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so nothing but fear mongering superstitions. Loyalty to a country is bullshit. You can be loyal to principles, to people. But never a country that's how you end being manipulated. so you have no reason to meaningfully assume lonely people are in away way harmful. how many of the true terrible people in the world have been hermits ? not many. most were in the public eye. lonley people are not inherently good but they are not inherently bad either. They are simply alone. to assume they are dangero…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:55 AM
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on what basis are lonely men more dangerous on what basis ? plenty of people are alienated and mistrust people and they simply wish to be alone. the stereotype of a lonely men being harmful is no more true than being ugly somehow making you evil
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:42 AM
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it doesn't sound it is. your not low status or miserable just because you're single. i thought that was the whole point of the mansphere. you don't need a woman's validation or companionship to be happy. it just feeds into the stereotype that lonely ,men are dangerous. When people here will tell they aren't. and most are not. men are not condemned to such a life just because they don't have a significant other not in theory or in pratice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:30 AM
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people should be free to choose who they want. Some people don't want partners. some people want to be alone. are patriarchies stable ? are the men who live in them even any more free than the women they oppress ? is that really life you would want ? be subservient to an authoritarian government that treats you like breeding cattle ? your system is just slavery creating more obedient worker drones. honestly your post insults men more than women. claiming their low status, resentful, violent. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:57 AM
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rights exist in societies. your welcome to go tell a judge that there are no rights in nature. but i do find it funny you went from much men give giver yer rights. to Rights don't exist. proving my exact point. Men are not the protectors of women. but their oppressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:47 AM
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it was men who fought against it. it was male legislatures who fought against it. the rights should never have been "given" nothing should have been given. they should have already been there. it shouldn't have taken thousands of years. hell most of the world's women still don't have rights. im attacking no one. it is simply the truth. most men could give less of a shit about women's interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:39 AM
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most men that i know don't help women unless something is in it for them. and that thing is..well you can guess. And do you think most men have voted in women's best interests ? do we really have to do this ? Women couldn't vote, own property, and have anatomy over their own bodies. marital rape wasn't abolished until 1993 white knight ? most women are more likely to be abused by people close to them. their boyfriends. and parents. Decentering Women would help women. they would be abused less if…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:23 AM
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A Madonna–whore complex (also called a Madonna–mistress complex) is a psychological phenomenon first observed in psychoanalysis, and later applied to feminist critique of broader society. In psychoanalysis, the complex is defined as an inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed and loving relationship.\1]) First identified by Sigmund Freud, who called it psychic impotence,\2]) it is a psychological complex) that is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas) or …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:21 AM
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edgy in what way? you think having children just for the sake of genes and "continuing the human race" whatever ever that means. Is it somehow a noble thing ? sounds despressing as fuck to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:43 AM
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if you simply said you were already avoiding them... neither i or the person above would have even said anything. im being serious you are the ideal. i wish more men just simply left women in peace instead of bothering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:18 AM
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and that's exactly why most people shouldn't be parents
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:12 AM
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yup antinatalism all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:11 AM
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then leave them alone. you don't want their company and they certainly don't want yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:07 AM
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no it is not being alone that is the problem, but the feeling of loneliness and the stress it can cause. if you don't feel that emotion you will have no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:06 AM
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i view that as a selfish and immoral thing. to give life to a sentient being for such a stupid pointless reason. subjecting them to a potential life filled with suffering. just for "genes" and "continue the species" is evil
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:04 AM
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a good parent will accept that maybe their kid isn't cut out for a romantic life. And be fine with that. all of the examples you mentioned are selfish expectations put on by the parents. framed as care. the parent wants grandkids, the parent wants the child to follow social expectations and feels sad they aren't being followed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:02 AM
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plenty of people have great partners. but that doesn't stop them from cheating on them... or still being depressed. the idea that somehow having a partner will fix you simply isn't true. your partner doesn't exist to fight your battles. only you can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:58 AM
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most men don't protect or provide for shit. you are more likely to be abused by an immediate romantic partner than a stranger. who's going to protect you from the "protector" another "protector" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:54 AM
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there is no male loneliness epidemic. Men want to have sex with women they find attractive and they aren't. acquaintances are not in short supply, neither are friends for social needs. it's about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:46 AM
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i think a mom raising her son has other things to worry about than her boy getting sex. will he stay out of poverty ? will he have a good enjoyable life ? will he be able to be mentally stable ? there are more important things to life than simply getting a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:43 AM
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i don't think it is necessarily about the lack of a father. it is more due to poverty. Single moms usually aren't that out of choice and thus are not prepared to raise a child alone or even expected to have one . And due to this they are simply going to have worse outcomes. Compared to a single father.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:04 PM
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i didn't know reddit decided the president of united states :0. im not putting women on a pedestal. serena joys will find it very quickly that the men in their life do not see them as people. im not on a soapbox voting isn't team sports. something many will learn in the following years. Leopards eating faces i guess that depends on the state now. it might take a few years but i have a feeling a lot of red state women will end up being pressured into doing things they don't want. you know what jd…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:45 PM
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if they didn't like it they shouldn't have voted for it then. maybe they should learn to read. exactly my point there is a lot of male virtue signaling. men saying they support women's issues then voting for a president who was known not to give a single shit about them. or supporting laws that will throw a woman in prison for getting a abortion. i've read the things men have said about women on this sub. i'd rather they never approach. boo fuckin whoo you have anxiety about approaching women. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:14 PM
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i don't think so to be honest. it's an ego thing. a social value thing. as long as that stays in place. but most of all it's a supply thing.Emotional vampires can't get their supply. Abusing a Robot will never really satisfy a narc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:39 PM
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they hate his tariff's. but not project 2025. what i mean by this is. Not abolishing roe v wade, Not letting women die because they can't abort. because of some red state stupid laws, Kyle Langford and his comments. the entire republican party. i don't know why every time a man tries to advocate Woman's issues they are assumed to want to get into their pants. instead of just caring about the issue. no if you left women alone in irl all these batshit crazy laws in these red states wouldn't be pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:35 PM
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the way i see men talk about women. im surprised Women even trust men at all. the direction this country is going. the things these supposed "protectors and providers" Strong men let happen. how they hurt these women they claim to love. and then they threaten loneliness and how men will leave Women for sex bots. If all men are truly like that do you think any woman with self respect would put up with this shit. i truly wish men would leave women alone. But instead they try to make their lives mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:17 PM
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your misinformed if you think because your successful you can't be lonely "I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."-Robin Williams
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:50 PM
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Men are their own worst enemy. Feminist don't even need theory. all a man has to do is open his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:46 PM
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Women already know men don't owe them commitment. To be honest I'm not sure why Women even expect it from men. you phrase it in an incorrect way. Sexual experience should be enjoyable for both parties. unless you are using sex to try keep a relationship. Which is stupid. you are wanted or not not amount of begging will change that. you also assume these men will change into men of virtue when marrying. Which isn't the case. They might cheat on their wife, abuse their wife, go chris watts on thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:43 PM
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yes themselves. some don't stop ever. Because they can't. i mean it. For some it's compulsive. they need that rush. that's the majority. im not talking about people who have casual sex then settle down. 1 im talking about people who when they do get committed cheat on their partner. because the honeymoon ended.and they need more validation a new sensation. 2 they jump for one terrible relationship to another. they may not even enjoy doing it. but it's a compulsion. Caused by some mental disorder…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:34 AM
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it's not dependent on gender. it's the personality type that is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:12 AM
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yes because you are wrong. and no doubt you have many other stats and statistics that you have either misinterpreted or don't understand. that use you to support your colorful beliefs on Women. at least your lack of intelligence can support the many reasons why women want nothing to do with men. https://zawn.substack.com/p/women-are-better-drivers-than-men https://injuryprevention.bmj.com/content/27/1/71.abstract https://www.carmag.co.za/news/data-shows-women-are-better-drivers-men/ https://news…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:13 AM
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it's the smart thing to do. it reduces the risk for domestic violence, Abuse, saves money, time, all sort of things. Dropping out of the dating market is the best thing you can do. To be honest im not sure why woman even bother with men 🤷 . all the degrading remarks, how little they think of you, not having rights, not being able to vote, not being able to own your own money, etc that's not even talking about the lobotomies for "unruly women" and housewife drug addiction. that stuff isn't even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:51 AM
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no people can be nice just to be nice. For the sake of virtue itself. the stoics, buddhists, many other philosophers as well. They aren't rare but not common either. You probably don't even hear about them often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:28 AM
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You misunderstand a "fuck boy" will destroy themselves if they live up to the imagined stereotype. no supernatural force is required. it's like a drug addict they maybe be fine now and they might be fine for a few years. But that lifestyle will collect. lack of validation leading to loneliness, diseases, Crazy bpd partners, etc the idea that Fuck boys are these super chads is naught but fabrication instead they sex addicted degenerates spawning new diseases as grandfather nurgle intended. You th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:20 AM
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it's pointless Lilith these people will never understand. Kindness is a means to an end to them. obsessive thinking, trying to cater to every whim, letting themselves be walked over. these "simp" behaviors are selfish, the more psychological term is Limerence. they don't care that their affections are not returned. That the object of affection has given signs they don't want them. They refuse to leave. they could care less. it is merely a selfish obsession. personally im not sure why this whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:14 AM
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i think your a fucking idiot. 8 billion people live on this planet just by mere sample size there will be millions of terrible people. that's just statistics. you are also an idiot for thinking it's low risk. high chance to be abusive if not outright killed. There is little to no love care or anything really. Devoted ? no they ain't. chips are down they are going to turn on each other. whatever Bonnie and clyde fantasy Hollywood put in your brain needs to go. hey in fact, if it's so easy you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:56 PM
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misery loves company. I like these quotes "The unborn are a convenient group of people to advocate for. They never make demands of you. They are morally uncomplicated. Unlike the incarcerated, addicted, or the chronically poor, they don't resent your condescension or complain that you are not politically correct. Unlike widows, they don't ask you to question patriarchy. Unlike orphans, they don't need money, education, or childcare. Unlike aliens, they don't bring all that racial, cultural, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:20 PM
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With all the things men do and say. im surprised women think men are even capable of love or any virtue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:14 AM
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they are not my enemies. i don't hate them. It's like you know those exotic animal owners that get dangerous predators as pets. or travis the chimp. seems crazy to me to put yourself in danger when you easily cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:03 AM
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i intend to stay single. I would never want to cohabit or have children. Casual relationships can get messy and end terribly. Too high risk for little reward. If i just want pleasure I'll use my hand. what surprises me is why Women still want to have relationships with men period. Pregnancy, Bad sex, Being a dependent, High risk of physical or emotional abuse, And what Most men think about Women. Im genuinely confused why any Woman still trusts men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:51 AM
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Women victims aren't treat seriously either. most police departments are just incompetent or just don't care. In some cases they may even be committing the assault. the justice system in this country isn't equal, fair, or just. And i don't know if it ever was. Imagine how much worse it was before technology. it's cliche. But people simply have to be better. If you see something say something. Don't let predators get away with it. Worse part is these monsters are often in positions of power. and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:12 AM
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if she's too apathetic to care. why would she want to continue the dynamic ? Men say they want women who chase them. But that's not usually the case. Men will lose respect if Women show too much interest or are too "clingy" so in dating it's best to appear some what disinterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:58 PM
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another "debate" post. Another post of the masculine rational society builders "providers" bitching about paying for a date, treating a woman like a human being. im sorry if men are this easy to manipulate. you should have told us. We would have gotten women rights much earlier 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:13 AM
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in a way it is misandry. It assumes men are too weak and emotional and that they can't be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:06 AM
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they don't want a man or a bear. preferably you both fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:01 AM
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not being respected has nothing to do with that. People can hate you or not even care about you and not abuse you. People can "respect" you and still fuck you over. if all it takes is a meaningless lose of a concept for them to start abusing you. it was only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:56 AM
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i just wonder how in the hell do these purple and red people come up with these claims. they make zero sense at all. they double down then rationalize. i feel like they are just joking around. but then i realize they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:49 AM
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why ? why do you have nothing ? i've seen people kill eachother ,ruin lives for "respect" why is it so important ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:43 AM
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why do men like to take credit for things other men do ? Most men are idiots it's just statistics. There are more stupid men then women. i doubt most men could build complex forms of civilization and infrastructure either. or the entire planet would be paradise. "let" Women were always in society they were never "let" in You do know that woman did backbreaking farm work right ? they still do especially in 3 world countries. They are expected to do back breaking labor. men are and still irrespons…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:41 AM
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Demand ? they had to fight for it. Couldn't vote, own a back account, Husbands words were law etc. women don't want "respect" they just don't want to be abused. What is with the Male obsession with "respect" anyway ? i've seen people kill eachother over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:45 AM
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unrelated but this "debate" posts recently are just preaching leaving zero room for actual discussion but on to your point. Women shouldn't have to constantly be afraid of hurting a man's ego. or try to center their whole lives appealing to male interests. the point of feminism was so that a woman could live her own life. focus on her dreams and aspirations. if male ego's are so fragile, That they are willing to worsen the lives of not only women but themselves out of spite. that they only do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:17 AM
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a common theme with these men, they are ugly unlikable and just unpleasant. But somehow they think they are bruce wayne. i don't really understand it. don't they complain about unrealistic dating standards constantly? how delusional we are ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:56 PM
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it was economic voting, i doubt most people even know half the policies trump wants. They just heard no more income taxes, no more taxes on tips, no more taxes on social security. Combined with pro choice. they probably don't think they will ever be in a bad position. Hardly.... any know about project 2025 if they did they also didn't read it. or take it seriously. like the one Sphere grifter a woman named Lauren Southern she tried the trad life and got a abusive husband. They never think it wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:02 PM
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your help is not needed nor wanted. Traitor ???? for wanting to help people ??? assuming you're just trolling. i would recommend that you don't raise a child. the amount of trauma and toxicity you will subject this child too... it's not right. Don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:54 AM
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it's unfortunate men's rights have been tainted by the sphere. Unfortunately most problems faced by men were created by other men. And are perpetuated by mostly men. i want a better world as well. But until men care for each other as a whole nothing will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:28 AM
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harsher sentencing is unlikely to change. judge and juror's decide that on a case by case basis. no discrimination is happening in grading and education. Men simply innate traits that make them unfit for schooling. Women are simply more agreeable and Conscientious this in turn makes them better at test taking and overall success. i dislike selective service but the truth is men can avoid service easily. or never see it. South korea is the worst of this case and needs reform. men are most likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:12 AM
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how do i know it's still happening ???? because it's still happening. Abortion bans killing women. Femicide becoming an even more pressing problems. across the globe. most of the world isn't the USA. The vast majority of women still don't have rights. in 1900-1950's nearly 60% of American lobotomy patients were women. many women in the 1950s took medication to help them cope with being a Sahm, Barbiturates: Also known as "mother's little helper, Anti-anxiety medication and antidepressants: These…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:01 AM
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what issues ? why are you afraid ? how are women destroying the ladder ? How are you getting canceled ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:54 AM
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No it's because they don't want to for whatever reason. their own reason. it's unlikely not "liking him" has anything to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:32 AM
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better together ???? most women throughout history would disagree. women were belittled hurt and all sort of other harms. Why do women have to coddle and fix men's issues ? do they have so little virtue that they can't consider the greater good due to spite ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:59 AM
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"Two Texas women died after they faced delays in getting miscarriage care because of the state’s abortion ban, ProPublica reported last week." “This is real life. Mothers have lost their lives. Their children now are growing up without their mothers because of our state’s abortion ban,” Black said. "As for the deaths in Georgia, ProPublica reported in September that Amber Thurman, 28, encountered a rare complication in 2022 after she took abortion pills but did not receive timely medical care be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:49 AM
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<image> Your final challenge.... go to a mental hospital for treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:44 AM
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in most cases i agree with the sour grape metaphor. but south korean man are fucking crazy. there are no grapes to be sour about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:39 AM
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https://www.nbcnews.com/health/womens-health/abortion-ballot-measures-reports-miscarriage-deaths-rcna178660
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:36 AM
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you are correct but that isn't the main point. Boycotting men with sex is primary keeping women safe. it's a sort of funnel into other ideas. Not getting into a relationship or having sex with a man. Due to the inability to abort and several other potential poltics that may be introduced. it is safer to avoid men. Many women have died painful death's due to abortion refusal. Republicans want women to depend on men sexually and financially. it's not about boycotting. it's about warning women to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:31 AM
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these men never talk about how amazing these women are personally. just sex that's it. the other person doesn't even exist as an individual. Any traits that express disagreement are seen as bad. They are just supposed to agree to all of hubby's sexual fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:23 AM
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Never tell a man about you previous experiences period. they might try to get you to do something you did for your previous boyfriend. That you don't want or even liked doing. feeling you owe it to them or something. weird mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:24 PM
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hey i agree many men just settle, then just cheat on their wives. very common unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:30 AM
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eh it's not really a gendered thing assuming there is no hatred there. A partner will keep you around until they find someone else. for example a man not giving a woman a ring for several years. Breaking up with her. Then marrying the next woman he's with almost instantly. A sad state of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:25 AM
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by that logic all men will aswell. they just can't yet. Cheating is a two street All men will inevitably cheat given the right circumstances. To those who say they’d never they’re either self aware and wise enough to avoid those circumstances or are simply in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:22 AM
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i said nothing about understanding. I know men want value women for sex it's all they think about. nothing else about the woman matters to them. Exactly a man would put their dick in anything. a relationship with them matters little. and means even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:56 AM
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The funny thing is man that cheat. do it with uglier woman than their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:34 AM
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is just like Jesus said Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is a man to do housework Matthew 17:13-26
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:52 PM
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you can always de improve. become a worse person develop a few addictions. live in a sewer. loudly shit yourself in front of your crush.gain 500 pounds, get heart disease. Become even more schizo. Only then if a woman is still interested. is she the one. won't have to worry about gold diggers. dunno why your complaining about baggage when you have some yourself. Might even have more than the women you're trying to date. Can't you just improve your life because you want a better life ? have some …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:01 AM
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you should be warry. Many women haven't and they have paid dearly. They are mocked for not choosing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:51 PM
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im curious as well. but still i think it's stupid women would choose to be a sahm. i can't wrap my mind around the choice. giving that much trust to a man is a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:21 PM
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unfortunately that method doesn't always work. Some men will wait and still use. it's less about actual pleasure and more about ego for men. it is sad, but most men do truly only went women for sex. it's why i recommend decentering men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:48 PM
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hypotheticals like these are stupid most men want the attractive boss babe they don't want a dependent. all that mostly matters to men is attractiveness and fertility. nothing else matters. they just don't want a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:39 PM
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women just needed to let go of wanting commitment. Unless proven otherwise assume the man just wants you for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:10 PM
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What in the fuck is this schizo post ? Are we just coming up with weird imagery scenarios ? did i accidentally find myself on a role playing sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:52 PM
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Most men are unable to get frequent casual sex. and refuse to pay for it due to pride. So what do they do. Get in some sort of relationship. it's the only way they think they can get sex. It's not because they love the woman, or care about her. it's because they have no options. A man is only as loyal as his options. And a man with many options is not very loyal most of the time. So for many men relationship rhetoric is intertwined. if they could get sex without relationships they would do it wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:08 PM
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Being pro life doesn't mean being procare. as the late George Carlin said “Boy, these conservatives are really something, aren't they? They're all in favor of the unborn. They will do anything for the unborn. But once you're born, you're on your own. Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. After that, they don't want to know about you. They don't want to hear from you. No nothing. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch, no food st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:53 PM
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Man should like to be wanted not needed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:18 AM
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no. several reasons. the vast majority of men will never make that kind of money. Someone who makes that money probably Doesn't want to spend it on a stay at home partner. also a matter of trust. You do not want to give a man that kind of power over you. You do not want to be at the financial mercy of a man. At worst you could be made destitute. At best it will be constantly brought up whenever the man wants something or if he's angry at you. "i pay for this and this" ect. Don't center your life…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:51 AM
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It's more of not knowing if he is. uncertainty. and if your dating someone. you really don't want take that gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:27 AM
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im not supportive i want nothing to do with a person who may or may not have committed a crime. Innocent or guilty ruling makes no difference. if i cannot be 100% sure. Im not taking that risk. it's a very big risk. in the eyes of the law innocent until proven guilty. my personal discretion i want nothing to do with that person. i wish them well. But i will avoid them. unless it can be proved without a shadow of a doubt they are not guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:24 AM
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i can choose not to interact with whoever i wish for whatever reason. this says nothing bad about the person. just because i want nothing to do with someone doesn't mean i disdain them. i value my own safety and welfare much more, than baseless trust
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:11 AM
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im not condemning anyone. i wish no ill will, i have no disdain. i simply choose not to interact with someone who is being accused of a crime. Choosing to engage with a potential criminal whose innocence is not yet determined, or in question. is not a good idea. and could end badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:03 AM
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im all for innocent until proven guilty. But on a personal level im not going to give the benefit of the doubt. just because, im just not. especially for a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:56 AM
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Date ends, and i never see the person again. Bringing up something like that. First date, out of the blue ? i dunno seems fishy. I would not want to hire private investigators to get on the case. Alot of predators escape punishment due to lack of proper evidence. or corrupt judges. I would avoid anyone suspected of a crime or found guilty. Don't want that in my life. Unless it's 100% Innocent and i have good reasons to believe that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:47 AM
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they don't care about those men anyway it's just an attempted gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:29 AM
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you don't want men getting ideas. they might think they you owe them something. You should always pay for your own date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:27 AM
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its simple they want to be view as heroes, protectors, providers. but not actually do the actions that would make them these things. Men being all these great heroes is naught but fabrication.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:18 AM
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ukrainian men are unable to leave. i doubt most want to fight or even care to. Women can view men as repulsive all they want. Some might say they have a right too. They can also have any sort of relationships they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:11 AM
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you incorrectly assumed his ideology would make any sense. common for prominent male posters in this sub. pure schizophrenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:38 PM
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that joke went over your head. you are influenced by how you look. just like every other external factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:35 PM
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The women are probably getting pool boy action on the side. these particular women like the lifestyle not the man. they still want beauty but not from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:34 PM
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of course it doesn't 🤭 no correlation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:29 PM
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women are attracted to beauty 😱 men are too 😱 i think the whole men are horny animals and want to spread their seed is a tiny bit. what's the term men on this sub like to use ? misandrist. but hey it's another reason for women to stay single. the decenter men crowd wins again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:28 PM
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just because your not attractive doesn't make you good. who abuses women the most ? average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:44 PM
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men already can't please women. physically or emotionally. so they should lower their standards and give power to men they don't want to be with because ??? no they aren't like those men. they just wanted sex or a relationship. usually with clear intentions no manipulation. those evil women choosing the partner they want. the horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:54 PM
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no philosophy is not about just reading. its about applying ethics to life. like how stoics live a life of virtue. how utilitarians maximize happiness, how epicureans enjoy life. Philosophy is how you structure and live your life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:30 PM
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i never said that. they don't have the experience. they haven't proved themselves. unless they are a prodigy without equal. they haven't done anything, i dont know if they are good or bad, they haven't built up a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:28 PM
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because it does. we don't let a 19 year old become president. or a general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:11 PM
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It's funny how these men make their own arguments against themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:04 PM
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if your attractive you'll be treated better unfortunately. the paper you linked is gibbish from 1918. Everyone is treated horribly there are no double standards in that matter. Men insist on being the way they are. they enforce it on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:01 PM
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being a better partner. more well rounded. more stable. has their life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:52 PM
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in theory yes in practice no. i will trust a master over an apprentice on most things. unles proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:51 PM
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i agree the facts don't care about your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:49 PM
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paying taxes is a part of society, your taxes will go to people that aren't related to you. that's the whole point of government to protect. at least in theory all citizens equally. i have no problems with taxes going to people who need them. I don't need someone to be related to me. for me to care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:48 PM
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no one has ever made a claim they want to date a copy. just that they want to have common interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:44 PM
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there is no intentionally vagueness. the older you live the more you will experience jobs relationships, hobbies, etc you are a different person than you were at 20 30 40 etc. you will know more about yourself and others hopefully. it's like being a freshman versus a senior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:43 PM
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no they won't and they should according to you "You can't have everything in common with a man or else it'd be boring/cringe, people actually need to challenge each other in some fashion, introduce each other to new things, have original stories and ideas and thoughts in order to be interesting and have healthy relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:38 PM
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philosophy, poltics, really important stuff that young people don't have strong grasps for. Daily life it's like a millionaire trying to understand a homeless person. both parties have a hard time understanding eachother. important relationship boundaries and requirements that a younger person may not grasp. nearly everything it's hard not to vague because of all the issues that can arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:36 PM
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they are. like how Henry cavill dated a young adult and then broke up with her. The life experience gap is too large.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:31 PM
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what is the obsession with age gap relationships ? you can't relate with young adults at all in no way. you will have nothing to talk about. Thank you for finally saying the quiet out loud. the real reason these age gaps exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:28 PM
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i have a feeling they will be batshit insane
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:13 PM
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if he gives points they will be delusional stupid angry points that make zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:10 PM
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how are you oppressed ? how are women more privileged ? why do men have to "stop" being nice what does that entail ? at least explain your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:07 PM
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wouldn't have a child that takes out the selfish requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:02 PM
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excuse me that should be an automatic divorce no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:12 AM
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no the man has to be a positive in her life not a negative. they don't need to be amazing at everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:24 PM
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yes i understand people "settle" with people they hate and don't like because they are afraid of being alone. getting in a relationship because you love and like someone is different from "the best deal they can realistically get" " good enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:23 PM
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not for me i would rather be alone then be with someone who thinks so little of me. implicitly or otherwise. i guess people need higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:12 PM
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nobody in a relationship wants to be told they were good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:06 PM
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no it doesn't if a relationship is bad you should leave. i don't think these women care. you do but they don't. they will be happier and freer chasing butterflies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:53 PM
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if you feel insulted that's on you on your ego. no it doesn't you can leave for whatever reason you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:51 PM
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why ?? i wouldn't punish someone from wanting to leave me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:37 PM
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and that's fine why would you be in a relationship with someone you don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:35 PM
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I'm missing no context she paid for her drink and didn't want you to. wasn't interested in you. Most men should be happy. that a woman would be paying 100% of their expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:33 PM
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lots of women do fall for relying on a man for money. when they get more of it what's the point of staying in a relationship they don't want. doesn't matter if they exist. if a party wants out they can. doesn't matter if the other person doesn't want the breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:30 PM
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you have to be a net improvement to a person's life. in order to be with them. otherwise what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:26 PM
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you don't have to justify a breakup you just leave. Good on women for not letting themselves rot in terrible relationships. What lack of accountability ? if a party wants out of a relationship they should be allowed to leave. Getting out of a bad relationship is good. staying in one out of duty or because its forced is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:25 PM
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if she wants to pay for it that's fine doesn't seem like problem to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:19 PM
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they owe you nothing it's just a date to get to know each other. you can't really ghost people on a 1st 2 or 3rd date. she just wasn't interested. no they don't want men to get the impression that just because you spent money means you get something from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:17 PM
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people are shallow just the way it is. being a good person is expected. it's not brought up because its supposed to be the standard. i do agree sometimes it's not meant to be. not everyone is going to get a relationship. the sooner this is expected. the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:12 PM
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no she just wants to pay for her own stuff. that's a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:09 PM
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you knew it was over because she wanted to pay for her own tea ? how exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:06 PM
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no mutualistic breakups aren't needed. any party can leave at any time you don't need consent. If a partner doesn't make you happy they are probably making you miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:02 PM
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men want to pay. they only hate when doesn't get them a ticket to bed. Claiming how they were used. Quite simply, some men try to use the fact that they spent money means they are entitled to attention or sex. Which is why you never go 50/50 or 100/0 you go 100 so they don't get the wrong impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:53 PM
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slob, neurodivergent, has political views that may not be liked. Red flags can be small or big things that make a relationship not worth being in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:43 PM
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what do you mean by this statement ? im not understanding "treat differently"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:28 PM
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it is forced you can't get unmarried you aren't allowed. Who cares about showing more commitment. Just be committed to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:06 AM
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why is this super Marriage not allow divorce in the first place It's a terrible idea and impossible to enforce. so what you get a tax break
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:52 AM
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absolutely delusional. can't divorce. 00.4 % tax break you must be trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:37 AM
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unfortunately in dating mental illnesses have become common. particularly in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:26 PM
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you are not entitled to affection, relationships, or sex they are not needs. if a relationship isn't meeting your standards or isn't being a net positive. Yes you should leave. no double standards in this context "have needs", simply means seeking a better relationship that satisfies you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:22 PM
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Died of hypertension. was a degenerate hypocritical griffter. mocked bbw women but died in the arms of one. the "godfather" is already forgotten and replaced with other griffters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:10 AM
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just due to being most of the population average people are mostly likely to use you for sex. it's just pure numbers. "commit" is a strong word. they simply don't have many options. it's not that they are loyal it's just that they can't cheat. they just can't. While if an attractive man commits truly. that's because they truly made a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:58 AM
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quite simple really. like women, men marry attractive and ignore red flags. Besides most men don't respect femininity. they look down on it. some cases the men were deceived. the mask of niceness came off. like a Venus fly trap closing shut. Some abusers can hide their true nature for several years. but the mask eventually comes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:52 AM
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bold to assume just because your not attractive that other not attractive people won't use you for sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:45 AM
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if you are struggling for options what makes you think you can spin plates ?? what makes you even think a woman would even want to commit to you ? or even be in your presence ? a rad fem said it best. God please give me the confidence of a mediocre white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:43 AM
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yup they want what is it called "bangmaid' i believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:03 AM
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yeah ??? you consider that hateful, dehumanizing and spiteful ??? not sure how my statement exudes any of these things. just the fact men who want "submissive" women, don't want a woman with a backbone. i've seen it. it's like how husbands who don't do shit complain that their wife is "nagging them" when in reality they just want them to do some domestic duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:43 PM
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"I like women who are respectful and submissive” i've seen this rhetoric before. i know what men mean when they say this. been pleasant and nice to be around, It doesn't equal submissive "I like women who are innocent and young at heart." these traits submissiveness, agreeableness, and naivety are all ideal for controlling the person. "I really cannot believe men still want to even date women at all when they are so openly hateful like this. Pussy over self I suppose." i don't understand why wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:22 PM
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Being assertive can be aggressive. most men don't make that kind of discernment anyway. they are considered one in the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:40 PM
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yes men have stated several times they prefer "submissiveness" and obedience. it's not that these women are negative. it's that they aren't doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:33 PM
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what's the difference between the player and guy obsessed with legacy ? they both do it for their own gratification. both use people for their own desires. only difference is the legacy and "bloodline" people are terrified of death and being forgotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:47 AM
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people aren't slaves to a society. their existence is not defined by being a resource. other people and their relationships are not my concern and none of my business. If men are such beasts unable to control their emotions. perhaps the 4b movement is the way forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:33 AM
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debate forum 😂 this aint no debate forum. it's just reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:06 AM
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i aint reading whatever slop you posted. have whatever stands you want. simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:57 AM
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I don't want kids, don't want to settle for " good enough" many women have made that choice and regret it for the rest of their lives. or until the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:55 AM
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yap yap yap have whatever standards you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:53 AM
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yes i do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:58 AM
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you put too much of your worth and identity on relationships. that is your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:57 AM
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relationships and sex are not needs. wanted but not required. no i expect the person to accept their situation. find other ways of joy, and find meaning. not spend the rest of life living in envy and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:56 AM
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the world is not just. you shouldn't care why do you compare yourself to trash ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:54 AM
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yes that is unfortunate abusers do seek out agreeable victims
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:53 AM
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just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to aswell. you have the capacity to reason. use philosophy. don't go around comparing yourself to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:52 AM
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that's the problem men have. it's not that they love the women. it's that their ego gets hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:48 AM
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abusive, terrible to be around, violent, an addict
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:43 AM
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if men want to do that they should have the option available.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:42 AM
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i don't think it's ridiculous at all. or a hard thing. Many people just can't let go of ego. need for approval, validation, etc it's just selfishness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:41 AM
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sex havers ??? i see your fucking with me i am showing grace and maturity. if you have unrequited love you move on. it's unfortunate but that's just how it goes. infatuation is one sided and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:39 AM
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if you don't have a relationship based on respect and mutual appreciation. you have no relationship of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:36 AM
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some people deserve to be alone. Sometimes nothing is wrong with you. you can make no mistakes and still "lose". loneliness and feeling lonely would be less of a problem, if people were content with themselves. and not looking to others for happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:34 AM
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he should respect their friendship and accept rejection. not immediately try to get with her after he divorced. he never truly cared about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:29 AM
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giving men empathy, words of validation. and affirmation is stupid and a waste of time. it's not a women's job to give you these external things. They can only come from your own mind. especially Random women going about their day. unless you are romantic with them. Women aren't emotional sponges for men. it is never enough for these men they are like emotional vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:27 AM
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the best term is unrequited love. I mostly agree. Men confuse lust and one sided feelings with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:21 AM
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i would just leave the relationship. or if that can't happen never have sex with that man again. and ignore him as much as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:17 PM
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having kids is selfish not procreating is a moral good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:44 AM
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did op make the claim you are stating ? all that was said is men are dangerous. Women are victim blamed and called liars all the time too and also aren't believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:49 AM
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you said manipulation. if someone doesn't want to do what i want that's fine, and their choice. they are free individuals they make their own choices. if i want something i ask, pay someone else to do it, or do it myself. i don't need to influence anyone. i have no desire to control another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:30 AM
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ah well im not a sociopath that wants to control people. so i guess i could never understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:21 AM
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whoever structures their life around male approval when making decisions is stupid. who gives a fuck what random men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:16 AM
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when they get a tattoo they do it because they want to. Not to appease men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:06 AM
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i have no idea why rp men are so obsessed with the gym. i genuinely don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:54 AM
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just break your feet for male approval. most people don't like steroid gymrats. muscles meaning nothing. it's about being attractive. your genetics are out of your control it's random chance if you look good or not. it's delusional to center your life around male approval. or depend on them in anyway. you set yourself up for bad outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:52 AM
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i don't know who said it but the metaphor was trapping a free bird in a cage. they want control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:46 AM
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it means.... no matter what pearl does to appease her male audience. it will never be enough. the ideology does not think highly of women nor respect them. at best she is tolerated, at worst she is loathed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:42 AM
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women don't like pearl for being a pick me and grifter. men don't like pearl because she's a woman. not much she can do about that. correct, it is tiring to constantly be thinking about how to appeal to the male gaze. it''s a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:30 AM
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good, most women still don't want that kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:44 AM
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so you want all the perks of a relationship but without commitment. nothing wrong with that. But most women don't want situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:34 AM
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exactly that's why i tell women to avoid taking men seriously. or having kids with them. or depending on them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:34 AM
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it's what usually happens. time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:57 AM
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unlikely, most men don't have the looks. there are many Reddit cases of a man opening up his marriage. then getting nothing, infact they get jealous of the woman. the idea that women being interested in an older man, are delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:28 AM
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no i just think it's very unlikely. Henry cavill dumped his 19 year old girlfriend, leo dicaprio dumps women when they hit 25. there are other examples. no doubt. Men who intentionally go for large age gaps aren't looking for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:20 AM
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i don't really care for dating. not important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:16 AM
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these age gape relationships are very transactional. Both parties either know what they want from each other. Or the man is going after a naive inexperienced young adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:08 AM
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they don't. it's more of a way to attempt to get money. These women know these men will cheat on them eventually and trade up as they say. But in the mean time. attempts will be made to get everything out of the relationship. i think it's a waste of time. As is dating most men. without clean conditions set.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:01 AM
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you can observe other people or just outright avoid romantic relationships. being ducks in a row person is more valuable than any sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:57 AM
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what happens happens. personally having more money is more comforting than any relationship. you can but i wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:55 AM
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stable finances and no serious mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:36 AM
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good most parents are bad at their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:42 AM
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depends on the person 25-35 is the usual age range
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:04 AM
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????? no it's a rational one. if you're in poverty or don't have your fiances in order. you have much more important things to worry about. than any sort of relationship. you should not date unless you are already stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:44 AM
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nothing is guaranteed in life. But there are preventive steps to avoid bad outcomes. being stable is an inherit good. Should we aspire to be sick ? so that no Virus would want us ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:32 AM
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inherently of course not. but if you want a stable and healthy relationship. it's best to have your ducks in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:25 AM
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you should have your life in order before you do any dating. making sure you can afford housing costs. just get a roommate if you want to split rent. Most people rent everything, they will never truly own anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:04 AM
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celibacy is fine noble to some even. have as much casual sex as you want. i don't care. i am entirely apathetic to the "Gender war" it's a non issue i am only concerned with the republican party going after women's right's. yes. you are being woe and angst. it's common in this general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:14 AM
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you shouldn't settle. nobody wants to be settled for. women help women. sometimes. a foreign concept to most men. i have no need to be mr right people can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:17 AM
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what's with all the men whining today. men aren't loyal in their heart, they're going to dump you as soon as they can find someone better. Especially when you are at you weakest or darkest time. men don't give a shit about you, they only care about what you can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:13 AM
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attractiveness is the most important. i guess you can be a ugly rich guy attracting the gold company. but i don't think men want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:31 AM
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you must not be looking then. no i haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:30 AM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:29 AM
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okay im taking off the velvet gloves. these women are attracted to these men because they are physically attractive. the status is meaningless or a non factor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:25 AM
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just because he could throw a football ? i wonder maybe it had something to do with his facial structure. 🤔 No it must be the football skills
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:23 AM
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status isn't the factor attractiveness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:19 AM
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very few people like the simple life. not a gendered thing. you think, these women. like these men, because of status ? or because of a another important factor. that if not present would uhhh......
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:12 AM
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i have no issue with casual sex. i don't think it has any effect on any person's value. or is problematic. people can do whatever they want. i just find, the red pill body count stands to be very. contradicting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:08 AM
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some people competently change. sometimes overnight. Doesn't happen often. but it does. i also don't think sex is the central focus in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:02 AM
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no. unless it indicates some red flag. some people just save themselves for committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:58 AM
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i think a lot of women would be happy with being a man's first. women don't salivate at high numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:48 AM
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men can wan't a "virgin" but they will never get one. and will complain how they don't want to fuck him. "Women find it attractive when their partner is competent and capable and is able to protect, provide, and support her with resources in the event of pregnancy and child rearing." are men not competent and capable ? aren't you supposed to want to protect and care for your family ? isn't this the standard ? "Men find it attractive when their partner is loyal to them and only them, and that phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:38 AM
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every redpiller is trying to gift each other it's what the community was founded on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:31 AM
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"women were not treated like slaves", yes they were. forced against their will to do whatever the male figure in life told them to do. fuck Christian morals, no hate like Christs "love " "women would give up a fraction of their autonomy, in exchange for being freed for a proportionate fraction of their responsibility" did they have a choice in this matter. no "Women were protected from the horrors of the front lines and freed from laboring to provide", you think women just did nothing all day ? …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:26 AM
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no, it's bad period. because the time with the kids and at home. another job could have been taken, expenses could have been reduced etc, if you already have a bad income relying on a man is even worse. besides most couples both work anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:17 AM
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redpilled women want nothing to do with men. Do you really think a woman that understands. Would even want to deal with men at all? why waste effort chasing ? You can support yourself just fine without catering to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:15 AM
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well that's a bad deal for the woman most of the time. relying on another person for money is not wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:59 AM
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the most reasonable thing would be for both parties to have their own separate assets. the concept of getting divorce money to me as a concept most of the time makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:28 AM
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i agree people are terrible in general lots of people should avoid and not be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:18 AM
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no there are plenty of single happy people, you don't need a relationship to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:29 PM
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just don't get a boyfriend, married, or pregnant by a man. that's a woman's best protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:40 PM
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explain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:55 PM
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most people shouldn't be in relationships, most people shouldn't have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:02 PM
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what the fuck are you on about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:33 PM
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you are moving around what you said. "But if I want sex AND DON'T give a shit about whether the the woman actually wants sex with me" is the mindset of a rapist is completely different from not being 100% into it. that the man will stop if she says no and cares about her well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:06 PM
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you should care if a woman doesn't want to have sex with you. you don't do it. there is no lose lose. situation. you just don't do it. "But if I want sex AND DON'T give a shit about whether the the woman actually wants sex", there's no way to spin this as not rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:02 PM
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"But if I want sex AND DON'T give a shit about whether the the woman actually wants sex with me", if the women doesn't want to have sex with you and don't "give a shit at" about what she thinks and you still do it. At worst it's rape. At best. it's manipulation. no no having unenthusiastic sex isn't but what you said did not mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:58 PM
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wtf the second is actual rape. that's it's definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:45 PM
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the outlier proves the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:40 PM
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they are almost proud how little they can control themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:09 PM
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These spheres don't have a consistent framework. or beliefs. they agree on a few things at most. the people in these groups are bitter and angry men. either very young or very old. they share nothing in common but hatred. Aspd, schizoid personality disorders. variety of cluster A personality disorders, cluster C, and cluster b. these are the types in these groups. when they aren't attacking women. they eat each other. try to sell scam courses, books programs etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:02 PM
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it's not just a women problem. it's a validation problem. They also seek the approval of men too. even if it destroys them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:54 PM
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im a uggo that's why. taking faceless photos and videos, with a fake stage name. is standard protocol or should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:31 AM
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you can have a real job and do onlyfans. it's what most people do. infact a nurse did it so she could pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:01 AM
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im not upset. i find it funny that showing nudity online for money is even talked about as an issue. or some how, seen as damaging. it confuses me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:54 AM
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im not dating, i have no desire for a man, i have zero desire for a relationship. they can want whatever they want. i just think its silly people care so much about nude photos and that somehow it's a " risky" behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:45 AM
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you can be unattractive and have a bad personality. i don't expect an Onlyfan subscriber to like the content creator as a person. it's a business relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:40 AM
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im not crying at all. i just don't understand why people care so much. i care very little about male respect and don't center my life around it. more women should be like that. if women didn't like naked nudes online, there wouldn't be such a market.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:38 AM
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im not on such media. I like to keep private and personal separate. i've seen the average man in person. most are not. well..... who cares. if you do sex work, you do sex work i don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:35 AM
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i find it stupid to consider posting nude pictures online to be risky at all. Nobody should even care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:33 AM
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not as much as those models. you have to appeal to certain fetishes. that one might consider, unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:32 AM
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most people prefer universal traits. That doesn't mean someone won't find you attractive. but im too average so i don't appeal to either parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:30 AM
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if your attractive and start such an account and get lucky you could make alot of money. or enough to not live paycheck to paycheck. At that point why would you care about male approval ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:25 AM
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im not attractive so no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:17 AM
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how is posting on onlyfans risky ? your just posting pictures. Men sabotage each other fairly frequently too, they destroy their options as well. should other men not trust each other aswell ? you don't think men do stupid stuff just to fit in ? i think most men want other men's approval than most women do. if you live your life centering a relationship as the most important thing in your life and neglect everything else. you will be like as zeno said "A dog tethered to a moving cart can either …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:13 AM
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matriarchies have really only existed in small tribes remote tribes. it would be hard to prove the positives or negatives of such a system. i don't want any gender dominating the other. Men are also exploited in the patriarchy they aren't seen as human beings but human doings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:05 AM
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i've seen more men then women mock men. alot more. what gender roles can most men today live up to ? Women either out earn or have the same income as men. and who sent these men into pointless wars ? not try to improve their conditions ? the ruling men. women are just as disposable and not valued they are thrown away just as fast. when they are no longer of use. no it's an oligarchy. the ruling class values and goals are center most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:53 AM
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patriarchy doesn't take most men seriously either. in that worldview you are considered weak and complaining is not seen as manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:38 AM
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in some cases women have to do more to be taken seriously, hired just so the person above thinks they won't have anyone coming for their job, Abused and assaulted, blacklisted if they don't comply. example activision blizzard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:30 AM
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what ??? it is not loaded with extra baggage that is what it has meant and how it has worked, and still works in countries like saudi arabia. etc you have seen how these countries treat women correct ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:05 AM
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i believe you may have a different definition regarding the Patriarchy. when i see Patriarchy refer to, it is not simply men leading. but the dehumanization and exploitation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:41 AM
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to be honest i would rather just be alone. Survey's in terms of data mean little. you need what people actually do. not what they say. men hate men,men are jealous. men are always looking a better deal. If dating as shown me one thing, it's that men want what other men have and will step over another man to get it. these men can simply just not cheat with these women. but they choose otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:47 PM
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yeah they didn't give birth to men, did manual labor, nurse men, etc they just did nothing 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:40 PM
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indirectly ??? everyone benefits from basic infrastructure ? so ? men were paid to do a job and they did it. Not really a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:23 PM
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it's a shame men have no standards and hate themselves. it's good to have standards even if you won't have them met. Better to be alone then miserable. something men need to do more of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:14 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:05 PM
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the second amendment is a great equalizer. Men didn't build "society" for women. they did it for themselves. Most of these men who "built it" didn't have a choice due them being literal slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:56 PM
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it's true the only opinion that matters is who your dating. i wish women had higher standards they should throw more men into the trash. head first
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:43 PM
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it's just projection it's like when men claim women have "dick envy" when in reality it seems men have pussy envy 😂 constantly talking about women, what their standards should be, how much easier everything is for them etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:00 PM
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no agency ? do you not know how to control yourself ? wtf does courtesy in dating mean to you anyway ? the bear pill again, you know it would go anyway if you didn't mention it every other fuckin day. for the other claim where have women said that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:37 PM
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shit i guess so, if she was trad she wouldn't go near these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:07 AM
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oh who gives a fuck i don't need or want that money. good, these men can get fleeced by foreign women instead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:03 AM
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they aren't pick me's trying to gain men's approval. you know these other women want nothing to do with these passport bro's right ? why would a "traditional" women from overseas date or marry a foreigner ? good check out stay away you won't be missed. sometimes the trash takes itself out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:01 AM
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most men are broke. or have the same income as the woman. if i wanted someone to take care of financial burden i'd just get a room mate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:57 AM
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no south koreans do this and they scare the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:54 AM
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this sounds awfully like a bait post. but yes plenty of men don't want commitment, very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:48 AM
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i have enough experience that women are people like men. they can be good or bad. people as a whole are usually selfish, but some people are mostly good and caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:32 AM
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the only opinion that matters is the person you want to date. Who cares what strangers on Reddit think , going on rants "what you can offer" 🤦 who gives a fuck ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:26 AM
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isn't it a common point in the pilled sphere not to be a i believe "emotional tampon" for women ? yes most men don't date for love, They date for validation, sex, and to offload the housework off to a woman. They want a roomate they can bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:12 AM
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not the analogy itself. But yes most men are non compatible or undesirable or undateable men. for a whole bucket list of reasons. You can win, just de center men, don't make them the focus of your life. learn to be happy single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:44 PM
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ain't worth the effort. most men don't have money worth taking. Most people are one paycheck away from being homeless anyway. losing a dual income will probably put the man out anyway. why waste your own money and time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:14 PM
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no they wouldn't, bears are prolific scavengers they want nothing to do with humans. 99% time they will actively try to avoid you. you have no idea what a strange man in the middle of the woods alone could try to do. this discourse is only taking place because men are too emotional. All that had to be said was. " i understand your not comfortable with men and think bears are safer, i disagree with your generalization, but understand why you would feel this way",
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:01 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:51 PM
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they won't shut up about it, cry and complain nearly every week, the topic is brought up by men. saying how women are dehumanizing them. etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:51 PM
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i don't want the bear or man. Bear's don't attack people even at all most of the time. Still i won't tempt fate. bear discourse has shown us men don't care about statistics. men care about feeling. i'll hear this topic from men for 10 more years atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:18 PM
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i wanna know too. never heard this one before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:12 PM
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yes i know. Men will hate women for the exact same things, they claim women do. using starter girlfriends, never intending to commit, using her as a bangmaid until the "one" comes along. settling because they don't want to be lonely, having kids because they want meaning in their lives, neglecting or abusing the kids when they aren't just minime's etc i agree, shouldn't it be more obvious to women by now that men care about women can give them. Some cases the man only gets with the women to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:08 PM
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why should people stay in bad relationships ? isn't it better to for both parties to go their own way ? the rate also includes women who divorced more than once. women initiate because the men won't. someone has to fill out the paper work. when you are more educated and money secure it's alot easier to leave. divorce profitable ? unless they are divorcing 50 cent, they will get very little money. the men they are divorcing are lower middle class. the amount of effort to divorce a man of his mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:20 AM
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they won't find one. it's statistically unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:13 AM
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some women want long term relationships, alot of men want the benefits of commitment, but none of the downsides. i believe the term is a "bangmaid"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:05 AM
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commitment, the men just want fwb. The women want commitment and protections encase the man decides to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:50 AM
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men have never really wanted to help out of the kindness in their hearts. it was always self motivated. if you depend on a man to come to your aid.... with all due respect your cooked. You need to be able to defend yourself and practice your second amendment. it's good, less men interact, less problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:44 AM
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makes no sense to me. People should know by now how much effort, time, and money is needed to ensure, a child's has a bright future.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:38 AM
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the guidance and resources required to raise a functional adult is something most Parents just don't have.They don't have the time either. both parents will be working 9 to 5 or longer. for what a 40-60k per year salary, maybe more if they are lucky. professionals and other parties will be the main influence on the child's life.just by being more present. the money required to support children is just too much for the average person. it boggles my mind why most people still choose to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:31 AM
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in sense that i can't be a total hermit living in the woods ? like i would want yeah. besides that im a self sufficient adult
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:23 PM
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first i'd need a land permit and government permission, need lots of money to sustain myself in the millions. have to fight off suits who might want the land etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:16 PM
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if i could be completely self sufficient hermit i would. unfortunate im not that rich. yeah men need to live in houses, built by other men too, they also need to buy stuff from other men, rely on electricity from other men, they are very ungrateful too, other men. absolutely spoiled brats 😱 they wouldn't be able to survive these men. yeah most men they could totally survive "on their own"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:50 PM
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"Meanwhile, she added, women who dislike men 'neither kill nor injure anyone, nor prevent them from dressing the way they wish, from walking in the street at night, or from expressing themselves as they see fit.' 'At no time does the author incite violence,' she added." "imagine a new way of being, to take less account of the often unsupported opinions of men, to consider the adage "it is better to be alone than in bad company£ seriously, and to rediscover the strength of female relationships fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:43 PM
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who are these author's ? im legitimately curious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:22 PM
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if it were up to me i would build everything i need myself. Wouldn't ever have to hear men complain like this again. i can feed, and clothe myself and shelter myself just fine. Men do the work they do in order to get paid and sustain themselves it has nothing to due with gender. it is good men were able to understand how bad partners they were for that im grateful. women survive on their own all the time single and alone. infact they are probably happier that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:09 PM
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i don't want your help and i don't want your protection. i would prefer robots to do the labor. but until that time come's i'll have to settle for paying contractors. Men bring nothing, not protection, not money, not even good sex for most women. women get more negatives than positives than being with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:42 PM
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people are dangerous. Men most so. men aren't "protectors" never have been. And what do most men help protect against ? the most ? other men. i don't want the bear and i don't want the man. in undeveloped countries which is most of the world. Women are still being abused. i don't think men as a whole are evil. but saying that "exceptionally bad thing a small group of men" when this group is and never was small. When you do a "good thing" i doubt anyone really cares what gender you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:00 PM
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better to have a relationship of quality ,than a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:59 AM
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how you interpret Statistics, sure. but the data, unless it's just wrong. is non biased. and the information on male on male violence hasn't been countered by any other information.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:55 AM
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you should date who your attracted too. Don't settle. Don't just be in a relationship because you don't want to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:45 AM
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men hurt eachother the most, statistics back it up , it isn't generalizing it's just what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:40 AM
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so be it, i will not pointlessly bump my chest and engage in social games. there is more to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:40 AM
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that isn't, women problem. men compete with each other over other things too. we don't have to behave like this. you can choose differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:34 AM
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some women are turned on, some aren't. women aren't the flood from halo they have individuation.. men perpetuate toxic masculinity the most. it's not a women's job to solve every male issue. south korea is terrible for women. it's a lot more worse than what your suggesting. are relationships with men worth it anymore. is he really worth it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:22 AM
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its different for different people. Some can do long term management. Other people Bpd, aspd, and schizoid personalities struggle greatly. and may not become better, in these cases it's best just to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:42 AM
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i don't date. anxiety is not a small thing. but manageable. other mental problems.... you have more important things to worry about than a relationship. depending on the issues and how well you handle them. the best option maybe be to, just avoid dating period.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:26 AM
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truly im not sure. Statistically men are more likely to hurt each other. Insecurity, most men don't have good mental health, have friends who treat them like shit, and really want validation even more then sex. They don't want to just exist. They have to be somebody. “Better to be King for a Night than a Schmuck for a Lifetime” king of comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:21 PM
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men hate and fear other men the most. But also want their approval and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:13 PM
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RP only care about themselves and how they benefit. it's the entire basis of their thinking. how is being a functional human being npc ? lower testosterone can lead to problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:43 PM
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mistook him for another guy whoose post is still up, this was his post ://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1d9u626/men\_are\_simpler\_to\_please\_than\_women\_but/ Regardless he still is not telling the whole truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:03 AM
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he's being vague because the last post was calling women delusional entitled and destroying the nuclear family
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:57 AM
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what ever you want. this family obsession whats with that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:48 AM
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no such thing was said.i think both programs should exist. But if you refuse to be helped. These organizations can't really do much. at the end of the day only you can truly solve your own issues. Can't expect life to just give you things. it's an just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:48 PM
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no, never become a sahm recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:13 PM
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yes. there are more important things in life. and this deal eliminates much more suffering then it causes.most men aren't worth the hassle anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:58 PM
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they fuck around, then find their special someone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:49 PM
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i wish most people had the same approach. they seem unable to fully control themselves sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:37 PM
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it's what most people do date around until they find someone they think is super special.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:29 PM
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what divide your a joke now and you were a joke then <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:24 PM
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the reason, that's up to chad i guess you should ask him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:22 PM
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they want to have all the sex they want, and then settle down with the "one"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:21 PM
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modern intervention models don't care about anyone. they wanted to create tax paying citizens. no one is going to tailor anything to your unique psychological profiles. you simply adapt with life. these models purpose is to instill obedience to authority. you seek help. Solve your own problems. work on them. if you don't and you completely refuse, then your problems depending on severity will rule your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:11 PM
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well most of these nice guys weren't nice in the first place, or made up fantasies they had no place in reality. and got mad when they didn't come true. Mad ? they, get mad when a person they thought was a friend actually just wanted to get in their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:05 PM
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depends on the man. You confuse desperation + loneliness + lack of sexual control. To be easier to please. When simply most average men offer little, expect much but don't want to be alone or do self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:55 PM
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men demonize, pathologize and otherwise caste themselves,other men enforce it. they refuse help offered, think its a way of mocking them. can't lead a horse to water. Perfectly seemingly kind boys and men fall into these toxic ways of thinking. due to their own insecurities. how exactly "for at least the last 10 years and likely the last 20" have men been demonized ? can you give some more examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:52 PM
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moderates,centrists or libertarians either advocate the near same polices/ ideas or are just doormats for conservatives. thinking they are the best party
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:20 AM
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they care because it's what they have to do in order to get what they want. not just because they care intrinsically. women don't chase after "top 20%" of men. most women get with average men and go after average men. These top men don't even glance at most women. just because you have more options doesn't mean you have it better, it's like being in an ocean while thirsty. nobody should date people they aren't attracted to. settling because you are afraid of being abandoned is not healthy. or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:11 AM
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with all due respect have you seen how insecure these masculine men are ? it's hard to list examples since nearly everything makes them feel insecure women, men, not getting enough attention etc. why would a stable woman want to date a conservative ? when every policy being pushed by the party makes their lives worse. softness is preferred. wanted even. who wants to date a cold absent partner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:59 AM
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it's worse, if men are forced to care due to not having options. instead of just loving or at least, treating women with respect. and they change so drastically after getting any sexual power. i Can understand why more women are deciding to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:42 AM
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"so they don't have to care about women." exactly how many man would act like that if they could. no claws that's all. Besides i don't think these "top men" are as evil as they are portrayed, or not any worse than any other men. envy and jealousy do effect how they are viewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:27 AM
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correct you are competing with her peace. And her peace is more valuable than any man. just because you do something for somebody doesn't entitle you to a relationship or a continuation of one. men can improve themselves all they like who cares if they get " dismissed", you think just because a man is not physically endowed he's a good person ? or if he's polite this makes him good ? that he won't just do the same things these other guys do ? men are already indifferent to women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:32 AM
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i agree. These men do everything for approval and validation. and assume everyone else is the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:50 AM
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corporations have monopolies over pretty much everything.and own everything haven't you heard of the gilded age ? people choose to use these. The corporations are merely catering to a need. they aren't dictating anything. im antinatalist how "humanity perpetues" itself into the future is of no concern to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:48 AM
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yes 18-50 are 30-50 can be but, unlikely. best not to sign if possible. you may just have to endure breaking the contract. im against joining the military period regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:43 PM
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its done as a control method. Older people are more wise, and will put with less bullshit usually. and they have their money somewhat in order. While a younger party can be susceptible financial and emotional manipulation. its why you never leave your job for a man. the vote doesn't really matter it's the same, two parties.. same bird. entertainment industry and military are known for being manipulative and rotted to the core. it's money and control they want. morality doesn't even factor in. wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:36 PM
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believe isn't enough. if you want accurate measurement for this standard then you need imput
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:08 PM
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pointless. can i cash in my "Sexual Market" currency ? how you rank yourself doesn't matter, it's how others see you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:03 PM
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the way you got them is the way you will lose them. disregarding that this selfish behavior, it's a good way to fuck around and find out. with varying degrees of consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:00 PM
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the scientific method is the best and only way to render truth about the world and reality. believing anything a study tells you is stupid if it isn't thoroughly tested and tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:06 PM
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cult of scientism ???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:56 PM
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it's good to take care of family. Babysitting your niece and nephews isn't codependency. it's just being a good extended family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:01 PM
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no men are held accountable for their own actions. It's no women's job to baby men every step of their life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:55 PM
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The First Amendment applies only to governmental action—not behavior by private employers, private companies, or private, non-government individuals—unless they acted in concert with government actors. men are likely to be worse than bears due to statistics and more frequent encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:52 PM
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no, your problems may only just effect you. most men don't even see themselves as a part of the "group" your talking about anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:44 PM
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im not going to have a family just because i think, my daily routine is grim. having a family is a responsibility not an "interesting adventure" this thinking has caused much family dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:41 PM
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men aren't a hivemind. Go ahead most of these websites are trash. Boycotts all you like. People will be happy you finally shut up and left them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:38 PM
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1 i agree 2 you don't need a exciting life, to have an enjoyable life. Life has a way of humbling our delusions of grandeur. Never become codependent. 3 Money. i would never look for another partner while raising a child. it is a recipe for disaster. 4 they will drift away such is life. it's up to you to make social connections. Still one can be happy alone and content. A desire to have a partner or children just so you aren't alone, or to give you "happiness" is self destructive and selfish. to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:35 PM
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not angry i just want to be left alone in public
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:02 PM
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you can do all the stupid chest beating shit you want. I just want to go about my business. I just want to be left alone and unbothered. unless im in a public space library etc. Just leave me the fuck alone. don't randomly approach and start yapping to me. just ignore me. be polite and courteous. i don't want anything to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:15 PM
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he was a humble guy truly the best of men. even if he didn't believe it himself. he was one of the last five good emperors for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:04 AM
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Doesn't matter, even if it is true. Romans did get slandered and lied about by future historians who didn't like them. whatever his wife choose to do, or not do is irrelevant. marcus was the closest thing to christ in the flesh, despite whatever flaws he had.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:00 AM
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his life was more than just sexual escapades. He tried and succeeded in living a life of virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:53 AM
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not my fault that you lack self control Marcus Aurelius"as for sexual intercourse, it is the friction of a membrane and, following a sort of convulsion, the expulsion of some mucus."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:31 AM
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shouldn't make your sexuality a major part of your identity. whatever insecurities you have. only you can truly resolve them.people can be of major help.But only you can truly resolve them. People shouldn't base their self worth on how other's view them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:12 AM
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Enough don't have an exact number. "Free" it isn't fucking free, in exchange looks, attention validation are given. If those circumstances aren't or the men doesn't find you pleasing. You get nothing. or revulsion for even being near by.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:39 PM
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schizo rage bait post again. But i'll bite. can't you just leave people alone in public. just trying to mind their business or going about their day. And out of nowhere you appear. Trying to harass someone just living their life. Cold approach is harassment. Always has been. if you want a date try an app, or a social setting. Don't approach strangers. best case you get shooed away. worst case you get pepper sprayed and maybe even shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:32 PM
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shouldn't be dating if you don't have your life put together. Dating should be the least of your concern. enough that dating most men is a net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:25 PM
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yes women don't want to date bums. you need to have your life and money together. you don't need a "nice car and clothing" just ,be stable. and hygienic those are the standards for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:19 PM
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think op is crazy however. women worked in factories in ww2 to help the war effort. life adapts, if it was absolutely needed they would take the positions. Besides robots are already being tested in these fields to help reduce workload and increase safety. if tech gets to the point where jobs can be replaced that easy. Maybe there we be just 2 or 3 operators on standby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:15 PM
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i think overall op's post is just rage bait. most men, are just indifferent and cruel, not overtly malicious. allthough hatred and indifference in this case are almost indistinguishable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:09 PM
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yes in order to maintain a relationship you need to make their life better not worse by being in it. why are you even in a relationship if you don't want to give your Energy, Attention, and Time. Generally why ? just have fwb. "keep her around" if you dislike your partner this much don't go into, long term. this. is exactly why women should never depend on a man for money. Because then they think you own them something. or it goes into the "nice guy" checkbook. Most guys are broke anyway might a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:03 PM
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assuming this isn't just bait. unlikely this guy knows anything about these online phases. he just enjoys casual sex. so do the women. You assume most men would not act like this if they had the chance. they simply have no claws. "Commitment" is offered because they have no other way to get what they want. if they had options many of these guys offering it would be gone like the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:53 PM
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what if women don't want kids period ? Most people get what jobs they can get. Not what they want. who cares about gender parity in more manual jobs. these jobs destroy your body. never will happen, this isn't that type of country. No they don't, just don't have kids. companies will always want cheap exploitable labor. machines aren't cheap enough to replace everyone just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:42 PM
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you date someone because you're attracted to them. impeccable hygiene ? aren't you expected to be hygienic ? isn't that the standard ? have we sunk so low that basic hygiene is considered a major feat ? most people are 30-60k income range some are higher. unlikely they will be much of a provider. if you rely on a man financially you are setting yourself up for failure and at worst abuse. do any women think "But this man doesn't display gentlemanly behavior, doesn't dress up in dandy attire, or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:34 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:43 AM
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its a sub type, more warrior if you choose to play that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:14 PM
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the village doesn't matter. if someone wants to wreck your reputation for honest or less honest means. they will and back then those consequences were much much worse depending on the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:35 PM
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money it just about the money no matter where it follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:25 PM
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depends on the man most wouldn't become enlightened hermits. power men want power for the sake of it getting a partner is just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:24 PM
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ok i don't really care if an attractive character is in the game.i care about the gameplay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:21 PM
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of course some truly do believe and some do rebel due to good and just reasons. but in some cases it truly is just those reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:57 AM
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of course. I doubt it corpos just want money it's nothing to do with ideology.just making money in the best way they think will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:47 AM
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free of speech is for the government. Free speech does not mean you can say whatever you want on private platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:40 AM
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those games still exist and are still being made. bg3 as example the franchises you love are still here.they haven't been taken away just play the older games you like. nothing wrong with making a female leader stronger or more intelligent than a male lead. let story makers tell their stories. fundamentally i will not let my childhood fantasy restrict writers and what they can write.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:35 AM
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that's unfortunate. women see enough ugly men every day and they seem to handle it just fine. you'll manage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:18 AM
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women do too. do you know how little "games" are of the total pie of mobile gaming. monopoly go just made 1 billion dollars and has a daily 4 million players. Video's games aren't male only. Their a product for everyone. and companies want everyone to play so they get more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:11 AM
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yes witchunts and other "cancellations" were you were burned alive or exiled were better then being canceled on twitter for saying the gamer word. at worst getting fired and blacklisted. Because you couldn't stop yourself from self snitching
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:07 AM
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"value different things", i knew that line was bullshit. you don't think men value other men's approval. it's all they seem to focus about. even redpill spaces. besides how can you prove that ? how do you know that isn't what everybody does ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:01 AM
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"female nature thought policing", "women acting as a hive mind", if you claimed any of the men were these things or acted this way. you would be called a misandrist. "Present a counter argument or zip it" what kind of power trip are you on today ? why did you even say that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:56 AM
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you don't have to tell them if you don't want to it's that simple. it's just healthy boundaries your partner is not entitled to know your past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:50 AM
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well those points are that. it's not that hard to be superior to bad points
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:43 AM
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saying your anti truth or anti-debate does not usually come in a positive context. "valuing different thing", sounds like bullshit soft language to me as george carlin said "Cause Americans have a lot of trouble dealing with reality. Americans have trouble facing the truth, so they invent the kind of a soft language to protest themselves from it, and it gets worse with every generation. For some reason, it just keeps getting worse. I’ll give you an example of that. There’s a condition in combat.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:41 AM
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i did. He compared an office to a construction site. it's known that workers at these jobs tend to find ways to relax from a stressful job that is physically demanding. well know phenomena. honest and open communication isn't a thing in both jobs anyway for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:34 AM
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why do female leads all have to be attractive ? a story teller can tell their story however they want. i enjoyed "woke" game bioshock fallout soma etc. Are you sure gaming isn't just getting worse due to predatory business practices ? how have they co-opt the positions ? how have they set gaming "on fire" Bg3 and the new spider man game made big money. despite being "woke" how is anything on fire ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:27 AM
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you misunderstand people can do whatever they want. good or bad stupid or smart. you can say whatever you want. however you must follow the rules stated or be punished. you are free to talk. you are not free from the consequences of yapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:21 AM
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i see that's why women can't ruin the red pill space it's already ruined 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:12 AM
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its what has always happened. Nothing special. if you get an infamous reputation regardless of deserving.There used to be ugly laws preventing people from even going outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:07 AM
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it's mostly a ego thing they will behave this way without a sex drive. have you seen this high status people and their relationships ? they don't seem "higher quality" to me. Wag my finger... i do no such thing there are plenty of desirable women you can be with if they desire you back. you don't have to struggle on a pretend ladder. i guess men need to be more logical and put themselves first. But you are right. the dominance, status obsessed people you attract in that lifestyle "won't really c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:04 AM
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what does cancel culture even mean ? i've never understood it. if People don't want to be around or associate with you. they don't have too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:53 AM
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they like men ???? sexual selection is about choosing the best optimal mate and filtering out everyone else. if your going to have kids and ensure a good future for them you need money. it's not the status or position. why fundamentally do you think. women like these "men" you are talking about ? in erotica what trait do they share that isn't status or money based ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:51 AM
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that doesn't imply good things about most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:41 AM
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i have heard alot of construction workers are addicted to substances to cope. So i suppose that opens lips. but don't loose lips sink ships 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:39 AM
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men follow their entire lives, they follow their bosses will,the governments will, the military will. The number of men who oppose unjust unfair and unequal laws and practices are less. than those who just follow orders. Rebelling for the sake of rebelling, or going against the status quo is just because. is usually selfish.because they aren't getting benefits of that system.or it appeases their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:36 AM
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😂 free flowing discussion you haven't been in the workplace with much men.if that's your take. this has to be bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:23 AM
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censorship ??? you have your own "spaces" it's reddit whoever makes the sub controls the rules. they can delete whatever they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:18 AM
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aren't most men just followers too ? enforcing the ideology of the system in power isn't that primary men ? you know a large amount of red pill men are national socialist and like a certain painter ? Don't men like to boss people around too hence the dominance hierarchy familiarized by kemit the frog ? "will literally shut the conversation down as soon as you express a dissenting viewpoint", isn't that almost everyone. isn't that why you never bring up politics to a stranger ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:04 AM
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i guess they have high quality control 🤷 these (anti- truth) (anti debate) things you cannot say or question ? I feel, are highly. if i may say a little bit misogynistic and probably aren't truthful. Red pillers shutdown and ostracize all the time. sometimes they even attack eachother over nothing. Like a pit of alligators. or a bucket of crabs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:57 AM
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it was the social standard at the time. Do you have a different theory ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:48 AM
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i haven't heard the speech, but how did they take out of "context" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:18 AM
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maybe but there isn't a choice. most people don't have the money to make truly free choices. You can see how people complain about being wage slaves. how they dance whatever dance they have to so they aren't on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:15 AM
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most people don't have any "power" and they live stressful but mostly peaceful lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:02 AM
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women don't want to "lead men" they just want to live their lives in peace. Evil implies malice.i think most men just don't care. You misunderstand the roi for dating process is not worth it. probably never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:56 AM
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well yeah relationships are based on sexual attraction. if you aint sexual attracted you probably don't want to date that person. unique exceptions tend to be given to the more physically endowed in work etc. good men are attainable not every endowed individual is evil. just as being unattractive doesn't make you good. women get misused by every type of man. Women are abused by average men the most. You have seen on the news what most of these people look like right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:25 AM
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people always give exceptions when they shouldn't. what guarantee does a women have. that an average man won't mistreat her aswell ? what qualities ? "assume the worst in men always", Based ???? why would women go around blaming other men ? they just know to be more careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:15 AM
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are these "unfavorable men" morally better ? do they act good because they are good or because they have to do get what they want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:10 AM
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its a choice between two bad options. i don't want either.But the bear is more likely just to avoid me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:24 AM
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me personally i don't want the man or bear. i just want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:23 AM
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sometimes divorcing the father is the best choice. especially he's abusive. it's why i tell women to focus on themselves be childfree. and fiscally independent. so this will never be the fate of them. Besides in these cases the father usually just leaves the family behind and never wants to see them again. it's also why i want alimony gone. it will make women, especially those who want children to really think about who they will be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:22 AM
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the mother probably does work hard but jobs don't pay depending on how hard you work. they aren't stay at home mom's they work too.But without an additional income to cover costs, bills and food can really hit hard. might even have to take government assistance. Most people make around 30-60k or even less. live paycheck to paycheck. people struggle to support themselves but with a child and low income that's rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:13 AM
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most people don't have a choice they need to live in "man country' and pass by hundreds of men in order to provide for themselves. Unless they work at home. it can be. depending on the situation. Some men can react violently when rejected or by some other "prov-action" and you don't know who they are until it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:01 AM
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single father's probably have more money. Single mother's don't have those funds they grow poor and in poverty due to relying on the man who left them. So crime is turned to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:51 AM
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unless its a polar bear or a mama bear there's a chance that a bear will leave you alone.some guy spent. Timothy Treadwell before he passed lived near bear country for 13 summers. he really pushed his luck and it ended bad. But the point is, bears don't even want to be near humans. a man you don't know his intentions he could be a Wikipediahttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Ivan_Milat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:46 AM
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confirmed untrue ??? Those text messages i saw. When did that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:30 AM
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the women are the ones being targeted. in these cases it's never a... its not that i don't think they wouldn't. it's just that it would make headlines very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:28 AM
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i don't want women to be pimped out legal or illegal i don't want them in prison either. legalization will just result in more women being abused. like how andrew tate sex trafficked all those women.They couldn't even leave the house. im not against sex work as a concept but it tends to lead to pimping out desperate women .most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:15 AM
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you should see what republican law makers are pushing and laws they are trying to keep in place. https:/r/politics/comments/1cplcc3/why_are_some_republican_lawmakers_hellbent_on/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:11 AM
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all it takes is one wrong man. Domestic abuse and abuse is fairly common regardless of gender. its a thing that should be complained about. i see hookups with a person you don't know as very dangerous. you are right women should not give away anything for free.they need to have better standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:54 AM
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it's good to see single fathers doing well. Still being a single parent regardless of gender increases negative life factors for their children. and ideally a two parent household would be better.But the world doesn't function in ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:49 AM
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i haven't seen the outcomes of children of single fathers compared to single mothers do you have any information that can prove single fathers are better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:40 AM
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as a concept i don't care. im more concerned about the extrapolation and abuse from the men. that will no doubt occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:26 AM
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for most of human history it was and it still is, especially in underdeveloped nations. the educational system was made to train people to be factory workers and follow orders. It exists to create obedient workers there is no gender discrimination. the "justice system", discriminates against everyone the courts only care about convictions. and enforcing the laws no matter how "just", they are. i don't think a draft should exist. you can always just refuse to serve. "few organizations and shelter…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:20 AM
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japan does have a loneliness epidemic. i think it works very different in pratice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:18 AM
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ok... what does that change anything ? a for profit company is for profit. that is their entire purpose making money. Are for profits know for ethics morality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:12 AM
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i think the boyfriend experience is part of some escorts job. thought i heard about the phenomenon mostly coming from japan.But i could be misremembering.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:04 AM
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seems the market wasn't there. isn't it popular in japan ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:55 AM
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isn't that already standard ? most people will never be "baddies", what kind of "misandrist" things did this women say ? why is her being a left over woman matter exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:39 AM
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ego insecurity and a desire to control. these qualities seem to be too abundant.and too accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:32 AM
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uh no they just want more money thats it. no external motive or even suggestion of such a idea. if anything women following traditional gender roles has only ever hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:30 AM
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yes due insufficient evidence leading to the case being dropped or ruled not guilty. or having so little that taking it to court would be pointless. Repeat offenders are a thing sometimes they get caught other times they can continue for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:26 AM
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if you rely on men for traditional roles you will be very disappointed to say the least. apps designs change. Bumble is a for profit company they will do whatever they think makes them the most money.it's not a non profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:21 AM
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i don't think i've seen a criminal case, never demand some sort of evidence. if a court has done that.They need to be looked into for obstruction of justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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"at the mercy" 😂 is she fighting in the arena. oh no she got a message or messages from men that she doesn't find attractive. how could you recover from such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:12 AM
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no you can be passive in one thing and not in another. how one chooses to do one thing does not necessarily reflect everything they do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:17 AM
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how is sending the first message leading anything ? How does that have any actual effect on how the dynamics play out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:10 AM
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you don't have to be remotely good at dating to lead anything.most people don't "lead" anything anyway including men.most people are subservient to bosses for 50% of their existence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:08 AM
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women already have these things assumed about them. a part of the man vs bear is that claiming you were attacked by a bear is more believable to people.Then claiming you were attacked by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:03 AM
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you think bumble some dating app that wants to make a profit, cares anything about equality ? that requiring women to make the first move is somehow a great step towards equality ? besides you know everything Women struggled to get. like being able to own their own bank account ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:53 AM
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the type of baggage can vary. as long as the trophy husband hardly interacts then the issues won't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:19 AM
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you shouldn't believe anyone without evidence, without proof, always reserve judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:15 AM
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i don't think i have ever heard someone say that. But you are saying the quiet parts outloud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:59 AM
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like when Henry cavill dated a 19 year old university student claiming how she “protects him” when the world “gets too heavy and that she would “happily take that weight", only to break up less than two months later with her. he was 32 at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:57 AM
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yes exactly. it's a delusional selfish fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:52 PM
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poor/middle class people should stay out of relationships should be more concerned with finances. Not in a greedy way but just to keep afloat. stay dating within your class.your setting yourself up for failure and being used if you don't. A single mother taking care of a child shouldn't be dating.She needs to prioritize the child. you can attract a wealthy older man, but they will use and discard you one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:50 PM
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the men who say this want validation and praise to satisfy their ego.it's not about the women it's about them.If you do too much,make too much you "emasculate" them. when these men actually want is control, and if you break the fantasy....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:34 PM
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i agree with your points. Marriage acts more as a way to prove commitment. for some people. Legal status benefits also are seen as a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:47 PM
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don't recall the state i tried looking, but couln't find anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:44 PM
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i like my comfortable home , outside especially in nature is filled with all sort of dangers and annoyances. just like the ocean i avoid at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:43 PM
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im all for it. i agree most men are just sperm donor's and would be better not in the picture. i can't recall the case but a u.s state laxed it's parental rights and responsibilities. and well they had to reverse it. because of how many people left their children. shows what most people already wanted to do.if laws didn't hold them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:40 PM
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no which is why you have one yourself. Don't become a victim. you should be able to defend yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:25 PM
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you never know if a man is a Ivan Milat. Personally i don't go out Hiking with stange people i don't know.never a good idea. infact i don't hike at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:22 PM
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??? men as a whole have caused alot of suffering to women and still do. it is only right to avoid most and de center them from the focus of our lives. quite simply, all that is wanted is to be independent and left alone. Zero malicious intent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:16 PM
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Gun rights are important to left learning people too. its not just a one party thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:05 PM
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yes everyone should be carrying at all times. so they can protect themselves and the ones they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:56 PM
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no ? how do you reach that point ? i never suggested such a thing.Just that men are dangerous and have caused women a lot of pain.and that they should be on guard and very selective of the men they let in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:54 PM
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Generalization, have you seen how most women are treated especially in other poor countries. by men ? Women just need to avoid most men.They simply can't be trusted. i don't want collective punishment. i never suggested any sort of thing. De-center men that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:49 PM
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women need to understand. truly understand. So they never get put in a position where they can be victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:42 PM
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every single women should be carrying. either spray or concealed carry. No, Just because a man is monumentally disabled.Does not shutdown the physical threat completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:40 PM
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“reciprocal intimate partner violence was associated with greater injury than was nonreciprocal intimate partner violence regardless of the gender of the perpetrator (AOR=4.4; 95% CI=3.6, 5.5).” ”Regarding injury, men were more likely to inflict injury than were women (AOR=1.3; 95% CI=1.1, 1.5) the "objectively false" part is op claim. the information is just collected data. unbiased.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:35 PM
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men are incredibly dangerous. and can overpower women easily. it's a legitimate concern and why women should always carry some sort of item, for protection. Most women are hurt and worse by men that they know. for most of human history.Women were oppressed by men. Forcibly married off. body's mutilated and controlled. couldn't even control their own finances.And it's still happening right now. even if the information you provided was true. it wouldn't even be a tiny drop of the suffering and mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:27 PM
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yes i agree. common goals and values are the most valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:09 PM
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how much longer must they wait for the man to change ? years ? the things that end the relationships like this are a little more than pet peevs. assuming this isn't just bait. you should have left a long time ago. Probably after the whole personal servant thing. or all the other things you mentioned. "men providing" ? most men are just as broke as the women. or even more so.Who would want a person to provide anyway ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:36 PM
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men it seems. no external force required
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:25 AM
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exactly. You get treated badly, and get mediocre sex. Most men not only have nothing to offer. but are actually detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:15 AM
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it's a black pill women need to know.Just how selfish the average man is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:58 PM
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for most of the history it was. trusting a man that much is never wise.Many women can attest to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:52 PM
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im not surprised by the man. i just want clear and honest communication. too much to ask for it seems. Women make the right choice by not trusting a men just trying to be friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:49 PM
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no people's problems are their own problems.if you wait for society or. someone else to fix your problems.... well you'll just be helpless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:43 PM
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shouldn't be on the women to ask in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:40 PM
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women can so can men.But you don't hear from those types of people they just mind their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:06 PM
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Male loneliness wouldn't be so bad if men cared and reached out to eachother. But they simply refuse to.Can't fix a problem that refuses to be fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:03 PM
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if a man wants to be more than friends he should say so. open communication is not difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:01 PM
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marriage and motherhood have been making women actively unhappy for a long time. this is not a recent development.Why do you think women fought so hard for the rights they have now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:40 PM
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i think less than attractive women already know the blackpill. If you aren't attractive you get treated worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:40 AM
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i think men just use women for sex regardless of what league they are in.But i do agree it is foolish to expect commitment from people who out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:16 AM
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https://phys.org/news/2021-03-domestic-violence-heterosexual-couples-woman.html ​ bloomberg.com/news/a...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:18 AM
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i don't really care for the barbie speech.i don't think it's revolutionary. Women old and wise enough already known all of this.I guess the speech could help some pick me's and those with low self esteem. So i suppose it has some value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:15 AM
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people being cheated on.Physical abuse abuse.Verbal abuse. I see it all the time on news, social, media in irl. most relationships only last a year. "Nearly 20 people are physically abused by an intimate partner each minute in the U.S. This adds up to more than 10 million women and men experiencing domestic violence each year. (source) 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men have experienced severe physical violence by an intimate partner during their lifetime.", ​ "Domestic violence is a major issue in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:53 AM
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absuse is common regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:42 AM
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men and women just need to not be abusive or neglectful. the traits you mention above some are nice to have. but being playful is not required.Some people are annoyed by this trait. ​ you need to have good traits to be in a healthy relationship.Regardless of gender.but some are just preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:23 PM
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why would you want to neglect your family ? the only people who care about muscles are other insecure men. yes, you should only approach women who want to be approached. if you continue to engage after you're told to stop its harassment. ​ most men make less money then women. And when women do make more money in the relationship abuse and divorce skyrocket. some people just want a shoulder to cry on or advice.Most people can fix their own problems. yes be confident and assertive.not a insecure a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:16 PM
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you are allowed.But these men also tend to abuse these women too if they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:22 AM
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anyone who calls themselves a passport bro then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:24 AM
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passport bro's as a type are not good people.They deliberately choose women that they think are submissive, traditional and "obey their man", in the most extreme cases .They always say to "keep her in her home country", The passport bro's are not known for being particularly loving kind or intelligent.Quite simply they are seeking escorts they can hold power over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:03 AM
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i prefer left leaning.Some conservatives are just well... not mentally put together
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:20 AM
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Doesn't matter if it was a choice or not. what people need to understand is that they don't need an so for happiness or fulfillment. They should wake up and be happy. some can even prefer to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:31 AM
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yes similar to how men lie about how tall they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:20 AM
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you don't settle for being single you choose to be single. ​ it is better to be alone than to be with a partner you do not like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:11 AM
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no unless your rich.Both parties will be working.If the breadwinner has a emergency or even expires.. You or the family could be in trouble.Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:08 AM
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abusive and toxic behavior has been normalized.Stalking is never ok. Privacy and boundary violation shouldn't be either.If you see these rag flags you should leave the relationship as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:05 AM
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its just a fantasy.Depending on most men will lead to disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:53 AM
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men and women shouldn't date if they are very poor. they should be focused on getting out of poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:25 PM
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neither is staying in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:41 AM
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infidelity and lack of commitment were the major reasons people get divorced. So marriage as commitment doesn't seem to be the case atleast for the majority. its just something most people do. its better to have a qualified and expensive lawyer help you with legal protections.if you do have this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:53 PM
4

i agree not marrying is the safest choice.i mentally cannot fathom why women push for marriage it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:01 PM
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people don't need to get married.I personally think marriage is an outdated institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:47 PM
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why would women care ? Marriage has little to no benefit for women. Even if we take into the claim alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:44 PM
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divorce rates aren't inherently bad.people leaving bad or undesirable relationships is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:32 PM
2

no she doesn't respect or think highly of me which is the largest red flag possible and could lead to much worse in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:16 PM
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your points about not being entitled to anything were good and most of the post was. ​ But also proved a point that purple piller couldn't fathom. Men are the ones that enforce mocking men for being weak
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:02 PM
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you assume in a street fight you will even see the punch.or that it will be a punch it could be a knife or a gun. as long as im not being attacked.I wouldn't care if "random men sometimes try to test you", you should choose better then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:04 PM
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Muscles augment what's already there.If you have nothing there that is appealing.... i guess you can always go for the gym bro's that are rizzing you up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:00 PM
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you can hold your own against others without looking for street fights.That can go bad very quickly.and can be a very stupid thing to do. ​ there is nothing wrong with having a "passive" personality whatever that means
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:55 PM
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attractive people are attractive regardless of what bad or good traits they have. If you can't be hesitant or have any self doubts without your partner leaving you. why even be in a relationship ? fighting people on the street is not something you should look to be doing.or even praiseworthy at all. assuming you aren't just making this up as rage Bait. You are leaving out details that might paint this story in a different light.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:47 PM
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this people who spins all these plates. will either not settle down. or get a ltr and then cheat on their partner until they get divorced.And then do it all again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:07 PM
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im not really attractive.If somebody was trying to rizz me up. i'd be concerned for ulterior motives. so i prefer to just be left alone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:00 PM
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i doubt it.Friends protect friends as they should. It is very unlikely jealously is at play. ​ If only men had friends that cared about them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:58 PM
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most people already don't go to college. ​ I doubt you will see medical care go down too badly until you see really low numbers. "the end of the modern aspirant bourgeoise (i.e. middle class) lifestyle" ​ that's already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:07 AM
5

hey it's the truth most parent's are not good parents
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:14 PM
9

you don't need to be "rich" just have enough to support yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:13 PM
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everything a man can "provide" a women can either get herself or doesn't need. this is a hard concept for this sub to internalize. ​ People get into (healthy)relationships because they want to be with eachother, they care about their partner.and losing them for whatever reason will hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:40 PM
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the planet doesn't need more people we are overusing our resources.Most people shouldn't be parents anyway. how is questioning if you can be a good parent, or if you should birth a child into a uncertain future selfish/ extreme individualism? ​ when most people give birth what do they talk about ? how happy it will make them. How much meaning their child gives them. Is that not chasing “fulfillment” ​ what's wrong with chasing “fulfillment” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:21 PM
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they are afraid of the violence but assume the man has enough self control and self preservation not to act on it. i would never egg an angry person on. i would leave the situtation or get ready to defend myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:40 AM
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"Relationship insecurity means you're unsure and unconfident about your relationship. It's a deep belief that you just aren't good enough for your partner, that you don't deserve love or one of many other limiting beliefs that cause you to feel anxious. You may doubt your own value and have a low sense of self-worth.", ​ most people are insecure. maybe women are better at hiding then men. ​ Men are afraid they don't look good enough.they are afraid of what people think of them especially other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:27 AM
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they are ideal.But reality doesn't work in ideals. most father's don't come even close to the ideal sometimes they abandon the family neglect the family,Abuse the family etc.Sometimes single parent households are the better option. ​ most people shouldn't have kids they don't have the traits required to raise a child well.they just think how much they want to have a family,How it would make them happy. the childs well being and interests are secondary to satisfying the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:13 AM
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there is no fertility crisis.There is a lifestyle crisis.if anyone across the globe lived like Americans.Well... https://youtu.be/A0yu7nP50rM?feature=shared ​ the economy is a ponzi scheme. it constantly needs more people, or the pyramid will decay. an economy however despite what every government tries to push is not capable of infinity growth in finite world. ​ i think the modern lifestyle could be maintained very easily with less people.Maybe we don't need all that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:05 AM
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how many times does this as to be said. people like attractive people halo effect, people don't like "bad boys" because they are "bad boys" it's because their attractive. "Good guys" who are attractive probably get as much or better than "bad boys" Run to "good guy"s to fund their lifestyle? haven't you seen the stats ? women on average get better paying jobs then men.Go to college and get degree's more than men. Why would women even need a man to siphon of . "evil world" that modern society has…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:41 AM
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more than anyone else men try to pressure other men to not show more vulnerable emotions. And when they do they get mocked by other men. Recently there was this male librarian who tried to encourage literacy and being positive. he resigned due to hate. https://youtu.be/kzHKXwrc03Q?feature=shared ​ quite frankly people unless they are close to you.Don't care about your emotions.and don't want you to express them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:30 AM
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people are ashamed of their sexuality.And often can't get causal sex so they become both envious and judgmental. most people don't really care if other people have hookups/casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:24 AM
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a person who blocks you and a person who ignore you both want the same thing. To no longer interact with you. Blocking doesn't mean they still care. Some people are persistent and don't want to take a no for an answer. ​ i think people dislike "actively and purposely ignoring you" more because it hurts their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:24 AM
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people shouldn't tie their self worth to relationships. ​ Men should learn to take rejection better.instead of taking it so emotionally. ​ for some guys politeness or even giving eye contact is enough to make them think a women is interested.The stereotype of the lustful abuserer is not so far out of reality.Most guys aren't like this.But enough are. ​ most people do not posses the traits required to make relationships work. Regardless of gender. To fix the "gender war" less people need to be in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:10 AM
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a man absolutely can.Most just aren't attractive enough.male K pop stars as an example
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:34 AM
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options does not mean quality.For a man to have a lot of "options" he needs to be attractive. same as women.The difference between platonic and relationships are attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:27 AM
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not a woman.But i would just get up and get my own water.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:11 PM
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people find attractive people attractive. Career usually doesn't matter. ​ But with all due respect.Have you seen what most game devs look like? they certainty aren't henry cavill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:42 PM
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healthy relationships seem to be uncommon.Everyone knows the ideal.But most people are simply not good partners. You can see it on here. What do people talk the most about? themselves.The other person is just a tool to fulfill their desires.And what happens to the other person when they get bored? Most people need to ask themselves should i even be in a relationship? instead of complaining about their loneliness, how they want a family, how they aren't getting enough sex.These people don't "love…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:06 PM
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you get matches if you are attractive.If you're not dating apps will not be of much use to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:43 PM
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staying in a toxic relationship just because your desperate for love and validation is not a standard that should be praised or even accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:36 PM
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