide, assuming a dominant posture. I learnt this from a TED video. It makes you more confident and assured. This is biased from my perspective, but the house I usually go to pre-drink at changed their perception of me after I started doing this. It went from 'Hi mate' to 'OH He's here!'.	/r/seduction	22/03/15 08:52 PM
3	Some things I have learned in seduction. Social proof is still very prevalent, but it's not really much to do with drugs. There are loads of people doing drugs and there are loads of people that aren't. You are going to remember that guy that can get you on the guestlist for a club, that guy that chairs a popular society, that guy who runs marathons, that guy who asks questions in lectures and you know he's gunna ace that exam.	/r/seduction	19/03/15 12:23 PM
11	Some things I have learned in seduction. I'm not sure about your situation but at my university it's pretty certain that the most popular people are those who are busy with work, sport, outside of uni activities and such. There's a difference from age 18 I noticed. As you get older it becomes attractive to have your shit together, not getting high all the time. Girls go from wanting boys to wanting men.	/r/seduction	19/03/15 11:27 AM
2	Rejection after rejection takes its toll. You talked to 3 girls. That's 3 more than me this week. Did you know J.K Rowling was rejected by 11 publishers for Harry Potter before she got a yes from the 12th?	/r/seduction	18/03/15 11:11 PM
46	Some things I have learned in seduction. I think 7 is a brill point. Most of the lads I know who are good with girls have a plethora of different things they've done/achieved under their belts and it all oozes out easily, making them fun and interesting to be about. If someone thinks you've got something about you, it creates attraction.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 11:07 PM
3	I am clueless and need some guidance. Would also like to hear some advice on where to start. I am in a similar situation. I feel like I am attractive, but I feel no girls are attracted to me. It is a very weird feeling and I don't know how to shape it	/r/seduction	15/03/15 11:16 PM