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Most people do? I'm not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:15 AM
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I get your point and although you're not right it shows a reality. We live in a world that's centered on women. "Men are perverts", it's not that women have low libido. "Men are manwhores", it's not that women have low libido. Women need a different approach when it comes to sex, they need a set up and some theater which obviously translates as "men are too rude and basic". Women can focus for longer time studying and men drop off more often their studies? "Men are dumb". A tiny percent of men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:16 AM
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Why didn't they try the same as a whole 100 years before? Or 200? or 500? True oppressed groups have it harder. It's like asking the immigrants with very low wages to complain about their situation. Precisely because they're the ones that have it worst they will be the ones that will speak less about it. What can you win by complaining? Getting insulted, canceled, laughted, rejected and so on. Also for men social status is super important. Even those women who support men rights will internally …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:48 PM
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I don't think that proves a thing. Men want young women. Women want men of their age or older if they're young. Or if they're old, of their age or slightly younger. But old women don't want someone like Timmy Chalamet. Not because they are self-concious and don't want to aim too high looks wise, but just because they're less attracted to actually young guys on average. Everyone wants the best they cant get away with, may they be men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:57 PM
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I don't see how that applies to the dating market honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:52 PM
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I guess at this point it's obvious English is not my mother tongue XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:59 PM
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I get what you said, when I said the opposite I meant the equivalent word for women. Which now made me realize the word femcel doesn't really need to exist because incel should already be covering both sexes. Although in practice when someone says incel it's always referring to men, which I guess is when the word femcel was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:55 PM
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Elephants aren't clearly related to incels, misogynists and misandrists in the same way femcels are. Also misogynists is the opposite of misandrists but they didn't include the opposite of incels, guess why. No woman can die virgin unless they choose to. Which makes the whole concept impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:43 PM
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When I say they don't exist I don't mean there aren't women claiming they are femcels because as you witnessed, there are. But saying you're something and being something are different things. Yeah, usually they're just picky women and think being a femcel is not having Brad Pitt knocking your door.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:38 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:18 PM
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A consequence of not existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:53 PM
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I like how you don't mention femcels because they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:00 PM
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If living with a man, by default, is an incredibly bad deal Log off and touch grass please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:26 PM
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Yes and no. If you're a drunkard and stop drinking yes, you're becoming something you're not and you're growing. Looking for long term partners instead of casual sex isn't growing. It's just a different sexual life. In fact, changing the way you are just to please the opposite sex is the opposite of self growth. It's weakness and dependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:52 PM
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So he should become something he's not or just aim for something he doesn't want in order to have success. Sounds depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:45 AM
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So he should lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:09 PM
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They're usually ol with that as long as the guy doesn't say it's doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:56 PM
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I agree that those traits aren't the core of a healthy relationship but I think they can carry and in fact they usually carry the beginning of many relationships. And to have a relationship you need to start a relationship. It kind of reminds me to getting a job. It doesn't matter if you're qualified or not, because if you don't get it you won't get to show you're qualified (or not). And honestly even if your last phrase was very polite , I'm just a guy. I don't feel like I can represent my sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:14 PM
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Most women do though. But there aren't enough of those so they have to settle down with whatever is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:58 PM
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That's a loaded questions because: -Looks are still what matters the most. -When men complain about women's standards they don't mean asking for someone that can have a conversation but usually asking for someone pretty, strong and more articulate than them. At least in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:25 PM
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Killing someone? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:25 AM
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I don't know where are you from but at least in Spain it's pretty difficult to go to jail. You really have to fuck it up badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:22 AM
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I disagree. There are a lot of things in life that aren't fair but are better for the group. IMHO it depends on what you value the most, punishing the bad people or rewarding/not punishing the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:20 AM
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Honestly this is a good point. It feels very unfair that sacrificing men right's is a better idea than punishing crime and making justice. But justice might not be the best always. KInda unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:05 AM
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You could make the same post with feminism and MGTOW. The idea is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:54 PM
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Nah, it's not your fault that you're not attracted to people that's prettier than you but don't reach too model levels. You don't owe anything to anyone, you can be as lonely as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:24 AM
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IMHO the main problem is that they think a determinated scenario is fair but they're attracted to a different one. Therefore if you do what they say they will be happy in some way that you're ethical but they won't think about you in sexual or mating terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:59 PM
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A guy that behaves nice and is rejected and disappears isn't a "nice guy"? Is being around and keep insisting needed to qualify as a nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:51 PM
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Probably both
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:41 AM
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I'm pretty sure in 20 years most of them will be settled down with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:31 AM
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I think to complete your dissertation you should include examples of how mens inability to be selected is moralized. Also it's hard to talk about these giant groups of people. I think that for almost every men attraction is amoral while women's attraction is much more cultural and therefore it includes moral more often. But obviously looks still play the major role and not every woman (or man) is the same. Some people wouldn't ever date other people with X views (conservatives/progresista, relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:16 PM
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Same as with women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:13 PM
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Robo gf or robo bf. Due to the mathematical nature of the issue there will be as many lonely men as lonely women. This is not a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:31 AM
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The problem is that everyone will default to it and we will go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:03 AM
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I think most of them understand it but don't really care. And especially they don't stop to think how someone that is rejected often and is alone against his own will feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:57 PM
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I think it's hilarious OP is downvoting us lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:27 PM
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If you want to use chatgpt or other AI's to generate text for you, remove the long dashes ("—"). It's a very telling sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:16 PM
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I don't know a single person that thinks the birth's declining happens as a push back for misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:54 PM
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Nah, younger people do look better. What's cope is that you casually have 97 in your nickname and the age you choose to peak is casually 26. Also it's not like you're too far from your peak, so don't worry too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:55 PM
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Holy cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:46 PM
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Do you think non heterosexual relations are less one sided?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:16 PM
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I'm really sorry that you had to go through whatever you went in order to think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:00 AM
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It's the same A>B = B<A.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:44 PM
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Historically art has been made by men, which is why you think that. And obviously that has an inheritance to these days. But you would be surprised. Since most art comes from religion, there's a ton men representation in men. Also a lot of it comes from mythology. Anyway I don't even buy the basic logic of your statement, I don't think more male or female depictions would necessarily mean anything related to male/female beauty ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:06 AM
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It's difficult to compare when the relation between both sexes is codependent. Are women prettier or men are just more sexual? Are men uglier or women are just less sexual? Do heterosexual men participate in sexual activities more often than gay men? Since women are more attractive as you say, one could think heterosexual men would engage more, compared to gay men that have to deal with other men that, as you say, do not put anywhere near as much effort into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:35 PM
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If you're in the US, 3/4 of the population is overweight or directly obese. The bar is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:00 PM
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IMHO this is why it's better to talk about percentiles, it changes so much from person to person. Some people think 80% of the guys are ugly, 10% are normal and 5% are good looking. Some other think a third are ugly, a third normal and a third are pretty. Most times people disagree about looks it's because they're not even on the same frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:59 PM
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Not just from successful men but also successful relative to their physique. An ugly guy that's able to pull sometimes probably gives better advice than a handsome guy that pulls more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:48 PM
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I agree. It's a silly argument because in the end good men are good as well and they still get shit left and right. It's dismissive and trying to move the goalpost from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:07 AM
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Because lonely women's biggest problem is that they cannot find someone good enough. Lonely men's biggest problem is that they can't find anyone at all. If women want, they can get a date any day of the week. At any age. It's true that young women are prettier but that doesn't stop older women from having the same opportunities of being on the dating market as younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:37 PM
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The ideal man women prefer looks like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, but not being like that isn't a curse. One thing is what men and women prefer and another thing is what they realistically settle with. Also just to use another silly comparison: Just because pizza is your favourite food it doesn't mean you don't like pasta. You may like it less, but you can still absolutely love it. The "I hate my wife" humour isn't something you have to take literally. I love my wife but sometimes it can be fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:47 PM
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Maybe I'm the weird one but that doesn't happen in my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:09 PM
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Because girls throw worse on average than boys? Women dressing like boys can also get bashed, it's more about stereotypes. And also it's not like "men will shame you" but society as a whole does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:43 AM
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Some of those can work, depending on the person. Obviously if you're hideous it won't make you pretty, but if you're a normal person the other person wasn't even considering, these may help to put you in the game. Everything helps, but only to a certain degree. Most of the people saying the only thing that matters is physical attractiveness were either hot people that aim for the best of the best or people that have problems getting dates due to (ironically) having a weird, autistic or boring pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:07 PM
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It's part of a good advice. If you want to run a marathon and you're told to just train running, that's a bad advice. If they tell you that running a marathon is pretty hard, that it will require time and lots of training, it's better. Even if they tell you that you just need to train running (which is still vague AF). One of the biggests parts of getting over problems is acknowleding them and assessing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:02 AM
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It's valid for you to date people you think worthy. Everyone does it. This is just a political post where you defend the correct ideology is leftism. There's 0 value in your text, it adds 0 to the purple pill debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:51 AM
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I'm not sure about that one. Reddit moderation and administration is biased as fuck. It clearly leans to the left, more concretely to the woke/identity politics. Yes, there's mod abuse. Yes, you can get banned because X mods don't want to have people in their communities that aren't left activists. I got banned from /art sub and from some others. Sometimes I've been banned preventively before even participating in those communities, like /negareddit. Just as a silly example of what happened to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:54 AM
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I agree that most women are like that but it doesn't necessarily show hypocresy. Men and women are different, therefore they don't have to follow the advice they give. In the same fashion if a man says "just wait for the next guy to appear, you don't need to look for them" while he's actively looking for a partner it wouldn't be an hypocrite, just practical and honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:42 PM
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I'm married lol. Also dying in a war just because you were born male is far from crying for having no pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:05 PM
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I have two female friends. I'm married. My mother and my sister are women. Go somewhere else with your straw man fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:02 PM
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Read the first comment of this thread please. Also read again your own words: I'm in no way disagreeing that men have issues, but why do you personally want to be a victim so much? Would you tell that to a woman that says she sometimes feels invalidated avoid her feminine issues? Can't you see the difference? Sadly I don't need to frame anything. Honestly it just feels as if the OP had created an alt account only to try to proof his points.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:57 AM
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I need to hear the same as in every other topic where someone complains about something. To put a silly example: if a man says "it's pitiful that men have to go to die in the war" and a woman says "yeah, it's unfair" it's good to me. Another example that goes in the other direction could be: -It sucks that men are forced to go to war. -Breaking news: people kinda don't give a shit about each other! Or even better: Guy 1: It sucks that men are forced to go to war. Guy 2: Yeah, and it's a pity tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:45 AM
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I don't think victims want to be victims. However it does make sense to them to be acknowledged their status. It's different, and obviously I don't want to be a victim. Now, answering your question, I think it's fair to acknowledge reality as it is. What I don't understand now is why someone would go out of their way to question why someone wants reality to be acknowledged as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:21 PM
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It's funny because this is another example of men having problems and someone pretending it's not related to men but a general thing. No matter what men can't ever be seen as victims or in a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:53 PM
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Humans in general are. Damn I feel bad for women having to choose between bad relationships or being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:36 PM
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Damn, I hope that doesn't come at the cost of women being unhappy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:04 PM
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You can always blame one of the parts and be happy with it. The reality is that we live in an ecosystem where all of us interact with each other. You can't isolate a single agent from the whole equation and blame it when all the other ones act accordingly to it. It's like blaming women for being too picky. Every trait comes from adaptation, we've all evolved together to be the way we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:02 AM
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You mean in a 10 point rank system where people are distributed equally. It's a very big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:32 AM
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If you think so, good for you. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:58 PM
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You sure? Also notice how most people here are males.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:16 PM
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You guys don’t understand women and then you get mad when women give you their perspective of why shit isn’t working for you. Can't any men say the same when they give you their perspective? Switching women for men, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:18 PM
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That person doesn't wanna talk about it because she doesn't care. She wants to talk about how much women suffer and that's all. If you tell her 80% of homeless are men she tells you women suffer more because of X. Men take riskier jobs? Women suffer more. Men have a global much lower life expectancy? Women suffer more. They're so used to complaining about unfair stuff (may it be real or made up) that they don't tolerate some other people making fair complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:43 AM
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And don't forget that since you have a similar trait (your sex) now you carry part of his guilt in the collective thinking. Also, if you believe that most of those aggressions aren't really avoidable with education and other nonsense like "Mr killer, killing is bad", you will be criticized for not complaining or trying to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:37 AM
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Imho he's referring to stuff like p hacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:21 PM
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Being decent looking is hard as fuck. I've been with my wife for 10 years now and I think she's only considered a man to be handsome once or twice in all that time. I'm talking about normal people we know or see in the street. Average men are extremely rare too, definitely lower than 20%. Her friends and other women I know are the same. HOWEVER there's something about this. They are capable of dating under average men sometimes if they excel in other fields. Dunno if this experience is represent…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:21 AM
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Honestly I've always thought masking is a good thing. You need to adapt to whatever the norm is. Masking is in other words growing up, having self control, respecting other people and not doing whatever you feel just because you're more comfortable that way. I guess this can be nit-picked but that's my general idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:45 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:57 PM
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What's a CC?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:54 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:35 AM
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Social AND biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:32 PM
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Does it have more meanings?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:59 PM
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1.000.000 years back (just to say a date, but actually much further) some female hominids suffered from a series of mutations that led to them being horny to aggressive and dangerous looking male hominids. Those aggressive dudes were able to dominate most of their crews and have sex with most of the females. This made their traits expand and so on. It's not like most women rationally like bad dudes, they're just programmed like that. In the same fashion there are fat people, smokers and ignorant…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:24 AM
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I agree with you. Money is even more important than whatever they admit, so what they say they want isn't that important. Especially the older you are. There was an experiment where women and men were given a pic of someone of the opposite sex. Then those scores got compared to more blind tests where they also included the profession below the pic. When the profession was typically rich, the scores were increased quite a lot for women. Women also scored slightly higher with some rich professions…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:07 PM
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I remember reading a paper that actually said people with high capacity autism were much more sexual and had far more sexual deviations. However, they could also have a higher asexuality rate too, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:39 AM
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Not so relevant but imho this has a biological component. That makes it harder to actually internalize even if your rational mind tells you otherwise. Not that it makes it better, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:41 PM
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No one thinks being nice to women gets them wet for you lol. Not only that but in most cases it's exactly the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:58 AM
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100% this although I don't know how someone wouldn't see this as a basic rule of thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:22 AM
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It doesn't matter what people say. If they're handsome they will forgive most if not all of their negative traits, this one included. Most people don't know what they want and lie constantly (mostly unconsciously) about their wishes and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:35 PM
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It's fine then. It might be because English is not my main language but the way you worded it made me think you were generalizing more widely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:44 PM
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I mean, some do. Although the average woman doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:40 PM
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