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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | *Who* are these men that go through divorce once and then *get married again,* and WTF are they thinking??I'm a female divorce lawyer and always wonder what the big rush is. Geeezzzz.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/23 10:38 PM |
| 7 | WTF is wrong with me?Woman here. She’s manipulating you because she can. She doesn’t respect you. Mutual respect first (not love) is the foundation of any successful relationship. And she isn’t going to respect you. once a woman doesn’t respect you it’s over. RUN to the closest exit you can find. You’re shaving years of your life dealing with the stress of this narcissistic woman who doesn’t care enough to raise a solid family of 8. Please stay in the house when you’re home but start planning the divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Was I mislead?Sound, practical, real life tips here! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/22 08:18 AM |
| 2 | What did you wish you asked or knew?I happen to be a family lawyer who generally takes an interest in the men I represent in these invariably soul sucking, mentally draining, complex cases were no one is ever happy. Your generalization about lawyers is disappointing. Most of my colleagues are not in this solely for the money. They want to help people and we get shit it on every time. Your comment is the exact reason why I am counting the days until I stop helping people through divorce. Because there are grateful people who don’t … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/21 01:28 AM |
| 3 | What Keeps You Up at Night As you Go Through Your Divorce?Mike drop. This is gold. I was just recently speaking with someone on the same issue of perspective and mindset. You brilliantly amplified what I can teach. This subject is near and dear to my heart. I am a woman and former divorce attorney raised by a single dad who represented men almost exclusively for over 20 years. I appreciate all that you’ve said along with everyone else’s valuable comments. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What Keeps You Up at Night As you Go Through Your Divorce?Thank you for sharing your experience with me. You will get through this. I know it’s hard. You are right there is no support. I’m aiming to change that for dads. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What Keeps You Up at Night As you Go Through Your Divorce?Thank you for your insight. I’m beyond sorry that you are going through this. You will be able to be a part of your kids lives. It just seems like you won’t now. Btw your lawyer is incorrect. A court always considers evidence no matter the situation. The critical part is the weight they give to the evidence. You might want to consider consulting with another lawyer about your options. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Appreciate any advice on my situation.Don’t ever stay for the kids. This is coming from a divorced female divorce lawyer. Good luck on making the right choice for you and your family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.I coach dads virtually throughout the US. You may visit www.divorceadviceforfathers.com to learn more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.They’re sending you discovery to make sure you’re disclosing all assets, income and liabilities before negotiating a settlement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/20 12:41 AM |
| 3 | To fight or notYou need a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst to review division chart and work the numbers for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Where are you in the process? I can give you better advice knowing this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Lol. You’ve got that right! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Yes, critical topic. Thank you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Thank you so much! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Thank you for sharing with us the lessons you learned and the mistakes that you made. The good news is you overcame those mistakes and are now able to reflect and learn for the future. Divorce coaches help a man think through whether in the short and long term staying in a house was a prudent move among other common mistakes men make as humans. Some steering in the right direction from a non emotional helper with your best interests only at heart would have been a great help to you. Thanks for y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Ahhh, the dreaded discovery. We don’t enjoy it either. Valuable service it would have been to you, indeed. Thank you for your help! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Get organized & take inventory. Pay close attention to your money. Take stock of all your individual and joint bank, stock, retirement accounts, etc. and open up a separate account where your paycheck can go once you actually physically separate. Generally, you’re entitled to half of your joint property and make inventory of everything bought during your marriage. Also some sample documents - Ex. police reports, receipts, tax returns and W-2’s. Document everything. Keep a written account/diary a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.That’s why there’s a need for a divorce coach, particularly in a system that’s biased against men. You made past mistakes but moving forward you know better. Just be strategic moving forward. When women get comfortable they start slipping. (I’m a woman btw) | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Thank you for your input. I never thought about the verbal abuse angle. Have you brought this abuse to the attention of a court? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Thanks! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 7 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.I used to think the same thing. We are not paid to hear client’s complaints about their feelings towards their ex, or what happened during a drop off of the kids and what was said. We hate hearing that. It’s exhausting and on top of it the client is paying dearly with a billable hour to vent to a lawyer. The coach helps the man organize his thoughts, prevent himself from doing dumb shit, and is a thinking partner so they present their needs for litigation or settlement outcome to their lawyer wh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 12:35 AM |
| 7 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Very good one. I can’t believe how many lawyers don’t answer emails or phone calls. When I practiced divorce law I returned emails the same day and if I couldn’t call back I’d send an email response. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.Thank you very much! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/20 12:03 AM |
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